Men At War: Meeting the Anti-Feminist Movement (Reggie Yates Documentary) | Real Stories

real stories tapes true crime is your new true crime podcast fix in our first season we'll explore suspicious deaths at a california hospital and a skydiver landing dead on a suburban driveway with a bag containing guns drugs and night vision goggles to join our investigation search and subscribe to real stories tapes true crime on apple podcasts spotify or wherever you find your podcasts [Music] being a british guy in 2015 is not easy 21st century pressures are changing no way the way we live women are seen as superior to men the way we love if you are a muslim you cannot be gay that's as simple as that even the way we look that's silicone yeah this is mental in this series i'm traveling to the extreme edge of modern british masculinity they basically said the only way you can stain is if you agree to be exercised to get the demons out of you fifty years after women began a march for equal rights the battle of the sexes is being fought on a new front the state of gender relations is at its worst probably for 100 years but this time it's not by women man rape mean rape that's all we hear about that man or rapists it's by young men men are murdered more commit suicide more men are homeless more men are raped more in prison than women are total i want to know why so many young guys feel overlooked women are no longer trained to submit to a man to serve a man overly judged i think the uk especially the media needs to decide whether or not they want freedom of speech or they want to stop people being offended by comedy and under attack i thought that sort of a concerted attempt to shut men up i want to find out why a new generation of men thinks the real victims of sex discrimination are guys i'm pretty confident that women's issues are being dealt with men's issues not so much it's sunday morning the perfect time for a lecture by a man who teaches guys how to get more sex meet american blogger roosh v so what i wanted to talk about today is having sex with girls you don't really like i probably am not going to spend more than a couple hours just to access their warm moist cavity holes rouge made his name as a so-called pickup artist writing guides for young men on how to sleep with women around the world he's got a book called 30 bangs bang ukraine bang iceland bang poland bang lithuania don't bang denmark apparently denmark isn't worth banging but in 2012 a u.s civil rights group included roosh on a list of websites they branded hateful and misogynistic british girls are busted you know they're not that old but they just look old like they've been working in a factory or coal mine their entire lives but he hasn't let that hold him back he's now on a world tour though from the sounds of it he's expecting trouble he's actually kept the venues that he's doing his events at a secret up until the very last minute according to his website the reason is that he's worried about feminists is what he's doing and saying so offensive that people are going to try and shut down this event the name of the talk is the state of man one of the first bullet points in terms of what his speech will contain is something about the paradox of modern women it feels like it's a lot broader than here's how to chat up the lady that you fancy at the bar [Music] on the outside it doesn't look like anyone's about to storm the doors [Music] but inside i'm starting to notice a real atmosphere thanks i'm not sure anyone wants me here we've already agreed not to show the faces of anyone who wants to remain anonymous i'm pretty sure that this is the first time i've filmed anywhere where everyone insists on it roosh's topic today is the state of man maybe it's more controversial than i expected sorry to jump in front of the queue i just want to say thank you for having us here man a lot of people have turned up today to hear you speak the reason i came here is because the percentage of english men who read me is very large and to that is a weird thing because i'm not from from here but the problem is men are not allowed to speak the views that i am speaking it takes an outsider to come here and not be afraid of the hate crime laws that you guys have to give the truth and so i wish there were more men here who could share their views but if they do we all know that people are going to go after their jobs and shame them you've got all shapes and sizes in here it is really a broad spectrum as well in terms of race and background and it actually feels quite excitable in here you know there's a room for the men who are excited about what they're about to hear so am i something has happened in the past 50 years where women are no longer trained to submit to a man to serve a man the very idea of beauty and aesthetics is being demolished to where now women are being applauded and encouraged to look like fat outer space cyborgs women and gays are seen as superior to straight men anything that a woman or a gay person wants is theirs but anything you want sorry we cannot help you all of you here are seen as rapists you have to be taught how not to rape by a feminist who is really fat now these aren't really the dating tips i was expecting this is beginning to sound more like a conspiracy theory the bad news is that we haven't hit the bottom do you think that eventually this will become a political movement and if the answer is yes i'd like to put in my application to work for you that's not a joke i have a daughter and sometimes i do fear for her upbringing i think i'm doing a fairly good job i try and set you know a good moral guideline for her to follow but what am i going to do to stop her from becoming the worst of what we see in society today you should give her a man to marry at a young age 18. at least when she's 30 you have three or four grandkids or she's going to be what she's going