THE TRUTH ABOUT FEMINISM | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

we're going to start from genesis 3. yesterday i laid some foundation and that's what i'm going to try to build on this morning um yesterday one of the questions that god asked us was who told you ask your neighbor who told you no ask them like you want to get an answer say who told you yesterday we established that who you are listening to matters and unfortunately these days everyone is listening to social media social media is not who god instituted over your life god has a church and there's a reason god has given us the word and there's a reason and god has given us bible teachers of that word so it's not just any deep frieza or anything you see on social media that you learn from you have people who have studied people who have been trained to teach you the word so when you are in a church like this what you should be asking is what does the word say i'm very very thankful to god that you have a church that is built on the word not emotions not passed on his wife corey you come and tell you men women are wicked and dangerous everything he teaches is balanced from the world so you should be growing in fact you should be used to it used to going back to the world your parents are the one that set your taste buds if you if you are from the west let me just i mean just for sake of example if you are from the west maybe a yoruba you know that the way the soup the stew you will make will be different from the stew that somebody that is able to make the pepper level is not the same why is because of who your parents are they taught you so it's the same way that you are in if you're in a spiritual family so your spiritual parents are teaching you how to deal with life so some other person may be running around looking for fake prophets you know that you can go back to the world and find your answers so when they are doing things like this bring doing conferences like this doing teaching conferences because we can come here and just say you should be praying just pray just pray but why are you praying for something that god has already answered if god has given you instruction what are you praying about what he will tell you to do is move okay so yesterday we established that who are you listening to who are you listening to so let me start from genesis 3. um from verse 11 yesterday we read this after they had sinned god said who told you that you were naked have you eaten from the tree of which i commanded you not to eat and the man said the woman that you gave to be with me she gave me fruit from the tree and i ate it then the lord god said to the woman what is this that you have done and the woman said the serpent beguiled and deceived me and i ate from the forbidden tree then the lord god said to the serpent because you have done this you are cost more than all the cattle and more than any man animal of the field and on your belly you shall go and dust you shall eat all the days of your life and verse 15 says and i will put enmity open hostility between you and the woman and between your seed and her seed and it shall fatally bruise your head and you shall only bruise his heel and yesterday i also tried to establish that the person you are playing with is not playing with you satan is your enemy he's not a nuisance and i told you i said that the difference between a museum and an enemy is that a nuisance is just trying to annoy you an enemy is trying to destroy you so satan is not just here to make you upset he actually wants to destroy your life now the problem is that we don't know who our real enemy is so what satan does is what he has always done he uses the same trick he has always used which is to distract and to deceive so he makes us think that the enemy is man so woman versus man man versus woman man has never been the enemy satan is a liar god made it clear here that our enemy is satan so satan doesn't want you to remember that he's your real enemy so he points you at the man and points the man as woman so that's when you start hearing things like women liberation feminism let's fight for our rights the truth is like i said yesterday there's no such thing as let's fight for equality because if you say let's fight for equality that means that you have agreed that we're not equal that means you agree that there's a problem there but when it comes to equality we are all equal before god there is no male or female in christ we're equal i can pray god will answer me my husband can pray god will answer him because we're all equal but the mistake we make is that we go in and start fighting now let me tell you the real issue behind feminism is an issue of identity it's not really about oh this man is equality it's not about equality it's about identity that's where satan is really going because the lies they tell you women are being marginalized in church read your bible god has always been on the side of women and men because god is not he's not partial he's not respected of persons he's not going to do for one and not do for the other so what they are trying to make us believe is that god is on the side of men and not on the side of women so like i said always ask the motive the motive why why are they saying these things it's satan that's the real enemy satan is trying to confuse us and distract us because you start off fighting men but you're going to end up fighting god and that's his that's where he's going because you start out hating men for taking what is our right and then you say god is silent on the matter for read your bible even when there was a law made that only men could inherit property when their lawful daughters came out five women they said our father does not have a son what did god tell moses to do he said change the rules for them they are human as well so what does that tell you god is fighting for us as well but when it comes to equality in marriage in marriage it is more about ranking we are equal but our ranking is not the same in marriage i established this yesterday i'm just i think for the sake of people who are not there i'm just trying to establish in marriage god is saying you pick somebody you can respect then when you pick that person you now have to respect that person one of the reasons why in the military there's order is because there's ranking we can't all say we are just all of us are equal how how you want to say we're all equal and give people gone are you are you joking and that's what's happening we don't understand that god see god is a god of order the bible says that is not an author of confusion so if god establishes something god's not going to say you know what guys you love each other just figure it out he's not going to do that god will establish some principles and he said let me help you choose the person you want to marry well make sure that when you are choosing that person that that person is submitted to christ because christ is omitted to god so when