Stripper interview-Gabbie

all right Gabby Gabby where you from originally where' you grow up Vegas Vegas mhm tell me about your childhood my childhood for the most part was good my mom did her part but it was a she was a single mother and I have a lot of siblings I'm the oldest yeah how many siblings uh seven seven mhm it's hard on Mom yeah was dad in the picture no and all six were by one baby dad but he decided to and my mom was Young when she had us too so how would you describe your childhood in general I would describe it it was rough but my mom would never let it like show she knew how to like keep up with it and make sure we had everything we needed and sounds like you had a good mom I did she I would never bash her like we don't get along now but I would never bash her cuz she's a great mother it's not easy being a mom to seven kids it's not that's why I could never like Dad yeah I could never like be mad at her for like the way she was cuz at at the end of the day she was young when she had me too so it's like she was a kid having kids what kind of teenager were you I was a bad kid I was doing bad stuff I was running the streets thinking I'm grown always getting into my mom what what makes a kid behave like that when you're 15 16 17 I mean I feel like it had something to do with my dad not being in my life right I think it just wanted the attention also because I was the oldest so my mom like I had a lot of are you like hungry for the attention of of a guy yeah I was is that what draws you to this kind of work yeah I could say so yeah and I just like the fast life the fast money yeah it's good to be aware that you're like that at least yeah I know instead of just being blind and making the same mistake over and over yeah that's really bad like people that don't know the reason why they act the way they act like that's not okay how old are you now 22 22 mhm old enough to know better yeah but you do it anyway yeah the fast money is attractive yes I'm sure helps me get by I like it do you do you have kids no no kids no kids no boyfriend no nothing like that no no boyfriend single are you making good money yeah I like it it's really good money what kind of Club do you work in um a strip club yeah I know but like totally nude or topless or oh topless topless mhm drugs are a part of your life or no weed just weed m is that necessary for you to yes work with these guys in the I Love Weed I can never get over weed I feel like that's something that yeah I'll just never get over it weed is like a medicine for the whole everybody right it calms calming it seems like so many people I interview are like dependent on weed no for real that's what it is nowadays I mean I feel like it's always been that way though it's just like more known now is there a downside to weed uh I feel like it just depends on the person because weed could take over your life like the way you act towards people if you don't have it you know it can make you like spaz out if you're not getting it when you want it you know but being being dependent on it and getting it on a regular basis daily right is there a downside to that is there something that it does to you that that that is not helping you in in the long run um I guess money taking my money away takes your money yeah it's expensive but I just wonder if it slows down your emotional development uh it probably does it probably does because part of growing up is being able to deal with all your tough situations and all the tough emotions that come up the anger the the anxiety the depression all that stuff and I suspect that we I've never tried it but I suspect weed just keeps you from growing up keeps you from being a mature adult true that's very true I suspect I'm not saying that's my I feel like it's true because proven majority people that you do meet that smoke weed are kind of immature like they don't they still have their kid mindset they still have that yeah nobody wants to grow up right nobody want nobody wants to nobody wants to grow up we all want to be I didn't want to grow up but I mean here now emotionally what do you go through living this being 22 single and working in a in a strip club it could be depressing sometimes cuz you know like I could be in my head Thinking by myself like I have friends but I don't have friends you know cuz you know you have your people that you be around and then you have that person that's always been around you know cuz I have a best friend and that's really the only person that I could count on or trust all you need is one friend though right you friends you just cuz I I had to go through millions of friends to realize that if you have one good one it's it's better than having 20 friends right and that's what I learned cuz she's been around since million she been watching me go through millions of friends and just tell me like see I told you so I told you so and you can trust her yeah I trust her all the way that's great that's all you need yeah we both have that same type of trust bond you know we trust each other we're lucky to have that in our lives no yeah for real do you have did you have dream or do you have dream you're still young do you have dreams of doing something with your life yeah I do actually I want to be a sonogram tech oh good for you yeah I looked into it it's pretty good money are you doing anything towards that goal yeah I'm looking into like going into school cuz you know you got to pay to go to school so like I'm saving up to do that good for you yeah that's really great to hear instead of just thinking you're going to right just go ahead and do it be a stripper and and be like Oh I'm I'm going to get yeah I'm going to get rich doing this oh no that's never the mindset I don't think cuz I mean if you could but it might take quite a while well I think it might take a while but ultimately what I see happening I've done a lot of these kind of talks is you end up doing more to make more money and that more that you're doing it's kind of taken away it makes you drink more