SEDUCE WITH YOUR EYES: A Lesson in Hypnosis & Eye Contact | The Means of Seduction

[Music] ize I am sure you have heard people call eyes the Gateway to the soul and perhaps they are but if our eyes offer a glimpse into the deepest parts of ourselves then shouldn't we get some say and when that gate opens and what exactly lies behind it for spectators to see for the purposes of seduction I'd like to think of the eyes as the pendulums of masterful hypnosis we control in our daily interactions with a pendulum hypnotist rely on for hypnotic principles focus fatigue pacing and leading which go hand in hand and embedding now I already know what you're thinking hypnosis and seduction both sounds like the tactics of a sneaky femme fatale or a comic-book villain well they are but they also work well for real people trying to achieve real goals in their everyday real lives seduction isn't always about romance keep that in mind seduction by definition is the action of luring or enticing another individual with the intent to draw him or her away from someone or something and towards someone or something else usually the main goal of the person seducing is to get the seduced individual to give something to the seducer or change their lifestyle behavior priorities and so forth for the purposes of this video let's operate under the assumption that a seducer wants love attention wealth and/or power and the person they are seducing has the access according to the oxford english dictionary hypnosis is the induction of a state of consciousness in which a person apparently loses the power of a voluntary action and is highly responsive to suggestions or directions do you see now why seduction and hypnosis might work well together one is arguably the desire to obtain a resource or a reaction from someone and the other arguably a means of attainment so how do our eyes fit into all of this what you are aiming to do as a student of seduction is influence and entice those in your life that you'd like to acquire something from to make those we wish to seduce more malleable we may rely on the fundamentals of pendulum hypnosis I mentioned earlier with some slight alterations to avoid coming across really creepy the principles of hypnosis as I mentioned earlier our focus fatigue pacing and leading and embedding what do each of these mean and how can we use our eyes to accomplish something similar focus refers to the focusing of a participants gaze on a single object in this case the person you are seducing will need to look you directly in the eyes and your eyes will act as the single object the participant is focusing on you always around to achieve this lock I contact you establish the eye contact and then maintain it now maintaining eye contact doesn't mean stopping all of your blinking blink as usual that maintain direct eye contact with the person you are seducing allow them to focus on your eyes during conversation and don't be the one to look away unless you're doing it strategically that leads into our second point fatigue fatigue refers to the tired feeling someone might get from looking at the same thing for a long time in a session of hypnosis but this might also happen in a conversation in matters of seduction you want to curtail the environment to mitigate distractions ideally you should be having a conversation with someone where the focus is entirely on you to a break room or conference room a car parked outside a couch a park bench across the table from each other at dinner these are all scenarios in which the attention is on YouTube and might likely have few distractions how about tomorrow knowing the focus is hard to keep and fatigue is likely decide when and how to give someone a break in seduction you are in control this is not a position for the week or for the doubtful knowing fatigue is likely use that to your advantage knowing fatigue is likely maintain your eye contact and conversation and readily provide a source of relief while speaking lock eyes and perhaps brush a long hair over your shoulder or squeeze a bicep muscle this will temporarily shift the attention away from the eyes but the attention will still be on you and the eye contact will resume again this is how to handle fatigue and seductive hypnosis now the third principle was of pacing and leading in hypnosis this involves bringing attention to the trance-like state and then using it to further the state try bringing someone's awareness to what they are doing or how they are making you feel for added effect turn the observation into a compliment for example across the table from a romantic partner you can make first eye contact then occasionally draw attention away from your eyes to another part of you or to something you have with you and then you can say with eye contact resumed you have been listening to me this entire time you were such an amazing listener in a meeting or job interview across from your boss or the person you'd like to give you a promotion you can maintain eye contact occasionally look down at your resume or reference your resume or a chart or graphic with you resume your eye contact and then say something like you are making me feel so welcomed here thank you for taking the time to meet with me in both scenarios you are using your eyes to hold their focus shifting focus on two other things all still relating to you and then making an observation possibly with a compliment that boosts their self-awareness and thus increases their own comfort and ease around you that is how you pace and lead straight into the final principle embedding commands in hypnosis as in seduction subtlety is the key to avoid breaking the spell and dismantling the trance I'd recommend using I statements during the commands and that might sound counterintuitive but it's truly not you could say you need to give me this raise or you need to commit to our relationship and that might work but there's a really good chance it'll aggravate the person you're trying to influence Oh about you with me Bella you are pitiful gone tell him you use the word you only when drawing their attention back toward themselves to establish comfort in the pacing and leading phase once your conversation has passed that you need to speak for yourself it's all about framing instead of saying you need to give me a raise say I have thoroughly enjoyed my time working here and given that I am hoping to grow within this company I'd appreciate the chance to discuss my salary this embeds multiple ideas all at once and even if you don't give what you want write them in there I've planted a seed you enjoy working there you want to stay you'd like to grow there and contribute more word by word you are establishing your credibility and your worth making your presence instead of singing you need to commit to me or you need to commit to our relationship say I have been having a great time with you these past few days weeks months etc I feel so much happier around you and like I can really count on you this one is very understated you might have noticed I didn't use the word commitment the second time at all the difference here is complementing the seduced individual on a behavior they have maybe only displayed once to reinforce the behavior rather than nagging you simply suggested as fun to be around one another and their company has been consistently a good thing for you the count on you comment plants a seed of need the seduced individual feels needed wanted even desired perhaps they will want to deliver on their reliability by always being that person you can count on and eventually they will realize you are someone they can't imagine not being around with our I is the alleged gateway we invite newcomers in with every stare and shun the unwelcome with I rules of avoidance for seduction the eyes are an impressive tool if used properly they can elicit the exact response you want from anyone with that being said this is a strategy involving your words just as much as your eyes so my next video will cover how to seduce using your voice stay tuned for more lessons and seduction [Music]

Channel: The Means of Seduction

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Keywords: How to seduce, Seduction, Eye contact, Confidence, Hypnosis, Seductive hypnosis, How to get what you want, How to be seductive, Attract men, Attract women, How to attract, How to get someone to like you, Make people love you, Be more attractive, Attract love, confidence building, self improvement, career advice, how to look more confident, dark psychology

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Length: 10min 16sec (616 seconds)

Published: Mon Mar 16 2020