Lala Kent | Not Skinny But Not Fat

oh my God you guys I'm so excited Lala Kent is here we made it happen and in person and in person that's so much better and it's Jessica Jessica's the goat she gets everything done she's the best thing that's happened to me since ocean and we saw her on the last episode of Vanderpump yes and we were just talking about it before we started that the [ __ ] other girls and if you're listening right now come prepare to your next interview I I thought that they were joking I'm [ __ ] lilac do you know where you are do you know what we're doing we're on Vanderpump Rules this is give them Lala basically like that's where you are yeah and even if you don't know who I am pretend yeah if you're gonna go to like an interview at like a financial advisor place and they're like have you heard of you know Michael Schwartz and Nick and Nick I'll be like yeah are you kidding me they always wanted to work real well your finances are so good so like we're talking Lala household name I like to pretend so yeah yeah I love first of all you are and Lala is a name that that that allows you to own it it's like a share like a Madonna that's how I feel yeah I mean there's LaLa Anthony but I mean Lala is not a common nickname yeah you know I would say it's me and Lala Anthony yeah she's way cooler no but yeah I was just honored to share the same name did you ever talk to her about it were you ever like she's always been really sweet to me yeah I don't think we ever talked about our names I think I just ask Lauren when people try to be dicks oh they're like Lauren from YouTube the whole sentence it's like well Lauren from Utah and it's like [ __ ] you know I'm from Utah because I've worn that with pride since I stepped onto Vanderpump second of all I didn't change my name because I wanted to be quote-unquote gangster it's because you're saying it incorrectly what do you mean it's not Lauren it's Lauren oh if I was calling you a man die yeah like just call me something wait so how did Lala start it started when I was just a young kid and everybody was calling me you know the neighborhood kids my My Little Friends it just was a nickname it was always Lala and it stuck because when I moved out to LA my best friend from childhood would introduce me to everybody as Lala so no one knew me as Lauren anymore I didn't even start that it was just like I'm coming to this party with my friend Lala she just moved here and all of a sudden that was just my name it's so good and I love when people call you la la what do people call you a lot too quickly well what if I was like Hey La would that be weird no that's when I know that we're we're real close this has been such a [ __ ] by the way everyone she's here in person she looks amazing you look gorgeous and I feel like people like I don't know if you have seen my recaps of the show this season but like people may think that I'm like favoring you a little bit like every scene I'm like lala looks first of all why do you you look so you're always gorgeous but this season it's like extra thank you for saying that I actually need your favoritism this season because I felt like I was coming into this season as like this brand new woman like once I gave birth I just felt like I felt like a softer version and then when you know we're filming and I'm you know calling people out I felt like it was a different Lala I was not clapping back I was very I felt I was very depressing like flashbacks of her being like yes right like Bambi [ __ ] Michael Vick fighting dogs like who was that person so you don't feel like that person at all I still see you though oh trust me yeah if you that person will come out but I don't feel like I displayed that this season do you or am I making that up okay we'll talk about it so I think you have a way which is god-given because it's not something so people don't try to work on it and get this skill because either you have it or you don't where you can do things and it's okay when you do them do you know like if someone else did I would be like that's so annoying maybe I would be like that's something why is she going up to literally Brock and literally telling him like it's not a purpose but when you do it it's not annoying and then you cry and it's cute so you're like and she's crying can I just tell you when that whole Brock and Gina thing happened I mostly and I don't know if I posted this because um Shannon follows me and maybe I didn't want to search it up but it's like I was like or maybe ask Katie I don't remember because I needed to know I was like does Lala really care about Sheena that much like you were crying so let's go back to the beginning of the Season you were crying over your friendship with Sheena and I was shocked because I didn't know that you cared about her which which part was it crying after she did the podcast what was I was crying about that you didn't get to experience your pregnancies together you know I I look back on that time and you know it was a group of us that were pregnant at the same time and I just felt like there was so much heaviness that was brought into those moments where Sheena and I you know we've been doing this for a long time together and even though she may not be like my best friend from childhood she's still a dear