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every day that you wake up remember someone else did [Music] not you are alive for a reason those voices in your head telling you to turn back telling you that they'll fail but I failed in the past I fell flat on my face listen to me you can't have a better tomorrow if you're too busy thinking about yesterday in times of adversity you do not have an obstacle to deal with you have a choice to make it's no different because we've messed up because you fell off the wagon you've been on alcohol and drugs and you gave up on life or you dropped out or you've been to jail one time two times three times and you really want your dream to happen and you putting in your work and nothing's happening yet I promise you if you keep pushing if you keep giving me all your effort it will happen Mike no matter how far you have sunk no matter how hard you have fallen you've got enough grit you've got enough Grace you've got enough Faith you've got enough courage to stand up it's time to rise I will rise you have to rewrite the story you've been telling yourself so that you can step into a new level of abundance a new level of Peace a new level of Happiness understand if you want to make your dreams a reality you've got to understand that you can't quit believe you can read because we only get one shot at this King we didn't come this far to come this far you can always start fresh you can write a new chapter or you can choose to write an entire new book you have the power you have the tenacity you have the grip this is that time this is that hour this is that moment life will bloody your nose life will leave you in a cardiac arrest life will leave you in an accident life will knock you upside your head and dare you to get back up again Others May quit but not me not today not tomorrow not ever because I gave too much of this dream it's up to you to keep CL and believe in your purpose go after that dream quit playing small you were meant to do great things it ain't about being beast mode it's about life and death mode life is always giving you a test trying to give you a way out trying to give you excuse not to show up you got to have the mentality to show up everying day of your life no matter what life throws at you it's our responsibility to show to the Coliseum of Life prepare foring battle I don't care what you going through what life throwing at you it's your responsibility to find your new 100% a part of being a beast is the hunt it's the hunt that they're excited about they like to see the gazel run then boom they take off cuz real lions like to hunt they love the process just as much as they love the prize and some of y'all just want to score you don't like the process you're not in love with the process everybody want to be a beast until tell it's time to do what beasts do you are a beast let others talk about how good you are how strong you are how fast you are how smart you are how successful you are that's when you know you a sharp when others are talking about you it's about putting it on the line it's about pushing yourself and giving it 110% of everything you got I know sometimes people say they a lion but you can't be a lion if you don't understand the rules of the Jungle keep your commitment never to go back to the life that you once lived keep your commitment to creating wealth for yourself to taking care of your children to be more responsible keep your commitment to live a life of contribution to keep your commitment to be be a conqueror and to act like it and to have authority and dominion over everything in your life one of those reasons I got on one of my tapes if life knocked you down try and land on your back because if you can look up you can get up your reasons will help you to get back up again you're going to face no and rejection every day but if you're hungry enough the world will make a place for you you're afraid theing eort we're all being tested and that road to success is a bumpy ass throw do you think you have the mindset now be smth I would rather you confront fight and fail than for you just to settle for the comfort of remaining the [Music] same change is [Music] tough but change is possible for some of you the world's not going to become easier all of the sudden no as you're mature you're going to have more responsibilities more things that people expect out of you but the truth is you can do hard things the truth is as long as there's breath in your lungs There's Hope in your heart ask yourself what's my dream what's my dream you think you're just here to work on a job pay the bills keep a roof over your head car no and then die come on give me a break raise the bar on yourself challenge yourself decide you're not going to be the same person I want you to have the mindset that you you're going to live an expanded vision of yourself and you're going to go all in I don't know your name but I know you have a dream you may be listening to me in your closet your bedroom the gym the car the bus the Train the plane I don't know where you're going but I know you are going somewhere you've got a destination keep a no excuse mentality then the sky is not your limit the sky is your starting point I never get turned off every single day I want my destiny I want my dream you got to have this vision of yourself beyond your circumstances you've got to see yourself every day I can do this I can make this happen I'm blessed and highly favored good things are supposed to happen to me you got you got to see yourself every day and get out of your mind those old thoughts that old belief system every day you've got to sell yourself on that it's possible you want to go somewhere you've never gone you got to do something you've never done you got to say something you've never said you got to go to a place in you that you've never even been you're not sentenced to this life this way you chose [Music] it it's going to be a dog fight when you get tired of being coined the loser being coined not enough being overlooked and undervalued and underpaid you got to get tired of that when you get tired that's when you win every single person that wins Big every single person that you look at every single person that you're inspired by every single person that you aspire to be like they are going to win or they are going to die trying there are somebody who is tired like when you come to the end of yourself you got to get tired something inside of you has to snap you got to get tired of being broke it's going to be a dog fight you got that dog and your inner dog has no quit I love dealing with a dude who think because he come for money he better than me let's go let's go you got money but do you got that dog yeah you got money you got priv but do you got that dog do you got that stamina so yeah you might have something I don't have right now but if I work hard I can have what you have you got to smell blood once you get that scent like a hound dog you get that scent you see what it's possible you see what you are capable of in the face of adversity in the face of challenges in the face of everybody that says you are not enough you're not tall enough you're not big enough you're not wide enough not fast enough it's in that very moment that the dream's got to get bigger than the disappointment it's got to get bigger the dream once that dream gets bigger and you get a sent for that dream you start to smell that dream there's nothing on planet Earth that can stop you you become armed in dangerous you are the most dangerous individual on planet Earth how do you keep that dog mentality guess what a true dog mentality I have a dog at home I can feed up all day long he never gets full it's not enough you made to the NFL be the MVP it's not enough you RN a 5k with a 10K is that enough you became a doctor be a better doctor is that enough you lost 50 lbs go out there and do something with it guess what it's 109 out here but guess what it's not enough stay hard when we talk about a dog mentality the dog scrambles the dog walks the dog runs after the whatever it wants when a dog is hungry move out of his way cuz it's coming for blood the reason why you don't have what you want is because you are not hungry [Music] enough better get some dog in you or you ain't going to make it judge your person not by what accomplish but what they had to overcome for their accomplishment people that are hungry have zero excuses for not pursuing their dreams and they come back again and again and again they operate like Willie Jolly who said that a setback is a setup for a comeback I've got a saying if life knocks you down try and land on your back because if you can look up you can get up you get up you can get up get up I'm training people to get in to their greatness to begin to develop the courage to pursue dreams beyond their comfort zones because in order to do something you've never done you've got to become someone you've never been when you're pursuing your greatness you don't know what your limits are so you act like you don't have any there's never a shortage of opportunities it's just a shortage of thinking because some things are taught and some things are caught when I was in the fifth grade they put me back from the fifth grade into the fourth grade I failed again in the eighth grade I have a college training so being identified and labeled as DT the dumb twin it it gave me a lot of things to overcome and so there was no one to dispute what was said about me and I bought it even if you are told a lie faith comes by hearing and hearing and hearing you hear it often enough it becomes your reality perception not challenge becomes real for you someone someone's opinion of you does not have to become your reality so if you can track failure you can also track success you have greatness in you I don't know you but here's what I know based upon my own experience you have greatness in you that you have the ability to do more than you could ever begin to imagine you have greatness in you there's a presence in each and every one of us that Waits and listens to the voice of the genuine in yourself it will be perhaps the only God you will ever have or hear and if you cannot hear it all of your life will be spent on the ends of strengths that somebody else pulls when you recognize your greatness no one will ever pull your strengths you are different you were created on purpose with a purpose to manifest that purpose through you you will never exercise Authority and dominion over your life until you exercise Authority and dominion over for what you are not most people go through life living the lie that has been told about them there's something in you that's greater than your circumstances there's something in you that's greater than the adversities that you're facing in life you either in a problem just left one or headed toward one you have greatness in [Music] you run towards your dream I want you to know something that the bigger your dream is I want you to understand the harder to grind ask yourself what's my dream what's my dream what are you willing to do that you've never done before what are you willing to say that you've never said before you got a dream that buy a house you got a dream of a better relationship you got a dream to to win a fight you got a dream to get your family out of out of the hood you got a dream to lose weight I mean whatever that dream is whatever you have that goal that improbable feet they should take sacrifice Blood Sweat tears Absolute Total Focus of of pushing yourself and if dreams and goals are coming easy I submit to you it's time for you to ratchet up what you're going after because you can achieve more start with nothing High School Dropout start with nothing homeless 12 years to get a 4-year degree from the University start with nothing if you are willing to ride if you came from a place where you had nothing that's everything that you need I kept running toward my dream unreasonable results in your life like living your dream and taking charge of your destiny you've got to be an unreasonable person the dreams got to get bigger than the disappointment than the fear than the anxiety than the overwhelm it's got to get bigger the dream once that dream gets bigger and you get aent for that dream you start to to smell that dream there's nothing on planet Earth that can stop you you become armed and dangerous you are the most dangerous individual on planet Earth what do you do when you're not the only one that wants to make a million dollars in your company you're not the only one that wants to be the president you're not the only one that wants to be the CEO what if you're not the only one that wants what you want what if there are thousands of other people who want what you want you have to outwork them you got to out grind them you you got to get up earlier you got to stay up later you've got to execute and You' got to go from 70 don't let nobody steal your dream I used to ask myself can I do this and something said within me you're the one you're the one what you hate what you can't stand what you want to walk out of what you want to give up on there was somebody out there that would die die to be in your position and so here's what I need you to ask yourself is this problem an issue or isn't an opportunity some of you all you've been waiting for your whole life was an opportunity what if losing your job was the opportunity what if the divorce is an opportunity what if the bankruptcy is an opportunity what if the one you loved was an opportunity for you to reconnect with somebody and forgive them I need you to see the bigger picture I need you to have a little gratitude you need to learn how to smile you need to work out I know you hate the gym I know you hate to lift weights I know you hate cardio I know you don't like drinking water I know you don't like taking care of your temple you think it's the hardest thing to do in the world to commit but there is somebody who's in the grave today and if they had another opportunity to live they would enthusiastically with great confidence in encourage and consistency do what you hate just to live a little longer find the positive see the bigger picture guard your gratitude the trial the tribulation the adversity the giant is not your assassin the Giants is your opportunity are you going to complain in the face of conflict or are you going to seize the opportunity I don't care what it is that you're trying to achieve what you're trying to accomplish what you're trying to give how you're trying to evolve what you are looking to become everything Rises and falls on your perspective stop complaining about the jealousy and the envy and the backbiting and the person that gave up on you and the person that wasn't present and the person that lied to you and the person that attempted to manipulate and control I'm not weary I'm Wiser I'm not toxic I'm triumphant I see this thing differently this season that you've entered into did not come to break you it came to build you and to the man or woman God is destined you to be change your perspective everybody wants to be a beast until it's time to do what Beast do I never looked at things as problems I look at them as opportunities who teaches you to be a man greatness is not something that you meet once it's something that you meet thousands of times in your life and you don't reach it if you're not constantly in constant pursuit of greatness the most powerful thing that we can be is ourselves dreams without goals I just dreams and ultimately they fuel disappointment those times when you don't feel like working but you do it anyway that's the dream it's not the destination it's the journey without commitment you'll never start but more importantly without consistency you'll never finish you can't just say you want it you can't watch the video and say I want it as bad as I want to breathe it's cute to say it but when it's show time when the sun comes up now it's time to hunt and what separates you from everybody else is that when it's time to hunt you ready to hunt it's a lifestyle you don't hit this news button you don't want to go run you go run you don't want to go swim you go swim you don't want to make your bed you make your bed you don't want to clean your house you clean your house you don't want to study you study that's how you start to callous your mind that became my life when you can't control what's happening till you control how you respond to it that's where your power is if you stay in your comfort zone that's where you will fail success is not a comfortable procedure if you think the price of winning is too hi wait till you get the bill from regret not only do I want to be a beast if you follow my 2 24 hours I do what Beast do every day that you wake up remember someone else did not you are alive for a reason why on Earth are you here this is your day you've got a window you've got another 24 hours because you may not make it to tomorrow and I'm just wondering what you going to do with the day the reason why days often feel meaningless and mundane is because we are directionless you got to get some Direction I'm just wondering what