Prophet Brian Carn On Getting Married Type Of Woman He Needs Dating Being Married To A Minister

all right bless your prophet Ferguson I love you I'm praying for you thank God for you everybody always love on probably Ferguson I appreciate him he's been a great friend in this season him Frank rate a third those are my friends Taekwon sparks Steven Brown you know in my age range you know I have other friends who are older than me of course but apostle Abercrombie has just been a great man of God and I just love him hey listen I want to talk to y'all about something and I want you to hear me because this is a very different topic for me bless you Pastor Sam's great friend bishop McKissack is here very nice thank you for allowing me to come to your church when others people told you not to hmm and I just want to love on everybody for the meeting and what was that meeting at in Virginia Beach Wow we had over 1300 people there the place was packed the presence of God feel the place in a very powerful way it was just awesome if you was in Virginia please let me know it was absolutely amazing and after Virginia of course you know Monday night I'm having a service here in Jacksonville and after that I'm going to Turks and Caicos then I'm going to Richmond Virginia I'll be there with dr. Medina pullings in Richmond Virginia I believe that's on the 31st of the 1st of April believe is April the 1st whatever it is is next Friday so I'm excited but I love everybody and I'm praying for everybody and I just want anybody to be encouraged let me talk to you though because there is this sad notion in the church I mean just this sad notion in the church and I feel sorry for the body of Christ I feel sorry for people in the body of Christ many of you will probably disagree with me on this I was talking to some oh I'm sorry about that send an email to the office and please tell them the perfect dad because if you ordered your book in Jane where you should have it but now it's March so please forgive me there's a sad notion in the church I was talking to somebody today and I accent what is the biblical purpose of marriage what is the biblical purpose of marriage and I I think the screen is frozen again but I pray that it's okay is it frozen yes frozen okay y'all can see me clear okay yeah okay so but I was talking about what is the biblical purpose for marriage and I talked to several people and they were talking they say what I love each other that's a lie and so the biblical purpose of marriage I believe according to the scripture is reproduction to be fruitful and to multiply somebody said well you get mad because you love somebody well you can't prove that according to the scripture because Adam woke up and looked at his wife even said bone of my bone flesh of my flesh he didn't love you if he didn't know Eve to love Eve so it had nothing to do with love okay I'm time I did in the beginning should a man love his wife absolutely the husband love your wives like Christ loved the church and gave himself for it should a wife submit to her husband absolutely why I'm submit unto you son and all things that's what the scripture says you know but I think the church is in trouble and people don't understand the burden that a man of God a woman of God whoever carries who's in ministry and I think the church is in trouble because my god I've never had to block somebody but God block you in Jesus name um but I think the church is in trouble because we've looked at movies we looked at Hollywood and we've looked at what all Hollywood has told us what a marriage is supposed to be okay this is what the this is what the movie said this is what I seen on TV and we listened to all of these people with all of their wonderful wonderful wonderful wonderful interpretations of what it should be and it's not scriptural so I just believe we have to be careful because it's not about love you grow to be loved first of all Saints we don't fall in love you fall in love you're gonna be all balanced then somebody say well well uh I fell in love and that's why I married them or follow your heart you don't heart you don't follow your heart Jeremiah 17 say the heart is desperately wicked deceitful above all things who can know it we don't follow our heart somebody see what God picked my husband God picked my wife well God picked Adams wife God picked Adams wife but the minute Adam did some he wasn't supposed to do he blamed it on his wife and said the woman you gave me guess what God said uh-uh you ain't gonna be able to blame it on me no mo guess what whoso findeth I find the good thing and obtaineth favor from the Lord a lot of people want to be with a man of God they want to be with a man in ministry but they don't or they want to date a man of God they want to be a man of God in ministry but they don't know the price they don't know the sacrifices and we look at all these people on TV and we look at all these supposedly wonderful couples but we don't know what's going on in their homes and you cannot judge your life and judge your relationship but what you see going on in somebody else's the Bible says he that compares himself to another is not wise so we're in trouble because so many people look at somebody private car I'm not controlled by no body at all I understand ministry I understand the cost of ministry I understand what it