Mom Picks WORK Over DAUGHTER, She Instantly Regrets It | Dhar Mann

hey I'm heading out pulling another alider for the McKenzie account not tonight he's the lead in her school play so I'm going to knock out a little early well after the time you put in the last few months you deserve it thank you hopefully it's all worth it Mark has been dangling that promotion in front of me for over a year you're his right hand you get the BP job on the back don't even sweat it self to break leg bye Fiona what are you doing playe getting ready to start I'm sure the teachers are asking everybody to take their Mark but what about Mom I'm sure she's on the way you promised she'd make it this time I know um I bet she's stuck in traffic I'll text her the only thing I want you to worry about is remembering those lines okay okay okay okay now get you a spot get you a spot [Music] [Music] Emily you're still here that's great listen uh I got the research in for the McKenzie account I need you to give me your notes by the end of the day oh actually I was just about to head out my daughter has a school play tonight remember they're going to EXP ECT a response for saying in the morning I need that tonight I wish I could but I promised my kid and I can't let her down again you know Emily I think your daughter will get over it I mean really what's more important uh School play or your job now if you want that VP position I'm going to have to see that you're committed and that's going to require some sacrifice so can I count on you or don't I give that promotion to someone else is going to put in hours I'll I'll have the notes to you as soon as possible that's what I like to hear it's a little stuffy in here a stop Wast to drop so let the paint be spread painting the Roses R we're painting the roses red pardon me Mr 3 why must we paint them red the queen she likes them red if she's so white instead it be off our [Music] head I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry I know I'm late did I miss it you were supposed to be here 2 hours ago oh baby something came up at work and I just couldn't get out of it that's what you always say I tried texting what happened I was getting ready to leave and then Mark came into my office you know how he is oh listen kiddo I am really really sorry about tonight I would have never missed it unless it was work it's hard sometimes when you're a grownup and you have to do things that you don't want to I know tonight's a bummer but I'm going to be there for so many other things starting with our camping trip next weekend but what if work needs you I already got the time off approved and there's nothing they can do or say that would make me miss it just think we're going to go hiking and swimming and we're going to sit around the fire telling scar stores no well we eat your favorite spores yeah pink promise I promise all right almost done loading the car and then we can go sounds good I cleared my email and I put my out of office message we are on you don't know how much I need this vacation yeah Mom when we get there can we please hike to the waterfall we can do whatever you want Fe yay oh who is that my boss oh M ignore him that guy has you working weekends nights holidays he can survive without you for a few days now turn your phone off we're getting ready to go let's go just give me a second it it shouldn't it shouldn't take too long no Mom hello um baby girl it's okay um take that to the car I'm right behind you hey Mark good uh Emily you're there look I got a call from the McKenzie group and they want to meet with you and me over there report that you sent in can you be with us let's say at giovan's at uh 1:00 I I can't I'm on vacation well reschedule because I need you to come in I I need to spend time with my family with my daughter I put in this request ages ago you you approved it is there any way you can handle it someone else can handle it until I get back this is your biggest account Emily I don't understand the push back on it I'm I'm not it's just I haven't had a day off in over a year and I've been planning this vacation for months Emily do you know how many days I've had off in the last 3 years zero cuz that's what it takes to get ahead what if I call into the meeting and attend remotely from from the car or something no it's not going to work they want to see in person look if you want to prove that you're capable to be VP and that you U you're loyal to the company you'll be a giovanis yeah yeah okay all right girl I'll see you at one so uh slight change of PL let me guess you can't go it's just one quick lunch meeting and I can drive up and meet you guys after you know you always make plans with us and then you bail at the last second sweetheart it's work I have no choice everyone has a choice and actually you have made yours Fe wait I don't know what to do and the worst part about it is that she's right now call him back he can't make these kinds of Demands of you you are entitled to life outside of work it's not that simple I could lose a promotion or get demoted or even fired I just feel like in order to be a good employee I have to fail as a mom and in order to be a good mom I have to fail as an employee M you are amazing at your job you are a