The Most Popular Manifesting Method in 4 Steps

when you follow my steps in this episode The spiritually aligned action method you can really trust that an energy beyond your own is working on your behalf and that everything can just really work out for you even if you don't know exactly how or when because you can trust that your action was taken from a place of spiritual alignment Gabrielle Bernstein a role model for Spiritual Seekers welcome back my friends welcome to Dear Gabby for today's show I want to talk about something really really core to my spiritual practice something that has been a method that I applied in my practice years ago and it's such a huge method I even wrote about it in my book super attractor this is a method I call the spiritually aligned action method and it's this practice that requires inspiration faith and some kind of spiritual connection a spiritual connection of your own understanding when we merge our desire with our faith we can start to take action from a place of peace and calm and centeredness rather than that controlling place that we often take in action from and it's that presence of peace that allows the universe to really support us when we take action and I think if anyone out there is uh someone who's a controller like myself and you know those moments where you're taking action from a place that's like really needy or really controlling or really um just aggressive it just never feels supported it always will land flat I literally did that today literally like was like frustrated by something and like took a huge action and while I was justified in it it kind of caused a lot of and so you know we can just get into these situations where we put ourselves in these positions of taking action and really wasting a lot of time energy and creating a lot of Chaos in our life but the other thing that I really think is so valuable here is that many of us out there want to be manifesters you want to manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams and a lot of times that's why we come to this show we come to learn these techniques and tools for manifesting and manifesting isn't about just sitting around and waiting for something to happen to us manifesting is about taking an action but taking an action that is aligned with the spiritual connection taking an action that's aligned with faith and courage and spiritual connection and when you follow my steps in this episode The spiritually aligned action method you can really trust that an energy beyond your own is working on your behalf and that everything can just really work out for you even if you don't know exactly how or when because you can trust that your action was taken from a place of spiritual alignment big big message for you today I'm going to give you an example that happened for me in my own life it's a story I love to tell and it's such a cool manifesting story but it's also a story of what it means to take spiritually aligned action in your life and the benefits that can happen and how to do it back in 2008 I had begun my work as a life coach and a motivational speaker and I'd noticed this really big growing interest in spirituality among young women and just young people in general but especially women and I was working on my first book and I was just super proud to kind of be at the Forefront of this Zeitgeist of new Seekers and I started to feel this kind of heightened level of responsibility to share my message and to really get it out to more people and if you don't know this I used to have a career my first career from 21 to 25 I owned a PR Company and I was a publicist for nightclubs uh but I was really good at PR and it was like a self-taught skill I didn't have any background in it I just taught myself how to do PR and I was good at it and so I dipped back into my PR skills and into my Rolodex yes no joke Rolodex I dip back into my Rolodex and I think about a pitch I want to pitch to The New York Times and I also have this idea that it's the New York Times because it's a reflection of something I saw is Driftwood I noticed in my life that some friends of mine that were all food bloggers really had this great experience where they were all featured in The New York Times in this Sunday Styles feature cover story and it blew up their careers and I remember taking the Masthead off of that that article and putting it on my vision board and saying holy I want that that's the thing that's going to really help me get this message out to the world and so I wanted to pitch a story to the New York Times and so I dipped into my Rolodex and I found the one contact I had a guy named Alan salkin I had met him at a dinner party and I knew he wrote for the Sunday style section so I wrote this pitch and I put a lot of faith and a lot of love and a lot of energy into it and the pitch was really simple it's all the girls that used to want to be like Carrie Bradshaw and sex in the city now I want to be like Wayne Dyer into spirituality and really opening their hearts to being spiritual Seekers and so I call up Alan salkin and he picks up the point hello and I say hey Alan it's uh it's Gabby Bernstein we met at this dinner a while back and I've got a pitch for you it's like tell it to me now I come out with it and I say it's all the girls that used to want to be Carrie Bradshaw now I want to be Wayne Dyer and he's like interesting I'll get back to you and months and months and months go by and he's not getting back to me and I just kind of like gently check in and just sort of like test what's going on and you know after a lot of months of little or no response I choose to really trust in the power of my intentions and my faith and instead of obsessing or forcing the outcome and like you know beating down his door or just annoying him with emails and phone calls I really just surrendered to the universe and just let my energy be relaxed and just allowed things to unfold naturally cue to the fall of 2009 Alan calls me and it's out of the blue and he says the New York Times has picked up your story I'm going to be in your apartment next week we're going to shoot your coaching session and I'm going to do a whole article on this hangs up the phone boom my manifestation has become my reality a week later Alan shows up to my studio apartment and it's this group coaching session and he's just you know watching the session and after the session everybody leaves and I'm with Alan in my apartment alone and he's going to do this interview and he's asking me a bunch of questions and when the interviews over he starts looking around my space and he sees this beautiful vision board and I explained to him how my vision board has my career and my love and my physical health and he looks at this Masthead of the New York Times and he goes what's this and I said oh you know Alan that's from an article that I read a few years ago and it was this piece on how these food bloggers were making their movement and it really put them on the map and I pulled that out of that article and I knew I wanted that exact type of placement and he looks at me and he's totally shocked and he says I wrote that article boom spiritually lined action in full effect the synchronicity of Alan writing that article and then being the author of my article in this beautiful piece the synchronicity is just a great powerful example of what happens when you surrender to the law of manifestation and just start to co-create your reality with the universe and this story is such a great example of how we can effortlessly co-create with the universe when we merge our actions with our inspiration with our faith and take spiritually aligned action and so without even realizing it at the time I'd apply to this specific method into my own life and that Vision became my reality and so today I refer to it as the spiritually aligned action method and when you apply this method to anything in your life in your life anything that you desire you can really just trust that you're co-creating with the universe rather than forcing a vision to become your reality so here's the method I'm going to break it down for you and I'm going to give you the references of how it worked in the story that I shared as well so you can just see the example in full in real time see it right in front of you