to work in a job one bad boy after the next many of you actually are going to use her i don't think you should give her the freedom and the choice let's see what is what did you think about what we discussed today it's been a much broader talk than i expected in all honesty i sort of came here expecting to hear uh how to pick up women but it seems to be more about masculinity more than anything else now i take it that you have achieved a level of fame here how have you leveraged that fame to sleep with the women that you want like i i really want to know that like is it easy like do girls just come up to you i've been doing what i do for a long time and i started in television when i was eight years old so this isn't new to me anymore are you gay no i'm actually i'm actually engaged to be married tonight oh okay yeah out of interest just how big do you think what it is that you're doing here will actually get the sites that i run touch over one million people every month and maybe they're not willing to come here and pay but the ideas that i share is growing and growing all right follow me out lads please and then just when i think no one will go on camera two men agreed to meet me outside adam runs his own business and lorenzo is studying to be a barrister so what is it that's actually brought you guys here today why have you decided to come down well what's brought me here really is um i thought that sort of a concerted attempt to shut men up recently right the past few years and we're sort of losing ground the bbc doesn't have a great you know it doesn't get a great flat when it when it comes to these these sort of things at all they do seem to be on the side of what's you know what's what's right on yeah and feminism is the fashionable cause what sort of man is attracted to an event like today do you think somebody who wants to engage with a very international as you can see uh group of concerned fellow travelers who are interested in discussing these these these problems i mean look at look in here these people are now mixing together and very few of them have met one another before the funny thing is whilst these guys want to meet women and that's what roose sells some of them don't seem to like them very much and there are some really offensive strong views from what on face value seems to be the meekest of the meek the most normal looking guys and they have these views that are just unbelievable the thing that worries me most is that a lot of the ideas that are coming out of that room might be more commonplace than i probably assumed this morning nevertheless many of the men i met at the seminar claimed they had to hide their views and their faces for fear of repercussions at work there is one guy whose view on this i'd really like to hear comedian daniel o'reilly built an online audience in the millions with short vines showing proper giza dapper laughs out on the porch what's your name carly [ __ ] she knows carly carly you're lovely oh you're lovely i've always had a thing for lovely women do you want to see it [Applause] and landed himself a mainstream tv series off the back of his success girls all the girls down the front always the same they start off at the beginning halfway through the show after the show but dapper's laddishness was branded sexist and even misogynistic from the start [Applause] and when it was allegedly made a joke about rape at a gig daniel found himself on news night defending his entire act just show her your penis if she cries she's playing hard to get what you're saying is that women who say no don't mean no with no disrespect to you do you think looking at me now that i actually would go out and do that although daniel apologized his tv show was cancelled but his character dapper laughs lives on the only reason i wear a condom right is to stop the girl getting pregnant but i've got a couple of other tips for you get yourself one of their morning after pills yeah crush it up put it in her drink i'm joking respect women respect women from the sounds of it daniel hasn't made any changes and he's pretty unrepentant despite all the flack uh who saw me on newsline who saw that that that interview was hard for me because it's the only time i've actually really played a character out on the outside i'm going no of course of course that's not acceptable to go up to a woman and say get your gash out on the inside [Applause] it's [ __ ] beer how'd you feel that went the show was great yeah yeah and it seems as though your crowd is very much so predominantly young men 25 and under but i mean why do you think that that that's the crowd you saw a lot of women there though yeah exactly i mean don't get me wrong i'll get to the girls but i mean the the the mainstay of your crowd is young men why did you gonna i think just because i started when i started off doing the comedy i was i was really trying to take the piss out of men's attitudes like are you [ __ ] she knows that and a lot of people don't want to go and laugh at political satire or current affairs sometimes i just want to laugh at saying that's easy to laugh at why do you think women come to your show unless you've got unless you've got um a cause to fight like you're a feminist or uh you're against sexism or unless you've got a cause to fight a lot of the young girls are like they can see i'm taking the piss out of men do you think that it's the reason that what happened to you happened was because you made a joke about something as serious as rape or do you think it happened because of your particular brand of humor i think it happened because i blew out i blew up outside of the conventional way of becoming it wasn't that one incident it was just the speed that you got to where you i was getting [ __ ] from that upside i was getting i was getting stuff from them same journalists from the same people months before that they were just looking for