Stop Complaining & Getting in the Way | Powerful Khutbah - Abu Usamah

in an authentic hadith that summarizes for us the main goal and the objective and the purpose of Elijah jelly and his infinite infinite in its infinite hikmah sinned in the Prophet SAW Allah comes in the hadith that is authentic in which he said nama will if to the Ottoman macadam in a flop verily I have been sent with the sole purpose of perfecting the character of the people so when the Prophet came said Allah body who said them to the co-operation Nebbia Nana rasul there was some good qualities that they had that al islam came and said keep those and embellish them and there were some characteristics that they had that were problem the prophet sallallaahu citing them prevented them from those issues so the main goal in the main objective that he was sent to Benny Adam and so that everybody can become better people in their behavior and there's no single person here who is perfect everybody here has good qualities and everybody here has bad qualities so part of the message of the prophets of the light of a sudden them is the good qualities that you have increase them the good qualities in Al Islam that you don't have then develop them and take them aboard and the bad qualities that you have get rid of them he says on Allah what he was selling when he was asked by one of the Companions what will cause a person to enter into the Jenna more than anything else he told him some Lala who are you selling them tough Allah will host all hope it is having the fear of Allah and also having good character so the person wants to go to agenda the thing that gets him into the agenda more than anything else is the top of Allah and good character he sallallahu said I mentioned llamo Kiana mami and Shaitan film is an ethical ooyama qiyamah teaming and who smell horrible and the skills that Allah is going to wait people and weigh their deeds and their actions your macchiato all of what they've done he say Yolo P AMA there is nothing that's going to be in the skills that is heavier and more weightier than a person having good character so don't sit there and think that good character is not something that we should consume ourselves and busy ourselves with it's something that we should do that many people here we put a lot of emphasis and focus upon praying a lot and that's good fasting a lot and that's good making hydrogen Umbra and that's good giving Sun up and that's good but the one who has good character can be more than the one who prays because good character will get you to that level he mentions of La Guardia who seldom you lyrical movement BAE Hosni who Lupe he Derrida Tulsa MLK in the movement the Muslim he will reach the level of a person who prays a lot and the person who fast a lot if he has good character so there's an individual from amongst us he's practicing she's practicing they pray and they never miss prayer and they fast and they give shut up and they do all those other things but they lie a lot they steal their people you can't trust there are people from amongst us some of us are like that nasty people in the way we behave and we're praying and then unfortunately here's an individual over here his knees have not touched the ground in years as it relates to salat but he's an honest person he's not a liar and he's not a thief now both of those equations or a problem we should be praying we should give sadaqa we should be making efforts to duty by that but also at the same time what is the benefit of doing all of that in Baghdad when people who don't do be bad that behave better than us if you go to visit them you don't hear about he-said she-said game but the Heba you don't hear about that they just decent people so good our clock will cause a person to rise to the level of the one who prays a lot and the one who fasts a lot that's how important this so he used to mention those a hadith to encourage people develop your character take upon yourself developing good character being truthful being honest being patient being an individual sensitive to other people being a person who has suffered all of those characteristics and at the same time he warned against the opposite he warned against the opposite of bad character so on one hand he told people have good character and on the other hand he warned about bacharach than many many examples two of the companions got into an altercation and a misunderstanding and they were of two different colors two different colors one was an Arab and one was a black person and the Arab man became upset with his brother from the companions and he said something to him when the Prophet heard about the word that he used in the description that he used to describe another human being because of his color his ethnicity he told him salawatu was sending them in fika in the cambrian fika Jania you are a person that has characteristics of jahiliyyah that's the Prophet telling the person this bad quality trait not to let it go be a person who has good character so many hadith but also when he saw people doing things he warned them about the bad character racism is a bad character trait he addressed it don't be like that another example he saw a man that was lying so he had to touch upon that he told the people in the liars of the community some