you pick animals pastor dexter that's what he taught me yesterday when you pick animals and marry i'm not trying to make an animal a human being it doesn't work because it doesn't have the nature animals behave like animals if a dog bites another dog what would the dog do you bite back but if you are now in in battle with a dog and a dog bites you if you bite back are you all right will you not now become what they call animals so people get married mess it up first and that's why i dressed the single girls yesterday because you hold the power you have a choice you have a choice you can you can save password that distress of praying morning and night and counseling you why don't you want to come forward with celebration and testimony did are you a vest to testimonial no she wants you to come and share testimony with her why must he always be problem but you created the problem so like i was saying the issue of feminism the real thing they're trying to do is identity that's what they after they're after your identity and from the very beginning that was what satan was after he went to the garden of eden i don't have so much time i read so many scriptures this morning he went to the garden of eden and he said to the woman did god really say that you should know it from this tree and she said no he did not say we should not eat oh you know he said we shouldn't even talk she just went on and started talking he said that if we eat it you know he said he said if you eat what god is really trying to say is that god is afraid that you'll be like him but from the very beginning the bible said that he made them after his image and his likeness they were already like him so satan just went to lie to her they were all andy you know the thing about satan his devices never change it's still the same thing he's doing he's still lying today men and women were created different for a reason because we all bring a different flavor into life marriage and parenting every single one of us so what he tries to do is that he will come for you for your identity because he knows that if you do not know who you are then every other thing will be confused how do i know this nicodemus went to jesus and this is one of my life one of my life scriptures nicodemus went to jesus in the night and he said to him ah master nobody can do the things that you do if god were not with him and jesus said it's not about doing he said he's except a man be born again that being is an issue of identity it is if you know who you are then you can see like god to begin to do the things that i do what jesus was saying to him is that i'm not necessarily special what i am is just i understand my identity when jesus was going to be baptized they put him in the water and the bible says that he when he came out that a voice from heaven said this is my beloved son in whom i am well pleased do you know the next thing that happened after that the very next thing that happened after that was that bible says that he was led straight away to the wilderness to be tempted and then he gets he gets to the wilderness and the first thing after 40 days unfortunately the first thing that satan said to him is what if you are the son of god his identity that's what this feminist thing is about identity he said if you are the son of god turn this stone to bread the bible says that he fasted and he was hungry so really that was a valid temptation see you and he had fin you need to understand this he had finished fasting if the fasting was over then he was hungry so they came with the temptation that if you are the son of god see you will always be tested on identity why can't you be like a man why can't you do this why can't you get the kind of job demand why can't you talk in the marriage when the man is talking and nobody is saying see submission is a gift god help me this morning submission is a gift is no submission is not forcefully taken if it's forcefully taken is no longer submission you need to understand that submission is something that you give willingly even the word submission itself implies that it implies that you put your mission and submit it under another man's mission so that you can work together what is the goal of marriage mind is not to make you happy now yes it can but that's not what it's about that's why people make the mistake of marrying with a romantic eye oh i love him that's the way he makes me feel anytime he walks into the room my heart skips a beat that's panic attack oh oh any time i hear his voice i can't breathe asthma all these things are waiting oh butterflies in my tummy butterfly has a very short lifespan so all those things that we're doing we are missing out on what god really wanted marriage to be god created a man created a woman put everything the man did not have in the woman and now says two of you i want you to work together to have a common goal a common destiny fulfill your destinies and then raise me the next generation who will be like you then we now mess it up by marrying rubbish and then mix up our children and oh god children out there are mixed up it's always about identity always about identity i want to try to build before i started it's always about identity so when the the thing what satan will tempt you on if he's trying to deal with your identities number one if you know who you are what you were saying to jesus was if you know who you are let's see whether you can control your appetites if you know who you are or where you are going some of you ladies will not be sleeping around now if you know that tomorrow you will be the first lady will you be allowing that okoro will you be allowing that brother to touch you anyhow he said she come out colleen knows bookies you go to his house you will cook you will clean you will lay bed and not lie down the bed you laid it's because you don't know who you are you will give him money you will do abortion for him because you don't know who you are and it starts with being able to control yourself jesus was hungry he had every right he had ability jesus could turn those things make no mistake somebody fed five thousand he could have turned those stones to bread he had the ability but just because you can do something doesn't mean you should jesus said i know who i am i'm not going to do everything just because people are doing it they are doing bossy challenge on social media you follow them you boss it they'll do which one again is raining which one is that one again wow i'm behind though tribe members people are not trying for me again see red challenge okay another one i don't wanna don't fight that one down what what is going on they naked you to your naked we cannot say whether you're a christian or not you say pray pre-wedding shoots the pre-wedding shoot is even worse than some people's wedding night you will not naked yourself you put hands here you put leg like i said what's going on is that vulpeco french kiss if you are the son of god just because you