it makes you escape more because what you're doing is stuff with guys that you really would rather not be doing right but you're doing it because you want to make that money and and you got three kids to support and you got no help from your baby daddy and your I know and your your lifestyle is expensive or your bills lifestyle is exp definitely expensive is this an expensive lifestyle yes California is expensive yes it is probably like the most expensive place if you were doing this in well I can't say that cuz Miami is pretty expensive too yeah but if you were doing this in Alabama oh well that's different but even those girls are are making money yeah but they're they're spending on drugs true I used to do Google searches for my own name and I was always really Disturbed what I'd find seeing my personal information out there for anyone to grab it's just uncomfortable that's why I've started using Aura the sponsor of today's video 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but I like it it's very pretty mhm it was just something I was like okay I have to get it and then I was getting it I was crying what does it mean I don't it don't really mean nothing to me I mean certain people have their own definitions but me personally I don't have no what is it about getting tattoos that don't really mean anything to you they're just cute I wanted them yeah most of my tattoos right now are just like oh they're cute I wanted them I you know you know what I think is cute what a girl that has no tattoos and just thinks her skin is beautiful without all the dressing up hey that's beautiful too it is yes because it shows that you love yourself and you believe you're beautiful without all the without all the ink all the extras yeah the lashes the I feel like I'm beautiful without all the extra you are beautiful thank you but it's easy to fall into a trap where you don't think you're good enough especially working in a strip club where you're being judged by every single person in that room oh yeah even the strippers even other girls yep yeah even the other girls it's so crazy because like why I don't understand why other girls hate on other girls like we all go through the same thing so why you get more hate from other girls than guys right yeah totally a lot more totally and it's more because like I'm pretty so like yeah and the prettier you are the more hate you get yeah for sure it's that's been like that my whole life though like people be trying to if you were if you were attractive or whatever you know I'm not going to use the then i' would be like I wouldn't probably even have no one would be threatened by you and you be like I'm cool with her I would be the loner kid like everyone would like you I know for real but because you're a threat to other attractive females you're going to get crap right oh yeah for sure it was like that in school all the time they hated on me so bad cuz their boyfriends likeed me or their boyfriend in what forms does this hate come from other females uh more so like like their boyfriends like their boyfriends be I don't know like what do you mean boyfriends nowadays are not loyal so their boyfriends might be flirting with you and then yes and then like maybe I I didn't know they had a girlfriend and they were flirting with me on accident and the girls started giving you crap right and it's like or saying things about you behind your back yeah like dang I didn't know [ __ ] if you if he had a girl why would he be talking to me you know that's what I think about cuz when you meet guys they don't tell you oh I have a girlfriend I'm not going to tell you that no they're not going to tell you that but yeah that's funny now that you're uh un un unencumbered you have no boyfriend MH do you feel like your freedom allows you to do things to push the limits of how much money you can make yeah totally I mean there back rooms there's back rooms at these strip clubs yeah and if a guy the right guy comes along and says you know you want to make an extra 500 bucks right hey so be it yeah making good money but yeah I feel like without a boyfriend you you really just all you have to do is take care of yourself and do fun stuff by yourself and not have to pay for like an extra person cuz that's how it's been my whole life like majority of the guys I met I'm the one that's paying for the date you know cuz yes cuz they be like they be acting like they have money they really don't they just like to put on the front nowadays a lot of guys are freeloading yeah like to leech off of girls really yeah most guys do I mean I can't say all guys but most you're you're part African-American yes and these guys you're talking about are are black or white black yeah cuz when you when you when you tell me that I have a hard time believing what white dudes are doing that oh no no white dudes will give you all their money but black dudes are going to leech really yes they will they could get if they could get any Penny out of you they're going to get it where's that come from I don't know honestly don't know they don't like I mean nowadays like the mindset that these these guys have they want to be pimps like they want to be pimps or they try to act like pimps or they want to have that type of title and I just don't know why like why do you you guys don't have that type of title being a pimp is not something that's fun or cute or okay it is it is in the in the hood yeah it's okay with them I know right they get cool even guys that aren't pimps want to be pretend like they're pimps I know that's what I'm saying like why like you don't get no cool points out of girl like a girl's mindset if a girl looks at you you don't get no cool points of being a pimp they're going to walk away they don't want nothing to do with that I mean I feel like the SMART Girls the ones that are not like desperate for boys maybe it might be okay to have a little bit of that P game but to right actually depend on that yeah no just not cool not cool at all yeah for all those people out there