The Man That Makes Millionaires: How To Turn $1,000 Into $100 Million!: Alex Hormozi | E235

I'm gonna say some stuff that's going to bother some people people who are listening to this and are not making as much money as they want they have to Mr Alex from Ozzy 100 million dollar man entrepreneur investor and philanthropist taking the Internet by storm this guy really really does understand how to build a business I was 22. I had done everything that my dad had wanted me to do and I was looking out from the condo that I had been able to buy with this job that I had and um I always hoped I wouldn't wake up the next day I cherish the fact that it was so miserable that it got me to change pain motivates significantly faster and stronger than pleasure does if you are angry use it if you are sad use it or it uses you I didn't know whether I would succeed but I did know I wasn't going to stop right around that point is when I met my wife and then she just changed my life how did she change it like [Music] didn't think we're gonna go here um she just She Believes In Me she stood tall when everything in my life was crumbling around me I was like dead broke in her parents house and I was like I I think you should leave me she pulled my chin towards her and she was like I would sleep with you under a bridge if it came to that six months later I have three million dollars in the bank account all of that was the first nine months of our relationship for her to have that kind of belief was was vario it was deep for me and I think that's what most guys want truly what makes a really good entrepreneur slash leader I'll answer this differently than I have in the past and I'm going to tell a story that hopefully people don't take the wrong way but I had a cat before this episode starts I have a small favor to ask from you two months ago 74 of people that watch this channel didn't subscribe we're now down to 69 my goal is 50 so if you've ever liked any of the videos we've posted if you like this channel can you do me a quick favor and hit the Subscribe button it helps this channel more than you know and the bigger the channel gets as you've seen the bigger the guests get thank you and enjoy this episode [Music] I spend several hours consuming all of your content across multiple channels what is the AIM what is the mission what is the the intent if you were to try and summarize the content you're producing and the value you're trying to add and to who are you trying to add it to make business accessible for everyone that was the mission of the company and so our whole idea was we'll put everything out there uh for free so no pay walls so there's like we have courses on the side the books I have for 99 cents um so that anyone can get them and you know we'll continue to produce as much as we can and we share the learnings that we have from our portfolio companies in order to keep the stuff that we are putting out there relevant new fresh Cutting Edge because this is what's working today and by doing that it also brings other companies to us because they get value from the stuff and our goal is always to hopefully provide more value to a company before they've ever spoken to us like kind of pay for ourselves in advance is kind of like the thought process even though we're buying in um and that's that was kind of the thesis when we started it I didn't know if it was going to work but it seems to have gone pretty well uh and it was just kind of just like if we just give and keep giving and keep giving we just focus on the value and delivering to the audience um it'll come back eventually what are you giving them and who are you giving it to entrepreneurs at all stages we've surveyed the audience 25 of the audience has a business 75 does not have a business but wants to start a business and so that's just kind of overall um and then within that 25 it just kind of categories all the way up to you know businesses doing 100 million plus a year and so it's everyone and so we try and are one of the things that we talk about is like going wide and deep it's like how can we figure something that is relevant to somebody who's you know launching their first product and also make it accessible or interesting to somebody who's launching a new product line within a division of their conglomerate right and just trying to think about both people at the same time which becomes more challenging but it's also kind of fun kind of like a funnel isn't it in some respects um that's exactly what I saw from your content Europe you're making great content that's helping people that are at the start of their Journey or you know 100 employees deep into their Journey trying to figure out how to scale you're making content that's bringing down some of the barriers where the psychological or practical to enable them to reach whatever dream they have let's go way Upstream then what do I need to know about you to understand the life you've LED take me way back to your childhood in the early context both parents are immigrants to the U.S uh mother was born in France came here but father was born in Iran they met in medical school in Europe and then my mother brought him back with her to the US and then uh they had me and they split my mom had a lot of demons she had a lot of things she struggled with when I was coming up so I pretty much was raised by my dad I had no siblings it was just me and my dad for until I was about 15. um he got remarried it was a short stint in terms of how long I was like kind of in the house you know like right at that stage is when you can drive and I was kind of on my own almost at that point as soon as I could work and drive I was kind of out of the house and then from there did the thing that most people try and do which is uh I I worked hard at school mostly because I just didn't want my dad to be upset with me which was uh the main driver for most of my achievement in my career for the first half was all just trying to gain his approval did all the things that I thought he would want me to uh got a job at a Government Contracting consulting firm uh defense Contracting it was space cyber and ISR so it's intelligence surveillance and reconnaissance for the military sounded really cool was less cool when you were in it and I was very very sad at that point in my life and so it was very much like I didn't I always hoped I wouldn't wake up the next day um truly you really mean that a hundred percent 100 because I remember when I was looking at um because a lot of people have like rock top moments sorry Rock Bottom moments I think I had more of a rock top moment which was um I was 22. I had done everything that my dad had wanted me to do at this point I was looking out from the condo that I had been able to buy with this job that I had and um I was like is this it in the whole time I just really didn't enjoy my life um and it was just you know not wanting to wake up and it was the the decision to leave Baltimore which is where I was from to quit that path to decide to start a business of my own was still to this day the hardest thing I've ever done by far all the things we've been through to build what we have the hardest decision was taking the leap for me and it was because like I knew that my dad so much wanted me to do what I was doing because he was so happy that I was doing everything he wanted me to do at that point and I had told him over and over again that I wanted to do this other stuff and he's like yeah yeah like later you know later um and so I knew that it would probably put a big dent in our relationship if I left but for me it was actually confronting the fact that I didn't want to be alive anymore which was the thing that gave me enough courage or whatever you want to call it to actually make the decision to leave home and so I started driving across the country I mean it took me six months to do this like when I between when I decided I really wanted to do this and when I actually did it took me six months and I called him when I was like halfway across the United States and I was like I'm going to California I'm gonna open a gym I'm gonna get into fitness and he was like why are you so extreme and you like lost it and then we didn't really talk much for a long time when you started realizing that your life um was one where you didn't want to wake up in the morning when you had that job in management consultancy did you experience suicidal ideation is that what you were saying when you say I don't I didn't want to wake up into my life every day it was never like I've never had a like this is how I'd kill myself nope never had that I just always like the idea that I could not wake up the next day sounded good when you look back in hindsight from that moment backwards what are the series of decisions or the the things that led you to find yourself in the position and I asked that because there's a lot of people that can probably relate and and there's probably quite a consistent set of frog pads or stones that one has walking down for whatever reason that leads you to a position where you go what the [ __ ] whose life is this I think they're like the one line summary for me was that like I felt like I had to let my dad's dream die from mine to live and I felt like my entire life it had always up to that point had been like go to the school do these studies I mean it's it's a common thing like it's not like I had something that a lot of people don't have many people and to be fair I'm very grateful for the skills discipline Etc that that instilled in me um because I think you you you have the the hard hand of an authoritarian parent when you're growing up and it teaches you a lot of skills and then you know the flip side is if you have a very less Affair parent like you never learn those skills which then benefit you later so you know who knows um but for me uh I knew that he just wanted me to be a doctor that's what he was that would have been his dream I went to school as pre-med um and then I I it was like even changing my degree from pre-med to just a business degree was like a huge deal um but he was okay with that as long as I followed like the business path and so when I did my two years of consulting which is kind of the typical like two to four years you do Consulting and then you apply to go to Business School um when I was going through that process I was answering the question for like the Harvard MBA and it was like how will Harvard MBA help your short and long-term goals and I sat there for like two days trying to answer the question and I was like it just isn't I want to start a business and so that was when I kept trying to you know start that conversation with my dad and it just wasn't really happening um and so that's what that was kind of the breaking point for me was like I just felt terrible about my life and I didn't didn't like the way it was going and I for me it was such a key point because the biggest line of reasoning I had for myself in order to convince myself to confront my father or at least disappoint my father or the version of myself that he wanted me to be was to say that like I have to be comfortable dying in his eyes and a lot of people like and many people might think that was hyperbole but for me it was very true like I I knew that I would die in his eyes and I did um to give you context so I had the gyms and I opened up multiple after that got to about six locations sold those started a gym turnaround business did that for two years um all the while we weren't really in you know we were like okay in touch um and then we started the licensing business which is gym launch and that's the one that like really took off and we hadn't been super in touch and I got a call out of the blue and he wasn't like a cold call you know I mean I was like this is weird so I pick up the phone and he's like you're going to want to sit down for this and I was like okay uh what's up I was thinking like cancer you know I mean I'm just like what what is it going to be he's like I'm sorry and I was like for what he was like you know everything I was like okay and I was very angry though because I mean this is what I told him so I was like I was like you know that point when people like get on stage and they accept the awards and mind you at this point I think we're doing we're probably taking home one and a half million a month you know what I mean and take home like personal income from the license it was a decent sign like is it I'm not you know conglomerate like probably what is decent sized business and I was like you know when people get on stage and they accept awards for things I was like the first thing they always say is like hey I just think my mom and dad for always believing in me and I was like I'm not gonna say that I was like because you did it I was like you're only saying this now once everyone believed because it's not belief anymore it's fact it's evidence I was like so you're I was like this apology means nothing to me and besides that I stopped caring what you thought six years ago which is why I left and so I had like that's like I I could have just accepted it and I I didn't do that um how did you feel about that I probably like today I probably would have said thanks I appreciate it I know where he was trying I he was trying to extend an olive branch um and I just wasn't there I was still seething I was still very angry that I had not gotten any support during that process and maybe that was very woe as me um but I was still very angry at that point and you know to give also a little bit of context you know his response to that was like well we'll see how long it lasts you're joking no so like my father not like he is a very strong personality and so do I and we both think we're right are you angry about it now honestly no I mean like I think I can still feel the emotions but I feel like I've you know thought about it enough to say that I can logically say I think he absolutely did the best he could with what he had he's a single dad another country raising a kid trying to get that kid to fit in and do the things that like one of the things that I think my dad always wanted me to be able to do is like because he's darker skin than I am he's a middle eastern um he always wanted me to like have access to like the back rooms were like deals were made that he felt like he wasn't a part of and so he just wanted me to have that and so I think he just drove me as much as he could to to get that it's just like when you're on the other side of it like all you feel is never succeeding but I can appreciate it now in retrospect um but it definitely was still it hardened me a lot but that hardness I think has benefited me a lot in business I had someone in the podcast say a quote which I've never managed to forget they said you've got to realize that everybody you encounter everybody that does you wrong if you were them and you had been through what they've been through and you had their brain you'd be doing the exact same thing yeah and it sounds it's obvious on one hand but it's also