wonderful mom okay okay is this crazy guy with his crazy expectations he expects you to be a robot to not have a life outside of work that's how it was at my other job and the job before that answering emails after hours being available 24/7 and it's not just Mark everybody's like that I just wish you and fee should go I have to deal with this work meeting have fun okay no no no no no we can wait for you no no that's okay T Fe I'm so sorry and I'll talk to her later I have to go get [Music] changed thank you so much thank you so what would your recommendation be to address the higher turnover rates we've been experiencing we pray salaries across the board but still it only seems to have a slight impact on attrition I've been giving that some thought and analyzing market trends and I have some great suggestions that I think would be game changers for employee retention wow I I cannot wait to hear your ideas you can grab that if you need it's no problem no no no it's okay we put over our clients first right am right right okay anyway as I was saying okay [Music] I'm sorry you you don't mind if I take this it's my husband and he's camping with our daughter and Emily we're in the middle of something it's fine I have a daughter too so we can fely understand yeah no worries okay thank you so as she was saying just this attrition thing is just hey is everything all right right what is she okay I'll be there as soon as I can I'm so sorry I have to go my daughter fell and she's in the emergency room oh my gosh is she okay um it sounds like a broken arm but I'll find out more when I get there is there anything we can do oh no that's okay but if you don't mind I'll call you on Monday and then we can pick up right where we left off of course of course course take your time take care of your daughter thank you your daughter's okay I I'll call you later Merk you know could you please just excuse me for a second I I'll be right back okay all right thank you you imagine me Emily what are you doing this is your account you need to get in there and try and Salvage it if we can what I told you this is an important meeting it's a million dooll client and this needs to be your priority my daughter is in the hospital your husband is with your daughter right well yeah so you going down there what's that going to do make her heal faster your kid can wait this can't look do you have any idea what it looks like when you leave a median like that for you for the firm it looks unprofessional these people do not hire you to be a parent they hire you because of your expertise I told you my child is in the ER I I don't have time for this Emily if you walk through that door you can kiss that position as VP goodbye my daughter is more important than any paycheck or promotion I don't care about your threats anymore I quit you quit with all the money we pay you good luck trying to find another job this good V there you are are you hurt are you okay I came as soon as I I'm sure you did sweetheart I swear when I got the call you weren't there when I fell never here when I need you what honey I know I've been dropping the ball lately but you're the most important thing in the world you always say that and then work cost well that won't be a problem anymore I quit what wait what what I'll explain later at home but the most important thing is that you come first always what what about when you get a new job well I won't take one that won't respect that I have a life outside of work because from here on out it's family over everything I promise you mean it see I've always meant it I just haven't been doing a good job at showing it but now we're going to have all sorts of time to spend together yeah and you know what that me uhoh oh the ice cream we could eat Tom Emily decides from that day forward to always put her family first they all have so much fun together hanging out and playing games with each other after some time off Emily begins looking for jobs that will allow her to make a great living while also spending a lot of time with her daughter it doesn't take long for Emily to start Landing lots of interviews everyone seems to be very impressed by her but she quickly learns that everywhere she goes the expectations are the same as her last job everyone wants her to give up her time with her family in order to put work first she's un able to find a job that offers her the flexibility and the salary she needs to support her family eventually bills begin to pile up and she can't help but think about asking for her old job [Music] back well Emily uh you know I wish I could say I was surprised when I got your email but I'm not I knew this would happen well as I was saying I know I can bring a lot to the table for this VP role I refilled that position for you I was thinking like a junior manager Junior manager that's a huge step down from where I was before the salary would be the same right maybe maybe not look I would be lying if I said that I wasn't happy to have you on board I mean you're a good worker in fact you're a great worker I just got to make sure that you're completely committed this time around I am good cuz I got a big quarter coming up I need an A1 game from everybody and nobody's going to have time to have