r/AmITheA**hole My Boyfriend Knocked Up My Sister!

welcome to our slash am i the butthole where o.p walks in on her sister passionately hugging her boyfriend am i the butthole for not accepting my sister's relationship with my ex despite her having cancer as a teenager when my father was 25 he married my stepsister's mother who was 23 when i was four and she was three we've lived together most of our lives and we're family she and i are extremely close my step-sister developed cancer when she was 14 and she was sick for about two years she since made a full recovery during that time my parents became understandably overprotective they also asked a lot from me i quit my extracurricular so i could get a job and use the money to drive her to appointments and to help pay her medical bills i never got to go to dances and any fun activities i did go to had to include her i did almost all of this willingly the exception was when i had to quit my high school volleyball team i did throw a bit of a tantrum about that but i was swiftly punished and i think that me having one emotional breakdown was pretty chill given the circumstances anyhow i go to college and meet my ex ben when i'm a junior we fall in love blah blah blah he and i move in together when we graduate so we've been living together for about three years we were serious until july when i walked into my bedroom and saw him passionately hugging my sister i broke it off tears were shed he moved out etc my sister apologized at first but then backed off i thought that she was giving me space but last week she called and asked if we could meet up she told me that she and ben were in love and they were just telling me as a courtesy before they started posting photos online distraught i left her in the restaurant by herself and didn't pay my portion of the bill she later venmoed me asking me for the money she told my parents who then called me to their house telling me how disappointed in me they are for not supporting my sister's relationship with ben they brought up the fact that because she had cancer as a teenager she never learned proper social etiquette and has a hard time meeting people i do not buy this in part because i've seen her socialize just fine and since we spent a good chunk of the time that she was sick together that would also mean that i should have bad social skills as well by that logic they then told me that if i don't accept my sister and ben's relationship they may have to go no contact with me i reminded them that i'm also their daughter and they should understand my point of view but they're adamant that this is about me being jealous of her for the record i'm not jealous of her i'm not upset that bin picked her over me i'm sad about the end of the relationship and i do feel betrayed but lord knows that i do not want to be with a cheater what i'm upset about is the fact that my sister chose ben over me that she slept with ben knowing that he and i were in a long-term committed relationship and continues to be with him knowing how much it hurts me now no one in my immediate family is talking to me and i'm getting messages from aunts uncles and cousins telling me that i'm a butthole and a selfish b word and then down in the comments op posted an update sometimes you can only laugh i just got off my phone with my young cousin who saw this post and said that he could explain a few things i asked him why he was on reddit instead of school and he asked me why i was on reddit instead of work and i said touche he told me that after my conversation with my mom she went to his house and talked to my aunt and here's the deal it turns out that my sister is not only in a relationship with ben but she's also four months pregnant which means that she and ben were cheating on me for longer than i'd even guessed apparently my parents are so adamant that i forgive her because i'm already ruining their experience of their first grandchild that's right i'm less important than my stepmom posting ultrasounds to facebook this is where we're at anyhow i called out of work sick the rest of the day and i'm gonna drink a lot of alcohol like a lot of alcohol and then start thinking about what the f i'm gonna do okay op god this feels like one of those stories where it's like how do you eat an elephant one bite at a time so let's take this piece by piece because there's so much so many awful things going on in this post like oh geez okay so first we'll start with your sister your sister has been sneaking around behind your back sleeping with your boyfriend for at least four months four months minimum this is after you helped pay for her medical bills after you drove her around to appointments after you included her in your social life and friend circle so that she could have the experience of being a teenager despite having cancer and after doing all these things after all these sacrifices that you made for your sister she betrays you by sleeping with your boyfriend and yeah she did have cancer but having cancer doesn't give you a free pass to just be a douche and do terrible things with the people who care about you it just doesn't i i mean maybe i can give her a little bit of leniency because her being a spoiled entitled brat isn't exactly her fault it's her parents fault so for that i think i have to give her 4 out of 5 buttholes because she's still being an awful human being then you've got your boyfriend who has been cheating on you again for at least 4 months with at least one girl i mean we've already established that he's a cheater so who who knows how many other people that he's cheated on you with op it could be dozens of girls for all we know i'm speculating of course i'm speculating i don't really know this information but we know that he's a cheater of four plus months with at least one girl and the fact that he got your own sister pregnant and still kept sleeping with you op is just utterly disgusting awful human being it is extremely trashy i'm giving this guy also 4 out of 5 buttholes however op the real villains in this story are your parents they neglected you as a child they showed clear favoritism towards one of their kids they forced you a child a minor presumably to go work to pay their medical bills essentially and then when you're an adult and you're the one who's betrayed you're the one who's been