can does not mean you should so the first place he will tempt you is in being able to control your appetite first thing second place he will tempt you he's an applause you are the son of god if you jump in jails go wrong catch you because people will celebrate you does not mean you should do what what satan is telling you to do because of followers because of likes if they don't like your post you almost die listen to me that is not what gives you identity you are a child of god you are a woman of god it's god that gives you identity if you can live for an audience of one so he said if you jump in just go rush you you don't know who you'll be just second place he will tempt you and the last place is that he will tempt you in your worship all the while that he was talking to jesus he said if you do this i will do this if you do this then you came to the last one you don't say food no problem i'm not going to answer you it is written oh yeah i jumped and i said once i reached written when he got to worship me only this is what jesus told him jesus said get out you may touch every other thing but not my worship you must get to the point where the only person you are living for is god not the social media people the worst part about social media let me tell you is that social media they reign they pass there's always a new person reigning if you live for them and you find your joy in them it means that they council take your joy so if they follow you today you'll not come out and celebrate 100k followers and you don't know what people it means you celebrate okay people start to unfollow you you don't know ah the day my husband hit 100k on youtube we had over 3000 people and follow him immediately celebrated it i said why why people why people weren't happy why why you why how do you sleep at night like you just this man celebrate just i want to remove from the joy how why why why me why so mean why what's the problem so he says these people is it these people that you're trying to live for jesus knew who he was he said i'm not going to do these things i know who i am my father just announced me so i'm not going to do this i'm not going to dance to your your trends all those people telling you a marriage see forget all the bible things so let's face reality the word of god is our only reality that's the only reality we have when god says something that's the final authority he's the only one that cannot change so they say all kinds of things and the worst part is that you are trying to live in the world and still be a child of god it doesn't work you can't save two masters it can't work you must stand for something or you will fall for anything so when the trends are going out there today when this thing started it was women liberation when i was younger that's what it was called they just changed the name so in your mind because you are gen z or you're a millennial feeling like oh we we are destroyers okay generation we are the ones that cannot be present let me tell you they don't press see when all those things were happening i was just laughing i was laughing because we've seen these things they were shouting we had the ones they cannot intimidate we are the ones that cannot all the people that are intimidating now there were once we were once shouting like you people they were the ones shouting back then i've been through a few heads of state military regiment to know that it doesn't work like that they were shouting i was just laughing i was watching when they spread them at that place that day i was praying and i was crying because i knew this could happen you can't follow everything the world is saying if you're a child of god be a child of god that's why i love elijah elijah save god be god let's save him if well then let's follow him but if god be god let's save him you can't say you are a christian and now be trying to mix it with the world you can't mix it [Music] if you are a christian you live by the standards of the word don't be afraid to say you submit to your husband there's nothing wrong with it don't be afraid to say you love your wife there's nothing wrong with it so men that are literally their their wives wrong at home they come in social media they say uh i'm the man of era lori ra there's nothing wrong with obeying the world even if you look for me to the word but you cannot save two masters you can't mix it you have to stand on one side growing up one of the prophets my mom always used to say was why a giant be a shocker you have to be focused you have to pick one you can't do it like you did like this do we have to do like if you are going to be a feminist you can't be a christian i'm sorry to announce it to you you can't you can't because what are their motives they are trying to get women to become like men and that is anti-christ women are created to be women and men are created to be men i'm not expecting you to clap but i'll tell you the truth anyway we must still have a generation that stands for god because the generation out there that the world is fighting there's an agenda they're two kingdoms two kingdoms are fighting it's always a battle of kingdoms i need you to understand that you can't be in the church and be fighting for the world you say sir let's see the the days of just reading bible and doing bible so people will not come to church then let them not christianity has always been about the elect it has never been about crowd but if you say you're going to come to church and you're going to live for god then you have to live by the principles of the word of god parenting one of the key assignments that god gave us as christians these days people have turned it to another team oh don't beat your children don't let them associate pain with your hand you don't let them these people that are giving you this advice have you looked at their children so i'll be like this david will come and tell me mildred you're silly hush if i went again i just beat him down for this thought in my head just just just when i was growing up my my other sister has to do that a lot she'll just say come and slap you because i know she'll offend me so i will beat him down just for this thought the people who are following don't beat your children people you are following how are their children you to ask questions if god created a child and he told you that foolishness abounds in the heart of your child god created the child he created the heart he recognized foolishness and he gave you the antidote he said the road of correction we drive it far then you say you are wiser than god unless you know there's been research a lot of scientific research has shown that look at the outcome of their children now the bible says the word of correction not of wickedness so god doesn't express himself be going about just just what's your picking just slap him it's correction so with everything god creates they are principles that's what i'm trying to establish with everything there are principles