RULE YOURSELF - 3 HOUR Motivational Speech Video | Gym Workout Motivation

if you're going to make it you've got to be willing to be the outlier the weird one forget about fitting in forget about socializing with everyone you need to stand out when people don't understand you you're doing it right it's time to stay focused man it is time it is time to go from mediocre to meteoric it's time to decide clubs partying trying to fit in and socialize rub elbows with everybody so people can stop calling you weird why are you so anti-social because I'm trying to get it why are you staying on the basketball court so much because I'm trying to get it why are you out there practicing in the hot sun when ain't nobody else out there because I'm trying to get it why are you not clubbing like every time I text you and invite you to go do something fun and cool you always study it because I'm trying to get it the more weird you are is a reflection of how committed you are to focusing on your molding and shaping and developing your ideas and your crap so that when it's time for you to make your rounds You Gonna Fly when you are misunderstood to the point where people think you're psycho and you're nuts and you're this and that why are you in the [ __ ] gym at one o'clock in the morning what's wrong when people don't understand you anymore you're in that spot of obsession and drive to be the best at what you do you have to be unbalanced to fight every bit a [ __ ] energy and strength that you have to pull it off and it takes being [ __ ] obsessed to where people think you're crazy you still got work to do stay on that basketball court stay on that football field call the homies texting and calling and trying to make you feel bad about being so focused it's grind season homie it's not about today it's about the future do the work now and all of the [ __ ] that you could ever want to do for your family your kids your loved ones it's all going to be on a whole nother stratosphere you got to come out your comfort zone because your comfort zone is the deadliest place you will ever be you should never feel comfortable you should be happy and dissatisfied you might not work me for 30 days or 60 days or 90 days but you ain't gonna beat me over a year you cannot work me over two years I'ma get you eventually I'm a dripping damn faucet I just keep coming at you I'm too damn tough to give up most people half ass half their life all the time I knew they were gonna get tired they were gonna get down yourself they start sleeping in I'm not gonna do that so I'm gonna get up early I'm gonna keep getting wide I'm gonna say Relentless if you want to show me you want to win that bad pack your calendar you packed your calendar that's how you show the world that you want to win because everything is based off of activity which is very hard when you go up against somebody that shows up every flipping day where you sit there and say take a damn week off go on vacation why don't you slow down for a day or a month or two months or three months please let me catch up because hungry people they're just more urgent than everybody else oh you don't need to work on weekends why do you work so hard at night why do you get up so early and do that why do you train so hard why are you reading all these books when we're out drinking beer when you're obsessed they're like oh you're gonna be so crazy why can't you be satisfied why do you always gotta get things so perfect why you spend so much time there when you're obsessed people think you're nuts makes you into something better well baker party you grind while they go spend their money you go naked while they criticize and make fun of you you work endlessly to shop them up with your results don't kill them with kindness torture them with success the best revenge is massive success when everybody is against you or don't believe in you no more it's a lonely feeling oh it hurts very badly I know what that's like and look at you with that look and say why don't you try something else why don't you give up get away from these people that's in your life that ain't doing nothing get away from people in your life that's hating get away from them get away from them if you take a oak tree seed and you put it in a two foot pot that seed will never become the oak tree that oak trees are capable of becoming because it's gonna get stifled by the two foot pot now check this out ain't nothing wrong with the seed seed just fell pray to the environment don't you allow your environment to dictate the oak tree that you become anytime you move from being normal to trying to be exceptional people aren't gonna like this those normal people it makes them feel like [ __ ] so they're gonna judge you and that's why every true leader they're called weird they're called eccentric when you do the things of real leadership you're going to be called strange get strong enough in your own skin that when people laugh at you or when they throw stones at you you keep on going I respect any [ __ ] that wakes up every day and work they ass off to live a life and lifestyle clubbing partying hanging out that ain't for me imma be out here running in the hot sun practicing while everybody else is clubbing and hanging out you got your focus right don't expect people to understand you don't expect it to make sense to anybody why you've got to do this why you have got to go why you leave this is a good job I'm going they pay you well I'm going why I don't understand you don't have to I'm going for me this is something I have got to do how are you going to make it I don't know but I will the universe responds to the man or woman that refuses to be denied because that is your commitment that business that you want that book you want to write that dream that you have of controlling your destiny that is yours that's available to you but you've got to be willing to stand there and face disappointment not have support be lonely doubt yourself sometimes be rejected again and again and again become bankrupt if necessary again and again and again and refuse to turn around until life gives it up life will always be to a large extent what you make it not what circumstances will make of it not what other people will make of it not what other people say it will be not what the environment will try and dictate to you but what you make of your life so when you're uncommon get ready for the criticism when you're uncommon get ready for the opposition when you're uncommon get ready for the common people not to understand you if I decided to experience the fear of rejection the fear of no the fear of failure the fear of standing by myself the fear of people not liking me what else is available of taking a chance of fear of losing it all what else is available to me people are gonna think you're crazy you don't have nothing but living in the corner of your pockets you already talked about living your dream and people laughing at you and they're doubting you it takes guts ladies and gentlemen but let me tell you I believe in Revenge like Frank Sinatra he said the best revenge is massive success instead of killing with kindness tourism and success all your excuses are lies little lies that you think makes life easier but they don't now I know in the morning you got that blanket giving you a warm hug and you got the the pillow which is whispering in your ear telling you it's okay time to stay just a little longer but don't listen to them they're lying to you listen to your alarm clock which is telling you to get up and get something listen to the weight room the pull-up bar which is telling you to face reality and listen to your will which is telling you to get up and Crush everything regardless of how you feel don't negotiate with weakness kill it see in life you can go through life you can come up with reasons or you can come up with results you can come up with excuses or you can come up with achievements you can go through life blaming or you can come up with Solutions the choice is in your hands satisfaction or despair we can choose that you don't get better on the dag on couch you get better by coming out here and getting the [ __ ] after every daggone day when that alarm clock goes off at four or five in the morning your mind says no you just say this is what we do now my new Norm is you get up every [ __ ] morning at four o'clock and you suffer that became my new [ __ ] life most people want to get out of it I said no [ __ ] this is your new life this is who you are I don't care how small it is I don't care how minuscule the movement is but make movement move forward and do that every single day no matter what you aren't getting it any closer to your five year plan or your favorite planner your seven year plan or any plan that you've got unless you get up and start getting after it today you can't just say you want it you can't watch the video and say I want it as bad as I want to breathe it's true to say it but when it's show time when the sun comes up that all the book you got all the case you got all the access now it's time to hunt and what separates you from everybody else is that when it's time to hunt you ready to hunt everybody wants to prize but nobody loves to process Everybody Wants To Be A Champion but nobody's willing to put in the work that it takes to be a champion everybody wants to hold up the trophy and say man I get it but nobody's willing to put in the work that it takes to do it I love the process I love the thought of working for what I want and I firmly believe you never supposed to wish for it more than you're willing to work for your expectations never supposed to exceed you're effort but a lot of people they wish and they're not willing to work and the great thing about life life has a funny way of testing all of us and seeing how bad we really want what it is that we say we want when you work for something it gives you a different type of attachment to it the harder you work the harder it is to surrender that's why cats can give up so easy they ain't got nothing invested but when a cat worked for something like when a cabin sacrifice for some where you gonna have a cold day in Hell before you take it from them write down one or two things that you're going to commit to doing every single day no matter what you're gonna use that motivation to become a machine every single day no matter what you don't think about it when you have built a habit it's ingrained in your nervous system in such a way that the brain doesn't even have to consider whether or not they'll get done it just gets done because so the thing that you're going to do and then you do it every single day that is what transforms you it's not the grand Visions it's the tiny actions that move towards a worthy ideal the good feelings in your body is an indication that there's something that you want now you get to work by doing it every single day there's a lot said in our self-help culture about starting things you have a business that you want to start yeah you should absolutely go and start that you have a project that you've been thinking about for a while go start there's this whole idea that if you can just get yourself to start you know starting is the hardest thing you've got to get into it go for it do it stop talking about it start the problem is if people are bad at starting they're even worse at finishing things they take all of this enjoyment from starting forgetting that there is Untold enjoyment in finishing the satisfaction of getting something done of feeling like you have a completed project or getting to the end of it and being able to put that stamp that says I'm done I finished I don't need to look at this again it's done there is so much enjoyment that we can take from that that we do not get when we half-heartedly move from one project to the next as soon as one gets difficult or lacks interest we move on to the next one are you interested in achieving these goals or are you committed if you're interested you'll do what's convenient you'll come up with stories and excuses and reasons why you can't but if you're committed you'll do whatever it takes you'll let go of your stories you'll let go of your excuses you'll let go of all the reasons you currently have that are formulating your identity of yourself and you learn how to let that go and become who you are destined to become trying to get to the next level you just interested you killing yourself forget about it if you want to get to the next level if you want to eat it if you want to live it if you want to be it if you want to do it stop talking about it and give me full commits you can be the person who says this is going to [ __ ] work no matter what happens no matter how frustrated I get no matter how angry I get no matter what I'm [ __ ] doing this if you're committed you'll start today to let go of your stories your excuses your reasons why you can't and why you won't go upgrade your knowledge you'll upgrade your skills you'll come in every single day and figure out how you have achieved those goals it's about executing regardless of your emotions these test days they test your fortitude your endurance your discipline your grit your dedication your determination your mental toughness at the very moment when everything's in you wants to do absolutely nothing you gotta get the job done stop having dialogue with your emotions stop negotiating with your feelings and start to act that's where people separate themselves from the pack that's where people earn the right to success they earn the money they earn the life they earn the relationships they earn the body in those little moments where they don't want to do what they need to do but move forward regardless of how they feel that's what Champions know Champions understand and champions [ __ ] thrive on [Music] oh at the end of your feelings is possibly nothing your principle is a promise and some of you are where you are if you can be real with yourself you have gotten yourself in some mess because of your feelings we are losing control it is time for those of you in this room to take control you've held up your someday either you didn't get the right information or you got it you didn't use it you're not getting up early enough I don't know what you're doing but when you leave all I want for you is to live your someday no more playing after today and here's the crazy part all you got to do is look in the mirror all you got to do is deal with yourself and then we're gonna get you a whole other level over every single error and then someday gonna be your day the awful wake people no more excuses no more I'll start tomorrow no more just this once no more accepting the shortfalls of my own will no more taking the easy Road no more waiting for the perfect moment and no more indecision and no more lies no more weakness now is the time for strength and through strength as you will as you unwavering discipline I will become who I want to be suffocate your [ __ ] excuses and go do something stop running from it and run through it stop telling me what you're going through the greats they get to it they go through it and the harder it is the better make it work let's go the decisions you make right now is up to you take full ownership of your time of your mind of your day hard work works and you know what's great about our culture y'all the world's lazy it's a good thing for you and me everybody will talk about it everybody will post about it but nobody wants to roll with their sleeves and just go get it and so what that means for me I don't have to be the most qualified I don't have to be the most talented all I got to begin to do is to apply myself and by default I'm gonna separate myself from the crowd if you set out and you say you're gonna do something do yourself a favor and don't lie to yourself because that is the worst thing that an individual can ever do you think you lying to your fear you think you lie to your teacher you think you lie to your coach at the end of the day when you look in the mail you lying to you because that's your life you make your bed you gotta lay it your life matters what you do in your life matters you were born to do something great with your life you were put here for a reason which is to make a difference in the world which is to change your own family's tree which is to do something great with your life I promise you you're recording for that in little ways and in big ways and the actions of your life will Echo into eternity the question is will that Echo for you be a whisper into eternity or a Roar and you get to decide based on the actions you take every day in your life whether the life of you whether it had a big meaning and it Roars into eternity or whether you play small and you just whisper into eternity you get to choose that there's something in you that says I'm not going to focus on the general economy I want to focus on my personal economy there's something in you that says the most Dependable hand in the world is the one at the end of your wrist there's something in you that says always strive to get on top of life because it's the bottom that's overcrowded you are different you have greatness within you it's very very simple to get what you want but it's not easy it's your job to make yourself do the crap you don't want to do so you can be everything that you're supposed to be and you're so damn busy waiting to feel like it and you're never going to ever no one's coming no one no one's coming to push you no one's coming to tell you to turn the TV off no one's coming to tell you to get out the door and exercise nobody's coming to tell you to apply for that job that you've always dreamed about nobody's coming to write the business plan for you it's up to you and because you're only ever going to do the things that you feel like doing right now or that feels good right now unless you understand that you've got to parent yourself you got to push yourself you're not going to make your dreams come true you want to live your best life not give me huge favor you gotta watch them choices you make people make bad choices they wake up another make another bad choice they make another Bachelor now they got a habit of bad choices right and they like how do I get here choices you trying to get to certain places but you ain't making the choices that's gonna get you there you are in your feelings the problem is that most people they like they can't get up in the morning they ain't got no energy they don't got the energy to keep up with me I'm like boy ain't nothing wrong with you you just ain't got the stamina you just ain't got the energy you can't smart everything you can't out think everything some stuff is just you gotta be our fault it's just some stuff that you gotta ask Amina for you just too slow it just take you too long you wake up taking three weeks to do it it can take 24 hours to do it don't make you a bad person but you're gonna forever be average because to be great you got to keep up no alarm clock needed my passion wakes me up my drive wakes me up my determination was my ability to be doing abs whatever I want it wakes me up what wakes you up what drives you why are you playing this game you battle began with the end in mind so whatever your dream or your goal is you gotta wake up every day to it stop the music you listen to everything you do gotta pour into that dream don't give up on yourself don't throw a towel in so quickly many people give up on the one yard line you know when spirit is powerful this nothing is powerful it's hard to kill the human Spirit there's greatness in you and you've got to learn how to tune out the critics outside and the critic inside is that I'm going to do this I'm going to harness my will and I'm not going to let anything stop I deserve this working on yourself talking to yourself that's so very important overcoming the negative conversation that inner dialogue is going on all the time you've got to stand up inside yourself sometimes and say shut up I'm in control here you've got to have an uplifted expression watch your body posture all of these things affect you psychically start working and developing yourself down and prepare yourself for what it is that you want because you expect to get it all I need you to do is speak up and say I expect to win declare that it's over that yesterday was the last day that you were a loser like yesterday was the last day you expected to come up short when you set out for a goal expected to happen expect to be successful expect it to be positive if you can expect it if you can wake up feeling like a winner if you can wake up talking like a winner if you can respect that everything you do will come out winning I guarantee you never ever have to come up short again it might be here two three four before you get your big win but you can decide now I'm gonna walk off and be a different person you decide that you're the lead character in the story of your life