The Truth About Platonic Friendships

I think women are capable of falling in love with somebody without it being about sex okay and when I say that I mean the conversation the the fact that they are emotionally available for you you have an emotional connection with that person soul mate like you love male just a time rather than love over the over yeah yeah perfect exactly in jail are capable of that oh no about that well I believe that we are capable of behind what happened to me what is there a lot of in jail and they fell in love with me and I never said I would just try to be nice I would try to do some community service you guys but I'm telling you that's how friends fall in love there are friends that are just hung around each other they talk they share an emotional bond he understands me he gets me I have family friends that are guys that are mutual friends yeah I mean Lenny and I that sort of thing but they're not just my friend right there they're y'all yeah our yeah they're our family friends they I always find out that I try to do that yeah then sometimes they end up like say like I'm falling for you I liking you and it's like they take it the wrong way but I have male friends that are my true male friend you know I consider a really good friend your husband but I know I know oh no spirit you have a friend that's different yeah but I do know that I can I had something I needed to say to him I know where boundaries are right that's where true friend has not accessed what we're missing in this guy girl you're right but I'm gonna tell you another thing the reason why that works is because she's secure in what they have and along with that you have made her secure and hanging her friend but not always yeah you need some shaky to being real because you know I did not know not you okay why pickable we can be out and a female could be doing too much talking it that night yeah I'm okay yeah enough you know that's yeah so I do as much you ladies you all taken you have men what would you do if your husband significant other fiance suddenly had a female friend and I don't want to get rid of her not a new oh do I want to do one either way we just go okay i pathetically okay start over there cuz okay I would say if he had a friend then she needs to also be my friend oh and I don't see him be aware why that has to be an isolated friendship that if I am your significant other and you guys are going to dinner there's no reason why I can't come along absolutely okay this is really weird because when I was gonna go off thing I have a lot of male friends but then now that you switched it it kind of tickled a little bit yeah hurt no you a not miss the cure I am really secure about but I damn emotionally don't cheat on me emotionally physically that's one of me and Freddie's hard core rule were we're bound for life but if you we cheat we know it's a done deal but if he had a met a female friend I would need to have every conversation about me with me in the room uh-huh I wanna be there I want if he says you know what Jeannie's being unfair Jeannie she was really unready I wouldn't be like speakerphone and let me have my piece so you would give your husband rules he's like yeah she could be your friend but this is the groundwork we don't talk about our marriage time yes because I'm controlling Jeannie on there okay what about you Pam I would have to know about her kind of like what Adrian said and then she would have to know about me Adam has you know a lot of female work friends mm-hmm but I wouldn't want them to hang out by them by themselves I I would want to be you won't be into me I want to be in the mix but I mean I don't have to be friends with his work with his work friends but I want to get to know who she is as a person she married is she single - she is her motive point why is she hanging with you is it my time okay yeah it with a bang yeah yeah I'm in securing Patty's I don't know what all right okay and so I'm not trying to control you but you can't handle female friends and the well and the reason being is because well gave me with you know crap but isn't is because now she's got me hungry I I am not that understanding no friend no friend or work no work no no Elmo thank you and the know

Channel: The Real Daytime

Views: 1,857,287

Keywords: the real, daytime, talk show, women, tamar braxton, tamera mowry, adrienne bailon, loni love, jeannie mai

Id: lTi8I7GJvWo

Length: 4min 56sec (296 seconds)

Published: Mon Mar 16 2015