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Please be seated. Hello, Your Honor. Hello. This is the case of<i> Smith v. Smith.</i> Thank you, Jerome. Good day, everyone. AUDIENCE: Good day! Mr. Smith, you have brought your estranged wife to court to prove that you are the biological father of her four-year-old daughter, Christina "Cookie" Smith. You signed the birth certificate, and have been Daddy since she was born, and claim you know you are her father. Is that correct? CHRISTIAN: Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: Mrs. Smith, you admit that you allowed your husband to sign the birth certificate and initially believed he was Cookie's father, but as your daughter got older, she no longer looked like him. And now you believe another man is her dad. Is that correct? Yes, Your Honor. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) Mr. Smith, take us back to the beginning of your relationship with Mrs. Smith. In the beginning, we actually met in middle school. Uh, we went out until, I want to say, seventh, eighth grade, and then we reconnected after high school. All right, and you dated? Fell in love? Right. We actually got married. JUDGE LAKE: Okay. CHRISTIAN: We actually ended up getting new phones around that time. So, it was just like, the other phones were kind of lingering around. So, I'm casually just going through them. And you know, I saw text messages, some photos, between my wife and some other cat. What did you see? What was the exchange? CHRISTIAN: Well, it was like, it was like, you know... "I miss you." When you miss a person, you know, apparently you've seen... You've seen them before. You know? Nude photos. Oh! You know what I mean? (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) Nude photos of your wife? Or of the man? Excuse me, Your Honor. A little bit of both. I've never seen any of these alleged text messages that he's talking about. Well, did you send them? (WOMAN LAUGHING) I mean, even if you haven't seen 'em, did you send them? Yes, ma'am. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) JUDGE LAKE: Okay. MAN: So, you know about it. Well, then, he's seen 'em. (AUDIENCE LAUGHING) So, what happened, Mr. Smith? When you see these text messages, with nude photos, and "I miss you..." Basically, you know, I let my parents know what was going on. And I packed up, and I left. I had to. So, you then called your family member, your mother. Right. Just to, you know, because she's my support. You know, she helps me on everything. Everything. You know what I mean? Everything. And that's just out of natural, you know, just natural affection... You were upset. Yeah. I just had to go to my mama. I had to, I had to, I had to. So, she talked me through it, and, um, she actually, you know, helped me get through a lot. So, at some point, Mrs. Smith, you find out you're pregnant. Yes, ma'am. Um, when I found out I was pregnant, we were very excited. I told Christian, we weren't together. And I thought that this could be a chance for us to reconnect and make our marriage work. And he agreed, and shortly after, we got back together. And so, you found out you were pregnant, you told Mr. Smith. Mr. Smith, when you found out she was pregnant, were you happy about it? Extremely happy. JUDGE LAKE: You were extremely happy. Extremely happy! And she said she hoped that this would help rekindle your relationship. Did it? I didn't know what love was until I met this person. JUDGE LAKE: Right. So, then... And I'm having a baby with this person, as well? You can't ask for more. I already got everything I need. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) So, were you there at the hospital when she was born? I made it priority number one. Okay. Be sure of it. It was a cesarean section, um, birth. So, what I'd made sure was, since I couldn't cut the cord, um, I asked the doctor, you know, "Can I lean over, can I see?" You know? 'Cause you can only see that one time, you know? It can only happen one time. So, now, you know, when Cookie is 18, 21, 40, I can tell her, "I saw you come into this Earth." You know what I mean? "The first time you just (GRUNTS) "came out in there." I understand. And so, you were there. CHRISTIAN: Yes, ma'am. And you were happy? CHRISTIAN: Ecstatic. Did you sign the birth certificate? Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: Excellent. And she has your last name. CHRISTIAN: Yes, ma'am. And so, Mr. Smith, at what point do you start having paternity doubts about Christina? CHRISTIAN: So, I'm in the shower one day, I believe Khalita is at work, Cookie's out there, I'm watching her. And I just noticed something that doesn't need to be there. You know? I didn't put it there. I know everything that goes on in my house, so... It's just a CD that I see that's out of place, and I'm like, "I didn't put this thing here." So... The number that was on the CD, you know how people can pass out CDs? Yes. Their contact information. CHRISTIAN: Right. That number, it's just something about that number. I didn't forget about that number. Then I saw an Instagram name, so, I immediately go, I look up the Instagram, so I'm scrolling. And I see somebody (CHUCKLES) holding my daughter. What? CHRISTIAN: You know, with a cheese... One of these, you know, with a "cheese" on their faces, like, you know, all happy and everything. So does it have a caption? Um, it did have a caption, but I... Not for word-for-word verbatim, but it was something in the line of him claiming her though. It was that. