ITOWN TV Episode 3: Hope for the Past

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♪♪♪ Dave Sumrall: Hey everyone, my name is Dave, and my wife Kate and I pastor ITOWN Church. Thank you so much for joining us today. I know it's easy to look at all that's happening in the world around us and to really feel hopeless. That's why I love God's Word because the Bible is filled with stories of hope. You know, just recently, I brought a message to our church about that subject from one of our prison campuses called, The Pendleton Correctional Industrial Facility. It was truly an incredible experience and I think you'll enjoy the message. Make sure you hang out until the end because I want to share a very powerful story with you about a young woman named Kelli, who found hope in an unlikely place. But first, let's talk about hope for the past. ♪♪♪ Dave: We are in a series called, "Hope." Our theme verse is Hebrews chapter 6 and verse 19. The Bible says that we have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. You see, every one of us walk through storms in life, we'll all walk through adversity in life. Trouble is destined for us all, Jesus never promised to protect us from it. And what happens in the midst of that is that our souls oftentime get blown by the winds and the waves of adversity that come to us in life. Our souls determine how we think, our souls determine how we feel, and our souls determine what we desire. That's the part of us that has those functions. So, you are a spirit, that's the part of you that will live forever somewhere in eternity. You have a soul and you live in a body, that's that physical part of us. And so, the soul part of us needs an anchor. In the midst of adversity, if we have the biblical kind of hope that God has called us to have, it doesn't matter the storm that's raging around you, your mind won't go crazy, your emotions won't run wild, and you won't desire the wrong things. Because that's what happens to us in life, isn't it? When storms come, when adversity comes, we start thinking crazy thoughts. We start desiring the wrong things, and that always leads to the wrong actions. We find ourselves way off course living a life that God never intended for us to live. And so, what we need is this biblical form of hope, an anchor that in the midst of crisis, in the midst of adversity, we have something that holds us secure, something that keeps us from running wild in life. And that's the kind of hope that I am praying that God gives us throughout this series. Now, it's not wishful thinking, it's not just coming up with something crazy and then demanding that God gives it to us. It's got to be in his will and it's got to be in his Word, and we're going to talk more about that. Jot this down if you're taking notes, hope, our definition is a confident expectation based on something solid. Hope is a confident expectation. Biblical hope is something that I know God has promised me. And it's based on the fact that not only has God made the promise to me, but then he's also made an oath. You see, the Bible says that God makes promises to you. All the promises in the Bible have been given to us if we believe in Jesus. But then on top of that, God promises to fulfill the promise, the Bible calls that an oath. And so, he actually swears on himself, God said, "I swear to myself that I'll bring this to pass in your life. I swear to God that I will bring this to pass in your life." So, hope is this confident expectation based on the Creator of the universe saying, "I'm going to bring this to pass in your life." Something solid, it's biblical hope. And so today, I want to bring you a message about the source of hopelessness. And there's one thing that probably brings the most hopelessness into our lives, and that's our past, the things that we've walked through in life. Because it's easy for us, especially as children, to have great hopes and to have great dreams. And you ask children, "What do you want to do with your life? What do you dream of becoming?" they have these hopes and dreams that far exceed most adults. You know why? Because they've never had their hopes dashed. And so, the difficult thing for us as adults is to not hope, it's to hope again. It's what do you do when your life falls apart? What do you do when something that you hope for, something that you dream for actually falls through? And you've walked through tragedy, you've walked through adversity, and now you have to hope again. My prayer for this message is that God would touch you and speak to you in a supernatural way, and that you'll be able to hope for the life that God still has for you. Because listen, it's never too late to become who you might've been. It's never too late to become who you might've been. In God's system, it's never too late, it's never too late. There's always hope. So, we're going to study this guy in the book of Lamentations, it's written by a guy named Jeremiah. Jeremiah was an Old Testament prophet. Old Testament prophets were like the pastors of the country. And they would bring words from God to the people. And so, Jeremiah was a prophet, he wrote the book of Jeremiah in the Old Testament, all these really cool prophecies about what