3 Easy Ways to Approach Girls (SIMPLE + EFFECTIVE)

[Music] so today is my last day in los angeles and i love this place like look it's like paradise out here man if i ever leave texas this is where i'm moving anyway yesterday i went out with the big homie dave what's up guys and we approached some girls filmed ourselves doing it so today we're gonna show you that footage and we're gonna break it down [Music] all right guys so approach number one is simple and direct so this is basically when you go up to a girl and you just tell her that you want to talk to her because you think she's attractive and i know this can seem intimidating but it is by far the simplest way to approach a girl because you don't have to think of anything clever to say at all you're just going up there and being honest and the reason i like this style is because you know right away if the girl doesn't reject you she's probably gonna be down to hang out with you and if she does reject you well you didn't waste any time yeah man the key here is to really slow yourself down i know she's beautiful i know you're excited to talk to her but if you slow down your movement you slow down your breath and you slow down your speech you're gonna look and feel a lot more confident it's kind of like this excuse me i know this is super random but i saw you and i thought you were cute and i wanted to say hi hi i'm david christina what are you up to today christina going to a peer learning class for c plus plus c plus plus you do programming i'm trying to all right i used to do a lot of sql work oh really i've done sql class before how's that that's like the easier stuff yeah it's a little bit easier don't hate on me yeah it definitely is though but i'll let you run i actually i meet a friend too but would you want to hang out sometime um maybe wait what's your phone number now it's not going to go that smoothly every time but you might be surprised how often it does [Music] now if you're watching this and you're someone who really struggles to approach 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news is that you can join 30 days to alpha today for over 50 off but don't delay because this special discount is gonna end friday at midnight to get started now just click that first link in description [Music] so we're at this restaurant that's called egg and uh i got two sandwiches a bacon egg and cheese and a sausage egg and cheese damn bro that's really good number two is sneaky direct so with this approach you go up and ask an innocent question for example do you know where the nearest starbucks is and then you follow that up by telling her the real reason that you approached her and if you struggle to approach girls this is definitely the easiest like the least intimidating way to do it one major benefit of this is that it allows you to size the girl up if she's got kind of a vibe or she's not as cute as you thought she was then you can just ask for directions and bounce hey excuse me i know this is super random but do you know where the uh paratha italian center is okay you have no clue actually i get to be honest with you i just came up to you because i thought you were cute i want to say hi i'm dave i actually get a run but would you want to hang out sometime of course yeah cool what's your name one key thing that dave did there is that he sat down next to the girl and if you ever approach a girl who's sitting down you need to do this because otherwise you're going to be awkwardly talking down to her plus it just makes you look more confident and calm [Music] what do we say after a workout bro gains bro you ready bro i think this might be our final cruise in l.a broom let's do it number three is the cheesy pick up so i'll be honest bro using cheesy pick-up lines is not an effective way to successfully approach girls but if you get comfortable saying cheesy pickup lines and making the girl laugh then all of a sudden doing a normal approach is gonna feel like a piece of cake yeah it really forces you to remove your ego because you know you're probably going to get rejected right yeah and it also usually leads to some funny banter which is a key skill for effective flirting so are you guys ready for this one check it out hey check this out i am not a photographer but i can picture me and you together no honestly i saw you i thought you were super cute also i did the gym shark yeah i'm david just yes yeah i actually have a class at 6 30 in five minutes all right i'll let you run actually gotta run meet your friend too would you want to hang out sometime yeah sure all right cool is your number did you have instagram okay i was here bro i was honestly shocked how well that went like she seemed like she legitimately would be down to hang out i was surprised too man i was trying to shake the camera when i laughed about it i think maybe it's because like i commented that she was wearing gym shark which if you guys don't know it's a fitness clothing brand she was wearing and that i believe like i think that made a connection between us she realized i was into fitness she was into fitness and it seemed like after that she was more comfortable talking to me yeah i mean that's a big man just listening and relating back we're not even listening but just seeing maybe with something she's wearing something she's doing say hey i know something in my life that can relate to this and just dropping it in there [Music] bro i've been thinking about renaming my channel lately tell me what you think about this i think this will help me reach like a lot more people how to skid i think jason's skin that's jason's skin i don't get it jason kidd jason skin what do you think bro should we show them uh your cheesy pick-up line i mean at the very least it is entertaining let's do it hey uh quick question about your dad was he a boxer no your dad wasn't about it i'm kathleen hi you're asking me because i i'm filipino yes the funny thing is i actually thought that went pretty well until she said no thank you yeah no thank you is so polite it's almost like the harshest way that a girl can reject you also i was pretty close so i could kind of hear what you were saying and within the first 10 seconds y'all were talking about manny pacquiao i was like how in the are they talking about manny pacquiao so quickly that's just so random it was a random interaction man but honestly i think it was probably one of the funniest ones we've ever had on camera stopping a girl by saying quick question about your dad has to be like the funniest thing you could say anyway i hope that watching this video gave you some motivation to take more action in your life we filmed a lot more approaches yesterday so dave just uploaded a video on his channel that showcases a lot of those approaches you didn't see i'll put a link in description for that and if you made it to the end of this video then smash the thumbs up button if you're new to the channel click subscribe and i will talk to every last one of y'all in the next video stay beastly [Music] i know

Channel: How to Beast

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Length: 10min 16sec (616 seconds)

Published: Mon Apr 15 2019