LAW OF ATTRACTION Secrets: Become A SUPER ATTRACTOR! | Gabby Bernstein

this experience of having a divine connection to the universe and receiving guidance and receiving messages and receiving wisdom and moving in that way and feeling directed and guided and certain no matter what even when things aren't working out for you you trust that you are in the right direction you're on the right path because you have a certainty and knowing that the universe has your back that's what it means to be a super attractor big show today happy to be with you gabriel [Music] [Applause] [Music] so let's start there let's start there let's tune into the energy of this room let's bring this connection in here now so that we can feel that group connections that we can release the traffic release the day release our agenda close your eyes and take a deep breath in and release and take another deep breath in and release and honor all the feelings that are up for you in this moment now breathe into that space in your body where you feel those feelings and on the exhale let them go calling on the guidance of the highest truth and compassion to enter into this space today to hold us to protect us to guide us and to open us up to what is of the highest good for all what did you breathe that in breathe into that space in your heart that knows there is a gentler softer way breathe into that place of knowing that knowing that got you here tonight breathe into that inner wisdom that has been beckoning you to listen and breathe into that desire that you are so ready to receive take a deep breath in and release when you're ready open your eyes to the room so i dedicated this book to my son oliver [Applause] and as many of you know if you've been reading my books or watching my talks you know that it took me three years to conceive my son and in that time i went through a lot of discomfort i went through a lot of shaming of myself feeling separate alone not good enough why isn't my body working why can't i have this thing that i so long for feeling jealousy every time i'd go on social media and see other women with their babies and their bumps and the whole thing and feeling that separation deeply but even while i felt that separation i also had some wild moments of synchronicity and tremendous guidance along the way the most incredible guidance along the way and that guidance began to really kick up in the fall of 2017. and i live most of the time in the countryside so i do a lot of my manifesting when i'm driving especially when it's this season and the foliage is out and it's just like epic yellow and orange and red and pink and it's just unbelievable colors and i just drive and so i drive up these roads and no one's around and i'm looking to the right and i'm looking to the left and i'm feeling that energy of this beautiful foliage i'm feeling this great greatness and this gratitude and this appreciation for being able to live in a community like this i'm listening to my mantra music and i'm just driving and enjoying and feeling good and feeling good and feeling good when all of a sudden i have this sense that there is a baby in the back seat and i start to feel the presence of a child in the back seat of my car and tears start to well up in my eyes and i start to feel so connected to this experience when all of a sudden i hear this inner voice say to me the baby is coming in march and i was like whoa march okay march is pretty soon i'll take march all right i could do that i start doing the math and looking at my schedule okay march could work for me yes and then i start to really see myself getting into that whole like hook of like oh my god now it's gonna happen now it's gonna happen so i said okay universe you know what universe if this is indeed the path show me a sign and i want you to show me a sign of lilies if this is indeed the path for me so i let go and i allow a week later i get this letter in the mail and the letter has this beautiful angel card inside of it and it's an angel card with an image of archangel gabriel archangel gabriel is typically depicted holding lilies and in this case he was i turn over the card and the reader that had sent me this gift it was it was a lovely spirit junkie out there sent me this gift and he said i don't know why gabby but i thought this was for you i was like yeah man it is thank you i got some lilies okay and then i continue on and i'm getting closer to march and i'm feeling march coming around and i'm like march march my baby's coming in march right feeling it and march rolls around and it's early march and i'm not pregnant and so here i was again really in that desperation in that sadness in that discomfort in that shame and it was worse this time because this time i was really relying on the universe and i believed that i was being guided so i sat at my husband's lap in his office and i started crying in his arms and just really just let it out just let it all out and just kept saying why isn't it happening why can't we have a baby what's wrong with me when all of a sudden my phone that was sitting on his desk starts playing a song out of nowhere and you know when your electronics do weird things and you just like grab them really whatever you just turn it off and you're like that's weird so i went to go turn off the phone when i look closer and i start to hear the lyrics of the song [Music] i look even closer and i look at the name of the song and the name of the song is way go lily and the singer keeps repeating it way go lily over and over and over i look even further and i look at the phone and i notice that the album title is called i see the sign you can't make this up people you can't make it up so i'm like okay universe thank you thank you i got the message at which point i stopped crying and i started letting tears