friend to me and we were pregnant at the same time we will never have that ever again so that triggered me I felt something with that it was like why did we bring the [ __ ] into a time where we were having babies yeah because it's such a beautiful thing it's such a beautiful thing but okay so that makes sense do you think you were any harm like maybe hormonal a little bit too because like you just said no I think I think it was a combination of things I think I was angry at her that she opened the door with that podcast that she did saying I wasn't there for her during her miscarriage I felt like if that upset her that much she should have picked up the phone and called me yeah it's a big statement to make saying someone wasn't there for you when you miscarried yeah well more specifically she literally said you she asked you to come over but you literally like no I'm going to dinner with MGK and Megan Fox which is very like it's it's like it would show that your character is like preferring of celebs or whatever right right which I really don't give a [ __ ] about to be quiet no I know and then it was funny because you had a really funny moment um that I laughed at where you were talking about the rand's premiere that um uh MGK didn't show up to which I was all over that yeah I was spinning I was spinning I was like ah um because I thought it was just [ __ ] up it doesn't matter it just I thought it was [ __ ] up and you said too I think it was on Watch What Happens Live you were like they wanted to be with like kravis not with love and that moment just like I think that's why it works with you is like you could be like a little hot-headed a little like overstepping but then you'll bring in the realness of like you know who am I he's been hot-headed yeah since the time I lived in Utah I've always been someone with a quick sharp tongue I've always had a short fuse I've always had very little patience patience for the [ __ ] that's just how I've been from the beginning of time I know exactly where I come from no one needs to tell me that I'm Lauren from Utah I got that yeah I got that yeah why is this in Utah too right [ __ ] off yeah what did you say you were from La like is that cooler I I don't know I'm from the town of Mormons yeah so I have I have uh morals without the Mormonism that's definitely what I like to think definitely not the Mormonism no I don't have the Mormonism okay so when you started going at Brock which is I mean you were saying what everyone was thinking and that's another thing that's another thing right it's like why we appreciate it because if it was just an elephant in the room and everyone was talking about it behind their backs and talking [ __ ] it would be like but you confronted him about was that not awkward for you to be like hey why are you a deadbeat dad no I was confused I was very confused it's like it's one thing to say I haven't seen my kid in four years because they live somewhere else but when you say you haven't seen spoken FaceTime nothing zero Communication in four years I got questions why yeah because you now have a baby with my friend that's a concern for me is it my business probably not but I'm concerned and I'm gonna make it my business now just because I want to because yeah both I want to what would you say to someone who said okay but what if someone did that to you I wish they [ __ ] would have really I wish that somebody would have come to me and said I'm getting DNA DMS about your person no one voiced any concern for me and my relationship do you think anyone knew and didn't say something they had to have because a couple episodes ago Sandoval James and Sandoval both expressed that they knew things and as time passes I have a lot of people that are telling me things and it's like you know everyone wants to say it's not your business how would you feel I I would give everything to turn back the clock and have someone tell me something don't cry Lala you know now look and listen to this you had baby ocean I know and if you knew sooner maybe you wouldn't have you have to think about it like that like whatever happens like you had baby ocean and you wouldn't want to not have her no that's and imagine you knew before and you broke up with Rand you wouldn't have her you would have another baby maybe that baby would have sucked and it wouldn't be maybe it was Jen okay so whatever you went through you went through for a reason that's what I have to tell myself every single day yeah but it's such a mind [ __ ] Amanda it I have to understand how the worst person that could the worst thing to ever happen or come into my life how did they give me the best thing to ever happen in my life it is such a mind [ __ ] because maybe people have more than one side maybe he has a side that was loving you a good father but he has this dark side that's gross and disgusting you know what I mean and you saw the good side he didn't show you the bad side maybe people aren't all like one thing you know what I mean you saw the good in him you saw a lot of good you like looking back I know it probably feels this way too because it does to me is like you kept uplifting him which is so probably weird to look back at is like every situation with like Schwartz and Katie or Sheena and brachi were like well