We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns. National Competition on Worries! Here are today's guests. Handsome and talented actor, Won Kijoon. Nice to meet you. Chaeyeon and Gyeongree. Nice to meet you. (Original sexy icon, Chaeyeon) (Sexy icon, Gyeongree) The EastLight's Woojin and Sagang. (Rising idol singers, Woojin and Sagang) I'm surprised to see you here, Kijoon. He's remembered for the kimchi slap. That lettuce really got wrapped around your face. We prepared the clip. Oh my. For those who've forgotten it. (Source: MBC) (Slap) That's the scene with the kimchi slap. Oh my. Oh my. You didn't do retakes, did you? No. We had to do that in one take because kimchi sauce got all over the wall. So, after the shoot, they had to hang new wallpaper. I'm sure you can tell by watching this scene, but I wasn't acting then. Were you really angry? I was so, so angry. (Source: MBC) I nearly cursed in front of the camera. You were that mad? (It really must've hurt) Chaeyeon. Do you have any personal concerns? If you do, could you tell us? I just can't help but sigh. Anyone who's around my age and isn't married yet would have the same concern. In the past, when people told me, "You should get married now," I said, "I choose not to get married." But now I feel as if I'm unable to get married. You have tears in your eyes as you say that. Sometimes it happens. That's when I take a selfie. (I shed tears at times...) It's been a long time. Her concern will be resolved once she gets married. Sure. I'm really concerned about my 4-year-old son. Recently, we were at church together. The pastor's sermon was getting a bit boring. Suddenly, my son said... "Let's go to a Buddhist temple?" (Ha ha ha ha) He's 4 years old. Then what did he say? "Why don't you just stop?" (This pure soul made the pastor flustered) Really? During the sermon? Out loud? He said, "Why don't you just stop?" All sons are like that. The EastLight. Newly debuted stars usually show us their talents. Why don't you show us? Show us something that we can use. Sagang can voice mimic Michael Jackson well. Michael Jackson? He's really good. A-yo, Michael, let's get it! ♪ Annie, are you okay, are you okay, Annie? ♪ (About to poke a hole on the ground) (Hop hop hop) (Sagang Jackson) (I am Michael Jackson right now...) (Loving it) Good job! Sagang, you're the best! He can also mimic Lee Yeongja. Really? This is a first since Kim Yeongcheol. He doesn't have the voice to mimic me. Let's see it. I'm afraid that she'll hit me with that cushion. Oh gee. I'll do it since I'm sitting far away. Kimchi dumplings are crunchy and delicious. When you bite into the hot dog, it crunches. Not that. Do Michael Jackson again. (Automatic) (Good job, Sagang) He has talent. Gyeongree is... You released a new song as a solo artist. - What is it called? / - "Last Night." Let's hear it. But he was so young and cheerful. That's all right. "Last Night." I like the title already. - That's it. / - Music, please. ("Last Night" by Gyeongree) ♪ Do you want to hear my story from last night? ♪ (She has a unique voice and sexy beauty) (Glare) ♪ Last night ♪ (She's awesome) I like the lyrics. "Do you want to hear my story from last night?" My story that you can't handle. What happened last night? You memorized the lyrics already? Yes. (His blushing ears can't lie) He got the lyrics right! Why don't you just stop? (Today's popular saying: "Why don't you just stop?") We have three concerns here today as well. Please show us the keywords. "Grandpa in Our Neighborhood." "God-Like Man." "Is Love Supposed to Be Like This?" "God-Like man." "Hello. I'm a woman in my 30s who's raising 3 children." "My husband is 3 years younger than I am." Wow. "Your husband is so tall and handsome." "He's younger, too." "You married a perfect man. I'm so jealous." Which dialect are you speaking? Jeolla or Gyeongsang Province? Gyeongsang Province and... It's from Hwagae Market! ♪ Across Jeolla and Gyeongsang provinces ♪ It's Hwagae Market. It's more towards Gyeongsang Province though. "People tell me that I married well, but it's not true. It's not true at all." "I'm living with a man from the Joseon Dynasty." "'Wife. Go get me a glass of water.'" "But he's in his 30s." "I'm busy. Go get it yourself." "'How dare you make a man do a woman's work?'" "'Men work and women do housekeeping at home.'" "He's the most patriarchal man I've met." "But what's more ridiculous is that I have a job, too." - Really? / - It's a double-income family. "Why do I have to work and do housekeeping?" "I'll just stay at home and do housekeeping." "Go earn money by yourself!" - Yes. / - Good job. "'Helping out with finances is also a woman's job!'" Oh my! "'Don't you know the 5 virtues of a woman?'" How old is the husband? "Honey, I'm so tired. Can you help out with chores and childrearing?" "'That's the difference between men and women. If you don't do chores at home, why would I be mad enough to marry you?'" - That's harsh. / - He's crazy. I just don't understand what he's saying. Can you please make me understand? How would you feel, Gyeongree? I wouldn't be able to live like that. Let's say it's Daniel Henney and he's patriarchal. You're hesitant. Everyone is contemplating. (Everyone's contemplating it) I'd like to ask. (He's patriarchal, but...) (it's Daniel Henney) It'd be okay if he could change his ways, but if not, I can't be with him for my own sake. Let's bring her out to talk to her. Please come on out. (Who's concerned about her patriarchal husband?) (Jeong Jihye) Hello. I'm from Ulsan. I'm Jeong Jihye, a mother of three. Nice to meet you. You said your husband is 3 years younger? - He's younger? / - Yes. How old is your husband? He's 34 years old. I'm 37 years old. But he's a typical man from the Joseon Dynasty. When I ask him to help me with something, he says, "Men and women are different. Men do other things. Men work outside and women do housekeeping at home." - How was he when you two dated? / - I'm curious. He was the nicest man in the world. He changed after you got married. I better be careful. He was the most romantic guy in the world. For example, when you two were together and you couldn't open something. "Women aren't supposed to do hard work." But now that you're married, he makes you do it? Yes! So you have 3 kids? Taking care of them... That's harder than working. But you also have a job, right? That's why it's not fair. I asked him, "I have a job, too. Why won't you help me with chores at home?" "That's the difference between men and women." That's absurd. He said, "Why weren't you born a man?" He's so narrow-minded. So how old are your kids? They're 11, 5 and 3. Your eldest son seems to be here today. How about preparing meals? Since I have a job, I sometimes come home late. If I go home around 10 or 11 p.m., the kids are playing around without having anything to eat. So I have to go and prepare dinner for them. Did something happen? No. That's just how he is. - That's his personality? / - Yes. I have a question. What are those 5 virtues of a woman? What are