God was going to do. But then even as a preacher, he himself got super depressed, and he wrote a second book called Lamentations, which means complaining. So, he literally wrote the book of the Bible called Complaining. And today in Complaining chapter 3 and verse 19, our text is, "I remember my affliction, my wandering, the bitterness and the gall. I remember them well and my soul is downcast within me." So, Jeremiah says there are three things that I walked through in my life that makes me feel hopeless. Three things that I have walked through in life that make me depressed, my soul is downcast within me. The first one is I remember my affliction. This would represent, if you're taking notes, jot it down at every campus, past problems. These are the external forces that go wrong in our lives that are outside of our control. Every one of us have tragedy, we have issues in life, we have problems around us. It could've been the neighborhood you grew up in, or the family that you were born to, or the people in your world. There's just stuff that happens to us in life that are outside of our control. And there are issues that creative incredible problems in our lives. Jeremiah is remembering the affliction, the uncontrollable pain of the tragedy of my life that's outside of my hands. Job talked about it. If you remember Job from Scripture, he's the guy whose life completely fell apart. This dude was like a straight up baller. Big time businesses, super wealthy, big family, and in an instant everything was gone. His family died, all of his kids died in a roof that collapsed, all of his crops were burned, all of his animals were taken, all of his investments were gone. Overnight, this multibillionaire literally had nothing. And then his health failed. And the Bible says in Job chapter 30 and verse 26, "When I hoped for good, evil came. And when I looked for light, then darkness came." You see, it's so hard for us, when we're even walking through tragedy, we get a little-- we just muster a little bit of hope to look for a better tomorrow and then, man, we just get smacked again. It's difficult for us with these outside problems for us to overcome because this affliction. And we remember it, we dwell on it. I don't know if y'all remember the show "The Biggest Loser." Anybody ever see, "The Biggest Loser" show? It's off air now because of all scandals and the things they were doing, the contestants behind the scenes and all that stuff, but my wife and I used to love watching, "The Biggest Loser." If you've never seen it, it's people who have gotten very overweight going to a camp where they help them eat the right diet and work out and do all the kind of things to help them get skinny. And my wife and I would actually, ironically, watch it every week with a plate of cookies in bed. And so, we watch these people get in shape while we were getting less in shape, and it was a lot of fun. But there was this one contestant I'll never forget, her name was Abby. And Abby was living a normal life when, one day, her husband, her five year old daughter, and her two and a half week old son were broadsided by a semi truck, and all three of them instantly gone. And that tragedy, that outside occurrence, that affliction just shipwrecked her life. And in a moment, everything that she loved was taken from her, and she didn't know where to turn. And so, obviously the fallout of that was that she lost her health, she got incredibly unhealthy and incredibly overweight 'cause she was in so much pain. And there are many of us that have walked through things like that in life, where something that you loved, something that you cared for, something you cared about was taken from you. It's hard to get past. It's hard to have hope when you close your eyes and that's what you remember. Jeremiah said, "The second thing that keeps me from hoping is my wandering. I remember my wandering." That represents, jot it down if you're taking notes, my mistakes, past mistakes. Every one of us have made mistakes in our past. I'm sure all of us here would love to go back in time and have a do-over for a couple things we did in life, couple of decisions that we made. Wouldn't it be great to have a do-over? And so, we think through the past mistakes and we think, "Man, look at my life, and I feel trapped by my mistakes and the things that I've done. I feel like it's defining my future. I feel like it's keeping me from living life." Job said it this way in Job 27, "What hope has the godless when he is cut off, when God takes away his life?" Now, that's bad theology, he's just mad at God at this point. He's just fussing. He's feeling like God's abandoned him. And sometimes you feel that way. When you've made mistakes in life, when we walk away from God, we take control of our own lives and we make our own decisions and try to make our own future. Oftentimes, it falls through and we find ourselves in the ruins of our lives feeling like, man, I'll always be defined by the things that I've done. I'll always be trapped by the mistakes in my past. The last thing that Jeremiah identified that was making him depressed and keeping him hopeless was the bitterness and the gall. Bitterness and gall only come from people. So, that's