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Please be seated. Hello, Your Honor. Hello. This is the case of<i> Garrett v. Boyer.</i> Thank you, Jerome. Good day, everyone. AUDIENCE: Good day. Ms. Garrett, you are here on a mission today to prove that the defendant, Mr. Boyer, is the biological father of your two-year-old daughter, Naomi. Is that correct? GARRETT: Yes, Your Honor. You say that after a month of non-stop, unprotected sex with the defendant, you are one hundred percent sure that he fathered your child. Yes, Your Honor. Mr. Boyer, you say there is no way you could be the biological father of Ms. Garrett's baby her child is two years old and you just learned of Naomi two months ago. So, Ms. Garrett, tell us, what is going on? Well, today, Your Honor, I'm here to prove to Mr. Boyer that he is the father of my two year old daughter. It takes two to tango. Give me one second. Take your time, I know it's hard. It takes two to tango. We both wrong, we both did what we did and it resulted, the fact that we did, we created a beautiful baby girl. (SIGHS) <i> And I just need to clarify for him that she is his,</i> <i> 'cause if the fact that when the test results come back that she is his</i> he will take care of my daughter. He will be responsible. Because if he does not, I have no problem in taking him to child support at all. (EXCLAIMING IN AUDIENCE) JUDGE LAKE: Okay. So, Mr. Boyer, you've heard Ms. Garrett's assertion loud and clear. It shouldn't have took two years for me to find out if I'm really the father. So let me understand the nature of your relationship. How did you two meet? What was this relationship? Were you boyfriend and girlfriend? No, Your Honor. I don't have an answer to that. JUDGE LAKE: She said no. No, we were not. We were not. We were friends. Um, I met Mr. Boyer back in December 2014. You know, right away, we made an instant connection, Your Honor. The sex was... I mean, like, we exchanged numbers, we had consistent sex which was amazing. I'm not gonna stand here faulting nobody. Um, it was great. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) I'mma keep it real. It was real good, Your Honor. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) And we had 31 days of sex unprotected, and... Did I hear you say you had 31 days straight of unprotected sex? Yes. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) I'm not gonna say that deserves a round of applause. Even though you got one. So, you all were working real hard at making a child. 'cause you weren't using protection... No, we was not. And having sex consistently. Yes, we were. And that's why you believe Mr. Boyer is your child's biological father. Yes, Your Honor. Mr, Boyer, do you admit you had 31 straight days of unprotected sex with Ms. Garrett? No, I do not. It wasn't consistent. It wasn't 31 days consistently. It was about a month's worth of it, but it would be only on the weekends, like. I can't even work for 31 days straight. Did you do it for one day? Yeah. You did it for one day? It definitely happened. So that's all it takes. It definitely was unprotected. We know that's all it takes. Right. So you admit you were in this sexual relationship? You all were not in a committed relationship. Never, not once. Were you ever under the impression that Ms. Garrett was only sleeping with you, or did you believe she was having sex with other people? No, I was never under the impression that it was only me. It was too easy for it to be only me. I never wanted to put it under the wing like fried rice, though. She was just a part of the place... Like, temporarily. Not to take home and you know, put in the microwave... Under the wing like fried rice? Right. I never wanted to put her under the wing like fried rice. No. Wait, what does that mean? That means I never wanted to take her home. Like, it was just supposed to be at the restaurant, so to speak. You know what I'm saying? But it wasn't gonna be more... Oh! You say all that. But you're grown just like I'm grown, you know what you did. I know what I did. And you know what I did, but guess what, we're gonna prove it. I never denied that I did it. And for you to say child support... Okay, so let's continue om. That's irrelevant, 'cause you know I take care of my kids. So child support is irrelevant. You don't even got to say that. I'm not no deadbeat. All right, so at some point you find out you're pregnant. GARRETT: Exactly. When you find out you're pregnant, who do you tell? Your Honor, after our sexual relationship was over, I wound up dating another guy, me and him was consistent then. Automatically, he thought it was the other gentleman's baby so I did not... So you started dating somebody new and you thought it was his child? Right, Your Honor. So you told him, "I'm pregnant." Yes. Was he happy about it? Yes, he was. All right, so you told him you were pregnant and you never thought to notify Mr. Boyer? No. Mr. Boyer, were you ever notified she was pregnant at all, or did you find out? No, I wasn't notified at all. I actually was scrolling through my timeline one day and I saw Naomi's picture on her wall. So I, like inboxed her, like "Who dat?" <i>You know what I'm saying. 