Sink or swim! | Who’s more nervous?

take it under whisper yeah [Music] [Music] morning Florida we are safe and Palm Beach we flew in yesterday the transfers went so well they did not even come close to dropping coal like do everything they needed to do the chair is totally fine it was one of the best transfers from both sides getting to leaving Richmond and getting to Florida both went really well so now you're at the Four Seasons in Palm Beach and we're super excited check out this balcony off main it oh I locked it I think today is a struggle morning so [Music] yeah but we're so excited Cole is getting ready and then I'm gonna get ready after we're both getting ready we are gonna explore the town and well more of those our resort let's get ready how do I look great I look nice the ocean is so pretty oh I want to get out there my son hasn't seen the face since 2019 my face hasn't seen them my face hasn't seen the Sun since 2019 so I need some color let's go get me this necklace and I never wear a necklace you know but Cole got it for me and I actually would like wear your necklaces so I'm gonna start wearing necklaces often all right so let's go let go yes I'm enjoying this weather I'm making sure not to get sunburned but I'm also lucky trying to get sunburned at the same time it is so windy out here but feels so good so we're just hanging out here Cole can go to the beach because he doesn't have a beach chair and it's all sand but we can see it from here so that's really nice we're just enjoying the Sun mm-hmm I couldn't wait babe I'm sorry it's just you though Oh crispy yuca I know last time I had you go I pronounced it you go and say yeah girlfriend nobody yet the fry is kind of like I'm getting it right but ma'am look at that salad babe are you ready to chow down we just met Heather and Tricia with the knot and they're the ones that have been organizing this whole event and they're super excited you can see it in their eyes and their smile so I can't wait to meet all the other couples they're all arriving today and this is gonna be exciting then we decided to leave the pool and came up to our little patio yeah so it's is it look good yeah you look great babe anyway so yeah we decide to come up here but have a little travel advice for you wheelchair users a lot of times their beds and hotel rooms are way too high so if you just ask the hotel to remove the boxspring usually usually they'll do that and then it makes it easier for you to transfer so before we got here this bed was so high it would have been a very difficult transfer but um we asked him to remove the boxspring and now it's much better so it's a better height for Cole I think before it was literally like this high so now we're happy great very very happy it makes a really big difference because I don't know if that boxspring was like eight feet tall or what but when we got into the room last night it was like that was way too tall this has been very nice and they were super willing to do it so if they tell you that they can't they're lying no listen to them do it they definitely can yes and it makes a big difference yeah so I want to show you guys a little bit of what the knot got for us in a little gift bag when we got here yesterday all these gifts look at that some really love the mass the mr. mrs. sleep mass definitely want to use that they even got cold a little floaty for the pool so that he can get in which is awesome you love these little nail grooming sets and then this is like my favorite I love this picture so cute love it how about you were coming in it sounded like you were coming in no I'm out here enjoying it yes only for a little bit longer because it's almost time to get your Esper tonight we're going all-white tonight baby and I don't really wear all white a lot so you might see some more my curves yeah I think this is a great I know you're gonna look great and you stopped to pick out what dress you're gonna wear them I know I can't decide she brought options yeah this is I spend your vacation tell me that I just started in that you know what you knew what time we're getting up they will may come back later time to get off Oh [Music] brief your legs ready come on see he's ready yeah yeah come back nice little balcony here actually has a pretty significant clip so what we've done is simply set a pillow over it it's like if here's the ledge right put the pillow over it so that there's a little cushion on either side of the ledge to make the bump easier so we'll film that real quick and need to see how we do it so Laura what better permit they can still be a little rough but that was pretty smooth dough oh yeah what spell on you whoopsie so they sent us some chocolates when we got in here and with the chocolates they sent a flower and Cole thinks this flower is edible no it's edible sit why do you think it's edible you've never had this before no it's not edible I promise you okay you ready yeah edible no it's not I look it up I'm telling you I mean it doesn't taste good it is I just ate it and it was delicious of course you can eat it but it's not meant to be eaten I'm just kidding are these sugar things Oh No you get my try one what if it's just a rock I don't know wait now it's good I was scared for a second I was like I'm not to break my teeth you see me I was test on that well I wonder if that that means that this coconut is also edible really you think I think it might be it looks like chocolate [Music] huh chocolate chocolate take a bite yeah there you go Wow ha ha see they wouldn't put an unedible flower here with all the edibles I'm telling you we're gonna ask someone good on there guys let's get fancy let's get fancy white I'm really not crying I just uh I had eyedrops because I think the Sun burnt my eyes out or something and they're hurting but this is better it's all good now do I look like I was crying mmm-hmm but here's my all-white backups them up for me what does that mean do I spend yeah oh and then use mine thank you I don't have white shoes because that's a lot you're so hot you're hot look good that's just this party let's party makeup done which I've never had before Colgate so look at him and we're done I don't know what you say let's go through but we'll get the real camera and then I can show you guys that I love it it looks so good ooh you look flat I'm texting my text on our new friends we and our