New Update: My brother banned me from coming to his wedding because his wife's family is at war...

my brother Banned Me from coming to his wedding because his wife's family is at war with the rainbow now my parents are Banning him from their inheritance unless he divorces his wife so my brother's wedding happened 2 days ago and it turned into complete chaos which I know even though I wasn't there you might wonder why I didn't attend the wedding if it's my brother's well it's because of his wife's family he did send me an invitation to the wedding because he wanted me there but his fiance told him I couldn't attend because I had a boyfriend you might be confused but I'm a man and I have a boyfriend whom I wanted to bring to the wedding she said that even though my brother and her don't have a problem with that her extremely religious parents who already forced her to have the wedding in a church would most likely banish us from the wedding and cause trouble between our families after she told him that my brother told me I couldn't attend and explained why you might think I was angry the truth is I was relieved I hate going to big events with lots of people because of my social anxiety and I was already used to not being able to attend certain events because of my orientation so it was nothing I hadn't heard before so on the day of the wedding I stayed at home with my boyfriend it's worth mentioning that my parents apparently didn't know I wasn't attending the wedding I was chilling at home cuddling with my boyfriend when I suddenly got a text message from my parents asking me where I was because they couldn't find me at the wedding party I told them I wasn't attending the wedding and asked if my brother hadn't told them anything they said no and asked me what had happened I didn't see any reason to lie so I sent them a text message telling them exactly why now I have to admit I don't exactly know what happened after I sent them this message because they read it but didn't reply and why do they care in the first place they didn't notice I wasn't there until the wedding was already over they only noticed when the wedding party started however apparently my my parents talked to my brother about it and all of a sudden my absence was the main topic of the wedding party from what I heard two fronts formed on the one hand my parents and the rest of my family against the family of my brother's wife and apparently as a husband now he felt compelled to take her side and tried to argue in her favor it's crazy to think that I was just sitting at home living my best life with my boyfriend while all of that went down at his wedding the wedding party was ruined and my brother appeared at my door angrily screaming at me asking why I felt the need to ruin his wedding I was confused and asked him what happened and he told me everything I told told him it wasn't my intention I just told our parents what happened because they didn't know and wanted to know where I was and I thought he had told them beforehand he screamed at me that I ruined his wedding I told him it's not my fault he wasn't honest with them I just respected their wish to not attend the wedding I couldn't know it would go down like this because like I said I couldn't attend several events before because of my orientation and my parents never said anything about it so I thought it would be the same thing here but I got to admit it's kind of sweet that my parents and the rest of my family stood up for me they haven't done it before that's a more than welcome change but I still feel kind of bad because apparently I really ruined the wedding party update one didn't think I'd give an update but many interesting things happened so after my brother's visit he and his wife went on their honeymoon and the way the wedding party went might have been even worse than I imagined what happens now is incredible when I said in the main post that two fronts had formed I only meant that metaphorically of course but it's no longer just that while not much interesting happened in the first two days afterward the terror started as soon as my brother and his wife went on their honeymoon my mom and dad visited me and told me how the wedding party escalated and they were so close to physical violence I thought it was funny at first but this truly bothers me I also want to point out that you did a great job of convincing me it's not my fault but hearing my parents side still gives me a bad feeling in my stomach however like I said the terror started shortly after they went on their honeymoon and when I say Terror I mean that my sister-in-law's family found both my Facebook and Instagram accounts and started spamming me with hateful messages I received insults and hateful messages from various different accounts all of which had one thing in common they all had somewhat of a Christian theme and the same last name so it wasn't hard to find out whose accounts they were mainly because I don't know my sister-in-law's family at all I only know her and I know her parents were hateful Christians but whatever they not only started attacking me they also found my boyfriend's account through mine because we're linked as a couple and started sending him the same messages the messages contained typical bigot stuff like you're burning in hell for your sins one even called me and my boyfriend two Devils in Disguise on the other side there were just blatant insults you get the idea I called my parents and told them what they were doing then I sent a text message to my brother with screenshots of the messages his wife's family sent me to which he replied that I shouldn't disturb him with that during his honeymoon as I already destroyed his wedding party I couldn't believe it he was just like them he did send me an apology after my mom told me she called him but none of this is the main reason I'm giving you this update this early because I got a call this morning from an unknown number I hesitated because I thought it was one of them and I was right but it was none of the people who insulted me I heard a woman's voice who introduced herself as the half sister of my brother's wife she said it didn't go unnoticed what her family was doing and she wanted to apologize for them I told her I'm not going to tell anyone in her family about this and that I don't blame her for her family's actions she thanked me and hung up I don't know why but I have this feeling she only did this to protect her family from being reported my mother wrote to me earlier that she wants to report the insults and the harassment of these people and that she demands for my brother to divorce his wife or she will disinherit him from her will because that's not how she raised him a little radical in my opinion but I understand where she's coming from this entire thing escalated so much it's unbelievable thank you all for your support on my first post update 2 it's been a few days first of all my boyfriend and I are fine luckily for us they didn't go any further than their text messages my Mom filed a report against them I don't know the current situation about that as I haven't filed the report myself the reason I'm updating you is a different one first of all one person in my sister-in-law's family is actually going to testify in my favor and against her family it really takes courage to do so it's the same person who called me in the last update somehow they found out that she is into women there's no reason to hide it anymore however she said she's fine and is going to stay at a friend's house I have so much respect for what she does imagine the strength you need to testify against your own family I now feel bad for assuming she only called me to save her family from being reported more importantly what is the current situation with my brother well my mom talked to him and told him to leave his wife or she will disinherit him from her will he decided to stay with his wife and my mom made her threat come true he's no longer in her will my father did the