everything has to do with you intending to win too many of you are playing with your business if you make that shift I'm going to win we're gonna play to win now we're not playing to play we're not playing to see how we do we're not playing for fun once you start getting some winning you start changing you talk different you walk different all of a sudden this isn't the same damn human being you can change you you'd be surprised what a little women would do you'd be surprised how good you'd be if you just decide to win be number one in your office number one in your region and when you start stacking them up your life can change where does the switch come from the overdrive it is the thing that allows you to go the extra distance dig a Little Deeper to push a little harder both emotion and logic to reach your maximum potential to really give everything you have to go beyond your limits because emotion and logic will both reach their limitations and when one fails you need to rely on the other when it just doesn't make any logical sense to go on that's when you use your emotion your anger your frustration your fear to push further to push you to say one thing I don't stop when your feelings are screaming that you have had enough when you think you are going to break emotionally override that emotion with concrete logic and willpower that says one thing I don't stop fight weak emotions with the power of logic fight the weakness of logic with the power of emotion and in the balance of those two you will find the strength to save yourself I don't stop I didn't get to where I am but I didn't get here being lazy I didn't get here binge watching TV I didn't get here taking days off I personally know what it takes one day I made a decision that enough is enough I'm tired of being average I'm tired of being good I'm tired I made a decision enough is enough it's showtime in order for you to go from one level to the next level in order for any woman to transition for any man to transition the thing that they want must be greater than the thing that girly had you only transition from one level to the next when you try to level you off you don't belong at the bottom and it's time for you to get your butt from down there it's time for you to stop being comfortable at the bottom get your butt up and get to where you supposed to be get where you belong do what supposed to do live like you supposed to live you gotta kill every single day of my life I feel like giving 100 every single day I don't have days where I don't feel like it why because I'm counting on me my wife's counting on me my son's counting on me I don't have days to waste and your grind has to match your dream you can't go where you used to go you can't do what you used to do and now you gotta pick your grind up and I need you to wake up every single day and I need to use your 24 hours like you've never used it before no excuses no more complaining no more giving up what's that thing that's gonna pump you up and get you over that Hill what's gonna pump you up and get you over that model what's gonna pump you up and get you past that disease what's gonna pump you up and get you past bankruptcy what's gonna pop you up and get you to the other dog on side come on you can win if you do what is easy your life will be hard but if you do what is hard your life will be easy Little voices in your head you're saying they're saying it's okay you've done enough take a little rest is fine you can take the day off you don't need to go hard that's what those little voices are saying but we've got another voice in your head that's asking you a question it's asking you what could you be what could you be what could you be if you worked as hard as you could what could you be if you imposed real discipline in your life what could you be I said you crank up the volume on that voice crank up the volume on that question Max it out so easy to put things off so easy to say you're gonna do it tomorrow well I want you to reprogram your brain and tell yourself that tomorrow is not a viable option tomorrow doesn't work you do it today you get it done today that's what you do stop rationalizing stop making excuses stop telling yourself a little water down assessments of where you're really at tell yourself the truth are you making yourself better are you making yourself worse are you moving forward or are you back are you making progress or are you stagnating make the decision yes or no are you going to work out today yes or no are you going to win yes or no don't allow for any gray area in there get rid of the debate the right decision to make so go and make it now if you know what you're worth I'll go out again what you're worth but you got to be willing to take the hits and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you want to be because of him or her or anybody cowards do that and that ain't you you're better than that I'm trying to tell you you can win you can win despite the circumstance you can win despite the adversity you can win despite the situation you can win despite how much money you got in your bank you can win despite if I give your parents in your life but not you can win despite the fact that you started behind you can win you can pull it off you can't be good and be a legend you can't be great really in real lesson you got to be phenomenal I want you to push for legend it is the process of the grind that shaped you and forms you is not the game you think you become a champion on the field you don't you become a champion when ain't nobody watching you you're doing your own trills in your own way you're doing what coach tell you to do and you're doing your own stuff you become a champion in the dark when ain't nobody looking you don't become no Champion when you put no dog on helmet all you'll become a champion the way you eat you'll become a champion the way you think you'll become a champion in your ride when nobody knows what you're doing when you put in those extra reps when you're watching those videos and you get inspired when you change your music and you just get on stage and you shine it's the process that makes you sweet the biggest war you're ever going through is right between your own ears it's in your mind the mind's a very powerful thing it has a tactical advantage over you all the time it knows where you don't want to go so it will guide you away from that and that's why the mind will always win until you can reprogram it you gotta figure out a way to reprogram your mind to get outside the box whatever my mind said I don't want to do I realize I must do that the great to do things when they don't always want to and that's the separation without disciplined in nothing and discipline is doing what you hate to do but do it like you love it because really the only person that you're fighting every day is yourself is not your boss it's not this or that yeah those are all obstacles a lot of them you cannot control those obstacles but you can't control yourself we have to regain control of our mind how you gain mental toughness how you become the person you want to be is constantly facing the things that you don't want to face the only way anything gets accomplished you got to work hard I can't remember what the see this paragraph to pass this test to get the military read again still not getting it read it again but it's not getting it write it out and guess what happened I got it I can't swim I'm negative buoying go back again I can't swim go back again go back again go back again I got it I realize if I keep going back and going back and going back your mind was safe okay we're gonna figure it out because he is not going to stop I'm real permanent peace first must go through suffering you must go to the dark side of who you are every every day I demand more for myself than anybody else people I compete with what a temperature is they no longer care because they know no matter what's out there remember snowing is this a damn tropical storm is this 20 below and it'll care they're gonna run it doesn't matter what the [ __ ] out there what's in front of me I'm just gonna grow and that's how you want to get your mind you have to train your brain by doing things that make you uncomfortable consist get hard you don't shy away we don't quit we attack I'm singing through walls I'm getting to where I want to go you have to literally visualize the connection between what you're doing on a day-by-day basis with what you're wanting what do you want yourself to look like 10 years from now what do you want your bank account to look like what do you want to look like physically six months from now or a year from now you have to connect the reminder yourself that these little things that you do are going to lead to the big things if you think that you've given everything you really have it if you think you're working hard you're not working hard enough you could always do more you always have another gear another level of performance you can always push a little bit harder get up a little earlier work a little longer whatever it is you want more of you have complete control over whether you get it or not people don't have limits we put limits on ourselves life is hard it's hard handling the tragedies of life [Music] when you're working on something and and you put everything you have in it in a dozen word out you lose your money in other people's money it's hard it is okay to be scared it is okay to cry but giving up should not be an option and it doesn't matter how you get knocked down in life because that's going to happen all that matters is that you got to get up because when you fail you get up and then you fail and then you get up and that keeps you going that's how humans are strong failure is an option but giving up is not find a way if you believe and you have faith and you can get knocked down and get back up again and you believe in perseverance as a great human quality you find your way you gotta have that resiliency over and over again you gotta make a commitment to keep stepping up to the plate and Swinging for the fence every day whenever you do what you do twing for the fences understanding when you swing for the fences sometimes you'll miss did you know Hank Aaron had twice as many strikeouts as he had home runs but he kept swinging for defenses most times he missed but when he hit it he knocked it out the park what is your shot to do what you do keep swinging it keeps driving change is gonna happen in your life setback's gonna happen but a setback is nothing but a setup the Champions is not the potential it's not the genetics it's their perseverance always show up always willing to fail because in failure that's part of success success is not a marathon of life and just us success the storm away through failures through facing your fears through falling down getting back up that's what creates the champion so many of us we've gone through life and life has led us down you can find yourself stressed out you can find yourself depressed mentally fragile because of the experiences the turbulence that you have gone through I know what it's like to barely hold on to barely feel like you're breathing and barely feel like you can come up for air look up look up and recognize that there is a way out there is a path for you to take and it's not an easy path it takes courage and it's hard but what is the other choice what else can we do let the darkness completely consume us be overtaken right temptation Temptation Vice no do not accept that you can triumph over these dark Forces you can become better you can be better Rogue is faster and deeper during your darkest days through that separation through that unemployment through that tragedy through that loss and maybe you've been knocked down in your life and it seems like hey the fight is over it is not over unless you quit take those terrible events in your life and you create a new story of Triumph and so here's what I say to you you're gonna be times that you're gonna be wondering why should I keep showing up and working my business why should I keep at it why should I keep showing up to the conventions why should I keep picking up the phones and making the phone calls why should I keep fighting for my ghosts and fighting for my dreams and what I want to remind you is that you gotta show up for your life regardless of the circumstances you gotta show up in spite of the naysayers you gotta show up in spite of the conversation going on in your mind show up for your life because if you don't nobody else will fight your way through this battle your greatness comes from within and once you realize that nothing will stop you nothing will keep you from being great it's already there you just have to feel it and know that you were placed here for a reason fight your way through it bite your way through this battle fight your way through the academic struggle fight your way through divorce fight your way through boxing fight your way through football if it was easy everybody would do it you got this far if you was gonna quit you should have quit a long time ago you got too far you've come too far to quit now you need to get a reward for it I know you might be hurting but just know after this battle you will come out on the better side you have to see it you have to feel it you have to know that this life was made for many battles you were made just for a time like this when the defining moment comes after you define the moment or the moment defines you I have you to find a moment you decided that you're gonna not concern yourself with the naysayers that you're not going to concern yourself with what has happened or what hasn't happened but you're going to make the commitment to do what you've got to do so that you can have a lifestyle that you've never experienced before or the moment defines you and you decide to play it safe in 20 years from now you say to yourself what if I would have taken a chance on myself what if I would have stayed in the game what if I would have kept making the phone calls what if what if and what if but let me tell you something something amazing begins to happen when you make the decision to move forward on your goals and your dreams if you are an underdog you gotta believe Against All Odds you got to learn to close your ears to everybody you got to learn to close your ears to everything you got to learn to block out the distractions and you gotta learn to get focused all right be very intentional very deliberate very strategic you are very deliberate about what time you wake up you're very deliberate about what time you go to bed you're very deliberate about what you eat what you don't you you're very deliberate about the people you bring in your life you are very very focused intentional and deliberate winners win and losers lose and if you create a culture of losing if you keep being a victim if you keep letting losing happen to you if you keep letting people do you and treat you any kind of way it's gonna become a culture sure see we gotta look our trauma in the face we gotta embrace the pain in the darkness and allow it to mold us the dark times are when we build higher dream harder push further love deeper that's forming your future it's pushing you forward when you go through a storm it strengthens you when you come through that kind of experience and able to reclaim your life you come back with a certain kind of power and you will never be the same again after that experience there are certain things when you go through those things and you come up out of those things you come up a different kind of person different Spirit different Power different energy don't ever say when you're going through some rough time I'm going through a really bad tragic time no see I'm going through a character building experience that setback is going to become a comeback go through the darkness come out on the other side something new and allow that person to change the world I know what you're going to do Carlos hours sitting up thinking if your life will ever get better thinking about everybody has passed away just walked out your life there are some things in life that are out of your control that you can't change and you're going to live with the choice that we have though is either to give up or keep on going I want to ask you what are you going to believe are you going to believe in yourself you're gonna believe everybody else's judgment on you are you gonna believe people when they say that you're a failure no one real likes you no one really cares about you people ask you how you are and you say fine but you're not fine and they'll never know that there are some times in life where you fall down and you feel like you don't have the strength to get back up maybe you have doubt in your life maybe you don't know for sure what's going to be happening in the future and it scares you maybe you're worried about what people think of you what people say about you just that fear paralyzes you and I just want to ask you today do you think you have hope you see I will try 100 times to get up and if I fail 100 times if I fail and I give up do you think that I'm ever gonna get up no but if I fail I try again and again and again for as long as I try there's always that chance of getting up and it's not the end until you've given up and just the fact that you're here should persuade you have another chance to get back up there's still hope I want to challenge you tonight together some of you getting up means all right here I am I got some challenges I'm tired of being quiet about it others of you getting up means I'm fighting back I'm going to a doctor getting up means I'm going back to counseling getting up says all right I'm gonna start the medication again getting up is you know what maybe I can get a job maybe my mission has not been destroyed by my depression I'm getting up you gotta get up to find your purpose I dare you to fail I dare you to take that same class over and over guys I dare you stop dropping classes like you saw see get what you want is up to you you turn your life around if you change your attitude you change your attitude you change your altitude your mind and attitude is all you need to be successful that's all you need you don't need to be born with a silver spoon in your mouth you don't need money you don't even need folks that like you as long as you believe in you you got the right mindset you got the right attitude we can make it happen I don't care what's going on around you because it's not what happens around you that determines your success it's what happens inside you and you can't control the elements but you can control your attitude and you can control your mindset life is going to see how bad you want what you say you will impose your world orders life will give in to you if it knows you're serious about whatever it is that you're trying to do life will give into you when ever you start you make sure you finish if you do not kill me you will not stop my drive no Petty adversity will not stop me I have to complete every mission that I set out on this side forward set out to achieve greatness not by looking for someone to give it to you but by going through all of the blood all of the sweat all of the hard work by going to work to set your own inner greatness free no matter what anyone else has said or how anyone else has made you feel before it's there so you had it harder than other people well then you're gonna have to work a little harder but trust me when I say you have greatness inside you wherever we are with whatever hand that life has dealt us we have the freedom of spirit we can go through life whining and weeping or we can have the kind of spirit that regardless of what happens to you you can stand up inside of yourself you have an uncomfortable Soul it can be painful it will uncomfortable and that's where the growth is when you're stretching out when you're taking life by the collar you're going to get thrown to the ground again and again and again but when you have determination and you know that what you're doing is right it gives you your life it gives a special meaning and power to you you'll begin to discover some things about you that you don't know you've got when you put yourself in that type of challenging situation journey is not easy everyone's hot off the start but after a month or so into it with the wear and tear and the grind starts to hit you start losing focus on the horizon do you not get called away in the daily hiccups the ups and downs and the wear and tear he focuses people into the daily activities losing sight of their true purpose most of you won't be successful because when you're studying and you get tired you quit don't cry to give up cry to keep going try to quit you already in pain you already hurt get a reward from it the difference between a winner and a loser values there for some time it's just the winner gets back up it doesn't again and does