i don't know why i keep teaching about marriage today but i really believe that the real problem is in the home some of the things we're trying to undo now is in the home satan is trying to confuse women trying to confuse us in our identity so that instead of having a mother and father in the home you have two fathers and right now because we're still africans he's doing it that way but a time will come when he'll fully push his agenda where two men will be okay to marry nigeria two women will be okay to marry as far as the other woman dresses like a man and cuts her hair see if you know the panadol you know if you be like panadol i don't care how much you cut your hair i don't care how much you wrap your boobs i don't care how many men's baggy clothes you wear you are not a man you are not created to be a man are you a strong woman yes is god okay with you being a strong woman yes let's read judges for because these things the reason i'm shouting like this because they really break my heart that even christians even christians don't understand what is actually going on this bible helped me today oh is there any way scriptures will be put up judges for judges for verse 4 is what i want it's just that scripture can you help me thank you see it if i listen from verse one please let's start from verse one just take it back a bit for me he says so after he holds the israelites again did evil in the sight of the lord verse 2. he said so the lord turned them over to king jabbing of hazor a canaanite king the commander of his army was the syria who lived in harusha that caesar who had 900 ion chariots ruthlessly oppressed the israelites for 20 years then the people of israel cried out to the lord for help c verse 4. he says then deborah the wife of lapidot debra who was a prophet who was judging israel at that time do you see that every time people preach every time people preach about deborah they focus on give me the next verse five they focus on verse five that she would sit under the palm of deborah between rama and bethel in the hill country of ephraim and the israelites will go to her for judgment they focus on the fact that she was a strong woman she was a warrior she was a prophetess she was we'll see how she was introduced a wife she was a wife so these are genders that are pushing that you to be a great woman and a strong woman you can't submit to any man she was the wife of lapidos that's how god introduced her she was a wife she was a wife this one when i was praying the release we said go and check the roots meaning of lapid because we also need to raise men who can marry debras we need a generation of men who are not intimidated by their women i want to check for the root word just this morning the root meaning of the root word for lapidoth it means light light hey see one of these light does for you lights he said it actually means light bearer so lapidos was a light bearer some things that god showed me this morning light brings exposure so if you marry a man that is not afraid to let you shine ah see if you don't have that kind of one you will not understand what i'm saying you'll understand what i'm saying the most one can say if it was two years ago who remembers blessing was it two years ago two years ago i have this thing that i do at the beginning of every year i take a seat and i kneel down i tell my husband to bless me because he will come to church and declare and everybody will take the anointing may i have private access to the anointing they didn't really swear for me and i'm a very wise woman so i say sir before you go outside and be pouring on people and spitting on them samia sir i'm here i lay on you sir anya anyhow i saw that particular tries to do this every year and then i first started with night and then afterwards i changed to foreign currency because what's with my monsters that will also reap and there's a way naira is behaving it's not really this the rate at which narrative is going it's not favoring me so i say i see because the bible says give and it shall be given to you good man shall press down shaken together shall men give to your bosom but he also says with the same measure with which you give it shall be given back to you so if you give in the measure of dollars it will be given back to you it's not a financial conference let me leave it so i carried my seat and i went to my house two years ago two years ago right blessing two or three should be three years now because these 20 21. so i knelt down i gave my husband that seed and after because you first laugh you could say waiting for this one again i say sir don't joke with me i'm not like her so don't joke with me sir please please because i cannot be here and then i cannot be inside water and soap went on my eye please sir i'm not playing with you so i put the cds and i laughed and i said okay what do you want i said bless me i mean what do i want again i don't want to give you bank now just give me money i want you to bless me my mom put his hand on my head and he said i build you a platform go and explode i knew something left him da yeah was the year of kovid right was he have covered he was was the year before kovid oh he was there before covered it was a safe all of a sudden on your mark said notice mildred i don't think yes sisu nothing what they do now i know they do see so even they pray with us i've been doing anything so all of a sudden everything just opened there's explode exposure exposure that light brings my husband unveiled me he's not intimidated he's not intimidated we need to raise men who are not intimidated by the greatness that god has placed in your hand you are a husband man you are a groomsman and you are supposed to groom her she has strengths she has weaknesses too i know that if i say this i love you and believe it i'm extremely introverted extremely like ex when i say extremely extremely i jokingly said i'm a social media introvert extrovert i'd this enter my one of his comments anytime my husband tells me to preach i won't sleep the night before i could sing i'll go pray i'll prepare my notes i will i can use two weeks on top that i'm going to preach on sunday one hour now because of grooming you don't understand what i'm saying there's something inside of you that will not allow you stand behind me you have to stand beside me that's lappy dot that's lapidos he's a light bearer another thing that light does for you that gives strength if if you enter your house and there's no lights nepal's taking light what happens to you you confess fire but once they bring light you have power to walk and nothing light does that gives clarity once there's light you can see and once you can see you can move fast so it also brings speed so that's what lapid lapid dot is an example of the proverbs that one man because we always praise the brothers that's one woman but she has a husband she was doing all those great things but she had a husband who was not intimidated by her god is