Identifying Emotional Manipulation Tactics: Guilt Tripping, Shaming & Projecting The Blame

hello everyone today we are talking about guilt-tripping this is another favorite manipulative tactics that the covert aggressor and the narcissist uses and the cost of a personalities use usually and since they tend to look for very conscientious people to hang out with and they know that you will be the kind of person that takes the blame that will look inside first and see what you did wrong what you didn't do what went wrong how can you help you're always thinking about yourself and how you can make things better not about yourself in a bad way but thinking about what you can do to help and you're thinking about others but from you you are like you try to help like you are thinking what you did wrong and all that but they they always put everything on the other they love using guilt-tripping this is a technique they they they always use and since like I said you're the conscientious type they they will try to put everything as if try to trigger those parts of you that are loving and kind and helpful and they will always complain that you you are not doing enough for them that you didn't do this for them that you didn't help them and you always will feel bad about that and that's when they get you you know and they love this technique and they will exploit that to the maximum because it really works for them and blaming others and telling them that they didn't do enough for them because they are this empty forever empty hole that needs attention and love and caring and kindness and everything they need from you but it's never enough that's the point it is never enough and comes a point when you feel like you're walking on eggshells because you don't know what to do exactly nothing works anymore like they say I want a and you do a for them and then it's not enough somehow that's not what they want anymore so they won't be and then you know it's crazy making and nothing is enough ever for them so please don't go that route don't fall into this trap of guilt tripping because you're not guilty of anything it's not your fault you didn't do anything wrong what they are doing is they are manipulating you I'm trying to keep you submissive and always thinking about them because think about it you're thinking about them all the time this way and that's what they want these personalities these aggressive personalities want that from you and this is a huge part of their techniques this tactic is one of the favorites for them because it goes like a magnet whether with your personality because these guys are after good caring people and if you are like that you will like you know fall prey of this shaming is another of their favorites and the one where they use different sarcasms and put downs in order to make you feel another weight and less than and this corrodes your self-esteem like there's no tomorrow like this is so harmful and so devastating and because the real deal is that they want to be like you you know they want to be happy they want to be caring and good like they cannot stand that you are like that and that they are not really underneath everything so they want to put you down and how do they do that shaming is a big one it's a way for them to put you in a place of inadequacy or to make you feel inadequate sometimes it's just glances or gestures or looks and that's enough and this one is my personal favorite can you say that it's projecting the blame we talked about projection so we know what that is and projecting the blame specifically is something that they do all the time they use this a lot because they tend to project a lot and they they specifically this one's very conscious and they they blame you for things that they did bad things that they did for example cheating they may say I cheated because you don't love me I cheated because you don't treat me right I cheated because you don't [Music] pay enough attention to me or even maybe I only drink when I feel and supported by you or I do this all the way only I do this bad thing filling the lungs when you don't do this and the truth is they do this regardless they do this people do bad things not because of somebody else they do this because they decide to do it so please don't buy into this it is not your fault if somebody engages in a harming behavior it's their fault it's like somebody chooses to do that you can choose to do different things it's nobody else's fault so please don't feel like it's your fault if they cheat it it's not your fault okay if they engaged in driving and drinking it's not your fault they did it okay so this manipulative tactic projecting the blame is huge among the the cluster B personalities so those are the tactics that I wanted to talk to you about today and I will keep making videos about this subject and I hope you stick around and let me know if you enjoyed it and if you find it helpful and anything that I can do to help please write down below and I will answer you and yes I hope you subscribe and support 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Channel: Eclectic Alu

Views: 52,886

Keywords: guilt tripping, emotional manipulation tactics, emotional abuse, emotional manipulation, narcissistic personality disorder, narcissistic abuse, narcissistic manipulation, psychology, counseling, eclectic alu, what are manipulation tactics, passive aggression

Id: nY3049y73JE

Length: 7min 57sec (477 seconds)

Published: Wed Jun 06 2018