My psycho ex bestfriend ....storytime

this is going to be a long one hello gorgeous welcome back to my channel or hello if you're new if you are new it would mean so much if you guys hit that subscribe button to join and my family we are getting so so close to 900,000 which is creepy if you guys hit the subscribe button I won't be mad you guys wanted to see this video and I'm finally bringing it to you guys and that is all about the story of my toxic ex best friend so I've been doing a ton of story times as you guys know and a lot of them are like my dating fails in exposing my horrendous dating life that I had in the past which aren't really funny to look back at now because obviously I'm not in that mindset anymore just didn't work out thankfully I will link my playlist down below for you guys to check out this was a little bit harder for me because I hold friends dear to my heart I'm a loyal girl and a loyal friend and I will do everything for my friends I've never been someone that had a lot of friends so the friends that I have I hold dear to my heart I feel like toxic friends or relationships in general is something that a lot of us have to go through even more than once in our life and it's something that's a very very common and I feel I couldn't maybe help you guys out and I hope that this me opening up and telling you about this story can help any of you if you're dealing with the same thing or if you don't even realize you're dealing with the same thing because this kind of stuff I feel like is not OK and I feel like you should always have people around you that surround you that uplift you and want the best for you you shouldn't have people in your life that don't want the best for you or talked down upon you or make you feel like you're a piece of garbage because that is definitely how I felt thumbs up if you want more stories let me know if you have similar stories or what any of your stories are down below I love talking to guys and if you ever want to follow me on instagram at Nicoletta xfyt you can totally talk to me on there this one's gonna be a really really long one so grab a snack grab a drink let's get into it I don't even know where to start I'm gonna throw this back to university I went to university in Toronto and that is where I met this person which what shall we call her hmm what color is Sarah I'm sorry if anyone's name Sarah out there but we're gonna call her Sarah from here on out that is not her name obviously but just to keep her privacy we're gonna call her Sarah Sarah and I met when we both had the same elective first year first semester and I met her and we kind of clicked right off the bat she came up to me we sat together and we talked and we really hit it off and we found me at so many similarities so I thought and she was really funny and just really nice and she comes off like that from the start especially from people I've talked to she definitely comes off very funny and just like a really good friend and will do anything for you kind of like a ride-or-die friend and so I thought so once we met we ended up finding out that we actually live super close to each other and she was from the exact same town that I grew up from so I was super excited about that because not only did I meet some from university but we live so close to each other so we could totally hang out all the time and that is what happened we would hang out when we didn't have class together we would get lunches together dinners and we would hang out outside of school and it was just super fun and I was so excited to meet this girl that I thought was going to be honestly my best friend for a very long time and at first she came up really nice that she like really cared about you and that she would which she was really loyal and she would stick up for her friends and do anything for her friends a lot of you guys may know by the videos I have done I hated my high school experience I was bullied by a bunch of girls that started with a lot of rumors about me who didn't even know me we've never spoken to each other so it was just a horrible time it was the worst four years I feel like of my life I never wanted to go to school I hated it so like I said you guys know I had a horrible high school experience and there was a group of girls that honestly just like couldn't stand me and made my life a living hell essentially I still had these girls on Facebook from high school I started to go out in university I met a lot of friends and go up to the clubs in Toronto you know when you turn nineteen your illegal here in Toronto to go to the clubs and have fun and that's what I would do I have I would have so many girls nights and just live my best life and I went out one night with my best friend Jessica which I'm sure a lot of you guys know about I post her all the time on my Instagram and I also just she's been in my story times because that girl has been through a lot with me honestly my university life would have not been the same without my girl Jessica weirdly you know have fun and do like girls night and take pictures and post it on Instagram and Facebook the one day I went on to my Facebook and I saw these girls on my feet basically post a photo of them and it was like mocking me and my best friend Jessica and this is now University time they don't even know Jessica at high school is done and I didn't even think about them and when I saw that I was disgusted so they pretty much imitated this pose of me and Jessica and it was like this silly pose we used to do all the time and it was just so obvious and then their caption was mocking me and her so it was like a really rude caption my friend Sarah at the time she knew about that because we lived in our town together so she had a couple of them on her Facebook and she went off she literally called them out and was going off and telling them that's disgusting take that down you're pathetic I never had someone really stand up for me in high school is always myself defending me and I always wished I had a friend that would stick up for me for once because it was honestly really hard for me it was nice to just have someone to stick up for me for once girl really like hair sweet no one has ever stuck up for me against those girls and that made me so so happy and they ended up taking it down and then I think like we blocked each other and that was that and thank God because I don't really care what the heck those girls with their lives thank you next stop whole thing went on and Sarah snipped it in the butt real quick and got rid of that situation and I was so so thankful and we just started to become friends closer and closer when we started to become closer and I feel like one I think she knew that she had me and manipulated me and made me think that she would do anything for me kind of thing that is when the things kind of started to shift and turn and I really started to see her true personality and I was not a fan of her true personality anymore we start to hang out all the time she would call me on the phone all the time like every single day and it started to turn to the Sarah show how Sarah's feeling what's going on in her life what boy likes Sarah who