are you going to do in this next 24 hours that you did not do I'm just wondering if you're going to level up 2 mm more than you did yesterday are you going to get better are you going to get stronger are you going to get wiser are you going to see this thing differently I'm just wondering when are you going to see the power of 24 hours that you did not have to wake up that God did not have to give you another opportunity to be here another opportunity to forgive some somebody another opportunity to let it go another opportunity to look up and get up I'm just wondering when are you going to seize the opportunity accept where you are get cognizant about your money get cognizant about your relationships where are you mentally where are you spiritually and emotionally and financially and economically are you driving what you were destined to drive where's your health where's your heart let's get aware of where we are this is my day to read a new book this is my day to start a journey this is my day to make an investment this is my day to invest in myself this is my day and this is my time and it's my turn to crush this day this is the day I learn like I never have this is the day I invest like I never have this is the day I take it seriously I got one window I made may not be here tomorrow I'm just wondering if you going to rise and see the [Music] opportunity get up get up get up you've got a day to conquer if the day is going to be good I got to heal from the mistakes that were made yesterday I've got to believe that I don't have to make the same mistakes it's time to heal today I heal today I heal from every mistake that is made today I heal from everything that I said that I could have said better and everything that was said to me that I wish was never said I heal today from the people that pushed me verbally but did not support me physically that were never present today I heal I heal I heal I heal from what I did not have I heal from what I did have that I did not want today I heal after we heal we have to acknowledge what went wrong what could I have done differently what boundaries did I allow to be breached relationally financially with my investments with my mindset where did I put my energy and I didn't get anything back in return it's like investing in in a vending machine with a sign on it that says out of order and I'm convinced that many of us invest in people and places that are just simply out of order and this is why we're drained and this is why we're tired and this is why we're weary and well-doing and this is why the day is mundane and it's the same old same old something's got to change with you I'm just wondering if you're going to repeat the cycle if the redundancy of mediocrity is going to continue we've got purpose and we've got fulfillment and we've got destiny breathing down our necks let's accept the truth this is the only way the day matters is if we get aware of what's happening and what's going on what has my attention do I have the attention span of a todler what champion why is the truth so important you have to have the truth to have a starting point and your true self is found in that very uncomfortable Zone we all look for toughness we all want it but we look for it in a comfortable environment you will not find toughness in a comfortable environment those of you who are listening to this you will not find it the only way you find it is to drown yourself in a position where you're just out of sorts where you can't swim and you're drowning you're drowning will you say you know what ma'am fck that once you come face to face with who you are you have a starting [Music] point it's in our head saying you know what man dude you're not you're not doing you're wasting a bunch of percentage here in this other 80% is suffering pain failure failure failure self-doubt darkness and then a whole bunch of light but to get to this light you got to go through all of this you're not succeeding you're not achieving it's because you're afraid to go in that dark place place to find yourself you're setting goals you know you can reach and when you do that that fear that insecurity that doubt that's where you grow you must always set goals that you think you cannot achieve and in there you get better when that long clock goes off at 4: 5 in the morning your mind says no you just say this is what we do it's what we do now because to get to where you want to go the amount of pain involved the amount of mental pain of how many times you're going to have to do something that you don't want to do to get to where you want to go every day you must ask yourself did I do enough and then once you do this over and over and over again it becomes like breathing I don't want to live this lifestyle but to get to the other side of this I have to so if you really want it you realize what trying is and what trying is not I know what it's like to be an underdog I know what it's like to be laughed at I know what it's like to have a dream and have no one believe in [Music] you it means nothing it's all in your head you see these people the ones who laughed at you or told you that you can't they aren't you they don't have to wake up every day and feel how you feel they don't have to hate the reflection they see in the mirror looking back at them they don't have to go to bed at night feeling empty because there's something they desperately want that's you and that's on you so do something about it you weren't Born to Live second great existence you weren't born till your dreams your hopes and your aspirations pass you by you were born to fly you have to go into 2023 with the mindset that you're going to win that no one and nothing not even your fears can stop you from becoming the person you desire to become y'all want to work on your goals and your dreams but you've been working all year right around so now even though your internal dialogue is screaming for you to grind for something more you just want to rest it's time to step into the shoes you were meant to wear it comes to us as the people we may not all think the same but we all have the ability to come together in love no more will we submit no more will we say we're done you're not done yet your life is still here you won't accomplish your goals by living in that glass cage you built around you that limits you from realizing your potential so take the hammer smash the glass jump off the cliff and build your wings on the way down You Learn to Fly before you fall the time is now and you must follow through I must take action I must come up with a plan I must execute that plan I must give everything that I have and I cannot will not stop until I achieve my goal so get up it's time to fight will it be easy no but nothing worth having ever came easily instead of the path of least resistance I started choosing the path the most resistance to prepare myself for the journey that was coming my way and you realize through hard work you can outwork anybody matter how badass they are it starts with yourself man you got to start diving into those things that you are afraid of you don't gain confidence by going to the spot that makes you feel good it's could be a false reality in the second life gives you that challenge all you want to do is go back to what gave you confidence is that happy spot no what gave me confidence was spending years at a kitchen table trying to learn how to read and write on my own realizing I can't learn the way you learn I can't but I can learn what gives you confidence is not being afraid it's overcoming the fear that's what gives me confidence is facing these things overcoming them and maybe not overcoming them every day but facing them and fac them and fac them pretty soon like this you know what man this is where it's at it's not in that comfort zone it's in the discomfort zone is where my confidence is getting built mhm that's where it's getting built happy peace Enlightenment it's all up here man it's all up here it's all up here you got to be want to go and face it and that's the hard [Music] part the physical standard is not what they need to meet it's a mental standard you must meet in life that's how I live my life I now know that there is no cap on the human mind there's no cap we cap it ourselves the most people quit I had just started and when you take that mindset and you learn to flip that around that's what made me powerful and my body follow and so I said I'm going to do this I'm going to give myself a challenge every single day until the fear goes away that's right and I feel like that's what more of us should be doing I'm here that that's what you how you live your life that's all it is man and it helps me feel so much more confident when you overcome that fear of saying this doesn't have control over me anymore that's right it's like you can be at such more peace a lot of us speak in Hollow words I used to speak in Hollow words I don't do anymore everything that comes in my mouth has substance it's real we all have these feelings in our bodies and our minds and our souls I act on mind a lot of us who are afraid of something we allow our minds to choose the path that least resistance so we go a different route I'm afraid of something is telling me you must you must do that life is one big mind game yeah and you're play it with yourself you cannot lose perspective of where you've come in [Music] life I'm trying to give people different thought process of life where failure hell disappointment discomfort is a great learning tool and many people don't understand that but it's these few moments in life that you have like for me I always talk about it Rocky one round 14 that one twom minute and 13 second clip of Rocky getting up with Apollo knocked him [Music] down that one clip when I was going through a very bad time in my life I saw what I wanted to be and it wasn't a guy that won it wasn't a guy that won everything he did it was a guy that kept getting up after being knocked down so I realized if that 2 minutes and 13 seconds changed my life so was I saw something that I needed to be in the world I was living in maybe my story will give someone the 2 minutes and 13 seconds they need to change their life everybody's got a story we don't share it on social media we share our nice life on social media we have we all have a dungeon I'm just willing to talk about mine mental toughness isn't something that you sample it's something that you live in every day whenever hardness comes and you don't know what it is it may be different for you than it is for me but you go back to your insecurities and then when you go back to insecurities you didn't look for Comfort within those insecurities and we all look for that cookie that your mom used to give you when you were sad when you were sick we look for our wife or our husband we look for Comfort it's in those moments you must retrain your mind to think different ly in Hell the mental standard is you must know how far you've [Music] come I walk in the room now and I know the hours and years and decades I put into David Goggins that's something it's not on the wall it's not a trophy on the wall it's not a Mel around your neck I don't care how you perceive David gogin because through my journey I figured out the one piece I was missing I thought it was Cars I thought it was women I thought it was money I thought it was everything the one piece I was missing was me Having the courage to face myself where I got my work ethic from was the hours I had to spend learning this when you sit down and you're not smart and you have a disability yeah and you still want to be in the top of your class I didn't want to get by when I realized that I can learn do hard work and I can beat the V Victorian in school but I got put in 10 hours more a day than he does you know what kind of strength comes from that when you're sitting down that guy that that Valor stud for an hour and you know I caught you I have the work ethic to catch you that's where David gagas got really invented yeah was at a kitchen table with 20 spiral notebooks that were empty and then they were full and when you can go through that I still have in my storage unit you go through these spiral notebooks of your life and you like this is how I learned this is unbelievable it wasn't until I got real sick and my life got real [Music] quiet I I went from running 205 m in 39 hours to I couldn't get out of bed my life was taken from me and that's when I realized I hadn't taken time to think about what I done in my life i' done all these things but there was no Finish Line I finished a race of life I wouldn't even receive my medal I go on I get in the car and I go when I started figuring out life that I was I was leaving so much in the 10 mon I realized my God man I was this dumb fat kid being bullied and now I'm 180 lb person lost 106 lbs in less than 3 months learn to read learn to do this learn to do that I was like I need more I was fueling my mind with everything I never took time and say my God you came from this hell and you're here I had come 8,000 mil from where I started but if you never know that you're still in a $7 a month place so it's that quiet place it's that place by yourself it's those hours and years and decades by yourself in the grip of life when life has you by the throat and choking you out and you're sitting there calm because you're trying to figure it out you're not panicking you're not quitting you're not throwing in the towel you're saying there's a way around this and when you figure it out when life has you gripped in a vice and you can figure that out that's when you overcome that's when you overcome the journey getting there was hard harder than going through it yeah you know so that's the whole thing about life man it's it's that Journey that that makes you who you are today we got to ghost everyone anyone that ever doubted us anyone that ever lied to us and told us that they believe in our vision we got to reset we live in a culture of busyness distraction and Noise and sometimes the only way something's going to change is if we disappear we got to focus on the reason why we started everything why we woke up early in the morning to grind while we cried those tears when we wanted the world to say yes but everyone continue to say no you see you got to forget about the dollars can you unplug from people's ideas from people's agendas from people's viewpoints and perspective of you and life can you unplug forget about the dollars that told you that you didn't have what it take to be the greatest you got to reset what if you could just shut out every distraction what if you could just shut out the world for just a season and focus on you you have to disappear and put the work in and come back and shock everybody that doubted you you got to understand the power of being alone let's go back into the darkness where all the greatness was created where all the motivation was created let's get back to the beginning because only then will you hear the thoughts of the greats we celebrate athletes and we celebrate critical thinkers and innovators and actors and we praise them and coin them our heroes and we follow them by the millions we love what they do in public but you don't know the story behind The Glory you don't know the Blood The Sweat you didn't see the tears that they cried the prayers that they prayed the countless weeks where they went without sleep to get where they are I'm just wondering if there's anybody here that is willing to go through the process in the dark room that prepares us and equips us for the stages of [Music] Destiny rise let's ghost everyone you got to get back to that child that child that wanted to dream that wanted to Chase everything the world told him that he couldn't have yes we got to reset we're surrounded by the noise we're surrounded by the social media the Instagram all of these things that give us no fulfillment and the reason why you feel this way is because you've been surrounded by negativity you've been surrounded Ed by individuals that call themselves your friend but in all reality they're just another energy drainer they're just another person that wants to tell you that you cannot accomplish your dreams because they failed at every obstacle they ever tried to defeat let's go back into that hole let's go back into the Darkness some of the most Monumental and transformational portraits and pictures that we've ever seen were developed in the dark room I'm talking to the athlete I'm talking to that administrator I'm talking to that nurse that doctor I'm talking to that student I'm talking to that Communicator I'm talking to that P ER that inventor I'm talking to that entrepreneur I'm talking to that preacher I'm talking to that person who refuses to stay where they are I'm talking to that person that doesn't have a problem laying in obscurity because you know that when you come out of the dark room all eyes on you rise from that ghost State a new man and a new woman on its journey to Greatness why are you here what is your destiny I got a question what will you do when no one is watching what will you do when no one is listening that's the only time that