r/ProRevenge - My Wife Messed Up and Destroyed The Family. I Got Even.

hello friends welcome back to another episode of our slash pro revenge in this episode I've got one long story for you and it's titled Pro divorced now this story dates back three years ago and it's a pretty popular story about how a husband deals with his wife's infidelity and it's a good one I hope you stay for the story today and subscribe for future videos this is a throw away as it might not make me very popular even in pro revenge this all happened to me a few years ago I told a friend the story of my divorce and I was told to share it started a few years ago I thought we were happy we were your usual suburban professional couple financially secure healthy good sex life and had two kids I thought we had a healthy social life we were going through one of your typical married couple rough patches both of us were working long hours not spending enough time together and we were going through some developmental problems with my son and tensions in the house were running a little high I noticed that she was spending a lot more time on her phone texting with her quote/unquote girlfriends I didn't think much of it I started making a much more concerted effort to get out of work when I could help around the house and be more emotionally available but over the course of a few weeks the Gulf just kept getting wider I ended up accidentally finding some messages when I charged up an old iPad for my son to use her facebook Messenger was still logged in and there were a lot of highly questionable messages with a guy from her hometown who I'll call Jim Bob cooter or JBC for short the messages weren't completely inappropriate but I could tell there were quite a few missing based on the times and context of the messages I made a mental note to keep an eye on this and when about trying to fix things up the next day after I took the day off to knock out some projects that I thought would make her happy and left her some sweet notes reminding her how much I appreciated her she was once again in the living room texting her girlfriends I took the boys iPad to the office opened up facebook Messenger and watched in real time as my wife tore me down her and JBC were making fun of me all of my flaws securities and secrets that I entrusted to my partner were now fodder for her in JBC not only that but while there wasn't outright sexting there was some undertone to the whole conversation especially when she was bashing my performance in the sack I managed to take some screenshots but missed a good bit of the messages because as the conversation was unfolding she was deleting them I wasn't emotionally capable of confronting her I stayed in the office until she was asleep and had a couple of drinks I took off the next day and spent some time soul-searching drinking and trying to figure out what to do the wife came home and wanted to know what was wrong and I just copped out and told her I had a bad day a couple minutes later I was watching the iPad as the trainwreck kept unfolding so began a couple of solid weeks of taking screenshots drinking and detaching myself from her I knew there was no going back from this the messages were now overtly explicit with my wife completely into it and JBC was sprinkling in I love yous I consulted a lawyer and got my options and started moving forward here's where everything got absolutely surreal watching the messages I found out that JBC was coming to town to spend a weekend of quality time with my wife and a pretty nice hotel I was missing a good bit of the info they must have had a phone conversation about it at some point but I was able to infer enough to get the when and where sure as [ __ ] the next day the wife is buttering me up and wanting to take a spa weekend with the girls to relax and when she gets back we can really focus on the marriage I go with it all the way like it's the greatest idea she's ever had and I'll do anything to get us back on track I get with the lawyer and have him draft a strong separation agreement stating that she would move out she would get weekend visitation no child support in the interim until the divorce is final then I sit through the most agonizing two weeks of my life after all most of my feelings for her are completely gone and I'm just seething with anger like I've never felt before d-day arrives and I take the day off work I withdraw half of any money in any accounts that were joint on and leave her half alone I had already redirected my paycheck to a new bank I closed our money market account and get a cashier's check for her half and deposit my half in a new account I stopped at office knacks and print out about 75 pages of facebook messenger screenshots and I killed time because I don't want to be at home she texts me that she's taking off and that she loves me I tell her to have fun and that I love her back not giving her any inkling of what I know I show up at the hotel about 8:30 and call the wife's phone from the lobby it goes straight to voicemail they're probably already at it whatever I walk up to the front desk and ask if I can use the phone and have it be connected to JVC's room it rings three times and he picks up JBC says hello I replied JBC can you send my wife down to the lobby please he responds I don't know what you're talking about bro okay then I guess I'll have to call mrs. JBC and get her down here which was totally a bluff I knew he was married I knew her first name but that was it JBC inaudible started shuffling in a panic and I said you've got five minutes click not even two minutes later my wife comes walking out of the elevator looking a little flustered I sit her down in the corner of the lobby she starts