Rand is this kind of a dad and you know and and and he would stand up for me so you were like blinded like you sounded good like you thought he would you gave him as the example of what a good man is because that's what you genuinely thought and you Lala [ __ ] Ken who has a big mouth who knows her [ __ ] [ __ ] so he either you were blinded by love do you think or do you think he's really good at manipulating I think my head was completely in the sand I think I ignored a lot of things that I probably shouldn't have but I think I ignored them because he's good at what he does it's so wild to me it'll I'll like I know so many women probably think this and we've seen it with you know actors like Hugh Grant Elizabeth Hurley who cheated with like a prostitute but it's like no one can even think do you think it's also your self-confidence like why the [ __ ] would you do that to me like to me I mean I would have put Millions upon millions of dollars on him never creeping around on me yeah like why would you need to I mean I never would have thought in a million years and everyone around me is blindsided as well yeah like how how these people that are coming and talking and and showing us everything yeah did we never see it did we never question I mean I have conversations daily with people in my circle where it's like what what the [ __ ] just happened yeah how does he explain it I [ __ ] up we don't communicate um but you know what else I loved how you handled it is like which no disrespect to any woman that stays and wants to work in the relationship go to therapy I applaud that my ego is just way bigger than yours and even though it's probably scary to walk out like it looked like from from the outside like you were just like you heard it bye like I'm done yeah I think it's one thing where if your your dude has a slip up and is doing you know he [ __ ] someone yeah you know that's that's one thing I wouldn't forgive that but I could see how women could say let's go to therapy and work through this that was not my situation that was not it at all I feel my situation is very very dark and nothing that I represent in any capacity so for me when those pictures came out the girl gang showed it's so crazy to me because I got a pit in my stomach and I've always said when that pit comes I know something's wrong I saw those pictures and I just knew I'm going to do what I need to do to exit this relationship how good that you were in married Lala how [ __ ] great that you weren't married yet I thank God and my dad daily that I never married him babe glass half full [ __ ] you know what I mean oh my God like yeah you have to worry about the baby but we look we tackled that baby amazing thing to have happened yeah marriage would have [ __ ] [ __ ] up oh my God I I just the thought of it sends me into a panic if if we if I would have gotten married oh my God you're like good thing covet happened thank God for that like the silver lining for me yeah is that is that yes so that's what I wanted to ask you about the pictures came out I don't know I didn't repost any of that because I felt like it was you know not respectful to you and until something is you know comes out of your mouth I'm not going to talk about it but how did you feel about people posting it were you pissed were you kind of like yeah show show the world what a piece of shitty is I think what's done in the dark will always come to the light you know I I protected him I don't know if you watched season five you know I I made up that I was dating an athlete I made up all kinds of [ __ ] to protect this person thinking that I was being protected in return if you choose to go out and do whatever it is that you did that night and you have pictures that are you know I can't help you I'm not embarrassed by you you're not embarrassed I did nothing wrong yeah he should be so many women would be do you know what I mean so many women would have wanted that [ __ ] under the [ __ ] rug hell no but you didn't [ __ ] lilac Hank dude oh my God Roy Cannon did you watch Ted lasso no who is that oh you have to watch it did I sound like I said Roy Kent no but there's a character Roy Kent that his thing in the show is saying I'm Roy [ __ ] Kent that's amazing now I have to watch it first of all yes and your Lala [ __ ] can and that's what you should feel every day you look in the mirror and you say that to yourself and you have to believe that like what you just said like that doesn't affect who you are no what he did no and and do I it's not even that I sit there and go I wish the pictures wouldn't have been posted or I wish I that the pictures were posted if people want to post I I have zero control over people's Pages do your thing I'm not embarrassed do your thing you want to post him out doing whatever the [ __ ] he's doing not my issue well this is the first time you've ever been kind of like open about your life which is really interesting because this is like you've always been really private well the aspect I feel yeah I feel the control is gone um when you look into my eyes I like I can't I can't with you what do you mean you're so powerful thank you you have like a lot of power thank you you need to feel that you know what I mean and know that I need to remember it you need to remember