The Guy I Dated Turned Into My STALKER ...NOT CLICKBAIT !!

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together for my university so I went out to this club just hanging out with my girlfriends and all of a sudden I see this guy walking towards me and it is dan dan starts to talk to me and ask me how am i what's my name and just kind of getting to know me and he came with a couple of his guy friends so we were just all hanging out that night and honestly whenever we'd go out with my friends we would have the best time ever we could turn a bad situation into a fun situation when were together we just would have the best time he was my age and we were just kind of talking and you should that's how I met people in university we always met out either at school or we would meet when we were out at the club or a bar which honestly didn't work that well for me I know it's worked for some people but I know a lot of people meet not the best people at clubs and bars and it usually ends up being an F way situation but it's that is usually where I did meet people and where my friends met people at the time when we were in university so I gave him my number asked for it and I was like why not whatever off we went I went home with my friends we had a girls night in and that was it so he went ahead and started to text me and called me and we plan to set up a date and we ended up going on a date so it was it like a really formal date or anything we ended up just going to this place in Toronto downtown Toronto near my school and it was a crepe place crepe my thing that right you guys know like the dessert the crepes the French great this place was so yummy that was probably the best point of this date was the crepe going in my mouth with the shade he had a crepe talked a little bit and then after we did that we under just walk around downtown Toronto kind of talking getting to know each other and the date didn't go bad um I mmm but do you know those times where you just don't feel like that connection like you just know that you aren't feeling it there's nothing really wrong in the moment that you know of but you just don't have that spark you don't have that connection I wasn't feeling it I saw him more of like a friendship if anything and not anything more so after that date we continued to talk he would continue to text me and I was trying to get to know him still a little bit more see if there is anything there and he would call me all the time and texts all the time and I was getting to the point where I'm like you know what I don't see anything with him and I don't want to go on another date we can be friends but I just don't see it progressing I don't like what people play games that is one thing I'm not into I like people that are straight up so that is what I did pretty much I was honest with him and I just told him I didn't want a relationship or want anything from this but maybe a friendship if anything he did it take that that greatly no Dan did not like that Dan continued to text me all the time and call me all the time every single time I posted on my Facebook or Instagram Instagram was like just starting I feel like in university for me and whenever I would post on Facebook he would like call me right away text me right away being like where are you why are you dressed like that who are you with what are you doing and it was just getting really overwhelming he was acting super jealous I already told him that I didn't want anything and that we weren't anything I went on one date with him it didn't go that well and he was acting like he had dated me for years and we were boyfriend and girlfriend and I had to tell them to stop texting me and that we are not together and I don't want to be with him and it's none of his business what I'm doing and I'm gonna going to block his number if he doesn't stop messaging me and calling me and acting crazy Dan didn't really like that he was really confused why I did want to go on another date with him he would keep telling me to give him a second chance and let's just try another day and see maybe you'll like me then and I just told them no I'm not going on another date like I just want to be friends and that's it or you're not in my life like I just do not see this he ended up I thought taking the news and just not talk to me anymore because at that point we stopped talking and he didn't text me or call me or do anything so I thought it was done with I thought he moved on with his life and we were all good and we just moved on that is what I was doing I was moving on with my life focusing on my studies at university hanging out with my friends honestly like I say and so many my videos I genuinely loved my university and the four years they were the best years of my life I hated high school so going from something that I just hated and was so horrible for me and I couldn't stand going to school every day for four years to going into this university that I met just such amazing people and they made me feel so loved and welcomed and I just I I loved my life it was something that I wasn't used to so University was so fun for me and I was just meeting so many people and having kind of the experience I thought I was going to have in high school so I was just moved on and focusing on my studies of course in my career because that was obviously the number one priority for me I wasn't necessarily really looking anyways for a relationship I didn't need to have a boyfriend because I was really focused on my goals and at that time I was studying in psychology and I actually got a job as a mental health worker while I was in school so I was really focused on that that was my main priority so a lot of