of joy move through me and i said okay you know what zack let's let this go universe i let this go whatever timing it is i know i'm being guided i feel that guidance so closely just show me what you got rolls around and i was pregnant [Applause] and then i did the math and i started to figure out when did what day did i conceive i conceived the last day of march this experience of having a divine connection to the universe and receiving guidance and receiving messages and receiving wisdom and moving in that way and feeling directed and guided and certain no matter what even when things aren't working out for you you trust that you are in the right direction you're on the right path because you have a certainty and knowing that the universe has your back that's what it means to be a super attractor and a lot of people you know i've been doing all these interviews and every time i sit down for an interview somebody's like what does it mean to be a super attractor and i respond by saying it means that you're committed to feeling good and the next question they asked me is why did you write this book and i say because i wanted to feel good and it felt so good to write this book i wrote this book while i was pregnant with my son and i was birthing this human and this book at the same time it was epic and i just had this amazing experience and this momentum and this energy and i know that you can feel it who's reading the book who's got the book somebody even wrote to me on instagram they were like i can feel like i'm surrounded by your womb and i was like you know you kind of are because that's the energy i was in when i wrote this and so we we have these moments in our life where we're just ready to feel good but as we know we all experience a lot of suffering we all experience suffering we all have very difficult things that happen in life we have addictions we have health issues we have financial struggles we have depression we have stuff and that is real but when we make the commitment to lean into feeling good we can even be going through those dark times and still have fun along the way and so that's what we're here to talk about tonight and remind ourselves that it's good to feel good are you with me on that it's good to feel good it's good to feel good take that in and own that and feel that and make that your mantra and repeat it and repeat it and believe it and the thing is guys we're all super attractors every one of us in this room every being in the world is a super attractor but many of us just forgot and so when we forget that we're a super tractor we're pretty much doing all the things that are the opposite of being in alignment with our super attractor energy and we block it and i actually did this thing where i surveyed my instagram audience and i asked them how many of you feel as though you're blocking your manifesting power 96 said yes who in this room feels like you're blocking your manifesting power yeah i can kind of see you yes everybody's hands are up okay thank you so if you feel that feeling if you're blocking your manifesting power let's begin by calling that out and getting super clear about what's up okay what is up with that there's one big way that we block our manifesting power particularly those of us in these spiritual rooms and this is what i call the manic manifester and you're going to know right away if this is you this is the person who is like oh my god gabby i'm reading all the books and i'm like doing all the meditations and i'm like doing kundalini and like i'm like like montrose mantras mantras and i'm like feeling really good but like just i'm just not attracting what i want do you know who you are i can only see the front row but there were some honest people here yes okay good so that manic energy like is that sexy like no absolutely not it's not sexy it's not it's not drawing you towards it it's deflecting you so it's the same way we're deflecting the the love and the support of the universe when we're in that manic state of having to make it happen and forcing it to happen and trying to control the circumstances that's that manic state that keeps us stuck okay so we're gonna work on that tonight okay and then there's the pusher the pusher is the person who believes that if i don't make it happen it will never happen pushers in the house yeah yeah yeah if i'm not forcing it into being then it will not be this is the opposite of a super attractor energy this is an energy that is forceful that is pushy that is that is frantic that is chaotic that's probably making lots of mistakes and forcing enforcing and trying to make it happen and also this is an energy of someone who feels very alone because they don't recognize that there is support around them and they don't allow that support into their life and i know this intimately because i am a former pusher not anymore now i'm a chiller then there's a big one which is the judger i wrote a book for you when we're judging and comparing and separating ourselves from others ultimately what we're doing is turning our back on the universe turning our back on god turning our back on the real real truth which is that we are interconnected that we are love and whenever we're judging we're just judging somebody because we are not recognizing a disowned part of our own shadow so in that place of judgment we feel what guys what do you feel what do you feel guilt lonely shame separation low energy sad uncomfortable that energy of separation low vibe guilt that doesn't feel good right and we now know that being a super attractor means that we are devoted to feeling good and in that place of not feeling good we are deflecting our super attractor power everybody with me if you is in the house raise your hands judgment detox i wrote it for you may want to even read it before you