handing that woman to you because and that's why god says women should submit because on your own you are too powerful and because you are so powerful you are dangerous and you can be a big danger to yourself because you are an emotional ticking bomb your husband can say don't do this thing sit here but you feel like doing it but like i said just because you feel like or just because you can't shoot you your husband is more logical he will say sit here so god is not god is not you don't make mistake he knew exactly what he was doing when he said wives submit to your husband he didn't say go to the road and just before any man i said sir let me submit to you now so what's that you say no pick the one you trust is judgment then submit pick a leader then allow him lead you it's like i've never seen where you enter a car and you see i hear this quarrel about submission all the time and i think i just take a few minutes to just deal with that there's nothing wrong with submission in fact submission is such a beautiful concept if you think about it and women complain about submitting all the time however you submit on a daily basis if you go to the salon to make your hair and they say madame bend you bend madame do like this you do lies but i want to wash your hair now do like this you do it that's submission why is this omission because you tru you chose a hairdresser you can trust one of the only people in this life that can push my head in here is dirty glam because he does my hair he does my makeup he will say must do like this for my man i say don't finish he said gun me down but i'm submitted to him you go on the road traffic lights traffic lights turns yellow you you stop i hope you start slowing down my hope when it turns red you stop that submission why because you know it's for your own good so people that go to the office and you have a boss that you don't even necessarily like he's even mean and your boss tells you there's a meeting by 3 p.m today you must be at it i don't hear you complain no i don't hear you complain and your husband your own husband at home just say he has not said anything see i've been respecting you since meanwhile i have not heard you raise your voice at your boss in the office if you can submit to your boss in the office if you can submit to your pastor in church because no matter how angry you are most times when i'm counseling women and they say i don't like comments one day i said let's put this in context if it was your pastor that said ah past okay i said exactly if you can have that honor and reverence that if personally tells you this even if he's annoying you you do not take offense then you have the ability to do the same marriage you have the ability to submit to your husband but it becomes an issue because you think somebody is trying to marginalize you and i keep saying it if you marry well women that are married to great men that treat them well i never hear them talk about submission go and check the people that are pushing this feminism thing this radical feminism one check their marriages they married animals sir animals and they are not coming to push it as an agenda and then we who are supposed to hold the word of god we are supposed to push the agenda of the kingdom of god we are succumbing to them they have an agenda but we have an agenda when david went to fight goliath the bible says that goliath cursed him by his gods but david answered him he said you come at me with stone and swear he said but i come to you in the name of the lord meaning that they both understood that is god to god is a case of kingdom vessels kingdom so you are not circumcised philistine means that my kingdom of circumcised israelites is greater than your kingdom you must understand always ask why ask why and ask who said who told you that is so fundamental in your life you just carry anything with social media and wrong with it maybe the person woke up i was just angry with the husband just come out just put hashtag men and scum men as come men uh can you go y'all put different things i usually drop me running with it it's her personal revelation born out of a personal mistake one day i was on social media i saw one of my my daughters in the lord put up a post that nobody can say nobody can tell me anything this marriage thing not by look i say in davis christian center this marriage dinner by lock i say you don't change your supplier abby so i called her i said what do you say is wrong with you she said she's the one i'm talking about yesterday that made an unbeliever you mind an unbeliever now come to tell us it's by lucky my rubbish and somebody now will carry that thing and be pushing it that this marriage thing about it's not by luck it's my choice it's my choice choose well you will live well god is not a liar he's not a man that he should lie neither is the son of man that you relent if god says a thing it will be done you marry well submit to the principles of god you will live well what does it mean has come you go you will never understand what they're talking about because when the man that you woke up from that house in the morning he treats you well when they are saying some of their problems you can't identify because he treats you well you can't relate so always ask so deborah strong woman but look at what god said she was the wife of lapidoth madam you can be grateful god is not fighting auntie you can make all the money in the world god is not fighting but when it comes to marriage if you are going to be a wife you must submit there are no two ways about it you enter a car i've not seen it before where you enter and the driver is driving you here halfway you just don't feel like you like the way the driver is driving again you start struggling with staring how many people do that we don't do it you know why because we know it's because accident is the same thing in marriage you have two options is it that you don't get into the car in the first place or you come down or you sit down quietly in fact it's three options actually you sit down quietly and let the person drive you and be praying in tongues that you make it to your destination that's it that's it so this reminiscent thing satan knows what he's doing hey identity he wants women to start to think being a man is better listen to me it's not a man's world have you heard that thing before that is a man's world you've known it before he's only this brother that has had it have you heard it before are you angry feel like be hungry but because we like me invite me next time happy birthday you see my sister said so now like have you heard it before that is a man's world he's a lie he's god's world he's god's world and it belongs to his children so if you're a child of god whether you're male or female god says the earth disease and what the fullness so i don't know where we listen to the lives of satan if you are going to be a great woman it's okay you see i miss the days honestly ah i miss the days