'Cause there was a baby.</i> <i> It was a baby, and I was like, "Well I know what I did around this time</i> "and I know this baby could be mine." So I asked her, she was like... First she said yes, then she said no, then she blocked me from asking her over and over. I was trying to get a clear story from out of her, and she just blocked me, like "No." Yes. Yes, Your Honor, I blocked him on Facebook. I sure did because I wanted to continue my happy little relationship. When Naomi was an infant, she blocked me. But isn't it ironic? You blocked him on Facebook because he was saying "I might be the child's father, and we need a DNA test." (SIGHS) But now you're here saying that he is the father. But Your Honor, I was in a committed relationship. So you were in a committed relationship at the time. You really thought the baby was the man's you were in a relationship with and the truth is, you didn't want Mr. Boyer stirring up issues in the relationship. So it really wasn't about the baby, it was about you. Yes, Your Honor. I wasn't gonna tell on her. I just wanted to know. So, Mr. Boyer, you're saying you didn't hear about Naomi again until just two months ago? Yes, very recently. Yeah. What happened? She inboxed me on Facebook. Same place she blocked me at, and told me told me, like, "Oh, well, you know, um, you know, "the test came back that he's not the dad, so you gotta be the dad." So I was like... That is not how the conversation went, Your Honor. I had a flashback from<i> Talladega Nights.</i> Michael Clarke Duncan, when he was like, "Don't you put that evil on me, Ricky Bobby. "Don't you put that evil on us." <i> So, I said that. I said that in my head, and I was like, "No, I can't be the pop."</i> <i> I can't, 'cause I got a lot going on in my life right now</i> <i> so that would be like a hindrance, you know what I mean?</i> <i> At the same time, I'm a responsible human being.</i> I'm still back on<i> Talladega Nights.</i> Yeah. Yeah, that's what happened. That's the whole scene that came in your head? Yeah. I was just, like, behooved. I was like, how could I be the dad, like, how? So... Okay. That's why we're here. So you were going through a lot of emotions and a lot of scenarios were running through your head at the time. BOYER: Yeah. And, what happened between the two of you? How did the conversation transpire after you were notified? She asked me to try to be around, you know, try to get to know Naomi a little bit. Um, I went over there to see her I got zero spiritual energy from this child. I had zero vibe with this child. I looked at her, she don't look like me, she don't look like my sister. <i> She don't look like no female in my family,</i> <i> she don't look like nobody in my family.</i> <i> So, I don't know. Maybe the eyes, but that's about it.</i> I mean, I don't see any resemblance there. She's a beautiful girl. So, you know what I'm saying? Like, I don't know. All children don't have to look like the father. They can look like me, they can look like the grandma, you don't know who they look like. It could be individual, or both of us. It's not all... So wait up, wait, wait, wait, Ms. Garrett, before you get on your plane and fly out of here. (LAUGHING IN AUDIENCE) Yes, Your Honor. Let me understand. You had the other guy tested. Yes. And so, the DNA test revealed that the man that you were sure was Naomi's biological father was, in fact, not her biological father. Is that true? I have it with me, Your Honor. I'd like to see it. So this is a copy of the paternity results... <i> And there is a zero percent probability of paternity</i> regarding the other potential father. Yes, Your Honor. And so, at the moment you got those results, you started to unblock Mr. Boyer, 'cause you were like, "Oh, Lord, I done blocked out the real biological father." So now, let me unblock him. Yes. And say, "How you doing, stranger?" (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) Yes, I did. (CLEARS THROAT) Was there any other possible biological father? Did you tell anybody else... No. "Now that I know this gentleman is not the biological father, it could be you?" No other man? No. And so, you knew if it's not this guy, it's Mr. Boyer. Yes, Your Honor. And so, Mr. Boyer how long after this initial point of contact did you say to her or did she reveal to you, I think you're the child's father? Immediately? Yeah, it was the same day. It was the same day. All right. And once she told you that, what did you feel? Um, I felt outraged, honestly. I was mad, because if Naomi is my child, then I missed two years of her life. I missed teaching her how to walk, I missed... You know what I'm saying, I missed a lot. And I'm not the type of person to miss anything when it comes to my kids, so that hurt. I mean, but, um... I don't know, we just got to find out. I can't do anything until I find out. And so, Ms. Garrett says you are the only other possible man. She says a lot of things. And so do you. We acting like that, because it wasn't all he's saying. It wasn't. Your response was, "Oh, I know what I did, and we're going to get a DNA test." I said that in