takes to be in ministry the Bible declares that any man come after me he must first did not himself that's what many people don't understand that's what many people don't respect that's the price that many people don't want to pay so I need you to understand something that if you're going to date a man of God if you're going to date a woman of God somebody in ministry you must understand the sacrifice what it takes the Bible declares that a married man cover the things of the world a married man Jaime please his wife but then when you look in the scripture wow it's just great sacrifice you know and let's talk about profit corn I travel for a living I travel all of the time I'm always on the road I'm always here I'm always there well when a man like me who's always traveling always on the road always doing so when he comes home guess what he wants to be by himself he's been with people for days he's been with people every day all day he's had to smile when he didn't want to smile he's had to love when he didn't want to love he had to shake their hand spend time with them be nice to them so when he comes home he wants the opportunity to just chill women you have to understand the man was not made for you I don't care what these people are teaching you in these relationship courses it's not biblical the man is not made for the woman but the woman is made for the man Adam was holy was complete he was single and God said there is not good that man should be at all I'm going to give unto you and help meet she was sent to assist him to meet him out to assist him to push him to help him fulfill his potential you cannot help a man fulfill his potential if you're fighting him women you can either compliment a man or you can complicate a man you can complicate his life or you can complement his life what do you want to do you want to complement his life now somebody say well prophet card you should be single well I'm not single because I'm not a eunuch the Bible say some men are born eunuch some were made eunuchs of men I'm not a eunuch but a woman or a man even with a mandolin woman in ministry you must count at the cost Wow I have what I want but I am more concerned about him fulfilling his assignment in the earth that I am my feeling I put my feelings aside right now because I want him to fulfill his assignment in the earth you're hitting me I'm telling you what I've seen trust me the smiles the laughs and everything you all see everybody smiling all these people you see like me together a lot of these people are arrangements nice be back like they have been they're not they're just not it is really not but they've learned how to act like everything is fine and dandy and they won't tell you the real struggles but when two people come together first of all somebody X part of a car and do our date yes I get married do I date yes dating comes from the word data anytime two people come together and learn information about anybody you're collecting data that is a date okay so that's number one any time now and even if you sit down at a table with somebody if two men sit down at a table with somebody if two men sit down at a table with somebody the two men sit down at the table guess what they're dating now I know you don't like it in that regard but the word dating comes from the word data okay it's collecting data between two people who are you what do you like okay tell me how you are that's all dating comes from collecting data okay now two people should be friends you should be friends but you can't determine for instance if I did a young lady who likes to talk she'll be very upset with me because I'm not a talk of the person outside of the pulpit I don't like to do a bunch of talkin I talk for a living when I come home I don't want blue dog I say to myself then it's not just me whenever you are with a man of God you cannot be selfish you have to share he don't just belong to you he belongs to the people he don't just belong to the people he belongs to his family these are the things that you must remember that you must remind yourself you understand you have to keep these things before you okay marriage or relationships are not always wonderful one day some days you fall in and out of love somebody acts me they say well hi you're talking on this and you're not married first of all Paul who gave us the whole New Testament on marriage was not married number one and number two I don't have to do drugs to learn that drugs ain't no good I can look at what it's done in somebody else like and prove I don't want to do drugs i watch i watch i pay attention and i want to say to men and women whoever you are stop looking at the new stop looking at TV to determine for you what's marriage stop looking at these stains and that's how I want my man to be you don't know what they do what that man is doing you don't understand you understand no I agree somebody said review Providence bull and say that's right because a married man according first from there seven care for the things of the world and how to please his wife when you married y'all it's God your wife then your ministry said again is God your wife then your ministry God is number one nobody comes before him he said that should I shall have no other gods before me God is number one and then it's your wife first Timothy three the Bible declares that first 