we'll be able to bring something to this world that it never seen before one of the greatest challenges with disappearing is understanding the revelation of building in the dark The Secret of change is to focus all of our energy not on fighting the old but building the new and specifically behind closed doors when nobody's looking when no one is there to affirm you when nobody's there to validate you when nobody is there to agree with you you build in the dark and you announce it when it's finished let me tell you you're going to fight until you can't fight no more and when you can't fight anymore you're going to lay down and bleed while and then you're going to get up and fight some more sometimes you have to fall back into the dark room and focus on you there are too many people in your life who have left you there are too many people in your life who have counted you out there are too many people in your life who have whispered in your ear and said you'll be worse off without them prove them wrong there are people in your life that claim to be your friends and honestly they are just standing there waiting to see you fail yeah you have those friends that come out to support you and tell you how great you are but when they're driving off leaving from the event they're saying to themselves I can do that better than him or I can do that better than her disappear and do the work that is required sometimes you got to take a break from just about everything disappear come back and shock the world you've been surrounded by individuals that call themselves your friend they're just another person that wants to tell you that you cannot accomplish your dreams are you worth my time if you're not it's time to unplug time to unplug time to unplug this is the process when you have to reset and when you have to ghost [Applause] [Music] everyone in order to achieve greatness you must first believe you can what's the biggest challenge that most of these individuals have what's the common challenge believe they don't believe man you know it's it's U it's all mental and people don't get it everybody wants to say okay well here go 10 steps to okay Louis said do eight ET said do nine you know this person says this the 12 steps and everybody's trying to get the steps without the mentality you got this I believe in you when somebody says no matter what happens whether it succeeds or fails I'm going to be by your side that's when I have the confidence to do difficult things wow so it's the people in my life you should recognize the potential in yourself and love yourself enough to make the changes that produce the best possible version of yourself or how do you overcome self-doubt how do you overcome self-doubt help someone else overcome self-doubt I love that I love that you overcome self-doubt by helping like and it's not a selfish thing I'm only helping you so I can you have to genuinely love and commit to the person so it's not the car the house the whatever it is that internal goal that Eternal why and so for me I just think that's it like that like you ah it just it's something within it you got to pull it out and so it's easy when you have a why a purpose I'm doing it for this I'm doing it for that it's easy to get up and get going but if it's just for a car what happens L is when you get the car cuz you can buy it what happens when you get the house and you can buy the house the only reason you're not the best right now is because you don't believe you're the best now you can learn all the techniques in the world if you don't believe in your s it won't happen for you you have got to stand up to that voice you've got to sell yourself every day on your abilities on what you're doing on the goal that you want to reach you've got to sell yourself every day every day every day according to your level of belief it will manifest itself in what you're doing whatever we have right now whatever we're demonstrating in our lives is a result of what we believe subconsciously that we deserve and part of increasing that belief level is that you have got to convince yourself every [Music] day I believe I'm the best D I ain't apologizing for it to anybody I I think I'm the best thing since sliced bread if you can't do it you scratch claw and even Die [Music] Trying somewhere I believe that I am not enough not good enough smart enough talented enough worthy enough whatever it might be and that was definitely my biggest insecurity was I'm not enough in so many ways and so I needed people to give me the approval I needed people to accept me because I didn't accept I accept myself fully now it doesn't mean I'm still not hungry doesn't mean I'm still not a work in progress it doesn't mean I'm still not driven to create results in my life and make an impact and do all these beautiful things but I finally come to myself after literally 10 years of different healing modalities and processes and making big mistakes and learning and growing I finally feel at peace with accepting myself from that space I feel like I can do anything no matter if people talk crap about me it doesn't mean I have to like it but I can still do it and not be afraid of that and that's really at the core of the greatness mindset is identifying which fear holds you back because I believe self-doubt is the killer of Dreams once you start questioning yourself you already lost once you start questioning yourself once you start going into a state of depression and you start being by yourself and you start thinking and wondering once you start wondering you already lost even if you don't believe believe I'm the best right now and if you want to go through motivational speaking you got to go through me ain't nobody doing it like this they all want shirt and fire ain't nobody bring hip-hop to motivation I must be the greatest I shook up motivational speaking I change the whole genre I must be the greatest not because I'm cocky but I got to tell myself I'm the best if I'm going to be the best I got to believe in me before anybody else believe in me on Christmas morning when I unwrap my camera I actually don't believe in my ability so much so that I say I can't even open the box to this camera until January 1st because in the New Year I'm going to be a different person so that should just like kind of like really betray the lack of belief that I had in myself to begin with so then it was opening the camera and say I told my husband I'm like oh I think you got me the wrong battery no no it was just me putting the battery in the wrong way I had no idea which way was up I was cutting every single corner I was looking at the work that I was doing and I feel like I had enough wherewithal to look at my work and say this is terrible I know what good is and what I am doing is terrible but do I have the capacity to make it a little bit less terrible I was a person for 365 days who said come hell high water I'm going to go all all in I want to look back on my death bed and said you gave it everything you had so I stopped being a lot so like social I didn't do extracurricular activities I woke up earlier I went to bed later I don't think that's a lifestyle a permanent lifestyle but at the time that I gave myself 365 days I there was no more messing around there was no more excuses you have a story you know you you have a unique experience and so you're 12 are shaped by by not just your world but how your world has shaped your thinking and I think that's the part their mission is like guys you know if it was easy everybody could do it if it was a cookie cutter everybody would just follow it to the tea but there's a mindset and when I looked at Serena you know when I look at the Michael Jordan of the world Tom Brady you know when you look at Michael Phelps like it is a mentality it's the consistent actions of doing the hard things or just the things you say you're going to commit to and completing those things which build the confidence and the belief in yourself a lot of people that have these issues of the self-doubt is because they have not put the work in to have the belief in themselves that they can accomplish whatever it is the reason why you're not taking advantage of this opportunity is not because you don't believe in it you don't believe in you we suck at first but I just kept going I just really believed that I could have anything that I wanted if I was willing to work for it and when I was number 20 I started saying I'm the number one motivational speaker in the world and I went to the computer and the world said exactly what I said that Eric Thomas is number one in the world I spoke it the world heard it and it activated your problem is that you don't believe you belong here your problem is that you don't think you should be sitting down here listen to me very closely if I had one message to leave you with that's a game changer is you need to start to believe and I for one I can tell you my in my own experience my own self-confidence um uh 100% comes from the relationships that I have um it's not some deep internal fortitude in order to achieve greatness you must first believe you care when you have fallen when you have made a mistake the worst thing you can do is criticize yourself at the end of the day life can be very painful we can experience loss and worry and the insomnia of reoccurring heartbreak and hardships it is inevitable it is self-compassion that gives us the power to f face our failures to face our fears to face our insecurities to face what we don't like about ourselves and come out on top when you're down find a way to get up I've been there I go through it like anybody else but I have a job to do in this world and so do you the real challenge of growth mentally emotionally and spiritually comes when you get knocked down how you handle it that's where the growth takes place evaluate where you are look at it assess yourself assess yourself and assess the situation what brought you there what role did you play all of us are self-made but only the successful will admit it if you want to begin to move you've got to clear your mind of all the unnecessary luggage and baggage that's weighing us down I'm telling you from personal experience I know what my life was like when I put in 55 I know what it was like when I didn't try I know what my life was like when I didn't care I know what my life was like when I didn't have any dreams or any goals like like I didn't want anything I know what my life was like now I'm putting in 120 baby you put in 120 not only does it affect your life it affects your family's life it affects your friends life it affects your community's life are you hearing what I'm telling you I'm Challen in you I'm challenging you to get from where you are I'm challenging you to stop settling I'm challenging you I'm challenging you I'm challenging you to stop accepting the life that was given to you I'm challenging you to give 120% are you hearing me trying is not good enough trying is not going to get you there we need potential we need application we need dedication we need motivation we need discipline we need to understand that work must be applied and even when you don't want to do it find a way to do it anyway I'm coming back and I'll be stronger and better because of it you have got to make a declaration that this is what you stand for if you are going to win the fight for your future then you're going to have to master self-compassion face the conflict Embrace rather than avoid challenges and you don't give up on yourself do not give up on yourself when you find yourself criticizing yourself negatively comparing yourself to others try to find inspiration in their successes and strengths instead of feeling threatened you're standing up for your dreams you're standing up for peace of mind you're standing up for health you want it and you're going to go all out to have it everybody gets knocked down no matter how tough you think you are you're going to fall and when you fall sometimes you fall real hard but that ground is a hard surface and I'm going to tell you something it ain't going to move because you're laying on it so you need to rise up and you need to rise above it and you need to start moving sometimes you have to back up and go within and pray and meditate and recharge your batteries go away clear your head and then come back and look at it from a different Vantage Point don't operate while you are under the spell or the effect of what's going on stop half doing stuff stop putting forth 50% effort 60 look stop do it right or just don't do it at all are you hearing me do it right there's a lot of people walking around today they have unchecked rage unchecked aggression unchecked anxiety fear insecurity you're going to have to care enough about yourself to face it and find a resolve you got to find out what's the next things you need to be doing how are you going to push it to that level and go beyond it how are you going to maximize your time how much energy are you going to put into this craft everything you have everything you are everything you doing like it's it's 78 and what I need you to do is I need you to look at yourself in the mirror and say come on quit stop playing I deserve to see what my life would look like if I gave 12% stay dedicated you got to keep on pushing forward you got to keep on fighting the good fight you got to put aside the excuses because excuses won't lift you up excuses won't give you the power that you truly need you've got to be willing to go against the tith you've got to be willing to harness your will and say in spite of this I'm in control here I'm not going to let this get me down I'm not going to let this destroy me when you get knocked down how longer you going to stay down when you lose your job when you lose that loved one regardless if it's your husband your wife your child whatever it is do you have the ability to go through the hurt and the pain of that loss regardless of what you're going through the best time you know that you are strong is when you're at the weakest point of your life I want you to see yourself in your mind's eye and say to yourself I love myself unconditionally and I forgive myself if I knew better I would have done better to win the war for your future then you are going to have to master the muscle of self-compassion when you are so far down that hole you looking up and you don't see no light but yet you know there's an end to this Darkness that's when you'll find out just how strong you really are just keep moving forward if you think that you're going through something so bad right now wait until tomorrow if tomorrow comes for you look at the person next to you look at people all over the world if you ever come in contact with certain individuals and ask yourself are they going through a lot more than what I'm going through because honestly there are always going to be people that are going through a lot more than you're going through right now remember the past but do not live in the past every mistake you have made up until this very moment forgive yourself with forgiveness comes Freedom you're going to have people to do things to you things are going to happen to you and the most important thing to do is to harness your will and let it go and move so you can grow so you can get on with your life it doesn't matter about what happens to you what matters is what are you going to do about it this is a process and you have to hurt just a little bit so you can understand what it means to be strong so don't give up on your hopes don't give up on your dreams don't give up on yourself one of the most important lessons in life that you should know is to remember to have an attitude gratitude humility understand where the gift comes from it's not mine it's been given to me use what I have use what you have to help others you know on your last day you can't take it with you but you can leave it here yeah I don't care what you going through what life throwing at you it's your responsibility to find your new 100% you write the story of your life no one can write your financial story no one can write your spiritual story no one can write your emotional story but you your life has value your words carry weight and when you allow your actions to follow your words you change things around you this is who you are this is the very fiber of the person that I'm talking to in this room you know take advant of the opportunity that you have at this age and the people that you know to build your life resume it's what I talk about all the time you know it's like you have the work resume so what that means nothing if you're not building up your life resume believe in everything that you are and understand that within you there's something greater than any obstacle you'll ever face have faith in your abilities work hard never give up and there's nothing you can't accomplish a person's character is not judged when they ride the wave of success when everyone chants their name and you want to be their friend no your character is put to the test when your back is against the wall we didn't come this far to come this far we came here to be Champion it's about putting it on the line