those 5 virtues? I don't know every one of them either. But he always mentions that to me. Everything is what a woman is supposed to do. Can you give us some examples? He doesn't eat rice in the morning. He always has to have scorched rice. If I buy it in a store, he says it's not good. You make it yourself? He tells me to make it in the morning. When you have to get ready to go to work? He says that I have to be good to the ancestors. He loved his grandmother so much that I have to cook the food for her funeral ceremony. I made everything myself instead of buying it, Even when I was pregnant. I told him that supermarkets sell great food. Sure, that's true. I asked him if I could buy food for the ceremony. He told me that I am not being sincere enough. He said, "Ask any daughters-in-law out there. You should be ashamed of yourself. We don't hold many funeral ceremonies in a year." You said that he was kind before you got married. Did you ever ask him why he's changed? He said, "We were strangers then. Now we're a family." Even when I had morning sickness, he said, "Everyone gets pregnant. Why are you making such a big fuss about it?" That must've been upsetting. Women here are enraged by her story. Then they look at the husband. He is quite handsome. They are mad, but after seeing him, they back off. (Backing down) (Changing their stance) He's 3 years younger and handsome. (Oh) Hello, sir. Hello. (Who's the patriarchal husband?) You've heard your wife's side of the story. Do you understand her concern? To be honest, I don't think it's a concern. You don't think it's a concern? So everything she said is true? Yes. I think that's a woman's job. What? What did you say? I think housekeeping is a woman's job. He's not reading a script, is he? Then what's a man's job? A man is supposed to do what a woman can't do such as doing heavy-lifting. Garbage bags are heavy so I throw out the trash. Why don't we do this then? Separate what men and women do. She won't carry anything over 1kg. Everything else must be carried by him. Why don't we decide on the exact weight? Chaeyeon, you're being a coward. Talk to him directly. Don't talk to us. Talk to the husband. Right. So she works as well... Don't look at us. Is it because he's handsome? - Hello. / - Hello. What? Are you flirting with him? I look after the kids, too. - You do? / - I spend time with them. What? I can't help but agree with him for some reason. Why didn't you feed them then? I do, but sometimes they refuse to eat. When they don't eat, I don't force them to eat. I don't make them eat when they don't want to. But Chaeyeon and Gyeongree... You ask questions, but when he answers you're like, "That's understandable." Girls! Stay out of this. - I'll step up. / - Please do. Why can't you be harsh with him? Hey, husband! Yes? How old are you? - What? / - I'm sorry. The wife has a concern. You both have jobs, right? So shouldn't you split doing chores 50:50 since you both work? Or let her stay home and do housekeeping only. We come home after work around 6 p.m. or at the latest 7 or 8 p.m. Doing chores for an hour or two is exhausting? I don't think so. I'm glad you said that. It's only for an hour or two. Why can't you do it? I think it's her job to do the dishes and cook. I help out by watching the kids in the meantime. He says he watches the kids while you do chores. He turns the TV on. Our kids love watching TV or play with phones. They are quiet once the TV is on. He goes into his room and watches he wants. - He doesn't spend time with them. / - I get it. When I'm doing the dishes, they come and ask me to do something for them. Then I have to go it for them. (It's too tough) What are the 5 virtues of women? Right. Tell us what those 5 virtues are. She gets up in the morning and makes scorched rice which is my favorite. - Make scorched rice. / - No. 1. When I go to work, she comes to the door and sees me off. - See you off. / - No. 2. I'm tired when I come home from work. She must look after the kids so that I can rest. She must organize my clothes and socks so that I can wear them anytime. Organizing. What's the last one? Doing miscellaneous work like caring for me. (Caring for her husband) Hold on. Hold on. - You must be careful. / - Don't air this. What do you mean by caring for you? Are you the king or something? How can you say that? Why must you eat scorched rice every morning? I can't eat salty food on an empty stomach, so I eat boiled scorched rice for easy digestion. Making scorched rice is very easy. It's just leftover rice. Then make it yourself. It doesn't taste the same. It's not good when I make it. I have a question. Do you love your wife? Sure. That's why we have kids together. The person you love is pleading in agony. How can you ignore that? I'm not ignoring it. Women in the past used to farm while carrying a baby. They also cooked while carrying a baby. I don't think it's too much work for her. This is a serious concern. You weren't like this when you two were dating. She said that you were very romantic. Isn't everyone the same way? Everyone changes after they get married. We are all married here. A man says he'll do anything for his girlfriend. But once he is married... She is yours now? There's no need to be nice to her anymore. Then do you think that men who look after their kids, do the dishes, and clean are abnormal? They're not abnormal. They live in an ideal world. I live in the real world. What? That's an ideal world? That's the reality. I think you switched the words around. He sounds as though he's from the past. I think you switched the words around. It's as if he's living in history. You're just a strange guy. (What a great blow) I want to know if you really meant this. "This is why I married you. Would I have been mad enough to marry you if you won't do chores?" Did you really mean that? I'm sure he didn't. If I wanted to do chores and do laundry myself, I wouldn't have gotten married. So you married her to make her do the chores? I married her so that she can do the chores and I can live comfortably. - So you can live comfortably? / - Unbelievable! (What did I just hear?) You are expecting her to be servile to you. I'm sure this is a mistake. Let me ask again. Why did you marry your wife? My grandmother raised me and she did everything I asked her to do. I tend to whine and she always listened. She was understanding and that's what I liked. He emphasized that ever since we started dating. "I like this about you. I like it when you do things for me. Thank you." (She did everything for him and now...) You didn't know it would lead to this, huh? When you two were dating, other people were jealous of you because he's handsome and he's 3 years younger. Many people told you that they're jealous, right? Yes. You enjoyed that, right? He always tells me that I should be grateful. He tells me that I can't find a better husband. What about Song Hyekyo and Song Joongki? Song Hyekyo must carry Song Joongki around. What do you think of that couple? They are on the same level. You two aren't