time has passed now where me and Dan aren't talking and honestly quite frankly I kind of forgot about him because it was one day it didn't work out and it's been months later now and at this point it was Valentine's Day the good old February 14th your girl was as single as a Pringle so I was not expecting anything to happen on Valentine's I didn't have enough plans I didn't have a date I was you know living my best life watching the notebook I'm sure on Valentine's Day or some really cheesy chick flick that Hilary Duff was in that was probably me watching Mean Girls who knows I don't know if that's just me but me I was just relaxing and I was at home and then all of a sudden the doorbell rings I don't know if I'm the only one but everytime someone rings the doorbell my heart drops if I'm home alone I'm scared I don't want to answer the door I just don't answer the door when no one's home I look outside and I see this person bringing roses so I ended up opening the door because I see that I'm like what the heck whose roses are these for this for my mom I opened the door and they say there's a special delivery for Nicoletta and then I was like oh that's me and so I take the flowers and like who would be sending me flowers like I said I was that single as a Pringle and I was not expecting these flowers to appear on Valentine's Day so they were like a dozen and a little like Vaz and I look at the little card that I came with and it pretty much said like happy Valentine's Day from your secret admirer wait what who I was really confused didn't know who would send me this no one message me to say I was the one that sent flowers so that was a mystery for me for a while and then about a month later I get a text message from Dan dan basically said in the text message did you like your flowers and to be honest when I read that text message my heart couldn't draw because I never told Dan where I lived that was the only thing going through my head how did he find out my address like I said at the time when we went on her date he didn't pick me up from my house or anything we met up in downtown Toronto and we just walked the place because it was near my school I don't know how he found out Maya just where I lived and it really creeped me out and I pretty much said how did you get my address and can you not send me flowers I don't want this I don't want to lead you on I don't want anything with you just can you please move on with your life essentially he pretty much just said don't worry about it wink when he said that I basically just said please leave me alone I do not want anything and you're starting to creep me out he ignored my message and I'm like Kay great this guy is not gonna talk to me anymore we're good it's all good this is dunzo oh boy I was wrong moving on to the next creepy thing so I'm sitting at my desk and I am doing homework my group has changed six million times but at the time I had my desk exactly where I have it positioned right now in my room and I usually am just sitting there and I have my shades up and I see Dan's car dry right at my house at that point I'm home alone and I'm freaking out I'm calling my friends I know I saw Dan I saw his car it's a very obvious car and I saw him in the driver's seat and then all I see is him zoom away I end up texting Dan and asking if he was just at my house because I saw his car outside my window do you went ahead to deny it and said that I was crazy and it was not him and how I could think that was him but guys I'm telling you that was him I know his car I saw him inside of the car it was 1,000% him there's no doubt in my mind that was him I told him to leave me alone he's creeping me out he's starting to scare me at this point and I said that you do not leave me alone I will go to the police and get a restraining order I didn't know what she do and that's never happened to me before and it was so it's so crazy because I went on one date with this guy and it wasn't even like a big deal a big thing and months and months later he's still continuing to stalk me after that one date that just didn't go well and I just didn't want anything at this point now we're going to fast forward to the summer so I'm turning 20 years old so this is pretty much a year now of me knowing him from our first date and for my 20th birthday I was feeling good I wanted to actually have a big birthday party I never really had big birthday parties but for my 20th I was feeling it I wanted to get everyone together for my university and do something fun and we ended up going to a club in Toronto and the club was called this is London they got rid of this club but it honestly was such a fun club that everyone used to go to when I was in university and I wanted to get a booth there and bottles my best friends were the best as always and they helped me set up a really fun birthday party my friends helped me to create a group on Facebook of my birthday party basically asking who will be attending not attending because if people are attending they were gonna chip in for the boots so I needed to know all of that information to see how many people will be chipping in and all of how many like bottles I'll be needing and all that kind of stuff so I actually had so many people come I think about thirty to forty people if not more ended up coming more people than I thought ended up coming it kind of got out of hand I was not expecting that a lot of people are bringing their friends and it just it gone it went a little crazy but my best friend Jessica was so nice to allow me to have my birthday at her apartment at the time so everyone came over first her apartment before we all head to the club this is London for the booth