any days off does that work for you yeah it's just that fee is having a play in the next few months and I would just need an evening offer that other than that I should be Emily I don't think that's going to happen all hands have to be on deck 247 so tell me do we have a [Music] deal [Music] Emily it's been a long time what are you doing here I just came to apply for the VP position or I guess Junior manager position it might be a little bit early to say but I think we'll be working together again oh actually today was my last are you serious I thought you were the one who took the VP role Mark goer did to me but I turn it down why because I want to have a life and I realize I can if I keep working here but you don't have a husband or a kid to worry about and the money is really great I won my nights my weekends my vacations I want to be able to enjoy myself no amount of money is worth given that up for if you don't mind me asking where did you end up Landing nowhere I started looking around but I realized everyone was signning in the sameone below average salary PTO Healthcare retirement so instead I'm going to Louch my own firm really that's amazing it's scary but yeah I'm excited I spoke with my best clients and most of them are coming with me gosh I wish I had the courage to do what you're doing I always wanted to start my own thing you know I could use a partner there's no way I'll be able to do everything by myself really that's sweet of you but I already accepted Mark's offer are you sure your research on the mckeny G could really come in handy I know you had some ideas on how they could reshape their business why not use it for ourselves I don't know that sounds kind of risky sorry one sec hello Mark what's up 6:00 a.m. but I don't start until 9:00 I need that time to drop off my oh okay okay I'll be there let me ask you something do you really want life to go back to the way things used to be working long hours being chained to the desk without any acknowledgement that you're a person honestly not at all then let's create a workplace we actually want to work at you really think we could have it all I know we can okay let's do it hello hi Emily Jones she in sure if you'd like to have a seat I can see if she's available sir Emily there you are Mark what are you what are you doing here I think you know about a month ago I got an email from the McKenzie group telling me that my firm well they didn't need my services anymore now imagine my surprise when I realized where they had gone to oh you guys you got your nerve you think you're going to steal my clients you're more than welcome to take it up with legal we did our research non-competes are bed in California oh did you well we'll see about that you can figure it out for yourself business Affairs is through there past daycare daycare that's that's a joke right I mean who does daycare Emily hey Mark I'm surprised to see you here are you here to congratulate Emily and lizy on starting their own firm it's impressive isn't it yeah when Emily pitched their ethos we knew we had to be on board yeah it was a no-brainer yes shall we yeah of course so Emily what what are you talking about these two came by to deliver the good news and we got the talking and they mentioned that they saw the same problems in our business as some of their other clients they wanted to overhaul the idea and create new policies so employees would have a work life balance starting with their own firm what what are they talking about daycare for in office working parents unlimited PTO dental and medical flexible schedules and of course remote work well come on Emily you going to tell me a couple snowflake policies are going to change your company around actually they already have we implemented all of their suggested policies and I got to tell you employee morale and productivity have never been higher I mean we have more applicants for our open positions now than we've ever hadan they're Geniuses these two are miracle workers oh I don't know about that I'm just a mom on the mission to spend more time with my kid and have a life outside the office you know Mark you should look into Contracting their Consulting Services I mean I hear your turnover is pretty high yeah how many reps did we cycle through when we were with your firm four five anyway we have a conference to attend good luck Mark Mom are you ready it's almost for I got to get ready and be on stage soon just about honey Emily I got to hand it to you you created this whole thing and you're even off before 5 it's family over everything yeah yeah I get it it was good seeing you mark same here Emily let's go yeah yeah Olaf did Elsa make you yeah why I'll tell you why we need Ela to bring back summer summer oh I've always loved the idea of Summer and sun and all things hot really I guess you don't have much experience with heat nope [Applause] where's your mom I was adopted kids at school can be so mean that you weren't good enough for your real mom so she gave you away do you think it's because she didn't love me not at all like some of use clothes go away I know she loved you or what are you going to tell your dad's on me

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Published: Tue May 10 2022