r/ChoosingBeggars - She thinks she's ENTITLED to my food...

what's up guys welcome to daily dose of reddit this is your host zach and today subreddits are slash choosing beggars alrighty this story's called roommate wakes me up to call me a massive freaking cow cause i ate my food he's a jingling hello my dear fellow redditors after an overwhelming verdict of me being not the butthole for snapping at my roommate in our slash am i the butthole i've decided to share with you this since you might find some enjoyment and my roommate can pound sand since she already knows i posted here and about this throwaway let's point out the obvious this is a throwaway account also forgive me for the formatting i am on mobile english isn't my first language so when people say english isn't my first language do they mean like they they first learned spanish and then at a young young age they learned english because like this is written like someone who's like a native english speaker so i find that very impressive anyway uh on to the post i've been living with my roommate for a couple of months and it has been going swimmingly i am okay sharing my food with my roommate but i don't touch the food she buys because i have a binge eating disorder and i honestly prefer to never touch her food it's just my personal preference to not open that door to allow myself to eat it during a heavy binge i draw a hard line there recently i bought some avocados in tortilla chips so during the binge i ended up eating all my avocados in chips my roommate wanted to take an avocado to work she's an essential worker she hates the food they serve in a restaurant she didn't ask me or anything since we have the unspoken agreement she can help herself to my food she wanted to take some chips too today in the morning she was packing her lunch for work and she realized there were no avocados or chips left so she woke me up mad that i had eaten them all now she doesn't have anything to take to work and that i am a massive freaking cow for eating everything i am so selfish etc i am super sensitive about my weight cause even if i am at a healthy weight i bust my ass out exercising to counteract the horrible binges i am going to therapy to improve my relationship with food though i still get bad impulsive binges i wanted to cry right then and there to her comments but i took none of her bieber sausage and i started screaming at her saying that i am never letting her touch my food again if she's going to act so entitled to the stuff i pay for that never in the five months i've been living with her have i eaten food that she bought without her offering me it first that she can eat crap for all i care she got teary-eyed and said that she can't afford similar foods that i can and how much she hates the unhealthy food her work offers so she wanted to take a nice burrito bowl and that now she has a cheesy bean salad by the way she did this with mostly my food the only thing she bought was the cheese she also pointed out that i was a spoiled butthole who doesn't need to go out and expose themselves to the virus and still get paid loads i am a junior accountant in a big company i do get better pay than her she left and i got a text later from a mutual friend saying that roommate is struggling with money and that i shouldn't eat all the food especially when it's so much and that i should think about my health my roommate expects an apology for me for eating everything forcing her to eat the food at her work which she gets for free and for yelling at her i wanted to be vindictive and eat a bowl of her cereal and throw the rest in the trash but i am not about that life after receiving plenty of comments from a lot of people in the original post in am i the butthole that my roommate may have told our mutual friend a completely different story from the truth i decided to ask her what was said to be able to defend myself and to be sure my side and the truth was heard she told me that roommate told her that the food was bought by the both of us that i promised her the avocado and chips for her lunch today and that she just came to me calmly to ask me if i had seen them and that i confessed to her that i had eaten them all to spite her then i yelled at her to eat crap i did tell her that and that i mocked her for being poor after telling her my side of events she realized roommates tell of events had a lot of holes and mine made more sense i explained to her that she called me names woke me up to yell at me and the only food she owned in the burrito bowl she was taking to work was the cheese she apologized profusely and texted roommate telling her how disgusted she was with her actions even though i was originally planning on letting her apologize and allowing her to continue to let her have my stuff again reddit knocked some sense into my doormat self and told me to revoke her access to my food i was planning on having a conversation when she would get back from work with her about how clear boundaries that will be set up in place from now on and how her food will go in the fridge that came with the apartment while the fridge i'm borrowing from my abuelita is going to be locked in the pantry with my food she decided to go spend the night at her boyfriend's place since i'm hostile and put mutual friend against her her boyfriend has also texted me and knows that the food is 100 mine so he is on my side i decided to talk to the guys in the legal department at work to know what i can do to protect myself in the worst case scenario if i must evict her after reading the post in updates my roommate sent me 30 plus texts asking me for forgiveness saying she doesn't want to be evicted which like i said is my worst case scenario and that we should talk it's a day later and she's still to return and now she has reverted her stance texted me angrily saying i'm ruining her relationship have read it against her poisoned her friendship with mutual friends and that she