How to Show True Love on Valentine’s Day | Life with Gwen and Joe

[Music] why did God is so good so come join us on this fun life where we put God's in the center of everything hey everybody welcome to the show it's life with Quinn and Joe this is my beautiful wife Gwen I'm Joe and we have a very special show for you today love is in the air because we're approaching a very special day and what is that day that day this next upcoming week is Valentine's week and so we are very excited about sharing words we pray from the heavens for all you guys that's right Valentine's is a very special time because it's it's a time of year there's a couple times a year where you get to really express how you feel about your your your mate and in my case it's my soulmate and I just get a chance on that day to tell you how much I love you tell you how much I appreciate all your wonderfulness during each and every day that we spend together thank you and just you know it's really amazing because because life's minutia as we go through the days with our businesses and our all the things that we do every day we travel or we work or this and that and we kind of get lost in the complexities of all those things that we do in our daily lives but we don't sometimes get a chance or we're not afforded the opportunity to really sit back and tell the other person what they mean to us and it's just it's a great time so I can look you in the eye and I can sit here and tell you how much you mean to me and how special you are and all the wonderful things that you bring into my life and life just would not be the same without you I praise God for these words and you know Joe's always said that women are won over by words and you know I just want to speak to a hurting world out there because at least 50% out there are women and I know that they are hurting and just to say to the men it doesn't take a lot of money it doesn't take a lot of things or you know women you know you may think they're they're looking for that but what they're really looking for are those words that Joe just expressed and it's unbelievable what it does is it melts the heart and it gets us all just thankful that we have each other and it just builds this relationship the words of appreciation like I think that there's a couple of times a year maybe that the world will talk about like something like this but you know the difference is is Joe you are constantly making that a part of our daily life and it makes it makes a huge difference in this world have all been in the world followed your example of just expression and appreciating the little things it would it would completely change this world I think that if a man doesn't uplift his wife and he doesn't uplift the marriage or uplift the relationship life has a way of creating a wedge in between people and if you don't kind of maintain those things you know things can get in in between people and you kind of have to pray and I I see that as kind of like the dark forces Satan himself kind of wanting to work his way into a good relationship and make it bad so you can counteract those things at least I try to by constantly letting Gwyn know that I care about or that I love her and I feel that when a woman doesn't hear those things they're susceptible to feeling unappreciated they get insecure like a man might be thinking of other things putting putting other things or other people before her and so that's kind of how I try to prevent those things from happening by always giving you the assurance that I care about you and that that you're my number one girl and out number one you know women are problem like he said too maybe insecurities because that's the way God made them and and when joke comes in and if I have that feeling he comes in and reassures me instead of anything else he just comes back in and reassures me so when I think about Valentine again it doesn't have to be chocolates it doesn't have to be anything else those things are beautiful because it lets you know that someone has thought about you more than a couple of seconds because they at least had to go to the store and find something and so but at the same time it's it's a day-in day-out laying your life down for for that woman and then again think about the pain that would be gone in this world with just a small amount of words that say I appreciate you valentine's day is kind of turned into a commercial entity where they sell a lot of chocolates a lot of things get bought and sold for the other person but III think it transcends and it should be bigger than just a box of chocolates a box of chocolates is is really what it is it's about catharsis but it's it's the it's the matters of the heart that really that really make the difference it needs to be more of a daily precedence or just you know a mindset because there's there's nothing more sad than feeling like your wife would feel somewhere in the in the back of her mind that that her husband doesn't really care or that it's slipping away or that you know there's thing other things that are being put in front of her so that's those are the those are the things that I try to realize and maintain in my mind about dealing with with a marriage and all that does that make sense or am i it's beautiful I'll give you a secret gentlemen and that is a card goes further than chocolates and your words oh my word he he'll write up note or a card and it's you may trash the chocolates at some point as they get stale and hard or whatever but those cards I keep them locked up in a very special place and some of them are in text on my phone and I make sure they're copied and stored and let's just say they're forever and what I really want to impress her I speak with a French accent is it my Maserati you're my number one it works every time oh my goodness Oh anyway not to digress let's talk about this jealousy a little bit it's awesome that's a very good one song Psalms eight six place me like a seal over your heart like a seal over your arm for love is it as strong as death it's jealousy unyielding as the grave it burns like a blazing fire like a mighty flame no jealousy I mean that women can be jealous of hobbies or their sports or like if men are into just a lot of self and there's there's the message for today and that is that you know if you go back and look at it men are the leaders and so sometimes they take very bad advantage of women thinking I'm a leader then therefore I can just completely make my day center around what I want to do and that is why marriages fall apart they fall apart those memories they may say nothing no one's gonna stop me from my drinking