of love wari who seldom in medicated ya dl4 jour were in middle for jour ya hadirun our villages are Raju yet if a hadith a hot day looked abandoned illogic Baba he said lion leads to other sins if you Alya you're going to do other stuff as well you're just not going to stop that line the person who has the problem of kitd is going to lead to other problems and he said all of those problems lead to the Hellfire a man will not stop being a liar until Allah writes him down with himself in Monaca and the people that this person is a liar so the sharing and the benefit point of all of that ends good at good o'clock good character nobody here is perfect some people are better than others no doubt about it and everybody has some good everybody the worst person has some good as they say the broken clock is correct two times every time two times a day every day his broke is on 12 o'clock is going to be twelve o'clock twice every single day so no one is totally exactly good 100% and also no one is totally 100% evil even Shaitaan has some benefit as the prophet mentioned sol La do si la lo la la la la whoo and your solemn Mahuta Iblees if allah warranted not to be disobeyed it went it never created a bleeps you want to created him he believes has some benefit he believes will help to determine who's going to be in the generator for the dose and who's going to be in the health height he believes is going to help determine even the people the jugnu who's on the top level and who's on the bottom level he believes is going to help to determine that dependent upon how people may jihad against thee believes he's going to determine by Allah's permission where people going to be so if he has some benefit point is no one is totally 100% look no one is totally 100% back so what's the point in what's the message and moving forward 2016 in this community in this country this community this country moving the community forward we have some big fish to fry we have some serious issues that are on the table some big fish to fry serious issues that are on the table this issue of Islamophobia the Muslim community has to address it the issue of prevent many of our community members don't even know what prevent is and you got time to deal with prevent and Trident those are issues that are on the table as relates to challenges that are contemporary to this Ummah and this community the double standards of the media how the media reports concerning the Muslims in a certain way and how the media reports because the non-muslims in another way all of those are serious issues serious issues so in moving the community forward which is the message here today we have to have good o'clock everybody has a responsibility religiously and ethically everybody here without any exception you have a responsibility to help Islam the community move forward it's not your job to get the hook of Juma it's not your job to leave us all out but everybody here in some shape form of fashion has to be responsible to take his piece of the puzzle to help Islam in this community specifically to move forward Allah mentioned in the Quran showing there is no passive participation in lsland every Muslim has something to do the older person the man the woman the read the one carry can't read everyone he said in the Quran with the kulilin with Hutten who will move early ha for study - hi rod everybody has been put on his path so be array in a race to do your path so his issue how does he help the community he does the Adhan and his issue is when he's not here he does the Adhan and his issue is he gives sadaqa every single week to take care of the mischief and his issue as an elder is he's going to give advice and extreme striction and this person over there his issue is and on and on and on everybody has to find out what's my lane and I got to get in my lane so the man came and he wanted to know Yasuo what can I do to help his slab because I don't have any money I don't have any knowledge I can't do a lot of stuff what can I do he said help the community and do good by holding your hand back and holding your tongue back if you feel you don't have anything to offer shut up and get out of the way because we have a lot of work to do serious issues that are on the table our children in this country our children there is no time anymore for Muslims we playing around and playing games and in communities like this communities that are up in the not the big metropolitan cities like London like Birmingham like those big cities a lot of time in cities like this we become very easy and complacent because the lifestyle up here is kind of easy but that doesn't take away from the fact that there are some serious issues facing the community and it's our responsibility to take the community forward and everybody has something to do so I want to mention something here today in that regard I want advise you and curvature everybody get in his Lane and everybody do what he has the ability to do and do your job and try to do your job well and if you're one of those people who feels I can't do anything then help by not delay in the progress help by not being a distraction help by just sitting on the sidelines because you're helping us just not causing us to carry deadweight but there's one characteristic trait that Ellis lamb came