it's about pushing yourself and giving it 110% of everything you got you simply have to give it everything you have to get it you need to shut down all negativity you will follow me and you will bite your word you don't want this enough my life on the line you hear me K your life on the land today everything on the land I'm going to do the next right thing not over complicated what I feed will grow and what I starve will die if you are alive you have another opportunity to begin again you got to get up on your own you got to be able to make big decisions on your own you got to lose weight on your own there are a myriad of targets you have to hit by yourself often times it's the people that go away into a very healthy isolation to equip themselves to condition themselves to educate themselves to come out empowered and so you got to get into this work space where you can do it by [Music] yourself and I know you're fractured and I know you're bleeding in places nobody can see but if you shut it down you can heal you're standing at the precipice the edge of the greatest move in your life and and and The Time Is Now like never before to take a leap of faith stop waiting to f don't like it stop waiting until you see it stop waiting for somebody to come and save you nobody's coming to rescue you the question is how bad do you want this you feel like you're underpaid and undervalued and overlooked but listen get up this is the day that everything changes go through the process go through the mud run in the rain dance in the snow inhale exhale come back and shock the world find a mirror and tell yourself I got this today I got this today I'm going to make it I'm going to create it I'm going to build it all I have is all I need resources may come and go people may come and go but I've got a vision and I've got the provision and I've got the determination and the discipline to hit my aims and to punch through my target you may be tired you may be broken you may be hurting people may have betrayed you lied on you left you but you refuse to give up it takes Faith to pull away from everything that is familiar to step in the Uncharted Territory to become the person you were born to be it takes Faith everybody wants to grow a little bit taller so we got to push a little bit harder life is lived on levels and I can't bring my spotter with me the spotter cannot walk with you all of your life at some point you got to say I got this P can you walk away from everything for 30 days just one month 720 hours imagine who you could be in 30 days you got One Life to Live rain sleep or snow the time is now yeah nothing changes and nothing changes man you know we'll sit around forever wondering well what if I you know what if I was a dog catcher would I be the best what if I was a you know every day we change the world but to change the world in a way that means anything that takes more time than most people have it never happens all at once it's slow it's methodical it's exhausting we don't all have the stomach for it what if it's a mistake it's a mistake rest assured what do you know you're going to stumble around right and what's going to happen is this you're going to move you're going to not stay in stasis you're not going to wander around in circles and I see people like that they said well I never knew what to do and now I'm 40 it's like that's not so good that's not so good and you might say well and there is a literature too that suggests that people are a lot more unhappy when they look back on their lives about the things they didn't do than they are about the mistakes they made while they were doing things how they get you to give up they say it's not that simple any so what's the truth that is I want people to understand that they're not alone that there are other people feeling exactly the way they're feeling that their behavior is not insane that they have a disease and it's not their fault there's a very famous kind of line that people don't change I happen to know the people do change and I see that every day I see people getting better I see lights in their eyes come on there's a million excuses I could make to rationalize not getting up early doing the ice bath and going for a run there comes a time when all these potential excuses turn into fuel that motivates you to keep going you got to get out there you got to give it everything you got whether it's your time your talent your prayers or your Treasures because remember this you will never see a U-Haul behind a hearse if you want to know something about yourself sit on your bed one night and say what's one thing I'm doing wrong that I know I'm doing wrong that I could fix that I would fix you meditate on that you'll get an answer and it won't be one you want but it'll be the necessary one the whole issue people have a feeling that they can change but they have no effort they don't want to get in the game because they feel it's you know it's just too much time and it doesn't work and I tried it and it didn't work and then they give up and then life just goes on it's seamless you you don't see it it's just the way you've been living and my older brother who was 12 got into an electrical accident and he died in my arms and really come to terms with that I was the one who got to live that this life that we live it's a privilege and when I really started to take that in I felt this tremendous urge to do something with my life to do something that mattered at some point everything's going to go south on you everything's going to go south and you're going to say this is it this is how I end now you can either accept that or you can get to work you can't stop you can't quit you can't say I'm a failure you're not a failure you're not you're a wonderful strong intelligent youngster take advantage of that trust in God trust in yourself until you say yeah I'm going to you know what I'm going to take action nothing changes if nothing changes man and I'm not preaching at you I'm just uh I just want to remind you cuz you know I've spent a lot of time in my life sitting around wanting things to change um and not being able to make them change and and not thinking I could and I wish somebody had told me that earlier [Music] sometimes that in order for something to change there needs to be change you cannot stand still because the world moves away from you if you stand still and there's no stasis there's only backwards and so if you're not moving forwards then you're moving backwards how much harder will you work in this offseason now to get back to the championship I'll push myself to exhaustion cby we thank you for your time I just I feel like we sort of focus on right ways and wrong ways too much and um I think it's in a sense sort of scary to just be born and live life and and I I understand the the idea of kind of grasping onto um a particular thought of wanting to kind of feel like you somehow have a handle on the unknown but you know what the unknown is is the unknown every time you have changed you feel pain you stepped out of one relationship to another and you feel pain you leave one neighborhood to another and you feel pain you go from one job to another and you feel the fire of transition see change as growth see change as transformation see change as Evolution see change as necessary see change as critical see change as inevitable do something stop being scared if you have not jumped on the bandwagon of doing exactly what the you want to do which is skiing for the next 3 years or working at a job that's not what your parents want or what Society wants do something stop beinging scared and so enough enough parents the kid that's sitting right now at a desk and saw this in a feed and you hate youring job enough stand up get the out of here and do you live your life you got one life and so if you're not willing to be a fool then you'll never start anything new and if you never start anything new then you won't develop and so the willingness to be a fool is the precursor to transformation and that's the same as humility and so if you're going to write your destiny you can do a bad first job you're going to get smarter As you move forward when you can learn to do things when you don't want to when you don't feel like it when you're tired when you can learn to push yourself to do them that's when the world opens up to you that's when success knocks at your door there will never come a time when you can just happily Coast through life it's hard to stay governed by anxiety it's hard to be inconsistent it's hard not to have daily disciplines it's hard not to believe in yourself it's hard to be broke it's hard to be poor it's hard it's all hard so choose your heart what I am telling you to do is chase after that version of yourself that you know you could be what happens when I decide for myself that I'm going to do something [Music] different you've got the gift of life you have the privilege of being being here quit playing small you were meant to do great things nothing changes if nothing changes [Music] man I need to constantly remind myself over and over again I am not yet where I want to be but I know I'll get there it's not enough to hope to win one day you've got to expect to win today when you set a goal there needs to be a sense of urgency see we don't have the courage and that's what it takes courage it takes guts to do that which you know you need to do if you don't have the courage to act life many times will move on you and make you out life will whoop your butt so bad you will be so miserable you will catch so much hell you say yes I will do it what do you want me to do take me that dream is not going to wait and say take a breather it's going to say come catch me Catch Me If You K if only i' taken the chance they didn't start a business they didn't ask that Crush out for a date they didn't travel they had an opportunity at one point in their life to do something Beyond play it safe they chose not to do that and now they regret it many of us don't do the things that we want to do and don't act because of lack of self-confidence we don't believe enough in ourselves believe in everything that you are and understand that within you there's something greater than any obstacle you'll ever face have faith in your abilities work hard never give up and there's nothing you can't accomplish it's all on you if you fail it's because you stop running if you fail it's because you stop running you stop caring you stop working you stop working for that dream that dangles in your face the gift that God left [Music] you don't be the person that forget to open your gift because that dream has everything you need in it that dream is the road that will lead to your Paradise regret hurts there's no question about that but here's the thing regret also instructs and you can't have one without the other so if you avoid the pain you don't get any of the learning so what you have to do is be able to process that pain and I think there's a way for us to do that to take our regrets use them as signals you my friends are going to get there you are going to get that promotion you are going to complete that marathon and you are going to run for your life not only can you create your life you can recreate it cuz in order to begin to reinvent your life you've got to make a conscious deliberate determined effort that you really got to put all of yourself into it there's nothing going to stop me if you didn't make me you can't break me if you didn't make the sun come up you can't stop me if you didn't make the moon shine at night you can't stop me my purpose my will my dedication my motivation is all about doing the business because guess what ladies and gentlemen that's what I'm about I'm about that business I'm about that life what are you about discipline sounds hard but it's only hard when you don't want the reward bad enough when you want something bad enough you will wake up early when you want something bad enough you will pass on hanging out with your friends when you want something bad enough you will not back down you don't have to prove anything to anyone but yourself you'll begin to discover some things about you that you don't know you got stop waiting for your dreams run towards your dream because the moment you stop running the moment you stop fighting is the day you will lose don't wait for it continue to fight continue to taste of what you truly want out of your life today is is here today you're breathing today is your opportunity work like hell crack the ground and keep moving make the ground shake crack the world get it going don't let nothing stop you when the rest of the world shut you down you got to be the one to stand up shout out cry out stay tall work hard dig deep and go after it day one or one day you decide I look back sometimes of moments of regrets in my past I wish I have made better decisions in my life I truly do if only I had pushed just a little bit more did a little bit better just an inch just a fraction of an inch is all I needed to give [Music] I know ladies and gentlemen there are moments in your life you've experienced it too you didn't rise up to the challenge when when it called for you you didn't rise up to the challenge because you were afraid of it we need to understand how to deal with our negative emotions we can't ignore them like No Regrets We Can't wallow in them like oh my God it's so terrible I'm such an awful person so among the misunderstandings are we think that when we experience regret it's somehow an aberration when in fact everybody experiences regret regret makes us human regret is part of the human condition what's more we think that regret makes us weaker when in fact the research shows that done right regret can make us stronger that we can enlist our regrets as a an engine for forward progress what's a Winner's mentality you ask it means being focused on yourself and not other people means having desire it means wanting it willingness to work for it you simply have to give it everything you have to get it the one thing that you must understand is that you don't get any doovers once your day ends that's it so what action do you need to commit to taking today this is for the dreamers the dreamers that cannot sleep the dreams that run away from us when we're running our fastest we will not be last we will meet our dreams in our Paradise we will marry our dreams we will hold them tight to our hearts and and we will make them ours make them ours forever come here dreams I'm [Music] chasing so you're better off just making decisions for fundamental reasons doing things you care about that are meaningful and that contribute and and being alert to opportunity along the way recognizing that the path is not a path it's the opposite of a line it's a messy threedimensional squiggle I need to constantly remind myself I'm not yet where I want to be but I know I'll get [Music] there I'm the best ever there's no one that can match me I'm the most brutal and vicious and most ruthless Champion they ever been they're going to fear me [Music] you have to be the champion before you become the champion so that means lifestyle have to be him before you become him you got to be him before you become [Music] him that's how it starts you look at somebody I want to be like him you don't say hey I'm a bad mother I want to fight everybody out here nobody's going to kick my ass you see somebody and say hey I might want to do that well greatness is when you make your delusions your reality nothing's impossible for somebody who's going to try if you're going to try capable being done but you'd fight Ty and fury hey I'll fight a lion if the price is right my whole objective is your total Surrender Your Total Domination I'm going to destroy you that's why Rogan said when he watched you you were intimida your rage is a very very unique rage well that's their fault to be intimidated how you might scare you for something you worked for I respect a person who's willing to die for what he truly wants Ali had the will to win like nobody that ever lived in boxing then he believed he projected to his opponent really look at how does Ali beat George Foreman huh how does Ali beat Sunny listen how do you beat these guys how do he even beat Joe Frasier fighting the way he fights he beats him because he refused to lose but we have to to believe that we're Divine and that we learn from our experience cuz confidence breathes success and success breathes confidence they go hand in hand you have to know who you are first you know who you I know who I am people say the great all time you this you that whatever they say I know who I am but without self Lov you're nothing so self Leve is discipline and discipline is doing what you hate to do but do it like you love love it I never wanted to be obscure I was born in obscurity and I never wanted to deal with that again I'm Invincible I'm a Savage I'm ferocious I'm the smartest Savage I knew I wasn't going to die before I became champ when this is over everybody's going to know my [Applause] [Music] name did you ever fight somebody that you were like that they got you was there ever a kid that got you or no