past relationships. We all have past problems, we all have made past mistakes, but some of us have past relationships. It could be a friendship that fell apart, it could be a person that walked out of our lives, a marriage that fell apart. Job said it this way in Job 19, verse 19, "All my intimate friends detest me. And those I love have turned against me." You know, people are tough. And sometimes, we walk through times when people that we care about betray us. And people that we thought had our backs and they didn't, people we thought we can count on and they weren't there for us. And that messes you up. It's hard to look back over your life and reconcile that. It's hard to have hope for the future, it's hard to place your trust in another person when you've been let down like that. And some of you have a difficult time 'cause people have trouble letting things go. God forgives and God restores, but sometimes people hang on to stuff. And yet, we're supposed to have this hope, this trust in God that's an anchor for the soul. How in the world do we hope in God, how do we put our hope in people, how do we put our hope for a better future when we have this past that says, "No, you'll never move past the things that you've done. You'll never be free from the life that you once lived." What does that look like for us? Well, as we continue in our verse, remember Lamentations, the book of Complaining chapter 3, Jeremiah says, "I'm remembering all these things and my soul is downcast within me." In verse 21, he says, "Yet this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope. Because of the Lord's great love, we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They're new every morning, great is your faithfulness." There's three things I want you to see here that will help you have hope for the past, to help you place hope in the future that God has for your life. Number one, if you're taking notes, jot it down, the first thing you have to do is refocus your mind. Jeremiah says, "I've been thinking about all the things that I've done wrong. I've been thinking about all the people that let me down. I've been thinking about all this stuff that's happened to me, and I'm thinking about all the mistakes that I have made. And yet I'm going to shift my thinking and think about something else." Yet this I call to mind. And in changing my thinking, I'm changing my perspective, I'm changing my outlook, I'm changing my trajectory of life. You see, what you think about determines everything else in your life. The Bible says, "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he." Your thoughts determine everything else. Instead of focusing on our past and the failures and the mistakes, we need to refocus our minds to think about the potential and the promise that God has for our lives that lie not only in his Word, but also in his love that is so great that you and I can't comprehend it, we have to experience it. And incidentally, I just want you to know that's what God intended for you. God never intended for us to approach him through intellect. He always intended for us to approach him through experience. God is an experiential God. And so, when he shows you in Scripture the stories of people, you know that most of the heroes of faith were adulterers and murderers, and they were some messed up people. They didn't have their lives together. But God tells us their stories not so that we would study their stories, but so that we would have hope and faith for our own lives and find our story in their story because God's not finished with you yet. If God can do it for them, God can do it for you. But instead of thinking about the problems of the past, we have to refocus our mind and watch how God had touched other people, and experience the love of Christ for ourselves so we can refocus on the promises that are still yours in Christ. And that will help us, number two, receive God's love. Jot it down, every campus if you're taking notes today, refocus your mind, but then also receive God's love. That's what I love is, Jeremiah says, "Because of God's great love, we are not consumed because his compassions never fail." I love this, they are new every morning. So, it doesn't matter how bad you messed up today, guess what? Tomorrow is a new day. You get to start over tomorrow. And if you mess up tomorrow, you get to start over the day after that. And if you mess up the day after that, you get to start over the day after that because his compassions never fail. They are new every morning, great is your faithfulness. Did you know that your God is more faithful to forgive than you are to fail? I fail a lot, but I'm thankful that I serve a God who forgives me more than I fail. And so, every single day, you and I get a fresh chance to go to God, a fresh opportunity to start over because of his incredible love. But most of us can't receive God's love 'cause we won't love ourselves. We can't believe that God would love a person like us. And I just want you to know that everybody fails in life and failure is not final. Failure's not your future. You are not defined by the things that you have done. You're not defined by the mistakes of your past. You are defined by the sacrifice of your Savior. Just because you have failed doesn't mean you are a failure. And too many times, we take on the persona of the things that we have done and we create an identity out of it, and that is a lie from the pit of hell. That is not who you are. Just because you have made a mistake doesn't mean you are a mistake. Just because you have had failures doesn't mean you are a failure. And your past does not define your future. It does not determine who you are. The Bible says in Psalm 103, "He does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. As far as the east is from the west, that's how far he has removed our transgressions from us." But most of us can't receive God's love because we have this messed up, distorted view of who God is. 