it again until it goes his way I don't care how hard you fall I don't care if nobody don't believe in you it only takes you believing in yourself to get this thing done and listen to me it ain't failure if you learn from it baby so if you fall following your back so you can look up because if you can look up then you can get up take a little pain I dare you at the end of paying a success to fight it's okay to not be okay it's just not okay to stay that way the one thing I know about emotions is that they change one hour from right now you will not feel the same way and I want to encourage you tonight that you might be in your darkest moment you might be going through hell in high water but I know this it is always too soon to quit you have a reason to live your best days are in front of you get up your future is brighter than your past get up your ladder is greater than your former get out it's still yet to come there's some things in life you don't need no degree for you don't need no money for it you don't need no support for it there's something in life you just gonna get through when you tell yourself I'm gonna get through this I need you to look at that sickness that's going on your life right now whatever it is I want you to say I can't be I can't read it I will beat it I must you think it's gonna be easy forget about it all right don't even try to be successful it's a wrap it's not going to be easy but I want you to feel that pain going through your body as pain leads your body guess what's gonna take its place success and when that thing tells you to quit you look at it in his eye and say I ain't going nowhere I will break you before you break me you will not defeat me you will not destroy me I'm unbreakable now take your time use your plan to push you past whatever you can treat you are take the fact that your father wasn't in your life take the fact that it took me 12 years the fact that you started with nothing to lose your pain you take your pain and let your face what you do not level you have come too far to quit now you have invested too much to quit now you have lost to quit now get a reward for your pain don't cry about it don't whine about it get a reward for it I didn't quit I didn't stop I didn't whine you know what I did I got my reward for it I don't take L's no more no more arrows in my life all we do is win win literally at the darkest moment when it dawns you don't really even get to the next level to your darkest moments no matter what you've ever been through had to go through it to get right here this glory on the other side of pain no pain and when you make up your mind to deal with pain because you know what it feels like man ain't a devil if they all can stop what you trying to do there's one sign of pain that's the suffering and the discomforts out of pain but then there's another side of pain it's called effort it's called Glory it's called if you can find a way to push through pain there's something greater on the other side of it and if you never tap into it it's first time you felt it you back talking stop tripping when it get dark and you run it you running from your success why would you do something for 10 years then quit if you was gonna quit you should have quit when you put your first brand in it you like 9 800 hours deep into it it only take ten thousand hours so it's not the darkest moment that's the problem you the problem and your perspective is the problem every time you come up to a challenge you quit you surrender you get in every single thing I go through I remember I was homeless and I draw from it every single time I'm going through pain I remember that I've gone through pain since I was a kid I draw from and recycle your pain get something from it you already in pain use it do something with it allow it to take you to the next level allow your pain to push you to Greatness you must eradicate excuses you will never ever point the finger at anybody again you will never blame another human being even if they wrong you will not point the finger you will not say because she didn't do what she was supposed to do or because he didn't do what he was supposed to do I couldn't do what I was supposed to do you're never gonna say that again you're going to take a hundred percent ownership take full responsibility for your life except Where You Are and the responsibility that you're going to take yourself where you want to go we have two primary choices in life we can either accept conditions as they exist or we can take the responsibility to change them the difference between the winners in life and the people that constantly live their lives on the lowest level is that the winners handle problems better they look at the situation and they say what do I need to do instead of why me and they look to fix the problem so that the next time around they're prepared for it if you want to be a real winner in life don't try and avoid problems get really masterful at handling them see a lot of people want to exempt themselves from taking responsibility all they want to do is talk about the problem every time you see them they'll tell you their story over and over and over and over again no no you want to take responsibility for your life I got me here I can get me out of this and I'm getting out you can decide that you're going to change that you're not going to be a wimp I'm not going to be a volunteer victim to anyone out there that's listening that's starting to go down down in that hole trapped in the chains of depression or addiction or rage you're going through a tough time maybe you're walking through real depression maybe you are in a valley today that you've experienced the worst failure of your life and you are on the verge of giving of maybe you're here today and your marriage is on the Rocks maybe you're here today and you're dealing with anxiety on a daily basis you know what it's like to be in a lonely dark place you know what it's like to want to quit you know what it's like when the pressure's overwhelming when people expect your best but you're at your worst that is a moment of choice that is a moment of decision what will your response be am I going to sit back are you going to step up adversity creates the perfect moment for audacity it's in your adversity the thing that comes out of you is what defines you when life is squeezing you and pressure is on you what's really inside of you see there's some people in this room right now that you need to hear this loud and clear you need to get this in your spirit because I don't know what you're walking through but some of you right now you are in a tough season an event has happened and Something's Happened and maybe you have failed but I want to remind you that failure is not final it's formative it's part of the process part of the journey your failure matters as much as your success or growth you don't ever fail yet some of you have failed and you have decided well guess what I'm a failure no failure is an event it is never a person just because you failed doesn't mean that you're a failure in fact failure is actually fuel for your future the way that you grow the way that you advance you have to fail in order to succeed the darker the night the brighter the morning this too shall pass you're gonna get through this thing you might not be in control of the storm but you can have the courage to face the stories I'm not going to back down I'm not going to run away I'm gonna walk through this thing because I believe this thing is leading me to another miracle you see the fight's not over if you've been knocked down it's only over if you quit if you make the decision to get up one more time I'm telling you you will win the fight [Music] there are moments that try the human soul so violently and so perplexing that if the truth were told all of us have had moments that we wanted to throw up our hands and walk away depression frustration anxiety pain disillusion it's just a natural part of the process of becoming a stronger version of yourself it happens to us spiritually and it happens in the world physically you actually have a say-so in how your life goes you have a determining voice into where your life can go you have no say so in what happens to you but you have a say-so in what you do about it see life is 10 what happens to you is 90 what you do about it everything you see that's beautiful starts out as a seed but that seed got to get dirt on it see you get tripped out cause you got dirt on you but you need dirt on you to develop because dirt ain't just dirt dirt is fertilizer dirt is nutrients dirt gives you the strength for your seed to push through so you got to have dirt on you to push through something see you get mad when haters come your way you get mad cause you get a setback you get mad cause you get thrown off of course you get mad cause you get a detour that's just dirt you get mad cause they talking about you that's dirt you get mad cause you you lost your mama that's dirt but show me something that has grown into something beautiful that didn't have no dirt on it you got to have dirt on you to grow into what God got for you I'm better I'm better than I was when I went down it was good for me that I've been Afflicted I'm better for it I didn't like it but I'm better for it I couldn't see down there but I'm better for it see I was planted in a dark place but I'm better for every time you go through something dark and you can't see your way out remember you've been planted not been buried I'm not buried in this mess I'm planted in it I'm planted in it and if I'm planting it expect me to come back up again and when I come back up you won't recognize me because I'm going to be transformed by the experiences that I have endured I ain't going nowhere I will break you before you break me you will not defeat me you will not destroy me I'm unbreakable now you gotta take some ales To Be A Champion you ain't gotta take no L's to be a winner but you gotta take some L's to be a champion and you tripping on your arrows your L's about to prepare you everybody can plan to hit in the [ __ ] mouth so when your playing fails when you get money when everything falls apart in your life and your plan is [ __ ] up what the [ __ ] are you gonna do there's only one [ __ ] option stay put yourself in a position where you can't Retreat where it's Do or Die sink or swim here's what you'll find out you'll develop incredible swimming skills through the inspiration of desperation you become more creative than ever before when your mind knows it's not going to quit your body will adapt to whatever is in front of it learn to not let life hijack your brain don't allow all these things to make you a lesser person you must own your mind don't let life on yours as long as you have breath in your mouth don't you ever give up don't you ever give in because I never told you it would be easy but with mental toughness you can get it done I don't care how hard you fall follow your back cause if you can follow your back you can look out and then you can look up you can get up I'm not gonna let this get me down I'm not gonna let this destroy me I'm coming back and I'll be stronger and better because of it I don't care where you come from I don't don't care where you were raised I don't care what color you are I don't care what gender you are I don't care about any of that if you do the work consistently if you invest in yourself consistently one plus one is always going to equal two two plus two is gonna equal four and ten years a [ __ ] work is gonna pay off you can do this don't stop when you're tired stop when you're done pressure does most people did the weight of what it feels like to want to be successful every single day over and over and over it's just too much pressure people crack you got the persevere you must insist that this is going to happen you've got to get in there and keep fighting you got to be constantly at it everybody got to develop some dog in them you gotta say I'm gonna hang in here now I'm going to hang in here I'm going to keep going I'm going to stay with it no matter what at the very end State what really wins it isn't the potential the person it's a perseverance the heartbeat of a person that heart doesn't stop the heart doesn't go nine to five and then shut down it's always beating just like a true champion doesn't just exist in the arena it exists everywhere else too those moments and inches that are one the final hour that make or break a win or a loss or discovered there let's go through thousands of hours in the training lab when no one's watching do you get up and run at five in the morning when it's pouring down rain it's a personal character that values who they are there's no habitats here half-assed there and then when it matters it doesn't work that way everyone wants it but somebody wants it more where does all the great [ __ ] that we have in our lives come from it all comes from people who in the face of massive adversity decide that they're going to move forward regardless they're going to make the thing that they want to happen happen no matter what anybody says no matter how many times they get laughed at no matter how many times they get called crazy no matter what they are going to make this happen we have the ability to make the choice to be the person who rises above this is keep making your choice to take the things that have happened to you and turn them into good productive things there is no way that you cannot be successful it is literally at the darkest moment when it dawns you don't really even get to the next level to your darkest moments no matter what you've ever been through you had to go through it to get right here this glory on the other side of pain no pain and when you make up your mind to deal with pain because you know what it feels like man ain't a devil if we all can stop what you trying to do there's one side of pain that's the suffering and the discomfort type of thing but then there's another side of pain it's called effort it's called Glory it's called if you can find a way to push through pain there's something greater on the other side of it and if you never tap into it first time you felt it back up stop tripping when it gets dark and you run it you running from your success why would you do something for 10 years then quit if you was gonna quit you should have quit when you put your first brand in it you're like 9 800 hours deep into it they only take ten thousand hours so it's not the darkest moment that's the problem you the problem and your perspective is the problem every time you come up to a challenge you win you surrender you get in every single thing I go through I remember I was homeless and I draw from it every single time I'm going through pain I remember that I've gone through pain since I was a kid I draw from a recycle your pain get something from me you already in pain use it do something with it allow it to take you to the next level a lot of your pain to push you to Greatness you must eradicate excuses you will never ever point the finger at anybody again you will never blame another human being even if they wrong you will not point the finger you will not say because she didn't do what she was supposed to do or because he didn't do what he was supposed to do I couldn't do what I was supposed to do you're never gonna say that again you're going to take a hundred percent ownership take full responsibility for your life Where You Are and the responsibility that you're going to take yourself where you want to go we have two primary choices in life we can either accept conditions as they exist or we can take the responsibility to change them the difference between the winners in life and the people that constantly live their lives on the lowest level is that the winners handle problems better they look at the situation they say what do I need to do instead of why me and they look to fix the problem so that the next time around they're prepared for it if you want to be a real winner in life don't try and avoid problems get really masterful at handling them see a lot of people want to exempt themselves from taking responsibility all they want to do is talk about the problem every time you see them they'll tell you their story over and over and over and over again no no you want to take responsibility for your life I got me here I can get me out of this and I'm getting out you can decide that you're going to change that you're not going to be a wimp I'm not going to be a volunteer victim no one's coming to push you no one's coming to tell you to turn the TV off no one's coming to tell you to get out the door and exercise nobody's coming to tell you to apply for that job that you've always dreamed about nobody's coming to write the business plan for you it's up to you and because you're only ever going to do the things that you feel like doing right now or that feel good right now unless you understand that you've got to parent yourself you've got to push yourself you're not going to make your dreams come true if you want to live your best life your absolutely best life not give me huge favor you gotta watch them choices you make people make bad choices they wake up another make another Bachelor and they make another Bachelor now they got to happen the bad choices right and they like how do I get here choices how do I get here you trying to get to certain places but you ain't making the choices that's gonna get you there you are in your feelings the problem is that most people they like they can't get up in the morning they ain't got no energy they don't got the energy to keep up with me I'm like well ain't nothing wrong with you you just ain't got the stamina you just ain't got the energy you can't smart everything you can't out think everything some stuff is just you gotta be our fault it's just some stuff that you gotta ask them for you just too slow it just take you too long you wake up taking three weeks to do it it can take 24 hours to do it don't make you a bad person but you gonna forever be average because to be great you got to keep up no alarm clock needed my passion wakes me up my drive wakes me up my determination was my ability to be doing abs whatever I want it wakes me up what wakes you up what drives you why are you playing these games you gotta begin with the end in mind so whatever your dream or your goal is you gotta wake up every day to it you gotta go to bed with it are you hearing what I'm telling you you gotta read stuff the music you listen to everything you do gotta pour into that dream don't give up on yourself don't throw a towel in so quickly many people give up on the one yard line you know the human spirit is powerful this nothing is powerful it's hard to kill the human Spirit there's greatness in you and you've got to learn how to tune out the critics outside and the critic inside because I'm going to do this I'm going to harness my will and I'm not going to let anything stop I deserve this working on yourself talking to yourself that's so very important overcoming the negative conversation that you know dialogue is going on all the time you've got to stand up inside yourself sometimes and say shut up I'm in control here you've got to have an uplifted expression watch your body posture all of these things affect you psychically start working and developing yourself out and prepare yourself for what it is that you want because you expect to get it all I need you to do is speak up and say I expect to win declare that it's over that yesterday was the last day that you were a loser like yesterday was the last day you expected to come up short when you set out for a goal expected to happen expect to be successful expect it to be positive if you can expect it if you can wake up feeling like a winner if you can wake up talking like a winner if you can expect that everything you do will come out winning I guarantee you you never ever have to come up short again it might be here two three four before you get your big win but you can decide now I'm gonna walk talk and be a different person you decide that you're the lead character in the story of your life everything has to do with you intending to win too many of you are playing with your business if you make that shift I'm going to win we're gonna play to win now we're not playing to play we're not playing to see how we do we're not playing for fun once you start getting some winning you start changing you talk different you walk different all of a sudden this isn't the same damn human being you can change you you'd be surprised what a little winning would do you'd be surprised how good you'd be if you just decide to win be number one in your office number one in your region and when you start stacking them up your life can change everybody wants to be a beast everybody wants to be number one everybody wants to be the best everybody wants to succeed everybody wants to have to be and do what they feel