absolutely in order to be good you have to lose it and understand loss cuz loss is life adversity make the strong stronger or the weak [Music] weaker 11 12 13 what happens next so again get arrested and I see Muhammad Ali comes and visits the in Institution that I'm in you said you're in jail and Ali shows up I'm 12 years old and Ali comes there and he and they showed the movie The Greatest first so this is 77 and um after the movie over the lights come up and Ali comes in and I see him as why I want to be just like him I don't know how it happened to Spirit H me boom I want to be like him and then I get transferred to this other facility you know for real bad kids I met a gentleman there that was a boxer and he used to teach me how to box so he took me to a great trainer named custado and that's why I'm here I respected Ali and I worship Ali yeah this is the moment I know I wanted to be a fighter unfreaking believable story so your inspiration happened at 12 years old then you meet cus yeah how is cus treating you what was his way of leading you this uh degree of just peeling all that dirt and stuff that insecurity and um developing into character and um that's why I had a wonderful time with him CU everything about everything about his life was about me this world is one big school and we're the students of this world the mind is always hungry and the mind wants to do good but we get so many negative thoughts in our minds almost overwhelming to be [Music] positive listen I've been down and up down and up broken up and why am I still here cuz life is going to give everybody a bad head no one's going to leave here without being tried in [Music] life so inspiration so is that what got you to be willing to be disciplined to get what you want like to become a champion at 14 years I'm willing to do everything it takes to be a champion ABS absolutely and then I had cuss over there telling me why why should he have it that's one thing I never had in my life being cuz I always got picked on and I never had jealousy or EnV about anything and cus possessed that you know and he was telling why should he have all that money and you don't why why do you believe that he's better than you why you think he should have all that money you don't and he was really serious about it and that's was the competition sh that's the right thing breathing that stuff right why why should he having he's not better than you how did you handle that when he told you that 14 would it piss you off were you like I'm going to go train to whoop his ass I'm going to get there one day what was what was your response to it he said one day this guy know how to really get in my head he said man you fighting good but I wish you were bigger he said I wish you were like Kenny new and uh Mike we because they had big bodies and they could intimidate somebody and that hurt my feel I said I make sure the whole world will be afraid of me he trained me to be totally ferocious in the ring and out yeah and that's what I was that's what I was yeah push yourself more you push yourself when when you sometime you have to submit to yourself I'm doing everything and first day in the morning 3: in the morning you do your four miles come back here 3 in the morning yeah do your 4 miles come back in do your body exercise and all that stuff after that I go downstairs eat breakfast go to the school come back from school eat mine dinner go back to the gym at 6:00 train come back at 8:00 CL um watch fights start all over again everybody here is going to fight for what they love for even they never had a fif fight in their life they're going to fight listen once I'm involved sudden I want to know the beginning of I want to know where it came from how it was started who's the first guy that invented it that's just how my mind works how could these guys even dare fight me how dare you even think that you could beat me and you sound like a mathematician when you're talking about the art of boxing I was born for it there's nothing I would do unless I have um a possibility of being humiliated because when I succeed I truly succeed I was bred to climb high and high into the sky and Tumble down I am truly grateful that I found my wings before I hit the ground [Music] those of you out there you lose it and you don't deserve to lose you put in the work you worked hard and you lose it and I need you to do me a favor this is the year to turn that around yes you were rejected the last time but go for it again you were overlooked the last time but show up again why because you are not finished it is not over you are not done it is not too late but what separates a dreamer from a doer let me break that down three words consistent follow through imagine a basketball player shooting Hoops how do you know if that shot's going to go in how you know if that person is a shooter you know how you become a shooter you know how you knock it down it's all in the follow through I know about tough times they can make you or they they can break you come on now come on bring It come on now yeah yeah God not giv us spirit of fear so I have time to be fearful I had to replace fearfulness with being fearless and creative and take the initiative to do something else with my life I am going to make it this is my comeback story it takes break to step into your purpose it takes Faith to step into your destiny it takes Faith to pull away from everything that is familiar to step in the Uncharted Territory to become the person you were born to be it takes Faith so from the start you must decide that you refuse to remain where you are have you ever thought about inspiring somebody else have you ever thought about lifting somebody else we need you to be a light in the midst of Darkness this world has gone crazy this world needs you to rise up this world needs your dream this world needs you to be you give as much time and energy to your dream as you do to your fears that creates the opening for miracles to show up in your life I need you to acknowledge the fact acknowledge that you lose it are you hearing me acknowledge it on it own up to the fact that I'm losing e I'm losing financially e I'm losing I'm losing in my marriage e I'm losing I'm losing with my kids e I'm losing personal development I'm losing e and I'm tired of losing I need you to own up to it I'm losing I'm a high school dropout I'm losing I'm working minimum wage I'm losing I'm getting in trouble with the law I'm losing my mom ain't talking to me and a strain relationship I'm losing I'm asking you to control what you can control you can control going to bed you can control getting up you can control being on time you can control going to class you you can control showing up you can control doing your homework you can control your attitude you can control being nice you can control doing what you say you going to do when you say you going to do it it's your boy ET said you want to be a winner and you want to stop losing you minimize the airs and make the rest of your life the best of your life even when it looks like you're losing you're winning never let uncertainty or doubt be the reason why you quit don't underestimate yourself you do what you can do and God will do what you can't do take the initiative learn something new throw your net on the other side be ambitious reach ask for help not because you're weak but because you want to remain strong just make up your mind and expect things to get better better for you you need to walk into your future whole conditioned ready to grab the people that believed in you before you made it to the top go back and get them but first you've got to condition yourself come on who am I talking to I'm talking to that person that's tired of where they are you have to find a way you must find a way to get back up this is not the end for you you will not quit do not take this life for granted live every moment knowing you will have no [Music] regrets we are alive and breathing and capable of more than we can ever imagine see we all have these tough moments in life Walt Disney filed bankruptcy seven times and he had two nervous breakdowns Bo he was bent but he wasn't broken no he kept creating someone stole his first cartoon that had great promise and and someone stole it somebody on his team stole it from him his heart was broken but he didn't stay there being angry and bitter and talking about it he created Mickey Mouse had that person not stole his first cartoon Mickey Mouse would not have been born many times when one door closes another door opens but we many time spend time looking at and talking about the closed door we don't see the open [Music] door giving up is easy succumbing to how you feel is easy but hanging in there when you feel like you don't have anything left now that's hard so are you willing to make the tough decisions are you willing to stretch yourself are you willing to get up every time you fall if you're going to get to the top you got to know what it feels like to be at the bottom you got to know what it feels like to crawl through the dirt and the mud and all of the things that you don't feel comfortable in being in what do your eyes see what is your vision I need you to commit to it whatever just went through your mind right now I need it to be big and I need you to commit I need you to be big thinking I need you to commit I need you to make a plan and I need you to follow through that is all success requires it's for you to rise up without failures or challenges there could be no success then you will get up and you will go up miracles happen when you give as much energy to your dreams a a dream of of picking up the pieces and starting all over again the dream of if you get knocked down in life try and land on your back is because if you can look up you can get up a dream that when a doctor looks at you and said you're terminal and you say no you determine the diagnosis God determines the prognosis the dream that this has not come to stay it has come to pass oh when you give as much time and energy to your dream to this new vision of yourself I'll give you all all your eyes can see Focus there's greatness in you there's so many people counting on you you've heard this a million times that this cemetery is full of potential and that's true because that person didn't do what they needed to do through the dash we all are born and we all going to die now I'm going to ask you a question what are you going to do with your dash winning is not about the trophy and the accolades it's about the grind it's about the obstacles it's about the challenges it's about the pain the reason I know so much about winning is because I've had to deal with so much losing everybody wants to win but but in order to know how to win you got to know how to lose cuz you're going to lose more than you're going to win but what do you gain from it you've trained some of the greatest of the greats Michael Jordan Kobe Bryant Charles Barkley Dwayne Wade so you know something about winning you know something about sustained winning over time your mind has to immediately shift back because now you felt the taste of something that you can only get through winning are you willing to do it again and that was one of Kobe's favorite words when it related to winning he says you have to be obsessed with whatever your win is be all in MH three greatest lessons I learned from Michael competing accountability and then winning at all levels winning at all levels what does that mean you just don't win in one Arena you win in your sports you win in business you win in your personal life other people wi because you win it isn't just about you it's about being able to pull the team and show them what it feels like to win this isn't about playing basketball like Michael Jordan did like the late great Kobe Bryant Dwayne Wade this is about having the mindset to win when you fail your feelings give you excuses your mind makes you more resilient you look at when Kobe his first playoff series he had this horrible game but he shot like four or five straight airballs now he could have came back next year and said I got to Pro everybody that's man you're too young why you take oh it was just like you know what that's on me I have to own that moment now I got to prove to myself I can overcome this because now everybody else is doubting me but I can't doubt myself everybody told MJ don't go to North Carolina you'll never play you shouldn't be here and Michael went out and he said I don't need to prove the coach I don't need to prove to buzz I need to prove to myself that I belong here I always say you can have fear but you can't have doubt when I was working with my professional athletes it required me to do a lot of traveling and this story gets me every time so when people say it didn't hurt it still hurts I was packing for a trip my daughter walks into the [Music] room she says daddy why do you travel so much I said sweetheart this is our provide for the family this is how I take care of you and Mom this is how I put food on the table she looks at me says daddy if I eat less will you stay home more now people would think in a fairy tale or most people were that I unpacked my suitcase I'm not going to take this trip I let's go grab some ice cream or let's go out I kept packing them why I had to set an example for her early of what it meant to win and what you have to leave behind sometimes in order to pursue what's unique to you and I wanted her to understand this is who I am and I want to set an example for you I had a conversation with her later on to tell her why I did all those things and in the middle of the conversation she stopped me she goes I get it I understand she saw the results she saw how it brought us closer together she understood my dedication to my craft and what it took to Excel and what it took to be different and what it took to stand by unpopular decisions knowing that every successful person person that I've met every successful person that I know had to make those decisions over and over again there are things that are going to have to take a back seat you're going to have to leave a lot of things behind the hardest thing with Kobe was getting him to stop yeah okay take a break rest yes take the day off that was the most challenging thing with him because over all the years that he had his success it was about go go go and then when I came on I was to complete ey I said go I got to get you to stop his 3:00 a.m. workouts there crazy crazy you know having to keep the Staple Center open later because he wasn't happy the way he performed at that game and I would not leave till he would leave really yeah so we would be we would be in the arena sometimes 2 3:00 in the morning shut up all the lights are turned off except on the court we just keep going we just keep going what is the mindset of winning they both had that so I look at it I look at it three ways so you have individuals that compete M you know a lot of people that compete you know every we all know how to compete everybody knows how to how to you don't for get how to compete we just decide not to anymore but a lot of people compete just to finish then there's individuals that win but they only win one time it's easy to win and then never win [Music] again and then there's people that win at winning you can come back the same cannot come back the same you have to come back different you have to come back better winning wants you to be different winning requires you to do different things winning requires you to think in a different way winning speaks its own language winning has its own way of recognizing [Music] you winning wants you to write your own story stop looking for steps those steps are infite find your own path to winning because as the late great Kobe Bryant said Winning is [Music] Everything it's going to be a dog fight I would love to tell you that on the road to success everything is going to work out it's not it's going to be a dog dog fight on the road to success I lost five aunts to cancer it's a dog fight in the midst of my business I lost aunts I had to go to funerals we had to get on a plane we had to drive we had aunts that are close to my age who died who didn't have insurance we had to raise money a dog fight I had cousins shot in stores execution style shot back in the back head twice it's a dog fight like you don't see that on YouTube you don't see that on my TGI it's a dog fight my wife 3 years ago seven Legions found the pray it's a dog fight it hadn't been easy it's a dog fight it hadn't been the rooll hadn't been success like it's just a pave rooll and like it he go this way it's been rough it's been crooked it's been hard but I made up in my mind God that I will get a reward for the P that I go through I will not stop in the middle of the process I will not be defeated I will not be destroyed I will take everything that happens in my life and I will allow the pain to push me to Greatness you will not break me you will not stop me you will not defeat me the only way I lose is if I quit it's going to be a dog fight and so if you ready to quit then don't get started if you ready to quit don't get get started if you're