here. I know what I did. I just said that standing right here, too. Okay, so we're gonna see. We're gonna see, Jeremy, we're gonna see. We gonna see. I'm not trying to throw you under the rug and that... Ms. Garrett, what is all this about? What is all this about, that you're doing right now? Because the truth is, you blocked him. He was begging you for a paternity test... I did, but... ...and writing to you, and you admitted it. You said, "I want him out of my ear," talking about can we get a paternity test because I'm trying to have a relationship with this other man. I don't understand how you can stand here now... Yes, Your Honor. ...with this attitude, like, he has done something to you. I don't get this. What is this about? Because, to make me it seem like I'm just a type of whore. No. No, you feel bad about yourself. I'm grown. And that's okay. It's all right. You don't have to project that onto him. You sitting up here, being mean to him and telling him what he's gonna do, what he's not gonna do, "You'll see, you'll see." This is obvious. You were in a relationship with another man, you were happy in the relationship or you wanted the relationship. When he was worrying you about the paternity issue, you blocked him. You said it. Then the relationship with the guy didn't work out, or either once he discovered he wasn't the child's biological father, he didn't want to do nothing with the baby no more. So then, all of a sudden now you gonna reconnect the lines of communication with Mr. Boyer and start telling him how he gonna do this and how he gonna do that... I mean, I think his doubt is more than substantiated in this moment. Sometimes you just gotta tell it like it is. I will give you this. You did step up to the plate and you were courageous enough to have the other man tested. Because you did want to get an answer. But don't create such a wall between you and Mr. Boyer because if we determine he is Naomi's biological father, the way you say, then this is a man you're gonna have to have an ongoing relationship with and I don't mean sexual, but an ongoing co-parenting relationship with so there's no sense to downgrade him. Because he's not doing that to you. Even after what you've done to him. (APPLAUDING) He has not said one word he hasn't said one foul word about you. Not one. Because if he had, I would have corrected him. Let's just get down to what's really happening. Mr. Boyer, have you thought about what you would say or how you would approach if this, in fact, is your biological daughter? Yes, I've thought about it. The first thing I would do is try to spend as much time with her as possible so she'd get used to me as a person, you know. <i>I can teach her how to stay away from men like the man that I used to be.</i> JUDGE LAKE:<i> All right, now.</i> (APPLAUDING) You better go ahead and preach up in here today, 'cause that's what your daddy teaches you. It is. It is. Yeah. And they don't treat me like my daddy, I'm not into it. I will call you out in a minute. That's the first example in a young woman's life, as to how she should be treated. So without any further delay, let's get the results. Jerome. (APPLAUDING) These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics, and they read as follows. In the case of<i> Garrett v Boyer,</i> when it comes to two year old Naomi Garrett it has been determined by this court... Mr. Boyer, you... Are not the father. (EXCLAMING IN AUDIENCE) He's not the father, Ms. Garrett. That's fine, Your Honor. And I can still move on and raise my daughter on my own like I've been doing. Do you know who her father is? Yes. But like I said, in between the conception, there was no other guy. There was no third, fourth, or fifth person. That's what I'm trying... There was at least a third. Because he's number two and your ex was number one. You're right, Your Honor. Well, can I take the time to say this, I apologize. I'm sorry for wasting your time, you don't have to have nothing to do with me. Don't contact me, I won't contact you. You can call me whatever you wanna call me. I'm completely fine with it. I have been called... Whatever you want to call me before, it will not hurt me. I'm not gonna call you no names, yo. I just wish you the best, that's all. I just wish you the best. (APPLAUDING) Ms. Garrett, look at me. It's out there now. You gotta stop beating yourself up and start building yourself up. Do you understand me? 'Cause you gotta be strong either way now. You've gotta be strong if you, in fact, have to raise Naomi by yourself and you've got to be strong enough if you do know who her biological father is to make that first step to contact him and to do this process for a third time. Not for yourself, but for your daughter. Everything you spew out to him it's really what you feel inside about yourself. Let's get Naomi's father in her life. She's two. Okay? She deserves that. We have counseling and resources for you both. I wish you the very best of luck. Court is adjourned.
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Length: 16min 48sec (1008 seconds)
Published: Tue Sep 25 2018
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