so the first step is to just take an honest inventory of how you might be forcing something or praying for what you think you need and in what ways are you trying to control your actions and try to force an outcome are you trying there's all kinds of different tactics to turn this romantic partner into someone that they're not or are you pushing to get your work seen on social media oh my God there's so much of that out there and I just you know have a lot of compassion for that that kind of neediness on social media just take a moment to look at all the ways in which your actions are backed with control and fear and lacking faith and I want you to start paying regular attention in your life to how you're controlling these requests to the universe and how that controlling energy might be blocking you from receiving what's of the highest good and once you're much more clear about the ways that you're trying to control situations it becomes time now then for you to redirect your energy and apply that energy to a spiritually aligned action method that's what we want to do to begin really get that honest inventory going next I'm going to have you choose one area of your life that you've been controlling and start to apply the spiritually lied action method to it so that's how you prepare to take spiritually aligned action by really taking that inventory and just noticing the ways that you're blocking and then choosing an area of your life where you've been controlling and just begin to make that the Target make that one area what you want to focus on and that area of your life that you're going to start to really apply this spiritually lined action method and here's the method everybody drum roll please everyone here we go the first step in the spiritually lined action method is to tap into the inspiration behind your desire and to see how that inspiration serves you and the world so I want you to take out your journal and I want you to make a list of all the ways that this desire that you have this action that you want to take how it lights you up and how it also brings a service to others because remember there is service in your joy and as long as it doesn't come at somebody else's expense you taking action on this dream is of service when it brings you Joy but I also want you to tap into all the ways that it inspires you and then it makes you feel good and when you think about taking this action what does that bring forth within you and how is it joyful and how is it bringing more joy and inspiration to the world so let me give you an example in the Allen story of what that meant to me in Step One tapping into the inspiration behind it when I thought oh I want to pitch the New York Times and get this piece in the New York Times the desire was backed with joy service and love because it was backed with this commitment to serving others and waking people up to their spiritual potential it was backed with joy for myself because it would be such a great Catalyst for my career and I wanted nothing more than to continue to grow and it was going to be really joyful for me to witness my manifestation come into form and so I backed up that desire with inspiration Joy service and love the second step is to believe that the universe will deliver bust out your journal and I want you to write clearly what you desire and then surrender it by adding it's this or something better so you can write I want that you know for me it was I want that story in the New York Times but it's this or something better and then I want you to spend some time every day in meditation and align your energy back in with that service and that love that we talked about in the first step feel into it feel yourself connected to the vision of what you desire I want you to feel into the feelings of inspiration the service behind the desire and just hold that vision of yourself fulfilling your desire and all that positive energy that it brings you and brings the world and you can even visualize and see people who are elevated in your presence people who are elevated by the action that you're taking and just let that belief begin to set in meditating on the joy and the service and the inspiration behind your desire starts to help you release the blocks that hold you back from really owning it and accepting it I created a meditation for this in my super attractor meditation album you can go to deargaby.com super attractor if you want to really use the meditation to help you get into that energy of inspiration and service and love it's all inside that album deargaby.com forward slash super attractor and then the third step is to take action from a place of spiritual alignment so as soon as you feel the first two steps in effect then you're gonna really feel that sense of Readiness that was for me so when I meditated and I leaned into that joy and that inspiration of this desire I knew I was ready to pick up the phone and call Alan and I didn't call him from a place of neediness or lack or control I called him from a place of Grace Faith inspiration I was excited to pick up the phone and so as soon as you feel those first two steps in action the belief and the inspiration and the faith then you know you're ready to take that spiritually aligned action and you're going to feel relaxed and you'll feel faithful and confident and then there's also a sure sign that that it's time to take the action and that's when you no longer feel attached to the outcome boom take that one in make sure that you don't take the action unless you're not attached to the outcome Detachment implies faith so feeling the faith behind your desire and just confidently making that move is really really powerful so picking up that phone to call that person that you want to ask out on a date or making that move to send out an email about a job that you want all the things that we sometimes put so much fear behind doing them from that place of spiritual alignment so when we have that sense of Detachment when we feel relaxed faithful inspired we know it's time to take action and then the fourth step this is the step that everybody box at but it's the most important step in the process be patient patience implies that you know what you desire is on the way it implies that it's this or something better it's that you're relaxed and you've released the outcome you release control and you're just trusting that this is something that is possible when you're patient you let the universe do for you what you cannot do for yourself you clear space for the energy of the universe to support you in ways that you couldn't even have imagined and practicing patience is a practice of allowing so when you practice patients you can actually use this prayer I lean into the inspiration of my desires and I know it's enough to Lead Me toward what is of the highest good I Surrender this desire to the universe and I know I'm being guided anything's possible so much more is possible so if you've got a big dream right now you've got something that you want to create take spiritually lined action trust me you'll feel so much joy and grace and inspiration in this process and miracles will unfold if this practice is really moving to you and you want to take it further and you want to practice it with my written word go grab a copy of super attractor and and dive deep into that book because the whole book is about getting in alignment with spirituality and your spiritual connection and your super attractor power so that the actions that you take in life no longer feel like they're blocked but they feel inspired and faithful you can feel like you have invisible angel wings guiding you every step of the way enjoy this process people enjoy this process my friends enjoy this process use it come back to it listen to this episode over and over again as a way to stay connected and really trust me when I say this when you take spiritually aligned action you can know that the Universe has your back if you like this video and you want to get more Gabby check out the next one right over here

Channel: Gabby Bernstein

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Keywords: Gabby Bernstein, Gabrielle Bernstein, Dear Gabby

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Length: 16min 29sec (989 seconds)

Published: Sat Jul 29 2023