looking for this easy path don't get started if you think they not going to close the door on you and say no a million times don't get started but every time they close the door I just get excited why cuz I am not a no I'm one yes away I'm young I'm one yes away you can't keep telling me no forever you can't keep denying me forever this type of energy this type of passion you can't stop it you can contain it for wow but you cannot stop this is life and you can't defeat me there there is not you don't have enough power you don't have enough energy you don't have enough strength to stop this contain for a year you might two years you might you do not have hate does not have enough energy to destroy love you cannot destroy this it didn't happen to me at 19 it didn't happen to me at 20 it didn't happen to me at 30 it happened to me at 40 after I have been through all the all the pressure I thought I could go through life said you finish with all the pressure I said yeah and said let him bring on the heat then when I went through the pressure and the heat y'all I thought it was over the Creator said now you ready to get cut you say you wanted to be great son you say you wanted to try travel the world you said you wanted to help people inspire people hey you got to be a diamond and our Armed Forces let's just pick one the Navy for instance the first thing they teach you somebody somebody over here help me out you in the Navy right you going they're teaching you War right what's the first first thing they teach [Music] you the first things they teach you the very first thing they teach you is how to respond when you have a jamed gun and number two how to carry a dead body that's the first thing they teach you they don't teach you how to defend yourself they'll teach you how to swim the first thing they teach you is when your gun is jammed the first thing they teach you is a dead body how to carry a dead body and somebody tell me why would they start you there that's the worst case of scenario that's what you're not prepared for that's what you not think you're not thinking when you go out there and defend yourself that your gun is going to jam you're not you're not thinking when you go out there that your boy going to get killed and you got a drag you're not thinking that so listen to me it's not it's not hardships that hurt us it's not my cousin getting shot twice it's not my cousin spending 50 years in jail it's not about o of cancer it's not my white being diagnosed with seven Legion on a brain that will break you what will prank most people is you didn't prepare for that so when you put all your little goals and all your little dreams together it's not the thing that broke you that broke you it was you never even thought about the fact that you could be broken say it's going to be a dog fight and if you soled this ain't that you want to get out now this is where you like I quit but if you're willing to say I'm not going to quit guarantee you whatever success you want to have you going to have it you will not out grind me you won't out grind me you can be smarter than me you won't out grind me I get up at 3:00 in the morning and do videos I'll do a video at 3:00 I'll do a video at 2:00 I'll do I'm putting out so much dog on content they can't keep up they smarter than me they better than me I I admit I got a GD I ain't the smartest person in the world but I get up and do this for Dei I do this every day for Dei because of what Dei did for me I do this for my kids my daddy wasn't there I do this for my family you can't stop me the reason why some of you could be stopped cuz you doing it for yourself and guess what happen when you get tired when you grinding and grind when you grinding grinding hurts grinding is a sacrifice grinding cost when you're grindy and your body tell you you hurt when you doing it for you you stop you never you never prepared you never you never prepare for worst case scenar and the reason why ET is stand here cuz I'm prepared for it if you know anything about me I still lay on Floors I still eat chips off the floor I still do some stuff that to most people was crazy like e why would you do that because I'm always prepared that we may not live in that house one day one day something might happen and we might have to go back to that and if I have to go back to that it's not going to break me the then we covered the most that for a diamond to be produced it must first go through extreme heat extreme heat extreme pressure are you hearing what I'm telling you for a diamond to be produced it has to go through extreme pressure extreme heat and if that wasn't enough what makes a diamond a diamond is the cut so I put you are put through if you want to be a diamond you must go through extreme pressure if you can't take pressure then you're not a diamond after you go through all the pressure you thought you could not handle and you think it's over then they turn on the heat of all the stuff I've going through in my life eating out of trash cans sleeping in abandoned buildings the worst thing that ever happened is when I went to the hospital and they told me my wife had a chronic illing and she might not be able to walk one day people say ET ask CJ it never broke me why cuzz I've been broken so much defeated so much I've been disappointed so much in my life but I know what it feels like and I can handle it I know it's cold but are you courageous enough to step in the Uncharted Territory beating on your crab day and night I need you to disappear for the next 30 days what does that look like 720 hours dedicated to the Future where focus goes energy flows the problem is you put too much much energy into Netflix you put too much energy into distractions you put too much energy into entertainment you put too much energy into things that are not feeding your purpose and Destiny can you walk away from everything life has knocked you to the ground you have survived the greatest traumas of your life how tired are you of where you are right now how bad do you want to get to that next level what are you willing to do what are you willing to sacrifice what are you willing to give up who are you willing to let go to get where it is that you want to be see everybody wants to be successful everybody wants to climb mountains everybody wants to be praised and celebrated but nobody wants to sacrifice nobody wants to put in the work nobody wants to let go of every single distraction can you learn how to say no to what's hurting you you know to what's stopping you no to the people that don't believe in you The Fakes and the phonies and the people that keep saying that they'll support you when you get there but they leave you when you arrive why are you here and what are you going to do about it because the truth of the matter is we have a purpose we have a destiny we have fulfillment we've got connections to make we've got people to meet we've got rooms to walk in we've got tables to sit at and I'm just wondering if you are will willing if you are courageous enough if you have the faith if you're bold enough to sit down for 30 days and write down what it is that's killing you can you walk away from everything for 30 days just one month 7 20 hours imagine who you could be in 30 days you got One Life to Live rain sleep or snow the time is now I got three words for you shut it down log out of the social media get off the internet unplug and evaluate where you are and where you're supposed to be and I know you're broken and I know you're tired and I know you're weary and I know you're confused and and I know that you've got questions and I know you're fractured and I know you're bleeding in places nobody can see but if you shut it down you can heal you're standing at the precipice the edge of the greatest move in your life and and and The Time Is Now like never before to take a leap of faith it takes Faith to jump off of The Edge it takes Faith to step into your purpose it takes Faith to step into your destiny it takes Faith to pull away from everything that is familiar to step in the Uncharted Territory to become the person you were born to be it takes Faith Can you disappear for 30 days the first person that needs to be influenced in your life is you it's you you can't lead anybody you can't go anywhere unless you have awakened yourself on the inside to follow a specific plan write it out I need you to disappear here life is kned you to the ground there are people that are tried to bury you alive and you survive are you bold enough are you radical enough in your hunger and your thirst to go after what it is that you believe is yours are you crazy enough are you courageous enough to disappear for 30 days come back and shock the world can you suffer now that you live the rest of your life a champion while the rest of the world is sleeping you are wide awake and you are on the attack for your success it doesn't start with them and they it starts with me so I'm just wondering when you going to make it personal are you really prepared to grind it out everybody wants Public Authority but nobody wants private discipline when your habits change behind the scenes when your private life begins to shift when you put aside the things that are not serving you if it's going to be personal make it personal don't just be great in public be great in private success doesn't always have to be loud sometimes it's necessary to be quiet and just move are you really prepared to do what you need to do to get what you want out of your life you got to live you have to breathe you have to eat this purpose every single day you are either losing ground or gaining ground you are not going to win anything until you understand what struggle means you can never quit but you got to work hard in silage you got to work where nobody's watching you got to sacrifice behind the scenes when you take it personal your private life changes success is a process the process comes before success the struggle comes before the process everybody wants to contribute to Destiny but nobody wants to be committed to Destiny what kind of work are you putting in behind the scenes what can you conquer in the dark how personal is your purpose this is is what we call grinding than [Music] silence not everyone needs to understand your true motives not everyone needs to understand your purpose not everyone needs to understand your mission but the truth is it's about passion it's about discipline it's about awareness it's about accountability that's right ladies and gentlemen you got to be accountable for your actions but are you prepared to grind it out are you prepared to dig a little bit deeper are you prepared to fight a littleit B harder are you prepared to put in overtime somewhere along the line you lost your footing you lost your place it got cold too cold for you and see one thing about an achiever is rain sleep or snow they keep building but you have not sacrificed you have not suffered you are not committed when you are committed you give everything you have every single week every single day every single hour every single minute 720 hours a month you are beating on your craft even when you're at work you're dreaming you're thinking you're Vision casting you're writing it down making it plain communicating to your destiny connections so that it can become a real real ity if you can see it in your head you can hold it in your hands but the question I want to ask you is are you committed now it's time to grind now it's time to fight now it's time to believe now it's time to know that your success story has yet to be told don't sit back and have a pity party don't sit back and wait for an opportunity to happen it is up to you to go out there and get the opportunities you want success then go get it you want to be better then be better you want something more than what you have right now then you got to have the desire within your heart and go strong and go with everything you have I don't know who I'm talking to I don't know what you've been called to do what you've been called to accomplish what you've been destined to build who you've been called to be connected to but the dots will connect every single moment that you have is an opportunity of a lifetime are you committed or are you just it the choice is yours but this time make it [Music] personal hear my voice know that you do have some work to do the work that you do will determine the outcome in the end but do it in Silence the ones that need to be a part of your development they will always be there and the ones that doubted you I'm talking about the naysayers just simply say sh be quiet cuz you have nothing to do with my success you got to give 110% and get it to a point where all you got to say is you don't have nothing to do with my success the noise that you making can't stop my purpose the noise that you making can't stop my fight the noise that you making can't stop my grind your noise is just empty it means nothing to my success I didn't get it overnight and yes I had many sleepless nights and I had amazing dreams of what I could become can you stretch yourself can you condition yourself come on can you believe again can you see it again can you write again can you make this thing personal that it doesn't start with the people connected to you it starts with you it doesn't even start with your past it starts with where you are and where you're going can you look ahead can you stretch forth can you condition yourself can you prepare yourself for the next thing come on make it personal but you got to work hard in silence you got to take it personal I make this thing personal so while you're sitting around second guessing yourself my beautiful people get back on your grind be productive keep your your head up high stay in the moment live every moment move in silence and from the bottom of my heart conduct your business you got to learn how to move in silence you may be average you may be ordinary but you have the opportunity every single day to make extraordinary decisions and what you do today will determine your future the future is very expensive the currency to get to the Future the bre bridge that we build it is built on your daily decisions your habits your programming the way that you think the way that you talk the way that you walk Blood Sweat tears sacrifice people that you have to let go sleep that you have to lose multiple jobs that you have to work hours on end of study beating on your craft every single day it's not easy but it's worth it there are going to be nights to cry yourself to sleep there are going to be times you're going to want to throw in the towel but if you keep going your future self will thank you if you could hear your future self talking to you now the future you would say thank you for not giving up thank you for not throwing in the towel thank you for not allowing the Despair and the anguish and the anger and the bitterness and the jealousy and the ego to E eat away at your progress and your perseverance and your ability to travail and endure I believe in the future number one you got to get crystal clear about who you believe you've been destined to be because everybody's looking to manifest we are all looking to evolve we are all looking to level up what is your life's purpose what is your destiny why on Earth are you [Music] here what is it that you can do today to get closer to the Fulfillment of that future to get closer to the manifestation of the future what are you doing today what are you giving today remember why you have to let some people go remember why you're working so hard towards this thing your pressing you're pushing you're clawing you're dragging yourself through mud and through murky water come on remember why you're doing what you're doing it may be difficult it may seem impossible the moment that you discover why you're here spend the rest of your life executing there are going to be times where you give everything you have and everything that you have is not enough push through the pain push through the anguish push to the Brokenness do not stop it's the no equit mentality wherever you are now is not where you're going to end up you are special and you've been designed to change the world so many of of us want so many different things and our life is filled with entertainment and Recreation and people that we have not appraised have you appraised your connections have you done a scrupulous evaluation of everyone in your life are they assets or are they liabilities yes you want the future what's your plan and then the moment that you create the plan and you've ironed out all the thinks and you're crystal clear and you've got this plan you've got this aim this target but you got to stay committed with tears in your eyes you got to be committed when your brain is hurting you got to be committed when you haven't gotten sleep in a few days you got to be committed you got to plow through that depression that heaviness that weariness and you got to cling to the joy of the thought of the future that if you finish this course then there is a reward at the end of this pain you may feel as though you are not able to breathe now you may