they've been called to do the challenge becomes that most of us when it's time to do what beasts do we don't do it so Ichi what do you mean look I told you I wake up at three o'clock in the morning I just woke up recently and it was 2 45 and the average person in me said E.T just pull the covers back over here it's okay you got 15 minutes the phenomenal on me said E.T if you go back to sleep for those 15 minutes there's no guarantee you're gonna get up at three o'clock if you go back to sleep right now you might wake up and it's four o'clock you might wake up and it's five o'clock you might wake up and it's six o'clock all you have is right now are those 15 minutes that sweet that you're gonna push back your dream that you're gonna push back your goal everything you've ever wanted son you're right there you're so close you're closer than you've ever been before those 15 minutes are not worth the rest of your life those 15 minutes are not worth you slipping down the chart that is not worth it because you wake up at 3 30 some other kids getting up at three and he's got 30 minutes on you today so I need you not only to want to be a beast I need you to get in be small and stay and be small I need you to put on beast mode I need you to live and be small everybody's got a dream everybody's gotta go everybody wants something in life but many of you in this room right now your beast mode is Idle your beast mode is not turned on and when you leave this place I'm telling you you your life is going to go to a hold of the let's turn that switch off and keep that switch off you want to become a diamond your whole attitude change your whole mindset you're thinking your relationships the decisions that you make how you spend your time your energy all of it changes see this is something that you can't be in this business this business has to be in you because the end state of it all knowing that the pressures and the problems coming or welcoming those are the situations that run formulate and more joins the person you want to be except this as a reality sacrifice this day for the investment in the future greatness so I'm telling you in life you start running from a class you start running from a subject that you don't like it will haunt you for the rest of your natural light it ain't going nowhere you gotta take that thing God like you got to take the breath out so some of y'all are afraid of math go after it go get it don't run from it no more go get it you go in there and go get that grade you go in there and get that information so you can pass that class you gotta go get it I want you to go in confidence that you've never had before and every Giant in your life slam you go back and slam don't kill them slam I'm tired of people talking about I want to be successful I'm tired of people saying I want to be great look everybody wants to be a beast it's always time to do what real bees do and let me tell you something that means getting up early going to bed late that means you don't go to sleep when you're tired you go when you're done so remember success is never on discount and greatness ain't never on sale I challenge you to have more I challenge you to do more I challenge you to be more you gotta get this beast mode you gotta invite smoked everything about you has to say I ain't if it's to have I'm going to smile a champion doesn't become a champion in the ring [Music] he's merely recognized in the ring The Becoming happens during his daily routine [Music] the practicing the developing the discipline that when applied consistently can get you to the next level if you look at the true Warriors of humanity you look at the true Empire Builders you look at the true Titans who are constructing a better world they're less about pleasure seeking because they understand that if you want to have a great life a soaring life look at what most people do and do the opposite growth comes through discomfort you look at a great athlete it's the way they show up in the championship game is simply how they showed up in the lonely light of the early hours at practice to have the results only five percent of the population have got to be willing to do the things that only five percent of the population are willing to do those of you you're still immature when your excitement is up your effort is up but when your excitement goes down your effort goes down for some of you you're too seasonal when you're excited man you coming to work the first week the first month the first three months when you got that job you were excited and so you was putting forth effort you all Blaze not you got comfortable and you're not excited no more and guess what happened your effort has gone down so do me a favor get off of that feeling stuff get off your excitement we're not dealing with feelings because feelings go up and down you don't have to be excited you made a commitment to that job then nobody forced you to take that job you sign your name on the dotted line and commitment said I don't care how I feel I don't care if I'm excited I don't care about pumped up I don't care if I'm fired up you made a commitment now it's time to put up [Music] there's only one thing you cannot purchase there's only one thing you cannot buy and that's what real beef do that's something you're gonna have to do you gotta put more energy you got to put more effort in your stuff than anybody so you getting up at four and they will get up at 3 30. so you read the book once and you didn't get it read it twice read it three times if a person leaves at six you leave at 8 if a person makes 100 calls today you make 200 calls a day if somebody practices three hours you practice five hours if somebody practices six hours you practice eight hours if someone reads two books you read four books just do a little bit more because there's somebody out there who wants your spot and so you gotta embody Excellence you start training train like it's your life not a game like it's your life like this the last opportunity only opportunity see a guy like me I knew something was better than me there's more talented people than me probably more talented than you but you might not work me for 30 days or 60 days or 90 days but you ain't gonna beat me over a year you cannot work me over two years you're not gonna artwork me over three years I'm a ditch you eventually I'm a dripping damn faucet I just keep coming at you you might think I'm knocked out I just keep coming I'm too damn tough to give up most people half ass half their life all the time I knew they were gonna get tired they were going to Flint they were gonna get down they quit improving themselves they start sleeping in they spend all their damn money I'm not gonna do that so I'm Gonna Save money I'm gonna get up early I'm gonna keep getting wide imma save Relentless there come today man everyone's gonna have this day it comes a day where being average being mediocre just [ __ ] Burns it sucks so much you can't deal with it one more day and you get off your [ __ ] ass and you create something that's always been there it's always been inside of you trying to come out but you've never wanted to unwrap it because it's too much key pain and commitment you are scared you're gonna fail you're scared if you started you never finish it you didn't want to tell anybody you knew it was there but you never wanted to embark on it until something [ __ ] hits you get fired or somebody else gets success remind you what you could have done and then the king spark is born and no matter what happens I'm never gonna be in this boat again and you get up and you go even it gets knocked down you just keep going keep going you're a wild man and life has never been so sweet it's time to unwrap the potential you can be it's within you and the people that have risen to that level were no different than any one of us it says they believed it and they're willing to work their [ __ ] ass off to get it it wasn't about the potential it was another genetics it was about the perseverance and it wasn't about being the hardest key worker in the world there is no excuse not being a horse worker yeah someone might be bigger stronger faster quicker young or whatever else but there is no excuse to not be the hardest game worker there it is the process of the grind that shaped you and forms you is not the game and that's why most of y'all get beat in the cave or make mistakes in the game because you think grinding is what happens when the sun comes out you'll think Brothers will happen when the lights come on you'll think right is what happened when people get in the state that's not crying the real ground is in the dark when nobody sees you when nobody knows what you're doing when you're studying with our coach when you put in those extra rest when you're watching those videos and you getting inspired when you change your music it's the process that makes you sweet it has everything to do with what time you wake up it has everything to do with how you eat it has everything to do with how you work out how you prepare it has every single thing to do it how you think and if you're going to be the best the cream of the crop you gotta be it not talk about it it has to consume you it has to take over you that when I see you without even knowing you I ought to be able to look at you and from your ethos I ought to see you are the best of the best I don't know what you're doing without you saying one word it ought to illuminate from you no alarm clock needed my passion wakes me up my drive wakes me up my determination was my ability to be doing whatever I want it wakes me up what wakes you up what drives you why are you playing this game is it just a game or do you eat it do you sleeping do you drink it have you possessed the game and what will separate those of you from the rest this very simple concept a very simple concept if you want it you gotta go get it's time to stay focused it's time to decide Club partying trying to fit in and socialize rub elbows with everybody so people can stop calling you weird why are you so anti-social because I'm trying to get why are you staying on the basketball court so much because I'm trying to get it why are you out there practicing in the hot sun when ain't nobody else out there because I'm trying to get it why are you not clubbing like every time I text you and invite you to go do something fun and cool you always studying because I'm trying to get it the more weird you are is a reflection of how committed you are to focusing on your molding and shaping and developing your ideas and your craft so that when it's time for you to make your rounds You're Gonna Fly you still got work to do stay on that basketball court stay on that football field goal of homies texting and calling and trying to make you feel bad about being so focused it's grind season homie it's not about today it's about the future you do the work now and all of this that you could ever want to do for your family your kids your loved ones it's all going to be on a whole another stratosphere some of y'all playing stop playing you talking about you want to be successful stop tripping you ain't serious if you say it's too much if you say you can't do no more it means you don't want it you're not willing to make the investment it ain't never too much if you really want it it's not the most talented person that succeeds Talent don't mean a dog old thing if Talent don't show up it's not the quickest it's not the fastest it's not the strongest no no no no that's not the person who makes all their dreams become a reality sometimes it's less talent and more effort and when you believe that you have the ability to do something then the life that you're living right now is going down this direction you can hate where it is there is nothing else to do but to change direction a belief that I cannot go that way anymore gotta go this way and what do you have to lose you know the outcome if you continue the same [ __ ] why not just commit one time in your life to something see what happens there are no losers in the world of passionate commitment to something no one loses their the losers are the people that sit in the starting line and never initiate one not believe in it what's the other option it's a life forgotten man in the acting world if I go to the audition I have a [ __ ] chance of getting a part if I don't go to the audition I'm out of the game I know the outcome nothing show up see if you get knocked on your ass show off at least you have a possibility you have a chance you have a voice of doing something with your freaking life your victory has defeated you some of you your success has messed you up you so successful now you saw it your success has not benefited you you've not grown as a result of being successful you've lost your bike you're not hungry anymore your success is damaging you not any people want the life that you have and you got it and you're not taking it serious you know people would die to have your life and you got it it's your life you got it what you gonna do with it telling yourself that you don't need to go harder or you don't need to do more in your job or be more disciplined in the way that you live if you tell yourself those things that's actually a lie because you know you can do more you know you can be more and that's the truth that's the truth that in each up when you get content when you settle somebody's Chasing You somebody's coming from behind and somebody's trying to take your spot and so every single day when you wake up you gotta set new goals new big smarts you got to raise it higher and higher and higher so you can make your dreams become a reality no complacency no complacency no backing off no slack whatsoever fight sometimes it's about consistency just keep doing it and keep doing it and keep doing it you never stop you never give up and never quit day after day play after play second after second minute by minute are you hear what I'm saying many of you will never be successful you'll never have it you'll never do it you'll never be it because you're just interested in it that's all you are you just like it you trying to get to the next level when you just interested you kidding yourself forget about it if you want to get to the next level if you want to eat it if you want to dream it if you want to live it if you want to swim in it if you want to wear it if you want to be it if you want to accomplish it if you want to do it stop talking about it and give me full commitment a hundred and twenty percent believe it within you because every [ __ ] that ever achieved it had to believe it when everyone else said it wasn't possible they said it [ __ ] was and there they stand boom did it your turn today we'll get started and every day we're going to play our day's dues you're not gonna close any more windows this day it changes every day forward is a better day no longer are we gonna accept Rhymes and societies we're on the reason that we are average average is a weak mentality we must be pissed off for excellence it doesn't matter other passes today what are we doing today what are we going to engage now and once we engage we commit once we engage it's every [ __ ] day we engage because that's the better life it's your option though what are you gonna do your brain is the most powerful weapon in the world [Music] your brain is the only thing you have when you're going through depression when you're going through hard times you're going through death real life you're alone there's 24 hours in the day where you're alone in this brain and your brain is talking to you in all kinds of ways and it wants to control you and pull you in these different pockets if you can't control your own brain and your brain controls you your you got to tell your brain where you want to go and how you want to go and how you want to get there you got to control it if not it's over and all I knew back then was hard work the only way anything gets accomplished I can't get this paragraph I can't remember what the [ __ ] this paragraph to pass this test to get the military read again still not getting it read it again but if you're not getting it write it out and that's how I started learning okay well I can't I gotta write out every [ __ ] thing I do and then write it out again and write out again and guess what happened I got it I got it I can't swim I'm negative buoyant go back again I can't swim go back again go back again go back again I got it I realize if I keep going back and going back and going back your mind will say okay we're gonna figure it out because he is not going to stop if you're a student in school try harder study harder and focus more you got this that athlete that's out there and you're not training how you're supposed to go 10 15 minutes harder five ten more reps you have to work when no one's watching you have to train like there is no tomorrow day after day after day you can improve just a little bit every day that's the effort you need to be great that's the sacrifice that you have to put in in order for you to get to the next level that you need to be in if you can't stick to something for five [ __ ] days you deserve to have a shitty life you deserve to get your ass kicked you deserve to be miserable we're talking about five [ __ ] days we're not talking about 50 years we're not talking about the five years it probably takes to build something worthwhile we're not talking about the five months that could take for you to lose 100 pounds we're talking about five [ __ ] days and you can't even stick to it for that so what the [ __ ] do you think you deserve you deserve exactly what you get and that's the truth that's the things your friends won't tell you when you're cheating moaning about how your life sucks on Friday night drinking a [ __ ] brewski with your boys your mom won't tell you when you're sitting in your mom's basement playing [ __ ] video games when you should be reading or improving or working out or doing something it doesn't matter how you feel it doesn't matter how frustrating your Mr angry or depressed or upset you are all that matters is that you do what needs to be done on a daily basis over and over and over again and if you do that and it gets done it's irrelevant how you feel and I can tell you this if you do that for long enough you're gonna feel a lot [ __ ] better about your life than you do right now if you want to know how to change your life and give it to you in three words boring as it sounds raise your standards everybody in life gets their musts they don't get their shoulds most people have a list of shits don't they don't you have a list of things you should do you should follow through on I I should lose some weight I should work out more I should get into the office earlier people love to have their should list be met but it's kind of like New Year's resolutions to kind of know it's not going to happen but when you decide something is a must for you when you cut up any possible you say I'm gonna find a way I'm gonna make the way human beings when they resolve things and they can make a real resolution inside themselves which is they raise the standard they make it a must they find a way to make things work because somewhere when we make this click we make something a must we attach ourselves to it it becomes part of our identity whatever people have their identity attached to they live your physical body today is an absolute reflection of only one thing not your goals not your desires but your standards if your standard is you're an athlete then there's a certain amount of strength a muscle tone and energy that's available in your body body on a regular basis because that's who you are and so you do whatever is necessary to maintain that identity the strongest force in the human personalities this need to stay consistent with how we Define ourselves once you lock in on that identity your brain finds a way to keep you there if you identify yourself in a new way and that becomes the standard how you live you'll find the way to make that standard real it all comes down to the inner game my friends changing your life is a change in the inner game the outside world you can't control but you have absolute control over this one if you learn the Dynamics of what shapes you this suffering this sacrifice you're making is an indicator of progress it's an indicator of obsession it's an indication of progress towards our dreams and Jews require sacrifices you're not entitled to your dream you have to in the bloom for your kids the price you will pay for not making your dream come true is far greater than the one that you will pay to make it come true am I satisfied not by a long shot and I will not go quietly until the night I will go Kicking and Screaming every opportunity is the last opportunity every opportunity I have to reprove myself again because the day you become condensed it's the day you die is the day the person who's trying to catch