it because it's hard but you got this mama you know those like like moms always say to moms like you got this mama and I was like kind of cringy but it's also true you got this like we talked about it before we started like you [ __ ] had her ocean in your belly you gave birth to her you breastfeed her you take care of her like you got this and again I really do believe that like would you rather be in the situation would you rather stay with this person or know the truth and move on oh I want the truth I'm I'm there's so many people on my cast that said we weren't allowed to talk about your relationship and there were parts of my relationship that you weren't allowed to talk about you weren't allowed to talk about his ex you weren't allowed to talk about his kids I have zero control over that that's that's something that he and his family worked out but when it comes to someone [ __ ] around on me you let me know yeah my relationship is not off limits yeah his prior relationship is all limits I have no control over that I feel like my people are scared of you Lala do you know well I don't get that I feel like you're intimidating I feel like maybe they were scared that if they'd tell you you would like bite their heads off and like protect him oh no no for sure you were to present me with the things that I've seen yeah look what happened it was presented to me right right are you mad at certain people for not to like have you shut those people out or in I'm in a I'm in a weird place right now I'm very isolated I'm very uh I just I really just want to be around my mom my kid my amazing assistant just anybody who's going to kind of just like keep me incubated you know because I'm in fight in flight mode daily and it's not for me it's for ocean she's my only concern my only priority so I don't really have time to sit here and think about who didn't share things and why they didn't it's like that ship has sailed I just want to be around people who are going to really baby me and not make me defend myself I just need to be babied how's your anxiety um it's manageable good you know I'm I've been sober for over three years amazing I'm very strong in my sobriety I'm proud of it I feel like each day that goes by you know I deal with my days head on in my right frame of mind so my anxiety goes up and down depending on what I find out that day yeah but you're feeling good like you're you look like you're you know when I think about anxiety it's like that debilitating [ __ ] which you had we've seen you on the show yeah having those moments before and I attribute that to my alcoholism because since I gave up alcohol and I don't recommend anybody do this I think talk to your doctor before you just start tweaking your you know meds yeah me personally once I got sober I didn't have to be on antidepressants or anti-anxiety medication anymore really ever my life was manageable and again I'm not saying yeah go get sober and don't take medication talk to your doctor for me I didn't need it anymore oh that's amazing yeah wow has it been harder not to drink lately or is that you're so you would think so but no not at all great it's like not even a thought in my mind I go to my meetings I talk to my sponsor my my little sober sisters have really stepped up to the plate in this moment that's all I can ask for is your mom in Utah no my mom actually packed up when when all of this news broke she packed a bag for three days that was October 16th she's been here ever since stop yeah because she takes care of ocean when I'm working during the day and I work from home but if I'm doing things like today we're doing a podcast so she's so she's with ocean yeah but I thought you have like a day nurse well no that was when I was with that person and you know that was very necessary for me to have and I know I know what it looked like and it was confusing for me too there were no there were moments I noticed yesterday with the editing a little bit and obviously I'll say this you don't have to say it where there was a moment where it made it seem like bougie right do you know what I mean but but listen I want to tell everyone this I have a baby now and I used to judge people with nannies and with help and with living nannies or a nanny for one kid all the help you need all the [ __ ] help you know what I mean and I'm hard on myself like I work from home so I'm also like how do I take someone I'm like home but like I really need to self-talk like you need help like a baby is hard so but I did notice in the show the last episode there was a moment where I don't know the editing was trying to make it seem like you know you were saying how you're without whatever and then they were like oh Pander off to the day nurse yeah there was like the show does love me to refer to them as the daners and the Night Nurse they love those words oh like you should say their names meaning no they they I mean I would normally just say I'm gonna I'm gonna give ocean to Karen now or I'm gonna give ocean to live but they like the day nurse and yeah because it sounds like extra virgin you also have to remember the babies are only allowed to be on camera for 20 minutes oh that's it oh there's a law oh yeah oh and once the 20 minutes are up they've got a hand up you gotta hand her gotta hand