be inundated with responsibility and it seems as though there is no way out of this you have to be grateful for the ground that you've gained and guard the ground that you've gained celebrate the small wins if we keep looking at the big picture if we keep looking at the end game if that's all we fix our eyes on then we'll get off kilter we'll lose our footing and we'll walk around discouraged because you're not going to just wake up in one day and fulfill Destiny it's the process that's perfecting us it's the ends and the outs and the nuances it's the song and the dance between Destiny and the journey and the process and the promise and we've got to learn how to execute the day give us this day got to learn how to execute the day get you conquered the day I'm not where I'm supposed to be but I'm not where I used to be and so we've got to celebrate the small winds those mental wins those emotional wins those relational wins those financial wins those spiritual wins we've got we've got to celebrate celebrate and then we've got to be kind not only to others throughout our process but we've got to be kind to ourselves the problem with many of us is that we're not kind to ourselves be kind to yourself you can be assertive you can be direct you can be firm but you can have a little empathy and a little kindness not only on others but on yourself because the truth of the matter is you are not going to always feel like doing what you were designed to do okay and so we've got to condition ourselves for the stretch with gratitude we're going to need that coupled with patience the future takes time to manifest the future takes time because you are beautifully equipped to get the results you are currently getting and there are some bigger results that you are after and in order to get those results in order to manifest that very specific future you're going to have to acquire a different set of skills a different work mentality it's going to require you to become a different version of yourself elevation is all over you okay next you got to seize the opportunity there are so many opportunities for you to grow so many opportunities for you to learn so many opportunities for you to share for you to give for you to understand for you to think for you to be quiet for you to speak and you've got to know when to do what to do why to do this is the Paradigm of the future the future has a specific Paradigm that you have to execute you have to walk in this you're going to to have to move from limited beliefs and you're going to have to move into Limitless believing you have to know your boundaries establish your guardrails you got to know your weaknesses and your strengths do not stop it's the no equip mentality I want to talk to someone out there who is thinking about quitting and giving up this is for [Music] you there are going to be times when you are down and you feel that you are alone there going to be times when darkness is going to Blind you from your truth but how much pain can you endure please don't give up remember this when it gets tough you got to get a little tougher pain will push you beyond your threshold will remind you that you are still alive you feel like you can't carry y your body is getting a little numb your muscles feel weakened there are going to be some setbacks but that doesn't mean you can't come back put yourself back together if you're down lift yourself up once again take a moment and just look up I know that you feel like you're not strong enough right now but I'm here to let you know anything that is in your way you have the ability to move it out of your way you wonder why is it hurting so bad because you've given so much of yourself maybe this pain wasn't my enemy maybe this pain was building me up so when it gets tough you get tougher it's your turn you shouldn't feel guilty it's your turn it's your time you've blessed everybody else you've set everybody else for Success you've compromised you for them and look where you are it's time for you and so for a lot of you you're not doing nothing because you don't have any purpose right now you don't have a sense of purpose you're not waking up for nobody and I need you to get that engine I need that drive because you know what to do you you're the right person to do it but you just can't seem to get out of bed you can't seem to do what you're supposed to do every time you come up against a trial or a tribulation you let it stop you got to find your why and your why is what's going to start you and the problem with some of you in this room you don't have no drive you ain't got nothing pushing you you ain't got no reason for waking up in the morning you ain't got no reason for pushing past that pain you have no reason you better find one before you get out of here today you better go inside you still looking outside for the stuff that's already inside you still looking for someone to save you when you already your superhero you looking for for some information from somebody when you already got what you need in your head it's just time for you to get up and be the best version of you it's not an option and the reason why some of you are not where you supposed to be you've given yourself an option you've given yourself an out you've given yourself an excuse you've given yourself room not to do it but you have what it takes give me some energy I can I can I will I will I must I must come on I can I can come on I will I will I must I must I can let's go let's go let's go let's [Applause] go I can means I have the ability to do it I got what it take I have the ability to do it I will I have the willpower to make it happen I must my wife needs me I must my son need I must my daughter needs me we can we will and we must get through this let's go I want to ask you a question seriously this going to be hard cuz some of you young and you like still worried about what people think about you so you don't want to be honest in front of people want you to think about what level you want are you giving 90 80 70 listen see what I'm saying for a minute I I gave everything I got I have no more to give like I really put 120 into this so raise your hand if you're giving 120 like I ain't got no more to give e e I'm giving I'm giving a 100 e i I know I got I'm just doing at least what coach want me to do I'm doing everything coach want me to do I'm giving about 90% he I'm be real I'm giving about 90% let me see your head of my effort let me see your hands I'm giving about 80% let me see see a hand 70% let me see a hand I need you for you to admit where you are what is it going to take for you to give every single thing you got what is that going to take it's consistency and so I got to go to bed at a certain time I got to wake up at a certain time there's certain things I can't eat certain things I can't watch certain things I can't do and I'm talking about that grind I got an opportunity you got an opportunity so here's the deal when you have an opportunity why would you give 80% when you have an opportunity somebody answer that for me y'all y'all talk why would you give 80% 70% why wouldn't you always give 120% this right here for a lot of y'all y'all ain't got no discipline it's killing you it's killing you and you don't even realize it's killing you it's killing you if you're not giving 120 I'm not mad at you my job is not to dog you you out cuz once we go back out my goal is to come here and take you to that next level from today on you play whatever your best game is you play that level every single time it doesn't mean you going to score every time but the effort hasn't you can always give 120% effort life going to go on regardless mental toughness it is in those times we have to be stronger than we've ever been before why because they need us more than they ever needed us before for I just want to make sure that the light we got left that is sweeter than the light that if I wasn't focused and I wasn't doing what I was supposed to do and we going to make it the best possible it's your life you got it what you going to do with it I want to ask you a question seriously how many of youall in this room you like yo E it is my life but I ain't been in control of it as much as I should be in control of it and after the day I'm taking more control of it let me see your hand be honest with me come on let me see your hands and so you looked up to who when you play ball like who were the people you looked up to Kobe Kobe Kobe LeBron CP D way Kobe I was the same thing with me with Dr M King in Washington like all those people I got a dream when I saw Malcolm like boom and I saw hundreds of black men boom like let's go I'm like like I could do that and then when I found doubt I could make money doing it and I could take care of my family I was like Showtime like you only got one shot e so here what I'm saying opportunity you have an opportunity of a lifetime when you understand you have an opportunity you just you play a little [Music] different here's what I want to tell you if you going to get it you going to have to have that dog you going to have to have that dog you going to have to be that dude that say I'm not just going with skills there's a there's a one type of dude who feel like because he's gifted that it's just an automatic role for him let me tell y'all something you are gifted but you better humble yourselves you got skill and you got will two total different things you were born with certain things but to get to the next level and not just get to the next level to stay at the next level you got to have will when you get to that next level so when you play you have to compete it's Sports it's basketball why wouldn't you give a 120% talk to me what would what would make you not give 120% you got to answer it you play that level every single time it doesn't mean you going to score every time but the effort has it you can always give 120% effort you can't dictate if the ball going to always is go in you can't dictate what kind of game you going to have you can't dictate how your body is going to respond to moving around but you can dictate your what you can dictate your good you can dictate your you can always give 120% effort like here's the deal when y'all go play tonight tomorrow my goal is for you to go 120 so you going to have the right people in here helping y'all but if you do giving me 70 80 90 you ain't giving me 120 you not going to get out of this experience what you're supposed to get out that's my job why don't you always give 120% effort it's your turn I know the feeling no this not that fake lion tigers and bears motivation this that growing up in the slums watching your mom nod on the couch as you go to school we want more we want more out of this life and if you're not willing to give that to us we're going to take it to have an underdog mentality like everybody's already counted you out like everybody's already told you you don't have what it takes you don't measure up that what you started you will not finish claw your way into your future fight for your goal give it everything you have because you have nothing to lose life's going to hit you in your mouth and you got to do me a huge favor your why has to be greater than that knockdown and I love it Buster Douglas got knocked out nobody ever got knocked out by Mike Tyson and ever got back up it was almost a 10 count he was stumbling hey with four 3 two and he one and ding ding ding Say by a bell he goes to his Corner the whole world is like y That's it once he comes back out that's it Mike's going to just Hammer him and exactly that Mike Tyson came out like I got him I got this kid up against the Rope listen to me many of you right now life's got you up against the Rope you can't give up you can't give in listen to me if it was easy everybody would do it and if life's got you backed up I need you to do it Buster Douglas did Buster Douglas start fighting back what an uppercut by Douglas and sound goes tyon the world was shot Goliath has been knocked down what happened and they went to bust Douglas and they asked bust Douglas simply like what happened and bust dougas said listen to me it's real simple before my mother died she told the whole world that I was going to beat Mike Tyson in two days before the fight my mother died Buster Douglas had he had a decision to make when his mother died he could die with his mother or he made a decision I can wake up and I can live for Mom and he knocked Mike Tyson out simply because his why was greater than that punch his why was greater than the defeat his why was greater than his trial and his tribulation and I'm telling you if you don't know what your why is and your why isn't strong you going to get knocked out every single day a man is not a man by his age a man is a man by his experiences what he goes through what he fights through that's what makes a woman you that's what make the greatest of all time I won't end my life in a bottomless pit I'mma rise and I'm going show the world that greatness is obtained by the man that never stop pushing I believe and I stand on it to this day as long as the sun is shining on on my face and not on My Grave I got an opportunity of a [Music] lifetime when you fight as if you are already dead you are without restraint you are a disruptor you break all the rules because you have nothing to lose you are desperate for resurrection and you will do anything that is required to accomplish the goal you are setting out to achieve I don't care how good you are I don't care how talented you are cuz Bruce Lee said it best a warrior is a average person with laser like focus a warrior is a average person with laser like Focus don't you worry about your ability don't you worry about opportunity I need you to be a warrior right now and let your work get your opportunity let your work get your praise let your work open up doors let your work get people paying attention let your work getting the whole world to notice you got to work stop thinking stop procrastinating and you got to work I need you to rise up to fulfill your dreams rise up and attack your goals there's no time to sleep no time to nap no time to waste if you fall asleep wake up and rise up again you should work so hard as you collapse in the bed at night sometimes in the afternoon you so weary from grinding that your body just collapses that's okay have sweet sleep but when you wake up grind again now it's your time now is your season now is the moment to capture the vision to win any battle he must fight as if you are already dead you better go inside you still looking outside for the stuff that's already inside you still looking for someone to save you when you already your superhero you looking for some information from somebody when you already got what you need in your head it's just time for you to get up and be the best version of you you don't believe that you have the potential and the capability to be the best of yourself so why you just sit back and you wait for somebody to Pat you on the shoulder and say it's okay at least you gave it your best your best ain't good enough your best don't work you need to go beyond your best you need to go beyond the level you need to let the world know that you exist you need to let the world know that you made different you built different you're stronger you're more passionate you believe in yourself when the rest of the world shut you down you woke up the next day you say I got this I do this I breathe this I am this you can't stop me here's what success is all about you need these three things are you ready you need skill set mindset and opportunity you need to rise up and understand what success is all about skill set work on your skill mindset work on your mentality baby and your opportunity will come there will always be a million reasons to say no a million reasons to play it safe a million reasons to stay comfortable but you won't achieve your dreams staying in your comfort zone you won't accomplish your goals by living in that glass cage you built around you that limits you from realizing your potential so take the hammer smash the glass jump off the cliff and build your wings on the way down you'll learn to fly before you fall if you are listening to this and feeling scared you should feel scared accomplishing a dream isn't nor should it ever be easy you know some individuals like it easy they like it put on a pedestal for but some of us got to grind we got to dig it we got to make it happen for ourselves you see no we never did it for the money we did it to stop the blood we we did it to stop the pain we did it to turn the showers Into Sunshine we won't stop until our family no longer struggles we won't stop until we're number one this will not be easy but in the end you will win and you know why I'm so passionate because the rest of the world don't understand my passion the other world don't want my passion they think my passion is too much I'm going to give you a little bit more you know why because passion is what makes me who I am today what are you and what are you prepared to do are you prepared to fight are you prepared to bleed are you prepared to work it's not an option and