you will get you where are the warriors let's say I'm gonna make a decision and I'm keeping it and regardless of how you feel about it it doesn't matter if the world is crumbling or down around you it doesn't matter what's happening just do the thing every single day whether you feel like it or not oh I don't feel so good today get your lazy sick ass about a bed your only commitment is to the activity not to the grand scheme not to the big picture not to the implications of what it is that you're doing it's to do the thing habits are the building blocks of Our Lives it's what you can do every single day that matters more than anything devote yourself to something bigger be decisive about what you're gonna do say I'm gonna do it and that's it and then be disciplined about getting it done every single day whether you feel like it or not where does the switch come from the overdrive it is the thing that allows you to go the extra distance dig a Little Deeper to push a little harder it takes both emotion and logic to reach your maximum potential to really give everything you have to go beyond your limits [Music] because emotion and logic will both reach their limitations and when one fails you need to rely on the other when it just doesn't make any logical sense to go on that's when you use your emotion your anger your frustration your fear to push further to push you to say one thing I don't stop when your feelings are screaming that you have had enough when you think you are going to break emotionally override that emotion with concrete logic and willpower that says one thing I don't stop fight weak emotions with the power of logic fight the weakness of logic with the power of emotion balance of those two you will find the strength to save yourself I don't stop I didn't get to where I am I didn't get here being lazy I didn't get here binge watching TV I didn't get here taking days off I personally know what it takes one day I made a decision that enough is enough I'm tired of being average I'm tired of being good I'm tired I made a decision enough is enough it's showtime in order for you to go from one level to the next level in order for any woman to transition for any man to transition the thing that they want must be greater than the thing that girly had you only transition from one level to the next when you try to level you off you don't belong at the bottom and it's time for you to get your butt from down there it's time for you to stop being comfortable at the bottom get your butt up and get to where you supposed to be get where you belong do what you saw all to do live like he's supposed to live you gotta kill every single day of my life I feel like giving 100 every single day I don't have days where I don't feel like it why because I'm counting on me my wife's counting on me my son's counting on me I don't have days to waste and your grind has to match your dream you can't go where you used to go you can't do what you used to do but now you gotta pick your grind up and I need you to wake up every single day and I need to use your 24 hours like you've never used it before no excuses no more complaining no more giving up what's that thing that's gonna pump you up and get you over that Hill what's gonna pump you up and get you over that model what's gonna pump you up and get you past that disease what's gonna pump you up and get you past bankruptcy what's gonna pump you up and get you to the other dog on side come on you can win if you do what is easy your life will be hard but if you do what is hard your life will be easy if you want to be great if you want to get the recognition if you want to get [ __ ] paid if you want all of the things that you dream about there is only one way to guarantee that you will have those things only one and that is becoming so [ __ ] good at what you do no matter what it is you do that is undeniable that other people recognize how great you are becoming undeniable is not something that sticks with you in a certain role it's a character trait that you can develop that means any place that you are put you will put in the work you will learn the skills you will improve your Arsenal to become the undeniable best in that role and if you have that attitude to where it doesn't matter if you're cooking french fries or you're making 10 billion dollar business deals you are going to be the absolute best that you can [ __ ] be and there's nothing that could stop you it doesn't matter where you come from it doesn't matter what your background is it doesn't matter what race you are what gender you are it doesn't matter who your [ __ ] parents are here we can make every excuse in the book but I promise you for every excuse you can make there are literally thousands of people who had it harder than you that have done what the [ __ ] you want to do there is nothing that can stop you when you become so skilled that every single person around you sees that and it recognizes that and that is a habit that is not a gift that is something that you can create it's a skill you can learn so develop the skill of becoming undeniable if you really want to guarantee your success be [ __ ] great put the time in to learn the skills put the skills into practice and make a commitment to becoming so good that all your peers say that's the [ __ ] that's the best and if you can do that you cannot be stopped you think you've become a champion on the field you don't you become a champion when ain't nobody watching you when you're not doing what coach selling you do you're doing your own drills in your own way you're doing what coach tell you to do and you're doing your own stuff you become a champion in the dark when ain't nobody looking you don't become no Champion when you put no dog on helmet on you'll become a champion the way you eat you'll become Champion the way you think you'll become a champion in your grind and you just get on stage and you shine it's about a commitment to you that's what's wrong with a lot of you because you want somebody else to be more committed to you than you want to be to yourself and you got to get to the point where no other human wants it for you more than you want it for you I'm shocked more people out of this road there are people who living from checking they comfortable listen to them unless you number one of your industries you shouldn't be chilling and it'll be number one in your industry you got enough common sense to know you better not be chilling so I need that dog execute execute execute why because when you get results you get Rewards if you really want this you gotta learn to sacrifice you got to learn to give up and go up you want affirmation look yourself in the mirror and say I think I can I think I can I know I can do whatever it takes you your biggest driver I wake up every single day and I get what I get because I live in beast mode y'all gotta do me a favor stop being gazelle you're not average you're not even good you were born to be great so be phenomenal or you will be forgotten to have ups and downs in life things are going to go wrong You're Gonna Lose businesses You're Gonna Lose jobs you're gonna break up and there are times when you get injured and there are times when you get mentally defeated and you feel like you don't want to do it anymore and those days go on and on and on things are going to go wrong and what you need to do is to keep moving forward no matter what happens keep moving forward we all go through pain get a reward for yours there's some things in life you don't need no degree for you don't need no money for it you don't need no support for it there's something in life you just gonna get through when you tell yourself I'm gonna get through this I need you to look at that sickness that's going on in your life right now whatever it is I want you to say I can't beat it I can't beat it I will beat it I must you think it's gonna be easy forget about it all right don't even try to be successful it's a wrap it's not going to be easy but I want you to feel that pain going through your body and as pain leads your body guess what's gonna take its place success and when that thing tells you to quit you look at it in his eye and say I ain't going nowhere I will break you before you break me you will not defeat me you will not destroy me I'm unbreakable now life is going to see how bad you want what you say you want impose your will on it life will give in to you if it knows you're serious about whatever it is that you're trying to do life will give in to you whenever you start you make sure you finish if you do not kill me you will not stop my drive no Petty adversity will not stop me I have to complete every mission that I set out on your minor attitude is all you need to be successful that's all you need you don't need to be born with a silver spoon in your mouth you don't need money you don't even need folks that like you as long as you believe in you you got the right mindset you got the right attitude we can make it happen I don't care what's going on around you because it's not what happens around you that determines your success is what happens inside you and you can't control the elements but you can control your attitude and you can control your mindset you get one shot opportunity comes once in a lifetime you better make the kind of decisions that's gonna take you to the NBA you better make the right decisions that's gonna take you to the NFL you better make the right decisions that are gonna land you the next best rapper the next business tycoon is one thing to talk about your destiny is one thing to dream about your destiny but it's another thing to wake up when you know you're supposed to wake up to right when you don't feel like writing that paper to say no to that party saying no to quit when you still got a hundred more shots to make say no when your boss said don't stop but you put in 50 more push-ups you can't just talk about it you gotta be about it you're gonna face some hard times you're gonna get slapped around and don't take it personal don't ask why did this have to happen to me it's called life it happens to everybody you could plan your life to be ideal today and I guarantee you there will be things that happen along the way that were unplanned that will look as if they're unfortunate that will feel as if the world's coming down on your shoulders but those are also the greatest lessons some of the best things that we've ever learned from people happened because they were going through some time of discontent and they said how do I overcome this what can I do about it and there's other people that would have to face that if it wasn't for that knowledge if it wasn't for that experience but it's because they did something they didn't just fall victim to that see a lot of people want to exempt themselves from taking responsibility all they want to do is talk about the problem every time you see them they'll tell you their story over and over and over and over again no no you want to take responsibility for your life I got me here I can get me out of this and I'm getting out you can decide that you're going to change that you're not going to be a wimp I'm not going to be a volunteer victim when you're Dave is a museum of disappointments hanging from events that were outside of your control when you find yourself flailing in an ocean of why is this happening to me where you get puts in the esophagus by A Fistful of Life remember that you will survive remember things could be worse remember we are never ever given anything that we can we can't crumbles around you you have to look at the wreckage and then build a new one out of all the pieces that are still here remember you are still here the human heart beats approximately four thousand times per hour in each pulse eats throb each palpitation is a trophy engraved with the words you are still alive act like it from this side forward set out to achieve greatness not by looking for someone to give it to your but by going through all of the blood all of the sweat all of the hard work by going to work to set your own inner greatness free no matter what anyone else has said or how anyone else has made you feel before it's there so you've had it harder than other people well then you're gonna have to work a little harder but trust me when I say you have greatness inside you wherever we are with whatever hand that life has dealt us we have the freedom of spirit we can go through life whining and weeping or we can have the kind of spirit that regardless of what happens to you you can stand up inside of yourself you have an uncomfortable soul you got to get up to find your purpose some of you getting up means all right here I am I got some challenges I'm tired of being quiet about others of you getting up means I'm fighting back I'm going to a doctor getting up means I'm going back to counseling getting up says art I'm gonna start the medication again getting up is you know what maybe I can get a job maybe my mission has not been destroyed by my depression I'm getting up it can be painful it will be uncomfortable and that's where the growth is when you're stretching out when you're taking life by the color you're gonna get thrown to the ground again and again and again but when you have determination and you know that what you're doing is right it gives you your life it gives a special meaning and power to you you'll begin to discover some things about you that you don't know you've got when you put yourself in that type of challenging situation the journey is not easy everyone's hot off the start but after a month or so into it with the wear and tear and the grind starts to hit you you start losing focus on the horizon do you not you get called away in the daily hiccups the ups and downs and the wear and tear and you focus on the speed bumps the daily activities lose inside of their true purpose most of you won't be successful because when you're studying and you get tired you quit don't cry to give up cry to keep going don't cry to quit you already in pain you already hurt get a reward from it the difference between a winner and a loser the failure is there every single time it's just the winner gets back up and does it again it does it again until it goes his way I don't care how hard you fall I don't care if nobody don't believe in you it only takes you believing in yourself to get this thing done and listen to me it ain't failure if you learn from it baby so if you fall following your back so you can look up because if you can look up then you can get up I dare you to take a little pain I dare you at the end of paying a success if you if you stay in the race if you can stay in the fight because you can dictate your own future I dare you to fail I dare you to take that same class over and over again I dare you to stop dropping classes like you saw see getting what you want is up to you you turn your life around if you change your attitude you change your attitude you change your altitude it's okay to not be okay it's just not okay to stay that way the one thing I know about emotions is that they change one hour from right now you will not feel the same way and I want to encourage you tonight that you might be in your darkest moment you might be going through hell in high water but I know this it is always too soon to quit you have a reason to live your best days are in front of you get up your future is brighter than your past get up your ladder is greater than your former get up because the best is still yet to come see we gotta look our trauma in the face we gotta embrace the pain in the darkness and allow it to mold us the dark times are when we build higher dream harder push further love deeper that's forming your future it's pushing you forward what will your response be am I gonna sit back are you gonna step up that is a moment of choice that is a moment of decision adversity creates the perfect moment for audacity it's in your adversity the thing that comes out out of you is what defines you when life is squeezing you and pressure is on you what is really inside when you go through a stone when you come through that kind of experience and able to reclaim your life you come back with a certain kind of power and you will never be the same again after that experience there are certain things when you go through those things and you come up out of those things you come up a different kind of person different Spirit different Power different energies don't ever say when you're going through some rough time I'm going through a really bad tragic time no see I'm going through a character building experience take full responsibility for your life Where You Are and the responsibility that you're going to take yourself where you want to go we have two primary choices in life we we accept conditions as they exist or we can take the responsibility to change them that setback is going to become go through the darkness decide something new and allow that person to change the world so many of us we've gone through life and life has led us down you can find yourself stressed out you can find yourself depressed mentally fragile because of the experiences the turbulence that you have gone through I know what it's like to barely hold on to barely feel like you're breathing and barely feel like you can come up for air when you're down in that hole look up look up and recognize that there is a way out there is a path for you to take and it's not an easy path takes courage and it's hard [Music] but what is the other choice what else can we do let the darkness completely consume us be over taken by Temptation advice no do not accept that you could triumph over these dark Forces you can become better you can be better growth is faster and deeper during your darkest days through that separation through that unemployment through that tragedy through that loss and maybe you've been knocked down in your life and it seems like hey the fight is over it is not over unless you quit you take those terrible events in your life and you create a new story of Triumph see there's some people in this room right now that you need to hear this loud and clear you need to get this in your spirit because I don't know what you're walking through but some of you right now you are in a tough season an event has happened and Something's Happened and maybe you have failed but I want to remind you that failure is not final it's formative it is part of the process it's part of the journey your failure matters as much as your success how do you think you're gonna grow if you don't ever fail that some of you have failed and you have decided well guess what I'm a failure no failure is an event it is never a person just because you failed doesn't mean that you're a failure in fact failure is actually fuel for your future the way that you grow the way that you advance you have to fail in order to succeed the darker the night the brighter the morning this too shall pass you're gonna get through this thing you might not be in control of the storm but you can have the courage to face the storm and say I'm not gonna back down I'm not gonna run away I'ma walk through this thing because I believe this thing is leading me to another miracle you see the fight's not over if you've been knocked down it's only over if you quit if you make the decision to get up one more time I'm telling you you will win the fight I know what you're going to do Carlos hours sitting up thinking if your life will ever get better thinking about everybody has passed away just walked out your life there are some things in life that are out of your control that you can't change and you're gonna live with the choice that we have though is either to give up or keep on going I want to ask you what are you going to believe are you gonna believe in yourself you're gonna believe everybody else's judgment on you are you gonna believe people when they say that you're a failure no one really likes you no one really cares about you people ask you how you are and you say fine but you're not fine and they'll never know that there are some times in life where you fall down and you feel like you don't have the strength to get back up maybe you have doubt in your life maybe you don't know for sure what's going to be happening in the future and it scares you maybe you're worried about what people think of you what people say about you it's that fear paralyzes you and I just want to ask you today do you think you have hope you see I will try 100 times to get up and if I fail 100 times if I fail and I give up do you think that I'm ever gonna get up no if I fail I try again and again and again for as long as I try there's always that chance of getting up and it's not the end until you've given up and just the fact that you're here should persuade you do you have another chance to get back up I want to challenge you tonight to get up I invested too much to quit I made too many sacrifices to give