and all of that like I said it went a little cray-cray we definitely were not expecting that many people and all my best friends were honestly amazing because they all were helping to take care of everything collecting the money making sure everyone was there on time or we're coming and letting them in it would didn't want me to stress and they wanted me to have like a good night and so they took care of like the little nitty gritties and stuff like that and I was just going around welcoming everyone having so much fun with all my friends from University and when we all got together we ended up heading to the club and like I said I had a guest list for my birthday party and I also had the booth so we were all let in and we went to the second floor of the club and that is where my booth was that this is where things get real interesting let me tell you I'm in the club and I am not thinking anything of course I'm just having so much fun dancing with everyone my best friend dealer was downstairs at the club kind of just hope he need to bring people in making sure that the people that came late know where I am so she was sitting at the door kind of waiting for people and then telling them where I am and all of a sudden she sees Dan dan went to the front door people that had the guest list inside I'm here for Nicoletta like I said I had a guest list for everyone but of course he was not on that guest list and actually the person did say that you're not on the guest list and he said that it must be a mistake and I am here for her birthday first off how he knows I had the birthday I don't know he wasn't in the Facebook group I'm sure he found it somehow even though it was private don't know my best friend sees this of course he doesn't know who my best friend is because we only went on one date so they never met he probably knows her though from photos not that I'm thinking about it but he didn't see her when she was coming in she only saw him she texted me right away and said Dan is here and I was starting to freak out and I'm like are you serious and I knew that it wasn't just a coincidence that he came here I knew that he obviously came on purpose and my friend just confirm not with the fact that he asked the guestlist people that he's here for my party and then he ended up basically walking around the first floor seeing all the booths to see if I was in one of those booths and I know this because my best friend like I said was watching him and when he saw him on the first floor he started to head up to the second floor and to the artist I am trying to kind of go around and hide a little bit but of course he spotted me and I couldn't hide no more and he ends up trying to come into my booth thankfully I had a booth because you have to be let in so I'm kind of happy that happened because if I was just on the floor who would be able to come up to me really close and I just felt so uncomfortable with him and scared to be honest because it was getting too much he was being a stalker I am him to that to leave me alone that he's creepy I didn't invite him to my birthday for a reason he was not leaving he kept staring over at my booth and my friends were all creeped out two of the friends actually knew kind of telling the bouncer and asked if he they could tell him to leave and told him about the situation and actually my friend one of my friends was friends with that bouncer and they were able to kick him out of the club and he ended up thankfully going home when I saw him in person I told him that if he does not leave me alone I will go to the police even after that situation at the club for my birthday I was really nervous and scared I was always kind of looking over my shoulder I my school because of course he knew where I went to school and he could find all of that information out where I'm gonna be and it just kind of scared me he knew where I lived for a long time after I was always looking over my shoulder and kind of cautious about who was around me but thankfully he finally decided to leave me alone if he didn't end up leaving me alone I would have had to get something done I'm so thankful that after my birthday party he ended up actually leaving me alone and I never heard from him again I do have been blocked on my phone so I don't know if he ever like texted me or anything or called of course I wouldn't get that because I do have him blocked but he never tried to show up anywhere where I was or he did try anything so I'm assuming he just honestly finally got the hint to leave me alone and honestly at that point of course I didn't even want to be friends with him I just wanted him out of my life and have nothing to do with him years years later I am happy to say that I have never bumped into him I have no idea what he's doing with his life I don't have him on any social media and I don't have anything so I have no idea where he's at or what he's doing and we're gonna leave it that way because I do not need to know anything about that person because he is cray-cray so that is the story about how my one state turned into a full-blown stalker I hope you guys enjoyed this story I know what crazy and I was definitely scared at the time this is just you know one of the stories to retell to you guys to get enjoyment out of my horrible experiences that's it up if you guys liked it and want me to continue doing story times like I said I will link my story playlist down below thank you for all the recent support click the subscribe button to join my family I do upload every single week and also don't forget to check out a box 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Length: 21min 2sec (1262 seconds)

Published: Thu Feb 27 2020