the reason why some of you are not where you supposed to be you've given yourself an option you've given yourself an out you've giving yourself an excuse you've given yourself room not to do it I'm not speaking speaking no more to entertain I'm not speaking to help people I'm speaking so my girl never have to go back to work again I'm speaking so that the MS don't kill her I got a different dy I got a different why I got to make this $1.8 million so my girl can quit for the rest of her life I'm taking all gigs let's go let's go let's go and the problem with some of you in this room you don't have no drive you ain't got nothing pushing you you ain't got no reason for waking up in the morning you ain't got no reason for pushing past that pain you have no reason you better find one before you get out of here today our lives are so short there is no time to waste I get up at three cuz it's silent it's easier to be focused when the environment is focused most of you wake up and you try to make money listen to me if you would make you money would come to you okay you missed that whole thing I just said if you would make you a better person you'd make more money now watch what I do the way people spend their money or treat their money is how I treat my time all right let me explain what I mean to you I make sure that every single day in that 24-hour period that I'm getting a whole bunch of WI end so I'm supposed to be doing this at this time doing this at this time doing this at this time doing this at this time the problem with most of you you waking up and you worshiping money man I was in the back with Cole Cole was like e i got this opportunity for you I got this opportunity I got this opportunity when you become number one you have to chase opportunities so I became number one not meaning I'm better than nobody else it mean I just mastered my craft to the point that I know what I do that don't nobody else do I know that I have a way of doing in this industry what nobody else does and I've picked out in this industry I've crafted out my own room and your problem is you at 50% knocking on doors trying to get the result somebody at 100% And you wondering why it ain't working because while you're doing what they're doing you're not they are so why do I put more emphasis on time than I put on money cuz they print money they don't print time no I'm going to say it one more time you are worshiping the thing that they make every day they don't make time every day ain't nobody PR time I I ain't met them yet I Ain't Met no billionaire I Ain't Met no trillionaire I Ain't Met no institution I Ain't Met no company I Ain't Met nobody printing money so why are you spending more time on the thing they print every day then the thing you know why cuz you're not developed and you following other people when you understand that the the real thing is time and you ain't got a lot of it you start focusing on your time and when you get your time right money will come some people go to divide once every 10 years I'm going every other month why when you master yourself you put yourself in a position that a lot of people can't do what you do and then you become rare and diamonds are rare that's why they cost so much if you would become rare you just like everybody else you look just like like you act just like you just like everybody else when you become you and you become rare you become a when you leave this room you will take full ownership and the reason why I say it's my fault even when it's not my fault because when I say it's your fault I give you power I give you control over my life and I will never give another human control over my life it's my fault it's my problem I'm coming up with the solution for it stop being average average people can't forgive average people can't let go the great we do whatever it [Music] takes those who have a why can bear almost any High how did I become number one in the world found out my wife had multiple sclerosis they told my wife listen to me y'all my wife so Beast SM they told my wife she had Ms she like B then they told her she had to quit her job and she tear came out her ey the doctor said you don't have insurance she said yeah I got insurance she look at her like why you crying if you got insurance my wife's identity is in her waking up and working every day she went to school to be a registered nurse she went to school to do breast and cervical cancer she didn't want to be at home she don't want to be no home wife she literally went to school to be a nurse she loves her job but when they told her she had to quit my wife's like I don't know what I'm I'm going do I said how much you make she told me 5,000 I said 5,000 * 12 how much 60 times 30 years how much 1.8 million I woke up every day hunting 1.8 [Music] million I'm number one in the world not cuz I'm a better speaker I'm not number one in the world cuz I I look the best because I dress the best I'm not number one because my my my anunciation is the best because I use the best words cuz I got the best s structure cuz I come from the best background I got I I be c number one cuz I woke up and I 100 job the 1.8 mil so my wife will never have to work again if you waking up every day and you want a Rolls Roy you ain't about to beat me if you waking up for a bitley you ain't about to beat me if you waking up for a gold chain you ain't about to beat me if you woke up for a r you ain't about to beat me cuz you going after material stuff I'm going after my food I'm going after to my baby I'm going after to my high school sweetheart I'm going after my kids so they can see their mama and they mama don't die I'm making sure they mama don't get in a wheelchair if I can help you if they mama don't lose her sight if I can help it if her mama don't lose her memory so I start studying Ms like I had I start studying Ms your problem is you're not studying this product like it like your life found on it like your life depend on it you playing with this product you know what you like the people that work for me that want to check and they never end up getting it but the people who own who work for my company act like they own it [Music] wake up every single day making sure she don't have to go back to work so watch this I started studying and I found out two things one is stress so I had to take her out of a stressful situation and then the other thing was vitamin D and I literally people say bro why you move to Southern California cuz my wife got it m I literally type what's the best place in the world for vitamin D Southern California what's the best temperature in the world in the United States of America San Diego California it don't never it don't go 99 100 and then back down it's right there I said San Diego I'm hunt you down you moving to San Diego why I don't care about San Diego my why my wife in the first year last year we were in San Diego my wife said to me we back to Michigan when the summer came my wife said you know something I said what she said I never took a nap in California say what you mean by that she said the sun energized and I never needed to take a nap you going to come after me the reason why most of you can't do what you do you get keep getting knocked down you keep quitting because whatever your why is it ain't stronger than the beat down you take whatever the beat down whatever life is throwing at you whatever punches is blow you whatever's happening it ain't that it ain't deep enough for you to wake up like you getting punched and you feel that pain and you like ain't no need to get up no and I feel you you need to stay down cuz life going to beat your you talking about making millions life going to beat be you down you talking about making millions multi-millions billions life going to beat you down so so when you feel a pain and you get knocked down stay down if you got a wi is deeper than your pain every trial every tribul I will my way through it I don't care if it's cancer I will my way through it I don't care if it's Ms I will my way through it I don't care if I'm struggling in school and I'm trying to get a degree I will my way through it I don't care if you fail the boards go again I don't care if you fail the law exam go again will your way through some things you can skill yourself through some stuff you got to will your way [Music] through without a vision there's no Direction without direction there's no progress reason why you struggling getting up cuz you don't have nothing to get up [Music] for I don't know who I'm talking to I don't know what you've been call called to do what you've been called to accomplish what you've been destined to build it's time to take a deep dive into the deeper parts of yourself the parts of you that nobody sees when you take something personal it gets personal I'm not just putting on the front I'm not just here in public to make you smile and applaud me and support me and make comments and Share my video I'm not here I make this thing personal everything that I do in public I've done it in private so I'm just asking you don't just scream on a stage or be connected to millionaires or strive to be a CEO or an investor or a politician or an athlete or a musician or a singer I'm just wondering can you conquer in the dark when you make it personal what you do behind closed doors matters so I'm just wondering when you going to make it personal when you going to make it about what it looks like that nobody sees the part of you that nobody sees where's your Integrity behind the scenes come on where are your values behind the scenes what do your habits look like behind the scenes come on what kind of work are you putting in behind the scenes come on drop down and give me 50 come on write it again come on believe it again come on sing again record the song again come on I'm talking to that athlete I'm talking to that musician come on who are you out there that philosopher that engineer that thought leader that critical thinker come on that Captain of industry I'm talking to you you when your personal life lines up with your purpose then Public Authority is yours you want influence I'm not talking about just Fame I'm talking about influence the power to change people's lives can you stret yourself can you condition yourself come on can you believe again can you see it again can you write again can you make this thing personal that it doesn't start with the people connected to you it starts with you it doesn't doesn't even start with your past it starts with where you are and where you're going can you look ahead can you stretch forth can you condition yourself can you prepare yourself for the next thing come on make it personal it doesn't start with everybody it starts with me because people will leave you for dead and then what's your wife what did God put in you release it to the world if it's going to be personal make it personal don't just be great in public be great in private what you do dark if I pulled up your search history what would I find would you still be an example to the world if I went through your closet if I went through your basement if I went through your attic if I went through your CER Council if I went through your house how personal is your purpose every single day you are either losing ground or gaining ground the choice is yours but this time make it personal if you're going to do it if you're going to accomplish it if you're going to achieve it even if you're confused and it's cold and it looks crazy and you're going to need to know the difference between contribution and commitment because there are two very different things see everybody wants to contribute to Destiny but nobody wants to be committed to Destiny you want to contribute to the idea that you could be something you want to contribute to the idea that something's going to come of the sacrifice that you have made but you have not sacrificed you have not suffered you are not committed when you are committed you give everything you have every single week every single day every single hour every single minute 7 20 hours a month you are beating on your craft even when you're at work you're dreaming you're thinking you're Vision casting you're writing it down making it PL communicating to your destiny connections so that it can become a reality if you can see it in your head you can hold it in your hands but the question I want to answer is are you committed I'm just wondering if you are bold enough Dearing enough if you can believe in your dream again if you can get committed see when you get personal when you make it personal Everything Changes because you see you made it about your girlfriend last time you made it about your boyfriend last time you made it about your kids last time and your kids starting acting up and then you let the dream go it's got to start with you and God first listen God put a gift inside of everybody and it's our responsibility to release it to the world this time is [Music] personal so do it for your loved ones do it for your wife do it for your husband do it for your children do it for generations to come come on after you're dead and gone what will they say about what you did yes there's so many people depending on you but it's got to start with you and the man upstairs what he put in you make it personal everything in my life breathes and eats this purpose that I have I got to make it personal it's it's it starts with me when it starts with me it ends with me I don't know where you are in your game of life you may be in your third quarter you may be in your fourth quarter come on you're not going to live forever not in this world come on you may be in your first quarter your your second half and this time it's got to be personal see last time you were just running through the PLS last time you were just running the songs that you rehearsed in rehearsal last time you were just going through the motions and you got numb come on and you got tired and weary and now you're broken and bitter and angry cuz you lost and I'm just wondering if you're courageous enough bold enough if you have enough Faith come on if you have enough inside of you resilience to come back to the seene and make it personal it's rain sleep or snow keep building and so this time it's got to be personal and you may not feel qualified you may not feel like you educated enough you may not feel like you're connected enough you may not think that enough people are aware of you cognizant of you because you don't have a blue cheick and you're not a celebrity yet but you got to work hard and silence you got to work when nobody's watching you got to sacrifice behind the scenes you got to take it personal when you take make it personal your private life changes everybody wants Public Authority but nobody wants private discipline when your habits change behind the scenes when your private life begins to shift when you put aside the things that are not serving you if you can make it personal it's personal it doesn't start with them and they it starts with me it starts with me so make it personal Let Yourself Go fall free into it step into it you are worthy you are an unrepeatable miracle and there is none like you in all the Earth there will never be another you your DNA your fingerprint come on your gate your presence your authenticity come on you're special you're special and you're [Music] necessary do you just want to win or are you absolutely committed because when you are committed when you have made the decision that I am going to win it's no longer a want it is a must and when something becomes a must when you become obsessed with what you've been called to do you will sacrifice people that are committed are willing to make the sacrifices and so asks of the question have you s sacrifice everything are you paying the price you got to pay the price for what you want everything in your future comes at a cost I am acquainted with loss pain lack and famine I want to win now because winning has everything to do with your mentality it has everything to do with how you talk how you walk how you think how you overcome winning it's not just a crown or a trophy it is the process process it is who I am becoming and that is how we win if you are going to hit your goal and if you're going to punch through your targets you have got to see differently you have got to think differently you are going to have to connect differently you're going to have to communicate differently one day I just decided I'm going to raise my standards make a decision raise your expectations you got to go to the next level there's always another [Music] level you've been in this place of misery long enough it's time to win there is no other option winning is a non-negotiable it's what I do and all of a sudden Wham no longer is it just what you do it is who you have become because there are some people that win and then there are winners there are people who win there are people who lose and there are people who are winners this ain't just something I do it is who I have become I am a [Music] winner [Music]

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Length: 181min 46sec (10906 seconds)

Published: Tue Dec 05 2023