Mastering The Art Of Letting Go

[Music] hi I'm coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's newsletter is going to be mastering the art of letting go I've got three emails I'm going to go through with you today and the first emails from a guy from the United Kingdom who he says after watching all my videos on how to discover your purpose that he decided to join the British he's from the UK obviously the British infantry Reserves and he's getting a lot of unsupportive push back from his friends and his family which obviously he's not happy about so he asked my opinion on how to deal with people who are not supportive so obviously he's still a little attached to and worried about what other people think about him and his choices the second email is from a guy who he said he's read my book twice and one thing is he's struggling with he's like what is love really because if you do your best and you focus on getting a woman to fall in love with you and then she leaves you for some other dude then what does that mean is love really a real thing because he's looked obviously he's attached to and worried about getting involved with somebody which you can kind of see from his email is kind of a limiting belief that he's fearful and he's worried about what what happens if she leaves me and the third emails from a guy who's been follow me for about two years and he like most people probably 90% of people that find me he was trying to fix a relationship that was going sideways and he again he's got a really great success story and as I said many times the best success stories are always from the guys that read the book 10-15 times this / - he's got himself in great shape got a new car new plays lost his virginity and he has women that are pursuing him and he he's living his life the way he wants and he's done a really great job of mastering the art of letting go so the first two emails are a couple guys are struggling with that read about what may or may not happen in the future and they're having a difficult time being in the present moment and they suffering but because that because I receive as you've been follow me for a while you've heard me say many times that when we don't accept reality as it is we're going to suffer so you really see a good mix here of two guys that are struggling they're attached to the way they think things should be or the way they want the world to be and it's causing them to suffer and it's inhibiting them moving forward being in the present moment and being happy and just enjoying their journey and you got a third guy who is doing it but again third guy read the book 14 he's on his fifteenth read and that's why he's doing so well because he's diligently applying it and that's what's beautiful about it so I got a quote a wrote and they're going to go through these emails one by one first quote the quote says leaders and those who are actually doing things that others only dream or talk about get attacked in questioned by those who are fearful and too weak to live their lives with the same kind of resolve determination and confidence that winners do success and your happiness is a direct result of taking action to get what you want and then letting go of any attachments you have to the way you think things should turn out mastering the art of letting go is essential to happiness leadership and staying in the present moment it's like what Phil Jackson said in his book eleven rings he said leadership is not about forcing your will on other people it's about mastering the art of letting go just one of the many reasons why coach Phil Jackson who now is the VP of the Knicks New York Knicks basketball team they call his nickname is the Zen master because he's obviously studied Zen and Buddhism and obviously I have to and it's a big part of what I teach so back to the quote it's okay being it's okay it's being okay with any and all outcome success is never a straight line to your destination there will always be obstacles setbacks and failures that must be transcended and learn from in order to accomplish your grandest goals and dreams getting to your destination is glorious and rewarding but learning to enjoy the journey and accept your present reality is what makes sustained fulfillment and happiness a possibility why if you're only focused on the destination happiness and fulfillment will only be temporary it's kind of like you know because most people success is a moving target they say well when I have the perfect girl someday then I'll be happy when I have a million dollars then I'll be happy when I have the bitchin house then I'll be happy when I get that Ferrari that really nice car like then I'll really be happy it's like the guys that went to the moon it's like how do you [ __ ] top that becoming one of the few people that have actually walked in the moon you come back and like then what how do you top that or you go to the Olympics and you want to go metal on that been your dream since you were a kid the actual moment of winning the event and getting the gold medal standing on the podium it only lasts for a few minutes and it's over there like now what so if your whole life is getting to that destination and then you achieve it you're happy for a couple of minutes and then what do you do now same thing you win the Superbowl or the NBA championship or the World Cup it's only a temporary thing so the key is to find joy and fulfillment and your journey of getting to the destination to where you want to be because for any of you watching this that have achieved something that you wanted