The Church Is Useless Against Abuse

good morning royally family I'm happy that you are here with me today we're gonna talk about why it is the church is not likely able to help you in dealing with narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships now before we do if you're new to the Royal we'd be sure to subscribe like and hit the bell notification so that you don't miss any future content and visit w-w-w calm this is the official Royal we website through the website you can access all things the Royal we including the Facebook support group the support group is available for you on a daily basis and it's full of people who are ready and willing to help you out also through the website you can schedule your one on one appointment with me to help walk through some of the issues you will face in dealing with narcissists and toxic relationships now as I said in this video we're gonna be talking about why it is the church is not likely able to help you in dealing with narcissists and toxic relationships if you're like me many of you have probably ran to the churches the first place you went to when dealing with toxic narcissus you went to the counselors that offer free support you went to the head pastor that you know and how many of you were given this typical response which is we'll continue to love them love the toxic people in your life love the narcissus you may be the only love they see turn the other cheek the Bible says to love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you right look at what Jesus went through he was called names and cussed at and abused and beaten and punched and he continued to love so how many of you by this point are aware that that's all twisted information for the most part most of it is right it's twisted for a particular reason we're gonna get to that reason a particular agenda that the Church of today needs to try to maintain right and we'll get there not only is it twisted information but it's dangerous information for you being somebody who is stuck in an abusive relationship because you find yourself crawl and trying to love and serve on your hands and knees these abusive people who are just becoming more empowered in their abuse the more you try to love them right it's enabling is what's taking place the more you love and serve and give to abuse of people the more you're telling them hey it's okay that you abuse me listen for those of you who think that loving your abusive people and toxic people in a way that you are constantly serving and attached to them if you think that you're gonna have a major breakthrough if you really believe that you're the only love that they've they may get in life listen narcissistically abusive people all people in the US of A have experienced love at some point but narcissists have come to this place where they they don't care they reject it it doesn't mean anything they know you're trying to love them and they get a kick out of the empowerment of watching you suffer because you love them right so at some point you got to get off your hands and knees and get the heck out and stop taking the church's advice which is keeping you in this place where you're you're being abused right but why is it that the church is not able to see it this way why is the church and large ignoring the red flags of abuse and why are they not able to primarily look at your protection and your safety as a good person who a good loving individual why do they struggle to help you to set boundaries and to really take consideration of your your mental and emotional well-being right and instead try to push you and pressure you into being some superhuman that is okay with abuse okay so there's a couple of scriptures on the lookout with you and many people might be saying well Kevin I don't want to listen to scriptures I don't believe in Jesus and gotten that's okay if that's you that's fine the reason I'm using scriptures okay is because this is an ancient understanding it's an ancient writing and some of you might be saying well what does that have to do with today and narcissistic abuse well the real he is is we're opening our eyes to the fact that narcissistic abuse has always existed even in the ancient days they have a lot to say about it because it existed them then it's not new it's just that modern society and churches have have so much prance around with this idea of love and find the good in everybody that we've lost this reality that evil exists that narcissism is a truth it has been since the day of Cain and Abel Cain rose up and killed his brother Abel that's at the beginning of the ancient writings according to the ancient understanding that's the beginning of time that sets the whole stage man that's everything right there two brothers the first brothers born on this earth One Killed the other out of a fit of jealousy boom that sets the stage that's where we're living right but we've been so bombarded with this well love everybody well I find the good in everybody right God could not find the good or speak the good into Cain what makes you think you're gonna love a narcissist psychopath sociopath what makes think you're gonna love them into change it's not gonna happen right so let's look at what the church is doing where they're at why so I want to read a scripture out of second Corinthians 11:3 it says this it's a warning that Paul is writing to the entire church at the time says but I am afraid that just as the serpent deceived Eve in the garden so you the church will also be deceived away from the simplicity of devotion to Christ so what does this mean what's he saying well first let's understand the reference to Eve how is Eve deceived by the serpent according to this story given to us in Genesis the evil Eve was deceived by the serpent by manipulation the serpent approached her and said don't you want some of this fruit doesn't this fruit look good come on you could partake in this fruit surely God knows that if you have some of this fruit you'll be like God you'll be powerful you'll be somebody it's not gonna hurt you right and with all of this hubbub flashy stuff Eve partook in the fruit and so did Adam okay so how does this relate what's Paul warning the church about well that same entity is at work that same serpent entity is at work even against the church saying you can partake in this fruit you might be saying what kind of fruit Kevin where are you going with this glad you asked let's get into it surely you can partake in this fruit did God really say you can't have this fruit doesn't it look good surely God knows that if you the church partake in this fruit you'll be like God's celebrities powerful God's okay with that it's not gonna hurt you it's not gonna hurt people many of you are understanding where I'm going with this now it's the fruit of the world it's the fruit of the world and the church has indeed said well that fruit does look good wow the world has all this going on fame money power that doesn't look good the Serpent's right there too saying hey you you can have some of this too you want some come on it's not gonna hurt you you'll be like gods you'll be celebrities too so what this did it oh is open the door for churches to have envy of the world right and so what the church has done is is combined itself with the world it adopted the world's things into the church the church is supposed to be the salt of the earth not just another flavor but the modern church is another flavor the world it's another it's an entertainment venue it's another place to and a lot of churches will say listen the reason we focus on entertainment this is the focus the reason we focus on entertainment and music and set and stick is because we're trying to compete with the world no you're not trying to compete with the world you've joining the world through envy of what the world has the church has adopted a lot of the world right to become just another Avenue it's lost its saltiness and just become another flavor someplace to go on a Sunday morning and this is what's created the Sunday Christians and this is what's created all this weekly detached Christianity we go for the show we go because the pastor's funny we go for the entertainment we go from the encouragement and leave with no understanding of the deep things of God and of the Bible okay and the problem with this now is going to be the next scripture I'm gonna read and that is out of Jude Judah offers this warning it says that certain entities or people have crept in among you these people have always existed right and they're there to pervert the Word of God into a licence of morality they're there to pervert the grace of Christ into a licence for morality again live however you want do however you want forgiven through Christ do what you want this is what is seeped into the church all right where am I going with this what does this have to do with not being able to help you out a narcissistic abuse so the church has grown to this place where it's become so big it's opened its doors so far and wide to let everything in this has to be what the church does in order to become what it wants to become successful celebrities big fill arenas right you can't do that with a small community of believers who really want to know God you can only do that if you open up the door to allow whatever perverse thing is out there to come in and to give to finance to fund all right and now granted most churches do the best job they can most pastors I truly believe in my heart do the best job they can to teach and preach in such a way that whatever entity comes in through the door leaves out a different entity leaves out changed but how many of you know that that is that's B that's deceived as we already talked about listen a master's message is not gonna change wickedness wickedness comes in it can leave wicked - that was Jude's warning there are entities and people that are unchangeable but now the church doesn't want to go there or mess with that and they're okay with that because again it's people it's numbers so now you can start to see is why the church is not able to offer you the best help why the church is not able to help you to protect yourself right to give you advice to protect yourself because it goes against their their adopting the open-door policy it goes against that and they risk then losing numbers to get down to a the core of people who truly strongly believe this is why I hope this video makes sense to you if you have any questions comments we agree if you disagree leave it down below and I look forward to be making more videos for you right here on the Royal we

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Length: 12min 10sec (730 seconds)

Published: Tue Mar 03 2020