"Make love to me or I'll have you DEPORTED"

when we saw the scene of you two at the wedding you said that you could not kiss her yes okay have you guys ever kissed before that yes you have yeah are you intimate before that yes you have okay so you've kind of consummated the relationship a little context basically this is a clip from 90 day fiance essentially the woman is american she met this guy online i believe he's from tunisia they get married he comes over and then they start having some problems he's in the process of getting his green card set up through the marriage process was there any intimacy after the wedding at all after the well yes there was but we started facing a problem what is what was the problem i don't want to say like this is very private instead of taking care of that problem she was like fighting with me over it this is something that no man in the world can accept that and then and then she was like be like sitting on the floor crying screaming in front of her teenagers i want my sex tonight if you don't give me my tonight i will i will i will call the immigration i will get you deported i've heard that are you serious are you serious i've heard that so many times being in bars all right let's get it all right so this guy was wearing the pros and cons am i going to tell these stories or not yeah okay let me just do it yeah so pink game all right listen we're in this province right a lot of girls go to cuba and they go get some man here in montreal there's a lot of cuban nights where like there's cuban band dancing it's like that and going on and stuff like that right so when you get these gentlemen here they want to be with their people and that's normal the cubans want to be with the cubs yeah cause they want to you know they want to you know they want to reminisce that's just normal right because they left cuba to go to montreal and be with the ladies okay so you want to hear your music and stuff like that reminisce so in the bars where there's special like cuban lights and stuff like that too many women too many women talking about being not happy with a certain situation and when the guy comes back threatening the guy to you know i'mma call immigration give me an example of what conversation like you might have heard oh okay you're just gonna act like that you're just gonna act like i'm gonna be like that and everywhere like if i tell you to come there you're like you're with me you don't dance with other people what you want me to call immigration on you you have to respect me like i'm the one that brought you here and i'm i'm in charge of your paper so you have to i've heard that way too many times through the course of me going out in clubs how is that not predatory we always talk about there's power dynamics with a manager and an employee how is this any different in fact here the consequences aren't just you're going to lose whatever job up to the consequences are you're going to be sent back to a living situation that's way worse than what you are right now as far as i'm concerned women like this are monsters it's not just cuba it's dominican republic all those little islands where there's uh tourism and i'm pretty sure it's the opposite as well for other countries it's not a physical leash it's a mental leash that they have it's an institutional leech that they have i have institutional power to have you removed from this country and remove any opportunities that you have i've heard that that's brutal yeah absolutely brutal so when i'm watching this clip and i see it i'm like how are the comments but we don't know if it's real we don't know but i haven't watched this i don't know what that no no this guy's died live this is a real show oh no no i'm not saying if it's a real short not it's a real situation what's what's her rebuttal today okay is he lying is he not lying what's going on because that's just what he said that's his side of the story all right so inside the story is that i want to see i want to see the rest of it danielle can you tell us what he's talking about he has told people that i smell and i do dawn maybe curls really speaking he didn't know about no that's p no it's not just me to pull up for you go ahead go ahead all right i'll put up myself because it's not there is elements in that is in there there you go there's the whole bunch article proved that female is just blah blah blah there's other stuff in there but there is yeah that's what i said no no no no no it's not just elements of it there is p in there it's mixed with us that is exactly what the [ __ ] i said no you said there's elements of there is elements in that is in there if i give you water yeah okay and i put in the water yeah just because it's mixed doesn't mean it's not pee in there i understand what you're saying okay so you gotta put on if i put p in there and i throw it in your face are you gonna tell me it's not my [ __ ] no i'm gonna punch you in your face and you said i did that because that's not a woman so woman does that she throws in your face it's not pee it depends it's me don't you don't keep seeing me no no i see i move hey listen listen i'm not mad if people are into it but let's be honest about what it is and it is what it is it's okay but it is there's be in it but it's not just that sure but it's a huge quantity of it so you got put on let's be real sure if you're okay with it you're okay with it i'm not judging people but i hate when people say it's not no boo boo there's a huge amount of it yeah it's really chicken curry it's not chicken