read this one and then the final one is fear and this is in all the ways we block but this is some of the biggest ways and fear i mean everybody in this room is is holding on to fear of some kind fear uncertainty ways that we stay small not feeling good enough feeling feeling like fear in many cases is just running the show running the show running the show and so we have to begin to undo our relationship with fear tonight and through the journey of this book so that we can reframe that fear one step at a time and we're going to begin right now to reframe undo and establish a new pattern instead of the pattern of fear are you ready for that this is the most important step throughout the book and it comes up throughout the book many times and it's a method called the choose again method and this is a method that allows you to be in this constant dialogue with your fear with your negativity but not in a bad way in a really valuable important and life-transforming way so the the first step is going to require that you start to pay attention to the negative thoughts and the ones that you particularly have on repeat you all know what they are don't pretend like you don't so starting to first step noticing that that fear-based thought is there and then noticing how it makes you feel then the second step is to forgive yourself for having the thought and this is a big one because often we when we forgive ourselves for having that fearful thought what we do is we recognize that we are not that story we are not that thought the forgiveness dissolves the thought you can also just forgive the thought altogether if you're feeling like i don't even i can't forgive myself i'm not there yet gabby forgive the thought just forgive the thought altogether i hope you're enjoying this show and if you want to get more gabby you can click the link below subscribe to my dear gabby podcast on apple be the first to know when the episodes drop because they come out one week before the video and you can download it to your phone listen to it while you're driving while you're cooking while you're working out you can just get more gabby wherever you are and if you feel called leave a review i'd love to hear from you now let's get back to this episode then the third step is to choose again choosing again is a is a simple step but it is quite profound and it requires our commitment and our desire to feel better and when we choose again what's simply happening is we're reaching for the next best feeling thought and this is a really important message that i learned from abraham hicks who i mentioned 23 times in this book and i'm so grateful for their beautiful work that has inspired so much of this book yep choose again reach for that next best feeling thought and then once you feel a little bit better reach for another next best feeling thought and then when you feel a little bit better reach for the next best feeling thought just backstage i'm like wow i really booked myself so seriously this week and i'm feeling like you know whoa tonight and then tomorrow all day tomorrow and then on a plane and then i go to a talk that night you know and i was like what did i do and i started getting really in it and just upset about it and then i was like slow down sister step one notice the thought and feel it how does it make me feel makes me feel depleted and tired and already just to completely disconnected so i forgave the thought and stepped to you and most importantly forgave myself for going back into the old pattern and said okay we did it again let's just relax and then i chose again and i said gabby you have 1400 people coming to see you tonight in los angeles and they're so pumped to hear what you have to say you are blessed woman and you have an opportunity to serve and you have an opportunity to feel lit up by the work that you know is true and the work that healed you and how it be a transmission for this group tonight and tomorrow you have amazing opportunities ahead of you so i keep reaching reaching see what i'm reaching and you have amazing opportunities ahead of you and don't complain about having opportunity and you know what if you need to take a nap you'll take a nap in the uber and you'll get a clean uber so that you can really nap without it smelling bad you with me people you see how i just reached my way out and i had to do that in order to come out here tonight and not feel depleted and not feel down just be present and be fully present with you so we can get into the habit of choosing again choosing again choosing again when we get the q a tonight i might offer it up to workshop with one person to choose again with you and what happens when we start to choose again is we start to feel more synchronicity in our life we start to feel better we start to notice our super attractor power amp up we start to feel guided and we start to feel more connected and i really decided this time around to push the metaphysical envelope with this book you're ready for it i mean i'm in l.a everybody's like yes [Applause] by the way if anybody's been watching my instagram story i've been like really going full la since i've been here like getting ivs like sent to my door and like you know like like going to like erawan 95 times and you know i was literally even like staging myself outside with palo santo and i was like i am in l.a so you know when in rome right so so we have we have these these moments of synchronicity and connection and guidance and so in this book i pushed the metaphysical envelope and i made a decision to write about things that i've never really spoken too much publicly about and i decided to write about what it means to me to have angel guides and spirit guides and family members that are guides and ancestors and beings of light that are there to support me but what