she doesn't like basically everything that you could think about it was the Sarah's show and she wouldn't even ask me one time what I was doing or how I felt what was going on with me it was always about Sarah and what what's going on in her little bubble in her head I love what my friends personally come to me and talk to me about things I will totally be there for them but it was just the way she was and talking about the same thing for hours and hours and a lot of it was like very superficial and where to me she would always talk about her looks and how good-looking she was and how much better-looking she was than another girl or a person I thought that was disgusting and that was just rude and there was one time that I was dating my ex at the time this was my first boyfriend and she pretty much saw him at the gas station one night she never met him but she knew that I was dating and she's heard of him through other friends like I said we were from the same town so I feel like everyone knows of everyone and so she just filled her gas and then left that exact time my ex called me and was like oh I think I saw Sarah and filling up the gas and blah blah that's it he's like okay anyways I'm going home like what's up and then he just started talking me like normal how are you and stuff later that night I get a phone call from Sarah and Sarah's like oh my gosh guess who I saw at the gas station I saw will call him I'll call him leo for now so she's like I saw Leo she pretty much said he was totally checking her out he was looking her up and down and thought she was good-looking and trying to shove that in my face I guess even though she knew we were dating and that didn't even happen they didn't even exchange any words nothing he just knew of her because of me and at that point he also knew that I was kind of feeling weird about how she was being so it was so funny because she came back with this whole new story that he was like checking her out and like hitting on her and who says that like you're supposed to be my best friend and you're telling me that my boyfriend at the time is checking you out great but anyways that was some small incidents and I was like okay whatever I'm over it then I started to see other things she would ask people who do you think's better-looking to the same people we news does she'd ask do you think I'm better looking than Nicoletta and I thought that was so weird we're supposed to be best friends why you care what guys think about who's better-looking that would even be a question that crosses my mind and there's this one time that she actually met this guy from our school and she became obsessed with him she wanted to she thought he was so good-looking and all she would talk about is this guy he didn't want to be with her and he ended up dating another girl but that would not stop her he was in the same class as me and her so she tried so hard to get him to like her she would try to bump into him but she really knew where he was gonna be and she like show up there for him to see her and she really tried so hard and he was just not interested and ended up dating someone else and didn't want anything to do with her but she could not stop talking about the guy and not one stop creeping him and it was a lot and I know even my friends from my programme hub met Sarah and they've even heard of this guy that she was obsessed with and they know all about her and how she's like she's a lot pretty much to say the least and they didn't even get as close to her she ended up meeting her boyfriend what she had for a while after they dated and basically what happened is her best spread from what they were young they literally were friends I think from the beginning of elementary school so they knew shall they're at this point for us so so long and her best friend from elementary school met her boyfriend as well from Sara's current boyfriends and I just remember one time it was me Sarah her boyfriend and his best friend chilling out like getting lunch together before we had class and I remember sara is just like her best friend's boyfriend she would say he rated heuristics and said I was a 10 why would you even say that a lot of the story she would say we're so fake and you just knew it she would always need a pump or self up to be like this supermodel best-looking girl in the world and she always wanted the attention on her and I thought that was so disrespectful and there are other types she also talked about her so-called best friend that she knew like almost her whole life and she would talk crap about her looks and just thinks about her and at that point I knew you're supposed to be best friends with this person and I met that girl and she's such a nice girl now I do know that they're actually not currently friends anymore so they were friends for 20 years and they stopped that friendship there's a lot of little details and I'm sure I'm missing a lot of details and I'm sorry if this is rambling I didn't write anything down but you know I just wanted to say the story of how I remember it now and not have it like all planned out so those are just like little things I remember there were so many other things I know I called my best friend Neelu from back home and he met each other in high school and I remember telling her and venting to her all the time because I couldn't take it anymore it was like really exhausting and starting to be too much for me and I wanted to start to separate myself from her and that is kind of what I did I started to separate myself there were a couple times more so I ended up going to her birthday party with my best friend Jessica and at this point she started dating that guy that I told you about her boyfriend and he couldn't come to her birthday because he had a tournament to go to so he was really sad that he had to miss so he celebrated it with her the weekend before and then the day of her party we've all went out with a bunch of people I caught her cheating on her boyfriend with this guy at the club and I remember calling her out the next day she's like no I didn't do that I don't remember nothing she definitely knew what she was doing I I just knew that guy was such a good guy and I just couldn't be friends with someone like that like she really would use people and they would do so much for her and she would treat them like crap she would lie even about her exes she would say they were obsessed with her and they would cry over her and still wanted to be with her and then I would find out that was far from the truth and they actually were the ones that broke up with her and there was just a lot of lying and manipulation and I feel like she was just honestly really full of herself and just not really a good person and just really cared about what she could get out of something or out of a friendship or relationship I just remember separating myself from her and I'm so thankful that I did so I just started seeing her less and less and saying you know I'm busy with school and we kind of just parted ways and that was it I felt like it was like a tornado our friendship it was short-lived I think we were friends for like a good year and a half or so and then I just