Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on how
to get a girlfriend 5 crazy effective tips. Like crazy effective. If you are tired of being single,
tired of feeling lonely, then you are in the right spot. Now if you're watching this video right
now maybe you've never had a girlfriend and you're just really really wanting that special
someone who loves you for you. Or maybe you've had girlfriends in the past but you're really
looking for that special someone that you hope to ultimately spend the rest of your life with.
You don't want just any girlfriend, you want that special someone that you would ultimately want to
marry, right? Well in this video you are going to learn the strategy that no one talks about but
it's the only way to get your dream girlfriend. You know that kind of relationship, those couples
you see when you're like, "Man, how did they have that kind of relationship?" that's what you're
going to learn in this video. And probably the most important thing to remember is at the end
of this video so make sure you stay tuned to the end. But real quick be sure to subscribe and ring
the notification bell. My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. This is the number
one place to learn how to find, attract, and keep the girl of your dreams without mind games or
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Okay, as we get started you have two scenarios. Tell me which scenario you want. Scenario number
one: You have a girlfriend and I mean, you know, she's pretty attractive and you care about her
but you just kind of always feel like something's missing. Like you want just something even more
out of a relationship. You kind of don't feel like you can be yourself around her. Maybe you don't
really agree on a lot of things. And maybe there's even some drama and you get kind of exhausted
or nervous because of that drama. You don't feel connected to her. Like you don't feel like
she understands you and you kind of don't really have as much in common as you would like. Maybe
you have a little bit in common but not not as much as you want. Maybe you even see what might
be some toxic signs and maybe you kind of wonder in the back of your head, "Man, does she even
think I'm attractive?" It's one thing to think she's attractive but you want her to think you're
attractive too, right? And if you think about spending the rest of your life with this woman,
if you think about marrying this woman, you think, "Wow, I don't really want to come home to her
every night." You maybe start to wonder if this is as good as relationships get. Is this a normal
relationship? Is this how it's supposed to be? Have you maybe even been in that situation? If
you have tell me about it in the comments. Okay, that's scenario number one. Now let's move on
to scenario number two: You have a girlfriend and she's beautiful. She's absolutely beautiful.
She takes very good care of herself and you know that she thinks you're incredibly attractive
too. She flirts with you. She's playful. She makes you feel like more of a man. She
like boosts your confidence and makes you feel even more amazing and masculine when you are
around her. You guys laugh together. You make memories together. When you are not together you
cannot wait to see her again. It's so much fun to be with her. Just hearing her voice makes you
feel happy all over and you get butterflies when you are around her and you feel safe with her. You
feel like she loves you for you. You guys agree on most things. And what things maybe you don't agree
with there's not a lot of drama about it. You're both reasonable and you work through things.
She understands you and she doesn't judge you and you can picture yourself being married to
someone like this. You can imagine coming home to her every night and she is your safe place. You
can see yourself raising children with this woman. You can see this happy family with adorable
children with this woman. You feel safe, you feel loved, and you enjoy life. Now which
scenario would you pick? Scenario number two, right? That's your dream relationship, right?
Here's what you need to understand as we go through this video. Scenario number one with the
kind of not so awesome relationship, that's the kind of girlfriend just about anyone can teach you
how to get. Information on how to get that kind of girlfriend, just a girlfriend, is everywhere.
But what you're going to learn in this video is how to get the second kind of scenario, your
dream relationship. Because the truth is, guys, that relationship exists and you can have it. You
just can't get it using the same tactics everybody else is teaching. If those tactics worked
everyone would have their dream relationship, right? So I'm going to be walking you through the
five steps to getting your dream girl. These are the same steps I share with my paid clients in
my program, How To Get A Girlfriend. When you are ready to fast track it to success, to stop
being alone, to stop being single, to stop having average relationships that are unfulfilling and
lonely, my program is the place you need to go. As I mentioned I'm going to be running you through
the five steps in this video. However, to learn more about that program I have a free masterclass
for you. Just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass. You'll learn about how you can enroll in that,
why it works, how it works, all of that. So just go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass to learn
more. The coolest part about this strategy and these steps I'm sharing with you is how easy
they are and how fast you can see results. You can see results incredibly quickly, it's so
exciting. So with that let's get started. How to get a girlfriend step number one is figure out
who your dream girl is. Do not skip this step. Most people will skip this step, most people don't
even know it exists, but if you skip this step it messes up all the other steps, okay? So don't
skip this step. What do I mean by figure out who your dream girl is? I don't mean a particular
person at this point. What I mean at this point is when we think about our dream relationships it's
kind of just a feeling. A feeling of what we want. But we don't really create clarity on that.
And what happens when you don't have clarity is it's kind of like somebody blindfolding you,
spinning you around in circles a whole bunch of times, and telling you to hit a target. You don't
know what the target is or where the target is so you can't hit it. So it's very important that
you create clarity, that you understand what it is you even want in a future partner.