yeah it's elements of curry it's chicken though the whole smell thing i get that yo there's gonna be girls that are gonna be in the comments being like no the poom boom listen is it like a man there could be smell i'm telling you this from first hand experience having first finger nappy finger is not when you know it smells bad you know it's bad when you're far away and you can smell it profusely yes like i've had literal experiences where i was hitting it from the back and i had to do the fat joe lean back because it was so smelly i had to lean back just so the fumes wouldn't catch me right ruff i remember this one girl i'm like damn she's absolutely gorgeous great personality okay great looks all right get to bed boom very enthusiastic yes yes she gets god bless i take a whiff okay and now lean back deuces oh wow immediately tell the person if i'm just starting to see you i'm up if we're in a relationship and it develops and we have that conversation with one right do you tell the person if that poom poom people are [Music] the reason why i don't tell people is a selfish reason like i can make it sound like it's about them but the reality is i don't like the feeling of having to tell someone something bad about themselves that they're not aware of you know what i'm saying unless it's like incredibly toxic in terms of their behavior towards other people if it's how they keep their hygiene i just to me i don't feel comfortable imposing myself on someone i don't know them you dig what i'm saying it doesn't make me feel good yeah so i just bounce i'm like that's someone else's responsibility not mine is it fair no is it the best thing i'll be honest it's not but i'm not gonna be the one who says it that being said i would tell you if i was dating somebody and they had a really bad smell they didn't want to take care of it i would stop sleeping with them 100 150 for me it's a deal breaker if i'm in a marriage with a woman and she refuses and it's i'm not talking about as small i'm talking about that heavy punch but you're not supposed to tell women how they should feel about their thing it's not for you to say that abba okay this person here she has some stuff that i don't like i i complain i don't you know what i don't even i don't even want to know no no no no you asked you wanted to know yeah you can't backtrack now you open that can take the whoop yeah hey no i want you guys also to perceive something that's super important this conversation when the man was asked what was the problem he said i don't want to say anything it's very private she was the one who volunteered that information right he was very private and respectful about it even though he had a problem with he's like i'm not going to air it out to the world she aired it out and there's another video of her where she does threaten him with deportation couple tips wow and the reason why i wanted to watch this and bring this up is like imagine if you reverse these genders wouldn't you look at the man as predatory for taking advantage of a woman in distress how is this any different it's not how because here at abbott preach we don't do the difference it's the same thing because we're equal so yeah men do it women do it it's garbage don't forget to subscribe to the patreon it's a huge problem it is a problem if i saw boss being like if you want to stay at this job you have to do this for me this is no different yo like i'm telling you so yeah you saw it a lot i'm not even working at the bar bro bro if i go there to get my boogie on the salsa you know what i mean you know what i mean i'm gonna have some fun but you also have to consider the kind of person that would go to a foreign country to try to meet someone or be in a relationship probably is already operating under the idea that they're gonna have power over them they're probably desperate they're not good at building relationships they're going over there to find love to me that's already very suspect to begin with it is suspect right it's already a bad basis and now you have this person back here you know you have control over them it's hard to not want to exert that because you've already tried to force control over it by going to a country where people pay for it most of the time yeah you know what i'm saying so to me it's just when i see that happen i'm pretty sure it's everybody like a lot of people whenever they see someone go get a boyfriend one and you're like [Music] okay they really go i'm really happy for you but in the back of my like oh this could be problematic it can be and there's a whole bunch of other couples like this where the woman threatens the man with deportation a whole bunch yeah i've seen men do it i've seen women do it it's just that men are not necessarily going to do it out of the open hmm why it really looks bad because you know you can't go like what you're going to do what you're you're going to be called right away the men don't do it openly because they know how they're going to pay if a man does it openly it's like yeah whatever but i've seen a lot of girls do it like i've seen that i've seen that so anyways i just want to bring this up to you guys for today but we want to hear your thoughts what do you guys think about this idea is this predatory am i imagining stuff we want to hear your thoughts uh and that's it [Music]

Channel: Aba & Preach

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Keywords: aba preach, reaction, danielle, tlc, mohamed

Id: 4EkJjL1XSDg

Length: 10min 55sec (655 seconds)

Published: Wed May 20 2020