something my family personally has been affected by sexual violence it's not a joke do you know what i mean and the only reason why i quit at the time is because what the what the the media were putting on the family it was it was horrible i always judge how well i'm doing in life by what my mom says and my mom has not been offended by anything that i [ __ ] put out there because she knows i'm taking a piss out of men but listen do you know what they're doing in the media now they won't go oh i didn't find it funny but i respect his audience and that he's allowed to do that brand of comedy they will say it's [ __ ] i think the uk especially the media needs to decide whether or not they want freedom of speech or they want to stop people being offended by comedy i think comedy is the last the last avenue we've got it's comedy like you know what's next you're gonna stop you're gonna ban people watching horror movies because someone's gonna go out and kill someone if i say something on stage and someone goes out and does it they're screwed in here that's what i'm gonna do with me do you ever worry about the way that it could be taken out of context or the way that it could offend yep oh it depends who's in the audience ain't going to be taken out of context with my fans because my fans are watching i had the same stuff on the building site yesterday which i mean that all got a bit emotional and um and i can understand why you know this is a man who feels as though he lost his um his moment his opportunity but unfortunately whether he wants to admit to himself at the moment or not he is normalizing a certain level of humor that a lot of people find offensive real equality feminists today have a real problem with the mainstream feminists because the mainstream feminists are radical marxist feminists feminism speaker's corner in london has always been a place for people to meet and share controversial views and today is no exception men rape men rape that's all we hear about that man are rapists and child abusers this is what feminism has been talking about now she have you noticed what she did then what she did as she simplifies things down to say that i'm i'm a woman hater rod is a men's rights activist and is determined no one's going to shut him up they do need our help they need our help very much our problem well done that got a bit intense didn't it it does but you get heckled to pieces do you think coming here to speaker's corner week on week is going to actually change anything yes because what happens we often see a young man standing in the background doesn't say anything stays for hours hello everybody uh my name is josh i'm 18 i'm from essex in my spare time i do a youtube channel and a blog about gender politics and men's issues there's another crowd gathered around a second speaker but there's something different here what is the obstacle to getting men's issues addressed in society he's just a teenager people don't know what men's issues are domestic violence against men is not treated seriously when numerous places have done tests where they got women to hit men in public people have laughed and taken videos and said oh he probably deserves it and the opposite never happens thanks for listening just out of interest what put this on your radar why would you say the uh the issues that that men are dealing with uh is such a it's such a problem men's issues i feel like there are far too particularly young voices there are far too few i mean we've got uh the minister for women inequalities here in the uk we've got the european parliament committee on women's rights and we've got un women we have no comparative organizations for men so i'm pretty confident that women's issues are being dealt with men's issues not so much i hadn't expected young guys like this to be so angry about what they see as discrimination against men meanwhile roosh's world tour has rumbled onto canada but he's run into some local opposition the toronto media toronto star city news every channel i'm the leading newscast me a random writer from the u.s who wants to meet with 40 guys just to have fun with them and talk to them but it's not just roosh with a few clicks i'm starting to realize these kinds of views are easy to find now this idea of what roosh is about and what he stands for seems to be a small part of a much bigger conversation because on roosh's website there is mention of this thing i've never heard of before and it's called the manosphere no it's a real thing the manosphere is a name given to an informal network of blogs websites and internet commentators that focuses on issues relating to men and masculinity often in opposition to feminism now growing up with four sisters you want to see them blossom and you don't see anything that can help that as being negative but being at rush's seminar the word feminism seemed to come up over and over again and it was never presented in a positive light but roosh isn't the only one british journalist milo yiannopoulos has written for the telegraph news sites and has his face all over youtube he seems to have done an incredible job of continuously arguing with journalists and politicians and feminists he feels like someone that i need to have a chance and it turns out with a growing profile as a self-proclaimed anti-feminist milo is only too happy to meet with me good to meet you too good to meet you too how are you yeah good thanks uh listen you are the perfect person uh for me to speak to uh at this point i met rooshvy very recently okay and then i've sort of been made hip to this whole idea of the manosphere can you sort of explain to me what the manuscript is and what it's broken up into yeah i mean it's a very eccentric sort of group of men who feel dissatisfied with the way that society is going the way that the relationships relationships between men and women are organized and i think a lot of men