very kind of Illuminating that think about the person that's wrong you the most if you've been through their shoes and you had their genetics you'd be doing the exact same thing doesn't mean you have to let them off but at least it invokes some empathy have you heard um you cannot both hate and understand someone at the same time true like if you truly understand someone then you can't hate them because you understand why like a lot of times I hate us from the unknown and not like because you hates because I mean you almost say you're like how could like it's it's literally a statement of not understanding um like how could you if you understood then you would know how and that resentment is a byproduct of just not understanding as well I'm just thinking about resentment that I've had in my life when I think someone's wrong me that sense of Injustice you're right how could yeah how dare you did you ever manage to get your fuel to burn less dirty are you burning less dirty now yeah I think so you think so yeah I think so I might my team tells me um that that's true and if you look at like because I do have some older videos that I made from like you know years ago um and there's definitely a different vibe I'm I'm significantly friendlier than I was then um I mean even the way I interacted with customers and you know the team was like purely fear-driven like I was absolutely because I didn't understand influence as well yet um so only only the stick I had was like if I if people are afraid of me then they will immediately comply and it's effective for short durations but not for long durations um and but I didn't know any better at the time and then I slowed yeah that's when I you know right around that point is when I met my wife and then she just you know changed my life um and she started running all the businesses and I'd see her and everyone left her and I was like man do more more of that stuff and less of my stuff she changed her life oh yeah for sure or not I mean she's like the best how did she change you she has brought out the absolute best in me like in in just about every way like didn't think we're gonna go here um she just She Believes In Me and I think that's what most guys want truly at least for me that's what I want or needed I'll tell you a story to illustrate it so we met talk for four hours on the first date only about business because that's all I wanted to talk about and I pitched your own working for me I was like quit your job work for me and she was like I just met you logically makes sense she was a personal trainer I had a bunch of gyms and I was like if you're this good you should totally work for me she's like well let's you know let's see how this goes um and so I had this idea for the turnaround business and it was right as I had five five locations at that point and I wanted to try this thing out so I flew out did three turnarounds flew back and they started working and then um I sold all my gems because it was like okay this this makes even more money I took all the money and put it into uh this gym that one of the guys I was doing a turnaround with was like dude you just crushed this like I'm a really good operator instead of turning his gyms around and walking away with just the money he's like you should just keep owning them and I'll just fill up fill them up behind you so I could I could launch one two three gyms a month and then own them all he's like you're leaving so much money on the table it's like okay so we did this first launch I put all the money in he's like of course he had financial difficulties and I had to personally get the you know personally guarantee the least normal stuff um and so I crushed this launch and then I wake up one morning and check the bank account and uh it's completely empty and I was like what's happening so I called him up and he was like well I know you're you're skimming from the business and it was like what he's like I know you're I know you're you're skipping me I was like I'm I'm we just what no um he's like well that was my half uh and so I was like what is happening so I printed all the bank the bank statements I went line by line I was like let me I'll I'll walk you through all the bank statements let's just let's get to the bottom of this and remember we sat in the meeting and he was like I need to see that he push it off the table and I was like oh okay I immediately was like oh he I just got [ __ ] and he'd already been indicted for fraud um and I knew this getting into business with him and it was just a big misunderstanding and you know the saying goes like uh when experience meets money money gets the experience and Spirits gets money um very much lived that and so after I had all my gyms I sold them put all the money in this thing and then they all got taken um and so I had nothing and um Layla's with me at this point for this like this exciting period so I was like okay she's like hey you know maybe we should keep doing these turnarounds instead of this weird launch and go thing you side sidelined for I was like okay we'll do that and so I was going to launch a gym the next month um and there was a guy who's local to that gym and since I was refocusing I was like all right I'm gonna build all the infrastructure I'll send the sales guy up to do this thing and uh he crushed the launch did like 120 000 which for us was a big launch um in like three days in three weeks and so now I'm at Layla's parents house because uh like we don't really have a house at this point um and I'm the guy that she met from the internet that you quit her job for uh who just lost everything and uh I was I needed this 100 Grand to come in from this launch so that I could recapitalize and the money wasn't hitting I was checking the bank account I was like where's this money like I could see the processing the transactions and it was all successful what's going on so I called the processor up and I was like what's up and they uh they said it's a routine check I was like I told you guys six years it's never been a routine checking they were like call again later and I was like okay so I call about the next day next day nothing and then finally it was Christmas Eve and I owed this guy money for the commissions from the sales and I was like I will not get off this phone until you send me the money that I mowed and uh to the payment process and they were like long story short uh you were doing stuff in different locations and I was running this all through a local gym business even though I was all over the nation and they were like this is a little irregular we're just going to hold on to this for six months [ __ ] right now I owe the guy twenty two thousand dollars in commissions I in total now had twenty three thousand dollars so I wired him the money and I had a thousand dollars left and it was December of 2016. and I was like I screenshot it because I still have the screenshot on my bank account so I went from like six gyms turn around business all the stuff to one thousand dollars I was like this sucks and Layla had just got six of her friends to quit their job to come do this turnaround business with me and they were starting two days later from the 24th so the 26th of December because I plan on getting this 100 Grand in and then being able to launch six gyms because they took about you know whatever uh it was 3 300 a day in cost to have six guys out there in the field selling 3300 a day that I did not have and so I saw a credit card that hundred thousand dollar limit on it um and so I'm at her parents house like in in an extra bedroom I haven't lost everything and my one Hail Mary play of this launch the money did not come through and I was like I I think you should leave me um I I think I'm a a sinking ship right now and I would respect you like we're cool if you want to walk away like we're good like I won't think less of you like I would walk away from you right now because this could this has a very high likelihood of not going right and um she pulled my chin towards her and she was like I would sleep with you under a bridge if it came to that and it's hard to comprehend but like I had nothing you know like for her to have that kind of belief was was vario it was deep for me so it was like [ __ ] it let's go you know I mean and so then we we launched the gyms doing 3 300 a day and uh mind you I had no way to process money still so I'm collecting 60 to 80 contracts a day that I can't process and so we're getting calls from customers like hey why haven't you run my car why haven't you run my card I'm calling all these processors to be like hey can you please as soon as you get shut down from a processor it's like a black mark it's like going bankrupt for credit cards um they're like oh no something's weird we they just won't if other people they can process the money for finally I get like a higher risk processor that does like porn and casinos and stuff to like give me and they were like yeah so it's gonna be like eight percent processing and we're gonna hold ten percent as like Safeguard and I was like Jesus okay yes and they're like and we can only give you fifty thousand dollars is your limit and I was like I was like I need like 200. he's like well and I got this on the 29th of January so this whole time 3300 today is running on this card and I have no money and I have no way to process it and 29th of January I can run 50 Grand I run 50 Grand in a day and he's like but it's by month he's like so February 1st you can run another 50. so February 1st I run another 50. that hundred covers my cost from the month before and then I get two more processors for 50. boom boom run those and then like I got a third one or fourth one like two weeks later and I was able to like start moving things around um and at the end of February uh we had made like a thirty thousand dollar profit and um I was like okay I think we might be out of this the next month we did a little bit more and I was like okay I think this is working and then all of a sudden Layla tashed me on the shoulder road morning and she's like she like turns her laptop towards me and it's our bank account and has all these negative transactions like hundreds of them and I was like what's going on she's like well all these clients are calling me saying that the gym that we did this launch at a month and a half ago the guy got in his chair and was like hey there's too many of you here like just go home just refund because I was the one who held the money they had to do the delivery that was the model it's like I would fill a gym up I would sell I'd keep the money and then they deliver on the services and after that they could keep the customers that was kind of like the setup and then another gym the next week said hey this guy made 100 grand out of my gym the average gym owner makes 36 000 a year take home he's like this kid from the internet took 100 grand out in a month screw that kid and so he told all the customers who were there after we had left hey I'll keep believing your thing refund him just pay me half what you paid him out right it was a flawed model like I didn't understand like I didn't get it at that point and so we had 150 000 in refunds that I had to hover and I had no way of doing it why do you like Layla's like we're gonna do this I believe in you and so I'm like I'm like I can't sleep I remember because what would happen is like the more we sold the more the refund like it was a vicious cycle so I had to sell more to cover the refunds from the ones that were coming in and so our sales were going up and it was just like I just I couldn't breathe and I was just I would wake up at night anyways and so I'm like writing on these ideas of like what I think I could do we had eight launches that were supposed to launch next month so I said hey Layla you have this little weight loss business because she had her personal training business she converted her on her in-person class online during this whole process so she was making like three or four thousand dollars a month and mostly because like I'm not stable I'm like making all this big money and losing it all and making it and losing and she's just like paying groceries and actually like making sure that I can eat and I was like tell me more about that I was like what's your overhead how much time does it take you and then blah blah I was like we're gonna we're gonna do your thing we're gonna we're gonna call it Queen transformation I'm gonna start running ads for it and we're gonna take the sales team and we're gonna put it on your thing and So within 14 days she starts taking the phone calls because she was a good salesman um she's doing a thousand bucks a day online no no all margin what's a product it was at 16 week like weight loss program online yeah online exactly and so it was 500 bucks she was selling two of them a day and so I was like man if we get to eight guys going we'll have eight thousand a day 240 after ad spend I was like I can make 150 in profit and like we'll be in the clear so I called the eight guys that were supposed to launch the next month the the gyms so I get on the phone with the first guy and I was like Hey we're going another Direction you know we're gonna we're gonna be a weight loss Company still direct to consumer and he was like dude you launched my buddy's Gym like two months ago and like he he can't stop talking about you it's like it's packed um because there are other gyms that everything went fine with just the ones that didn't is the ones that crushed the business he's like I know you can do it um and I just refinanced my house and I maxed out my credit cards to to make this gym happen and I I'm gonna lose it and given what I had been through up to this point I was like that's tough man like um sorry about that and then finally he was like can you okay instead of flying can you just show me what you did to help my buddy out can you just give me like the system and since I was like I'm gonna get out of this gym business I was okay like selling my secrets and so I was like all right man I'll I'll give you everything I have but I'm not gonna fly out there to save your ass if you can't sell he said no no it's fine and so I picked up the highest number I could think of because he already told me he was broke so I figured I could just get him off the phone so we could move on and I said six thousand dollars and he was like six grand I was like yeah he was like oh done I remember like looking at the phone and being like holy [ __ ] six thousand dollars and I was like oh what card do you want to use for that wrote like a cardboard box and then the next call had the same thing and I was like well shoot I have to make this thing now and I was like same conversation he's like how much I was like eight grand and he was like yeah okay and I each of the calls I was like next call same thing 10 grand next call same thing 12 Grand and then the next you know the end of the day I sold 60 000 in in licensing packages for all of the stuff that we did to do the turnarounds is that monthly or is that