that is not cool remember that I I just see it as you're you're just lazy huh I just see it as you're a lazy Hustler yes for sure that's what they are they're lazy Hustlers getting girls are on to them no for real but they still they think they still fall for sometimes yeah cuz they think that they're taking care they're getting taken care of are a lot of girls just lonely and they just want that male companion and and they'll they'll put up with his [ __ ] I feel like majority girls that do do that is because they probably didn't have a father in their life and that's majority girls like they seek for boy attention so like if they can get that oh he's taking care of me type of I've interview pimps haven't I don't remember when saying this recently but I remember some of my earlier pimp interviews that maybe are on my channel Maybe I never used them but I remember they they all were telling me you need to find a girl that has daddy issues yeah if she doesn't have daddy issues you can't even deal with her you can't cuz they without daddy is issues they have a smarter mind they'll know that this is BS yep but a girl that doesn't have a dad didn't have a dad in her life when she was a girl will fall for this [ __ ] mhm folded easily for sure that's why girls really have to stay safe and get more knowledge why dad got to stay in a girl a young girl's life right and it it it sucks because like you guys like guys lay down with girls and know what it comes with if they did ever came down to it and then they just disappear after they have their babies it's just like why why even lay down with her why even take the chance if you knew you were going to take care of the baby I feel like that's it's pretty messed up it's so it's such an important thing for a dad to stay in a in a kids life literally cuz it can do so much damage like I could say that myself like growing up like it did so much damage to me did you ever have like a male role model around or anybody I did I did who'd you have my stepdad he actually passed away that's good yeah your stepdad can teach you everything that and I I I really loved him so much cuz he did so much for me that he did not have to like it's crazy I remember one time my dad like he was in and out of our lives in the beginning and when he my stepdad was around my dad wanted to act crazy and why are you around my kids and why are you and it's just like dude he's doing more than you why do you care why do you care you're not taking care of us he is so when he passed away it was like heartbreaking he was more of a dad to you than yes than your dad or anybody else right yes I miss him so much cuz man he was such a great father to me that's great yeah but yeah it's nice when a stepdad can step in do the and it's like you don't have to he doesn't have to but he did so that just shows even more what type of guy he is a g a giver yeah there are great guys out there mhm there is he loved my mom a lot too he showed it it always kills me when I hear when I interview a female especially a sex worker and she's just saying guys are this way it's like saying it's like saying women are this way women no for real you can't be so like what is the word for like you can't be is it biased well just like what is the word I mean just seeing all people is bad or all people is a certain way and that's not true cuz they there are good and bad you have to have an open mind I should say when it comes to people because everybody's not the same I mean they could be majority but if you're work in the streets or a club or whatever yeah you're seeing a lot of dudes that are just of a certain ilk you know there're just going to be a certain type of guy that comes into a strip club yeah I hate aggressive guys like like all these strippers that I interview uhhuh like I don't I haven't set foot in a strip club in the long long time can't remember the last time I went into a strip club so what I'm doing is paying somebody to go into a strip club and find those girls CU I don't want to go into the club right I pay I pay him a lot of money to go to a strip club find me he knows what kind of girls are interesting and are good conversationalists and so on I tell him what to look for and he'll go out and bring him back he brought me gabby yeah and a lot of other interesting girls lately so because because I just find that lifestyle so uh just un un unbearable I can't even be around it but I find the people that are involved in it especially the tricks the tricks that that are on Figaro Street are some of my favorite interviews really oh they're so good they're so interesting because as as a friend of mine a very good friend of mine says they're the lifeblood of this whole lifestyle they are if you ever know tricks if you ever know dudes that spend money on strippers or or whatever you want to call them they're not tricks but but guys that go to strip clubs or tricks that go to prostitutes MH without them there there wouldn't be no lifestyle there is no hustle there is no there's definitely no Hustle No bag to chase cuz where you getting the money from yeah yeah I could say that definitely have to depend on what what do you look for in a in a guy in a strip club um I just I look for not to aggressive I look for the more nicer and like lenient guy that just wants to have a dance have a good time and leave because most guys some guys could get aggressive because they're drunk or yeah yeah and it's just like G no you you develop all kinds of people's skills by doing this work because yes one guy is going to be aggressive and assertive and and really kind of and you have to deal with it the right way too you have to know how to deal you need to know how to deal with a domineering guy but then you also will find a shy guy who's just kind of nice very passive mhm and then the next guy is somewhere in the middle and there's there's all kinds mhm that's why he's better off to just work in a club I don't see why people go out and risk their lives on a street you could go be safe in a club much