to eradicate and this thing it stops the community from moving forward it stops the marriage from moving forward anyone who suffers from this is a problem and I mentioned it very briefly the last time that I was here on my lawn but I didn't get a chance to expound upon it and it is critical when it comes to moving the community forward community development and that is one of the things that the Quran of the Sunnah came to tell everybody you have to deal with this within yourself because everybody has this issue is the issue of being an individual who complains unnecessarily complaining unnecessarily would destroy the marriage complaining unnecessarily we destroy the development of the child complaining unnecessarily as a community member being a person that complains and all you do is complain that prevents the community from going forward it happened during the time of the prophet sallallaahu idea well I do something to complain unnecessarily is a major problem as you're going to see and shall luck and everybody has it not only that I'm gonna stop right here and I'm going to challenge everybody here right now everybody pay attention after cilantro Juma inshallah pay attention to the first person who comes to you and listen to what he says and you watch how many people complain to you about things you don't have any ability to change that's just the way that people are the nature of the people is we complain and that's what Allah said and that's what the Quran has said is well alignment prophet saw some an authentic hadith he said in the Quran subhana WA Ta'ala in l-insana Unicaja Lew and Edna mrs. Ahuja Josue I'm worried I'm s so who laid manure verily mankind has been created in haste he wants everything yesterday this Masjid right now as it is right now it just didn't pop up like this when this message was first started when that Masjid over there was first started it just didn't pop up like that so people came in the mystic was right here it was a gradual movement until we got to this point right here today and is it going to stay like this for five years the next 10 years it's going to stay like this because we just think of the message as a place you coming you pray and that's it no we don't expect it to accommodate the community in five or ten years we expect we hope that this message is going to grow maybe this won't be the place we're going to be in in five or ten years the point is mankind has been created in haste if evil touches him he starts to complain and he gets upset and if grip comes to him he holds back so if he doesn't have any money if he loses his job if you come sick if something happens he starts to complain and then when Allah gives him good health when Allah gives him a job gives him money he doesn't gave he doesn't hope that ia goes his show from the nature of any atom and know who your sticky he's going to complain that's just how it is brother muhammad mentioned in north in the Khedive showing so a lot cellular everybody is going to complain he says salallahu alayhi wasalam in libel Adam and Sabu her collar has when in Assam boom Bert Carla Haas the son of Adam is a person who if it is hot he's going to say Hoss if it is cold he is going to say Hoss meaning what no matter what his situation is he's going to complain if he has children he's going to complain if he doesn't have children he's going to complain if it's too hot it's a problem if it's too cold it's a problem that's the nature of Beni Adam whereas I wouldn't Libyan I would assume from his o'clock so Allah what he was sending them is what an occipital night except he said if the food any food was put before the prophet sallallaahu what he was sending them if the food was put there if he liked it he ate it if he didn't like it he left it along and he didn't complain he didn't say it's too hot it's too cold too much salt too much pepper if he's eighty lucky at like that he ate it if he didn't like it and eat it I assure said when he used to come to my house he would ask hey Aisha do you have anything to eat for breakfast it's close to the time yeah Aisha how indica shame in that do you have anything to eat brunch right before lunchtime got anything to eat I should say no we don't have anything in the house the Prophet SAW Allah didn't someone say well I'm going to fast them for the rest of the day he didn't say when his wife told him we don't have any food you're lazy why we don't have any food you didn't go shopping what kind of way for you you're a problem instead of making it a negative thing he turned it around and he made it a positive thing he's going too fast in the month aroma he's going too fast for the remainder of the day he's not going to sit and create drama between him and his wife because she doesn't have anything in the house to cook or to present that's from his crop addressable o matic and this is a big difficult to comprehend because we know our own children and we know the reality of their life he said that I served the Nabi Saleh Lodi was said of I gave him but Hitler for 10 years 10 years never once that he complained in two years from the age of 10 to the age of 20 not once did he ever say to me did he ever complain and say to me about something that I did why did you do that thing like that he never said that and not once did he