on the same level? You think you're better than she is? Yes. That's what he tells me every day. - Your wife is below you? / - Yes. That's what he tells me every day. (Oh my god) He tells me, "You're old. You have wrinkles. You should get facials done. Your makeup doesn't look good. You have wrinkly eyes." I don't have the time. He was sitting in the living room, watching a movie with a facial mask on. I was busy cleaning the house. I really wanted to kill him. She's really being honest. What else do you have to do for him? He's the king. He's the king? He says that everything must revolve around him. He believes that he has to be the center of everything. My son and I like eat natto. He says, "Eat natto once I'm done eating and off to work." - Because he hates the smell? / - Yes. You're smiling as you tell these stories to us, but I'm truly impressed. How do you look after 3 kids, do housekeeping, stay fit and cater to your husband's needs? I think it's a miracle. I suffered from depression in the beginning. I wasn't sure if I could continue living with him. So I seriously told him that I am suffering and he said, "Then leave and take the kids." What? "Leave if you can raise them on your own." - Take the kids with you? / - Yes. So I gave up. I gave up on things that I could give up on. To survive? (It's been tough) I have a question for you. How does your husband treat your kids? We have two sons and a daughter. When they fight, he yells at our sons. It's wrong for the boys to be mean to her. But if our daughter talks back to her brothers... Kids cry when they fight, right? Then he takes our daughter in his arms and yells at our sons. Let's say your daughter meets a man who tells her what the 5 virtues of a woman are. (What a great metaphor) I told him that, too. Let's say she married someone like you. I would kill my son-in-law. (How can they be so different?) Tell your father to kill your husband. Aren't you being a hypocrite? I love my daughter so much. My wife is my wife. Then imagine how your father-in-law feels. I just sort of kid around when we talk about that. If you know it, you should try to change. You know you're wrong, but you just don't care? Are we talking to a wall here? Your wife is someone's precious daughter, too. Come out here and wrestle with me. I'm so frustrated. Let's talk to their son now. What are your thoughts about what we talked about? About what your parents and what we said? I think my dad is too mean. I think my dad is too mean. From your perspective, do you think your dad doesn't help your mom much at home? Right. What does your dad say to your mom? "You're a woman, so you have to do all the work." He says it naturally because he heard it so much. What is your dad to you? He's a goblin. - A goblin? / - Why? - He's Gong Yoo? / - That's a new expression. Because he's scary? You think he's a goblin because he's scary? When was he the scariest? Tell us. When he was the scariest? I was on a bunk bed with my brother and my sister came up, too. She fell down from the ladder. Dad got mad and broke the ladders. - Ladders of the bunk bed? / - Yes. There were two and he broke them both. How could he do that in front of the kids? You were scared of him when he did that? "Don't you dare come down!" Was that why? I didn't do it out of anger. I thought the ladders were dangerous. Because they keep climbing up there? I didn't do it out of anger. You didn't do it out of anger? Son! Was your dad angry at the time? - Was he smiling? / - "These are dangerous. We don't need them so I'll break them." Son! What was he like when he did that? Was he angry at the time or...? - He was angry. / - See? Sir. Why do you keep calling him? I have a temper, I get angry when I think something's wrong. You even have a temper? When are you most upset and frustrated? My husband tends to be selfish. He likes to go fishing. He even goes fishing? He goes fishing and... How many times a month? 5 or 6 times a month on average. But he has to plan these fishing trips. So he meets up with the members of the fishing club 2 to 3 times a week to go on an overnight fishing trip. They always drink when they meet. That's how he is. He does act like a king. He is living his life very freely. He must not be home that often. I want him to watch the kids with me, but he just packs up his bags and leaves. So I have to take care of the kids by myself. Do you have a hobby or meet your friends? I think it's unfair, so I tell him that I'll go out at times. I said, "You can't complain even if I go out by myself for a month." He said, "Go ahead. Go and have fun." (He lets her go out just like that?) When I do, he calls me every 30 minutes. "One of them is crying. They won't sleep"... He texts me and calls me about everything. Then you can't really enjoy your free time. Why didn't you ignore his calls? That's why I leave my phone in my purse. Then when I'm home I have 30 missed calls. One day, he changed the passcode to our place. That's mean. Why didn't you let her enjoy her free time? Why did you keep checking on her? I don't care if she goes out to have fun. But once she goes out at 7 o'clock, she doesn't come home until 4 a.m. I never did that. She comes home completely wasted. - Totally drunk. / - Why do you think that is? She comes home being carried by someone else. Won Kjioon gave you a riddle. Why do you think she drinks so much? What's the answer? Because she was in a good mood. What? I'm sure everyone here knows the right answer. (Why don't you get it?) Don't you have a hobby that you can enjoy? I wanted to do something that I'd like to do so I was in the Mrs. Universe Pageant. I was fortunate enough to win third place. (Wow!) - You look beautiful! / - You're so beautiful. - You look great. / - You're beautiful. (Hmph) You look so beautiful in the picture. - Good job. / - You look so beautiful. You must've been happy when she won. Why do you have that look on your face? You don't look so happy. I was shocked when she won. Why? Because you didn't think she'd win? I wondered why she won. Because you thought she's below your level. (Are you really her husband?) Then is it okay for others to say that about her? I don't want other people to badmouth her and put her down. Then why do you do that to her? He is so old-fashioned. Long ago, kids were called nicknames like "poop face." Poop face? They gave their children bad nicknames. Poop puppy. You must change the way you think. You should tell her that she's beautiful. I did do that. If you keep telling someone that, they become very spoiled. So you know that you're spoiled, too? Has he ever thanked you for being understanding and letting him enjoy his hobbies? One time when he was drunk. Their son must know about this, too. He was completely wasted. He said, "I thank you so much. I should sleep in the living room since you do everything for me." That's what he told me. He doesn't normally express his feelings much. That's about how much he expresses it. When I ask him, "Aren't I pretty?" he says, "You don't look so bad." (Sigh) Please say a word to your husband. I didn't come here to argue with you. I just wanted you to know how I feel. I know that you're not the only one at fault. I know that you're a sweet husband when you want to be. I want you to know why I'm suffering in life. That's why I came here today. Please don't be upset. (The husband has many mixed feelings) Let's start with Won Kijoon. I think it's a concern. This is definitely a concern. I've been watching her. She was smiling, but I saw that she was trying to hold back her tears at times. I want the husband to think from her perspective at times. I think it's a concern, too. I think it's a concern, too. I think their son would be quite miserable. I don't want him to live like that. So I think it's a concern. If you think it's a concern for her, please press the button. (What does the audience think?) 