(upbeat music) - [Charisma] Good morning sleepy head. What's wrong? - I'm hungry, I'm tired,
I'm thirsty and I'm nervous. - [Charisma] Why? - I wanna get cut open. - [Charisma] Okay. You're exaggerating a little. - I don't so. I think they're literally cutting me open. - [Charisma] So we're on
the way to the hospital. It is, what time is it? 9:30 in the morning. Sophie girl's eating her
breakfast before we leave. - Yeah, lucky her, gets to eat, I don't. - [Charisma] It's okay, it'll be fine. It'll be quick and easy and
over before you know it. You won't know it because
you will be asleep. You ready to get going? Well, once she's done. - Yeah, let's go get ripped open. - [Charisma] Oh my gosh. (car ramp buzzing) (Charisma laughing) - I missed. (upbeat music) - [Charisma] You got it, you
got it, you got it, you got it. - I don't think I got it, babe. - [Charisma] Okay, okay, maybe
it's too steep here for you? - [Cole] Yeah. - [Charisma] Okay, good job. You were close. (upbeat music) - We're here, time to roll on in. - [Charisma] Can you at
least tell them the name of what's happening? - Yeah, so today I'm going to be getting a bilateral hydrocelectomy. If you want to know what that means, feel free to look it up. Yeah.
- [Charisma] And Botox. - And Botox, yes. So it's a dual surgery. Usually I just get the Botox, but I'm having something extra done today. It is much more involved,
so I'll be under longer. Charisma will have to wait longer if she's gonna go
somewhere and do something, but it's about time for us to roll on in, so here we go. - [Charisma] Here we go. - Cole is finally back
getting his procedure done. It took a while because we
went back and got set up and he had an hour and a half before his surgery even started. So we were expected chilling, but yeah, we'll talk more about the surgery later. I want him to explain
it 'cause it's his body and I want him to share whatever he feels comfortable sharing, but right now I'm just
waiting for him to be done and I think it's gonna take like an hour, so I came to the car to get some work done and I came to take my vitamins. I actually forgot to
take them this morning. So Cole and I started
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off your first three months and start taking your multivitamins and get everything that your body needs. I'm gonna do some work and be bored for the next
hour waiting on Cole. (car alarm beeping) (Charisma laughing) I'm sure you all can hear that, but this guy's car just went off. So yeah, I'm just gonna
sit in the parking lot, listening to honking
cars, get some work done and wait for Cole. He has more intense anesthesia
with this procedure. So I think he's going be in
recovery a little bit longer and he's probably gonna
be really loopy and tired, but we'll get him home. And he's got to be in the
bed for the rest of the day with very little activity and you know, transferring is a lot of movement, so we want to be as cautious as possible. So let me go get some work
done, and we will see you soon. Say something. - Hey everyone. How are you? - [Charisma] How you feel? - Tired. Very tired. - [Charisma] How's your throat? - My throat is very dry. I feel like I've been a cigarette smoker for 80 years right now. - [Charisma] I know, they
stuck the tube down his throat during the surgery. - Usually they don't do that, but because we had the extra
procedure with the Botox, they had to put me down for longer, which means they had to put
the thing down my throat. I'm still waking up. I thought I was more awake in the bed and then we transferred into
my chair and I was like, whoa. - [Charisma] You wanna
get food on the way home? - Yeah. - [Charisma] Okay, what are you thinking? - I don't know. - [Charisma] Okay, we'll
think about it, all right? Oh, look at those donuts. - [Charisma] You want donut? Which one do you want? - Probably my raspberry. - [Charisma] Raspberry, wow. - They weighed me in the hospital bed and I'm actually much
lighter than I thought I was. - [Charisma] Yeah. - So let's change that. - [Charisma] You're ridiculous. I'm just gonna get my original glaze because I just love it. (Charisma humming) We're home. - Yeah, we're home. Drinking some water, make
my throat feel better. - [Charisma] Sophie's trying
to make you feel better too. - Poor Sophie tried to jump up on my lap and I had to give her the elbow. Can't jump on my lap,
we have a sensitive area we must protect. - [Child Voice] I love you, daddy. (both cooing) - Thank you Sophie. - [Charisma] Well, you wanna get in bed? So you're gonna be in bed
for the rest of the day and tomorrow? - I'm so nervous, like sitting up. - [Charisma] Yeah, I know, I know. Well, we can get in bed now. - All right. - [Charisma] Wanna get in bed with dada? You wanna get in bed with dada, yeah? - [Child Voice] Hooray. - [Charisma] Oh, hi, you look comfortable. - I am pretty comfortable. - [Charisma] Yeah? - If I hadn't just slept
for like three hours, I'd probably fall asleep. It's weird though because