73 how can a man take care of the house of God with you don't take care of his own house and the Bible declares that God wide ministry that's right and the Bible also says that our bishop must rule well his own house so you have to rule a house you gotta have your house under subjection all right but when a woman get married she has a husband when a woman get married she has a husband your ministry is no longer whatever you want to do your number one ministry is your husband you were made for him remember that just in the dating process some of you date some of you date some of you men date the young lady young ladies your date a man do not frustrate him you never frustrate him never tell him what he doesn't do there's a kink in him and there's a fool in him and whoever you talk to that's the one you gonna get you talk to the food in him he gonna respond like a fool but if you talk to the King in him he'll respond and talk to you like a queen because you are his queen you cannot be selfish you cannot be thinking about your feelings all the time feelings cannot dictate to you how you going to be in a relationship feelings are tricking they are deceitful you feel like you love somebody next day you feel like you can't stand them feelings cannot you cannot be moved by your feelings and if you allow feelings to dominate you in the dating process feelings are going to dominate you in the marriage you cannot let feelings dominate you you dominate your feeling if you get into bed right now and lay down and decide you don't want to get up look at my dog over there right now let me show you see my dog he sleep you not God not if I don't move he won't move but when I say get up he gets up no matter how he feels he gets up you cannot be dominated by your feelings marriage love to me is not a feeling it is a decision it is a choice I choose to love who I love I always feel like loving him but I choose to love it's your relationship with your relationship with God is not built on a feeling you choose to love him you choose to serve him so I love him not because I always feel like it I don't always feel like doing what's right but I've chosen to love him and because I love him I love him more than what I want to do it's a choice remember that stand the word don't be dominated by television the body of Christ you watch these reality shows you look at this stuff and this stuff get in your spirit and you think that you're not influenced by it but whatever gets in your spirit whatever gets in your spirit whether you believe it or not it's gonna get in your spirit and you're going to operate off of it God your heart with all diligence for out of it flows the issues of life you won't go by feeling what about when your husband cheats on you what about when your wife cheats on you it happens can a man be faithful yes can a woman be favor yes does it always happen no people cheat people are unfaithful people don't always do what they say they're gonna do but when you don't feel like sticking in there you stick in there we talk you through you communicate it's tough being with a man of God tough being with anybody period it's two worlds when a man and woman come together there's a collision but whatever's left after the collision that's what you build upon know that I see these women send me messages on Facebook Thomas I'm I'm their husband not possible first of all I'm not attracted to you a second of all whoso findeth I'm going to find you you don't find me God not gonna tell you something by me and don't tell me about you impossible friggin this 1433 he's not the author of confusion he's well able to tell the same God who speak to me could tell me but woman of God know this for sure bless that man honor that man praise that man men are made in the image and likeness of God does God like to be praised of course so guess what men like to be praised men like to be affirmed if you always telling a man what you don't do you do this you do this with it do you know that that man is press that man is pressed in every direction I mean you have to hit me you know y'all I'm in a tough place because that's my dog stretching but I'm in a tough place y'all have a lot going on I'm being pressed by people who I love I'm being pressed by rumors scandals lies people who you thought were your friend you find out they're not your friend you sit back you're silent you're quiet you're careful you have a lot on your mind and then the woman who you love or the man who you love after you fault the world either you fault religion after you fault a hard day then you gotta come home and fight the woman you with remember before God made Adam he made the garden oh you didn't hit me what I just said before he made the man he made the garden because your environment determines what comes out of you bless your parcel abercrombie your environment determine what comes out of you your environment give that man a good environment to come home to love him go fight him don't beat him up don't am down don't tell him don't tell him what all he don't do you will never get the message through by killing him you catch more bees with honey than you do its own a wise woman buildeth her house with our hands but a foolish one plucks it down love him praise Him maybe I'll get some slack on this I hope not build your house in the dating process talk stuff