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. You can only press it once! Their son is pressing the button, too. He's looking for more buttons to press. Have your feelings changed since the beginning? I'm so embarrassed that I want to leave. The fact that you're embarrassed means there's a possibility that you can change. Please say a word to your wife. Thank you for being with me all these years. I will do my best to change my behavior. I love you. Chaeyeon, give her a hug. Do you want a hug? Sir! (I'm sorry) Please show us the result. I think this concern is going to win today. How many votes did they get out of 200? 173? 163? 93? 163! (They got 163 votes) This one is titled, "Grandpa in Our Neighborhood." "Hello. I'm a woman in my 40s from Seoul. There's a man in our neighborhood who picks up junk every day whether it rains or snows. That person's nickname is 'Grandpa.' He is my 9-year-old son." His nickname is 'Grandpa.'" 9 years old? "It was when my son was 7 years old. I saw Taemin picking up junk on the street. 'Are you struggling with money?' I couldn't believe it at first. 'Son, did you pick up empty boxes today?' 'Yes, I did. I earned $1.' Even now, he enjoys collecting junk and selling them for money. 'Son, don't go out at night. It's dangerous.' 'Mom! Dangerous? Am I a kid? And Mom, always conserve on water and electricity.'" Unbelievable. "I don't know what to do about this. Please talk my son out of this." She sent in her concern. Chaeyeon, I know you're still single, but... I'm old enough to be his mother. Even Woojin could've been my son had I gotten pregnant at 23 or 24 years old. Please don't say that, Chaeyeon. I can say that I'm old enough to be their grandma. Let's not reveal our ages. We are all around the same age. Speak casually. Won Kijoon. Say "Hey!" to me. Hey! (Bam!) (She fails to hide her age) He's so much younger than I am. Let's not talk about our age. Say "Hey!" Why don't you just stop? (Great timing) Your son took after his dad. Let's talk to her now. Please come on out. (Who's concerned about her 9-year-old son?) (Shin Eunsuk) (Jump) (She slides down without hesitation) - Welcome. / - Hello. Does your 9-year-old son really go around the neighborhood to collect junk? Yes. He gets out of school at 3 p.m. Then he goes out on his scooter. On his scooter. If he can't carry them all, he calls his grandma to come help him out. - They do it together? / - Yes. He comes to watch TV, eats dinner, and goes out again. He goes out again? Why? Why does he collect junk? My in-laws live above us. My mother-in-law collects junk to pass the time. She would pick up empty boxes when she takes him to school and he learned from her. He's been exposed to it since he was young. He says that he likes getting money for them. He even sells scrap metal now. Scrap metal? He doesn't get as much for paper now. He collects scrap metal now? Does he sell them to get money so that he can buy toys that he wants? No. He puts it in his savings account. He has a savings account? - Savings? / - I'm impressed. Have you ever had a savings account? Once. In a way, he has a great financial sense from such a young age. I think it's good for him to earn money. Doing work is a great thing, so I'm not concerned about that. But he is only 9 years old. He should be out playing with his friends. But he says he's going to own a junk shop so he doesn't need to study or go to school. He's already decided to own a junk shop? He must learn math and if it goes well, it could become a huge business. Yes, that's true. What else are you concerned about? When he goes around with a cart, people think we're in a financial bind. People stare, right? They could think that you made him do it. No one would know unless they ask. They could think that his parents are forcing him. I do worry about what other people think. Did you try to talk him out of doing it? Yes, but he said, "Do you think I'm a child?" - Really? / - Yes. What does his father say? He is currently working overseas. How long have you lived apart? He went overseas when our son was 3. His business didn't work out. I was wondering why he's doing this. He might be doing this because he considers himself the head of the family since his father is away. I'm sure she couldn't talk to her child about his thoughts before. Let's ask him now. Let's meet your son. What's his name? Kim Taemin. Why don't you call out his name? Taemin. Taemin. Hello. He's so cute. Why do you collect junk? I want to save up money to buy a house. (Wow) Taemin. Are you upset that Woojin asked you that? Are you angry? - No. / - You're not angry, right? You're saving up to buy a house? Yes. I have to buy a house. I see. Why did you start collecting junk? To help my grandma. - In the beginning? / - Yes. So you saw your grandmother sell junk and earn money? I saw that she was making money that way. So I want to save enough to buy a house. - He has a clear goal. / - Help Grandma. Is there a house that you want to buy? There could be a certain house that he wants. It's under construction. - It's under construction? / - Yes. How dare you lie to us! A new house is being built in our neighborhood. - That's what he's talking about. / - To buy that? So that house is being built right now. It's being built now. How much have you saved up so far? I'm curious. Over $3,000. A 9-year-old kid? I... Wait. This changes things now. ("Grandpa in Our Neighborhood") We should deal with this issue differently. What was the biggest amount you earned in one day? $20. That's quite a lot. What was the least amount you earned in a day? $4. Let me ask you in detail. How much is a large box at a junk shop? - 4 cents per kilogram. / - 4 cents? 