feels like i'm trying to forcibly lead her to starvation and homelessness when in fact yesterday i spent some of my night making a nice budgeting plan so that she would stop bleeding money so she can actually buy decent groceries and even start thinking about saving in the near future this is the first time something like this has ever happened and after crying my eyes out multiple times yesterday and part of today i'm at a complete loss i thought me and roommate were good friends by the way sorry for the long post by the way uh eats dookie m miranda melanie mad deline madeline manchego mimosa ah i know you're also reading this one you salty woman update her boyfriend texted me saying he tried talking to her but she demanded he be on her side and when he wasn't she stormed to her parents house her mom is crazy pray for me update so her mother just called me yelling how she will sue me for slandering her daughter online so any drop of civility i have towards my roommate are out of the window i'm getting her much calmer sister to come pick up her stuff cause i no longer feel comfortable having her come inside my home i will be returning her rent for this month i have talked with the legal team and i am allowed to do this after the most recent events i also talked with the police department in my area also what i was told by the guise of the legal department is that i cannot be sued for illegal eviction edited because it made it seem like the police told me i couldn't get sued for illegal uh eviction i will give you a proper update once this is done i have no idea what the flippity-doo-dah is going on she is getting her wish of having free food in hell even getting free accommodation i'm shocked it has come to this hi ma'am there are no identifying factors of your precious crotch goblin in these posts use your squinkie put it best a tltr broke bimbo roommate gets mad when op eats her own food insults opie and lies to mutual friends who all take op side when situation is explained broke bimbo goes ape dookie and her crazy mom threatens to sue for ridiculous beaver sausage hopefully final update after considering it i think i am acting vindictively and without thinking properly i am going to talk to her like an adult and hope to reach a resolution i've been seeing red since yesterday and i haven't been acting like i should as i've been out for blood instead of acting like an adult i will call her tomorrow morning this situation has honestly caused a lot of hurt and i am ready for it to be over without completely turning myself into a monster her mother yelling at me was bad but not the worst case scenario bad so i should be the bigger person and not go forward with the eviction i will find a way to end this roommate situation in a way that will benefit both and to not put mcdonaldina in a worse situation i will step down from reddit and i will update you in a post on this sub once something actually happens thank you so much for all the support for all of you worried for my cat he is staying with the guy from across the hall he also has a cat who my cat adores and due to me not feeling safe tonight in my own apartment i'm also staying with him i don't know how to thank everyone who has given me reddit awards i personally think i don't deserve them but anyway thank you so so so much from the bottom of my heart with cherries on top i've always wanted to say this wow my first gold wow my second gold wow my third gold process okay uh i'm pretty hyper that was a crazy story and opie i am so happy so happy you decided to be as mature a person persian person as you could be that is to be admired everyone that is the miyagi way man i i binged watch okay i binge watched all three karate kid movies and then i binged uh cobra kai because i haven't seen the credit movies in a long long time and i watched cobra kai in a single day that it was ridiculous man i mean it's it's an amazing show and i cannot wait for season three but anyway literally two days after i watched all the karate kid movies netflix removed them i didn't know that so amazing timing and anyway sorry thanks for sharing the amazing story cannot wait for the update uh miss miyagi alrighty this story's called lying choosing beggar ends up paying more than he bargained for till dear at the end as i realize i can waffle on that's a cool expression my mother-in-law was downsizing and had a decent office chair to get rid of fully adjustable with lumbar support and all that jazz hey i see all that jazz too man what's up if i'm being honest i really wanted it but i don't have an office study or anywhere to put it my desk is my dining room table she was originally going to drop it off at a charity shop but they couldn't take it as they don't have fire tags in the uk a charity shop can't take furniture with any type of upholstery on them without a safety tag on it to show its fire retardant so the missus suggests she lists them on facebook and try and get some money for it so mother-in-law can either treat herself or donate the money to the charity now if you were one to buy these chairs new it would probably cost 150 pound-ish it was a couple of years old but in very good condition as it was used maybe once a month for a couple of hours the mother-in-law has cats and so mentioned in the listing that fact but that the chair had been cleaned there were photos showing the chair in pristine condition my mother-in-law wanted to try and get 30 pounds for the chair to get rid of it quickly very reasonable hey i want to try floating that across the bond for me i'll pay you 30. interested buyer messages my wife who created the listing so mother-in-law wouldn't have to deal with negotiation and asked if they would accept 25 pounds for one of the chairs mother-in-law says yes that's fine if they could collect today so my wife passes this on and asks when will you come and collect a time was set for collection later in the day and all was well the chairs were at