cheated on they're gonna say that they're gonna disown you that they're gonna go no contact with you their own child just because what they want to protect their precious little golden child angel no that is absolutely disgusting i think your parents are honestly repulsive human beings opie it's it's it's unforgivable that's the word that i'm looking for in this situation it's unforgivable to force one child to care for another child and then after you neglect that child throughout most of her childhood you're going to disown her just because you want to protect your golden child it's disgusting it's disgusting unforgivable behavior and i'm giving both your parents five out of five buttholes each op you on the other hand get an absolutely pristine perfect zero out of five buttholes everything that i've seen here is just you being a really caring and considerate girlfriend daughter sister just across the board you've done the right things like let's take a step back and actually address the things that you did that could even remotely be considered bad one you got upset that you had to get kicked out of the volleyball team okay like fine it's reasonable to be upset about that two you got upset when you found out that your boyfriend was cheating on you with your own sister and you didn't clarify what the timeline was between like when you found out and when your sister talked to you but this was like a fresh wound we're talking a still bleeding wound in your heart because you just found out that you've been double betrayed by your boyfriend and your family and you broke up with them and had some time on your own and then you walked down on a bill like that's that was the result of you being so betrayed as you're like oh my god i can't handle this i'm gonna go step outside and i'm not gonna pay for my hamburger so about 20 bucks a 20 dine and dash is the extent of how unsupportive you've been so far your sister your parents and your ex-boyfriend they literally didn't give you any time at all to just grieve to just process what happened to you they went straight from you walking in on your boyfriend passionately hugging your sister to them being like okay well now ben's a part of the family and by the way your sister's pregnant so anyways dear sister would you like to be my maid of honor in the upcoming wedding it's like jeez god slow down give me some time to process these emotions to process the double betrayal the loss of this guy that i've been living with for three years the fact that my parents are saying they want to disown me like pump the brakes and you're not even gonna give me the the grace to buy me lunch as you screw me i mean most people if they're gonna go get someone at least buy some lunch beforehand right oh man i'm getting flustered just because because my daughter has made me soft and now stories of family betraying their daughters and their sons it stabs me in my heart it hurts to the core to read these stories and it makes me flustered me and i can't handle it anymore just the idea of telling my daughter to her face i'm not going to talk to you anymore oh man i get emotional just saying this hypothetical to tell my daughter i'm not going to talk to you anymore you're not my daughter i never want to see you again that's what would she have to do murder babies get an ak-47 and go into a mall and like what would that make me say i'll never want to talk to her anymore like it would have to be something extreme but these people were like oh you wouldn't accept that your boyfriend slept with your sister well i'm never gonna talk to you again it's just i don't know i think i gotta i think i gotta wrap this story up because it's getting me frustrated and flustered and i think you guys will agree in the comments that op's family in this story is just an absolutely disgusting unforgivable five out of five butthole family and they can all rot in hell essentially for all i care am i the butthole for causing my husband to miss his trip by not packing his bag despite him repeatedly asking me my husband travels for work every few months he's irresponsible with this time and he counts on others to do stuff for him using the i'm tired excuse he's the bread winner by the way he had a business trip and the day of the trip he saw me carrying the laundry basket and said hey can you pack my bag i asked why he didn't do it the night before and he said that he was up all night playing fortnite i asked why he can't pack it now and he replied i gotta go catch up with the boys before i leave the country i said no and that he should do it himself he asked why not and i told him that i had to do the laundry cook for the kids help them with homework wash the rugs clean the messy bathroom clean the play room and then work on my garden project he just stood there with his eyebrows raised as i went on i suggested that he stays home packs his own bag and helps around the house until it was time for his trip he did not like my suggestion and complained about missing the boys and wanting to see them one last time and say goodbye before he leaves he begged me but i said no he then suddenly went inside the bedroom i thought to pack up his bags but then he grabbed his phone keys and jacket and rushed out i just went about my day it was five o'clock and he still hadn't returned yet i was concerned because he had so little time and he still hadn't packed yet he returned home at six walked into the bedroom and started panicking asking why his bag wasn't packed and ready yet i told him he should ask himself since he had stayed gone for hours he said that he was counting on me to pack his bag and even sent me a text hoping i would eventually do it i never saw that text and even if i did i never agreed to do it so he shouldn't have just assumed that i was going to pack his bag for him he got upset and started packing his stuff was all over the place and he couldn't even find his papers he finally finished packing and left i then got an angry phone call from him asking if i was happy i said why what happened and he said that he missed his flight just like you wanted he came home and lost it saying that i cost him his business trip which was supposed to earn him money and that i made him look unreliable and unprofessional he said that i compromised his work after i refuse to do him a small