4 cents per kilogram. (That means he collects them all day long...) Is your grandma your teammate? Or your competitor? (Ha ha ha ha) - I earned this much with her. / - You're a team. What happens when you earn a lot of money? We split it in half. With your grandma? (He's commendable) She filmed how Taemin goes around to collect junk. Let's take a look. This looks like a documentary. He looks like a big boy in the video. That's the cart. (1. He prepares to load the boxes) Since they can get heavy, he takes a wagon when he goes out with Grandma. (2. He places bigger boxes on the bottom) He's skilled. He starts to load big ones first. He's a pro. When did you film this? (3. He dusts off his hands first) It was last Thursday evening. He has so many boxes. That store owner must be happy about this. He... Oh my. Oh my. (So admirable) He's supposed to flatten the boxes first. (4. Check if the boxes are loaded well) (He's a pro) He's supposed to flatten the boxes first. That's too hard for a little boy. - It's hard to flatten the boxes. / - Impressive. The boxes were stacked up too high. - He's putting those inside. / - Yes. He can learn the sense of space, too. (She's worried because he does this every day) - There's his grandma, too. / - They have so much. (A full cart of collected junk) (We worked very hard today as well) They earned $16 that day. They did? (Satisfied) Why are you eager to buy a house? It's good to save up money. If I buy a house, I can get monthly rent, so I have monthly earnings. He knows that, too? I didn't know that at his age. So you're not buying the house to live there, but to get monthly rent? Yes. Until what age do you want to live? 100 years old. What are you going to do after that? I'll give all my assets to my children. - To your children? / - Yes. He still has 91 years to live. Wow. After saying he wants to own a junk shop, he saw the prices of used items drop. So now he wants to become a building owner. A building owner. Is there a building owner around him? My in-laws get monthly rent. They own a building? My father-in-law and Taemin were watching TV. Out of the blue, Taemin said, "Grandpa! Give this house to me!" Give it to him? My father-in-law was surprised. He said, "I have 3 sons. Why would I give it to you?" Sure. He's a grandson. Then Taemin said, "Give everything to those three, and just give me $100,000." Unbelievable. He's so obsessed with money. It's concerning for you. I'm afraid people will think I'm his stepmom. That people will think you're obsessed with money? Yes. It's quite upsetting. He's young. He should go play around. Yes, that is concerning. He tries to save money at home, too? When you go into our house, there is a poster on the wall. "Turn off the electricity. Turn off the water." - Taemin put it up? / - Yes. We have to turn the lights off at 9:30 p.m. We have to turn off our phones, too. Then do his grandparents do the same? At 9 o'clock, he turns off their lights and comes down. He does that at his grandparents' house, too? I suggest turning on an air conditioner or a fan. He turns it on for 5 minutes and turns it off. - It's only on for 5 minutes? / - Yes. We can just fan ourselves afterward. (He's obsessed with saving money) You don't turn on the fan even when it's hot? You just endure it? (Nod nod) Do you feel hot, too? I can take a bath. Then you have to pay for water. Yes. That was a great question, Gyeongree. We got you. You'll end up spending more on water. Isn't it better to keep the fan on? You don't shower that often, right? You're in a bind, right? (Frozen) He's in a bind. Does he try to save money on other things, too? He used up his notebook. I said, "You should get a new one." He said, "Give me money." So I gave him $5, but he never bought a new one. I asked him about his new notebook. He said he put it in his savings account. - Why? / - He should've bought a notebook. So I bought one for him. - You bought it yourself? / - Yes. He kept that $5 in his savings account? He kept that $5 in his savings account. Why didn't you buy a new notebook? I forgot. I went the wrong way. You went the wrong way? You went to a bank instead of a stationery store? (His body automatically went to a bank?) He looked up and said, "Why am I here?" He wasn't aware of it. "Please put this in my account." Kids take after-school classes these days. I want him to take those classes, too. But he says it's too costly. He refuses to take after-school classes? I signed him up for some classes at an institute. He asked for a refund. - Because he thought it was a waste? / - Yes. Maybe it's because he didn't want to study. Maybe he just hates studying. I get good grades. I wanted to save money. - You get good grades? / - Yes. Is there anything you want to learn? Maybe something like taekwondo. I broke my leg during a taekwondo class once. I see. He has this huge plan for himself. Right. Do you prefer saving money in the bank instead of taking after-school classes? Yes. Let's talk to his grandmother now. We should talk to her, too. Taemin's mom is here because of her concern. What do you think of that? He's been obsessed with money since age 5. - Age 5? / - How? Whenever he sees coins, he puts them in his piggy bank. One day, he came to me and said that he has $2 in change and wanted them in bills. - In bills? / - Yes. Then he deposited it into his savings account. Isn't that commendable? Yes, but... He is too extreme? He should be running around to play instead. She's speaking in a dialect. Don't be surprised. She's speaking in a dialect. One day, I went to his school to pick him up. He was limping as he came down the stairs. His toes were curled up. - His indoor slippers were too small? / - Yes. I told him, "Ask your mom to buy you new ones." He said, "I can wear them a bit longer." - With his toes curled up? / - Yes. (He's different from other kids his age) / Oh my God! He said, "I don't want to waste money." So I bought him new indoor slippers. So he wears those at school now. I think it's because his father likes to give things away to other people. I think he's been traumatized by that. My husband tries to start up many businesses, but failed. So we lost our house. That's why. We had no choice but to live with my in-laws. But my husband kept giving other people money. My father-in-law said, "You don't even own a house and you don't save up money. Get out of here!" Did Taemin hear his grandpa say that? I think he overheard that. He must've realized that's what happens when you don't have money or a house. That's what you think? (I feel bad for him) When were you most heartbroken because of your son? It was on Children's Day. I told him I would buy him whatever he wants. He kept looking at this toy. I told him that I would buy it for him, but he said, "No. I can buy it next year." I recently found out that his friends won't play with him because he doesn't have that toy. Yes. That's what happens these days. He never told me that. He always said he's fine. - You feel bad for him, right? / - Yes. What was the toy? - Blocks. / - Blocks. So your friends didn't want to play with you? Right. Weren't you heartbroken? Do you not want that toy? I don't. Even when your friends won't play with you? No, I don't it. Then choose one. You found very good junk on the street. But your best friend wants to play with you with his toy. What would you choose? (Which of the two would he choose?) He will also buy you something tasty afterward. Junk or friend? One, two, three. (What will 9-year-old Taemin choose?) Junk. (Who can stop his obsession?) When