through communicate you know we have to be real you have to be real when you first meet somebody you talk to them all the time you talk to them every day but after life begins to happen bills begin to happen responsibilities begin to happen and I don't care what people say you're not you've not been in no honeymoon for 20 years you didn't want to be bothered some days you don't want to miss it it just happens don't put the weight on that man that man is a ministry he's dealing with a whole lot I talk from experience probably calling loves very hard I love very hard trust me I like somebody I love him I love him very hard but it's a great great sacrifice to be with a man of God so you outdid us I won't be your private car and trust me you wouldn't when Billy Graham came home after he got the Nobel Peace Prize whatever that prize was he got Billy Graham millions of people came to Jesus because of Billy Graham millions come to Jesus overcoming to the knowledge of who Jesus is because of Billy Graham they gave him a prize when Billy got that prize guess what he said this doesn't belong to me that belongs to my wife he days I was ministry she sacrifice she had some sleepless nights but she put it aside because she knew the price tag and the lives that will be in check you go spend some time with me but not only whatever he did worked because wisdom is justified by children whatever he did it worked how do you how you know it worked because not only as he saved his children his grandchildren all love am i working in ministry cuz of the life he lived be patient be gentle he can don't fight him be real hey y'all I'm so tired when I come home I really am I'm so tired I am extremely tired I don't wanna be bothered I lock up in my room getting to be I get up I go to the bank and I do my little things people don't be around me because I want to be around them people want to be around me they respect me they love me they want opportunity to be what I'm gonna do bless your brother Warren what I'm gonna do I'm a man a woman a god is love a god place in your life be nice don't be mean be nice god bless you any questions imma go I see y'all tired of it I'll give you two minutes tags man question two minutes what about dating somebody's what about it I accept what you mean how do I date bright private comm when he dates somebody say uh someone's how do I date when I did I'd a private I don't put my business in the streets I don't tell everybody if I'm in relationship with someone I don't tell everybody yes I will get married why don't I tell everybody the woman who probably corn dates if he goes public she becomes a target not natural not just naturally not only does she become a target naturally she becomes a target spiritually so now she's been identified by the enemy as a woman who I'm potentially going to marry 1 & 2 naturally she becomes a target for all kind of stuff so private con is very private you keep problem no more what do I do to women who suggest that I'm there huh somebody said you said if a woman suggested me that I'm the husband over and over again oh you just tell them one time that you're not and then you let them be crazy in their own mind anything you don't feed it's going to die so don't even feed it you know how old are you no one knows I mean some people think they know I let you think whatever they want to think sorry ah private what about when you knew 14 Oh kids never been married I don't believe God really believe God I'm if God wants you to be mad believe God with your spouse and stay in position to receive what some of you want to be married don't even go nowhere you know come on you got to be seen all right no no nobody got on my nerves nobody got on my nerves it said this time I said I was going to about two or three days ago and I just got a chance but what about if you hold it in the man what is your question you know yet what you mean what if you hold it in a man if you ordered in him be patient with him and respect how he's thinking at his age just like you thought it remember the age he is is the age you was so remember when you were that age you thought that we too so be patient with him all right I love you all pray for me maturity is a big deal you know but make sure you have somebody who just loves the Lord and loves your assignment love what God has called you to do I just won't fight you marriage and ministry is tough marriage is tough very serious not as easy as people make it okay now again Monday I will be in Jacksonville for one night with the Prophet go to the go to the website to get all of the information you need okay yes marriage is tough man just cut any and listen another only to being tough you know it's two people two worlds coming together but you have to cut off outside influences you got to stop watching this stuff on TV listen to all these people telling you stuff you can't compare your life to what they're doing you can't compare your life to what other folk are doing everybody's different all right may his favor be your portion may God anoint you and may his peace rest in your relationship in Jesus name condi bo solo Mookie Carrabba Rob a la la ba Hawk on dailyvee I love y'all I'm praying for you be encouraging thank you for sticking with me I love you bye-bye

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Published: Sat Mar 26 2016