when I take anesthesia, they usually give it to me
when I'm in the operating room and it hits me immediately
and I'm just out, but a fun story about
last time I got Botox, apparently once I started
waking up after surgery, the first thing I said was I'm back. - [Terminator] I'll be back. - I think I'm gonna be
here for a while, babe. - [Charisma] You're gonna
be here for a while? - So I'm glad I'm comfortable. - [Charisma] Yeah, you look comfortable. What are you watching? - [Cole] YouTube. - [Charisma] Rocket League? Of course. You want to talk a little
bit about your surgery? - I was starting to have a hard time, like with ICs and then also
like clothes not fitting me well because I had essentially
a water balloon growing inside of me in my downstairs area that was making life very difficult. So we went and got it removed by our fertility specialist, actually. It's going to be a long time
though, before we see that 'cause it's like three months of swelling before it'll start actually
decreasing in size. I'm very much looking forward to it because it was becoming an issue. - [Charisma] So I'm glad
it's gonna be better. - Yeah, me too. - Well, we need to ice it now. - Yeah, now? Like right now? - [Charisma] Well, we
can wait a little bit, but I have to ice soon. Do you want food? - I can't even feel it, but like just imagining ice down there. I'm gonna be shriveling. - [Charisma] Shriveling? - Yeah, yeah, some food would be great. - [Charisma] What do you want? - Mac and cheese. - [Charisma] Of course, of course. - Some mac and cheese. - [Charisma] I'll make
you some mac and cheese. - You're the best, can
you come give me kissy? (Cole humming)
Thank you. - Love you. - Love you. I'm so lucky, y'all. I got the best-est woman in the world. - [Charisma] All right, I'll
make you mac and cheese. - Thank you. - [Charisma] Mac and cheese done. Kraft Mac and Cheese is
literally Cole's favorite. Oopsie daises, almost broke that. I got some grapes because he
needs something healthy, right? (upbeat music) (silverware clanking) The struggle. All right, dog dad, let's give you your very childlike meal, but whatever makes you happy. - This looks delicious, thank you. - [Charisma] You're welcome. - Kraft Mac and Cheese specifically always made me feel better
when I was younger, so. - [Charisma] Nostalgia. - I'm about to dig in, I'm just so hungry. - [Charisma] Go ahead and eat, but first before you take a bite. - Yes? - [Charisma] you talk about the Botox? I feel like a lot of new people
may not know what Botox is. - With my bladder, I
have a neurogenic bladder and it can only hold so much
before it starts kicking off or like reflexively, just letting some out because the pressure's too much. For some reason, my bladder can't handle
much pressure at all. So I will start reflexing
or kicking off urine at with like very little amount. So what the Botox does
is you put the Botox in the walls of the bladder and it kind of paralyzes those muscles so that they can expand more
before they start reflexing and I can hold a lot more urine. And it allows me to do far
less ICs throughout the day. And I get less autonomic dysreflexia throughout the day as well, which is when my body's in discomfort and it's trying to tell me
something needs to change because something's wrong. So that's why I get Botox as well. And the Botox has been
a game changer for me. I love it. - [Charisma] Well, you
enjoy your TV and food. I'm gonna do something else. - Sounds good. - [Charisma] Okay. - Love you. - [Charisma] Love you too. - Bye, okay, I'm gonna buy a movie. - [Charisma] You're gonna buy a movie? - Yeah, is that okay? - [Charisma] Yeah, what movie? - "Free Guy." - [Charisma] Okay. (upbeat music) (theatrical music) (Cole sighing) (Cole chuckling) - Here I am. Everything went well, which
makes me feel good about today. So now it's just a waiting game. Oh, I'm gonna be in the bed
most of the day tomorrow. And then after that, I think I can get up and I
just won't be very active for a while while it heals. - [Charisma] Yeah. - I have no AD issues,
so that's been nice. - [Charisma] That's good. - Hopefully that holds up tomorrow. - [Charisma] Yeah, no, hopefully
we should get a phone call about a check up for the next two days and then in two weeks
you have your followup and then you should be good to go. - That's right. - [Charisma] And then off to Cali. - Off to Cali just in time. - [Charisma] So no pain, nothing? - No, no, I've been fine. I'm a little worried about tonight 'cause I'm so used to sleeping on my side and I'm sleeping on my back tonight. So the only options I really
have to get comfortable are like side to side, but I don't know. I'm fortunate to be able to
shift in the first place. So we'll see. Good night, everyone. Thanks for coming with me to the hospital. - [Charisma] Don't forget to
like comment, share, subscribe and stay positive.
(bell chiming) Bye. (camera thudding) That was good. - Nice. (upbeat music)