your friends didn't want to play with you, you were upset at that moment, right? Yes. (Upset) We'll see how Taemin is doing at school. His classmates are here. Please welcome them. They're so cute. The one in the middle is our scriptwriter. She's not Taemin's friend. She's a scriptwriter. Please introduce yourselves. Hello. I'm Jang Eunseo in second grade at Daedong Elementary School. - That's a cute name. / - You're so eloquent. Hello. I'm Mun Junseo. I'm in second grade at Daedong Elementary School. (How cute) Eunseo, are you Taemin's girlfriend? No. She's not his girlfriend. Are you a close friend of Taemin? Yes. How close are you two? We've been classmates since kindergarten. Then you two are very close friends. Does Taemin get along well with his friends? Yes, but he doesn't get to play with us often. If he wasn't busy collecting junk with his grandma, what do you want to do with Taemin? I want to play tag with him. Taemin. She wants to play tag with you. Why don't you play tag instead of collecting junk? Oh... Maybe later. (Boo hoo) After you buy a building? Yes, after I buy a building. (Adamant) Oh. In your own building? (Oh my) Eunseo, do you have money saved up, too? Yes, in my piggy bank. How are you going to spend that? Hmm... - I want to buy a house. / - A house. (Yes, save up money) (The mirror image of grownups) They're obsessed with buying a house. Junseo. Do you have money saved up, too? Yes. How much? About $50. That's quite a lot. That's nothing. Taemin has $3,000. I have $56.30 saved up. Taemin may have $3,000, but he has $56.30. (Ha ha) What are you going to do with that, Junseo? I'm going to buy a toy. He's going to buy a toy. Yes, that's the right answer. Junseo, you're not going to buy a house? I'll tell my dad to buy one. Yes, that's the correct answer. What do you want to be when you grow up? - An animal trainer. / - I see. Why do you want to become an animal trainer? I like animals. Hi. I'm the host of "Animal Farm." (I know) (He is the host of "Animal Farm") What do you want to be, Eunseo? - A police officer. / - A police officer. - That's great. / - Why is that your dream? Because police officers are brave. - Because they're brave. / - That's great. Let's ask Taemin, too. What do you want to be in the future? (Contemplating) A scientist. A scientist who owns a building? (Why?) I want to build a time machine. Why? I want to go back in time and get a perfect score. I want to look at the exam questions in advance. - You want to look at the answers? / - Yes. Don't you need to study hard and take extra classes after school to become a scientist? Later. Now is not the time? Now is not the time. (Oh, son...) In Korea, when parents are in a financial bind, they tend to hide it from their kids. They don't want the kids to know. But the experts say that it is necessary for the kids to know family issues, too. But in Taemin's case, it has gotten to the point where he's too obsessed with money. That is why it is very concerning. In your opinion, when do you think Taemin was the happiest? He had this assignment last year in which he had to answer when he was the happiest. I thought he would say he was the happiest when he spent time with me or Dad. But he said, "When I found 11 cents." That's what he said? Yes. I was shocked. Yes, that's understandable. I was saddened by the thought that he has no good memories with me. It made me reflect on myself as a mom. 'Was I not good to him?' Let me ask his friends. Eunseo. When were you the happiest? When I went on a trip with my mom and dad. Where did you go? We went to Jeju Island for my brother's match. When you went to Jeju Island. Your family must be rich. Taemin, when were you the happiest? Tell us whatever you think of. (He can't answer right away...) Were you happy when you found 11 cents on the street? Yes. It was thrilling? Yes. Those 11 cents are Shin Dongyeob's. Give it back. I don't have it. He doesn't want to. Are you not happy when you're with your friends? Well... You don't know? Did you ever invite his friends over and cook so that Taemin can hang out with his friends? Not once. Because you're so busy? It's not just because I'm busy. I don't really cook well. Then do you spend a lot of time with him? We have to turn off the lights by 9:30. I come home after 8. I spend 30 minutes with him on his homework. What about on weekends? I just want to rest. You never got to spend a lot of time with him. You came here today because you felt bad that your son matured too early and is too obsessed with money. You know about Mencius' mother, right? She moved 3 times for her son. When they lived near a cemetery, Mencius mimicked people mourning. So she moved to a house next to a market. Mencius copied people doing business. So she moved next to a school and he studied. So no matter how tired you are, you should spend time with Taemin on weekends. Are you willing to do that? Since that 11-cent incident, I've been wanting to spend more time with Taemin to make good memories. Yes, he's at the perfect age for that. Those memories are what make a child happy. It's sad that he hasn't felt that yet. Please say a word to your son, ma'am. Son, don't be so obsessed with money. If there's something you want, buy it. Tell me what you want. And let's visit many places together. I will make time to spend it with you. Look at how happy Taemin looks. (What a relief) Let's start with Sagang. I don't think it's a concern. It's not a concern. I thought it was a serious concern at first, but his mother just said that she'll do her best to make time to spend it with him. So I don't think it's a concern. I'm the opposite from Sagang. It wasn't a concern before, but it is now. Ding dong. I think it's a concern, too. I... I think it's a concern. You are here today because you are worried that Taemin is obsessed with collecting junk. But you two could switch seats right now. You didn't spend enough time with Taemin. You should be concerned. Taemin needs his mother's love so much. You should try to become his friend. Money is important in life, but there are more things that are more valuable. Taemin, you don't have to worry. We can be happy even if we are not rich." It would've been nice if you had told him that. If you think this is a concern for Taemin's mom, please press the button. (What does the audience think?) 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Please stop. Please say a word to your mother. I love you, Mom. Do you really? Yes. Please say a word to your grandma. I love you, Grandma. He isn't so energetic. Taemin. Can you try to collect junk less for your mother's sake? I will try. Please show us the result. "Grandpa in Our Neighborhood." Did they get over 100 votes? (How many votes did they get?) How many votes did they get? - 112? / - 122! Thank you. (They got 122 votes) "Is Love Supposed to Be Like This?" "Hello. I'm a man in my 30s who feels suffocated because of love. I have a girlfriend who is 9 years younger and loves me very, very much." It's the opposite from the previous concern. "'Honey. You are so cute and handsome. Oh my. What if every woman falls in love with you?' Are you jealous? I'm scared of my girlfriend. My girlfriend gets very jealous. We both work at the same hospital. I can't even look at other female colleagues. I do X-ray exams." He is a radiologist. "'Honey! You did an X-ray on a female patient. Right? How ridiculous.' My girlfriend keeps tabs on my female patients." What? "'Don't be so jealous. It's hard to do my work when you get so jealous.' 