How To Deal With Toxic People? Gaur Gopal Das

in a certain company a young employee went to the HR head and said I can't work here any longer I want to quit this job the HR had asked why please tell me what happened the whole atmosphere is so toxic to my mind replied the young man there are people here who are into a lot of politics then there are those who talk negative all the time some spent most of their time gossiping then working I don't think I can handle this any longer the HR head said ok but I have a request to make before you leave the man asked please tell me what can I do for you sir but HR had said I want you to do this one last thing sincerely I want you to take a glass of water filled to the brim and walk around the office area three times without spilling a single drop of water on the floor after that you may leave the job if you wish to it sounded weird the man thought it was just a matter of few minutes anyways we took a glass full of water and walked three times around the office floor he then came to the HR head to tell him what he was done the HR had asked when you were walking around the office floor did you see any employee speaking badly about another employee any gossips any disturbances the man replied no the HR head further asked did you see any employee looking at another employee in a wrong would no replied the young man and you know why Osby HR head because you were focused on the glass to make sure you link the poll and spill any water and the same goes with our life when we focus on our priorities we don't have the time to see all the drama around us the mistakes of others gossip politics negativity etc the fact is anywhere we go we are going to find toxic people change of job a change of situation doesn't necessarily ensure freedom from such people we should certainly do what we can to positively change things around us but when we know that we've done our best and things still remain more or less the same we should shift our focus to the glass of water our priorities our growth our excellence and then we won't be as much affected by the negativity around us and if it is absolutely beyond our capacity to handle we may actually need a change knowing well that the new job or the new situation will bring fresh complexities along with them as well you

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Length: 3min 40sec (220 seconds)

Published: Mon Dec 31 2018