her off okay and my mom lived in Utah at the time I would have much rather had my mom taking care of my baby yeah especially at the beginning like you need like you need someone you need your mom you need and if not then you need a Night Nurse my mom took a Night Nurse when she was my dad like they didn't have any money but she didn't have a fan so anyway it's not as bougie as I feel like the episode yeah it seemed very bougie watching it back and when I was in it it was like this is just like my partner yeah you know she helped like I take a feed the night nurse takes the feed you know so you're not up every two hours which I commend the moms who do that yeah but that's I I also work I know it looks like I just sit there and twiddle my thumbs and a camera crew just shows up at my house no that is why do you think people think that because you said that on the episode yesterday why do you think no really why do you think people think that no why do you think people think that because I don't think anyone thinks that is my point I feel like it's you're projecting that people think that you don't do [ __ ] I think I fixate on the two comments that are bad and I don't realize the hundreds upon hundreds of amazing comments that I get daily now there are days where I'm great at that and like [ __ ] this little troll yeah but there I'm also human and there are days where you know even though I sit here and it's like I don't give a [ __ ] about anything wait let me tell you a secret we know you give a [ __ ] I feel like that's very like I call myself a Chihuahua sometimes because it can sound like I'm confident whatever but if someone says anything like I'll cry and go into a corner totally I feel like you're like I think we can see through that and that's why you're likable if you were just you know confrontational all this then people wouldn't like you but I've felt on on the web that people are loving you this season and I feel like do you feel the support because I feel like it's outpouring I do yeah Beyond yeah it's actually I I think about it and kind of cry daily because it's I think about what I've done in the short period of time that I've been in this sort of Spotlight or you know had this platform for just this outpour of love and support and people sharing their story so I feel bonded and connected to them like it's it's very strange yeah it sucks that like something bad has to happen for people sometimes to like be sweet do you get what I mean like sometimes you have that that friend that's there for you only when [ __ ] really gets dark but like like when you're like I'm engaged she like let's give the [ __ ] you notice those friends you know what I mean so it may be is it a little bit of human nature but I really feel like people are really team Lala this season and um and now we're going to move on to sandy Sandoval oh God you had some great one-liners too I didn't oh my God the dick in the mouth yes yeah that was good that just comes out for you like you just like yeah sometimes I don't know where things come from and they come out and I'm like oh God you're like how did it taste right I'm like what and she was like Santa Paul's dick in your mouth boom we were talking about Katie in their relationship and then he just started going off on this like let's defend yeah Sandoval and I was like this the the sand of all dick in your mouth needs to make its exit and we gotta figure this out yeah little did I know yeah I had no skin in the game of pointing out people's flaws in their relationship yeah that is a little like I don't know if it's foreshadowy or it's something but that's that's what I was saying about you like you kept on giving the example of of your person being the good you know and I think I was projecting really I do you feel like some like your intuition you felt something yeah hmm I do certain things that I was saying it was like thou doth protests too much and I felt like that's what was that's the only thing that I can when you look back now yeah you're like why did I care like that's what you're talking about like why was I saying that why was I so invested well why was I so invested I mean yes we're filming a television show but like I don't have to give a [ __ ] it's not like producers sit there with a gun to my head and say talk about this yeah but you won but you want to make a good like you're not Christine from selling Sunset okay but like no you're really not I don't watch that [ __ ] oh you don't know okay Jessica does Jessica does she'll fill you in okay um no because she will say like I'm you know I'm being the villain I'm being the [ __ ] I'm making the show that's not your Vibe okay that's good yeah that's good but but when you look back it's like why do I care so much about Brock why do I care about um you know Tom standing up for for Katie yeah I don't know why the [ __ ] I cared so much it's like I don't know what to tell you I mean now looking at the pile of [ __ ] I'm kicking it and it's like your guys's relationships look awesome yeah where do I sign up for the Katie and Schwartz yeah relationship you're gonna get it look at all this midlife [ __ ] again we're talking about um this before we started the podcast that's what I look at is like look at kravis found each other midlife that's