for a long time you're happier like this is cool but then you're now what and to be successful as most successful people are it's you reach the top of the mount and then you realize holy [ __ ] there's an even bigger mountain climb there's even bigger goals to take on and resolve to accomplish for that being said let's go through the first guy's email says dear Cora your content is the best thing ever and read everything you send me and slowly I'm applying it to my life I was wondering though if you can make a video of how to deal with people who make fun of you for going after your purpose in life well if people are busting your balls about going after your purpose in life remember no one will ever do or say anything to you that isn't a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves in a moment so if they're busting your balls about the fact that you're doing what you were put in this earth to do what do you think that tells you about them we tend to project what's inside of us so if you're following your purpose and they're busting your balls about it what does that mean they've they're even following their purpose and that's what happens because they're testing you because in your peer group now you've risen above your peer group you're doing something that most of your friends and family simply don't have the guts or don't have a game plan to do that's why they're busting your balls and at the end of the day all they're really looking for when they're busting your balls is leadership and that's what people tend to do is they attack leaders because they don't believe in themselves but if they attack that leader and that leader doesn't back down and he stays strong kind of like what you're seeing if you're following the election with Donald Trump I mean I've never seen this I'm not a mud and [ __ ] slung at somebody before it's unbelievable and I love how he's just given the finger to everybody he's doing what he wants he's not getting to tour deterred even though people's own party rug you got a resort you do to back down an alpha male ain't gonna [ __ ] back down and in the end if he ends up winning which I think he will then people will go wow this is historic the rebbe before mmm kind of like when Barack Obama won people didn't believe it people attacked him after he did he he accomplished it you got a guy who could give the guy [ __ ] credit he made it [ __ ] happen he was in the arena so back to the email he says I enlisted in the British infantry Reserves thank you for your service by the way after watching your videos I'm finding your purpose in life and I realize it's what I love doing so I applied for the Royal Marine Commandos full-time that's [ __ ] great the problem is though I'm now the laughingstock of the village that shouldn't bother you at all it just means your village is full of a bunch of [ __ ] [ __ ] and you're a leader the word what does the word lead means it means to go first you're doing something that everybody in your village doesn't have the balls to do which is follow your purpose that makes everybody feel uncomfortable because you basically got a big giant [ __ ] mirror and you're reflecting everything back to them about the fact that there's a bunch of [ __ ] [ __ ] basically so you're the leader you're going first you're doing what everybody else is too scared to do there's nothing to feel bad about dude it's like what Sun Tzu said he said when you care about what other people think you will always be their prisoner all my friends are making fun of me behind my back calling me mr. army man and Rambo and [ __ ] like that when I'm not around who [ __ ] cares 20 years from now probably most of those people that are your friends you'll realize that they really weren't on your team think about the people in your life you're like dude I think that's [ __ ] awesome and there's probably only one or two people that are really supportive of what you're doing and those are you those that's who's really on your team just remember that that's something I started learning in my 20s as I started succeeding and achieving and wanting more than the overwhelming majority of my high school buddies I love those guys but most of them they just had no Drive no ambition to do the kind of things that I wanted to do with my life I still care about them I still talk to him I still see him from time to time but I don't hang out with them every single day I don't talk to them every single day love your family choose your peers so it's very important because you are going to be like the five people who you spend most your time with so if you got people in your inner circle that are always busting your balls they're going to get in the way of you reaching your full potential so you need to be cognizant of who you're giving your time with because at the end of day the grace given give anybody is a gift of your time so stop giving it to people who don't appreciate it give them the gift of missing you go where you're loved and supported don't be hanging out with people who don't want you around or don't appreciate you hanging out with people that are glad you're there I don't go around bragging or trying to act hard but I was supposed to be going ice skating this weekend with a face but a facebook social group but the army told me I was needed for operation fired ex firestorm so I told the Facebook social group I was going on exercise instead with which was a silly thing to do I know but my brother told me people were laughing their heads off at me in the pub last night well they're getting drunk and you're