are feeling as though their traditional role as provider has been you know diluted to such a point they're not really sure what they're supposed to be there for anymore and what a lot of the pickup artists people like rouge do for these guys is give them a renewed sense of purpose um a lot of these young boys are very worried that they will be alone forever a lot of them are worried they won't ever do good jobs and they will never get a decent pension and um and they sort of just don't know where they fit it kind of feels like it's two sides going against each other you've got the manosphere and all the permutations of that and then you've got feminism yes what's your take on that um what's happened to feminism in the last sort of 20 years is it's become very tied up with very far-left activist politics and this particular brand of feminism which says that women shouldn't just be equal to members should be the same as men you know if they want to grow their hair and get fat that they should be allowed to ignores basic biological realities and it also ignores some of the things that are different about men and women and different ways that men and women look for happiness i think that the state of gender relations the understanding and happiness between the two sexes is at its worst probably for a hundred years um and i think that you could reasonably say that feminism has a large part of playing that obviously now i find these views surprising and i'm not a feminist but you don't have to be one to be challenged by milo's point of view i've had messages about you prior to us meeting yeah of course what are they saying and they say this guy's going to stitch us up i can tell i can tell he's going to stitch this up and i can't blame them for this because it has happened to them so many times before over and over and over again they're just outright lied about right he's made it really clear that people are worried about me i don't know why they're worried about me what have i done um it's it's mental that you know i'm so early on in in this in this this journey and already um people are paranoid that i'm out to get them there seems to be this weird sort of sense of paranoia in this world it's frustrating to be judged before i've even begun i want to see if i can persuade anyone from these secretive online groups to meet me face to face they have started discussing me and what it is i'm trying to achieve online now when i say discussing what i mean is putting up video blogs on youtube and it's not just the one video they're shitloads some of these anti-bbc videos have had thousands of views already so maybe youtube is the best way to try and set up a talk this could be the worst idea ever but i think it's worth having a crack at hello there mgtow uh my name is reggie yates uh some of you know that most of you probably don't i'm in your world now all that i want to do is make a program that features you and your beliefs where they come from and who exactly you are so uh get in touch thank you i do think there is a small chance that we may have a conversation but i think it will be on their terms and if that means it's a google chat if that means that it's via the comment section so be it it's 2015 damn it [Music] but whilst i wait for replies to my video i'm still intrigued by that young guy standing on a soapbox in hyde park welcome to feminist idiocy in contrast to feminist hypocrisy this series is simply me explaining issues that feminists talk about that are ridiculous josh told the crowd to check out his videos on youtube so i have and the content is far more extreme than anything he said in the park so the best way to discuss rape and the chances of it happening is to take the emotional element out of the question because that's why feminists are shitty at discussing rape that was it what earth is it that is inspiring someone so young to say so much and why does he feel as strongly as he does at such a young age at 18 i wasn't thinking like this josh has agreed to meet me at his home i want to find out what's behind his views there he is hi hello how you doing i am good also thank you for having me in your home oh it's okay why have you got a anfield road sign up am i in a liverpool football club that's dad's a big oh get me out of here so you live with your parents yeah mum and dad okay all right that's the room there we go right okay what are you working on over here then uh this is the script massive sort of document i'll see you write scripts for yourself yeah i do script them i used to not but then i just ramble and go off on a tangent and have to edit loads of stuff out so that's a script for part one of my drunk sex series josh is recording today the latest in a series on how men can be unfairly accused of rape all right i need to see the studio steel is probably a generous term it's just our spare room the people who owned this house before us had a very young daughter so it's decorated for like a two-year-old girl oh right okay sorry oh you weren't joking no it is you really aren't joking that mum bought that as a joke because it went with the room in a sort of funny way that's not a serious thing okay so this is where you shoot your videos this is it basically yeah it's a tiny little set this is the chair that is the chair in the chair you're welcome to sit in the chat yes do you not think it's crazy that you know you're literally sat here in your spare room with a camcorder and a bit of a script and suddenly people all over the world have access to your points of view yeah it's insane it's saying i've got you know just over 2000 subscribers watching these videos and liking what they see i want to see you do what you do okay yeah i can do that let's do it and can i help in any way uh no at the moment the camera only works when it's plugged in so i'm gonna have to do that fit loads come on so what's the theme of the video