true you're not even meant life you're just 30 now now 31 yeah okay um look at benefit 2.0 love that look at their other couple oh Chelsea Handler and her new comedian boyfriend Joe Coy she found love after many many years and she keeps shouting it from the rooftop she's like it can happen so I think it sounds crazier that you have any doubt that you're gonna be killing it yeah in the men's game you know what I I think I will find that amazing love of my life I do feel that right now though I just want like I want give them Lala to be a [ __ ] Empire I want to just like that is my baby that in Ocean I want to provide her with a beautiful life that's that is my that's my priority right now finding love is like Beyond on the back burner even finding a good lay is like Beyond on the back burner oh speaking of you did a a Bella vibrator ad yeah good timing great time good timing like for the ad for the company yeah um and and and obviously you added like a kick in the caption which I was gonna repost but I I didn't yet is and that was that was good that was good you said it was the best sexual experience you've had in specifically five years and eight months boom posts I mean I I it's the same thing with Star Lab like I introduce I'm like welcome to my new place and these Brands get like publication pickup and they're happy I'm happy yeah bam we did our job you got me off and I you're in People magazine and the thing is like I feel like people were noticing that you were doing more ads now and that actually to me like I feel like it was heartwarming right so I feel like it was like such a yeah she she's gonna do what she has to do now yeah I mean I I have a place to pay for now I have a car to pay for I mean I think a lot of people think that my life was taken care of when I was with that person yeah but let's be very clear I mean he put a roof over my head he provided me with a car he provided me with insurance that's pretty much most married couples married I know we weren't but most couples that I know I mean they're the woman is you made it sound like it was more do you know what I mean not that that's on you I think I think I was I think I came in hot at the beginning of Vanderpump and I was trying to throw salt in wounds and I was never able to recover from the comments I had made right about flying private where my whole thing was like all of it yeah where my whole thing was was I really giving BJs for private jets no you know what Michael did everyone back then was like does she really like giving BJs I actually did like giving BJs for a long time that is crazy that's a whole other podcast episode that's what I was thinking I was like [ __ ] BJ's for something but like BJ's in general like she likes doing it I don't understand yeah see that's crazy but I said things that were like just I wanted to like poke and you're funny so you were like making a joke but that stuff you're saying and then people yeah I put myself in in the box and you had that appointment at the hair salon I remember was it was sassy where you were like I was talking about all of these things do you regret those things of course I regret it really I don't want to say I regret them I was young and to look back it's like I don't even recognize that person but that person was also like 20 27 yeah I entered Vanderpump when I was 24. yeah I mean that's a young person very but do you think there was part of you that was trying to shock but also say this might look like a weird relationship and you might wonder what I find in him but he me I'll have you think that he gets me these things and I like it I think at the beginning of our time together I was being spoiled a lot and that was not how it was throughout our time together and I always said you know if I ended up in a box tomorrow I can't think of anybody else I'd rather live in a box with really that's how you felt that's how I felt you know you really loved him I did yeah and I think that's what is so hard to stomach for me is that you know even when we weren't connecting I was so loyal and faithful I was not studying inappropriate text messages I was like in it I went straight to him if I was ever feeling unhappy I was willing to do couples therapy I started going to therapy on my own like I was doing anything I possibly could to make sure that he and I would stand the test of time and to feel like I was doing all of that really for nothing I mean Amanda I look back on these years with him and I can't remember it you can't remember the good times I can't remember any of it what do you want to remember though I just think I've bla like I've blocked it out but that's your that's your your brain and your body protecting you do you know what I mean that's how the mind works in crazy ways that's legit like you are protecting yourself from being more traumatized than you are yeah so don't remember it don't you remember there was no resolve you know yeah he he came home I had seen the pictures I kind of knew what I wanted to do we didn't have a conversation about it and I packed my stuff and I left and there was no communication about anything even now it's through lawyers it's just very it's about ocean and that is it so he's not trying to get back with you no like Kanye no really there's no communication