no one's gonna stop me from my food no one's gonna stop me from my gaming my TV my hobby my free time whatever and it should not be and we have to be a people that makes a difference in the world and the real reason why Joe's like this and and I'm a recipient but also giving him reason to want to say those words I constantly am looking for something else to give him reason but it's the foundation our foundation is God in Jesus Christ and I think about how incredible this is because God God is jealous his name is jealous he has he it says in Exodus 34 that you know how jealous he is of our our love for him then I think about how why is Jesus at the right hand side of God what happened how did he get at the right hand side of God look at his life I mean look look what he did I mean the humans rejected that love and then what they did to him they actually go in and they kill him he loves them so much he says they don't know what they're doing and he allows them to take him all the way to the death and that's that's amazing because he didn't just die he he was he was murdered you know by mankind and you know so he he the hell out it he allowed it and you know that's a part of our life it's not going to be easy all the time when you're in relationships with other humans you're gonna have those times where you you feel like they've wronged you yet you can forgive them because they don't know what they're doing and you can be like Christ laying your life down no matter what they do to you in John 15:13 says greater love has no one than this that he lay down his life for his friends and that is really the ultimate the ultimate commitment and the ultimate loyalty right there so if that is our foundation I'm laying my life down for for you for God and then you and then others if you're laying your life down for God and then me and then others you're laying your life down you're not gonna put food or alcohol or selfishness or hobbies or anything in front of God or or or others who you're laying your life down I'm laying my life down then look what happens I mean it's just complete we're talking about complete love and that's where it does go back to not be my Valentine but that'd be like Valentine because Valentine he laid his life down for the church and he got miss named Eric kind of an arrows type of love where he was just there to get couples together but the fact was is that he was a monk himself but he was he was a bishop of the church he was marrying people because the Marcus Aurelius was he loved war he was making all these guys go to war and Valentine was afraid that it was going to be the annihilation of the church but that he knew that if you got married you got a year off from war and so he was going against the edicts not to marry and of course that cost him his life he kept doing it but he it cost him his life went to prison and he died so Valentine actually was a martyr so to be light Valentine to be like Christ it's our foundation just our fact it's what it's what we're getting up for and what we pray for and then God he's the one that helps make it make it happen you know I love that one too Colossians 3 verse 14 and over all these virtues put on love which binds them all together in perfect unity beautiful we just pray for everybody out there that's hurting you know I know that there's people out there that maybe their companion has passed away or maybe they have they're still single and that day has not come or maybe you're in a relationship and you feel all alone but I want you to know that it is God that wants you to hold his hand he's the one that is ultimately the one that is jealous and for you to go in there and know that all of this can be filled up filled up in your heart when you love God with all of your heart and because there's no person on earth that can fill that void I don't care how close you are the real void that's in your heart and your soul it can only feel be filled by God no person or no materialism there there there isn't anything there isn't any stuff or anything you can buy any of those endeavors fall flat and they come up short to giving you total peace and a feeling of true direction in your life unless you do have that connection with God you will come up empty-handed if you don't make God your your everything and you put those if you put anything in front of it it's you're gonna come up short and it is interesting men out there that have fallen for that I mean what are you gonna what do you plan to do when you wind up being married to your the bottle of alcohol you know or married to the food or you're married to your hobby or whatever but you don't even have a spouse that wants to share it with you you've lost everything you I mean like the the real value and we started to show off Joe saying he appreciated me I mean I think both of us understand that appreciation we understand it that you know now all those things are meaningless without sharing it with someone you love so go for it may you be like Valentine and may you be like Jesus Christ who's now at the right hand side of the God who is the ultimate one who's laid down everything for our happiness he's laid down every day every night through the existence of God God is love and that love God has been sacrificial all this times we owe it back to our God so thanks for joining us happy Valentine's happy Valentine's to everybody love each other and appreciate your wife and tell her that your lover each and every day and we just wish all of you the best and we look forward to seeing you soon so we're honored that you here Quinn and I just wish you everything Godspeed and we'll see you next time bye bye okay keep rolling I'll keep we got to keep rolling so to put in motion what I was saying I got you something Thank You Madison flowers prettiest one thank you I love white roses and I love you I love you so much happy Valentine's Day thank you the luckiest [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] it feels stuck be sure to LIKE this video subscribe to our channel and click the bell so you are notified when we have a new video [Music] don't be afraid

Channel: Life with Gwen and Joe

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Keywords: Gwen Lara, Joe Lara, the Preacher and the Pilot, Gwen and Joe, Love is in the air, Valentine’s Day, Valentine’s Week, Soulmate, How special you are, Life would not be the same without you, Words of appreciation, Love of a man for a woman, God is love, Sacrificial love, Happy Valentine’s Day, love each other

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Length: 17min 5sec (1025 seconds)

Published: Fri Feb 07 2020