rookie nough student pack enough and so we didn't have good outfits for like photoshoot thing that we're doing today so we head up our new friend from last night Blake and he hooked me up with this shirt it fit you come take a seat on my lap all right you comfy oh I can't kiss you with all your makeup on no not that kiss here yes so we forgot to close out the video yesterday because we have so much fun literally like took our camera with us and like totally prepared for it and then ended up just having such a blast meeting everyone that we both totally forgot to film yeah and then we got back so late we're so tired and we had to wake up at 6:05 something that's 5:30 it was a real early morning yeah you can probably see it in my eyes I'm yawning over here anyway so we got up this morning and good hair and makeup so here's mine and actually coal way to get a little bit of makeup how you gonna to you can expose me like that oh it's not a nice on a little tool I know I got so red I was I was trying to get my face burn but not to burn and I got to burn the makeup lady this morning was like can't do that you know wear sunscreen they helped him not be serenity great oh my god all right we got to go get some breakfast before you leave and we got a full day ahead of us yeah we have another photo shoot around town it's gonna be good hangout [Music] [Music] been great we've been but rolling around taking pictures with everyone yeah a lot of fun we we took pictures right here yeah but it was right before they put that gigantic crane thing there so that's good yeah and now we're going to another spot I don't know some way we're just doing we're told really I'm so spoiled I'm so spoiled again I'm telling you I'm not crying so we are back from our photo shoot around town and now we have a video to record we should open the door oh yeah are you ready for this pages let's expect looks like they're facing each other having a conversation about something yeah we were told this was like some sort of couple's quiz maybe so this will be fun mm-hmm are we being too loud that you appreciate how do you think that went that's how it went cool so cool I need to go to the pool yeah so let's change maybe in there and put on some pool stuff yeah okay let it go but that did go well you did go up that was fun yeah are we speeding okay alright today is a very nervous day but a big day yeah first time and two and a half years we're gonna get in the pool together I'm really excited about it I think you go wow I'm a little nervous water and I do not mix that's actually how I got her so this could be very interesting but I got my bathing suit on we've got a fresh one for this and we're gonna try out this nice chair they have I've never used one of these at a hotel either so we got lots of lots of new changes are you ready yeah I'm ready I think it's gonna go I'm really excited to experience it's like cuddle and do you like couple things alright let's come let's go I'm gonna have to like get new probably like my feet yeah guarantee mine like handing my legs off to her credit oh yeah this is the first time in the water please we never yeah for the first time and I've never I've never gotten a full of charisma so probably been like years [Music] like a roller coaster because you're so light in the water [Music] okay [Laughter] [Music] so I'm not gonna okay that's a nice thing about water I'm not going to get a pressure sore here we go nice yeah let's take a dive are you ready yeah do you mind filming this underwater I thought I was coming up [Music] [Music] like I know there's a but what I mean is like come on come to Daddy I'm so tired I know we just finished packing and we have to leave in like 20 minutes we're so tired what's so happy that everything went well it's one of those trips that you leave exhausted but you're so exhausted because you had such a full fun time I mean we were up till like midnight last night just have a dinner and the dinner turned into drinks and then drinks just turned into amazing conversation and everybody in this group is phenomenal yeah I keep having to remind myself holy crap were at the Four Seasons in Palm Beach how did we get here I know it's it's really amazing and we are so grateful and the people that we talked like last night was so great and then we got so among we should know like we just got to a very deep conversation got amazing advice everyone we were with understands you know the sharp up doing with negative comments of how that chickens you know even though you have so many positive comments Kayla gave us great advice saying treat both negative and positive comments the same if you're not their equal like if the positive comments aren't gonna be like oh my gosh it makes me feel great but the negative comments are like oh my gosh I feel like crap then you need to treat them like both equal I just don't play positive or negative effective yeah or if you let them effective let them affect you equally yes but thank you to the knot for making this happen and you can't wait to have more events with them not in the future and yeah any people doing stuff like this because this is unbelievable I know and thank you for season palm beach for hosting us and giving us great accessible room being taken out a box spring having not only one but two wheelchair lifts into the pool and also shout out to cruise thank you for sending back our extra stuff because we got so much stuff from the not that well back this is gonna be way over weight on our flight home cruises helping us out on that it's not everyone I mean everyone that helped you get into the pool just yet thank you everyone for being so amazing that's been great thank you all for watching don't forget to Like comment share subscribe and stay well please let's go back to Richmond [Music]

Channel: Roll with Cole & Charisma

Views: 815,685

Keywords: sink or swim, quadriplegic, quadriplegic swimming, quadriplegic in a pool, paraplegic, disabled, disability, wheelchair, interabled, paralyzed, our first time in a pool, our first time, interracial, roll with cole, cole and charisma youtube, roll with cole and charisma, cole and charisma, squirmy and grubs, spinal cord injury, disability awareness, dating with a disability, the knot, wedding planning, the knot app, four seasons hotel

Id: EH7cYjJYgo4

Length: 20min 56sec (1256 seconds)

Published: Sun Mar 15 2020