same when I visited them I also told them that I wish this entire situation had gone differently they assured me it's not my fault but but I feel like if it wasn't for me then my family wouldn't be ripped apart like this I haven't talked to my brother since then my boyfriend feels similar he also told me he kind of feels responsible for all this chaos I assured him it's not his fault but honestly I wasn't even sure if I could say this in my position on the other hand it was my sister-in-law's family's bigotry that ruined everything and everything would have been fine if I could have just attended but now it's time for me to distance myself from the situation we'll see what the report will do I followed your advice to document everything the insulting and harassing messages continued until 2 days ago so I have much to say about them unfortunately the hate on rainbows is still very much normalized in our society I already mentioned it in a post on my profile but the reason I'm so calm and Casual about the situation is the simple fact that I'm used to situations like this they don't get to me anymore if I let any insult get to me I wouldn't make it for a long time it's a coping mechanism I've been in situations where I was sent to the hospital because I kissed my boyfriend in public so insults and harassment like theirs are nothing I haven't seen before I want to say thank you for all your support on my first two posts update three I think some of you are waiting for an update so here I am keep in mind that this update will probably be the last one so last time I told you my mother was pressing charges against them and to my surprise we won they weren't going to jail or anything but they had to pay for their actions literally there was one incident where my sister-in-law's dad was actually trying to find out where I lived and asked my brother who then told him Only God knows what he would have done to us if we still liveed there but in the time span of the last 2 months my boyfriend and I moved to a different place which my brother didn't know anything about also their social media accounts were deleted but I don't know if this was part of their punishment or if they did it themselves my mom has also carried out the threat towards my brother and disinherited him from her will after he came back from his honeymoon he begged her to put him back in she said only if he apologized to me she invited me in my boyfriend over and my brother sat in the living room with this mad look on his face she made him apologize but I didn't accept this apology because I could tell it wasn't sincere he did it because he had to and not because he was actually sorry I told my brother that I am disappointed in him for who he has become before that we had this huge Bond usually we never judged each other for stuff like this and all of a sudden he has such a problem with me having a boyfriend I just don't get it I told him that I missed the old him he didn't respond to anything he just sat there quietly staring at the floor after I finished he just got up and left this was the last time I spoke with him and it's already been a few weeks since this happened my parents paid much more attention to the Discrimination I faced since this incident they wanted to learn more about the problems I face as a guy who likes guys I really love them my daddy even got a pride flag for me and asked if he could hang it in our bedroom I love that I have such great parents I just wished for my brother to become the person he once was by the way since the case with my sister-in-law's family is over I didn't hear anything about their lesbian daughter she supported us during the process but we lost contact afterward and I just hope she's fine update four the final update of my story happened 6 months ago and I figured some of you might be interested in how things are currently going so I'm back at least for this post right now there have been some things that happened first of all I want to give you an update about the sister of my brother's wife around 2 months after my last update she texted us and asked if she could come over we talked for a while and I was relieved to find out that she is fine she said that she moved in with her girlfriend when the case was over simply because her parents and the rest of her family had disowned her and threatened her with physical violence if she dared to return however the relationship with her girlfriend ended after a while and she asked us if she could stay for a few days until she found something she stayed with us for 2 weeks during that time my parents had visited us and offered her to stay with them because they had a big house with some free space she stays there currently because she wanted to study and my parents had no problem with letting her stay a little longer my boyfriend and I also support her financially a little bit we included her in several different celebrations such as Christmas and New Year's Eve and I feel like she is the sister I never had what's probably more interesting for you is how my brother is currently doing the truth is I don't know exactly we haven't talked since the apology however he actually tried to attend our Christmas celebration party but the moment he appeared my dad kicked him out and said that and I quote this hateful rubbish is no longer allowed in my house I love him oh by the way of course both my parents went through with disowning him my boyfriend and I are still together and I feel like he might be the one I want to marry this entire situation made our bonds so much stronger I plan on proposing to him but there are so many ideas floating around in my head for the proposal that I can't really decide which one also the social media accounts of my sister-in-law's family had disappeared entirely all of them but I assume they already made new ones under a new name I'm just glad all of this is finally over I don't have any compassion left for my brother I just wish he had never developed This way everything that happened to him he brought it on himself if you guys want I can update you when I'm engaged thanks for reading and I wish you all the best update five do you remember when I told you in my last update two months ago that I would propose to my boyfriend well I did it today I brought up so many ideas that it was really hard to decide so I gave him some subtle hints not too obvious just enough to see how he reacts and then decide based on his reaction in the end I made a photo album of us featuring the most important events in our relationship each of them had a thought of mine and a caption below them some of them were meaningful but some of them were just random like one photo of us eating at his favorite restaurant on his birthday and the caption just says something like damn that pizza was good that made him laugh we walked to his favorite spot in town which is a wonderful lake that is where I gave him the album and told him it's a present and to look through it he was focused and didn't notice what I was doing behind him as I just told him I was getting something I forgot I positioned myself behind him and that is when the last page came into play that page had a photo of me holding the ring in the same way I positioned myself behind him looking straight at the camera and the caption says hopefully he says yes he turned around in disbelief and started crying almost immediately when he saw me I couldn't even finish the question and he already said yes it was exactly how I hoped it would go I always dreamed of making my proposal like something out of a romance novel and I was successful so yeah that's it I'm going to marry him I already told my entire family except for my brother of course they were so happy about it especially my mom and new sister I assume my brother knows anyway considering I shared it on Facebook you guys probably aren't wrong that he might plan something but if he does it won't stop us

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Published: Mon Apr 29 2024