safer in a strip club right yes for sure have you consider doing like only fans or things like that yeah I have I just like don't know how to go about it cuz like I don't know how only fans works you knew how to do it would you do it yeah for sure yeah I thought about it plenty of times is there a downside you think to that um no no cuz I feel like only fans is the only fans like yeah but you're going to be on the internet for the rest of your life I know you're going to be 90 years old one day and there they'll be picted hey was that you on they'll ped the gab with their ankles behind your ears no that's so crazy now but I've thought about it I just I'm I'm a procrastinator like I'm like oh yeah I'm going to do this then I Pro procrastinate but every you have to understand that everything you do there is a price you pay for it yep everything you can't just like oh I'm just going to do only fans for a while and make some bank it's not going to be like that you're going to work your ass off you're work harder at only fans M or strip stripping or or work in the streets or whatever it's like the same thing as YouTube you have to put in work to get your followers you have to put in work oh [ __ ] yeah to get your subscribers I used to do advertising I worked my ass off I thought doing that I work harder doing this right than anything I've ever done this is a full-time job times three I've been up since 400 A.M working non-stop came in here to do this and I'm going to go back to work and I'm going to do it again until I pass out and that's what I did yesterday and I'll probably do it again tomorrow and I do it almost every day of the year true Hustler yeah I'm a hustler true Hustler I'm a hustler like you are yep that's why I like people like us we are focused on our bag I mean that's I feel like majority of people that's really what you have to worry about cuz if you don't have one then what are you going to be in life like that's life comes with I want to be pimp right I want to be pimp yes do you ever take the guys in the strip club seriously no there's not a single guy that can come to you and you be like oh this guy's really nice or he's really sweet or he's yeah I mean I have you have yeah I be like okay he's he's nice huh like some guys might just want to just have a conversation with you just want to get to know you but the fact that he's in a trip Club doesn't already make him a a guy that you can't take seriously H yeah it does yeah but you can he can overcome that or no I mean he would he would have to put in a lot of work to overcome that cuz you really had to prove a lot to me you're in a strip club right now you already got you've already got that Big L on your forehead right just you walked in here throwing money what does that say for you you guys like to think they're players when they go into the strip club mhm dude you're a loser think they just the big Ballers of the year yeah no no I mean some of them are the rappers yeah the rappers are the big Ballers you get some of those coming in from time to time pretty cool but some of them be weird like they like to but do you understand that those kind of guys are trouble or do you oh yeah for sure but you want to make some money and they they're opportunity to do that they're definitely trouble because I Feel Like Rappers have this mindset of like we could treat [ __ ] however the [ __ ] we want because we could get them we got the money that's how they but what kind of proposals propositions do you get what do you mean by that like the guys come in and they want to take you home or they want to take you oh I will never go home with nobody did you get offered that yeah I do they be like I throw you extra money just to come home with me NOP not doing it I don't know what you could do to me at your house you don't right I'll would never take that risk what's what's the scariest thing you've been involved in a guy trying to rob me yeah like leaving the club at night at at whatever hour in the morning 3: or 4 in the morning right what kind of things do you do do you get it's pretty scary that's why had to always watch like your surroundings and what's going on around I had one girl I just interviewed recently who told me that she had like a guy that she paid who just I think he followed her home what no no he she paid him to follow him her home she trusted him and he had to step in once or twice to protect her from guys that were following her oh wow stalkers B basically oh wow so he was there to make sure that never happened and it you know he actually that's that's good I love people that are like protective over women for just because their kind kindness of their heart like that that says the type of man you are like you take care of your women that that's good and he didn't want anything for it other than just the the the the money that is worth the protection that he's providing yeah and that's good like that just shows like I said what type of person you are yeah the kindness of your heart cuz honestly he didn't have to do that but at the kindness of his heart he did yeah are you happy in general yeah you are yeah you're a happy person yeah I'm a very like nice giggly jokey person you seem to be yeah I am people love my vibe like anytime I meet new people they just let's hang out again like let's go do this let's go do that like oh my God like I love you you're like the best friend ever very likable yeah I'm very likable like I get that a lot and that's another reason why people don't like me because I I attract a lot of people that's [ __ ] up so be like oh this [ __ ] getting all this attention oh [ __ ] she's nice right like oh [ __ ] she's not really rude like cuz you know off the internet or like off just my looks people could be like oh she looks rude or oh she looks stuck up but in reality like you you won't know until you meet me and that's just how it goes for anybody like you have to get to know somebody to before you judge them and that's how I am I don't judge people off the way they look