holding the [ __ ] line that's what military men and women do it's a noble calling the best people to serve in the military are people who feel like that's what they were put in this earth to do they make the best soldiers because they really want to be there so they're getting drunken shit-faced and you're following your purpose not your fault they're they're a bunch of [ __ ] [ __ ] it just hurts like a [ __ ] when you want to improve your life and others want to drag you down even when I could have to make the ultimate sacrifice for them well one of our great generals from World War two General George Patton he said the object of war is not to die for your country but to make the other bastard too high for his how do I deal with this don't don't spend time with them telling me you don't want to hear about it if you're in a [ __ ] like a bunch of mangina I don't want to [ __ ] hear about if everybody's in the hub the pub from the village bitching about me I don't want to [ __ ] hear about it grab a [ __ ] gun and jump you know come on out the [ __ ] frontline with me otherwise I shut your [ __ ] mouth that's what you should say don't let it get under your skin hang out with with people that are supportive people who are like-minded and who want the same things but I said well you're starting to get is you're getting our resistance because you're what part of the thing is people fear they're going to lose you because you're doing something that they're not doing and as you become more successful and you become more immersed in your career and doing following your purpose you're going to spend less and less time with them because they're obviously not doing that and they're obviously not supportive a year or two down the road when you're really kicking ass and you're really proud of what you're doing you let people go you know I think it's really great eat the ones that attack you which is like what I experienced then every business I've ever started Eve my first business and real estate my dad oh you're gonna file banks you know you want to do that my father Isaac oh you're gonna ruin your marriage you Lana was like I'm [ __ ] care I got to do what I dreamt about doing my whole life you can either support me or not and I of course after I succeed I remember talking to my dad he was like you know I'm really proud of you I was like it was 20 I was 28 or 29 I was the first time I like my dad ever said I'm proud of you because I didn't listen to I hadn't at the end of the day the best cure for people who are talking [ __ ] is winning and succeeding that's the best way to shut people up so go be awesome and don't worry about it and spend your time with people that are supportive so let's go to the second email he says hey coach Corey I wanted to first say thank you so much for all your help fluids when it comes to dating relationships becoming the person you want to be your book articles and videos have been a tremendous help to me improving my life and embracing my potential so thank you what is my purpose it's what I do my questions for you deal with the topic of love I've read your book currently on read number two and I've watched many of your videos and I've read several of your articles on the subject I think I'm getting confused while the good news is when you're confused it means you're about to learn something as to what love really means in your system it's not so much my system what is love love is all about giving relationships start to go sideways when you start focusing on yourself remember taking in hot tip neat ha I never see that right he says you must love in such a way that the person you love feels free it's about giving the whole purpose of all relationships as you go there to give not just your intimate ones but your friendships your clients I mean my whole business model is based on giving and not expecting anything in return all my videos are free you can even read my book for free on my website if you want to get the audio version of my book you can become an audible.com members and you can rear free and if you think it sucks guess what tell Amazon it sucks and you don't to pay for it and you don't have to pay for but at the end of day it's you know I give away all my best stuff you only have to pay for is if you want to book a phone session or email coaching with me but then that I give my best information away for free so my whole business is based around giving and that's a secret to why it's gotten so big and why blow away other what other people are doing in the life coaching industry it's because it's all focused on adding value because even if somebody reads my book they go and they they join the email list and they don't they don't buy the Kindle or the audio Edition they might tell somebody and then that person might buy it or it might click on an ad or make a donation or it's like it all comes out in the end I don't spend any money on advertising so it all works out because the bottom line is when you give things away like that the right people will show up and see value and at the end of day you don't believe anything I say if you apply things I teach you you see that it worked for you but just as sure as the Sun comes up in the east and sets in the west got tons emails and tons of videos I've done over the years from guys it said initially I thought you were a total jackass and totally full of [ __ ] but I listened to you and I did what you said and you were [ __ ] right how many people can do that how many people can give all their best stuff away for free how many websites have you