can't do it anymore and that happened a lot to her in university so she would meet a friend that she became so close to and would call her best friend and then the next year all of a sudden you'd see her with a whole different girl and she's not friends with that girl anymore and I was the starting of that little pattern I was like her best friend for the first year and then we kind of separated then she became friends with another girl's second year and they were super super close and then in third year she had another girl that they were so close with and then they stopped being friends and then in fourth year she'd meet another girl that she was like obsessed with and going out with all the time and she called each other best friends and then after that she didn't stay friends with any of us so every year she had a new best friend and to this day she did stay friends with one of us so that has got to tell you something I first you really reeled me in and made me think that she's such a good friend and that she's there for me as she listens to me and she stuck up for me and she's funny and then I think what she liked had me already as a friend and you that I would stick with her then she started to like show her true personality and then she started to make me feel the biggest scum on earth and I was ugly I needed to lose weight that was something else she was like really obsessed with weight and thought that he weren't good-looking unless he were really skinny and tall so she would make me feel like I'm disgusting and that pretty much I couldn't do anything and that I was never gonna be anything or be as good as her and I remember I started feeling really insecure with myself I felt really ugly I felt like I needed to be skinnier and that I needed to be this person that I never wanted to be and she was starting to make me feel like that and then I realized I don't want that in my life and I actually became closer and closer with my best friend now Jessica and honestly I'm so thankful for her because her and I haven't always been really supportive to each other we honestly always want the best for each other and I realized like that is what a proper friendship is it's not someone that's going to tear you down and make you feel like you are garbage and you have nothing going for you and you can't do anything because of someone else's insecurities that they're putting onto you and there were other things as well she would really try to like peer pressure me into doing bad things in university and that was just not me and I would always have to tell her no I'm not doing that that's against my morals like I'm not gonna be like that and she would pressure me and pressure me and pressure me if you're a baby you should do this do it with me she was pressing me to do stuff I didn't want to do that was just not good and I don't standby and that is just not me I was like so happy once I got her out of my life because just felt so much better you definitely can notice a difference in your life when you're surrounding yourself with people that genuinely care about you and aren't trying to put you down if you have a friend or any sort of relationship where they put you down they make you feel like you're not good enough you're never gonna have anything in your life if they make you feel like the best thing they haven't you have in their life is them then die someone that you don't need to surround yourself with someone's making you feel just disgusting inside and making you feel insecure with yourself that is the sign that definitely you should not be with someone you should always be with someone that's going to uplift you if you have a friend that's just jealous of you and you get something that they don't or you accomplish a thing and they did it and they're upset about that that's the time to cut those people off because you should always want the best for people in your life I know for myself when I have a friend and she accomplishes stuff or something good happens to them it makes me inside so happy because I just think if I'm friends with you I want the best for you I don't care if I don't have it and you have it I'll be so happy for you because that is what I want want the best for anyone in my life I'm not going to want the worst for them why would I want the worst for someone I care about it just doesn't make sense to me and that is definitely a true indicator that someone is just not good for your life and they're toxic I feel like jealousy is one of the worst traits the trait that I feel like definitely is a red flag is when you have a close friend your best friend that gets jealous of certain things or want the worst for you those are the people that you need a cutout and trust me you'll feel so much better I remember when she left my life I felt instantly so much better and I started surrounding myself with people that genuinely cared about me and that made me feel good and I the best rest of my experience in university and I was so happy that we stopped being friends she ended up I'm following me on my social since didn't care anymore and moved on to the next better thing in her head and there's that that is my story on my toxic friendship and I hope this could be useful because I know a lot of us go through toxic relationships in general or friendships and it's something that happens to a lot of us and it's okay to sometimes let go of a friend that's just not good for you or not mentally good for you as well I feel like people come into your life as a lesson sometimes where a reason we're just for a little time I had a good time with her at the beginning of our friendship and in the end it just didn't work out and that happens in life not everything works out the way you want it to and that is okay it would just pave your path to the people that you are supposed to attract and happen to your life I know it's really hard to lose a close friend that or some that you consider a close friend but I always truly believe that everything happens for a reason if it's meant to be it's meant to be and they will somehow come back into your life but if someone's just a toxic person you don't want those people in the end of the day in your life so I hope you guys enjoyed it click the subscribe button to join my YouTube family I upload every single week and turn on the bell to be notified every single time I upload like I said leave any of your stories down below I would love to read it or if you guys want to talk to me more you can always send me a message on Instagram or follow me there it's at nicoletta XO YT I really appreciate it and on that note I will catch you guys in my next video bye you

Channel: Nicoletta xo

Views: 149,940

Rating: 4.7711415 out of 5

Keywords: storytime, ex bestfriend, dear ex best friend, ex bestfriend storytime, crazy ex, ex boyfriend, my ex best friend travis scott, ex best friend song, toxic friendships, toxic ex best friend, how to get over a best friend breakup, breakup, we broke up, nicolettaxo, how to get over a toxic ex, how to get over a friendship breakup, boyfriend, ghosted storytime nicolettaxo

Id: 88SoF-VJ2OY

Length: 20min 11sec (1211 seconds)

Published: Thu Feb 06 2020