just I didn't even have any I was just like I'm just giving you everything I do yeah it it became more comfortable like more uh it became a recurring model over time but it was a PDF it was actually on my internal stuff so it was like what I used to train my sales teams that would fly out and like what I would use to train them on how to do the nutritional orientation like it was all the internal stuff the only thing I actually made external was I had to create the uh the advertising material so I had to basically make a white label landing page for the gyms that they could put their logo on and then I gave I license them the ads themselves that we already knew to convert it right so like the videos the copy everything they used like videos of me that we knew converted and I taught them how to run them and then that's that's what it did it and uh we made sixty thousand dollars in a day and I like Layla came in from doing her 2 sales for weight loss and I was like I think we're still in the gym business and she was like what I thought we were doing weight loss like you just told me you sold me on weight loss being like the next thing I was like I just I just think we were doing it wrong and so I explained what had happened and she's like so is this what we're gonna do now and I was like I guess I was like I can call the other 30 gyms that we did the turnarounds for I was like they know we can do it because we just did it for them and so I called all those guys up and we did like 300 000 and sales that month and it was basically all profit and I covered the refunds and I covered everything and we were like in the clear and then and then it was just and then all those gyms that we did that we sold the average gym did uh thirty thousand dollars in extra cash collected in their first month using our our system and so the key was that like if they didn't have to pay the overhead of the sales guy who's there every day at the hotel the commission for that guy like the rental car the deal like all the stuff that you have to incentivize and just like rent it out of their own gym and work the leads themselves it became incredibly profitable uh for them and um and then it just took off like wildfire like we went from like our first full 12 months of uh like January to January uh we did 26 million Top Line 17 million in ebitda our first 12 months like it was it was insane like it's hard to comprehend that like I like that was the the moment I had been like dead broke in her parents house and then like six months later I have three million dollars in the bank account and then like 12 months after that I've got like 20 million it was it was insane and um I didn't even know how you could pay taxes like I didn't I was like I was figuring all this stuff out but through that whole thing Layla was just like you can do this like we can do this like we've got this um and I think sometimes you just need one voice behind you that just just keeps believing what happened then so that's 2016. um you turn things around over the next couple of years what happens you know leading up to where we are today in terms of your business can you give me a Top Line summary in terms of what yeah I'll give you the tldr um continue to grow gym launch uh two years later we started a sub one company called Prestige labs at this point we had thousands of gym owners that had licensed the business model and the ads and all the stuff that we were doing and so we sold through that distribution base that company grew pretty good pretty big pretty quickly um a year after that we started a software company that also helped gyms get leads in the doors just like an automated lead thing and then um 2021 [Music] we sold all three of those companies uh the supplement and the licensing company we sold to American Pacific group which is a private Equity Firm out of San Francisco for uh 46.2 million for uh we sold two-thirds of the company and then the software company we actually sold to a strategic buyer who had like a massive base and we had a better monetization system than they did um and that was an all-stock deal um so we're just it's continuing to grow under their umbrella and they'll probably sell them four or five years um but from that and what we had taken in dividends um during the licensing business for the five years that it was still is rocking and rolling we started acquisition.com so that became kind of our family office and so we started our first Investments I think first event since we did was in 2020 so there is some overlap there and part of the reason that I was willing to sell it was because the Investments the first three or four Investments we did did really well um and I was like okay this is what I want to do is the next thing so that you know I didn't want to be the gym guy for the rest of my life um because I had been you know at this point had been I think more than a decade um that I'd been from like sleeping on the gym floor to having multiple occasions to doing the turnaround business to doing the licensing like I'd been in that game for a long time and I think that maybe I could have stayed there and could have just continued to compound it and start doing Acquisitions under that Fitness umbrella but I wanted to do more General business stuff and so that was uh that's what we did and so uh now we now we buy chunks of companies usually uh usually minority Stakes 25 to 49ish percent I mean we have one that we're in the talks of that we were originally minority stake in and we're gonna take majority because it's been a great company and they want to the founder in the same position as I was like just wants to do other stuff and it's a great business um and so but that's kind of how we see it as like growth Partners um we come in we write a check we add value we help grow the business what are you brilliant at you know you kind of you kind of come to learn what you're good at based on comparison but you kind of understand your area of expertise what is your area of Brilliance or expertise I really want to ask Caleb um Caleb where's Caleb we can barely see so Caleb sat over on the sofa in the corner of the studio he's um friend and creative director of Alex and I'm asking Caleb what Alex is good at what's his error of brilliance I like it solving problems um for companies simplifying complex things into more digestible actionable um Solutions as well and how would you answer that question if you were answering it for yourself I feel like I fundamentally a lot of times don't understand the world and so I think the reason that some people have found the content and things like that um good or useful is because they feel like they can understand it it's just because like I didn't get it right like terms like value right people like provide more value like what does that mean and so I just make it make an attempt to define the terms that a lot of us use every day and then it makes a lot easier to solve for those things in business and so you know a lot of people like I want to grow my business I'm like all right what does that mean like well get more customers make them worth more okay so it's one of those two things all right well how do I make get more customers like well there's eight ways to do it here are the eight ways which one do you feel like you're best at and just like kind of thinking through Frameworks that way is it's just for me it's just been my way of being able to be relatively competent in a world that feels confusing like there's a few things I feel like I can understand and I just hold on to those I mean that's the very nature of innovation isn't it like asking the question we so so often Our Lives just accept words and phrases and ways of doing things then there's a few people who are really good like elon's one of them uh just like asking why and then when you ask why like why can't you make an affordable quote electric vehicle that is fast everyone else says you can't yeah but why you know and then he he's great at breaking it down into like the core components of that Innovation so well if we buy the metal on the iron exchange and we do this and this then we can do it yeah they said that's such an important thing in entrepreneurship isn't it there's some people who just ask why naturally yeah it seems like to the point like to Elon it's like I don't understand why we can't yeah like just explain to me why we can't so that I cannot think about this yeah and I feel like that's you know I would say that that's the most common thing like why isn't this company growing like I don't get it like explain it to me and then usually a lot of people it's like they're they're in this caught in this Loop you know what I mean of doing what they've always done um or like believing that this is the only way um and I think a lot of times I've benefited from like not knowing because I my questions don't seem stupid to me but only to somebody who like knows what they're doing um it seems stupid and so from there we're able to like I guess to your point innovate um just by being like I don't understand that's what Steve Jobs from everything that I've read about Steve Jobs in my brief conversation with Steve Wozniak Once Upon a Time um is he was just the the voice in the room that never understood why they couldn't and even like when we think about him removing the keyboard and doing you know not refusing to use a stylus and all these other crazy things he did not using JavaScript I think at the time and changing the port and removing the iPhone Jack that that is somebody who is so strong in their convictions in terms of like doing things anyway how important do you think that is generally like what in your view what makes a really good um entrepreneur leader I think that they have to have the power to influence and that is across lots of things uh just they have to be able to move other people and you can Define sales as the ability to get people to comply with your request you can define leadership the same way um management marketing to a degree is getting people to comply with a larger request you know publicly um but I think that fundamentally is a skill that people have to have if they're going to be successful at entrepreneurship they have to have tremendous Drive whether that's a combination of towards or away so they have a big mission that they really want to achieve or they have some very big fear that they're running away from either way I think the fuel works just from a pure entrepreneurship Perspective Third piece is impulse control is that they have to be able to say no to things on a regular basis for an extended period of time um and I think they have to be able to boil down the success of their business into inputs and outputs like if you do not know the inputs that are going to get the output that you want then what are you doing and so I think for for most entrepreneurs like if they have those things if they have the ability to lead other people sell just influence they have some big motivator they can control themselves long enough to keep on going during that period of time and they're doing the right things because they know the inputs and outputs to be successful to create their the thing that they want um becomes a very difficult person to beat on that first point then sales one of the things I I read um in some of your work is this idea that if everybody just went and spent two years doing door-to-door sales then oh my God why is that important why do you think door-to-door sales is a key thing I think it's um just for what for broader definitions for the audience I think it's just high volume transactional sales so whether that's you doing door-to-door are you cold calling um or you working the front desk at a gym where you do 20 consoles a day like just having a high volume because in order to learn a skill you want to have as much exposure as you can to repeat the action and then you want quick feedback loops so that you can learn what you did wrong so the perfect scenario would be Mentor mentee repeated exposure fix this try again fix this try again and in sales if you can survive that long then you are good enough that you will have gotten enough feedback like for most people if they can weather the first three months of sales then they'll usually be fine and so for the people who are coming up I always tell them like go Shadow the best guy and do twice the volume he's doing because you're not as good as him so like do twice the volume that they're doing work all of the hours and you will get better faster because you're doing you have to suck for X period of time and so if you can condense how how long that takes you in terms of calendar days not hours you can get there faster but I think that it's important because when you have to learn how to get rejected and still keep going and I think that's a very valuable skill and then two there's lots of like little things that you learn in just interpersonal communication that allow you that you can use with teammates later you can use in marketing because a lot of the best marketers started as salespeople and marketing is just sales one to many at least as as I understand it um and so having that kind of repetition just develops a deep understanding of human psychology I think um and I think it's important for if you want to get people to give you money for the thing that you have um having that as a base skill comes in handy I think a lot of people aren't orientated towards developing skills I think they're orientated to Lifestyle to what I can post on Instagram to call whatever's cool um but this idea of developing skills requires this thing that's kind of absent in modern culture which is patience and a lot like you said rejection who wants that you know it was there was no glamor in what you said yeah it's funny because a lot of us want traits right we want to be patient we want to be humble we want to be you know long-suffering whatever words you want to use um but in order to if I would say hey how would you create if you had to create a human what would you put them through to make them tough it probably wouldn't be a really chill life yeah what would you put them through to make them patient well you probably wouldn't give them things immediately and so it's like we want these trades but each of the traits has a price tag attached to it it's just like do you want to pay the price tag to get the thing and so I think if if people reframed the the period of life that they're going through as the price that they're paying out of their wallet but the wallet is their time it's the seconds of life that they're trading for it then I think more people be willing to make the trade because at least when I look at myself like when I'm 80 something years old and I'm looking back at my life I want to have these traits but in order to have those traits I know I have to go through these things and I think for me that's given me a lot of comfort in hard times one of the things that kind of adjacent to that which causes patience is the belief that you are at some