- All right, TJ. - I'm TJ, I'm 28 years old. I have a great job, no kids, own place, I love to cook. My idea is I want to get married. Like I said, I'm 28. - Oh, you wanna get married? - Yes, sir. So what I did, I'm very religious. So (breathes heavily) I
decided to be celibate. So, it's funny 'cause... (audience clapping) I actually had young ladies
that stopped talking to me because I was celibate. My question to you is, why am I single? - Why you single? - Yes, sir. - Well, we are hunters. As men, we're hunters. We ain't got no problem hunting. Women are not good hunters. Women don't like looking for men. So, you young soldier, don't seem to me like
you doing any hunting. - I am. I go out, I do work a lot, that is a job but I go out, I'm just
not a club person anymore. I did a lot in college. - Okay, okay, okay, so where
you go out, let's talk? - I go out to little
bars down in Milwaukee. The town I live in is small, Sheboygan, I don't go out there
'cause it's nothing to do. I'm out here for a week. I'm on vacation to visit my friend. Even around here, where
would you suggest going? Not even to look to find someone just to have a good the time
and if it happens, it happens. - Okay, now, excuse me for one minute. Now, just I'm just using
this as an example, I'm not saying this is the one. The lady standing next to
you with the microphone. - She's beautiful, I told her
that when I first came in. I've been watching the
show, I love her style, I'm like, man. (audience applauding) - Now, I was just saying that
she is beautiful young woman, she's single. What's it big fella? (man speaking faintly) Oh, you got a question? (audience clapping) Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Big fells said, "Hey Steve, I got a question to (indistinct)" See, the hunters are here. We're here, we just need to
know that the prey is available. - Are you available? - I am not, I'm so sorry. - What is you talking about? (audience clapping) Shit, what? He lives in Wisconsin, I don't wanna do a long
distance relationship. You're really nice though. - Excuse me. Excuse me. You don't know where your soul may live. (audience clapping) - I can relocate. My job will lemme go anywhere. She single, she take care of herself. Are you single? - I'm single ish. - That tells me he hasn't
been doing his job right? - That's exactly what that means. - That's all that means. - She's single ish 'cause he ain't doing
what he supposed to do. He ain't stepped up
and made no commitment. Let me step over here first. (audience clapping) Step a bit far. Where are you from, man? - From Chicago, man. - Oh, you from Chicago. - Yeah. (audience applauding) - You single, man? - I'm single ish. - Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Everybody. And now, when you walked
in and you saw her, what was you thinking first? - I said, "Miss red shoes, how you doing?" That's what I told her,
but she looks beautiful. She's a beautiful young lady. - Thank you.
- Very beautiful. - Yeah. - And I live in LA. (audience applauding) - He live in LA. - That's good for him. But one thing I'll ask is, after the show, if you're not doing anything,
can we get some drinks later? - Hey, do you like you like Benihana's? Benihana's? - That's way better than grapes. We will opt your drinks with Benihana's. - That's good. You can take her out,
I can take her out too but I can also cook for her. I cook very well. So, whatever she wants, she lemme know. - Now, let me just explain some of y'all. This woman is a single mother. So now, if you don't understand
the package deal concept, you can sit down right now. - Well. - Everybody still standing? Everybody still up. ♪ The wheels on the bus
go around and round ♪ (audience applauding) Yeah. Go ahead.
- I understand. You're a single mother, I respect that. I don't have any children, but
I do take care of my niece. I just took her prom shopping. I flew her to New
Orleans for her sweet 16. So, the thing is I
understand single mothers. I was raised by a single mother. Anyone here, that's fine. But at the end of day, if
you're looking for a husband, I know we live miles and miles apart. But if you're willing to
give me the opportunity to show you who I really
am, moving is nothing. My job allows me to move. So that's nothing. So, if this does work out, I'm willing. Because I'm the man,
I'm willing to move here to see what we can do. - We can go out. (audience clapping) - Thank you, it's my
pleasure to take you out. We're just gonna have a good time. - Well, that's settled. (audience applauding) Where's Alenia? - Hi, Alenia. - Hey Steve, I'm from S Stockholm, Sweden. I'm LA visiting my boyfriend. We've been in a long distance relationship since this summer and although it's only been a few months, I feel like it's gotten quite serious and I think that he might be the one. So- (audience applauding) Yeah, and so with that, I'm
considering moving to the States and I'd like to know
what are your thoughts? What do you think I should consider before making a big move like that? - First of all, you said
you think he may be the one. - I know. - Has he told you you the one? - Yeah. - See, I don't want you out
here just on what you think. You gonna leave Stockholm,
Sweden, come here. You need to make sure that
he has said you the one. See, don't move over here
'cause you think he the one. - Right. So, next thing I think you
need to do is has he asked you to move to LA? - Yeah. - Okay, cool. Do you have a job when
you get here lined up? If you don't, what are
you gonna do for income? - I would definitely
get a job before moving. - One of the toughest things about a relationship is finances. And so what I don't want you to do is come all the way over here 'cause what love got to do
with it come up real quick when ain't no money? (audience clapping) Obviously you're a sweetheart
of a girl and woman. I mean, but I just want you to know, what does he do? - He's a producer. - Everybody in LA is a producer. (audience laughing) He's a producer, does
he have a show on TV? - Yeah. - Well that's cool. How old is he? - Like me, he's 28. - He's 28, okay. You gotta take chances in life. When it's a woman that's making the move, I just ask the woman to be
a little bit more careful because it's hard to come to a man at such a young age and be beholding. - Right? - So, you just wanna make sure that you're going into
some type of security. - Right? - How long have you known him? - About four months. (audience laughing) - Four month? The peanut gallery ain't
feeling this right now. Oh girl, oh, run. Well, I can't say that. Where does he work? - I can't say - You can't say. Oh, this him? (audience applauding) It's him. Oh no, come here, man. This is my dude right here. I got him this job. This is who... Where'd you find her dawg? - Sweden. - You found her in Sweden?
In Sweden. What was you doing over there? (audience laughing) - It was a chance trip. I was on hiatus for my
job and visiting a friend, and we met the first day. Extended my trip a few
extra days when I met her. - I see.
- And yeah. - I seriously did not know this. Then they kept, he said... Hold on. Okay, now, first of all, sister,
let me tell you something. I personally vouched
for this cat right here. (audience applauding) This is actually one of
my dear friend's son. No, this is a friend of mine's son. Has your father met her? - Yes. - Oh, your daddy met her? - Yep, both parents. - Oh your oh your mama met her? - She's been the day of
my mom, the other day. - Oh man, this cool. And you and you wasn't even
going tell me he worked here. Somebody said, "Probably worked here." I highly recommend this
young man right here. Yeah, good job, man. (audience applauding) We'll be right back. Hey, you made it to the end of this video. I got a lot more that you're gonna enjoy. So, just click to watch the next one and makes sure you subscribe to always know what's happening.
