Meet the Playboy No Woman on Earth Could Resist

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He’s an international man of mystery with a license to kill. A lady’s man of legendary proportions known for his rugged good looks and impossibly smooth charm. He’s a lover of fast cars and adventure who spends his spare time at cocktail parties and in casinos. I am, of course, talking about the one and only… Rubirosa, Porfirio Rubirosa. Wait, what? While that description might have sounded strikingly similar to everyone’s favourite secret agent James Bond, Porfirio Rubirosa was very much a living, breathing man. And his life was so remarkable it’s going to be quite a challenge to cover it in a single YouTube video. But let me just give you a few highlights to whet your whistle. Porfirio Rubirosa was a man so suave he inspired Ralph Lauren to create the now world famous Polo fashion brand. He was so successful that despite being born to a modest family in the Dominican Republic he amassed an incredible fortune and ended up living among world leaders and movie stars. And he was so charismatic that some of the most lusted-after women in all of history cheated on their husbands just to spend a single night with him. Intrigued? You should be. Rubirosa was born in the Dominican Republic in 1909, but he was to spend his formative years in Paris, where he lived until failing the international baccalaureate at the age of 17. With no real prospects in Europe, he went home, where he was to find the country of his birth on the cusp of great change. Because a few years later in 1930, a man named Rafael Trujillo helped stage a military coup, overthrowing the government of the Dominican Republic and installing himself as generalissimo. Rubirosa, meanwhile, had joined the military, though he spent most of his time playing his favourite sport - polo. He was one of those guys who was good at everything – well, apart from the international baccalaureate exams - and before long he was captain of the national polo team. And it was at a polo game the young Rubirosa would catch the eye of General Trujillo himself. As we’ll come to see, Rubi, as Rubirosa was sometimes known, possessed the kind of charm that would make Hugh Grant look like a football hooligan eight pints down on derby day, and Trujillo was immediately impressed with the boy. So impressed, in fact, that he hired Rubi to be a lieutenant in his own personal guard on the spot. It was a huge promotion - more money and status, not to mention the backing of the nation’s new ruler. But there was one teeny tiny catch - Trujillo just so happened to be one of the most brutal dictators in modern history. Three weeks after rising to power, he renamed the Dominican capital ‘Trujillo city’ in his own honour, and churches were soon required to display the slogan ‘God in heaven, Trujillo on earth’ on their premises. To say he had a bit of an ego would be the understatement of the century. Trujillo would eventually be assassinated by a CIA-sponsored hit team some 30 years later, but in the intervening years he ruled the Dominican Republic with an iron fist. Political assassinations, widespread oppression, blatant corruption - you name it, Trujillo was either doing it, ordering it, or turning a blind eye to it, and, thanks to a certain penchant for murdering people who ticked him off, those that got in his bad books didn’t stay there for long. Trujillo was an all-round bad guy, but his most infamous and evil act was to order the killing of Haitians living in the Dominican Republic’s north-western frontier in a slaughter known today as the Parsley massacre. It’s thought to have led to the deaths of as many as 35,000 Haitians. OK, so what would you do if you found yourself working under the watchful eye of quite literally the scariest and most powerful man in your entire country? Keep your head down and try to stay out of trouble? Perhaps even attempt an escape to safety in some far-off country? Yeah - Me too. But not Rubirosa. No, he seduced his murderous new boss’ daughter. To give you an idea of how the generalissimo felt about his little girl, I can tell you he’d named her Flor de Oro, which means Flower of Gold, so I think it’s safe to assume she was rather important to him. It’s also safe to assume Trujillo had had men killed for far, far less serious crimes than deflowering his precious Golden Flower. And no doubt he would have had Rubirosa killed, too - if he’d been able to find him. You see, once the hormones had worn off a bit, young Rubi had realised the precariousness of his situation and gone into hiding. And it seems the move paid off, because - given a little time to cool down - the generalissimo decided against