say to me in 10 years for something that I didn't do maybe I should have done it but I didn't he never said why didn't you do like that he didn't do that hey I can't imagine that how we don't address these issues with our kids between the age of 10 and 20 the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam wasn't an individual who would complain unnecessarily and this is the point the person who has a life who complains his nikka is a miss killer his life is a muscular the lady that has a husband all she does all he does is complain her life is a problem and there are men who were like that and there are definitely many women more like that the young man the kid the kid he has a mother a father both of them complained that somebody was complaining or one of them they ride him and all they do is complain his life is going to be a problem we got to be balanced the community where we had individuals that all they do is complain it's going to be a problem hey man we got serious issues on the table contemporary big fish stir-fry for the community and moving to throw it you find your lane and bring your piece of puzzle to the table to help if you don't want to do that help Islam in the community by getting on the side and relaxing yourself as for complaining about everything why this and why I gotta like this and like that we have to address this issue and our attention resources are being doubled with you and we need to be dealing with these big fish that we need to fry so what complaining am I talking about to make it clear I'm talking about the complaint that's unnecessary I walked down this main road here in Keithley as I usually do many of the white people the non-muslims they're looking at me and they're looking at my wife some of them are looking like we got Martians come to the moon so when I get here and you say how you doing Abu what's the benefit of Santa hating white people looking at me I'm complaining what are you going to do about it are you the one I'm complaining to going to go and change all of their minds why waste time mentioning about an issue you don't have anything to change your kid hey hey the weather is really hot today oh it's so hot today it's really hot a jerk can I change that the one your complaint can you change that something you can't change why wait that's the complaining that I'm talking about as for the complaining that a person has the right I am talking about that I'm not talking about that a lot mentioned in the Quran about this complaining and many ayah catania allahu : let e to J Dilla cafee so jihad with testicular allah w'allahu yes my old Tahara kuma verily Allah hears the complaint of the lady who was complaining to you ya Bahamut and Allah hears your discussion because Allah is all-hearing and allah is all-seer so when the husband treated his wife back the treatment of the husband caused the wife to go to the nebby sallalahu center cause the wife to go to the courts cause the wife to go to her wedding cause the wife to go to the Eman cause the wife to go to someone to give her her heart this is not the complaint that I'm talking about that's permissible she wants to get his heart the damn borrow from this man money and now he wants his money and the guy is running all over the streets every time you see him he's running so he goes to people say help me to get my money I'm not talking about that I'm not talking about that the Iraqis the Syrians the Palestinians they have every right to complain I'm not talking about that they had every right to complain our children they are right now in the holidays because it's the summer time so school is out for five years five years that people have dropped the kids are forced holiday they don't go to school they have every right to complain Muslims in Kashmir they have every right to complain that the world right now for the last two weeks now even aware that whistling Kashmir being killed and that the problem has escalated and the world doesn't even know about it cuz she marries had the heart to complain about that I'm not talking about that complaint that the one has the right african-americans in America we have every right to complain to say to the American government you people who NASA to your people at me going all around the world telling people about human rights and telling people about democracy when African Americans right here in America we don't have any rights you don't take your license with you to drive and a cop stopped you he may blow your head off because you don't have your license because you have a broken tailgate so they have a right to complain we're not talking about that we're talking about the complaint for the sake of complaining it has no benefit no hey no far either this is the one that we're talking about the one that after the whole particular someone's going to come to you and he's going to say something when you look at him you say man that is a complaint that's what I'm talking about the one that happened to Betty is throughout you now you're more shallow everything that happened it Benny Israel we're going to do it as the Prophet says of Allah who are you senator latet Abuna Suleiman Konica Blum ship bromby shiver with Rhonda there are you people are going to follow what happened with the people before you hand spend by