point gonna get there so like you know it's all well and good you saying to me you do this for five years Stephen you'll build the skill but I go well listen if I want to be a millionaire um and I and I have a low self-belief I'm gonna have low conviction so I'm not even going to take the BET yeah so how does one build that's self-belief self-belief is such an interesting thing because it feels like this real it's clear to some degree that you had it in that moment of turmoil it also the reason I say to some degree is because it didn't seem like you had a plan B anyway sorry [Laughter] you were already in your like your parents-in-laws like playroom or whatever so Ain't Nothing To Lose yeah you're nothing to lose so I don't know how much self-belief is applicable but regardless to keep gracing those hurdles self you need some kind of conviction that like this is the right way to go how do people build that so I hear that into like to to Echo the point you just made I hated my current existence and so I think some people like don't hate their current existence enough and so like I don't think you know like you either have to really believe that this thing's going to happen or you have to know that your life sucks and I knew that my life sucked and so I knew that if I did something else it would have it would have a higher likelihood of changing my life than not doing something and at least that's how I would say that I probably saw it in the beginning it's like I didn't know if it was going to work but I knew that I wasn't going to stop I read I heard a quote some 10 years ago which from just came to mind when you said that on some YouTube family Vlog where he said change happens when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of making a change and in your situation though it sounds like well this is less painful 100 I think and I think that's the basis of motion either you have to have a reward that is that that incentivizes you the way towards her away it's either we're going away from pain or going towards pleasure I think a lot of people are really looking for that passion that's gonna be towards but I think early days and I talk a lot about this but like I think negative motivation is poo pooed too much like if you are angry use it if you are sad use it because like what else are you gonna do with it like you might as well let it help you like or it uses you you know what I mean and so I always like to see when I was in my earlier days I felt like I was wielding my anger at least in a direction and I think also a lot of people think that they have to get like it right on the first shot but one of the beliefs that I had was that I just want to be directionally correct like if I move I like I know that I don't like this and so this way is not where I am and so I will start taking steps this way and from the story that you at least heard it's like I'll ping-pong a little bit to try and directionally move that way and it's funny because Caleb's seen plenty of things from what we do at acquisition.com where we're like we'll try it out and if it doesn't work they're like oops all good do you believe in yourself I think that I have a high likelihood of repeating activities that I've done in the past and up to this point I have lots of evidence that would suggest that it that I will continue why didn't you say Yes um because I based the answer on that question or what I've done before and I think it's been it's just based on evidence now so it's not like I like uh Charisma thing at least for me it's just like I've done these things and so I think it's probable that I'll be able to continue is there a deeper reason to why you didn't just say yes that's actually how I think about it is that because it feels difficult to say you believe in yourself yeah it feels weird I don't know if hokey is the right word for what that feels like for me but like saying the way that I said it is how I is how I feel about it have you been on the Journey of in terms of self-doubt over over the last you know that he is for sure I think it was um but I mean fear was my big fear and anger hand in hand were my big motivators in the beginning and I mean maybe that's from softap I would say that I was very certain and I can I can I can feel this and I remember this um I was always certain that I wasn't going to stop like that I can I didn't know I didn't know whether I would succeed I thought it was probable but I did know I wasn't going to stop and so for me that was like enough to get me going or keep me going it's like what are the controllables me okay well if I do this so like I'm big on making like unreasonable like unreasonable that it doesn't work out statements just like if I do sales and I do more volume than everyone else on this team and I've Shadow the guy who's the best and I do that for five years it's unreasonable that I won't be at least mediocre it will be probable that I'm above average and it's also probable that I'll learn other things along the way and I'll also have the resources at that point in five years that I can jump into things now that I have more context or perspective from which to make a judgment on what a good next opportunity is and so I like very easy to believe statements and then having the input output equation being like the output is that I will be a very good salesman the input says that I have to do I have to collect 5 000 nodes if I collect 5000 no's I'll be a very good salesman and that for me like when I was a kid when I played video games I would beat the same level over and over and over and over again so that when I got to the next level I would crush everybody because I had all the experience points maxed out and so like those input output equations are really helpful for me like when I took the GMAT to get into Harvard my first score was like okay it wasn't great um but I read this study on how to do well on standardized tests and they had this graph and it went like this it was just a straight line it said number of problems practiced on GMAT score so like the more problems you did on average the higher your test score was and I was like done so I bought 16 phone books of like they're like these thick like test prep books and I did four hours of problems every day for three months every day I get home from work I'd eat dinner I would do four hours problems I had a timer every day and then I scored 99 Point whatever percentile because it was just input output like I didn't I didn't I was naturally not even that good at math um but I just like if I do 10 000 [ __ ] problems like I'll start to just understand how these problems get asked and so like I was trying to find like what's the input output for this the content game I was like okay well if you post once a day on one platform we will get some eyeballs if we post on every platform every day we will get more eyeballs if we post multiple times a day on every platform we'll get even more eyeballs so let's do that let's build that system 100 and so like those are the like I try and make statements that I believe are unreasonable that if I do it enough it will be true and so that's for me that's what gives me the confidence to say like what if it's not working like it will eventually like if we just keep doing it it will work what does it take to want to do something potentially for years so that you can get good at it because you know there's going to be people thinking well I want to be a great DJ but I just can't find the motivation to spend every day three hours practicing Alex yeah but then you probably won't be a good DJ but I'd be like I would be like you like your current state enough that you like the pain of change thing right like you're not in enough pain I've said that to plenty of people we go speak and someone's like how do I get motivated I'm like you're gonna get motivated like you have to hate for me if I could already I automatically go there I'm like you have to hate something like for me I just hated my current existence and so for me that was powerful enough to get me out there's got to be another way though you know I was thinking to you that moment where you took the leap you know there's I feel I often feel like most people that listen to this podcast often are at a point in their life where they're considering a leap yeah feel like we drag those type of people in we kind of like we're a magnet to those people so if they if they're in a situation that they don't like but it's not that painful you know it's comfortable well that's the worst it's comfortable but a little bit miserable yeah how do you get them to take the leap when it's so comfortable my boss is promising me a promotion I think about death all the time it's like I'm going to die and I think you have to agitate the pain for yourself like you have to stoke the pain like if you can't get through through because like it would be it would be odd that you would be motivated by some weird passion like not everyone's Mozart and just like I do love music and I've been I see and you know see numbers and colors you know whatever like some people are like that but most people aren't and so if you're not that then you only start really liking stuff when you get good at it in my opinion and you only get good at it by doing it a lot of times before you're good at it and so if you this is why I'm a big big believer in this is that when you are starting out I think you got to find the thing that's the pain and like pain motivates significantly faster and stronger than pleasure does like people like no passions the right way it's like point a gun at a family member all of a sudden 10 out of 10 motivation pain and so like I think people should use their pain more and if they don't have enough pain then one maybe that's fine and you're a dreamer and that's okay but I will tell you that a word that I can I read in my like six month Journey between when I wanted to quit and when I actually quit there was this word that just like pissed me off and it was this in this self-hop or entrepreneur book and it said there are entrepreneurs and there are entrepreneurs and it was like entrepreneurs or people who read these books and don't do anything and I was just like I don't want to be I was like I am one of these right now and I just it just like felt so powerless and I think that my entire life has been a lot of trying to have power and I mean that in the true sense of just being able to direct influence and events I've wanted to have more power to protect myself protect the people I care about Etc um and I felt very powerless and I think that I was in that comfortable like my dad approves of my current situation I had a job that when I told people they're like oh that's fancy but I felt powerless and I I hated that more than anything and so I think I think if I want to say this to anyone who's listening if there's anything you listen to all the stuff that I described that was really tough that I went through was not as hard as me quitting my job by far the hardest decision of my entire life bar none because the things that I was actually caught up with were the opinions of other people opinions of my father and the opinions of the people that I went to school with who I thought would judge me for leaving this good job to probably become a failed gym owner and how lame that would sound compared to consultant going to Harvard and like I was going to go from Peak white collar to a very blue color you know profession making significantly less because I quote loved it and like if I I'll say this again but like sometimes you have to let other people's dreams for your life die for years to live and for me it was like when I when I continued to every day not want to wake up that was my wake-up call where I was like either I continue to live this way and not want to be alive or I just risked the fact that I'll die to everybody else and I think that that like it was the hardest decision in my entire life by far all this all the hard stuff we went through still the hardest decision in my life how much was money on your mind when you made that decision the desire to be financially free to the point where you had Millions it's weird money um Caleb would know this money doesn't really motivate me uh I would say that I mean I love the game for sure um but I love playing the game and the tokens are there um but for me it was it was it was it was beating my dad you know I mean I didn't want him to be right like that's what it was like I didn't want him to be right I just I just I remember like I'd be sleeping on the floor I'd be miserable at you know when I had my gym and I had no trainers I was teaching all the classes and so I'd wake up I'd do 4am 5 AM 6 AM 7 8 AM sessions and then I would then uh work out for myself and then I would uh do uh I do all the marketing and the ads and the stuff that I have to do in the middle day and then I would teach the fourth the four pm the 5 PM description to 7 p.m and then I would do sales consults at 8 9 10 11 and then I'd do the billing for all the all the contracts from 11 to like 12 12 30 and then I'd wake up again and I did that for like six months and like I started like lose my mind because I wasn't sleeping um but even during like those times I just literally I would Envision going back to Baltimore to my father and have and knowing that he would give me the false modesty of like well I know you tried don't worry about it now let's get you back on this thing and I knew that from that moment on he would own me and I just couldn't I couldn't I couldn't do it I was like I will do anything but go back to that and for me that was my I would do anything and so whatever that maybe you need to agitate some pain in your life you know to get out of your current circumstance um and just as a total side note play it out what if you just never do anything is like maybe some people just need to stop dreaming maybe they need to accept their current reality and actually enjoy it because there's a lot of people when they're 70 and 80 and they didn't do their dreams and if they went back like they didn't do anything but that whole time they were dissatisfied because they didn't try but what if they were just like I have a good life I have a wife who loves me I've got some kids I have a job that I you know like I don't mind it pays the bills I mean if you go back 500 years there wasn't people like man this is my passion he's like dude I'm just rowing rowing a boat across a ferry and that's what I do and that's what my dad did and his dad did like this is how we eat and so like we have these these um idealized versions of purpose that I think Instagram and all this stuff kind of make terrible but like I think there's a lot of honor and work period And I think a lot of people uh fool themselves by thinking you know what they do for some reason is not honorable and I think a lot of it is like the internal versus external scorecard of like I was saying what I said earlier about like I believe these things to be true about the universe or like the