brutally murdering Rubirosa, and instead presented him with two options. The details were complicated, but it pretty much boiled down to this: marriage or death. After considering the offer for a good nanosecond, Rubi decided marriage was the way forward. The wedding day was declared a national holiday, and - now well and truly established in Trujillo’s inner circle - Rubirosa was given another promotion, this time to the position of diplomat to the Dominican Republic. His first post was in Berlin during the 1936 Olympics, where he would find himself watching the Games alongside Hitler himself in the Führer’s private box. Rubirosa had officially hit the big time, and his new career would see him stationed all over the world - in Germany, France, Italy, Belgium, the United States, and Argentina. He would eventually obtain the position of ‘Inspector of Embassies’, which seems to have been a job invented just for him and gave him the excuse to travel pretty much anywhere he wanted on official business. On the surface it seemed like the perfect role. There weren’t many duties to attend to, aside from rubbing shoulders with world leaders and making friends with some of the most famous people alive at the time. But some people believe Rubirosa’s unusual job was in fact nothing more than a front. That instead of a diplomat, he was in fact a spy. A hit man and an enforcer carrying out Trujillo’s will around the world. It’s a big claim, and it’s never been proven for sure. But we do know in the 60s Rubirosa was questioned by the New York district attorney about two missing men, anti-Trujillo exile Sergio Bencosme, who disappeared in 1935, and Spanish politician and writer Jesus Galindez, who suffered the same fate in 1956 after writing a none-too-flattering book about the Trujillo regime. Rubirosa was also kept under surveillance by the FBI for some three decades, so it seems the Americans were more than a little suspicious about him. Whether or not Rubi really was busy bumping people off on behalf of his boss, what he most certainly was busy doing was taking the emerging international jet-set scene of the 40s and 50s by storm. He was known to be fast friends with the likes of Frank Sinatra and the Kennedys, but the thing that defined Porfirio Rubirosa above all else was his reputation as perhaps the greatest playboy and womaniser since Casanova himself. Or, to offer you a more recent comparison, Rubirosa was to the world’s most recognisable women what Ash Ketchum is to Pokemon. And just one look at Rubi’s poked-dex is enough to tell you he pretty much did catch ’em all. In his life, he was linked with film stars and singers including Zsa Zsa Gabor, Ava Gardner, Jayne Mansfield, Veronica Lake, Dolores Del Rio, Eartha Kitt, Marilyn Monroe, Maria Montez, Rita Hayworth, Dorothy Dandridge, Lupe Vélez, Judy Garland, Peggy Hopkins Joyce, Joan Crawford, and Kim Novak, as well as the Queen Consort of Iran, Soraya Esfandiary, the First Lady of Argentina, Eva Perón (better known as Evita) and dozens of others. It’s claimed Rubirosa was so irresistible to women that all it took was one slow dance and they were his. In fact, some say he didn’t even need to bother lacing up his dancing shoes, and as his unrivalled reputation as the ultimate gentleman and lover grew, women would simply grab hold of him at parties, drag him to the nearest deserted corner, and have their wicked way with him. You might be wondering how any man, no matter how good looking or charming, could have such an effect on women. But it wasn’t just Rubi’s charm that attracted the ladies. No, God had bestowed Porfirio Rubirosa with another ‘gift’. I’m not sure quite how to put this, so I’ll let Truman Capote tell you about Rubi’s special erm… asset. In his unfinished novel ‘Answered Prayers’, the legendary writer described a certain part of Rubirosa’s anatomy as ‘An eleven-inch café-au-lait sinker as thick as a man’s wrist.’ Yes, Rubirosa’s pork soldier was said to be so enormous he had to have his underwear specially tailored just to accommodate it. But let’s not forget, Rubirosa was a married man. And while not all of his Hollywood liaisons came during his marriage with Trujillo’s daughter Flor, at least some of them did. After one too many nights coming home late from ‘work’ with whiskey on his breath and lipstick on his collar, Flor filed for divorce in 1938. It seems unlikely Rubirosa was too gutted at this turn of events from a romantic point of view, but the divorce had put him in a bit of a tight spot - he was broke. While he made a reasonable income in his capacity as a diplomat, he’d largely relied on Flor’s riches to finance his extravagant lifestyle of polo playing and parties. Luckily, this