of praying women these days what we have is complaining women and what satan is making you do is you're forgetting your power the power you have is prayer i can't say it enough when you hold the horns of the altar and you say my father hey he turns you know why he says i'm the bombing gilead why then are my daughters not here it is my son he has a soft spot for you as a woman so if you call daddy everybody knows everybody knows their fathers and their daughter you can't get in between them everybody knows that but pasta has firsthand physical experience and spiritual experience of that concept you can't get between a man and his daughters if you comment i know that's why i also tell men you can't be you can't be married and treat your wife badly let me tell you you see that scripture that says that if you don't deal with your wife with understanding that your prayers will be hindered consider yourself just think about it that if you were married to your boss's daughter your boss in the office and you are treating her badly you know that's why god gives us physical things so that we can understand spiritual concepts so you are treating god's daughter badly and you think you think say go hammer anywhere you go go block him anyway and this is the god who opens the door that no man's can shots but he also shot the doors that no man can open he's the person you are playing with you are treating his daughter badly and women he's having to go and call your daddy you go alone you go i don't even want to encourage violence he will beat you for nothing i miss those days of praying mothers praying mothers i don't know your name i can't remember you what you said your name was chinwen she when she said pastor dexter's wife she said when they gave her that news that her mother was praying so it was already settled do you understand if we are not praying now i'm worried for the next generation who is praying for our children is it youtube youtube by gender is not a race godly sido or you haven't noticed watch what your children are watching when your children are watching something youtube you suggest rubbish for them that's just one person all they need to do is press suggested do pop-ups thank you youtube does not have the same agenda that you have we need to understand that i miss the days of praying mother look at the bible as much as we praise timothy timothy was raised by his grandmother and his mother i did not hear anything about his father if you read history maybe it's what i was a greek he wasn't i don't care how timothy came but i do know how he ended and it was because he had a praying mother and a praying grandmother now we have complaining mothers and complaining grandmothers we are blaming everyone but the real person who is the enemy satan he's the way his father that's why i left listen his father is not the problem your honest one is not the problem he's satan that's your problem and there's only one way to deal with satan you tell him to get out you tell him to take his hands off your family women you need to arise listen i told you that lapidot is the light bearer but you know as a woman because some of you be saying but i'm not married listen to me as far as you are a child of god you are married to jesus and jesus himself declared i am the light of the world so jesus is your light bearer jesus is your lapidos jesus has come to give you exposure to give you clarity to give you speed but woman you must arise he says our eyes shine for what your light is come he says our eyes shine did this arise complain did this arise nag did you see a rice fight for your rights he said i rise shine there's something inside of you that this world needs but if you keep complaining it's not going to come out everything is the man's fault men do allow us men to allow us my husband until you serve that pick somebody that cannot allow you that's why i was shouting yesterday single girls the power is still in your hands when you are married there's only one thing you can tell you'll be praying oh how many marriage counselors we go duties we listen to negotiation too let's do psychometrics let's do analysis when they finish i gotta say come let me tell you my sister just be praying oh they say text me all this technique or something he don't really use to change anybody because god says the heart of man only prayer only prayers in my room as a single girl you didn't hear plenty suitors you could just say no no no no you don't walk don't be driving anyway but once you are married there's no other solution about prayer that's what i'm saying think well is this the kind of person you want to put your destiny with the bible says that they will reproduce after they are kind in genesis is it the kind of man you want to reproduce after he's kind hey is he the kind of man that you want to reproduce after he's kind auntie because you are a womb man you carry a womb so you are the the only person hey the only person that can move life forward and we're throwing those things away woman you are stronger than you think woman you are more powerful than you think woman nobody is trying to subdue you you cannot be subdued you cannot be suppressed you cannot be held down and unless it's your choice that's why we say choose well marry well one of the best gifts you can give yourself as a human being is to marry well whether you're male or female the only problem is that women you are the ones i get to choose man doesn't get to choose he doesn't get to man can toast you but he doesn't can't push you to the other with gone he can't now nobody minds by gunpoint some of the choices we're making listen identity is crucial identity is crucial satan wants us to not be women that's what this is about he wants us to not be women and being a woman is so powerful do you know and i think i said this yesterday do you know that we're the only creatures and here and i think pastor kosmini also mentioned it do you know that we are the only creatures the only ones who are literally equated with how the holy spirit is to go to the church the only ones the word see when god was making man you know some of these things used to study them genesis when god made man the word that he used to describe making man it's kind of like you know you just carry wood and just put two things together let's bring chair something that is functional you know functional but the word that was used to create woman was like it's it's finishing you know like furniture making it's not it's not just wood and nail he took time and for him to do that he looked he looked at the first version he made i mean even even look at natural things when iphone made the first phone the first phone the iphone made is it like is it like the current one evil car when they bring new model of car even if they don't change anything they can change all the lights or they change side mirror there's new that's the thing they've changed that's what makes it a new model if human beings know that