'Cause you see, religion works overtime to tell you that God's up in heaven waiting to judge you, and to condemn you, and to get even with you, and to strike you with lightning for all the things that you have done wrong. And yet, my Bible says in Micah chapter 7 and verse 18 that, "There is no God like you, the God we serve, who pardons sin and forgives the transgression of the remnant of his inheritance. You do not stay angry forever," but check this out, "he delights to show mercy." God delights to show mercy. God loves letting us off the hook for the things that we have done wrong. He loves the fact that Jesus paid the price for your sin and for mine. So, he's not looking to get even with you, he's looking to get right with you because he wants to shower you with his love, he wants to give you his grace, he wants you to experience his presence and his mercy and his forgiveness. You know, the devil knows your name, but he calls you by your sin. And God knows your sin, but he calls you by your name. And he loves you more than you could possibly imagine. He says, "I'm going to write the laws on their hearts and I'm going to put them in their minds." Verse 17, "And their sins and lawless acts I will remember no more." How good is that? That God, the one who created the universe, that sees time from beginning to end, he doesn't forget. He's not looking down from heaven going, "Remind me how you got there." Like God knows, right? He knows. But the Bible says he remembers them no more. What that means is he does not choose to associate us in the manner of our mistakes. He associates with you through the blood of Christ. So, when he sees you, you are in Christ justified, just as if you had never sinned. God's coming to you and saying, "Look, you got to refocus your mind. Don't sit around all the time and think about the things that you've done. Don't think about the things that have been done to you. Don't think about the people that did you wrong. Think about God's promise and the life that you're going to live on the other side of this. Think about the things that you're going to accomplish with your life 'cause it's never too late to become who you might've been." Refocus your mind on the potential that God has for your life. Receive God's love because he does love you. If you're the only person on earth, Jesus still would've died in your place, he loves you. And if you do that, number three, then you can release your past. Jot it down if you're taking notes. Isaiah 43 says, "Forget the former things." Stop dwelling on the past. If Jesus forgets about it, if Jesus has let it go, if the Creator of the universe says, "I'm washing it away, I'm separating it from your life. I will associate with you in the manner of your sin no longer," don't you think it's time that we put it to rest? Don't you think it's time that we let it go? You got to let it go. It's time to move on. Some of us have been trapped by our past for way too long. We let it consume us. Every time we want to do something for God, we hear the inner voice that says, "No, think about the things that you've done. Think about the people that you hurt. Think about the life that you live. Think about the addictions you struggle with. Think about the thoughts that you think. Man, you'll never be good enough." My prayer is that God would do a miracle changing you from the inside out, and that that toxic voice would change to the voice of the Holy Spirit that says, "You are enough. You are free. You are forgiven. You are going to be successful. You're more than an overcomer. You are blessed. You are above only and not beneath. You are the head and not the tail. You will be successful in everything that you put your hand to." That's what God's Word says about your life. You are forgiven. You are set free. And that is something that every one of us can put our hope in, an anchor for the soul that God sees a better life for you. Dave: It's time to let go of your past. It doesn't matter where you've been, it doesn't matter what you've done, God loves you and he wants to restore hope in your life today. I want to take a minute to share Kelli's story with you because she has a past filled with mistakes. In fact, those mistakes ultimately led her to prison. But in that place, she found hope in Jesus. Kelli: Before I accepted Jesus in my life, my life was chaotic. It was out of control, it was empty. I was just going through the motions of every day just trying to live, but I know