hands friend unspent by arm span and one narration it said it's one of them were to have relations with his mother in public someone from this community will do the same thing if they're going to a lizard's hole you're going to go into the lizards hole so everything Bene Israel did we're going to do so you got to do is read the story a billion straw a little crime listener everything that happened is going to happen with us they worship other than Allah they went crazy they went against their prophet they gave prophet hard time bad time everything one of the things that happen with banana eel when they got out of bondage and they went and left Egypt and now they have challenges that are in front of them challenge is on the table and they have to build their community after being in bondage stuck in the mud they have to build their community one of the first things that they started to do was to complain to Musa one of those I act that tell that story is the statement of Allahu Dada if co2 Mia Musa Len espera a litter I mean wahida further Elena Rebecca Oakridge letter I'm in my to me to argument buckety Holika Fatiha will fool me hard to see how I but for me I remember Benny Israel where you said to Musa hey Musa we can't be patient eating the same food all the time when they were taken out of Egypt oh they can eat was a bird called sin WA and another delicacy that was delicious call and mana so you heard the name of the girls cell WA it's a succulent bird better than chicken better than any bird you can think of but those were the only two things that they can eat they got upset and they say hey Musa we want you to make door to your Lord ask your Lord and make dua we are tired of eating the same food we don't want to eat these same two foods we want to eat onions we want to eat lentils we want to eat herbs we want to eat we want to eat cucumbers we want this we want that some people read that ayah and they think that that ayat is talking about the dietary law of Benyus Rahil start talking about the dietary law of Bani Israel that's talking about the complaint of Benyus rakia hey Betty Ezra ill just recently you were over here in bondage and you in the dirt you didn't have clothes to protect you from the Sun your clothes were ripped up not only that worse than that worse than that for all used to kill your sons and used to leave your girls to live why did he leave the girls to live so that if for all although it was zero frown or the army men a frown if you wanted to come to take your wife your sister your mother your auntie Benny it's right here only has to do is take your sixteen-year-old daughter 30 year old daughter and none of you can do anything about it because you don't have any clothes you're weakened you in the mud you in a dirt and you work what work you're working all day that's your condition that's your condition yes highness they look a hominid did that's your condition moose I came by lost permission Musa took them out of bondage bylaws permission when they went through the Red Sea each tribe had his own lien stay in your lane no you're lame each tribe the quran said each tribe had his only bring your pieces of the puzzle worried about journaling about what you can do don't worry about the guideway over there you do your job and they went to the other side they turned around and here comes for their own and here comes his host his army I want kill them so why are you telling us right now in billions right you want cucumbers and onion onions you want this and you want that what you have to do is compare your life how it was over there in Egypt if you think it's too hot here what about the heat of Somalia Eritrea Sudan the Gulf states Kashmir Pakistan it gets hot here one two days and the people start jumping up and down saying it's too hot is too hot and when he gets cold oh it's too cold it's too cold what about the heat and the cold the cold up in Alaska you got to be like that that's how the muscle is he's going to compare his situation with Benyus front deal that's what that story is that's the complaining that we're saying is not permissible we're trying to move forward and we're taking things forward and here is this individual all he does is complain the microphone is too loud we shouldn't have brought it from this company why did you put this window there as opposed to the other window why did you hire him as opposed the head and that's all these kind of people don't I say no one should be eliminated the ayat when they could learn which her to normally ha for study oh hey Rock everybody has his piece of the puzzle so get it and being a race to do the best that you could possibly do lot can be said of honey but I have to wind this up and before you start complaining that I went past the time just make this point very quick very quickly before you complain there is a min Hajj in Ellis lam am in Hajj how to do everything the hook bubble Duma the Imam has to know what is the midnight of delivering the hood bub do I come here and start talking to the people about something that's above the ability to comprehend though I come here and start talking to the people about something that has nothing to do with the price of peanuts I'm going to talk about a hook bar that happened in Baghdad 600 years ago and right now our kids are