Because the truth is you get to decide. You get to decide what traits you are looking for
in a partner. And that's really exciting, right? Something most people don't understand
about falling in love is that falling in love has two stages. And the first stage is
infatuation. Now, you can be infatuated with the wrong person all day long. As a matter
of fact most people become infatuated with a lot of people over their lifetime. However, all
infatuation is is a brain chemical. And so if you think that infatuation is love and you pursue that
person you can end up very miserable. As a matter of fact that's why our divorce rate is so high
right now, is people think infatuation is love. This is why you need to be make sure you have
clarity so you understand what you're looking for. And then when you feel that infatuation you
can make a smart decision even if you're feeling all those butterflies. Now that's not to say
that infatuation is bad. It's actually very good. You just need to keep it in check. Bottom line,
become clear on what you want in your dream girl, the traits you are looking for in a future wife.
As a matter of fact let's practice right now. In the comments I want you to tell me two things
you are looking for in your dream girlfriend and your future wife. Seriously I love comments like
this. I love to hear you guys' feedback. So please tell me two things you are looking for in a future
wife. Okay, how to get a girlfriend step two. Find out what your dream girl wants. I tell my
clients all the time, guys, the key to getting your dream girl is to be her dream guy. So you
start by saying, "What do I want?" You have to figure out what you want first and then you say,
"Okay, that's what I want. What does she want?" Because if you are what she wants well then
of course she's gonna fall in love with you, right? If you are the obvious choice then that's
who she's going to choose. Now I never mean to pretend to be something you're not. This is never
about changing who you are just to get the girl. What that is, is that's actually a mind game. And
a lot of people are afraid they have to change who they are when in reality that's because they've
been taught a lot of mind games. And I never teach you guys mind games. This isn't about
changing your personality. It's just about having those attractive qualities, those attractive
habits that she's looking for while still keeping your personality. I'm going to be perfectly
honest, guys, this is one of the benefits of having a female coach. When you understand what
women are looking for, especially Christian women, it's going to comfort you so much and really
just excite you. The world and society at large, they tell you a lot of lies about what women want.
And the truth is you're mostly told what toxic women want, if we're being completely honest
here. Where high quality women, classy women, Christian women, they're not looking for those
traits at all. So really creating that clarity empowers you like you would not believe. At the
end of the day when you know what she's looking for and you know how to turn those things into
habits you become irresistible to her because you are her dream man. Is this video making
sense so far, and would you like me to do more videos on how to get a girlfriend? If
you would let me know in the comments. Just comment "how to get a girlfriend" and I will
know that that's a topic you want me to do for future videos. Thank you guys so much for
leaving your comments and your feedback it helps me. So again if you want more videos like
this comment "how to get a girlfriend." Okay, step number three for how to get a girlfriend is
to turn the traits she's looking for into habits. Again this is how you stay true to who you are
while becoming her absolute dream man. Like her her total and complete dream man. I gotta be
honest with you guys, this part of my program is my very favorite part. This is where people see
the results the fastest and where their confidence really just starts to explode. It's so exciting.
If you've been taught a lot of mind games this can seem really scary because a lot of people
again they think they have to change who they are. But in reality what women want are very very
simple things like dressing to empower like you learned about in this video. Or setting boundaries
like you learned in this video. It's also about using your body language to increase your
confidence and be even more attractive to her. It's also as simple as living a healthy lifestyle
so you feel good and you look good. Those are the types of traits a woman is looking for in a
partner and frankly the kind of traits that make you feel amazing which is what you deserve because
the best relationships make you feel amazing and make her feel amazing too. When you are ready to
skyrocket your confidence and physical attraction like dozens and dozens of men who have already
been through my program make sure you go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass to learn more about
this program, how you can sign up, why it works, how it works, all of the good stuff. This really
is the place to go if you are tired of being lonely, tired of being single, tired of subpar
relationships, and ready to get that dream girl. So again coachmelannie.com/masterclass.
I'll put a link in the description below and a link in the pinned comment. Okay, are you
ready for step number four? Step number four for how to get a girlfriend is to understand how to
keep her. Have you ever been ghosted? Have you ever been rejected? Or do you just go through a
lot of breakups? Maybe you get into a relationship for a while and then it just crumbles.
It's painful, right? It's like this vicious hamster wheel and it hurts and it damages your
self-esteem. As important as it is to find her and to get her it's equally or even more important to
keep her, right? There's no good in getting your dream girlfriend if you just lose her. This is why
I'm very careful to teach this step in my program and why I'm sharing it with you here. Some of the
biggest mistakes that will cause you to lose her even after you get your dream girl are things like
not pursuing her, moving at the wrong pace. This is like too fast, too aggressive, too needy, or
even too slow. Giving her your heart way too soon, marrying her before you marry her, will also cause
you to lose her. If you want to keep your dream girl you need to make sure you understand how
to have the right mindset, how to pursue her, how to move at the right pace, and really just
those good relationship basics. And that's again what I do teach in my program in detail.