like ever since I was little, like I know that I always had a void in me, like a hole that nothing ever, like, filled. You know, that I tried to fill with relationships or drugs or alcohol, and nothing ever filled that hole until I found Jesus. I grew up in foster care, like from 2 to 17, but my biological family was Catholic. So, I grew up on like that part thinking that God was like a punisher. You know, I know now today that that's not--that's not true. That's not the God that I know today. The night that I gave my life to Christ, I was actually laying all alone on a floor really cold and just in the most desperate place in my life, like the most desperate night of my life, where I literally felt like I couldn't take another breath. And I remember laying there, just crying all alone on that floor, and I heard him say to me that he makes all things new. Like my self-worth, my self-esteem was so low, I felt like such a terrible person that I thought that, you know, nope, I didn't feel lovable, I didn't feel like anyone could love me, let alone God, you know, 'cause he's this great being, he's the Creator of the universe. And he just--he spoke to my heart that night and he said, "I make all things new." You know, and he does, and it's been a process ever since then. I think my first service at ITOWN, a friend of mine had come back to the dorm and she was like, "You know, ITOWN church came tonight and it was really fun." And like two weeks later, she had asked me if I wanted to come to the service. So, I came with her, and I was a little nervous at first because the only experience I'd had with church people, you know, were judge--you know, I felt like were judgmental. But when I came through, like the women that came into that service were so welcoming. Like as soon as we came in, they're just smiling, you know, and they shake your hand and they ask your name. And they're just--they were really, really welcoming. I get a lot out of the services with ITOWN, that's why I come back, like I feel lighter and I just feel better when I leave than when I came in. Like the main thing that I found in my relationship with Jesus is hope, hope that my life doesn't have to be the way that it was before I came here. You know, hope that I can-- I can live and have happiness and have a purpose in life. I guess like before, I just never felt like I had any sort of purpose, and I do now. Hi, my name is Kelli, and through the love of Jesus, I was made new, and I'm a member of ITOWN Church. Dave: Just like Kelli, your life does not have to be the way it was before. God wants to make you brand new. I want to take just a minute to pray that God would help you find freedom from the past and give you hope for tomorrow. Lord Jesus, I thank you for every single person watching. We thank you that we don't have to be defined by our past, and that you do have a future and a hope for every single one of us. So God, as we surrender all the pain and all the mistakes of our past, we thank you that you make us brand new. Thank you that you have a better tomorrow planned for every single one of us. In Jesus's name we pray, amen. Now, for some of you, you won't be able to find God's plan, God's future for your life until you give him complete control. In fact, I often like to say he's either Lord of all or he's not Lord at all. But a beautiful thing happens when you surrender to Jesus, the Bible says he makes everything in your life brand new. And maybe that's what you need today, a fresh start. You can find that just by surrendering your life to him, and it'd be my honor to take just a moment to help you do that. If you would, just bow your head, close your eyes maybe right there where you're watching, and pray this very simple prayer after me. Just say, "Lord Jesus, I surrender my life to you. Forgive me for all of my sin. Today, I make you my Lord. I give you my life. Fill me with your presence and with your power, and give me a brand new future. In Jesus's name I pray, amen." If you just made that decision, I think it's the best thing that you can do with your life, and I want you to know I'm so proud of you. Our church is actually built for people just like you. So, we'd love to come alongside you and support you any way we can in this brand new journey of faith. Take just a moment to grab your cell phone, text the word "hope" to 63566. We'd love to send you a very simple text that has some next steps that you can take as you grow in your relationship with God. Of course, as always, you can find the rest of this series called "Hope in the Darkness" on our website. And I'd love to invite you to join us for one of our Sunday services. Until then, we love you and we're praying for you, God bless. ♪♪♪ ...
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Channel: ITOWN Church
Views: 901
Rating: 5 out of 5
Keywords: hope, past, mistakes, depression, anxiety, hopeless, problems, prison, growth, future, development, moving on, letting go, jesus, itown, church, Dave sumrall, lester sumrall, suicide, god, help, helpless, bible, bible study
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Length: 28min 30sec (1710 seconds)
Published: Sun Apr 26 2020
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