leaving it's time everybody is a midnight how to perform the Friday prayer taking of also wearing nice clothes putting perfume on walking to the Miss chicken I'm in hire everything as a relates to complaining there was a min hygiene lsland can't get all into it so I'm just going to give you the general role don't be a person who complains unnecessarily and how do you do that brother Mohammed told us of a lady with Sunderland County you may be lucky when the only I can fill your pool Haven OTS moot anybody who believes in the lawn the last day let them say good or let him be quiet let him speak what is good and that'll be quite okay I see you're frowning today are you okay are you okay let him speak good or let him speak quiet what is speaking good another hadith from his shouldn'ta he said if anybody is suffering from something something is bothering you and someone asks you how you doing what's going on you should say alhamdulillah and a hot and Hum do de nada couldn t HOD I think I see you're frowning what's the matter is everything okay you looks at you have your hair down you you you look what's the matter he says with sincerity alhamdulillah I look really hot and the one who is that he may know there's a problem we may not know but for the one who is a complainer he can say this but he's still complaining hey you look like you have a problem you okay is everything okay he says like I'm gladder cool you have have they nautically hug so that's the complaint in and of itself that ain't how we say it you say really believe in it handily ladder Cooley HOD because it could be worse because put it in perspective is cleaning me up if I'm patient I know that what difficulty is going to be easy this thing will be on me forever and on and on and on and on so he says good he says good and he makes that go on thoroughly and lastly thirdly and lastly from the seven points that we can mention thoroughly and lastly is the mintage of the MBI when they used to have problems like what happened with y'all poop solo out the law he was cinnamon why they worship the Muslim do when he has something to complain about the brothers of use of kinky I pulled they said hey your your son Benjamin yes and Binyamin he stole the cup the vessel of the king they found it in his saddle he was a thief so they kept him back there yeah our poem knows his son he knows that's not true no way in the world my son is gonna steal he knows his son so he didn't accept that story he said to them but so what at Lacombe so what a 10-footer come Umrah for Suberu Jamil he said this is something that you came up with but I'm going to have sub-brown Jamil pay attention subloan Jamil has been mentioned in the Quran twice for spirit submarine jameelah be patient the beautiful patient yeah must love what is the meaning of subbulu jimmy subburaj amel is not the suburb that we did it Ramadan that's not suburb has different levels different kind of suburb fast and eighteen and a half hours being patient that suburb not talking a lot being careful how we were that summer but it's not so bored of Jimena suburb Jamil is when a person has something he could complain about but he doesn't he holds it in and the only complains to a lot he doesn't complain to anybody else that's what y'all hoob said when he explained it he said a number of school but fever whose little iowa animal min allahi my light animal I only complain about my sorrow my sadness my problems I only complain to Allah and I know from Allah what you don't know that's subtle to Jamil you got something to complain about then you only complain to a lot as for that lady who everytime she sits with the other ladies she starts lifting up ha ha why because she starts saying my husband did this my husband did that my husband did this my husband you got and she's just telling people about that cutout not people are going to help her people going to go to other people and tell them about it as if she just really slept her outro showing people her outer that our other husband in the house a big problem our community big problem in our community so those things you have that you can complain about then complain to a larger complain to lie to each other or complain to someone who is a trustworthy person a person was I mean we do need people who are trustworthy because if you keep stuff in forever and there's a problem with our coaches where we come from Africa Pakistan Kashmir you got to be a man got to be a man so he tries to keep everything going and then he blows up like a volcano he gets a heart attack and a stroke because he can't tell nobody no you have to tell some people this is why you have to get a friend who is mean that when you tell him and you complain to him you let the steam out but this man he has your back he has your he has your secret is going to hold that secret for you but for the most part just remember if you tell two people something if you talk to people you told 11 people this is the time we're living in you told 11 people not to you told 11 you told 11 so be careful about complaining who you complain to a pool of Cody hi there hi that was tough for the lolly welcoming us Allah Diana thought it was said that

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Length: 34min 32sec (2072 seconds)

Published: Fri Aug 05 2016