world but a lot of those are like what do I believe about myself which is like I can choose to do work in this way which then I can derive Joy from so like if I'm Shoveling [ __ ] I can choose to be like I will be the best [ __ ] shoveler because I believe that I will figure out how to do this more efficiently and I will you know I will I will get better and I'll have calluses on my hands and I'll have a better back and whatever um but I will do this well and I think you can find joy and work if you decide to do it well so on one hand if you are if you were if your dream causes you so much pain then you will quit what you're doing and do it and if it doesn't cause you enough pain that you're not pursuing it or that you don't like if you don't feel like you're in a cage right now then maybe you're not in a cage and maybe you just need to like the life you have and that's cool too a previous guest on this podcast called mogow that said we're unhappy when our expectations of how we think life is supposed to be going are unmet and in that there's something very sort of linked to what you just said there which is we have this external expectation set by Instagram or whatever by People Like Us yeah who who are in a position of um Financial Freedom and have built an audience who you know admire those people for what they've achieved and if someone wants to be admired they think well I need to be like Alex right um and that I could be working in a shop actually objectively like subjectively having a great time in the shop but I look up at Alex and go my life sucks right and like so in that I'm like it's very difficult um because of the pressure effect's done like I was just thinking when you said it then I was thinking this whole idea of like passion and purpose is probably like 60 years old yeah make believe it's all brand new and it probably originated when we were like connected you know like radio TV yeah all of this ad me advertising which made us change our expectations of our own lives when living in the village and like helping out at the bakery was probably delivered the same amount of Happiness core happiness than being on the private jet and whatever else does now I think most people are just as happy and just like you're 50 happy 50 sad for most of your life if you're in an extreme circumstance then change your life if you're not like conditions like people get handicapped they break their legs you know they can never move again and they have a dip in their subjective well-being and they go back to the same Baseline and so like the Baseline is independent of conditions and so the world wants to tell us that we need to change our you know change our circumstances and then we will be whatever but like every modern religion every Buddhist monk will tell you that all of that's from the inside not the outside um but these are words and words that mean you yeah can say don't follow yeah because I'm sure that you've you've experienced like the attainment of a goal and then I just need three times more yeah I'm referencing a study there where they they ask people how much money they would need to be happy and all the way up the income wealth Spectrum people said three times more than they have now so people with 10K said 30 people with 3 million said you know sick nine million I can do math three times three times three yeah um and you you I imagine you still experience that now right yeah different reasons but yeah for sure when is enough enough um I don't think it's enough thing I think it's more like who I want to be who do you want to be I want to be the person capable of doing that doing X like we'll get to a billion and then after a billion I'll make it 10. I already know that you don't remember like I love playing the game what is the game game of business to what to what end or just just for the play to play yeah I'm sure you know more about this than I do but like just Game Theory like the if finite and infinite games Simon sinek has a great piece on it um but yeah with infinite games you have known and unknown players you have no read upon rules and the point of the game is to keep the game going and so a lot of students people will take a finite game where you have known only known players agreed upon rules and a set outcome um for winning and they will apply it to an infinite game so people are like I want to they apply a finite contract to health they're like I want to win Health it's like you don't win Health like okay you're in shape now what you stay in shape you keep staying in shape I want to win at marriage you don't win at marriage you keep the marriage going that's playing the game of marriage if you want to you know Win It Business keep playing the game of business and so we want to take these finite contracts and put them on on infinite games and I think that's where people get it get in trouble because they're they're like I have to keep moving the goal post but if the goal post is to play then you win by playing and so for that like sure we set goals for the company but like I'm a thousand percent super motivated and at the same time we never hit it I'm just gonna be happy that I was able to play I also know that in three generations everyone will forget who I am I saw your post about the queen yeah no no no it wasn't for me if I've been honest um but uh but it's an interesting con what did the post say was she amassed more wealth than 99.99 of the world she ruled for 70 years uh was you know a female Monarch which is insane especially seven years ago just like it's all it's had amazing family all this amazing whatever I don't know the tabloids you do um and when I posted it had been I think five or six months since she had died exactly and I was like you probably haven't thought about her today except for this post she probably accomplished more in her life than we probably will so if you are afraid of other people thinking about you just remember the six months after you died they're not going to be and so it's like we have all these fears about other people but like most of them won't even trip to your funeral because they're going to be busy and so like I I think about death all the time and that's that's what I think for me has given me a lot of uh freedom to take big shots because like at the end of the day I think that it's not going to matter no one's going to remember people in Thailand don't know who I am today let alone in five ten years 100 years it's a trap that the mind can quite easily fall into though thinking you are the center of the universe and with that comes an immense amount of weight and pressure and anxiety totally I I have a trick I've never talked about this before but whenever I feel myself slipping into the Trap of kind of overstating my importance what I mean by that is like thinking my problems are big problems I go on YouTube and I type in um there's this one video that shows a camera on Earth that just zoom out and it keeps going and eventually Earth becomes this tiny Speck then the Earth becomes this tiny Speck which is the Galaxy then the Galaxy becomes this tiny Speck and a bunch of galaxies then you can't see any of it anymore and then also this idea that like 100 years ago I didn't feel anything didn't think anything nobody knew me 100 years from now exactly what you said absolutely I mean [ __ ] five minutes after I die I think but um and that feels really liberating like relieves of stress from my body which is an interesting thing because a lot of people don't like thinking about the death you know a lot of thinking about it yeah all the time I know from doing this podcast that a lot of people won't click if we we post something about death they won't because they don't even want to confront the concept of it which is people are afraid of it just because they don't understand it it's kind of like the Hate Thing how do you feel about death I'm good with it when you say I'm good with it what do you mean if I die tomorrow I'm good with it like I want to leave it all on the field I'm gonna try as hard as I can and I know that no one remember me on a long enough time Horizon and I'm good with that like I'm cool with it if I told you you're gonna die tomorrow would you be sad I'd probably hang out with Layla a little I guess a little more than I always do but like um I would say I wouldn't be sad I'd be bummed I'd be like man there's all the [ __ ] I want to do uh but I don't think I'd be like depressed I think I mean my dude to be fair maybe I'll find out and maybe I'll get hit by a bus tomorrow but um no I think like I've lived life the way I want to live life and I'm good with it if you were to go today had you really like given it everything had you lived the life you feel like you were really destined to live me absolutely an interesting Mind Trick around the same topic is so when when Betty White dies right at 99 or whatever like people were like she lived a good life but when Kobe dies before his time right it's a big deal and I see that as a contrast between expectations and reality and I'm going to tell a story that hopefully people don't take the wrong way but I had a cat and really liked the cat and it died at two years old really liked it young guy heart thing or something whatever I remember being like really bummed about it and I was like huh how can I not think this and so I was like the only reason I'm bummed is because I think that he should have should being the the big word that Everyone likes to use he should have lived longer I was like what if cats only lived six months and I got to have him for two years I was like I'd probably be pretty stoked about that and all of a sudden I was significantly less sad about it I was like I got to have him for two years I was like awesome and so I think like for for me for us whatever um if we were to change our expectation like people think they should live until everyone thinks they're gonna live to 100 which is kind of interesting because like the average life expectancy 74 and if you're like 36 you're middle aged if you actually do the math which no one wants to do uh being middle-aged at 36. all right I know right yeah but I think if we shift our expectations that like expectations is the thing it's it's the thing right and so we can if we expected if I expected that I was supposed to have lived 20 years and I made it to 33. stoked Jesus lived until third three he did a lot more than I have you know what I mean and so I'm good with it if I die tomorrow like only reason I would be upset is is if I demanded from the universe that I live longer but like 500 years ago average life expectancy was like 35 you 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be the best version of myself across all of those aspects of my life the woot team have very kindly off to give all of you a free month so just head to join.woop.com CEO to claim your device and your first free month on us working hard we talked about repetitions earlier working hard is quite a controversial Topic in 2023 it's weird do you see what I mean though yeah I'm probably not in the circles where it's controversial they're like gravity's controversial I'm like I don't know it's controversial in the sense that there's like toxic work oh my God you know there's toxic hard work and there's I think Society prescribes a certain amount of work which is good yeah by their definition of like I'm going to say some stuff that's going to bother some people I work all the time I have no Hobbies besides working out if you consider that a hobby like four times a week that's it I work all the time that's all I do and I work until I can't work meaning like my output per unit of time starts to drop precipitously and then I know that I just need to take a break of some sort and then I usually been some sort of Television because that's what for me Works some people are like I Garden that's not me Netflix I'm good you know what I mean or dark room in a movie theater rocking um comma and that's okay like why do I need to take their expectation of what they want like they're like that's not healthy I'm like Define healthy I do as much as I can of the thing that I want to do with every minute of my day why is that not healthy why do you want me to do something that I would prefer to do less because I do what I do every other day because that's what I want to do almost like how dare you cast your expectation of your life unto me and to be fair the same degree they cannot work at all doesn't affect me like I'm a I'm a big big advocate for destroying should the word in general should it's just like the expectation motor of like all of our psyches you should go to school you should get a degree you should do this job you should marry her you shouldn't stay up so late you shouldn't work so hard you shouldn't you should be more balanced you shouldn't be working out so much you're not working out like it's there's all these shoulds that other people tell us and it's like and you zoom out and then you see that it's a galaxy with a little dot of dust it's like should what there is no should do what you want to do at least that's how I see the world that pressure applies to both ends of the spectrum doesn't it because people that quote unquote overwork they get hit come back into the middle and that people that under work they get hit work harder and then the presumption they're in within Society is that there's this sweet area in the Middle where it's optimal and like the question should become then like what is the measurement like what are we measuring is it are we measuring when we're defining this amount of work as good work or healthy or whatever is the is the real measurement my happiness and my fulfillment in your view is that what you're like is that your measurement or is it just [ __ ] how you feel I work because I enjoy working and I'm sure that if I stop enjoying working I won't work as much like just being really like not being I'm not being simplistic to be you know Annoying um I work because I enjoy working and if I and if for some reason I didn't get reinforced them from work I'm sure that my amount of work would go down is there is there a I think about like human needs yeah but are there any human needs that are being sacrificed by always working in your case I'm good um yeah I mean which gets to the point of the measurement which is like how do I feel I'm good yeah I a lot of people really over analyze a lot of things and like I don't think well I do I do I do spend a lot of time thinking about death and things like that but I usually use those as frames to give myself permission to do the things that I want to do and just do them without hearing the Judgment that I know that other people would probably cast on my life they're like why don't you have kids because I haven't wanted to yet and that's okay and if I want to later I will I'll tell okay I'll tell you an argument that I got into so I was at you got into an argument I did I got into an argument um with my stepmother so Leila's father's whatever it doesn't matter okay it wasn't