at all do you think it's like ego for him like he's angry I don't know what it is because we're talking about someone who I don't know like you feel like you don't even I don't know who he is at all so la la yeah what I'm saying is don't try to remember it you don't you don't need to journal about what the last five years were you met someone he was good to you at the time you found [ __ ] out we're happy that you found it out rather than you be in the dark for longer you're young you're beautiful you have a beautiful baby that you want on this planet she's my everything yeah she's so [ __ ] cute she's so cute she's so cute I know she's crawling she got her fangs in before her two middle teeth that usually doesn't happen it never happens her pediatrician was like this is extremely right how many months is she now she's nine today she's nine months today yeah did you ever think you would be the person that was like taking a nine month baby photo well unfortunately I'm not I look at all my friends and they're like I'm eight months today and they've got the cute outfit yes sir they're in the basket and me I'm like oh [ __ ] it's the 15th she's another month today like we'll just take a quick picture for me to remember it but like I don't do the whole Pinterest thing but bad mom for that not at all I stopped after like three months I think a lot of work it's a lot of work and and and you take so many pictures of her anyway and you'll see what months you'll see what month it is you know what I mean you're like I can see what month it is people do crazy [ __ ] people do different themes for like each month too like today I'm like he's in a pizza box and tomorrow he's into this and what yeah people do crazy [ __ ] [ __ ] no ocean is very adamant about what she wants already and if she's not vibing she will let you know yeah like if I put her in a pizza box she would well she could love it but if she didn't like I would know it's so is she a calm baby or is she feisty is she she's calm but if she's somewhere she doesn't want to be and she said Lord she makes it hard yes you know like I can't just stick her somewhere and leave her you know like some of my friends have babies where like you can literally put them in their playpen and they're chilling for hours playing with their blogs ocean no you have to entertain her oh yeah yeah a lot of energy I know it so do you think you want more kids Lala I do yeah yes I think I'll start depending on what my life looks like next year um I think I'll I'll start figuring out and I don't want another baby daddy so that we know yeah but I'll start figuring out options for me to have another baby I think you'll find someone and and have like a family unit at some point and if not you'll have a backup I love a good backup I love like to me I love my baby so much I'm obsessed with him but it's like it's so crazy it's like I can't think about another baby so when people are like have a baby and they're immediately talking about another how old is Noah he's a year and a half but it's wild like I don't have a moment I know I don't have I leave him for a second he's like hanging by the by the curtain I'm like oh my God it's like you know it's just crazy and I'm like another one do you know that my sister randomly like had sex with her husband which is like very random like the one time a year and this happened got pregnant goes to the doctor's appointment they're like there are two heartbeats no so that can happen randomly which is to me is terrifying like yeah babies are blessings but but it's but it's a lot and it's a lot of it's a lot of work the morning comes very quickly that is for sure like I feel like I just put her to bed and then I'm finally winding down and already it's like she's awake what time does she wake up if you're gonna say like 7 30 I'm gonna kick you out of the studio no she wakes up between six and seven okay and goes to sleep she goes to sleep around 8 30. oh that's late so you hang out with her till 8 30. oh yeah oh that's late and then when do you go to sleep well I like to get in the bed by nine yeah then I watch all these [ __ ] murder shows why do you watch a lot of shows there's something about them that's really just I me and my mom dig murder mysteries scary movies yes I have to know I'm like infatuated with it but you also watch like Housewives and [ __ ] right don't even get me started I've watched every I'm watching OG OC right now what you said you're starting from the beginning sure am should I I think everyone should do you know that people talk about you a lot as a great candidate for a housewife I feel how do you feel about that it depends on which one there are moments where I'm like oh my God yes like I see it I see what everyone says I think I could do Salt Lake you would you I would love to do Salt Lake really oh yeah you take me back to my roots true but Beverly Hills would be too like weird Beverly Hills I like it but I just think the age is off but they did that with New York that's yeah when like uh well not really because she's a little older than you Leah but she came in and like no one believed that she was like hanging out with Luanne right or like with Ramona Luanne is cooler but like no one was like oh Leanne Ramona are gonna go have a tea like so that