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) So, this photo, you actually submitted in your court papers. This is the photo you saw? On Instagram? CHRISTIAN: Honestly, you know, I don't wanna, um... I don't like looking at that. I don't like looking at that at all. JUDGE LAKE: You can't even look at it. Nah. Who is this man? Well, Your Honor, his name is Joseph. I actually met Joseph after we separated. And around the time I was very vulnerable. (CLEARS THROAT) And he was the only one showing me any type of attention, or any love which I needed, because I felt lonely around the time, because my husband left me alone. So... (CLICKS TONGUE) Yeah. JUDGE LAKE: You had sex with him? KHALITA: Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: Did you use protection? KHALITA: No, ma'am. Did you tell him you were married? No, I did not. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) So, Cookie is now four years old. And you believe that she is this man's biological child. KHALITA: Yes, Your Honor. Not your husband? KHALITA: No. JUDGE LAKE: But for the first two years, you allowed your husband to believe that she was his, without ever saying, "While we were separated, "I had sex with another guy, unprotected, "when I got pregnant," there's a question? KHALITA: Yes, ma'am, because I didn't feel like it was any need to bring it up to him because when me and Joseph hooked up, we were separated. So, I didn't tell my husband about it. Well, at the point you find out you're pregnant, shouldn't you at least put these cards on the table? Yeah. JUDGE LAKE: Because he's bonding with this child for two years. Correct. JUDGE LAKE: And you knew the whole... Did you know the whole time that there was a possibility that this other gentleman could be her biological father the entire time? At first, I had no doubt in my mind, that Christian, you know, wasn't the father of my child. But as Christina got older, and her features started changing, that's when I, you know, had some doubts about it. But, now, your husband has formed a bond with this beautiful little girl. He's on her birth certificate. Right. He's raised her. And you never stopped to say, "I better say something"? No, Your Honor. AUDIENCE: Aw. Oh, she's so cute. AUDIENCE: Aw! (CHRISTIAN CHUCKLING) So, if he has a caption saying, "This is my child," you had told this other man that the child was his? Yes. Yeah. Before me. Right? Before me? Like, I don't mean anything. There's this random person gets the best information in the world, and you feel like you can't tell me the one thing that I actually need to hear for my sanity? I think we need to hear from that other man, and he is here. (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) JUDGE LAKE: Jerome? (APPLAUSE) Please escort Mr. Joseph Prater into the courtroom. (AUDIENCE MURMURING) That's tough. (CHUCKLES) That's tough. We're gonna have you go right up to the witness stand right next to the Judge. (CLEARS THROAT) Mr. Prater, how did you meet Mrs. Smith? I seen her walking down the sidewalk. And I actually like ran behind her, and, um, we exchanged numbers. We talked on the phone for a little bit, not too much in depth, but we talked for a little bit. And then maybe a couple of days after that, we met up. Did she tell you she was married? No, ma'am. I had no clue. JUDGE LAKE: So, when did you find out about the baby? I don't know the time, verbatim, but the first time that I'd seen Cookie in person was when she was two years old. Did you ever find out she was pregnant at all two years before? Um, yeah, uh... You know what? I can't... I don't even remember, verbatim, I don't. So, tell me about the first time you met Cookie. I was in, um, downtown, we met in a public place. And I started walking, and she was in a stroller. And she just looked up at me with that mischievous like... Like one of those type of things. And I was like, "Oh, you know me from somewhere?" Like, that's when I felt like that might have been my daughter. You did? Yeah, it was something. It was like she knew me already. And so, when you met her, did Mrs. Smith say to you, "This is your child"? I ain't gonna lie. When I seen her... She looks just like my dad. She looks just like us, so you know, I never really like doubted it. You understand what I'm saying? Like I always thought that "Yo, this is my child." And so, while all this is happening, at two years old, you find out, you accept it, you've got this little girl. Do you make plans to stay in her life and to be a part of her life, and to take care of her? Yes, ma'am, I did. But at the same time, I wasn't in a position to be, uh... (STUTTERS) A structure of a good parent, or anything at all. So, you're saying that you did not start providing support for the child. I mean, I would see her. I would see her, and we were like... JUDGE LAKE: So you would see her, and you would spend time with her. Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: How many times did you see her, spend time with her? She's four now, after you met her when she was two. Did you see her on more than one occasion? JOSEPH: Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am. JUDGE LAKE: And you'd always refer to yourself as "Daddy"? Yes, ma'am. And all this time, Mr. Smith, you're also spending time with her? Of course. And having absolutely no idea this entire encounter occurred. Still referring to yourself as "Daddy" as well? (AUDIENCE EXCLAIMING) Mrs. Smith, what kind of web you weavin'? WOMEN: Yeah. Yeah! Mmm. (EXHALES) I'm gonna give you time to think on it. I'm gonna hear from your mother. Please stand, ma'am. Step over to the podium. State your name for the record, ma'am. My name is Toni Brooks. JUDGE LAKE: And you are Mr. Smith's mother. I am, Your Honor. Your son has already said that when he first, uh, you know, had issues in his marriage, he ended up moving out, they ended up getting back together, they had this beautiful baby, this baby. I'm sure if your son thinks it's his daughter, that's in your heart and mind, your grandchild. It is my grandchild. It is. I love her, she's been there. When he first... They broke up... I've never thought they should've been together in the first place. I always feel like their relationship is just toxic. It doesn't work. At what point do you even find out about Mr. Prater? I kept asking, like, "What's wrong with you?" Like, "What's it?" He wouldn't tell me. Finally, he was like, "Look, I gotta show you something." And he goes, he pulls up the Instagram, and just puts it out there, and he was like, "See, I guess you were right, Ma." (AUDIENCE GROANING) And I didn't want it to be a point of me being right. That's not the point. The truth just needs to be out. But, with that said, the truth is, is that you obviously didn't know that from that two-year point, Mr. Prater is still in contact and seeing Cookie as her father. And your son is still functioning like Cookie's father. And, Mrs. Smith, even though you opened up and told Ms. Brooks the truth, you still were allowing Mr. Prater to see her behind your husband's back. Until just now, I didn't even know any of that. And, Mr. Prater, you did not know about Mr. Smith. No, ma'am. So, Mrs. Smith, why? I just couldn't find the right time to say anything about it. When you have issues like this, the right time is the soonest time available. Because that means the child would have clarity. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) Your child. And so, as we stand here today, what are your hopes in this moment? I assume, Mr. Smith, you hope that you are her biological father? CHRISTIAN: Definitely. Definitely, without a doubt. I... I can't really ask for anything more. Honestly, I would love that. JUDGE LAKE: And, Mr. Prater, I assume, since you are attached to her, and believe you're her biological father, you also hope you are her biological father. I do hope she's my daughter. Like... At the end of the day, I do want to apologize to bruh and say that I feel like, at the same time, if I am the father, she's just going to have two. Because he's been there for two years, four years. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) At the end of the day, I'd be willing to share. You know? So... Mrs. Smith? What do you hope for? I'm just hoping that we could all work together for Christina. 'Cause at the end of the day, it's about her. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) JUDGE LAKE: And I'm ready to get the results for her. Jerome, I'll take the envelope, please. Here you go, Your Honor. Yeah. Thank you. These results were prepared by DNA Diagnostics and they read as follows. In the case of<i> Smith v. Smith,</i> pertaining to whether Mr. Smith or Mr. Prater is the biological father of four-year-old Christina Smith, it has been determined by this court, the biological father is Mr... Prater. (AUDIENCE MURMURING) JUDGE LAKE: I'm sorry. I'm sorry, Mr. Smith. I know that was not the news you wanted. That's tough. Oh, I know. But it doesn't matter. I'm gonna do what I gotta do. That's my baby. That's my baby. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) But we have to be honest. It is his baby, too. And he is the biological father, and you are the legal father, which means this web is still continuing. It's complex. So, we have got ourselves into a real situation, with emotional issues, legal issues, marriage issues. We have counseling and resources here in this court. I want you all to sit down and I want you all to begin this healing process for yourselves and, most importantly, for Cookie. All right? I wish you all the very best of luck. Court is adjourned.
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Channel: Paternity Court
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Length: 16min 41sec (1001 seconds)
Published: Wed Sep 05 2018
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