4 Types Of Men

in a relationship some men fall into one of four categories a boy a player a confused man and a good man a boy a boy will always be a boy regardless of his age growing up and growing old are never the same growing old is mandatory while growing up is optional by choice a boy cares less about what makes you happy as a woman he knows very little about putting a home together and he's not ready to learn the woman will do the thinking and make decisions he will be more concerned about his mode of dressing than his character a boy is loose he will kiss and tell and talks about everything in his relationship to everybody and openly condemns his woman a boy worries about what his mom thinks of him even when it's time to focus on his family a boy doesn't plan for the future and doesn't want to grow up he doesn't understand the importance of responsibility when his woman is upset he gets angry he doesn't know how to help her become calm he's not a bad person he's still a child he would rather play around on his computer instead of participating with his family you cannot put a bike engine in a car and expect the performance of a car when a matured woman marries or date's a boy she automatically becomes a girl she will change from a peaceful mature woman to a nagging young girl and her friends will think she's going crazy a boy gets easily intimidated by his woman's position status and feels insecure by her income he believes he deserves respect because he thinks he is a man based on his age it's difficult to communicate with a boy since he usually thinks he's right he feels superior and thinks he's doing a woman a favor by dating or marrying her a player it's better to be single than date a player no matter how much effort you invest in a relationship with a player it most likely ends in heartbreak a player is smart selfish and inconsiderate and usually doesn't stay faithful to one woman most women fall for players because they appear attractive and presentable players have something extraordinary about them he can be rich famous tall handsome romantic talented good in bed and possess many qualities that a woman wants in a guy he will sweep you off your feet at the beginning and make you believe you're the luckiest woman alive he will tell you what you love to hear and show you what you love to see he will make unbelievable promises he will get into your head through your heart and take control of your thinking he will spend any amount of money and effort to take you to bed and after accomplishing his mission the story changes any attention and affection you get from a player can be temporary the first problem you'll encounter with him is his words will start to contradict his actions then his behavior and timing will change drastically then you will start wondering what you did wrong again it's not you it's him a player's time is very limited because he's got a lot of women to share it with it's hard to win a game with a player unless she's materialistic or never dates or marries for love a player's heart has no space for love he will marry a potential victim for selfish reasons or benefits and continue his games after marriage he will tell terrific stories about his innocent wife just to get another woman to bed a confused man the problem with a confused man is he doesn't know what he wants relationship is like a door you're either in or out a confused man will put one foot in and one foot out people will think you have a perfect relationship while you're actually not sure where you stand a confused man can be a wonderful guy who doesn't play games he will love you give you all you want but he will rarely commit to you he will give you excuses all the time and put your life on hold not because he's bad but because he has yet to figure out what he wants in his life [Music] of course there is no rush in love but there is a big difference between endurance and ignorance you can only endure with a man who knows what he wants and where he's going in life endurance with a confused man can be risky and a complete waste of time when a woman makes up her mind and decides to leave a confused man will change and start making new promises and deadlines just to make her wait more after a while he goes back to his old ways and for the woman the waiting continues one of life's greatest mistakes is to embark on a life journey with someone who is not going anywhere in life a good man a good man is the best gift any woman could get he's a grown up matured man regardless of his age that is done playing games ready to commit to just one woman and be faithful to her he will be responsible trustworthy love you and all that concerns you and you will know it in your heart he will be sensitive to your needs and will listen when you're upset he will adore you support you and bring out the best in you he will be consistent and his words will match his actions good men don't make promises they make commitments you will be his best friend his confidant and he won't have to fight nor beg for his attention he will laugh with you and cry with you he will focus on your future and not complain about your past when there's conflict he will listen with compassion if you're upset with him he will work hard to understand why he will carry you along with his plans if you disagree with him he will listen to your point of view he will trust without doubt and will give when you most need it although he may not have a lot he will be happy to share the little he has most women think good men are difficult to find the truth is there are millions of good men out there where are these good men they're standing right behind the boys players and Confused men you just have to clear those away first so you can see them you cannot date or marry a boy or a player and expect the treatment of a good man find Eric heart and understand each other calm joined his dating and relationship course for women to help them understand men [Music]

Channel: Derek Hart

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Id: jZ6RdEr31yQ

Length: 7min 8sec (428 seconds)

Published: Mon Oct 30 2017

Reddit Comments

[u/cleveland_leftovers]

Heh. They nailed my dating history. Whoops.

[u/cutiepuss91]

Pedro literally has all the traits classified under "boy".

[u/crazyinsane65]

thanks, I hate it. but I prefer one of these ladies.