'Every woman gets this jealous! Not being jealous means I don't love you anymore.' Is love supposed to be like this? I don't think it is. Please stop my girlfriend from getting jealous." He is here because of his jealous girlfriend. Please come on out. (Who's concerned about his jealous girlfriend?) (Is he so handsome to cause jealousy?) You don't have to go and greet him. (Bursts out laughing) (Oh...) Try to keep a straight face, everyone. You all have this look that says "Why?" Please don't. Please introduce yourself. I'm 35-year-old Jeong Uiseong. What's your name? Jeong Uiseong. I thought you said "Jung Woosung." I'm glad your name is "Jeong Uiseong." (1 loss for him) So you both work in the same hospital? Yes. I'm a radiologist. My girlfriend works in the ultrasound department. It's hard to work because of her. At first, seeing her being jealous was cute and lovely. But it started to get worse. When I'm chatting with other female colleagues, she comes up behind me and glares at me. Did you ever get caught cheating on her? No, never. How can you ask him that from the start? What if he said, "Yes, I did." What would you have done then? You can't ask randomly like that. Do you give certain looks to other women? No, I don't. He does look very naive. He looks like a gentleman. My girlfriend is the only one that I care about. Many women get chest X-ray exams. They can't be wearing anything metal, so they do the exam with just a gown on. In order to get better results, I have to hold their arms or shoulders. Like this, right? No, not like that. Just a gentle touch. No, this is how the patients pose. (You scared me) I meant this is how the patients take X-rays. Their shoulders must go against the board. Yes. But she doesn't understand that. She asks me, "Did you enjoy that? Did you ask her for her number?" (I see...) She's asking if you asked for the patient's number? You said that she always tells you how cute and handsome you are? My girlfriend thinks I'm very handsome. So she always tells me how handsome... I'm so jealous. And how cute I am. She thinks other women will fall for me, but I don't worry about that. (Ha ha ha ha) You're so cute. He thinks it's absurd, too. - Even he thinks it's absurd. / - He's charming. Have you told her that you feel suffocated? It's very inconvenient. I did tell her that I'm suffering. Yes, you do look like it. I can hear it in your voice. I told her, but she said that all women get this jealous and if they don't, it means they aren't in love. (Well...) Let's meet his girlfriend now. Hello. Hello. Do you understand your boyfriend's concern? No. As you can see, he's very handsome. Let's say that we agree and move on. He has well-defined features. (Well-defined features) I'm worried that other women will think the same. Can you look to your left? (Glance) Is he more handsome? Or is your boyfriend? Who is more handsome? My boyfriend. My boyfriend. (No way) Liar. You really do love him. Even if your boyfriend is that handsome, isn't it absurd to get jealous of patients, too? I do think it's absurd. My head knows it. But my heart won't follow. When I look at beautiful women, I can't help but think that he enjoyed doing their X-ray exams. You do sonograms, right? You must get male patients, too. Imagine that your boyfriend gets jealous of that. I'd like that. You want him to get jealous? He never gets jealous. (Speechless) (I won't say anything) Why didn't you get jealous? I did. (It's not fair) Let's say you fractured your rib and went to a hospital. The radiologist is handsome. Would you ask him for his number? No, because I have a boyfriend. Let's say you don't. Would you ask? Oh, you'd ask. That's why she gets jealous. (I'm kidding) Seeing him chat with his colleagues upsets you? Yes. My boyfriend is a considerate person. He offers food or water to other co-workers at dinner or holds the elevator for them. Things that women can do on their own. One time, we went on a trip for work. He called a female co-worker by her nickname. - Her nickname? / - Yes. I hated that. It sounded like he was calling her a pet name. So we had an argument. Then what must he call his co-workers? By their last names. You don't want him to be on a first name basis? No. Are you worried that his smile... Right. He has a dimple on one cheek. Smile for me. Let me see. - On the left. / - Right here. (She loves his dimple) I think we can wrap this up quickly, Taekyun. For some odd reason. It is cute. Do you smile kindly to other women? No. I just give businesslike smiles. I can't frown when I talk to my patients. Of course not. Do your colleagues know about your concern? They know that you two are together, right? Yes. The funny thing is, I think she has a spy. (Absurd) - She has a spy? / - Here and there? I work on the first floor and she works on the 5th floor. We don't see each other during the day, but she later asks, "You chatted with other women?" I never told her about it. Maybe she views the surveillance cameras. We're curious. Do you have a spy? No. Then how do you know? I wish I didn't know. No one else knows how jealous I get. Other staff members come and tell me what my boyfriend does at work. You two work at the same hospital, so couldn't you be more understanding? It's not just my co-workers. She gets jealous of all women. Older women who pass out fliers, or a part-time worker at a convenience store. I can't even look at a waitress. If a woman walks by me, she asks, "Did you look at her?" I didn't mean to look at her. I have a friend who's a hairdresser. I go to get my haircut from her. My girlfriend tags along every time. Every time you go get a haircut? Yes, she tags along and glares at me the entire time. Do you really tag along every time? At first, I went with him because I was worried about his friend. But I am okay with her. But there is another woman at the hair salon. I don't like it when she touches him. I went to her friend's birthday party once. I took her friend's side and she got mad. She ended up crying at the party. - I was so upset. / - Why? I can't drink. It'd be nice if he can drink for me. But instead of doing that, he was yelling, "Drink! Drink!" along with my friends. I hated him at that moment. I wanted to punch him. Why didn't you drink for her? I did a couple of times. You can't do that every time. I can't do that every time. Is he wrong or is it true? Are you jealous of all women including older women who hand out fliers? Not women who hand out fliers. Why are you excluding them? That could upset them. Why won't you get jealous of older