then um measurements of drunk sex so what is drunk i just have interest why is this issue on your radar right now uh i read uh an article in i think huffington post about california's new yes means yes law so the basis of your think piece if if you want to call it that have come from what exactly um mostly from just sort of thinking about it really because it's just something a lot of the things i talk about are just things you can understand if you just think about them in more detail hello everybody welcome to drunk sex or treaties in three parts so uh uh let's try that one again hello everybody welcome to drunk sex a treaties and three parts this is part one measurements so junk sex a lot of feminists are now saying is rape think about the perils just going on holiday i could find a girl here in the uk we could have sex it's fine she's not too drunk she's still legally able to drive we go to a u.s state with a stricter rule and suddenly i'm a rapist okay right it also has to be something that people can be expected to keep track at 18 josh is not afraid to speak out i'm just not sure why this will overwhelmingly be a burden on men thank you very much for watching i've been josh boom and just like that it's done yeah just as my sd card ran out of memory perfect i had to cut a little bit out for that wow what's really fascinating about you josh is your age you know you are so young and over the years i've met activists all over the world um fighting for different causes and the thing that is consistent in all those people that i've met is that there is a reason what is your reason i don't really have a satisfying answer that question people ask me all the time and it's it's not like i had some big life-changing experience like a lot of people do you know a lot of the people i speak to in the men's movement are they they went through a troubling divorce or they were abused by a partner or they were raped it was never like that for me as a living i'd like to be you know a men's issues speaker or i'd like to to join a think tank the talk police issue something like that this is something i want to do for the rest of my life we've got some stuff that she was given is this mums or yours that's mums mine's in the sink actually grab a seat out here look at this perfect how do women react to your views particularly well your mum i mean you you live at home how does she react to some of the things that you say in your videos nothing i say in my videos is anti-woman but some women do treat it as if it's an attack on women i wouldn't talk about women's issues and feminism at all if i didn't think i needed to for men's issues so if it wasn't the case that our domestic violence laws were heavily influenced by feminist academia i wouldn't speak about it what gets picked on what is it that they jump on i talk about false rape claims i say foster representations are really harmful to someone's life people have been killed by mobs without a court case ever taking place um and i try to talk about that and they they they accuse me of derailing the conversation because false representations are only two percent even though we can't get an accurate study on that it's more you're not focusing on the right issues than you're actively promoting something that's anti-women false rape claims are disgusting and that's one of my worst nightmares to be accused for a crime serve time for something i definitely didn't lose but the fact that rape exists and the fact that it is such an issue and the fact that it is happening it's happening on every street and people aren't talking about it is a real issue yes but i don't it's not like i'm hearing someone talk about how bad rape is i'm like oh also false rape regulations no it's a complete separate thing i'm trying to get to the bottom of why so little of your time is dedicated to being 18. because you're only 18 in my time being 18 i do this doesn't take up like half of my time but i think i have an advantage over the men who who have had their lives derailed purely because i'm not coming at it from an emotional angle which means because if you are emotional about something it can lead to you being aggressive josh is a really impressive speaker but i can't help worrying that he's building opinions about how women behave based on other men's bad experiences that he's found online before he's even had a chance to live his own life and there is nothing wrong with fighting for men's rights there is nothing wrong with believing that there should be equality but when your own personal experience with women has been hard has been unfavorable and that then affects the way that you view the world to then present that as the gospel is where things get dangerous especially when you're looking at how many young men this is beginning to affect but at least josh is prepared to stand up be counted and meet me face to face and other anti-feminists on the internet not so much but my video has caused a reaction and plenty of anonymous men have had their say only a four would trust this dude [ __ ] off bbc stands for big black [ __ ] if this is what i'm receiving after literally sticking my tiny brown pinky toe into the pool that is the manosphere what is it like for a feminist what is it like for someone who says i disagree with you guys i don't know journalist laurie penny has written about both men's rights activism and sexism on the net she's agreed to talk about the kind of response she gets when she does so exactly what sort of uh interaction have you had with these these guys online well um in terms of threats i've had everything ranging from individual attacks people sending me pictures of like gross pornography with my head pasted on getting fisted by hitler i had a bomb threat sent to my house were people saying they knew where my house was i had to leave so did my landlord people really want to intimidate me and anybody