i also hope somebody in the front is going like this that's awesome and so what i also decided to to really share with the reader was that this doesn't have to be your way it doesn't have to be my way so if you don't believe in a spiritual guide but you can believe that you have a higher self or a voice of inspiration or intuition it can be the same so bear with me and take what you want from this but a really beautiful example of of connecting to spirit and allowing spirit to guide you is an example of my grammy my grammy fritzy fritzy my grammy was the most fiery woman much like myself she was very petite and she was very loud much like myself and she just had a lot of fun and she was very very smart and she was very connected and she was really really with it all the way through into her 90s and grammy and i we would have a lot of fun together i would go visit grammy in florida and i would wear these little nightgowns with her we would get in bed in her nightgowns that she got from china when she was on her honeymoon and they were like these really sweet little china nightgowns and we would get into the bed and we would watch television and drink orange juice with ice in it and we were just super into it and we had fun together and we loved each other and then in my grandmother's early 90s she started to get very frail as anyone could imagine and she had a really really clear mind though and one day she fell and we know what happens when an elderly person falls she broke her shoulder in this case and my mother and i were faced with two choices and this major decision for this part of her life is she going to live on medication and not do anything and just be medicated all the time or is she going to have a surgery and potentially be medicated all the time and my mom and i were really struggling to make this decision and what's going on for about two weeks of how are we going to help her what are we going to do talking to doctors trying to make the most educated decision we could and then around that time that we were trying to figure this out i had to go teach uh my spirit drunky master class any master class students in the house yeah i hear you i feel you in the room so i was going to teach my spirit junkie master class level two which is a six day training and i felt like okay you know i got to show up for this even though this is going on with grammy and i was getting my bags together to leave to get in the car and my team was with me and i put all my bags together and then all of a sudden i said to them as we were about to go walk into the car i said guys hang on a second i feel like i need to go meditate just give me ten so i walked away and i went into my bedroom and i sat in this little velvet chair where i would meditate and i just felt this deep rush of love come over me and i felt my arms just raise up to the sky and my arms were up in the air up in the sky up in the sky and i kept feeling this energy moving from my chest and this white light just energetically coming off of me and going upwards and by then my head tilted backwards i just felt that i was sending something off and facilitating something and i felt so calm and at ease and purposeful and i just let my hands drop and came out of my meditation when i felt complete i walked into the living room and the phone rang it was my mom my mom was crying on the other end of the phone grammy just left her body and i said i know because i helped her i knew that i was letting something go i knew i was helping facilitate someone leave and at that point i was like okay all right mom i'm happy for her i'm happy for her because now she can be free now she's in the healthiest safest place that she could be and then i said to my mom okay i got to go because i got to get in the car and go teach this training so let me figure this out so i said to my grammy listen grammy i'm going to mourn you when i have space to do this but in the meantime can you please show me a sign that you are okay show me a sign that you got there it's like okay show me your sign i went and i did my training i had a beautiful week i felt my grandmother around me it was really connected it felt so beautiful and then i uh left the training on a friday and drove about a half hour from there to my friend zoe's house as i was heading back home because she was on the way and i sat down in zoe's kitchen with zoe and my other friend jenny and zoey kept saying to me gabby i have this new oracle deck and you have to pick a card you have to pick a card and i was like zoe you know i'm texting zach i'm just trying to get an idea of what he wants me to bring home for dinner and i'm trying to coordinate with him like leave me alone and she kept saying but pick a card gabby pick a card gabby and i kept saying one minute i'm on the phone and so jenny says i'll pick a card for gabby so she puts her hand on the deck and she pulls this card and her face goes white she turns the card around the card had an image of an elderly woman crossing a bridge the caption said grandmother ensures safe crossing you can't make it up you can't make it up and and so this is how spirit guides a spirit is loud and clear if it's an angel if it's if it's a guide if it's a deceased family member and i have countless stories in the book in this particular chapter about how we can connect to this guidance countless stories of the synchronicity in this guidance and that guidance is available to all of us in whatever form we believe in and it's when we allow that guidance to start to enter into our life that we feel as though we are being led and we don't feel alone anymore you want that i know if you like this video and you want to get more gabby check out the next one right over here

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Published: Mon Jul 26 2021