if you change anything you must make it better how do you think that god said it is not good for man to be alone i will make him a help me and then he did not make the woman better how do you think that so everything that the man needs is in you so you should be carrying yourself with confidence so that's why i don't understand when a man says he's not doing again a woman will be crying ah he's not doing again that you're crying he should be the one crying because he that finds a wi-fi is a good thing and obtains that means you are the favorite pipe you are the one carrying favor and he must say he's not doing it again you say thank god me well you know i didn't find where to carry my favor before you don't you can't be acting like you're doing you a favor by marrying you and i think this is major problem with women a lot of times we've been made to believe that men are doing us a favor by marrying us you are the one doing them in favor because marriage is work oh wow oh wow you don't understand that when you are married you are sent on an assignment god is partnering with you to help this man fulfill his destiny so that's why the man can't be doing you shakara because bible says the virtuous woman is a crown known to her husband do you know what crown does he makes a man a king so when he finds you the man will enter his kingship you are carrying crown and somebody i don't even want you you are crying would you carry your crown look for words he had cuckoo good he said you had no my good before i'll put it there and watch the man blossom that's what cosminia said it now he wasn't like this pastor dexter was in like this i've gotten that brother's name in two years i've come back here i've invited myself in two years i'll come back here and come and see him it won't be like this women you have power if you didn't hear anything from what i said this morning i came here this morning to tell you that you have power you have power you have power and one of the things that god wants you to do you have power celebrate god you have power you have power [Applause] and one of the things god wants you to use that power to do is to change this world yes you may not be like deborah but how about jail and that's one of the women i love so much in the bible because i meet a lot of women who say oh since i was working in a bank i was a top executive and now god might start having babies and how to shut down my life i can't i'm like just because you are a stay-at-home mom or a full-time housewife whatever name you choose to use does not mean that god cannot still use you look at jael jaya was in her house deborah and barack had gone to war they've literally won but cesaro ran away i don't have time when i read it caesar ran away cesaro was running he now passed the front of our jail just came outside sir come i can't help you the man said i want to drink water give me water she said water i will give you water and i'll give you milk in other words i will kill you with hospitality come in now oh god enter she gave me milk see there's a skill in your hand that you're taking for granted oh i came here to announce it to you there's a skill in your hand that you're taking for granted one of the things that used to happen those days where it was a woman women that used to set up tents you know they lived like nomads so they would move from place to place so the women were the ones who used to set up tent so i believe that jaya had become skilled in the use of tent peg and hammer because she had had practice so she had also had wisdom which is something i established as the women you are wise is you see that's why the bible mentions it as a thing it's surprised that it's possible for a woman to be foolish because wisdom and women are supposed to be synonymous read proverbs so when the bible mentions a foolish woman it is an anomaly because you are where the man is supposed to get wisdom from he's supposed to get wisdom from you his heart is supposed to safely trust in you so that he will have no need of spoilers he will not make mistakes he you you is where he finds his rest and his wisdom so this woman say if i give this guy water it would be energized if i give her milk he go sleep if you have young children you know that when they disturb you tomorrow just give them warm milk at night they will sleep that's what you do you're just going to sleep and you go and do all that is with your life so this woman said i will give you milk eat with drunk milk it's definitely sleepy they covered you somebody's at war they cover you oh may god not let them cover you in the day of war somebody that is at war they cover you due to you snuggle and immediately he slept she took that tent peg and she took the hammer and i believe that she knew that this is what i've been skilled in using she could have used the knife she could have used the sword but she chose to use something that she had been used to something she was comfortable in listen that's what satan is fighting he wants to take what you are comfortable with away from you there's a certain level of influence and finesse that a woman brings he wants to take that away it's like david said he wants to go and fight goliath and saul gives him his armor what did david say they say i have not tried them i'm not comfortable in this let me fight as i am woman fight as you are don't let them take what is yours this woman could have taken her husband's sword i believe her husband would have had an extra sword at home or a knife maybe butcher a knife should have cooked nah she carried the tenth peg and the hammer he said with one sweet movement she drove it into his soul into his skull and that's how he died he died she came outside because she no say barack obama she stood there i was saying he said calm down where are you wrong go come inside kid what you're looking for it's inside saved by a woman that did not look like it satan always underestimates us me i was even surprised that oh god you enter house you know even they beg they command say give me water ask what now you need help i cannot see please in that scripture and i believe that the bible writes what it means you do not even began to please help me you're not going to give me water give me just the and then stand outside and watch for me sir who are you and this woman with one swift movement with something she was used to women fight to fight for your families fight for your children there's war going on outside they are attacking our children they are attacking our children they are making our children believe it's okay to be unbelievers they are making our children believe that it's okay not to go to church they are making our children believe it's not okay to tithe we may fight hey i don't honestly i don't cry this morning but women we need to fight we're too busy competing competing against each other competing against the men busy fighting unnecessary battles we're at war and when where i don't care what password