I would like to get to know them first is is it hard working in a strip club where some guys might like thicker girls or might like um blondes or I mean I don't have a problem or whatever you know it's like so so you're going to get you know some guys like tall skinny girls MH and but there are guys that want something totally different right you just have to understand that guys like what they like and that's it mhm I mean I can never get jealous cuz it's like go girl you go I'm going support the girls always for for every girl there's a there's a guy yeah and somebody's going to think you're the cats meow yeah I get a lot of comments like you're so beautiful like why do you work here and stuff like that I'm just be like it's good money man it's good money they like you should not be here I'm like what do you think you'll be doing in 10 years I want to be successful in life I want to have my own clothing brand going by then obviously I want to be a sonogram Tex to um I do hair too I'm a hair stylist and I'm very good at it I do like all the any type of hairstyle people be name it name it I could do it this is your natural hair yes but you told me you wear wigs a lot yeah why do you wear wigs I I just don't like doing my hairir beautiful I don't like doing my hair it's like too much too thick like I just recently cut it cuz it was so dead but it's just too much sometimes to handle so it's like okay just braid it down put it over the wig style a wig and like the wigs look good so I like them what kind what do you look for in a guy if you were serious about a relationship which you may not be at this point in your life I just wanted a genuine person that just like loves me for me I feel like guys go into relationships looking for the opposite they look for like what they could get out of somebody or I don't know just the fun time like they don't really look into like oh I want to love this girl I want to like show this girl like I really care about her and stuff like that like their personality matters a lot to me too cuz like if you're just a rude scummy person I don't want to be around you cuz you're going that energy is going to rip off on me MH I want to have a good person in my life that uplifting me telling me like what I'm doing in life is good and supporting me you know is a guy who is is an honest hardworking man that is maybe a good provider for the woman in his life is that important to you or do you look for that or yes that's very important to me cuz it's like okay well if you care and you care enough and to show me too it's like okay I see what type of person you there having that stepdad that you did may help you in ways you don't even realize yet yeah it did when he was around it did it it actually eased my mind a little bit more cuz I was I always had to grow up fast like I'm the oldest I help my mom take care of the kids when she needed help babysitting I had to be right there to help is it harder being the oldest I feel like every oldest is the hardest cuz you always get that dependent especially if if if I mean if you have a mom and a dad like it's hard on the front end yeah but then it's easier on the back end when you when you've already grown up a little bit and you realized oh that quick growing up I had to do has made my life easier now cuz I knew what I had to deal with whereas the youngest is still struggling because they never really grew up right cuz they always had the support as in an older person they were babied a little bit yeah as in an older person you don't get babied you get the straightforward truth you're thrown in the blender and figure it out thrown to the Wolves yeah and it was like damn now I gotta figure out this life on my own but [ __ ] I did I still am still living is is working at a strip club you're basically a sex object is is that difficult for you no you're used to guys seeing you a certain way perhaps yeah I feel like even off even if I'm like walking around like that's just what men always do they just look like oh she's cute what what could I do with her you know I feel like that's always been a a man's mindset when they look at but then do you feel like those guys are just not really serious yeah those guys are just they're immature cuz that's all they looking for is what can they do with her you know they're not looking for oh what type of girl is she like what does she like sometimes I'm amazed that guys are so stupid to think that oh if I come at a girl this way they're going to I'm going to I'm going to have a chance with them which which maybe you you might with a certain type of female right but maybe maybe just people want these superficial relationships and they don't really care and they just go through life that way mhm I guess it really just depends on the person yeah for sure Gabby what would you say is the most important lesson you've learned in your life not to trust everybody not to trust everybody how many times have I heard that not to trust everybody I mean like every time I'm a very giving person I give a lot to anybody that comes in my life cuz I know what I've been through and I wouldn't want nobody to go through it so it's like if you need it I got it and that mindset and that mentality got me nowhere when it comes to people it literally doesn't get you nowhere so that's why you just really got to stay to yourself don't like give people your allwe cuz in the end of it they can always just turn around and be like [ __ ] you and they don't care what you did for them they're just going to throw it in your face walk away proud happy go on about their life it's like damn that's how you really feel that's how you really feel okay then I just move on it is what it is I know in the back of my mind I helped you out so it is what it is people are very grimy nowadays all right Gabby thank you so much for sharing your story yep wish you lots of luck thank you thank you so much for

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Length: 32min 40sec (1960 seconds)

Published: Wed Jun 12 2024