who writes about feminism online could you show me some of the messages that you've actually received yeah well i'm not totally happy with them showing on camera but you can have a look at them yeah i mean people just send that sort of nonsense to me oh that's one of the milder ones oh my god so yeah that was last week that's that is that a pic that's actually they found a picture of you and pasted it onto yeah that to that image yeah why are you specifically being targeted well it's not me specifically it's every woman who writes about feminism on the internet to some extent i'm absolutely not the only one the intention is to silence people and shut them down i think it's very ironic that these men's rights activists claim that they feel silenced when they are organizing to silence women what is it that's motivating these men to do this i mean what is the problem that they have that is manifesting itself in sending these images to you um there is a lot of genuine frustration behind the men's rights activist movement um and i understand the emotions that are behind that sense of powerlessness and a feeling of loss of power the trouble is that whilst feelings are valid it's what you do with those feelings that makes the decision about who you are as a human being so what's driving hate like this and who are these people in 2013 even a simple campaign to commemorate jane austen on a 10-pound note resulted in a barrage of vile abuse center female campaign leaders free speech is one thing but threats of rape or worse feels different to me and they're becoming more and more common online i just don't get where all this hate is coming from but i know a man who might he did it right to see it yeah milo yiannopoulos [Music] i met laurie who is a feminist who i know that you're aware of and uh laurie has received unbelievable messages which go from i know where you live who i'm watching you right now to i'm going to do xyz to you tonight they don't believe this it's not look oh come on listen this is the typical bait and switch that happens with progressive activists right you you goad people you egg them on you deliberately provoke them and then suddenly you turn around and play the victim because you've got messages that you don't like the sound of well i'm sorry but you know if your if your entire career is based around telling white men that there is something wrong with them you can't then complain when you get messages on twitter saying that you know that somebody wants to hurt why do you think men resort to using the word rape so often what the studies show is that men and women use slightly different language when they lose their temper women tend to call each other [ __ ] and [ __ ] and [ __ ] and that sort of stuff rape as a sort of expression of power and domination is more what men go for when they lose their temper like they might threaten to beat you up what does this mean for men moving forward men that you can't win an argument in the public sphere unless you watch your language so carefully when they speak out they lose their jobs or they get just as much trolling as the you know as as any feminist activist but that's the dysfunctional situation we've got ourselves into precisely because men are terrified to speak out about this stuff milo seems to be saying women are just being given too much even too much protection but with everything i've heard and read online i'm finding it harder than ever to see men as the victimized sex so where does that leave someone like rooshvy [Music] i go to the supermarket to be a pervert to film that girl's ass in another girl's ass i've had to fly to poland to find out he just wasn't meeting the right kind of girls in america they cut their hair short they are so lazy to maintain long hair that they make themselves ugly on purpose so he moved here a year ago to a small university town full of female students and before we meet there's just time for a refresher on his back catalogue now there is a lot of ruchevi books which are available on huge websites online by the way anyone can buy this stuff and the sort of thing that is in these books is um yeah it's not the sort of thing that i'd want my younger brother to read it took four hours of foreplay and at least 30 repetitions of no ruche no until she allowed my penis to enter her vagina no means no until it means yes that's actually written here while walking to my place i realize how drunk she was in america having sex with her would have been rape since she couldn't legally give her consent it didn't help matters that i was relatively sober but i can't say that i cared or even hesitated it's actually illegal to force someone to have sex in iceland too rouge i know that when it comes to sex one ounce of hesitation or feeling of morality will get me nothing that one actually leaves a nasty taste to your mouth at his seminar roosh told me he has a million visitors a month to his sights and one of the articles he posted there earlier this year caused horror around the world there's a piece he's actually written on his website called how to stop rape and there's a section here that reads i thought about this problem and i'm sure i have the solution make rape legal if done on private property i propose that we make the violent taking of a woman not punishable by law when done off of public grounds basically you're saying if you rape someone on private grounds in in a private residence it should be okay that is [ __ ] disgusting this isn't about confidence you know 30 bangs isn't about making young men feel as though they have value this is about making young women feel as though they have none [Music] roosh is now back from the canadian leg of his world tour where there was a furious reaction to his article on rape the mayors of montreal and toronto tried to ban him and he was even physically attacked in the street [Music] now i'm about to meet