seen with expensive memberships and CDs and DVDs and courses and also their crap you gotta go jump through your butt to find out their best stuff and you'll spend thousands of dollars isn't it you look back and you're like what I really get out of that you only have to pay for my best information if you think it has value if you don't know arm no foul I care about helping people and that's why it grows virally I love the idea that when a man is asked me back up a little bit so he says my questions are he says I'm currently I read number two and I watch many of your videos and I read silver your articles and subject by think I'm getting confused and I love the idea that when a man is truly happy and content with himself he only needs to rely on himself for that happiness yeah because if you're not happy already if you're single you're not going to be happy in a relationship you might be happy for about six months but once you realize and you come to that place where you realize that you're not happy about your life your girl can add a lot of happiness to your life and you should look at it as like the dessert the cherry on top if you will but if you're not already digging your life and having a great [ __ ] time being by yourself once the newness and the infatuation the honeymoons over you're still the same unhappy person that you were before you met that person and that's when things really start to go sideways for a lot of people and whether the woman you're interested in comes into your life or leaves it you'll be okay what then makes a woman special it's different from person to person some guys want to get married some guys want to date around some guys want to live with their girlfriend some guys just want to [ __ ] hook up and pump a dump if you Heller it doesn't matter guys I mean they're typically younger and they have it I have good people when they're young they want to experience those things and also when I coach people I got people that are 50 60 years old and they dated one person their whole lives because they married their highschool sweetheart and they want to rock out with their [ __ ] out for a couple of years but the end of the day human beings are social creatures we like to interact with other people who are most happy we're most fulfilled and they're one of the oldest studies that has studied happiness and fulfillment in longevity meaning living a long life I'm going to study start I think in the 1920s 1930s and so even following these people throughout their whole lives and what they realized that people that had great quality relationships with friends and family and loved ones tended to live longest and had the most happiness and fulfillment and those that didn't people that were butthurt and pissed off they look at that members of the opposite is the enemy those are usually ones that died really early because they just weren't [ __ ] happy if you're in a peaceful relaxed state and you're grateful that's a life giving life enhancing vibration if you're pissed off you're angry you're hateful you're mad at the world you feel like something's missing from your life you're filling your body with negative energy and toxins and eventually that will put you into an early grave that's just a fact of life that's what they've discovered it is what it is whyever become attached to anyone well like I said earlier you must allow in such a way that the person you love feels free it's just like I was talking about the first guy's email the right people will want to be in your life and they will make a continuous perpetual effort over the decades like now 46 and was 47 I've got a handful of really great friends that no matter what they always stay in touch and I've always stayed in touch with them even sometimes we might go a few months or six months or whatever while talking we get busy and kaprun lives we all come back to one another and we all appreciate and value one another and we always have positive uplifting things to say to one another that's the common thread even the girlfriends that I'm still friends with that I dated many years ago the ones that are loving supportive have a pretty easygoing attitude to communicate like adults the ones I keep in contact with those people are really rare and you should really appreciate and hold on to those kind of people and the rest of them can kind of go by the wayside because the reality is people come and go that's just it's a fact of life it is what it is don't try to keep people in your life who don't want to keep you and theirs if a woman that you really love and care about ends up out of the picture and it's supposed to be completely okay then what did she truly mean to you again love is about giving sometimes you might date somebody for a few years and you just it runs its course and you're just I don't want to be with them anymore and that's okay it happens sometimes you might date somebody as you get further down the road you realize if you're looking to be exclusive and monogamous and they have a history of cheating and being unfaithful and lying and being devious you can't expect somebody like that to all of a sudden decide they're going to be faithful even though they say they want to be the reality is you got to look at their actions and how they live look at what people do not what they say I've also been thinking a lot lately lately about the psychology of women in particular how they respond to a man's vibe I totally get that a man who was comfortable and centered in his masculinity will project a certain type of confidence that attracts women like