her different person it's fine anyways I was at in the kitchen table and she said I would never want your life and I was like what she was like it's so unbalanced I was like okay how I was like do you feel like I'm not in shape physically I was like do you feel like business-wise financially I'm I'm not fit do you feel like romantically like my marriage is in some way like not good and so I I like would where do you feel like I'm unbalanced or it's just that I do more than you or I do things differently than you do because the same degree I wouldn't want your life and that's why I don't have your life and that's why you don't have my life so it's good that we don't want to each other's lives because that would be tough wouldn't it and so that was the argument that we got into in in so many words and it just came down to the idea that like I think that person was casting judgment on themselves because maybe on some level maybe they did want some aspect of the life that we had and I hope that doesn't sound like weird but it's just like I think we all do this we see something we're like and then we look at our Delta and then we either say man I would like that or we cast stones at it so that we don't feel bad to our ego and so like no there's something wrong with it they're not happy whatever and I just I would say that if there's one thing that I I will try and beat out of me until I die is caring what other people think and I think everybody cares what other people think and I think over time we just care a little bit less and so I feel like I'm 30 better than I was 10 years ago and maybe in 10 years I'll be like 30 better than that but that 30 has been very meaningful for me because it's enabled me to do things like I got married in eight days none of my parents were there and I'm cool with it because that's what I wanted to do and I work with my wife every hour of every day and people are like is that healthy I'm like I don't know we like it why do you care like how does it affect you he's he's a trap though yeah I can relate in many yeah in many ways to what you're saying and I mean my team will know that instinctively um what are the traps we can fall into one of the risks when we have that perspective is that we kind of cast that expectation on others people that work with us I think entrepreneurs oftentimes when they have that Drive which is sometimes driven by a shame or an insecurity that comes from their childhood too often um so often maybe not too often but so often um that when they lead people who don't have that same insecurity shame whatever that predisposition to you know workaholism whatever you want to call it they struggle to relate you know yeah have you have you heard that sure but I think that's okay have you had to work on that Layla's better I say that Jessica but like realistically I think we try to maintain a culture of high performance and we're like on the screening Parts on the front end we're like these are the values we have here are examples of those values at play so it's like if your shift ends at five and somebody asks a question that's going to take 30 minutes to answer at 4 59 what do you do it's an interview question we're like and we need you to be honest because if you say you would work but you would actually be dissatisfied you're not going to do either of us Justice because you'll come in and you'll get fired quickly and that'll be hard for you and hard for us so like we want you to win at whatever you do in life so Layla is very big on like human first in terms of how she does everything that we do in the company is like human first then everything else you can tell that's why like we're yin and yang for this this kind of thing um but I think it's really just about expectation setting and being very truthful and as transparent as humanly possible about like this is what we expect if you don't like that or if your worldview is contrary to this then you shouldn't work here because there's another company that totally shares your worldview and you would do great there and there's other people who feel like Misfits in the companies that they're in and then work all the time and they're frustrated that no one else does and they're all like telling them they should slow down come hang with us because we'll we'll respond slack at 5am on Saturday because we're on that's but like I just I just hardcore reject there is a right way to do things in that example you've touched on something I wanted to talk about which relates to your first book I believe offers making office to people yeah I read that you said um if there's one skill you have it's making offers what do you mean by making offers so uh offers are the terms of Exchange so I right before I started my first gym I went to this weekend Workshop to learn how to Market and get this this is 2013. it was on Facebook ads and so I got lucky so I learned how to run Facebook ads in 2013. two weeks before I started my gym this is when you're getting Penny clicks and you could put a girl with a bikini and say weight loss click here and it would run and so at this thing I hadn't opened my gym yet and the guy was like a gym marketing dude and he said do you want to know another secret to sales because you could see I was way over my head all the other guys there were gym owners except for May and I was like yeah because I never at that point had never sold anything I didn't even know the word sales was a thing that's how out of it I was and so he pulled me over the side and he asked me that question I like pulled my notebook out to like learn the secret to sales as though it was one line and it kind of was he said make people an offer they'd be they'd feel stupid saying no to and I like wrote it down and highlighted it and that actually became like a core concept that we do in every business in every business that we have which is like how can we make this offer better how can we make it more valuable and that was why defining value was such a key thing because people like provide more value make valuable content I'm like what does this mean and so we boiled down value into four variables and then there's things that enhance value but like core variables and then things that enhance it so like one is like what is the overall dream outcome of the the customer and so a difference in juxtaposition is like for guys if I say I can help you make more money versus I can help you lose weight most guys would pay more for the thing that will give them more relative status and so in that way between two types two categories of outcomes this one will be more valuable okay cool now within everything and let's call it weight loss because that's an easy one everyone can understand within weight loss every other thing between a five dollar ebook and a fifty thousand dollar liposuction surgery the difference in those prices are the other value variables and so the second variable is perceived likert of achievement which is if I buy this thing How likely do I think I will get the outcome and so if I have a surgeon that's going to do this liposuction for example and it's the first surgery they've done out of medical school and there's another surgeon that has done ten thousand and has ten thousand five stars which one would I be more likely to go to the ten thousand five star surgery even if it actually takes that guy less time to do it how unfair but my perceived liket of getting what I want is significantly higher so it's actually the equal opposite of risk those are the things that we try and enhance in the offers we try and have a very compelling dream outcome try and make it very likely that they're going to succeed and give there's lots of elements that make someone feel like it's likely they'll succeed on the bottom half of the equation so it's a fraction there's two on the top two on the bottom you have time delay between when they buy and when they get so if someone were able to click a button on a website and immediately look at their stomach and have a six-pack that would be incredibly valuable right on the flip side if it takes them two years in order to get that it's significantly less valuable and so for that same reason you have to arm wrestle someone to get them to buy a personal training package is to spend an hour and a half to get them to buy a 20 pack of trading trading sessions whereas women walk into the doctor's office to do liposuction and drop 20 times that amount of money because the time delay is nothing you get on the table you wake up and you're thin right then the last the last variable is effort and sacrifice which is two sides of the same coin so effort are the things that you have to start doing that you don't want to do as a result of this purchase waking up early getting sore like in the workout example eating Foods you hate on the flip side the sacrifice are the things that you have to give up that you don't want to give up as a result of this purchase and so that might be sleeping in eating the foods you enjoy Margarita Mondays whatever and so when you look at these variables each of them has a has a has a evil twin right so you've got perceived like a Vegeta which is the positive and then you've got risk which is the negative you've got time delay which is the negative version you've got speed which is the positive version you've got effort and sacrifice you've got ease right and so when we're trying to make an offer we try and think through each of these elements of value and think how can we maximize the upside make it super super likely they're going to hit it paint the vision that they have it and then on the bottom side minimize the time delay between when they bind when they get and how much they have to do because in a perfect world The Moment someone says I want that thing that beautiful dream outcome they'd be virtually guaranteed they would get it it would happen immediately and it would be effortless and I think that is the perfect idea that we look at in terms of value and as entrepreneurs we innovate our way to just keep trying to Chisel towards that perfect ideal outcome that we'll never actually get to the other variables are like scarcity if I have one gatorade bottle left on planet Earth it's significantly more valuable I didn't change anything about the bottle itself but it's significantly more valuable than if there's unlimited Gatorades right urgency is if Gatorade no matter how many Gatorades there were on planet Earth I'll give a different example if JK Rowling decides that uh she's no longer going to sell Harry Potter digital copies ever again as of tomorrow there will be a lot of sales of the digital copy even though there's unlimited units scarcity is a function of units urgency is a function of time and so scarcity and urgency add to the value by enhancing those other four variables there's more but like those are the core things that we look at in terms of when we're trying to make an offer uh for a business and so that becomes very relevant when we're trying to increase price for a business that we take on so I'll give you an example we had a PR Company that we invested in that was a generic PR Company for like small business owners and they had really high churn but they had a really good sales engine I was like okay like there's something here but like I think we need a tweet I just really like the founder 85 of their customers were small business owners and turned out in like three or four months 15 of their customers bought the most expensive package and stayed like forever and I was like hey crazy idea what if we only served these customers and they were people who wanted to get fundraising very different than the traditional like dry cleaning store polymer or whatever and so we redid the entire business model around finding only that Niche we only cold called cold emailed people who were in that very narrow window were able to 10x our prices because we and we got higher response rates to the emails than we did before because now we were targeting and speaking very specifically to an avatar and now we can provide so much more value to that specific person and so that's the maybe if Caleb were to answer the from a business perspective like solving that equation is probably the thing that I enjoy the most because it is how I feel like I've unlocked the most value in a business which is like what are all this what are all the good things that this business has what are all the things it can do okay is there a way that we can rearrange it for a specific customer that will make significantly that will make what we do significantly more valuable to them and then that's what we try and repackage and when we do that that's oftentimes when we can like with gym launch for me I had the knowledge of how to help people lose weight have the the nutrition plans I knew how to sell I knew how to Market but it was only when I like rearrange the variables that I went from making a few million dollars a year in Topline revenue and basically no profit to millions and millions and millions of dollars a year in Top Line and bottom line profit simply by rearranging the variables and that was just so ingrained in me that from that point going forward I was like I just have to make things that are so good that people will feel stupid saying no and if we can't get enough people to say yes we need to make the offer better and to me that's been like the single thing that it affects all aspects of the business it's the highest leverage thing I think you can do in the business which is why it was the first book because answering the question what do I sell is the first book the second book leads is to whom do I sell it I gotta get leads right and that's the second book but that affects pricing it affects profit effects marketing it affects sales affects delivery like getting the offer affects everything and it's one of the hardest things to change because it affects everything but it also has the most ability to unlock incredible wealth or value in a business and the concept there is incredibly transferable when you're going through the equation kind of in some parts similar to an equation we used to have for competitions when we were trying to get people to sign up to competitions the idea when we saw it like a it was an equation where on one end little investment so just click here and you're entered High perception that um you have a chance of winning so if there's 10 prizes and you can see those 10 entrants your brain goes okay all I had to do was click and then um in the competition aspect we thought a lot about credibility because that's a big factor in competitions like do I think anyone's gonna win and do I trust these people to even give out a prize um and it's even the same thing and it's even the same thing in content when you're thinking about a title for your YouTube videos five minutes six pack abs yeah it's a fantastic equation a little investment high potential reward apparently um and that's also you know there's even another thing which I've thought about which I've not been able to