this mammoth of the manosphere in his own home hey reg how's it going i'm very good thank you i haven't seen you in a while it's the shoes off houses yes please shoes off no worries i maintain a clean home that's a big old apartment you got here here's the bed uh one of the signs i used in the lecture i found a way to use it here oh you know i mean i mean he told me you put that up for my benefit i mean you know this sign i hope will stay here again i know you already saw this sign in london but i think there's another use of it that i can use here and i work here so all the genius that you may have come across that i've put out starts there what's in the kitchen is it pure muscle building foods look at that no it's like you know healthy food we got vegetables eggs cheeses whole foods yeah right but sometimes if a girl comes over you know you got to give her the uh supermarket champagne that i was trying to say on sale you're really spoiled they don't know that they don't know that uh so how long has it been since you got back from canada or the world tour i've only been back for about five five days i'm still recovering from the drama there they took one article i wrote called how to stop rape it was a satirical thought experiment that the way to reduce rape is to encourage women to take responsibility for what they do and i say we should legalize rape which of course is an absurd notion but they actually read that yeah but they took a piece and you use the word satirical and it's quite hard to find the satirical angle to it when you're actually reading it the point i'm trying to make is what would happen if we took this absurd notion and took it in a literal sense well women would just take more care of themselves like they take care of their smartphone their purse and their car but what the media did they said he is a rape advocate i'm surprised at how indignant roo seems at how his rape article was taken my goal as a writer is to make sure that my ideas spread far and and wide so of course satire is going to be misinterpreted but to be misinterpreted by everyone in canada all the media and even the politicians who came out against me seems to be a deliberate action of theirs to paint me as someone that i'm not rouge can't seem to see himself as anything but the victim in this despite so many people's horror and what he wrote i'm wondering if he will take any responsibility for what he's telling young men about sex one of the things that really troubled me particularly from a point of view of someone who has a younger brother who is in his teens if he were to read that book for instance and read the passage no means no until it means yes i'd be really concerned about what that might do in his mind i can understand but i don't agree that the writing i share crosses a line i advocate for consensual sex that but we have to understand how sex actually actually happens we both know that if you bring a woman into your apartment and she you know with a smile says no we're not going to do anything does that actually mean no is that when you stop and ask her to leave of course no means no and i have to state that then you stop wait until she is ready to go farther and then you go on in your book you talk about a situation where there's a woman who's half asleep and you jammed it in i believe it's the words that you used which is so horrible um but have haven't you done that when a girl was half asleep a girl that you already had sex with you've never done it wasn't the first time i had sex with her no are you sure yeah i'm pretty sure okay listen i mean i'm sure you've had sex with girls who were on some kind of alcohol or something else does that mean that you raped them of course not so if you want to examine every instance every thrust maybe you can find something but this can happen to every man uh rich thank you for for having me in your home no more articles on how to rape women no i think i'm done with the regulation i think i made the point you know yeah and you made a point okay [Music] it was an issue when i was growing up and it seems to be an issue now and that is that young men need role models they always have and they always will and it just seems as though this movement um is providing role models just a different kind to the ones that i agree with i think if you've got a man to look up to that is telling you that you'll be all right and that is showing you how to navigate this weird world then you might just survive but if you've got someone whose view is massively skewed and massively influenced by their own inadequacies or issues then you're going to have some of your own my worry is that there are a ton of young men who are desperately searching for something and are finding it in the manosphere when in reality what they actually need is is they need a confidence boost and they need someone to show them that you don't have to be this way to be successful in any part of your life particularly when it comes to women [Music] [Music] you

Channel: Real Stories

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Rating: 4.3863015 out of 5

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Id: JP9ucyoJraQ

Length: 45min 26sec (2726 seconds)

Published: Tue Apr 06 2021

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[u/iReviewFrozenDinners]

Basically "incels - the documentary".

Love me some Reggie Yates, guy does a fantastic job.

edit: no surprise that these MGTOW dweebs are trash.

In February 2015, Valizadeh was criticized for a blog post that he wrote titled "How to Stop Rape" in which he proposed legalizing rape on private property.

Valizadeh argued, "Until you give men like Rodger a way to have sex, either by encouraging them to learn game, seek out a Thai wife, or engage in legalized prostitution ... it's inevitable for another massacre to occur."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roosh_V