up we've come too far we've been through too much we've seen too much we've had too many victories we have seen defeat we've looked defeat in the face and we've overcome it we've come too far to give up now we've come too far to be negative now we've come too far to start overthinking so when life happens I'll just sit there and cry I brought back I worked back and the process is not supposed to be comfortable so if it hurts welcome to the big leagues if you feel like you're under heat praise God if you feel like you're being pressured praise God when God looks like he's pulling you back eventually he's gonna let you go and the farther he pulls you back [Applause] the further he pulls you back once he releases you boom the spirit of resiliency the spirit of grit is in your DNA it's in your blood overcoming is in your blood getting through adversity is in your blood your ancestors got through so much more we will be all right we need to focus on where we're going not where we come from and what's happening I just need you to keep walking toward it I don't need you thinking about it no more you're doing too much thinking you analyze it too much you talking yourself out of it I don't know if it's gonna work I tried and it didn't work I just need you to keep moving I need you to make up in your mind that the only way you can lose is if you quit I just need you to keep going you gotta tell life I don't know who you've been dealing with but you ain't dealt with me you know I tell bankruptcy you gotta tell divorce you gotta tell sickness I don't know who you've been dealing with you come up against the wrong one this time you can be and do whatever you want and nobody can stop you nobody can stop you but you when I start listening to Adele Adele blew my mind because as I was listening to her music I could tell that this was real to her and as I started studying the girl I found out I discovered that she had been through a breakup they said her album 21 like she started the album stop for months because she had no creativity right but then they said all of a sudden her man broke up with him and now what did he break up with her he broke up with her God with somebody else and got engaged in a matter of weeks it broke her it broke her it broke her so much God is so good sometimes he got to break us to bring the creativity out of us get raped sir he's right sir he breaks her heart and she goes into the studio and when she goes into the studio she just doesn't sing something she made up she actually seen something that's true to her heart at first up she's gifted yep she knows how to write but it was kind of in the outer space but then something happened to her something broke her and when that thing broke her something within happened to her at first it was just external but then something internal happened and sister girl got up and said take me in the studio turn on the music Turn on the salsa I got something for him and she's sang it like she never sang anything else and let me tell you something out of that pain how that hurt came the best album the best single the best song and six friends and I'm telling you right now don't give up I'm telling you right now don't get this get through it and so God is allowing you to go up the Rough Side of the Mountain not so he can hurt you or break you he trying to redesign you I'm telling you right now because I care about you I'm telling you right now because I've been there I've done that you've been in it for three years and you about to quit oh you've been doing it for five years and it don't look like you think you put all your money in it you put all your time minutes people looking like you crazy five years you've invested oh you put too much in it you quit now oh it doesn't look like you think you didn't get the grades you thought you were gonna get so maybe I'm not meant to be a lawyer oh lay hold of it you lay hold of it and when that thing tells you to quit you look at it in his eye and say I ain't going nowhere I will break you before you break me you will not defeat me you will not destroy me you've been through so much hell you gonna quit now and when you get to success it's not about skills but you get to a certain level just it's about stabbing up you won't break me you can't take me I'm far too long I'm far too hard I'm unbreakable now where does the switch come from the overdrive it is the thing that allows you to go the extra distance dig a Little Deeper to push a harder it takes both emotion and logic to reach your maximum potential to really give everything you have to go beyond your limits because emotion and logic will both reach their limitations and when one fails you need to rely on the other when it just doesn't make any logical sense to go on that's when you use your emotion your anger your frustration your fear to push further to push you to say one thing I don't stop when your feelings are screaming that you have had enough when you think you are going to break emotionally override that emotion with concrete logic and willpower that says one thing I don't stop fight weak emotions with the power of logic fight the weakness of logic with the power of emotion and in the balance of those two you will find the strength to save yourself I don't stop I didn't get to where I am I didn't get here being lazy I didn't get here binge watching TV I didn't get here taking days off I personally know what it takes one day I made a decision that enough is enough I'm tired of being average I'm tired of being good I'm tired I made a decision enough is enough it's showtime in order for you to go from one level to the next level in order for any woman to transition for any man to transition the thing that they want must be greater than the thing they girly had you only transition from one level to the next when you try to level you on you don't belong at the bottom and it's time for you to get your butt from down there it's time for you to stop being comfortable at the bottom get your butt up and get to where you supposed to be get where you belong do what you supposed to do live like you supposed to live you gotta kill every single day of my life I feel like giving 100 every single day I don't have days where I don't feel like it why because I'm counting on me my wife's counting on me my son's counting on me I don't have days to waste and your grind has to match your dream you can't go where you used to go you can't do what you used to do now you gotta pick your grind up and I need you to wake up every single day and I need to use your 24 hours like you've never used it before no excuses no more complaining no more giving up what's that thing that's gonna pump you up and get you over that Hill what's gonna pump you up and get you over that model what's gonna pump you up and get you past that disease what's gonna pump you up and get you past bankruptcy what's gonna pop you up and get you to the other dog on side come on you can win if you do what is easy your life will be hard but if you do what it hard your life will be easy the biggest warrior ever going through is wipe between your own ears it's in your mind the mind is a very powerful thing it has a tactical advantage over you all the time it knows where you don't want to go so it will guide you away from that and that's why the mind will always win and reprogram it a way to reap to reprogram your mind to get outside the box whatever my mind said I don't want to do I realize I must do that the great to do things when they don't always want to and Matt and mass separation without disciplined in nothing and discipline of doing what you hate to do but do it like you love it because really the only person that you're fighting every day is yourself is not your boss it's not this or that yeah those are all obstacles a lot of them you cannot control those obstacles but you can't control yourself we have to regain control of our mind how you gain mental toughness how you become the person you want to be is constantly facing the things that you don't want to face the only way anything gets accomplished you got to work hard I can't remember what the so this paragraph to pass this test to get the military read again still not getting it read it again but it's not getting it write it out and guess what happened I got it I can't swim I'm negative buoying go back again I can't swim go back again go back again go back again I got it I realize if I keep going back and going back and going back your mind was safe okay we're gonna figure it out because he is not going to stop to find real permanent peace you first must go through suffering you must go to the dark side of who you are every day I demand more for myself than anybody else could possibly expect I don't like compete with what I'm capable person that's obsessed and wants to be once till you get there they don't want to care because they know no matter what's out there remember snowing is this a damn tropical storm if there's 20 below they don't care they're gonna run it doesn't matter what the [ __ ] out there what's in front of me I'm just gonna grow and that's how you want to get your mind you have to train your brain by doing things that make you uncomfortable consist get hard we don't shy away we don't quit we attack I'm singing through all those walls I'm getting to where I want to go you have to literally visualize the connection between what you're doing on a day-by-day basis with what you're wanting what do you want yourself to look like 10 years from now what do you want your bank account to look like what do you want to look like physically six months from now or a year from now you have to connect the dots you have to remind yourself that these little things that you do are going to lead to the big things if you think that you've given everything you really have if you think you're working hard you're not working hard enough you can always do more you always have another gear another level of performance you can always push a little bit harder get up a little earlier work a little longer whatever it is you want more of you have complete control over whether you get it or not people don't have limits we put limits on ourselves thank you [Music] everybody know what to do when everything goes right everybody know to show up and give everything they got when the sunshine everybody when they get what they want they're gonna come and they're going to be great but there's very few people that reach deep down and got the character and in the midst of opposition in the midst of a challenge to look at it with the right perspective and not only look at it with the right perspective process it the right way and figure out a way to use it what is it that will make it worth it for you when you want to give up things that are working against you to face the rejections what is it that will make it worth it for you the brainstorm and not be intimidated and say I can do this what is it that will make it worth it for you to make know your vitamin that you become empowered by it what is it that will make it worth it for you to raise the bar on yourself and say I've got some more stuff in me when you want to keep driving past the office because of the stress what is it that will help you get back up again some of us choose to stay down but if that [ __ ] who constantly gets up as fast as they can those are the mothers that make it in life all you do is you fall down get back up again fall down get back up again fall down get back up again that's how you win you've got to activate the Thinker in you don't allow your emotions to control you we are emotional but you want to begin to discipline your emotion if you don't discipline and contain your emotions they will use you you want to monitor your inner conversations the things that you say to yourself you want to watch them and in watching them you want to take charge oh you really don't feel like it you really don't need to do it forget all that that's that inner conversation oh you oh you don't need to worry about trying to go into your own business forget that you can't do that what if you lose everything you've got that in a conversation that stopped you from doing the things you want to do less don't do that but look at all that and then I said shut up you'll get scared sometimes your mind will go blank on you you've got to learn to stand up to yourself inside yourself in short circuit override that conversation that's always going on 85 percent of what that conversation will tell you is negative it will tell you you're tired when you really are not tired it will tell you you can't do it it will fill you with fear so you've got to watch that conversation and when you find it going on you've got to stand up to it and say I'm gonna do this anyhow I'm afraid but I'm afraid not to do it and I'm not going to let you stop me inside yourself sometimes shut up some people you will allow to unnerve you you can't do this you don't have everything it takes I shut up I have got to do it that's why you got to learn to make a conscious deliberate determined effort to stand up inside yourself working on yourself watching that inner dialogue it will determine the quality of your life the biggest challenge that you will have in life is you because there's no enemy within the enemy outside can do us no harm you've got to sell yourself every day on your abilities on what you're doing on the goal that you want to reach you're bombarded with negative stuff every day that beats you down and you will find yourself unconsciously engaged in self-destructive Behavior if you don't program yourself life will program you don't complain don't talk negative average people use their time to complain average people talk problems the greats talk Solutions live your life with passion with some Drive decide that you're going to push yourself you want to live life with energy and passion you want to be happy you got a lot to be thankful for most people won't do that most people give up on themselves easily you know the human spirit is powerful this nothing is powerful it's hard to kill the human Spirit you gotta get this beast mode everything about you has to say I ain't playing if it's to have I'm gonna get it and I ain't leaving none of it behind it's my smokes if you wanna get your butt out the bed ride to sundown you can have the life that other people dream of you can experience enough pain in life you can experience enough disappointment in life that he can clobber you to the ground and kick dirt in your face and you believe you can't do it do you believe that this is it for you no it's not so many people out there fail not because they don't have the ability it's because they don't have a heart to go through adversity the question is can you manage your conflict and still sees your destiny because if you're waiting for it to end you will never get anywhere but most people spend their life not wanting to deal with the pain of rejection the pain of defeat the pain of being disappointed the pain of losing the pain of failure the pain of being criticized the pain of not being lacked the pain the pain the pain that's called life life is full of pain there's no gain without pain now if you want to hurt anyhow get some yardage out of it get something from it you already in pain you used to do something with it allow it to take you to the next level allow your pain to push you to Greatness you're gonna have people to do things to you things are going to happen to you and you've got to clear your mind of all the unnecessary luggage and baggage that's weighing us down and let it go your life depends on it your future depends on it your destiny depends on your Miracle depends on it everything depends on your ability to Let It Go oh if you hold on to stuff you choke if you release stuff you can keep breathing life is gonna hand you something every day take in what you can get out of it let go what you take get out of it but don't let anybody hurt you so bad that yourself life go with your blood life is gonna bully you stop worrying stop crying nobody cares be demanding let it hit you but don't let it poke you this is not an opposition this is what I've been doing it I don't care if you've been beaten to the floor if your legs are too tired to lift that weight break through that barrier and create new ones for you and for others to show off get back up and live life whoever stays down is a loser and winners who fail and get up fail and get up you always get up that is a winner it's a guy that's willing to get knocked down finally done so don't Fortune stand back up stand back up the perseverance to see it through and Never Say Die attitude if I don't win I showed up I gave my valid effort and tomorrow I'll do the same thing now continue and throws against the wall every time I get knocked down I will get back up and I will succeed I will not surrender the moment is to take your breath away the ones that count you either Downs to make the UPS you need the Ops to create the Downs you need to feel the Opposites to truly understand the full reality of the life you are living you can dream of these things but understand you can also achieve them you got to make it happen or it's not gonna happen you got to get up off your hand boss and bust a move or nothing is gonna happen in your life faith of any kind always comes by hearing you didn't believe you were dumb till you heard you were though you didn't believe you couldn't learn till you heard somebody say you couldn't learn your unbelief is a result of something you heard about yourself and the more you heard it and rehearsed it and even argued about it and said you didn't believe it every time you face a challenge tell me the truth don't those voices come back up every time you hit a low place don't those voices come back up again and you will never completely be healed or whole until you change the voice inside of your own head and nobody can do this but you the moment you raise your hand it says I'm going to do something I can guarantee you that somebody's not going to agree with what you're going to do somebody's not going to be supportive of what you're trying to do somebody's going to try to assassinate what you're trying to do and yet you have to have the commitment and the calling and the tenacity and the character to be able to withstand the onslaught that comes against you in order to proceed toward your destiny toward your purpose you had bad experience after bad experience after bad experience after bad experience you tried to talk yourself out of one and talk yourself out of believing try to fit in with the people around you blend into the scenery just act like everybody else and be cool and maybe they'll like you but the problem is there's a burning desire down inside of you that will not shut up that will not die do I just sit there and settle no I don't I say enough's enough man and I'm going to make a change and I'm gonna keep going until I get it you chase something that you believe you deserve until you get it and it doesn't know what happens to you it doesn't matter how many times you've been fired doesn't matter how many people don't believe in you you just go until you get it you gotta believe this for yourself you gotta believe I can do this I was created for this I was called for this I was curved for this I was shaped for this meant for this wouldn't it be amazing if you believe that wouldn't you sleep good tonight if you believe that wouldn't you walk around with your head up in your bike straight if you believe that you would be intimidated by anybody any word at any time if you just believe that say it and actually mean it look in the mirror every [ __ ] day and say yeah I'm proud of you I believe in you you can do anything you want you are powerful you're safe it's hard then do it hard I won't allow this to stop me I don't have the option of easy I don't have the option and I don't think you do what any of us do I'm going around trying to find a dream that's a Little Dream that doesn't require much responsibility or not too stressful it won't be too much of a hassle no no no all you need to do to get out in the arena of life is to save out of the nose maybe this next I do this yeah that's right little one why'd you get about the bed this morning because this might be the day why did you put in another application because this might be the day I can't stay home today this might be the day I can't give up right now this might be the day I can't slide back now this might be the night every voice and said you'll never be nothing you gotta call it out your life since you can't make it through the through them can't take this never lose your mind you you're me I'm better you need your abort ever since said you can't do it in your mouth I'm big push it out I'll fight my way I got much Vision to stay in this love every day you wake up you gotta start with that Vision you won't get up you won't get dressed you won't get