necessarily explain which is why people are more likely to click on things I guess it's ease when it says things like five steps to finding love versus like how to find love five steps I guess it's that ease Point feels more accessible just five steps yeah pursue negative achievement like what's my risk of not achieving if there's five steps that feels easier than just how to maybe hmm when you um when you think about where you are in your journey um as an entrepreneur and you think about it maybe as like Steps how far are you at that staircase would you not know I was like I I felt like that was going to be the question that you were going to ask and I was thinking I was like I feel like every entrepreneur feels like they're just getting started like you talk to guys in their 70s they're like I'm just getting started you know um I mean I I'm about to cross a decade of being I am right just at the decade point for me from the first business I started to now um so I feel like I've got a few seasons left you know if I can keep living uh which I'd be stoked about if I can um let me ask a different question Caleb in the corner who works for you who's your creative director if Caleb said to me you know Caleb said to you he said Alex I want to be a millionaire yeah what would you say to him what advice would you give to him he says listen I've heard you doing all these podcasts you're running around I've been filming the camera but I've been filming I've been listening yeah and this millionaire stuff this sounds amazing yeah so what advice how old are you Caleb 29 what advice would you give to 29 year old Caleb if he said to you Alex how do you knowing me how do you think I become a millionaire so there's a lot of ways to do it it just depends on which way you want to go so say first off you can stay at acquisition.com that'll probably happen on a long enough time Horizon just because we're gonna get really big we're already pretty big and we're just getting started um so like I genuinely believe that and that's 100 my goal is that every single person that that we have um becomes very very wealthy because I'm going to die and it's not going to matter anyways and if everybody else can make some too great um so that is a path another bath is he peels off and goes on his own and starts a business of some sort and so it depends on whether he wants to make the business itself what his core skill is which would be like media and maybe services around Media or using the skill that he has of media in an opportunity to get to two or three other people to maybe co-founded with who have other complementary skills and then he just runs that division or portion of the business uh within the larger context and that's like a classic question of like I'm really good at making wallets like what do I do it's like well you can continue to make them and then when you can't make as many as you have demand because you're so good at it you can either raise the price and just continue to keep raising the prices until eventually become Versace of of wallets and you make tons of profit but you don't have tons of units and that's okay and you're a luxury brand or you put on the put on the business owner hat and you say okay how do I mechanize the wallet building process and I become more businessy and so I think it's like do I want to be the artist or do I want to be the entrepreneur both of them are fine it depends which one you feel like you're more naturally inclined to or have a higher likelihood of success doing I like the game of business I've played lots of different games in terms of Industries like I like the game overall I don't feel like I have a particular art like I don't think I'm really good at any aspect of business I feel like I've been decent enough to not make one of them the constraint like I'm not a great copywriter but I'm good enough that that's not going to be the limiter like I'm I'm good enough like I'm good enough at hiring that I can make sure that that's not the limiting factor right and so that's kind of how I think about it in terms of business growth overall and so it'd be the same thing with Caleb is like we have to identify with the constraint of the of the system is and then deconstrain it when you say Talent stacking if I do say that a few times what do you mean by that so this is one of my favorite topics um many skills like one plus one equals five when you put them together so let's say you have somebody who's really good at math in the beginning that as a skill not super monetizable right okay well then you learn bookkeeping okay well now you had a proclivity for math but you learned something that has value in the business World okay then you learn to you know get your CPA now you become an accountant okay more valuable um then you start studying around uh tax law and insurance and you're like oh significantly more valuable then you learn how to how Capital markets work and how debt markets work right and and you understand how mergers and Acquisitions work and all of a sudden you are a CFO and then you learn how to sell and promote a little bit all of a sudden now you're a Rainmaker and so you still needed to be good at math but when you stack these other skills on top of it the original math skill becomes significantly more valuable when you have these skills on top but each one kind of requires the one before which is why one of the things I hate about kind of the entrepreneurial World a little bit is like they'll learn something new and then poo poo the thing before it's like I'm not upset but the teacher who taught me arithmetic because I learned algebra one was necessary for the next and so um as entrepreneurs a lot of times it takes I think the self-awareness to say like where am I at on my skill stacking Adventure right and each skill every skill you add to your skill tool belt makes the rest of your skills more valuable which is why I think it's so cool which is why I'm such a big advocate for Education overall that's I mean mission of acquisition economic business accessible to everyone that's why we put all this free stuff out there is because like if we can give people enough skills they'll be able to stack them on their own and then just achieve whatever they want in a totally different way if you allow me to go there it's like you look at Jay-Z right maybe you're somebody who naturally had Rhythm right and so then all of a sudden he learned how to rap okay took his rhythm put in a wrap okay and then he made his first CD okay and then he learned how to promote oh significantly more valuable and then he learned how to make a label and then you learn how to recruit other artists and so he still needed to learn how to know how to promote the other artists if you didn't know how to promote it all you wouldn't be able to do it but once he had the label he got significantly more leverage on the skill of promotion and he could recognize people because of his skill in rapping in Rhythm and so like each of these scale stacks on top and then eventually he he pinnacled into Beyonce as his top skill I'm just kidding um but no but like that's the idea so like it and that's why I'm just like learn the skill find the next skill and and the nice thing is that it doesn't even matter how disparate the skills are like if Jay-Z is really good at math and understands Capital markets and understands the label those combined to into another cool melange my little French word like mix of skills that's like unique to Jay-Z and the longer you play the game the more skills you get and the more unique you are mix of skills is and that to me is like the coolest part about business and just like education in general I I stumbled across a bit of a similar but maybe adjacent idea um in my career where uh when I learned when my company went public on a Stock Exchange in um Europe I then learned from an investment Bank when we were having the meetings with the banks we went on this Roadshow met 20 different investment Banks we were considering an IPO in another country they told me that our business would be worth four times more if it was just on a different stock market if you move it to the NASDAQ the exact same business would be worth four times more which meant that my net worth would be forexed just by taking the exact same business and moving it to a different Stock Exchange and I thought about that a couple of years later when I was thinking about the skill set that I had acquired over my career which was this skill set of marketing and social media and Entrepreneurship and I was thinking you have to not just have the skill but know what Market to apply it to and what ended up happening I've never told this story before but um I looked I looked for an industry where my skill set was in lease Supply but highest demand and returned the greatest and it turned out that industry in terms of social media marketing and storytelling I felt was most in demand and would return the greatest value for companies that were about to IPO because essentially when you're going to IPO if you have a good story it can swing your valuation by hundreds of millions or in the case of the first company I worked with when their IPO listed at 3 billion um billions yeah and so my skill set of social media and marketing I could do what with it I could go help a local gym and get paid a thousand bucks or I could go help a company that was in the lead-up to an IPO that was you know where I can potentially add hundreds of millions of value and take seven million yeah as part of an equity deal so upon leaving my first company the equity Arrangement that I had was valued somewhere between four uh I'm gonna say between Miss Penske is a share price fluctuated but I think on the day of the IPO the equity that I got for for the nine to 12 months work that I'd done was worth in the region of seven to eight million dollars right nine months work yeah basically freelance yeah you know same skill stack but applied to an industry that would pay me more for the same skills um and so I thought a lot about that and that's ultimately why we start our company which is now called flight story we have a um probably the time of the Airing there's about a hundred people we started the company about about a year and a half ago oh crazy and that's basically that's applying the skill set we have to Industries where that need it and we started out in the IPO Market did a little bit of work in this um biotech Market um and now we've kind of broadened out but people don't think about that a lot you like my skill set where is it in highster morning can pay the most a hundred percent I thoroughly agree with everything you just said I also think that that's a skill like I wish someone just said it to me like oh yeah totally and that's like information to me it's like the most like uh you know the biggest debt one of the things that I um I love saying this but like the biggest debt all of us pay is ignorance and so I I heard this close at this pitch years ago and this guy got on stage and he and he was like Hey ma'am she was like how much do you make she was like fifty thousand dollars so you're at fifty thousand dollars on the Whiteboard and then you wrote a million dollars on top of the fifty thousand and he subtracted it it said 950 000. he said you pay life 950 000 every single year for not knowing how to make a million dollars a year and it was a crazy concept and he was using it to close the audience but I like the most expensive thing that all of us are paying for is the information that we don't know and that's like both frightening and also incredibly exciting because like fish in the best ponds right like a good fisherman knows where to fish and everybody can put a hook and uh and a thing and stick it over the water but like the best fisherman know where and when Etc and that's exactly the story that you said is like I had the hook and I had the The Reel and all that stuff but like I went to where the best where the best fishing was and like to me that skill same work yeah same amount of time same Rod or zeros one of the things in the first book is like you want to like sell better customers so if you want to sell better customers yeah like this it's the exact same thing you just said which is like if I were to do cro work so conversion rate optimization for a website that's e-commerce and I work for a store that's doing a million dollars a year and I say cool I'm able to increase your conversion air set by 20 Okay cool so now that's doing 1.2 million dollars a year I made 200 000 in value and maybe I can get 10 of that I get 20 grand okay cool I do the same work to a business doing 100 million dollars a year I make them 20 million dollars for my 20 bump and I get 10 that and I make two million dollars twenty thousand two million a hundred X same work to your point and to me that's skill like to know that simple simple fact like I had this tweet that went super viral which was uh solve rich people problems they pay better a lot of controversy around that um but it's true and so find the people and a different way of saying it is find the people who value what you have the most and I'm sure you've heard this have you heard the story of the the father and the son with the car no okay so maybe I have fun okay no it's good it's good so there's there's a father who gifts his son an old beat up car and he says you know hey I don't know if it drives or not but you can take it down to the um the dealership down the street see if you can trade and get some money he's like okay so he goes down the street goes to the dealership they say we'll give you a thousand bucks for it and he come you know hears him out comes back home he's like Dad they said give me a thousand bucks he's like okay he's like go to the impound yard where they you know break the cars up just for Metal He's like see what they'll give you goes there and uh the guy's like ah I don't know this might be 500 bucks of metal a kid like you know comes back home he's like Daddy you know he said it was gonna be 500. he's like okay he's like hey go down the street to that uh that antique uh dealership see if they've got anything that use car lot and it's like okay so he goes down there talks to the guy comes back home super excited he's like Daddy won't believe it he's like this is a historic car there's only like 10 of them left he's like it's worth a hundred thousand dollars and so the father smiles and he's like and the less that I want you to know is that it's not necessarily who you are but the people that value you the most and so you can talk to different people and go to the people who value you and I just I love that story because from a it's a huge it's a huge business story in terms of like cell sell where the fish are where the big fish are like if you if you're gonna go Hook Fish go to go where the whales are um it takes the same work but a lot of it's just belief people don't think it's possible and so a lot of times you have to just keep leveling up and you sell your first ten thousand dollar