doing things saying it's not what it seems etc etc and I said I'm not here to argue the things that are said in this pile of papers are what's going on the only way I'm not giving a copy of this to our daughter your parents and emailing it to everyone we know is if you move out immediately a thing to note is my wife was very prideful our daughter was going through a rebellious teen phase and her knowing probably would have killed their relationship my wife was also her parents golden child and she always worried about what they thought of her I didn't have much leverage and shame was my only card to play also her professional life is built up around her image so I knew she would protect that at all cost she started sniffling mumbling inaudible and I said this is a check for half of the market accounts I've withdrawn half of my money from all the other joint accounts you should have more than enough to get a place she starts to cry a little I could almost see the different thoughts and waves of emotion going through her but now was the time to keep pressing and I said here's a separation agreement and I think it's more than fair considering what's going on I'm gonna need you to look this over sign it and leave it at the house when you get your stuff do you want to look through the screenshots she says no and I say okay go have fun with JVC do not come back to the house or I'm gonna send this and I hold up a ream of screenshots to everyone I bounced out of the lobby and I can hear her starting to have a breakdown I get to the car drive off to a parking lots and have my own crying rage fit previously I would have cried in front of her and yelled and whatnots but I managed to get my [ __ ] together enough to pull it off I don't know what she did that night or over the weekend she texted and called wanting to talk I just turned the phone off and by the time Monday afternoon rolled around there were movers getting her stuff and she delivered the agreement I let her have a talk with the kiddos basically saying that mommy and daddy needs some time of Hearts and we still love you etc etc standard divorce talk after a week she wants to have a real talk for the first time I obliged because I've already got my [ __ ] together and I've got an idea of what I want but I should hear her out she's so sorry she wants another chance she wants her family back and she'll do anything she's on her knees crying into my lap I have no intention of ever taking her back I tell her that I can't live with her but she should be around the children to try to maintain a relationship with them so then our new life starts of her coming over to the house cooking and having dinner with the kids three nights a week and her saving me a plate but I always made myself scarce she also cleaned the house and did the kids laundry and then headed back to her place we went to counseling it consisted of her working through her issues with a therapist trying to figure out why she did it her begging for forgiveness and me playing the victim I was never gonna give her another chance all I wanted to do was kill I'm established myself as the primary caregiver to the kids and established her as not having any residency in the house after a few months I go to my own therapist and get diagnosed with depression and PTSD after six months of therapy I told her that I couldn't forgive her right now and that I wanted an amicable divorce but she's still the love of my life and maybe someday we could give it another try she was devastated but agreed to the divorce if I promise to try again someday once the divorce was filed I needed the kids to want to stay with me I left a Google search for how to survive your wife's infidelity up on the PC at home and I left some printed out infidelity articles not so hidden in the kitchen my daughter found them and came to me crying I told her she wasn't supposed to find those that mom made a mistake and that mom still loves her and that I would always be here for her my daughter who used to hold my wife in such high regard now wouldn't talk to her without screaming and it crushed her not surprisingly when the coordinated statements from the kids a few months later her little brother followed Big Sisters lead and they both wanted to stay with dad in the house they grew up in when the divorce was finalized I got the house I got primary custody of the kids I got awarded generous child support due to the differences in our incomes due to me working part-time now for the last two years I've gotten to live in the house with my kids work part-time get the now ex to subsidize it for me and when she takes the kids over the weekends I get to have my fun with tinder Ella's and some friends with benefits that I've cultivated in the eyes of my kids I'm the patron saint of fatherhood for taking the high road and always being there in the eyes of my ex I'm the one that got away that she'll always pine for and I get a bonus of having her come over for sex whenever I want by dangling that carrot of maybe getting back together with her but that is never gonna happen now this is true Pro revenge and it's one of the best I've read in a while it's brutal efficient cold calculating and downright impressive a pro revenge professional I hope you guys enjoyed this story today if you liked this story give it a thumbs up and leave a comment of what you think if you aren't subscribed and this is your first time listening into a story on my channel please hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications because I release videos almost every day and by almost I mean pretty much every 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Length: 11min 25sec (685 seconds)

Published: Tue Mar 10 2020