out and you gonna do what you've been called to do and you're gonna prove that everybody that tried to break you everyone is trying to stop you everybody trying to kill your dream you improve all over the world there are many people who have the limitations in their minds who have lost that fire in their eyes [Music] who because of the experiences of life that said no I can't do that a lot of people never try anything differently because they have been convinced by people in their lives that they can't do it they're living within the context of the opinions that other people have of them the low expectations many people doubt themselves because when they thought about doing something at some critical point in their life somebody they respected and honored someone they trusted said you can't do that and they accepted that people's opinion of you is none of your business nor should you make it yours someone's opinion of you does not have to become your reality it's not what they say about you that matters it is what you say about you that threatens your destiny you will never be defeated by what they say about you you will be defeated by what you say about you what would your life be like if you decided not to care what people thought of you what would your life be like if you decided to give up some of your fears what would your life be like if you decided to become courageous so if you had a place in your life and you ain't happy with it you have to have to change something but you have to make a conscious interest decision that you're going to change and it's not dependent on anybody else it don't matter what your mama think it don't matter what your co-workers think it no matter what your siblings think it don't matter what your children think it don't matter they have nothing to do with it this decision is yours and yours alone ridicule is the price of iCarly you aren't going to divorce yourself from the crowd you are going to be met by the naysayers the critics they're gonna laugh at you your job is to fortify your interior core where it doesn't matter if people call you crazy if you lay dead even the animals won't bite you the risk of being bitten is the cost of getting up a few of you know what it is to have something to so scold you so burn you so beat you so pulverize you that your fight goes out of you and you are so scattered and so broken and so fragmented that you don't even know whether you could ever live again or whether you ever smile again or whether you will ever live to fight another day or whether you'll be able to pull yourself together just to fake a smile for a few minutes in front of people to say I'm doing okay knowing you're lying on the inside I'm talking about going through so much that something inside of you dies and you wonder can I get back up again in that moment when life comes at you the [ __ ] hardest you will panic and you will forget who the [ __ ] you are success will taste stressful because your opportunities come rats in opposition opportunity Commerce in chaos it is good to be uncomfortable I've never met anybody who was terribly creative or gifted or strong in leadership who is also comfortable those exceptional people who are uncomfortable with the times that rise to the challenge because they refuse to allow the chaos around them to determine the Conqueror within them people who resist the toll to go down and stand fiercely in spite of opposition and say I'm going to do it anyway I don't care what it is I don't care how many times you've had to cry yourself to sleep I don't care how difficult it is don't you dare give up now because whatever is over you defines you and whatever defines you limits you you better put some strength in your back plant your feet square your shoulders and stand up to it don't you dare sit down don't you dare crumble under the weight of it don't you dare give hands because of the nature of it don't you dare go home and raise the white flag of surrender this is not your season to die this is not your season to quit there's joy there's peace there's breakthrough but you'll never see it if you're gonna stand up for it I'm not trying to Veer to the left or be it to the right or gradually get it together I'm getting ready to do something so radical and so massive I'm gonna turn the whole Thief 180 degrees and when that thing tells you to quit you look at it in his eye and say I ain't going nowhere I will break you before you break me I will break you you will not defeat me you will not destroy me you can't take me you will not break me you will not stop me you will not defeat me the only way I lose is if I quit it's going to be a dog fight you can contain for a while but you cannot stop this you can't stop it you've been through so much hell you gonna quit now don't cry to give up try to keep going sometimes in life you have to hit back allow your pain to push you to Greatness I've been broken so much I've been defeated so much I've been disappointed so much in my life and I know what it feels like and I can handle it and when you get the success it's not about skill when you get to a certain level it's about stamina are you hearing what I'm telling you once you get to that point you cannot be broken anymore go get your dog old stuff and don't let no bother from the chaos stand still and let the chaos run from you [Music] you're gonna go through many storms where your life is going to be hard and it'll seem unbearable at times there are types of storms there are emotional storms where you're worried something that you hope won't happen or something that has already happen the emotional storms you can find yourself stressed out an emotional storm you can find yourself depressed mentally fragile because of the experiences the turbulence that you have gone through the state of this world can have you in a state of confusion and and a heavy Cloud over your life so depressing the storm is going to come I don't care who you are no one is exempt it's called life ladies and gentlemen so how do you handle it when you're in the storm you must have faith you must have the faith the call for of those things that be not God as though they were to strength and the courage to make it through the enduring power the ability to persevere to handle it it will pad you the inner power to overcome to come back again so in order to begin to prepare for the storm you've got to go within and start working on yourself you've got to get grounded you've got to train your mind to serve you meditation is one of the ways in which you can do that reading is one of the ways that you can do that listening to music is one of the ways that you can do that exercise is one of the ways in which you can do that things that you can do to steal your mind to clear your thoughts so you can think I had a program for myself I have books that I read that inspire me tapes that I listen to that fire me up because you're going to have some time low moments when you want more to get out of bed just want to stay there the times you won't want to come out the house the times you'll be feeling bad and don't know why what's wrong I don't know just leave me alone the first tendency is to panic when I said your mother has breast cancer I panic immediately I start breathing and crying oh God I can't handle this I never [ __ ] say what time I can't deal with the same you gotta talk to yourself sometimes hear me you got to talk to yourself and yes I was scared Leslie get up get up Leslie get up come on man it's easy to have faced with Mama's got a health and all as well come on get up and come to the house she needs us now come on young man come on in this room and face it be still and know that all is welcome all this fruit and I made up my mind I don't care what it takes I don't care how many speeches I have to give how many seminars I have to give I know I ain't got the money I know I don't have the education but I'm gonna let that stop me I'm gonna do it and yes it's going to be hard it's going to be difficult and you get more knows and you do yes but when you hold out things will begin to happen you won't even understand how see what the psalm does ladies and gentlemen it empowers you it strengthens you when you go through a storm when you come through that kind of experience and able to reclaim your life you come back with a certain kind of power and you'll never be the same again after that experience there's certain things when you go through those things and you come up out of those things you come up a different kind of person different Spirit different Power different energy that builds character don't ever say when you're going through some rough time I'm going through a really bad tragic time no see I'm going through a character building experience tough times never last but tough people do you should take pride in wanting to quit and not quitting hey it's really hard right now dude you're really struggling right now but here's the thing right now is when everybody else quits right now is when everybody else is going to fall behind right now is whenever everybody else decides to do something that's easier or faster or not as hard and that's what gets you ahead that's what gets you to have pride because those struggles those feelings those things that are difficult they are there to test you this pain this conflict this tragedy this tribulation is the test don't fail it stay strong don't ever quit struggle is a privilege hardship is a privilege because those struggles those hardships those things that you face will turn you into an Unstoppable [ __ ] machine so if you want to create super high confidence super high self-esteem super high momentum that feeling I'm super powerful I'm Invincible I'm the [ __ ] man or I'm the [ __ ] woman you have to take pride in not quitting when other people are going to quit you have to take pride in executing your job to the very best of your ability when everything around you is going wrong what gets you out of the storm you can't just focus on this moment you've got to hold the vision hold the vision of things improving hold the vision of your health coming back hold the vision of being financially independent and debt-free hold the vision of your relationships working out hold the vision of everything being all right because it'll give you power give you strength give you Faith give you patience give you perseverance it'll give you the ability to snatch Victory from the jaws of defeat and when you discipline your emotions and you don't allow them to control you when you tell yourself I'm in charge here I set the course for my life these storms that I face they do not have power over me when you declare that to yourself the limits for you become non-existent you know sometimes you get that feeling in life that things aren't going my way you hear people say that things aren't going my way right now listen things just don't go your way that's not the way the world works you gotta make them go your way you think things are gonna just happen for you well they're not just gonna happen for you you're gonna make them happen go make things happen do what you what you need to to get up to make yourself get up and get going and I know you just want to get five more minutes of sleep just five more minutes and I'm telling you no rise up aggressively move forward down the path get yourself in the game shut down all those pathetic excuses and get after it it doesn't matter how I'm doing it doesn't matter how I slept last night it doesn't matter how I feel it doesn't matter when the last time I ate it doesn't matter I don't care how you're feeling and neither should you it's absolutely not that complicated are you going to work out today yes or no are you going to eat the donut yes or no are you going to win binary code decision yes or no and you know the right decision to make so go make it foreign if you're not consistently congruent and if you're not consistently contributing each day then of course you're not going to be happy with yourself is that lack of daily consistency that ends up hurting our own self-esteem because listen everyone can show up for good or happy or joyous or nice or kind or give once in a while but those who do it on a consistent basis because they demand that of themselves every day those are the ones who achieve true confidence true self-esteem a true life of greatness even if you're nervous you got to do it anyway even if you're the first one in your family you gotta do it anyway you gotta just do it anyway why because the people that are living on purpose the people at the top they don't make excuses they make a way like you just gotta do that like with some people it's like if I'm not being encouraged I can't no even if you're not being encouraged do it anyway even if you're not being validated do it anyway why can't you just be faithful in the small things can you be consistent can you be persistent can you be faithful in the dark can you be unmovable say it with me and say it like you mean it I am determined come hell or high water to win from this day forth all I do is win start it make up in your mind that you gonna finish it and if you can get to a point in your life where you finish everything you start you are going to be miles ahead of everybody else I don't care how difficult it is I need you to finish I don't care how you feel I need you to finish I don't care if you feel defeated finish anyway get yourself the path to happiness is the path to success the path to freedom and that path is the path of discipline it is the way of discipline get on it and get after it freedom in every aspect of life you're gonna fall flat on your face you're going to be criticized when you come out into the arena called life you're going to feel awkward and stupid and dumb sometimes but it's okay it goes with the territory when the defining moment comes either you define the moment or the moment defines you either you define the moment you decided that you're gonna not concern yourself with the naysayers that you're not going to concern yourself with what has happened or what hasn't happened but you're gonna make the commitment to do what you've got to do so that you can have a lifestyle that you've never experienced before or the moment defines you and you decide to play it safe in 20 years from now you say to yourself what if I would have taken a chance on myself what if I would have stayed in the game what if I would have kept making the phone calls what if what if and what if but let me tell you something something amazing begins to happen when you make the decision to move forward on your goals and your dreams and maybe you've been knocked down in your life and it seems like hey the fight is over it is not over unless you quit you have to learn to turn and look at every obstacle as an opportunity you gotta get gritty man you got to develop some dog in you life is gonna throw some serious blows some body blows and they're gonna hurt but I want you to feel that pain going through your body as pain leads your body that's what's gonna take its place success no pain no gain pain has a purpose don't go through it grow through it stop running from your pain and embrace your pain your pain is going to be a part of your cause and I challenge you to push yourself when you get knocked down and you're going to get knocked down when you run into some roadblocks and you're going to run into them when you have some setbacks you can always be able to bring yourself back in knowing if someone has done it is possible that I can do it you've got to be willing to face rejection and no again and again and again defeat again and again and again and every time life knocks you down you'll jump up and say it's not over until I win fight your way through this battle you have what it takes your greatness comes from within and once you realize that nothing will stop you nothing will keep you from being great it's already there you just have to feel it and know that you were placed here for a reason I want with all other men want but when the opposition hits when the challenge hits when the pain Creeps in when the uncertainty Creeps in when it clutch when the scars when the bruises come I just want a little bit more than they want it if you dare to be great if you dare to do something that you've never done before if you dare to go to limits that you've never went to before they will remember your legacy forever once you become in the process is more important than the dream the kind of person you become the character that you build the courage that you develop the faith that you're manifesting oh it's something that you get up in the morning you look yourself in the mirror you're a different kind of person you work with a different kind of spirit you know it was hard but you did it all and so here's what I say to you you're gonna be times that you're gonna be wondering why should I keep showing up and working my business why should I keep at it why should I keep showing up to the conventions why should I keep picking up the phones and making the phone calls why should I keep fighting for my goals and fighting for my dreams and what I want to remind you is that you gotta show up for your life regardless of the circumstances you gotta show off in spite of the naysayers you gotta show up in spite of the conversation going on in your mind you gotta show up for your life because if you don't nobody else will you will fail you will likely fail often it will be painful it will be discouraging at times it will test you to your very core it will not be easy this is for those of you who are going through the fire those of you who are wondering how can I keep going like this some of you have been through so much that you should have lost your mind it's all right to fail as long as you fail forward it's all right but I need you to have hearts because there's some things you just can't get without perseverance don't think it's strange when things happen to you because every man every woman every boy every girl will go through a time where your faith will be tested you will hit something and when you do you will have a choice many choose to turn around they feel a little pain then they run away but there is a small number who decide that the pain is worth the prize they will do whatever is required to make it past this I know it's hard and I know it may look hopeless but if you just keep pushing forward you'll see how strong you truly are when things are going bad there's going to be some good that will come from it Mission got canceled good we can focus on another one didn't get promoted good more time to get better didn't get funded good we own more of the company didn't get the job you wanted good go out gain more experience build a better resume got injured good needed a break from training got beat good learned unexpected problems good we have an opportunity to figure out a solution that's it when things are going bad don't get all bummed out don't get startled don't get frustrated no Take that issue take that setback take that problem and turn it into something good go forward if you can say the word good it means you're still alive it means you're still breathing it means you've still got some fight left in you so get up dust off reload recalibrate re-engage go out on the attack I've got here not because I'm the strongest not because I'm the fastest not because I'm the best I never stop fighting it got harder and it got harder and it seemed the further our class the harder it got but I didn't stop I didn't quit I just kept fighting and fighting and fighting don't let this world break you you are stronger than what you are going through I invested too much to quit I made too many sacrifices to give up we've gone too far we've been through too much we've seen too much we've had too many victories we have seen defeat we face and we've overcome it we've come too far to give up now we've come too far to be negative now we've come too far to start overthinking now so when life happens I'll just sit there and cry I brought back I brought back I wish I could tell you it's Gonna Get Easier I wish I could tell you that if you just keep going the weight is gonna get lighter I wish I could tell you that but that's not the truth the truth is you gotta find something within gotta find something within and that's got to push you and that's got to elevate you and that's got to drive you and that's gotta move you and when you find out what your why is you don't hit snooze no more when you find your why you find a way to make it happen the spirit of resiliency the spirit of grit is in your DNA it's in your blood overcoming is in your blood getting through adversity is in your blood your ancestors got through so much more we will be all right we need to focus on where we're going not where we come from and what's happening I just need you to keep walking toward it I don't need you thinking about it no more you're