women? Do you know how much you've hurt their feelings? They're not women? I get wary of beautiful women with great bodies. (She's wary of these type of women) Did your boyfriend ever do anything to make you doubt him? He lied to me once. Of course there's a reason. After working all night, he should've gone home to sleep. But one time, he only slept for an hour or two and went out because his female friend called. He didn't even tell me about it. I've become more obsessed since then. Why did you lie to her? Is she talking about the hairdresser friend? It's another friend. You have many female friends. You said you only have one female friend. It was my friend's child's first birthday so we went to pick out a gift together. I got caught because I wasn't being consistent. - Why did you lie? / - You didn't have to lie. Was she suspicious back then, too? Did you think that it was better not to say anything so that she doesn't misunderstand? It was my fault. That could make her doubt you. Do you have any time for yourself? If I work the night shift, I go to work at 5:30. My girlfriend goes to work at 8:30 a.m. We always eat lunch together. Then I go home and come back to work at 5:30. My girlfriend gets off work. What about on weekends? We are together on our off days so I don't have any time by myself. It's important to have some time to yourself. - Even if the two of you are dating. / - Right. You should let him have some time alone. Then he wouldn't lie. What do you think? I want to be with him all the time. And I can't get a hold of him when he's at home. He won't text or answer my calls. I get curious about what he's up to or get worried so that's why I don't let him be alone. You can only trust him when he's with you? - Yes. / - Even though he's your boyfriend? Does she check your phone, too? She has her fingerprint registered on my phone. She checks my phone every day. She asks me why I talked to a woman on the phone. I don't check her phone every day. I don't know why she gets suspicious. Are you planning to marry her? Yes. We are thinking of getting married next year. You already made plans? Then you came here today because it'd be hard to marry her if she keeps this up? Sure. It gets tougher after you get married. It's harder if you two are living together. Why are you so worried? Can't you trust him? Maybe she had a traumatic experience. When I was dating someone else, my boyfriend blatantly cheated on me and liked someone else. I was hurt by that. I met my current boyfriend after that. That's why I've become more obsessed. So you think he will cheat on you if you don't keep an eye on him? It's not that. But I have to keep an eye on him for me to feel secure. You don't care that he feels suffocated? I do care, and I tell myself that this is wrong. But it's out of habit. "Did you look at her?" I ask that out of habit. Are you mad that Chaeyeon and Gyeongree are here? No. They are celebrities. What about me? Am I like that woman who hands out fliers? (Unable to answer) Tell me. Go ahead and answer me. Yes. She feels secure. You got your answer. She doesn't mind you. You said that you want to marry her. What are you most worried about? I'm worried that she'll get worse. It'd be suffocating. Because you'd be living together. I'm grateful that she loves me so much, but if things get worse... When a person feels trapped, they struggle even more to be free. I'm quite concerned. I'm concerned, too. I'm worried, too, that this will continue even after we get married. What will make you be less suspicious? I don't want him to be so considerate of others. But that's his personality. He's not doing it to flirt with other women. Don't you feel apologetic to other women? That you assumed they want to take your boyfriend? They have their own morals and their own taste. You disregard those completely. I don't feel apologetic at all. He's so handsome. (Sigh...) Why don't you just stop? Why don't you just stop? We have 200 people here. They are objective. Let's do a vote. Who wants to steal her boyfriend? I want to know where he works, get an X-ray and get his number. Who wants to ask him for his number? - One, two. / - No way. Three. Please press the button. (Oh my!) (Oh my god) No! (Shocked) Stop pressing the button! Hold on. Hold on. Men shouldn't press the button. I get it now. He is such a considerate guy... - I get it, too. / - He seems like a great man. But we are talking about his looks, right? - Yes. / - Yes. Please vote based solely on his looks. How frustrating. He walked by you on the street. He walked by. "Ooh. Who was that?" (Ooh. Who was that?) (I am drawn to this strange man) (Understood) Don't look at his personality. Just his looks. What a tough day today. One. Two. Three. (A nerve-wracking vote) I don't know what we're doing here. See? (Quiet) (It was her misunderstanding) (There's one person) There's one person! One! One! We can't end this shoot because of you. Who pressed the button? Was it a joke? Who was it? Was it an accident? We didn't press it. Was it the son? Son! (It was an accident) Son! It was the son. Son! Oh, what a relief. Girlfriend! Were you surprised? Yes. It was the son. (They almost filmed "Love and War") You are planning to marry her even if she doesn't change her ways, right? - Would you still marry her? / - Yes. It is impressive that he is willing to marry you even if you don't change. But what I'm most concerned about is that if you continue to do this, he may drift apart from you one day. Yes. He'll want to be free. I had a boyfriend who got jealous and cared for me very much. At first, I liked that. I felt loved. But it got worse. When I missed his call, all these thoughts would run through my head. "What should I say so we won't fight? What should I say so that..." You have to start making up lies. - You end up lying. / - Then, though I didn't have any ill intent, I ended up lying or telling him less. He was very upset when he found that out later. Don't make the person you love lie. What do you want from her? Let's be good to each other. Be more lenient when it comes to other women. I love you. Let's start with Kijoon. I don't think it's a concern. I think it's a concern. I think it's a concern. I don't think it's a concern. I think it's a concern. I want you to make her feel more secure. Something like, "You're prettier than Chaeyeon." You're definitely prettier. "I met Gyeongree in person..." - What did you think of Gyeonghee? / - She's ugly. She's not ugly. (Angry) You two were meant for each other. Please press the button. (What does the audience think?) 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. Please stop. It'll take a while, but I will try to change. I love you. Please show us the result. The last digit is a 3. Did they get over 100 votes? Yes. Currently, the winner has 163 votes. 103 votes. (They got 103 votes) "God-Like Man" won this week. This is a reward to cheer you up. Until the day we are all worry-free... "Hello Counselor" will continue to counsel you. Thank you. ("Never Thought" by The EastLIght)