Okay, our next step for how to get a girlfriend is to understand how to find her. I'm going
to let you in on a secret. Finding her is a two-step process. Step number one is to
understand how to attract her. Step number two is to find her. Finding her is nowhere near as
important as understanding how to attract her. You could find her all day long, but if you're not
attracting her it really won't matter, will it? If you have not yet seen this video on this topic
you really need to see it. Do yourself a favor and watch that. There's a link in the description
below. Many men think that they just haven't found the right girl yet when in reality it's
that they're not attracting her. Why are they not attracting her? Well it's because they skipped
all the previous steps. There are five steps to this process for a reason. And if you skip all
the other steps and just go right to finding her you're not going to attract her. That's why these
steps are so important. That makes sense, doesn't it? If you are struggling to get your dream girl,
if you're struggling to have the relationship that just sets your heart on fire, that is your
problem. You need all five of these steps. Do not just skip to finding her. Now when you have
all these other steps in place and you understand how to attract her it is of course very helpful to
understand where to look for her. Because there is obviously something to that. This is why one of
the resources I share in my program is Top Places To Meet Christian Women. It looks like this. If
you've already been through my program, guys, make sure you are utilizing that. Just remember
that as important as it is to know where to look make sure you follow all the steps so
that you are irresistible to her. Now, here's probably the most important part of this
video. So do I have your attention? Are you with me? At the time of filming this video it is march
2021. We've just been through a really hard and really lonely 2020, right? We've been through
some traumatic things. That's real talk right there. However, things are starting to get better.
Everywhere you look restrictions are starting to lift and the vaccine is out and people
are starting to get out and it's really only a matter of time before life is as back to
normal as it can be. Which is exciting, right? It means you can start getting out there, you can
start meeting women, you can find your dream girl. But I can tell you right now that some people
are going to make some big mistakes and I do not want it to be you. So again pay close attention.
You're going to have three types of people when this is all over. Because everyone's so lonely
and because no one wants to spend their lives alone ever again people are going to throw
themselves into relationships and start chasing relationships. Men as well as women. Now some
people, we'll call them group number one, they are going to settle for this average type
of relationship. They're going to be infatuated, they're going to think it's love, and they're
going to get married, and they're going to wake up in a year and they're going to go, "I
have nothing in common with this person. I don't really feel like they understand me. I don't
enjoy spending time with them." and they're going to be crushed. The second group of people, same
thing. They're going to find this first person, they're charming, they make them feel amazing,
they're infatuated, they're going to get married, and in two years they're going to wake up and say,
"This person is toxic. They abuse me emotionally. What do I do?" And at that point they will already
be married to them. And then you have the third group. These are the people who said, "You know
what? I never want to be alone again. Ever. But I'm going to learn how to do this right because I
want that dream relationship. I want that someone who I can trust completely, that someone who I
know my love is safe with." And they're going to learn how to do it the right way. They're going
to learn how to have that relationship. Because, guys, society doesn't teach us how to have good
relationships anymore. They taught your parents, they taught your grandparents, they don't
teach you. That's why the divorce rate is so high right now. Nobody knows what they're doing.
But those people who are going to learn how to do it the right way, you know what's going to happen?
They're going to have their dream relationship. They're going to have a crazy happy, crazy in love
relationship. And their children are going to be raised by two parents who love each other and who
love them. So my question for you is which group are you going to be in? Because it's your choice.
I have given you so much information in this video and set you up for success. But you know what?
Most people are going to watch this video and then they're going to do nothing about it and
they're going to forget everything they learned and they're going to end up in group one or group
two. This information does nothing unless you apply it, you take it, and you run with it. As
your coach, as your mentor, and honestly as your friend, because, guys, I call you my friends for
a reason, I honestly see you as my dear friends, I don't want you to settle, okay? That is why
I do what I do and that is why I created my program for you. Learn more about that so you can
actually apply each of these steps very in-depth, very easily, and you can get that dream girl who
just really just melts your heart and frankly so you can melt her heart because that's what she
wants too. Go to coachmelannie.com/masterclass to watch that, to learn more. I will also put a
link in the description below and in the pinned comment. I'm so excited to help you get your
dream girl fast and easy. Thank you so much for watching my wonderful friend! Be sure
to give me a big thumbs up and subscribe and ring that notification bell if you haven't
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and tips on how to get a girlfriend? If you do, comment "how to get a girlfriend" to let me know.
Do you have a friend who is also tired of being single, tired of subpar relationships, or no
relationships? Please please please share this with him. I know it will help him so much. If
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exclusive content in my Instagram stories, so make sure you especially follow me there. Thank
you so much again for watching my amazing friend! Never forget that I believe in you and have an
amazing day. [blooper beep] I'm going to try to get through this without too many bloopers. I
make no guarantee. Okay. Oh, good. I forgot to make sure the mic was on. [laughter] We're only
20 minutes in. I'm really glad it was on. Okay.
