You Were Born to Experience Intimacy

there's probably more people holding than any other question how can I create intimacy the only way that you can create intimacy is with love that's the answer but it opens other questions doesn't it well how do I create intimacy with love and what is love really these are the good questions if you don't know how to recognize love then you can't create with it and if you can't create with love then intimacy will remain outside of the realm of possibility for your experiences yet it is in some intimacy that you were born to create it was connection awareness of the connection that you have that is your evolutionary path to create now here we need to do a little explaining about the word you when I say connection is what you were born to experience connection is your evolutionary path that means you with a little Y you as a personality a personality means a body in a mind but when I say that you are on the earth school to give gifts to enter into the fullness of the connection that you are and is yours and is everyone's and is the universe moment by moment by moment in fact that's not even correct because it's not moment by anything it always is and connection isn't even the right word either because connection means I have to be at least two parts in order to be connected as you develop a new sense of perception multi sensory perception which hundreds of millions of humans are now acquiring you begin to see yourself in your world and the universe differently you begin to see yourself is more than a body and a mind you begin to see your world is more than just things that are randomly coming together you begin to see the universe as more than inert which means dead and completely merciless and random you begin to see yourself as a soul you begin to see your world as meaningful and always showing you things that are important for you to know about yourself and you begin to see the universe as alive and wise and compassion and now we come back to your beautiful question how can I create intimacy what else is there but this intimacy the question is how can I experience it how can I bring that experience into life and the answer as I began with is through love through creating with love creating with love and learning how to do that is learning how to create authentic power how to align your personality with your soul as you do that you begin to develop characteristics of humbleness clarity forgiveness and love there is nothing but love but in your experience there appear to be many things that are not love distance for example power struggles for example judgments for example exploitation for example all of these are experiences of fear and everything that is not love is fear love is the only thing that is real everything else is illusion in other words all of these experiences of fear are illusion and that's why it's not possible to build anything healthy or grounded or whole or wholesome wholesome on fear you begin to create with love when you can develop the ability to distinguish within yourself the difference between love and fear fear are those experiences such as anger and resentment and jealousy and judgment and they all hurt love are the experiences that you have of gratitude and appreciation and caring in patience and contentment and they all feel good creating authentic power requires you to distinguish within yourself the difference between these two energies love and fear and then to choose love all the time no matter what's happening inside of you or outside of you in other words no matter if what happening inside what is happening inside of you our experiences of anger jealousy resentment despair hatred homicide and choose love gratitude appreciation caring contentment instead and no matter what is happening outside of you which could either be a walk with someone you love a radiant being in a beautiful garden of flowers or another 911 type event millions of people live in events that are even more horrifying more destructive and more painful than that one and they do it all the time no matter what your circumstance to be able to distinguish within you between love and fear and choose love probably the most famous Nazi prisoner in my understanding of that period of history was named Viktor Frankl Viktor was a Jew and he was around and he was captured like millions of other Jews and sent to a concentration camp where his experience and those of the other people there were brutal beyond our imagination and one morning when his entire group was awakened at 3:00 and brought out on a frigid morning on a work detail and they stumbled in the Rupp's of the frozen mud on that frigid morning and Viktor and the others were being hit from behind by rifle butts of the Nazi guards in other words by thugs and something happened to Victor he realized oh my goodness what he realized changed his life right there on that frozen rutted Road he realized that the Nazis have taken from me everything they can they've taken my life they've taken my family they've taken my work but the one thing they can't take from me is my love can you recognize the difference between fear and love in yourself yes you can that's the creation of authentic power that's the ability to recognize yourself as a soul in addition to a personality that is your ability to choose to align your personality that part of you that was born into time and will die in time with your soul which is immortal which existed before your personality was born and will exist after your personality dies you are the little why the personality you are also the large why the capital why you are the soul and as you distinguish between the two and you can as multi sensory perception emerges in you and you choose to spend the life that you have on on the earth in the earth school that span between your birth and your death doing one thing which is aligning your personality with your soul with harmony with cooperation was sharing with reverence for life you become authentically powerful and your interactions with everyone around you become intimate whether the other person is intimate or not whether the other person is judging you or not whether the other person is trying to exploit you or not whether the other person is seeing you as a thing to be used your relationship with that person and with the world is intimate that is the only way to experience intimacy to transform your life from one of the unconscious creation of fear which we have learned to do since the origin of our species into the conscious creation of love which we are learning to do as we discover how to create authentic power and how to assist one in creating authentic power thank you for that beautiful question intimacy consciousness love union communion life all with capital letters cannot be distinguished it's only your awareness that failed to see them as they are and changing your awareness his spiritual growth changing our awareness from the unconscious creation of consequences your karma with fear to the conscious creation of your consequences your karma with love is the same as the continual creation of intimacy and that is the place that is the state that is you that is you with a capital y for eternity our evolutionary path now requires us to develop to create that awareness isn't that a wonderful path

Channel: Gary Zukav

Views: 79,443

Keywords: intimacy, improving relationships, how do I improve my life, lonliness

Id: kpjx9y2kAQA

Length: 11min 38sec (698 seconds)

Published: Thu Mar 15 2018