was Europe just before the beginning of World War 2, and that created certain opportunities for a man with diplomatic immunity and friends in high places. It’s thought Rubirosa began discreetly selling Dominican visas to Jews desperate to get out of Europe before it was too late. And when a jeweller asked him to use his diplomatic passport to help recover hundreds of thousands of dollars in rare gemstones from Madrid, Rubirosa was happy to oblige – for a price. By some estimations, he made close to half a million dollars from these schemes and others like them - that’s more like 7 million in today’s money. But living on the wrong side of the law is a risky business and, let’s face it, a bit too much like hard work for a gentleman of leisure. So as war descended over Europe, Rubirosa came up with another way to get his hands on some fast cash – he found the richest woman he could and married her. Rubi was back living in Paris at the time, and the lucky lady turned out to be Danielle Darrieux, France’s leading film star, who fell for Rubi’s charms after he was asked to escort her home from a cocktail party. But before they could get married, Rubirosa was imprisoned by the gestapo, who’d gotten wind of his antics spiriting Jews out of Europe and suspected he was a spy. Darrieux offered to play a series of concerts for the Nazis if Rubirosa was released, and a deal was struck. They were married soon after. But the agreement had an unfortunate side-effect - playing concerts for the Nazis meant Darrieux was viewed as a sympathiser by her fellow countrymen, and Rubirosa himself was thought by some to be a German agent. It made the couple a target, and in 1944 the French resistance took aim - literally. The couple were ambushed while driving along the Boulevard Malesherbes in Paris, and Rubirosa was shot 3 times while trying to shield his wife. He made a full recovery, but decided it would be a wise move to wait out the rest of the war on a small farm in the countryside. When the war ended, Generalissimo Trujillo, who seemed to have gotten over Rubirosa’s divorce from his daughter, sent his young diplomat a new assignment - a posting in Italy. Rubirosa and Darrieux moved to Rome, where the local press clamoured to catch a glimpse of the glamorous couple. An interview with a local newspaper was arranged for the day after their arrival, and when a gangly, enthusiastic reporter turned up, Rubirosa’s life was about to change once again. You see, the journalist wasn’t just any old hack - she just so happened to be the single richest girl in the world. Her name was Doris Duke, and, despite her unfathomable riches, she’d decided to try her hand at a ‘normal’ job. The unusual career choice wasn’t to last, but it did put her in the same room as Rubirosa for an hour or two on one fateful day in 1947. And when Porfirio Rubirosa was concerned, an hour or two was more than enough. Doris’ father was James Buchanan Duke - he’s the reason Duke University in North Carolina has its name. He was also the owner of American Tobacco and the man who first invented the mass produced cigarette. And, as the estimated 100 million people who died from tobacco-related causes in the twentieth can attest to - those little cancer sticks really caught on. Doris Duke was James’ only daughter and heir, which meant she was to inherit the entirety of his fortune. In today’s money, her net worth would have been measured in the billions. She fell for Rubirosa hard, and while he was already married to an extravagantly wealthy film star, the pull of the richest girl in the world was just too much for him. It’s reported Doris Duke paid Darrieux a cool 1 million dollars to divorce Rubirosa, and before long, he was walking down the aisle for the third time in 15 years. On their wedding day Doris Duke gave Rubi a full stable of polo horses, a 17th century Parisian hotel, 500,000 dollars in cash, and a converted B-25 bomber. You know you’ve married rich when 500 grand is the least interesting part of your wedding gift. If Rubirosa had been living the high life up until this point, he was now ready to go the playboy equivalent of super-saiyan. He had the resources to do quite literally anything he wanted, anywhere he wanted. Unfortunately, it seems what he most wanted to do was his ex-wife, Flor de Oro - and when Doris Duke found out the marriage was over before it had really begun. But the great thing about marrying rich is that even being a divorcee can be pretty well paid - and that’s despite the fact Duke’s lawyers had gotten Rubirosa drunk and forced him to sign a prenuptial agreement on the night before the wedding. As part of the divorce settlement he was given $25,000 per year until he next married - the equivalent of close to 300 grand today. And Rubirosa made the most of it. When he wasn’t spending his days playing polo or boxing, he was indulging one of his other great passions - fast cars. He entered his first competitive race in Le Mans in 1950 behind the wheel of his very own Ferrari 166 MM, one of just 47 made, and he drove in the Reims 12 Hour Race 3 years later. He even managed to get himself a seat in the 1955 Formula 1 Grand Prix in Bordeaux where he was due to race alongside the likes of F1 legend Stirling Moss, but he fell ill in the buildup and had to pull out. To most people, this kind of hedonistic life would have been a dream come true. But Rubirosa wasn’t most people. He once said that most men’s ambition was to save money, while his was to spend it. And that wasn’t just a pithy catchphrase he dreamed up to look good in print - he really meant it. It’s estimated that during his lifetime, Rubirosa spent as much as 100 million dollars - the equivalent or upwards north of a billion dollars in today’s money. And a desire for more money was probably the motivating factor behind Rubirosa’s fourth marriage, too. But of course, when you’ve already divorced the richest woman in the world, the only way is down - in financial terms at least. Still, Rubi was a man of principles - dubious principles, but principles all the same - and he didn’t want to fall too far down the financial pecking order. So he took the only logical course of action available to him - he married the second richest woman in the world. Seriously. Her name was Barbara Hutton, another heiress this time set to inherit retail tycoon Frank Winfield Woolworth’s estate. On the wedding present list for this one was the largest coffee plantation in the Dominican Republic, 2.5 million dollars in cash, and yet another B-25 bomber, because Rubi had managed to crash the first one. Now, you might think I’m being very cynical here, claiming he was only after financial gain in his pursuit of these unbelievably wealthy women. After all, perhaps it was just a coincidence he got hitched to the two richest women in the world, one after the other. And hey, maybe you’re right. Maybe… but probably not. Because marriage number 4 was to last a grand total of 53 days, during which time Rubi took a string of lovers and by accounts hardly even saw his new wife. It’s thought the whole affair cost Barbara Hutton $66,000 per day. Another marriage soon followed, but it seems Rubirosa may finally have decided he had enough money to be getting along with, because he didn’t bother hunting down the world’s third richest woman, but instead opted for youth and beauty in the form of Odile Rodin, who was a full 31 years his junior. It was to be his last marriage, and though it’s said he remained one randy bugger until his dying day, rumour has it Rodin was even more unfaithful than he was. Though the years were finally beginning to catch up with Rubirosa, they would never quite have the chance to overtake him. Because he died in 1965 at the age of 56 in much the same way he’d lived - fast and at great cost. After pulling an all-nighter to celebrate winning the Coup de France Polo Cup, Rubirosa unwisely opted to drive his Ferrari home at 8am. No doubt wildly over the limit, he hit a tree at around 80 miles per hour, and though he survived the crash, the wooden steering wheel had crushed his torso, and he died on the way to hospital. His death signalled the end of an era - he was the last and perhaps the greatest of the jet set playboys - but his legacy lives on to this day. I mentioned his similarities to James Bond at the start of this video, and many people believe Rubirosa was in fact the real-life inspiration for double oh seven. While Ian Fleming never explicitly named Rubirosa as the basis for his books, the two did likely know each other - they moved in the same circles and had many mutual friends, including Errol Flynn and Noel Coward, who lived near Fleming on the north shore of Jamaica. Which is, of course, not far from the Dominican Republic where Rubirosa was born. Much like the rumours he was a real life spy and hitman, we’ll likely never know whether Rubirosa really was the inspiration for Bond. But there is another way Rubi’s legacy is remembered around the world. Because it turns out the frankly frightening size of his greatest asset led Parisian waiters to jokingly call the large pepper mills they offered to their customers ‘Rubirosa’s’. The name spread around the world, and in some restaurants it’s still in use today. Something to think about the next time you grind a little pepper on your spaghetti bolognaise. Thanks for watching.
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