a magnet I see this in the real world all the time and I'm working on perfecting it for myself I also understand that when a woman sends his weakness she will test her man and if he fails will ultimately leave him for someone more centered that's not what I teach in the book by mine is women want to be in a love story and when I coach men that are married over there living with long-term girlfriends or something they've been dating for several years 99.9% of them they're already in therapy and counseling and it's helpful but the bottom line is that you could be going to see the best therapist in the world but if you're not centered and masculine and doing what a man is supposed to do and dating and courting your woman properly eventually she's going to fall out of love and she's going to feel like you don't care and most guys tend to focus on logic and reason and being a provider and making money and they think once they're married or they're in a relationship that they just the courtship just slowly goes by the wayside like I said 99.9% of guys that come to me that are having problems in their long-term relationships they've all stopped recording their wife and girlfriend and communicating and having fun and that's what I help them get focused back on it and also getting centered and focus on being that interesting guy that they were when they met and fell in love the first time around so at the end of day if you start dating a woman and you're great for the first year or two and then you get lazy get caught up earning a living and you stop dating and courting you're always like oh next month we'll go do something fun eventually at some point she's going to get tired of asking and bringing it up because women look at instinctively to look at what guys do and if guy says he loves her and cares about her but he never takes her out never dates her and never makes her feel special like he used to eventually she's going to end the relationship in women in relationships 75% of time that's reality you know date or court your woman eventually some other guy is going to come along and date her for you and take her off your hands again pulpers all relationships as you go there to give if you stop giving which is in essence what most guys do that have problems and long-term relationships women are not going to stick around forever it's just fact a life these idea ideas make me question the fidelity of women is there such a thing as a faithful woman some women absolutely that's their values that's a kind of family they kind of came from they believe and that that's how they operate they place a high value on loyalty communication and commitment I talked to guys constantly that are upset when they're dating a woman are in a relationship with a woman who's not faithful who or who cheats or who lies and they're mad and they're pissed off that their woman is this way and a hundred percent of time when I talk to them it's like these women have a history of being this way if you have something that's never been faithful in any relationship and always has lots of male orbiters around in case you don't have clay case you fall down and they just go bounce to somebody else those are great [ __ ] buddies and friends with benefits or sex playmates those are not wife or relationship material if you're looking to have an exclusive monogamous relationship it's just not going to work long-term with somebody that doesn't value loyalty communication and commitment it is what it is so again you want a healthy long-term relationship date somebody who has good family she loves her mom and a dad and they have she has a good relationship with both of them she's always been faithful to everybody she's dated in the past lob it just men and went both they try to change you they're wrong I'm so great that they'll be different they'll be faithful to me not going to happen again that I know that is a certain truth just like the Sun comes up the east and sets in the west and you can either take that on board or think that you're going to be different in the bottom line is you will experience some pain eventually I learn these things the hard way women are emotional beings which means that they follow their feelings how can you fully trust a woman to be a partner if she just follows her feelings which is most likely to change every single day it doesn't mean that every single woman is just going to leave you and cheat on you but you gotta make the effort you always got the courtship never ends dude and again obviously your email tells me that you want an exclusive monogamous relationship so don't date women that place zero [ __ ] value on it and have no history of being faithful to their partners that's all women that are unfaithful and sleep around and cheat they're great [ __ ] buddies friends with benefits but if you think they're going to change just not going to happen sorry that's the way it is so let's go through the third and final email save the best for last and one of the reasons why this guy is doing so well again because he put the [ __ ] Taemin even follow me for two years fourteen times he's been through the book repetition is the mother of skill confidence comes from successful repetition and if you want to master the art of letting go and getting to where this guy is which is where I am I was sitting having lunch the other day by the lake where I live and I'm always people watching I always looking at body language and physiology and I see things that most people just don't see and I can tell when I see a couple where the guys in alpha and