favor and pack his stupid back i responded that he shouldn't have gone to hang out with his buddies for literally hours before his flight but he said that he thought that i was intentionally not packing his bags just to spite him so that he would have to sit home with me i was shocked no words just shocked pikachu face he called his friend saying that his trip didn't happen thanks to his wife and then he asked his friend where they were going to meet up for dinner he told me i have no trip which means i'll be home for the next couple of weeks isn't that what you wanted great now we'll both stay home and wallow in misery god bless and then he walked out am i the butthole he said that i caused him issues at work should i have just packed his bag anyway also people asked op why couldn't he just catch the next flight and apparently because he missed the flight that the company paid for he was required to pay for the next flight or just not go he refused to pay saying that it wasn't his fault anyway so he decided not to go okay before i get into the nuances of this relationship i've just got to say how stupid it is if you've got a very important flight that your job is literally depending on then why on earth are you waiting until the last possible moment to go to the to go to the airport doesn't make any sense to me when i go to the airport i make sure that i am like literally in the airport waiting on my flight at least one hour before it takes off ideally two i mean it's a bit overkill but have you ever missed a flight it sucks it's awful that's a lesson that i had to learn one time and one time only and i will never miss a flight again i would way prefer sitting in some air-conditioned airport lobby scrolling tick-tocks for an hour or two then spending thousands of dollars hundreds of dollars replacing a flight waiting an extra day missing part of whatever was that i was flying to go see it's just it's a huge headache it's stressful it wastes your time it wastes your money so just show up early that way if you've got some kind of issue like you haven't packed your bags you've got enough of a time cushion that you can still make your make the flight make the gate on time and like i'm not even one of those crazy organized people who's always scheduled and uses excel spreadsheets and all those weirdos who like to time out their days minute by minute i'm the opposite i'm chaotic and sloppy and i'm very last minute but with flights no i am not last minute because missing a flight sucks and your husband didn't follow the golden rule always show up to the airport one hour early i guess he was planning to just show up and wait like 10 minutes because how long does it take to pack a bag realistically you're throwing some shirts you're throwing some pants underwear socks if i were in a hurry if i were really really in a rush i could pack my bag in like under five minutes easily like you don't even need like the thing is you don't even need a bag realistically if you really really need to make a flight if your flight is super important then all you need is your like wallet phone your id and then you can buy clothes there flight your destination just wearing what you're wearing and then buy clothes there just long enough to hold you over the business trip and then bring the clothes back then you you know come back with a new business suit or whatever it's expensive it's probably less expensive than losing the money that you would have gained from that trip right okay that's just like basic time management and logic skills if you have a job that requires you to fly to a location then that's your responsibility it's your job part of your job is showing up getting on the plane flying to the place and then doing your job you can't blame that on other people be like oh well my wife didn't pack my bag dude it's your job to pack your bag why didn't you pack it the night before like so what if you played fortnite just spin the five or ten minutes it takes to pack your bag what is with this dude okay now now that we've established how dumb this guy is how illogical this guy is we can finally move on to the relationship part of it and the relationship part of it is also pretty cut and dry you have a job too you take care of the kid you take care of the house you have a huge list of chores to do and he said hey can you do this thing and you said no i'm not gonna do it. and he just somehow when you say no in his head that comes out as yes i'll do it sweetie don't you worry even though you repeatedly multiple times i think three no two times you said no and then one time in text you didn't respond which is an implied no so no no probably no to him equals yes sweetie of course sweetie i love you so much even though you're spending your last moments in this country hanging out with your friends instead of me and your own children which is a little bit insulting by the way i love you so much that i will pack your bag this guy's clueless obviously if i were leaving the country for who knows how long weeks months i would also like to see my friends and extended family before i go but don't do it the day of the day of your departure spend the day of your departure kissing your wife goodbye kissing your children goodbye saying teddy's gonna be back soon not yelling at your wife for not packing your bag so this guy's just totally dumb across the board completely clueless he's not a good husband he's not a good father he's not a good employee he's not a good airport traveler i think we can all agree on that one right so op i'm giving you zero out of five buttholes i'm giving your husband let's say three out of five buttholes it sounds like he's got his head really far stuck up his own also i would love to hear his conversation with his boss so op why'd you miss that flight well um my bag wasn't packed because i was playing fortnite with my homies and my mommy i mean my wife didn't pack my bags even though i asked her to so i mean i can't fly in my underwear so i guess i just didn't go that was our slash am i the butthole and if you like this content check out my patreon where i publish extra episodes also hit that subscribe button because i put out new reddit videos every 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Id: 4prZ0UYJZtw

Length: 18min 17sec (1097 seconds)

Published: Mon Oct 18 2021