doing too much thinking you analyze it too much you talking yourself out of it I don't know if it's gonna work I tried and it didn't work I just need you to keep moving I need you to make up in your mind that the only way you can lose is if you quit I just need you to keep going it's an opportunity to prove What You're Made Of it's an opportunity to prove you are what you say you are in your head when you look in the mirror and you say there goes a bad [ __ ] you actually believing and the process is not supposed to be comfortable so if it hurts welcome to the big leagues if you're under heat praise God if you feel like you're being pressured praise God but when God looks like he's pulling you back he eventually he's gonna let you go and the further he pulls you back the farther he pulls you back once he releases you boom I challenge you to never give up never give up you're gonna be here one day but you'll never get here if you give up if you give in if you quit if only guys you gotta want to succeed as bad as you wanna breathe what do you do and the thing that you didn't ask for happens in your life in the shifting Seasons you can find yourself stressed out [Music] you can find yourself depressed mentally fragile because of the experiences the turbulence that you have gone through I don't care how good you I don't care how talented you are there are some times when things aren't going to go right and you have to deal with it you can experience enough pain in life that he can clobber you to the ground and you believe you can't do it you believe that this is it for you no it's not setbacks will happen and when they do it's okay to cry it's okay to go home but eventually you have to get over it and move on you don't have to force yourself or motivate yourself to think negatively to be depressed to hate somebody to want revenge I want to get back at somebody to beat yourself up over the head to feel loaded with guilt you don't have to make any effort to do that your mind is on automatic it will do that by itself but if you want to begin to move into your own personal greatness if you want to begin to really enjoy a happy successful healthy life you've got to be willing to go against the tide you've got to be willing to harness your will and say in spite of this I'm in control here I'm not going to let this get me down I'm not going to let this destroy me you want it and you're going to go all out to have it balance you to see your problems as a great thing I challenge you to start being thankful that you have the opportunity to grow get stronger get more focused get more skilled and kick more ass because of every hardship you face you need to make it a habit to start every [ __ ] day validating yourself because life is a marathon and this might be a challenging leg where you're like I'm just gonna throw on the towel I'm not gonna do that thing hell no you've got to focus on you and as you convince you as you sell yourself every day every day you will begin to see a difference in the things that you're doing telling yourself every day here I go again and I got what it takes this is my day and nothing out here is going to stop me my back is up against this [ __ ] every day and I gotta go that way and I don't give a who is in front of me they're not gonna stop me we turn tragedy into Triumph that's what Lions do lions don't cry Lions don't give up Lions don't quit Lions Hearts that's what we do for a living when you are a true Hunter you don't go by time you go by the gazelle you hunt until you get a gazelle and you don't stop until you get one it's hard to handle it you got to fortify yourself and say come on with it I've got to step into it just find an excuse to win keep going if you're gonna be successful in this game you gotta have a dog within you you gotta know it's a dog fight and you gotta go get that fight life ain't gonna be easy ain't nobody gonna hand you nothing you still gotta go to work you still got to compete against everybody in your industry life's still gonna happen why are you trying to blow up I I want to know what the [ __ ] I'm made of I want to know what I can overcome and I know from experience that the harder the task to overcome the more strength I'm going to gain from it you get to the point where enough is enough when you get to the point where it hurt real bad when you get to the point you can't take it no more when you get to that point door star opening opportunity start happening but what you cannot do is you cannot quit doing the process you cannot give up because it ain't what you see you cannot give up these are the days that test your fortitude they test your endurance your grit your dedication your determination your mental toughness your character at the very moment when everything in you wants to do absolutely nothing when you'd rather die than send another email or take another phone call or talk to another human you gotta get the job done you gotta tell life I don't know who you've been dealing with but you ain't dealt with me you gotta tell bankruptcy you gotta tell divorce you gotta tell sickness I don't know who you've been dealing with you come up against the wrong one this time you can be and do whatever you want and nobody can stop you nobody can stop you but you you have to understand that there's a journey that takes place in your career in your life every transformation always gets worse before it gets better it's supposed to be that way then Journey you're embarking on is not an easy path it's not for the ill-hearted or the weak natured it's for the strong people and before you embark on this journey mentally you have to prepare yourself for it no one's gonna get worse before it gets better throughout your journey people are going to deny you people are going to reject you your journey makes you want to cry your journey puts you some time in dark places where you feel like nothing is going to do right for you nothing's going to be right people are going to take you places that you've never been before through heartache through pain through so much to make you want to quit your journey when you Embark this journey you must know that it's going to go down before it comes up when it comes up it's gonna go so much higher than you've ever been sacrificing today for tomorrow's betterment but if you didn't know that you didn't prepare for that you think something's wrong maybe it's time to stop no it's time to move free and further [Music] to be equipped mentally to endure this process knowing what you're about to go into is step one knowing it's an uphill battle but a winnable one and one that's achievable it's up to you to to push past the pain because on the other side of pain is Glory it's rejoicing it's happiness it's winning it's succeeding you gotta understand with no pain is no progress you don't go through something so you won't get nothing can you choose whether or not that journey is going to hurt you or make you stronger I remember so many times I wanted to quit I wanted to turn around I wanted to say I stop I want to go back and go back to what I used to be you gotta push through that [ __ ] you got to tell yourself that no matter what no matter what gets in my way imma keep going I'ma keep moving I'ma keep winning I'm Gonna Keep surviving it's everything that you want because you're with that pain of that Journey that felt like he wanted to just knock you down and say you know what you can't do it understand that it's going to be trials and tribulation that will have storms but they will have Sunshine after the rain but that depends on you and how bad do you truly want it Nothing in life will hold you back if you trust in yourself and you trust in the process at the end of this race guys you're gonna be more capable through that effort builds a character the person you want to be at the end pressure does most people in the weight of what it feels like to want to be successful every single day over and over and over it's just too much pressure people crack you got to persevere you must insist that this is going to happen you've got to get in now and keep fighting you got to be constantly at it everybody got to develop some dog in them you gotta say I'm gonna hang in here now I'm going to hang in here I'm going to keep going I'm going to stay with it no matter what at the very end State what really wins it isn't the potential a person it's a perseverance the heartbeat of a person that heart doesn't stop the heart doesn't go nine to five and then shut down it's always beating just like a true champion doesn't just exist in the arena but exists everywhere else too those moments and inches that are one the final hour that make or break a win or a loss or discovered there let's go through thousands of hours in the training lab when no one's watching do you get up and run at five in the morning when it's pouring down rain the personal character that values who the they are there's no habits here half-ass there and then when it matters oh you've been my all it doesn't work that way everyone wants it but somebody wants it more where does all the great [ __ ] that we have in our lives come from it all comes from people who in the face of massive adversity decide that they're going to move forward regardless they're going to make the thing that they want to happen happen no matter what anybody says no matter how many times they get laughed at no matter how many times they get called crazy no matter what they are going to make this happen we have the ability to make the choice to be the person who rises above this is keep making the choice to take the things that happen to you and turn them into good productive things there is no way that you cannot be successful none of us ever get through this life without heartache without turmoil we're all going to fail at something everyone's failed at something life is a trial and trials are never supposed to be easy life is hard it's hard handling the tragedies of life [Music] when you're working on something and and you put everything you have in it in a dozen word out you lose your money in other people's money it's hard it is okay to be scared it is okay to cry but giving up should not be an option and it doesn't matter how you get knocked down in life because that's going to happen all that matters is that you gotta get up because when you fail you get up and then you fail and then you get up and that keeps you going that's how humans are strong failure is an option but giving up is not find a way if you believe and you have faith and you can get knocked down and get back up again and you believe in perseverance as a great human quality you find your way you gotta have that resiliency over and over again you gotta make a commitment to keep stepping up to the plate and Swinging for the fences every day whenever you do what you do twing for the fences understanding when you swing for defenses sometimes you'll miss did you know Hank Aaron had twice as many strikeouts as he had home runs but he kept swinging for the fences most times he missed but when he hit it he knocked it out the park but it's your shot to do what you do keep swinging it keeps driving change is going to happen in your life setback's gonna happen but a setback is nothing but a setup the champions is not the potential it's not their genetics it's their perseverance always show up always willing to fail because in failure that's part of success success is not a marathon of life and just UPS success is Storm away through failures through facing your fears through falling down getting back up that's what creates the champion there will be times when you will feel alone when you'll feel deserted when you'll feel weak and you doubt yourself and other people that doubt you and you ask yourself am I crazy maybe I don't have what it takes that's going to happen but I'll tell you something wouldn't it be a shame for you to stop when you've come this far who on this Earth would still be going right now you are you are you're still alive you're still breathing and if you're still breathing that means you've still got some fight left in you if you are [Music] grow and be better things are going to get harder things are going to get tougher so what you need to do is you need to get harder and you need to get tougher you will be tested and how you face that test determines the rest of your life the one mentality that you must have in life is that regardless of what's in front of you you still must fly I feel that most things I do but still I don't I don't want to do have to I do but still I grind when you want something don't expect everybody to say oh you want this oh great we want to give this to you no many doors will be close in your face many loans that you will want now say no you don't have enough credit and most people will give up but you've got to decide that I'm going to be Fearless I refuse to be denied and I'm gonna go all out put your stuff in a position where you can't Retreat where it's Do or Die fake or Swim here's what you'll find out you'll develop incredible swimming skills through the inspiration of desperation you'll become more creative than ever before throw your whole self into it if you dare to be great if you dare to do something that you've never done before if you dare to go to limits that you've never went to before they will remember your legacy forever dream don't stop don't stop running towards your dream your rough times are going to come but they have not come to stay they have come to pass don't say I'm having a bad day say I'm having a character building day when you have fear fear makes you think in ways you shouldn't be thinking when you have fear fear makes you speak in a certain way but when you have faith you don't need to count when you have faith you don't need to go outside when you have faith you don't need to see how many horses when you have faith you don't need to see how many armies when you have faith you don't need to see how many swords when you have faith you don't need to count no Shields when you have faith you just believe it it'll happen you concentrate on this opportunity you don't worry about tomorrow you concentrate on this opportunity with all your life with all your soul with all your heart you focus on this and tomorrow will take care of itself write down at least five reasons on why you won't give up what's Gonna Make You Unstoppable why you must be unreasonable because logical practical thinking says you can't do it today but if you want to produce unreasonable results in your life you've got to be an unreasonable person you've got to be an uncommon person it's very important for you to believe that you are the one that you are entitled to this you're supposed to have this this is your calling this is your time where you no longer focus on the obstacle when you no longer care what people think or what they might say when you no longer find the need to seek their approval it's done when the pressure within you is greater than the pressure outside of you most people are not living their dreams because of fear ladies and gentlemen fear is the most subtle and destructive of all human diseases fear kills dreams beer kills hope fear put people in the hospital Fear Can Aid you here ladies and gentlemen can hold you back from doing something that you know within yourself that you're capable of doing but it will paralyze you and I asked you a question what is the benefit what's the benefit of allowing fear to hold you back what's the benefit of giving up on yourself of not stepping out on life and taking life on what is the benefit for you what's the Plus in that you got to ask yourself how long am I going to allow this to hold me back you cannot let your fear hold you back from your destiny do it scared do it nervous do it trembling do it on your knees do it with help do it on crutches do it in a wheelchair because you don't want to end up in a nursing home sitting on a bed pan wondering what would have happened if you'd only had more currents you don't want to end up in an old folks home and the giant thought is I wish I had a you don't have as many opportunities in life to take that Gamble and allow life to play you you must play Life you've got to make some conscious effort to begin to work to develop you start listening to tapes on a daily basis to begin to recondition your mind to retrain your thinking listen to things that can Empower you that can enable you to create a new reality for yourself in a new life for yourself you might appear to be strange around most people don't expect it to make sense to anybody why you've got to do this why you have got to go well I don't understand you don't have to I'm going for me this is something I have got to do now will it be turbulent yes would it be easy no will you have some opposition yes will I make a lot of mistakes yes will I get hurt yes but guess what there's no gain without pain how do you stand the race less when you lost your money lost your car had no place to stay sleeping in people houses on the floor on their couch how do you handle the time when you're borrowing money and couldn't pay it back you felt humiliated when people you love who didn't believe in you tell you you ain't nothing how do you keep on coming back again and again or you've lost your business or lost your job or lost your home and you've been completely devastated how do you come back oh let me tell you something it's possible the greatest achievement this body comes right after their worst defeat when they've hit rock bottom hit the bottom of the barrel they had nothing left everyone was giving up Arnold the dead broke on their back they're just now left with the intestinal fortitude The Pride within do I want to stay on the bottom of this Barrel do I climb the [ __ ] at his hole is at that point when everything's lost and everything can be gained you've got to remind yourself I know I got what it takes to do this and it's necessary that you go at it with everything in you pulling deep down within challenging yourself once you have that belief that's so strong that override the crowds and split the adversaries ending you welcome that [ __ ] cause that right there is supposed to [ __ ] happen because without that kind of abuse on you you will not become the battle-tested proven Champion that holds the title has the value of the title you must go through those ends hit rock bottom your worst hour to spare becomes your best as you get back up you learn from that and you continue to put one foot in front of the other because what you're going for is what you believe the fruit of everything good in life begins with a challenge everything is a pill that's worthwhile and there's not going to come to you and it's not going to fall in your lap and it's not going to be something that oh my gosh it just was so simple it's always going to be difficult you need a why why do you need a y cause some days you're gonna look at that alarm clock and you're gonna say I don't want to get up but that wise gonna say I'll push yourself get up your mama needs you your Daddy needs you your children need you get up your wives gonna push you when you can't push yourself when you want to quit and give up your wives gonna give you the edge you need that Advantage you mean that lift that you need to get to the next level yo why what your why does for you and says you can't quit you can't give up you can't stop if there's no money you make I'm selling your printers if nobody give you an opportunity to create your goals are gonna push you your dreams are gonna push you the opportunity of a lifetime is gonna drive you you will study as long as it takes you won't go to sleep until you have the knowledge that it takes to do what you're able to do if you do what is easy your life will be hard if you do what is easy complain about your situation your circumstances stand around and be a volunteer victim like everybody else surrender and give up on your dreams become depressed and bitter and angry anybody can do that if you do what is easy your life will be hard but if you do what is hard keep coming back again and again and again get up dressed every day knowing some way somehow with a spirit of expectation I can do this if you do that over and over and over again your life will be easy you have to understand that easy quick nonsense is made for the [ __ ] sheep and the Sheep never [ __ ] win choose the hard path the path of responsibility hard work and sacrifice the path of discipline humility and ownership that ultimately leads to Freedom

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Keywords: 3 hour motivational speech video, motivational speech, motivational video, inspirational speech, inspirational video, gym workout motivation, gym workout, gym motivation, workout motivation, speech with english subtitles

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Length: 187min 57sec (11277 seconds)

Published: Wed Aug 09 2023