the woman's in alpha and they get it I saw I would just sitting there watching and observing I saw four couples over the course about an hour as I was sitting there just having my lunch and join myself enjoying the beautiful weather out and again I saw the guys were all had the same thing the guys were pretty good shape the women were in really good shape very attractive very feminine very submissive touchy feely all over the guys holding hands the guy was always slightly ahead as he was walking and they had that air chest ow head back just like I talked about in the video body language it attracts women if I was a bettin man I would say that all four of those dudes were very familiar with my work because I tell you what I don't see that very often where I see couples that emanate that physiology that body language I talk about in my book if I was a betting man I'd be willing to bet that all four of those guys probably were very familiar with my work and we're living it because the women beautiful submissive and the guys has had that I don't give a [ __ ] I'm gonna live my life I love my girl I adore her I worship her but she ain't gonna walk all over me and I ain't her [ __ ] doormat and it's beautiful because it's very rare I've read your book 14 times so he says I just wanted to give you a big manly bro hug for all the help that you have provided me with as well as the monumental changes I've been able to accomplish using said help Richard book 14 times and I'm now my 15th read I originally sought you out after the girl I was dating two years ago who my naive Lee believed was the love of my life a little bit of one itis they're projecting your fantasy onto the person and ignoring the fact that she wasn't valuing you back a lot of men and women do that we all tend to do that we tend to project our fantasy of what we wanted the other person and we think we're gonna change them or some or they're going to become different if we just stay with them longer or we use a right strategy but you can't make good wine from bad grapes I pull one over me she pull one over me and dumped me because I ran into a guy who strangely happened to be her ex boyfriend whom wish she was still [ __ ] and told me she had not contacted since their breakup so obviously he was dating woman it was a total [ __ ] liar thank you in mind he was a virgin at this time so he's hanging out with his girl thinks he's dating her this is gonna be the love of his life she's giving him no [ __ ] she's [ __ ] her exploit for who supposedly he's out of her life so she's a fun buddy that's it friends with benefits that's it she ain't relationship material but again he's projecting this fantasy and ignoring the fact that the woman plays zero value on it so it's so important to know what your outcome is what kind of a relationship you want that's one of the first things I ask men and women both when I'm talking to them about dating or relationships or pickup skills I'm always like what is your outcome what kind of relationship do you want and based on what their answers are then that's what I've helped them get focused on the characteristics and the qualities of the kind of person that they should date or be with so they can have the kind of experience they want she acted just like you said and sabotage the relationship when she realized that her trickery which she pulled over the ex and myself was about to blow up in her face if you know my book backwards and forwards these kinds of things don't happen because you can spot these kind of people just like that but obviously this woman is what led into my work originally she then proceeded to go after my best friend relentlessly really nice girl she had said my friend was short unattractive dude and that she could never see herself with a man like him ah the trickery she was a devious woman who lied incessantly and did not have sex with me because she was insecure of her unshaven vagina so she looked like she had buckwheat a leg lock the ex was draining all her life with his [ __ ] that sucks dude being an experienced virgin and that she was the hottest most awesome woman I had ever attracted I believed her again you always look at what somebody does not what they say following that just thinking about the unshaven vaginas like God lots a lot of hair man following that I sought out an answer to a statement she gave me after she created an argument just prior to dumping me I need space I go to that term on Google search and I landed on your video she says she needs space you're her layer ously honest and kindly enthusiastic approach really resonated with me and I decided to see what you were all about from there I read your book four times and I managed to move on from that girl at my friend's birthday party there was a smokin hot blonde girl with who my friend and I decided that he would be sleeping with since it was his birthday little did I know that she had ulterior motives of her own I was being my goofy wild self breaking my slick dance moves and just being the life of the party totally sober she was blown away by this and when my friend proceeded to make his move she rejected him because she wanted to have a taste of my beautiful testicles in her mouth using your one step forward two steps back method I managed to have her beg me to [ __ ] her on the bathroom floor to which I obliged and pounded away with the force of a thousand sexually repressed North Korean teenagers that's pretty [ __ ] good dude before entering her I saw your face oh man and you telling me good job no homo dude I had lost my virginity a deed