Have you ever noticed a chick staring at you
and wondered what she was thinking? Does she think you’re cute? Has she spotted some leftover lettuce in your
teeth from lunch? If your fly is down? Trying to tell if a woman likes you by looking
at her is like trying to teach your cat a backflip. Pretty unrealistic. Women have mastered the art of mixed signals
and playing hard to get. So trying to tell if a woman likes you just
by a glance is a pretty difficult, if not impossible, feat. Women will, however, send subtle signs that
indicate that they’re interested in you with more than just a look. And that is what this video is all about:
The subtle physiological signs that let you know what a woman is thinking about you. Hey guys, for those of you who don’t know
me -- I’m Kate Spring. A dating and relationship coach from the west
coast of Canada. If you’re new to my channel, welcome. And for those of your returning, welcome back. Before I dive into the nitty gritty details
of this video, be sure to subscribe to my channel and ring the little bell where you
can stay up to date with my latest videos and you can then leave all of your questions
in the comments section below. Quick question, how do you usually tell if
a woman likes you? If she looks at you? or if she smiles at you? Take the poll and let’s see how you all
tell if someone likes you. If you haven’t got a clue, relax because
women have been encouraged to be coy and play hard to get for centuries with the notion
that romantic uncertainty increases attraction, and it does. But don’t remain uncertain. There are signs that give a clear indication
of interest because today body language is a topic widely observed and studied. In fact, we’re now able to interpret slight
changes in a woman’s body that can reveal her true feelings and motivations. Unlocking the mystery of a woman’s attraction
can be as simple as looking for these 5 physiological indicators of interest. 1. Her pupils dilate when she speaks to you:
You know the saying that “the eyes are the window to the soul.” I think it should be, “the eyes are the
window to the libido.” I once thought that this was a fallacy, a
myth circulated by one of the original pick up artists, but, upon looking more deeply
into the topic, I was pleasantly surprised that there is considerable research that supports
the idea that there is a biological response to attraction. The studies found that our pupils dilate up
to three times the regular size when we see something stimulating, exciting or interesting
in order to take in more of the pleasing surrounding. In fact, women in 16th century Italy would
take this medicine named “belladonna,” which would keep their pupils dilated because
dilated pupils were seen as more attractive and seductive. It follows, then, that when you want to tell
if a woman likes you, see if her pupils are dilated when she’s talking to you. It’s also important to note here that if
you’re in a dark room, her pupils will enlarge as a simple fact that there is not enough
light in the room. So try to see it in different lighting. 2. Her feet are crossed:
One of the physiological ways to tell that a woman is interested in you, not that she
wants to marry and have children with you, but that she’s interested in at least talking
to you, if she is standing facing you and her feet are crossed. When someone is uncomfortable their feet generally
don’t point towards the person with whom they’re speaking. Their feet tend to point away, and only their
torso is facing their conversation partner. Subconsciously, their feet are preparing for
them to exit the conversation. However, on the flip side of this, when someone’s
feet are pointed towards you, that means that they are engaged in the conversation and are
in no rush to get away. And an even better sign is when a woman’s
feet are crossed. When her feet are crossed, it’s much harder
to make a quick getaway. This is a sign that a woman is essentially
planting herself in this spot and is engaged in her conversation with you, which is a great
sign. So look at her feet, are they pointed towards
you, or are they crossed? If so, take note that this is a subconscious
response that she is interested in you and this interaction. 3. She looks at you when she laughs:
One of the very absurd psychological and biological ways to tell that a woman is interested in
you is if she looks at you when she laughs. When you’re in a group setting, and someone
says something funny or tells a joke that elicits some laughter and a woman looks at
you, she is looking for your reaction to see if you thought that it was funny too. She’s making subconscious observations and
wants to know what you think is funny because she is thinking long-term if you have a similar
sense of humor, which will let her know how you could potentially function as a pair. If she keeps looking at you for your reactions,
that is one way to tell that she’s interested. But one caution would be to not stare at her
and wait for her reaction. She might wonder why you’re looking at her
and then your encounter could get a little awkward. In your quest for signs of interest, you do
have to practice the art of subtlety. 4. She contacts you first. This next sign that I want to touch on is
not so physiological, but an obvious one and that is if a woman contacts you first. If she reaches out via text, Facebook, Instagram
dms, phone, email -- whatever messaging service you use -- this is a pretty good indication
that this woman is a) thinking about you and b) wants to connect! Not all women sit back and wait to be pursued. Some women take initiative and go after what
they want. So if a woman is the first one to reach out,
then she’s trying to make a connection. If she constantly reaches out first, then
that could be a pretty good indication that she has positive feelings towards you, or
is at least trying to get to know you better so that she can determine the degree to which
she likes you. And a subcategory of this one is that if she
asks you to hang out. This one is pretty obvious indicator, and
one that some men are lucky enough to receive. If a woman asks you to meet up, she wants
to see you and see where things go! 5. She asks personal questions. When we are just getting to know people, we
start by asking simple questions, questions that are easy to answer and keep the conversation
light, fun and flirty. But, as things progress, and people try to
make a connection with you, they start to dig deeper and ask more personal questions. The intention behind it is to hear stories
about your life and try to get a sense of what your life genuinely looks like. And, subconsciously, a woman is trying to
imagine herself in your life. The main reason why people ask personal questions
is to not only get to know someone, but to also make a connection. We’re always trying to connect with people,
and if you and a woman are spending time together, and she’s asking you personal questions,
then she could be trying to get to know you on a deeper level and trying to make connections
between your lives. To remember what we have learned in this video,
begin by imagining – image –in – a scenario in which a beautiful woman stands before you. Look into her eyes, are they dilated? Now observe her feet and how she is standing. When the conversation begins and you tell
a joke, does she look at you when she laughs? After you part ways, does she contact you
first? And if she does, does she ask personal questions? This is Kate Spring signing off with a little
reminder that a woman’s body is a book that, for an attentive reader, offers the keys to
the mystery of attraction and the pleasures that accompanies it. Alright, YouTubers, don’t forget to subscribe
to my channel and as always, thank you for your constant support! I’ll see you in my next video.