mother-in-law's house and my wife was at our house and so all communication was relayed between text messages about 30 minutes before they were due to show up my wife got a message can we have the chair for 20 pounds as we have to travel a long way to pick it up she replied that it was clearly stated where the pickup was from and that the price was 25 pounds they said that they would be there at the agreed time they turned up at mother-in-law's house and they must have known for my wife's profile picture that when they met the mother-in-law it wasn't who they had been negotiating with and asked to look at the chair sit on it etc with a smile on his face he tried to hand over 13 pounds when my mother-in-law said that the price was 25 pounds the guy must have took a stab in the dark and said your joy said we could have it for 13 pounds as we have traveled so far pick it up it also needs to be taken up to your shop for cleaning as i have a cat allergy that's not as good as it looked in the pictures i don't want to be swindled my mother-in-law called my wife to check i happened to answer the phone and after she explained what had happened i told my mother-in-law to tell the choosing beggar that the chair was no longer for sale and to take it back inside the house the choosing beggar seeing his discount chair being pushed back into the house then offered to pay twenty pounds saying schwein punch or have and then offered the previously agreed 25 pounds for the chair i was still on the phone at this point and could hear what my mother-in-law was saying but not what the choosing beggar was saying i heard her say as we have said you've come a long way to pick it up if you don't want to go home empty-handed it was originally listed for 40 pounds choosing beggar paid 30 pounds and took his chair home hopefully having learned a lesson about honesty and integrity during negotiations what that's quite the hopeful view uh we all know that he ain't changing anytime soon anyway uh that was really scummy of that guy geez that was that's kind of creepy too i don't know why it just creeped me out i don't know just something about the whole situation was just unsettling this story is called i can't help i'm pregnant pregnant okay so this happened a few years back long before the pandemic my husband and i have been trying to get pregnant for two years and we finally went through a fertility clinic and we were finally pregnant and couldn't be more excited at about the six week mark i had a friend call me up out of the blue we knew them well but it was mostly through facebook and text as we didn't live close to one another we chatted for a bit i mentioned my pregnancy and she told me how they were moving and wanted to borrow my husband's truck so they could save a little money i asked my husband and he said it was fine here's the cast there's me chosing beggar so uh how do you want to do this are you gonna come and pick it up i really don't have the time i'm still packing up stuff can you drop it off and we can hang and afterward you can take it back home i wasn't thrilled about driving all that way but i had already pretty much agreed so i said okay that i'd drop by and bring the truck with me once i arrived she was still wrapping things up and backing things away i was kind of hoping she would have it mostly packed away but it was only just a few boxes i sighed but asked if i could help her a little bit where is your husband wasn't he coming too she asked no he's still working right now why would he be coming anyway i asked because they didn't know each other too well and he was working but i needed him to hold the heavy stuff i can't do it by myself she began to whine um we offered to let you borrow the truck not to help you pack and haul things and just so you know i can't stay here all day long i don't really like driving at night i said why not i come back tomorrow when you have more packed and ready to go i asked i still need help with the heavy stuff i think we can move it ourselves i really can't be lifting things over 25 pounds true i was only six weeks along but since it took us so long to get pregnant in the first place i wasn't gonna do anything that could potentially harm my baby besides i never agreed to help her move in the first place don't be stupid you can help me out you're barely pregnant anyway she said condescendingly that comment made me mad okay first off there is no such thing as barely pregnant you either are or are not there is no in between and i never said i was going to help you move i said you could borrow the truck i'm going back home now you can figure this out on your own i know she was screaming at me as i left and was blowing up my phone for a while before she just gave up i read a post on facebook about how i had promised her all this bunion sauce they flaked out on her but thankfully it was removed not sure if she deleted it or what but i wish i had saved a screenshot to share on here but oh well we haven't spoken in a long while but honestly i don't need that type of person in my life oh people like that how do people i i have a hard time asking anyone for favors man that's just ridiculous also i hate moving things like i hate like if if i wanted to help you move i'm just gonna hire movers for you man i'm not doing that because when we're moving over here to this to this place oh my god such a nightmare i'm not talking about the penske truck uh breaking down in the middle of a highway no and oh god there was no ac it was so hot it was in the middle of summer in texas man it was so humid anyway no it was like uh just i'm not gonna go there but uh why don't you guys share in the comments some horror moving stories because that is just it's just moving is a horrible thing to have go wrong don't forget to like subscribe and hit that bell to never miss an [Music] episode

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Length: 18min 22sec (1102 seconds)

Published: Sun Sep 06 2020