that had been so elusive to me up until then that's awesome dude I'm so [ __ ] proud of you today I have women hitting me up everywhere I have a great job that I love I have a great body more money than I ever had and I love myself unconditionally he cleared a bunch of photos he looks really [ __ ] happy and he's got that [ __ ] look about him he's got that aura a peaceful relaxed fulfilled abundant dude I no longer fuss about women who aren't into me and genuinely feel sorry that they were blind enough not to see my awesomeness fuckin'-a guys like you very rare dude women really appreciate when they come across a guy who's a three-percent million like those four ladies that I saw hanging all over their dunes it delayed the other day I cannot thank you enough for all that you have done for me I will skip all the make outs invitations for hookups constant hitting on me that I encounter in my everyday life I have attached a picture of myself new my new car and a big thank you for all that you have done for me I still watch your videos daily I aim twenty reads prior to the year's end I have an abundance of women and I feel like the man I have always wanted to be James Bond at least from the pictures he sent he's [ __ ] living the dream dude I'm [ __ ] proud of you great job I get complimented on my walk straight back and tilted head which I have fashioned after yourself Denzel Washington Idris Elba and my father my clothing style which is a representation of myself makes women drool due to its distinctive flavor which has an I don't give a [ __ ] attitude and most of all I don't even contact these women at all well just like the video I did a few weeks ago reasons why women chase you do the things in my book you don't have to worry you know women never dump guys that they're chasing and can't get enough of if woman she is chasing and pursuing you it means she's really happy and she really loves being with you and that's her reward for you treating her properly that's why she blows off all the other dudes throwing their dicks at her because she knows she's got a real man obviously you then message me after the very first dates and tell me that there is something about me that is extremely alluring that confidence and centeredness because they it's very rare that they encounter like I said I set out there for an hour and I must have seen probably four or five hundred people walk walk by me and I saw a total of eight eight people that were happy obviously the four guys and their four girls it's a very rare thing in this world so when a woman finds a guy that understands the stuff that I teach she'd be all over your [ __ ] ass she won't let you go I owe you so much coach and I'm privileged to have crossed paths with you I told my friends about you however they have yet to read your book and wonder why they continuously struggle to have choices with women well again it's like people don't won't change their belief system until they metaphorically hit the wall if you will and obviously it's its way self-help is and it was one of the reasons why I had such a hard time in the beginning when I started out about eleven years ago figuring out the right way to market my book because it was the type of information that every guy should want to read but again unless guys are in pain and they're going through a difficult time they're not open to learn these things they're just going to keep plugging along with their way until they realize it doesn't work for them these friends have the biggest excuses such as they are pursuing their passions which is amazing yet they cannot make the time to read a small book such as yours and reap the rewards one of the biggest excuses that people have about whatever it is changing a job getting in shape getting a new lover eating better is always on at the time I don't have the time it's like they already it's like they got the reasons ready to go it's like don't waste your [ __ ] time just live and be a great example I love them to death but I know I care can care for their success to the point that I did because this care became a nuisance to my peace of mind you shouldn't care about other people's success more than they do something I learned early on in coaching there are smart guys and they will wise up sooner or later someone won't someone will just settle and they'll be miserable hole eyes and they'll die you'll go to an early grave to all the skeptics Corey Wayne is the truth and follow what he teaches it costs you nothing and gives you everything I will be making a big-ass [ __ ] donation nations are always appreciated if you're so inclined you go to my website and press the donate button in the bottom of the toolbar on any page whatever convenience permits and I want you to know that you have served as a surrogate father to me as my own father has been living across the world for the last 11 years I'm honored that you would think of me that would I appreciate that there are no excuses guys I'm a dark-skinned black male with an accent from Africa and I think I am the best thing since sliced bread women treat me accordingly well obviously dude because you're [ __ ] 3% man great job dude and [ __ ] proud of you and for those of you who'd like to get my help personally you can go to my website click the products tab at the top your screen on any page my website and book whatever coaching option works best for you and I will talk to you soon [Music] you

Channel: Coach Corey Wayne

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Length: 40min 44sec (2444 seconds)

Published: Mon Oct 17 2016