that is wearing beautiful as it is we're at war i'm just wondering does she have my back that's what i'm thinking i'm not i'm not going to go around gossiping about her that much you are using to gossip you need to pray women you need to rise there's war out there deborah did not think she'd not feel intimidated by jail child do not feel dimitted by the fact that uh deborah is the warrior me i didn't go she was where she was and she made a difference you can pray in your house if you can't host a prayer meeting if you don't have a pulpit i keep saying it everywhere i go a puppet is not a physical thing a puppet is anything that you have that can pull people out of a pit so whatever god has put in your hand use it we're not enemies we're sisters in war i'm fighting in lagos she's fighting nasa pastor timo is fighting in abuja perspective is fighting in abia we're too busy looking at the wrong things so social media will just feel like it today he's born straight that is raining no we'll go for both streets we have forgotten that we're at war you think it's both straight they are talking about we should be praying to straighten the lives of our husbands and our children we're fighting over who has money to bible straight and who does not then tomorrow they'll come any cloth that the body is covered it's not fashionable now we may have but i don't want to scare me wedding now is not wedding again a stripper club where a sleeve now has a slit you will like this then they will not cut his seat again it's not cooking my day it's not dead you understand you brought it here auntie you nasty cut it like this with all the cellulite in your body there was a time when he was unable to cover your body we are sleeping on what's going on there's a world there jael understood this that even though she was at home she knew she had to fight too there's a war out there everything that is in the world is creeping into the church and we are here fighting each other gossiping about who do you not come early for prayer meeting who is backsliding who's doing stupid things let me tell you what can save your life any issue that is brought to you wait alongside eternity when i get to heaven really matter that will help you streamline the things that should be in your life will it matter things that are in the world are creeping into the church there was a time when if you wanted to marry good girls you come to church now the emphasis is on the fact that the church is a hospital so anybody can come but if they come us they stay that way as the girls will you please must they stay that way because the gospel didn't say when they discharged them other girls we need you are going to be very good friends i can't sit um no he's becoming too much too much when i was younger if there's adultery going on it's outside you hear that oh a man is sleeping with a girl outside not inside church the same department married women when i was younger it was not side chick it was site ignite side hand you know them and see that is in our husband's house would not allow somebody else to rest in our husbands house and we are fighting nonsense women let's fight the right enemy let's play women we are at war we are the custodians of the next generation we are the gatekeepers of the church i don't care what they are telling you that's the last thing i'm going to say because i hear this rubbish all the time once i say let's pray maybe i put up something i said let's pray on let's pray for our husbands maybe this month praying personally we're praying for husband my dm that's why it will stop me from reading my dm will be full one woman actually told me when i brought out one video about praying for your husband and submitted to your husband you know and it was several i think what several mistakes married women make so it was addressed to women so i was talking about the mistakes women make i did men oh no men did not tell me anything they watched their team enter the house they decide whether they're going to go down women came to my dear one woman told me that god would punish me god would judge me that i'm causing women to think that they are kings that women's lives are being destroyed i mean i'll just be spewing the rubbish that's coming out of my mouth she's talking she'll cook one house answer but you know my heart was so broken that we have reached that point where you say let's pray people be fighting prayer say why is it every time women should pray men uncle and my question is if you are living in a room and the room is dirty and your neighbor does not want to clean it will you allow yourself for sick because your neighbor doesn't want to clean the room would you clean it if the men are not praying let's pray our own until god touches them to pray because the heart of your husband is not your hand he's in god's hand you see god that we touch him so all that rubbish there's a new agenda going on prayer prayer what is prayer every time last week we have prayed let's move okay where are we going because i don't have problem with moving no i don't get problem if you say let's move let's move to where where are we going you don't know where we're going he said we should be going me that i said we don't know where we are going let's ask the person that knows you say we should not ask he's done no stupidity and we're allowing that to enter the church faith that works he's dead do you know the meaning of that scripture if you do you will shut your mouth you think faith you think you think prayer is not part of work women let's pray when the corporate meeting come out the world may think they have mouths we we know our weapon hold on to what you have gial did not go and look for knife she's not going to look for saw she no look she took a tent peg and a hammer and she drove it into his head and she won the victory this morning before i go i want to challenge every woman here this next generation is relying on you this next generation is counting on you you are the gatekeeper let's raise godly seed for god let's pray to these men become what they should be they meant to be pray but that's not our concern we're at war you say what about my neighbor will issue do you first be shooting so they shoot first you go the one i'm saying you know they shoot you go die oh they shoot well you'll be sure you can't just say okay it's not shooting i'm not shooting we're at war guys where war we're at war to fight for your children fight for your destiny fight for their future fight for the single girls in your church so they don't marry rubbish fight for the mighty men so they are not miserable and crying fight for your pastors fight you should be praying you should be praying until you know beyond the shadow of your doubt what god will have you do you are a woman god made you a woman because he knew that he wanted to use you as a woman were you blessed this morning please jump to your feet this morning

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