would be your but that even you would be more than Leah because you kind of know those you probably would say hi to those people if you saw them on the street I love garcelle more than anything she's so beautiful she's so stunning yeah and every time I see her she is just like a bright light oh like she's a Vibe but you know you think you have to think about do you have things in common with these people are you just living in the same area is not like a common yeah you know if Teddy were on that would be a different story too because she has a young baby right oh you've thought about this Lala Kent obviously yeah would you do constantly looking at ways to elevate to Ella okay but would so is that like would you be okay with leaving Vanderpump for that if they were to say to me where we would like to transition you into this yes yeah because I'm all about my future and what's going to get me to the next level so that I can you know create something great for my kid yeah does it scare you at all though because you do Post ocean which like I'm all for I usually make fun of the Emoji babies a little bit you know what I mean wait what are Emoji baby when people cover their kids faces with Emojis what do you mean have you never seen that yeah I've seen it I just like that you call it Emoji baby well yeah because it's like why post the [ __ ] picture that I know I know I don't get that then don't find a picture of you by yourself and just don't pose as a kid but then it's like with this and it's so ugly like I don't care about grid and like how my grid looks but I don't want a huge yellow emoji on my no I don't either I don't either so you post ocean is there and and you say like you would be you're willing to show her on TV does that scare you do you have any fears about that or are you like oh god I've never thought about it I know it's weird I like posted my hotel the other day and someone was like dumbass are a thing and I'm like are they gonna wait outside for me a lot like John Lennon such a crazy time I mean but I rather not think that I know I'd rather not think it because I told my husband I was like the only way they could kill me is not they can't come into my room they could like wait outside for me to leave yeah but you should just be careful yeah I think I'd be okay yeah do you what with posting ocean well oceans there are a lot of celebrities that are very like self-righteous and and will say like I want my kid to tune in my mind I mean it you know and you're like are you gonna wait for your kid to be like I want to be posted on Instagram I think it would be different if I were like a Gigi Hadid yeah or an Angelina Jolie I'm on a [ __ ] reality okay this is why I love you because there are people I can't think of an example now you are very like I know where I came from yes like I'm not gonna pretend like you are famous people do know you but you're not gonna like pretend like you're Juju Hadid I'm not jujit I'm not I'm well known because I'm on a reality TV show like vanderbump rules yeah okay yeah just call it what it is I'm not known because I want it [ __ ] Oscar or I'm walking for Victoria's Secrets yeah you know those people I think have the right to sit there and say you know what I wanted to be an actress I like the art Fame comes along with that I don't want to show my kid right I literally felt so compelled to be known I guess that I threw myself onto a reality show like yeah well if I can't be an actress I'm just gonna be myself yeah and hopefully people think I'm interesting and they did well luckily yeah but are you still trying acting stuff like will you go to auditions no I I audition all the time really I do I really enjoy it you know do you think it hurts to be in reality TV like when they know you're on a show or does it help sometimes I think both I think it depends on the project right I think if it's maybe like a smaller film it's like this will bring notoriety to the film I think if it's a more you know you have a very amazing cast it's like we're really gonna bring on the chick from Vanderpump Rules like even if my audition tape is great yeah I'm I'm in a box yeah unless they don't know you unless they don't know me that's that's always wouldn't that be fun though if you're like maybe they don't maybe they don't know that's always the best that's what you would hope for no idea yeah yes and you did a few roles I did yeah yeah we're venturing out into to New Territory yeah which I'm excited about what's a new territory just auditioning for things that are not made by the person I used to be yeah yeah you know we won't even get into that yeah okay well Lala I love you so much thank you I think you're an amazing person and and Mom thank you and I wish you the best of luck and I really do believe that you gotta just believe that [ __ ] like you believe in God just believe [ __ ] happens for a reason and you're gonna power through this you're gonna come out stronger and you're gonna show your baby girl that Mom can do everything and she's gonna give her the best life she could possibly give her I'm going to you are I had so much fun talking to you thank you for coming on you're the best anytime you want mine next okay Kayla

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Published: Fri Jul 07 2023