thing you sell your first hundred thousand dollar thing sell your first multi-million dollar package you realize that's the exact same thing it's just so maybe if I'm list if anybody's listening right now it is the same thing it's the exact same thing and sometimes it's easier like you know you've seen that Meme that says like uh so what exactly am I going to be getting for this 50 thing right and then it's like uh fifty thousand dollar clients like wire set yesterday like what else do you need like it's and that's totally true um but I think there's a skill in understanding where to fish certainly a skill um information it's information it's even knowing that there was another Lake over there and and that's why like listening to conversations like this is so valuable for people because it lifts a curtain and you go what the [ __ ] you guys were behind here the whole time partying that's what my business life has been like it's like a gradually like I think I heard Kevin Hart describe on Joe Rogan one time where he said there's this other room yeah where these people are playing this other set of money games yeah and then when you get in that room you get you're almost pissed off that nobody told you this room existed but then there's another door yeah and then you get through there maybe a couple of years later and you find these other people these [ __ ] billionaires that are playing another set of games and you're going what and they're chilling yeah they're just spoken to guys they're not even doing any hard why can you go tell me the games that you guys have been playing in here yeah and then again the frustration is and that's kind of what I feel like in my business life it's been like where I had the jump I'm charging I don't know I remember my first we found our first deck from 2014 charging I remember the package we did gold silver and bronze it was like you know 200 package for like support and then 500 and then the gold package it will be through everything in for a thousand dollars and I remember one of my first clients um accepting that and then I think today like the only difference okay there's skills that have increased but information is the big thing knowing how to do it you know um when you think about curtains that have lifted that have really shifted the games you play from a value money perspective like where someone's Turned the Lights On You [ __ ] of course yeah is there anything else that comes to mind like big macro games yeah um I think a big you know when I the big I will answer it with the stair steps of how each order of magnitude changing my income so when I went from being an employee to self-employed I went from making four figures a month to five figures a month and that was for me just like I'm now in control the level above that was I started having other people who worked for me I'd even know that was possible sounds crazy like I was like you can hire people because my my members in my gym were like you know other people can work here I'm like cleaning the floor and doing the marketing and teaching class they're like I was like didn't think about that right and then went to six figures a month right and then from there stayed there did the turnaround business still had the same organizational structure had another degree of Leverage and so the next review of Leverage was that I started licensing so it's digital right so the cost for you know cost of goods was basically nothing and then that's when things started skyrocketing that got me to seven figures a month and then eight figures a month was using leverage through capital which is where you know we're at now and I would imagine that nine figures a month will probably be some level of technology or more uh media on my side but all of these things are about leverage and so this is like one of my favorite topics in the whole world but if we Define leverages the difference between what you put in and what you get out so if you have a lot of Leverage but a little bit in you get a lot out if you have no leverage or low leverage you put a lot in you get a little bit out and a lot of times people who are listening to this and are not making as much money as they want they're putting lots of input in and not getting a lot out they have low leverage opportunities and so understanding how to get more for what you put in is the game overall and so the first level that I described was Labor it's just work first I was working for someone else then I worked for myself and I got other people to work for me the first level in each of those levels was more leverage above that I had media which is the thing that I was licensing out so another degree of Leverage I made it once and I could license that out Infinity on top of that I have capital I can take capital I don't have to sacrifice time in order to get something for it so it's high input output um above that would be some sort of Technology you build the code once in theory obviously you continue to improve the code but theoretically you build a thing once and then a million people can use it and so you want to Stack as many types of Leverage as you can and as much of them as you can because like Joe Rogan also has a show and somebody else has a podcast they both technically are using media as their as their as their vehicle for leverage but he has significantly more of it so it's not just like I'm gonna use all these right yes but it's also how much into what degree but like Facebook had other people's money he used media had other people's work Max leverage Amazon same thing right they used every element of Leverage and they maxed all of them out and um that's that's at least the the curtain that and Naval talks about this if you're familiar with Naval ravacon um he talks about these things as the as the the P the elements of Leverage are four types of Leverage um and understanding that for me has kind of been a blueprint for wealth overall and then you know Capital there's degrees of capital right like you first you can get friends and family to give you money then you can get you know institutional money and then you can get public money right which you know you saw like the IPO money like the fact that the NASDAQ was Forex uh the Dusseldorf exchange is that where it was right um there's just significantly more capital in that market and so it same work more zeros um and so I love this topic because I think that that's fundamentally like the people who move faster in life don't actually move faster they get more for every step are you happy I'm stoked Max stoke you know I'm not asked this question for for a long time but yeah I thought I'd ask it because it's kind of similar to what we've um been talking about today but if um if happiness was like a list of ingredients and it was a recipe is there anything missing from your recipe that would make you even more happy and sometimes that recipe is about balancing the ingredients you need two eggs and 100 eggs yeah one cup of flour yeah um for me it's always been about autonomy I should be able I want to I want to be able to do what I find interesting um and that's that's been the core of it and what I do will change but the core of having the freedom to do it has been the center of it and so for me I don't think my freedom has I mean not in recent history my freedom hasn't fundamentally changed in any way and so I would say that I'm the same level of contentedness as I was last year um but I find engagement in what I do and that that's that's I'll give you my definition of Happiness which is doing what you like to do with people you like and doing that as much as you possibly can and that's my simple definition interesting I've tried to I've tried to figure that out that like professional like I guess it's not even a professional thing but I've tried to figure out and summarize that's a wonderful summary the the place I've gotten to is if you're surrounded by people you love you're doing something that challenges you which I think is an interesting one you've kind of encapsulated it just by saying things you like but yeah the challenges you gives you a sense of forward motion and progress um towards a meaningful goal and that's a subjective thing could be raising a kid or making a million dollars whatever I think that's kind of what I call it my echo guy if I find if I'm in that state and it's a state um I think I'm happy we have a closing tradition on this podcast where the last guest asks a question for the next guest ah without knowing who they're going to be asking it to I'm terrified why does everyone get so scared when I do this like aren't my question scary like everyone someone's gonna like try to stick the note like okay I'm gonna think of it what's gonna get we have these um conversation cards where we've taken all the questions written in this book and we've made them into cards so people can play at home um I'm actually going to slide them over to you and just ask you to pick one conversation card okay um I've picked a couple there that I think are Stitch UPS so let me go from The Middle okay and the question is what are the failures you cherish the most I'm gonna give two I am very grateful that I hated the job that I had because I think that I am the type of person because of how hard it was for me to quit that if I had liked a job enough I don't think I would have left and I think I would have gone to the business school and done the next thing like if I had a job worked for people whatever it was that I enjoyed enough just enough I might not be where I am now and I think that I cherish the fact that it was so miserable that it got me to change like that that that job changed my life from a like Soul perspective um going through what I did with Layla I cherish those times because a lot of people live worst case scenario years into their marriage years into their relationship and then they kind of like see what the other person is made of I got to do that before I married the person and so there haven't been any surprises since then and it's something that's like shared misery to a certain degree but like spiritual strength or spiritual whatever you want to call it um I know she's got my back and there's an element to that story that I didn't tell but when we really needed money at one point I flew Leila out to do this launch I couldn't go with her and I actually broke up with her but I was like I can't do this right now and so for 28 days we were not together and most girls people would probably been like screw this guy um but instead Layla set the all-time record for a launch that still hasn't been broken and when she came back I was like she stood tall when everything in my life was crumbling around me and she like made it happen and I knew that wherever I wanted to go I needed someone like that with me and so I cherish the failures that of that entire season because there were many um because I wouldn't know what I have today if I hadn't been through those tests with her then man that's beautiful in the Diary of a CEO we have hundreds of questions that have been left by our guests and we've put them on these cards and on these cards you have the question that's been left in the diver CEO the name of the person who wrote the question and if you turn it over there's a QR code if you scan that code you can see which guests answered the question and watch the video of them answering it every time I've done this podcast and every time we've asked the kind of questions we ask here I feel a tremendous sense of affinity to the guest and our aim with these cards is that you can create that sense of connection through vulnerability at home with the people you love the most and I have some good news for you as of today you can add your name to the waiting list to be the first in line to get your own set of conversation cards at the conversationcards.com we have a another question which is the question that people leave in the book I thought I just nailed it I thought that was it I think this is the new tradition I'm talking about the old tradition one last question Alex but you did nail that so I'll be honest you stuck that Landing um when do you feel the most emotionally connected to yourself literally my like heartbeat thought was when I'm working like the first Harpy thought and then like if I had to be really specific when I'm in the throes of writing I had a a writing scholarship coming out of high school I was the vice editor of the newspaper I was the editor-in-chief of the literary magazine when I was in high school I've enjoyed writing um it's one of those things that for me like you said like challenge like writing is a thing is a monster that only gets stronger and stronger and you get better and better at writing and you see the flaws in your writing the better you get at writing and so it always feels like it matches the difficulty matches my ability at all times and so it is the thing that I experienced the greatest degree of flow in the most regularly makes a lot of sense once there's a lot of questions that we've talked about earlier on as well Alex thank you so much for your time um and being here it's been an incredibly diverse and enlightening and honest and vulnerable and inspiring and soul filling conversation in so many respects and um I I know for sure you're just at the very start of your journey I asked you about the staircase I know that you've just got one foot on the first step and I think it's going to be incredible to watch um the next couple of seasons of your life because you're destined for incredible things there's absolutely no doubt in that so thank you Alex appreciate your time I appreciate that thank you it's kind words I've now been a cool Drinker for about four years roughly so much so that I ended up investing in the company um and I play a role on the board of the company but they also very kindly sponsored this podcast and to be honest I've never said this before but he all believed in this podcast before anybody else the CEO Julian um told me before we even launched the podcast how successful it would be and that heel would back it and I absolutely have a huge amount of gratitude for them for that support but an even greater sense of gratitude for the fact that they've helped me stay nutritionally complete throughout the chaos and hecticness of my tremendously busy business schedule so if you haven't tried out here which I hope most of you have at least given it a go by now try it out it's an unbelievable way to try and stay nutritionally on course if you have a hectic busy schedule and let me know what you think send me a tweet and a DM tag me let me know what you think quick one as you guys know we're lucky enough to have blue jeans as a sponsor and supporter of this podcast for anyone that doesn't know blue jeans is an online video conferencing tool that allows you to have slick fast good quality online meetings without any of those glitches that you'd normally find with other meeting online 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Published: Mon Apr 03 2023