Feminine Fragrance, Hygiene, Hair + Weight || A Feminine Impression Femininity Series

[Music] in my last video we talked about clothing we talked about makeup we talked about lingerie heels jewelry and skincare so today I want us to talk a little bit more about the outer appearance as well but focusing on your senses now fragrance is my favorite I believe that fragrance is arguably one of the most powerful ways to hold someone's attention if you just think about like when you're out and you smell something good think about how your body feels how your body reacts and just how your mood changes it could be smelling Donuts it can be the scent of a man who walked by and his cologne just hypnotize do it can be the scent of flowers smells mean something as a feminine woman it's gonna be very important for you to invest you can have a signature fragrance that you know it's just you and you don't have to keep exploring or you can change your fragrances depending on your mood depending on the season depending on the time of day depending on where you're going in addition to just looking put together and clean when you smell good people want to be near you this can help in so many different ways just think about it if you had a nice clean feminine fragrance on and you went for a job interview as you're walking in you're shaking people's hands and they're just kind of captivated by this very low-key smell most people won't even know that it's you that smells good but for some reason they'll just kind of have like this nice feeling overtake them and they go is that are you wearing some perfume it smells so good and that is one of the best compliments in my opinion because it's hard to get Universal sense that people agree with but for the most part a lot of fragrances go with your own body chemistry so take the time and go out into the stores and spray different things on figure out which notes go best with your skin try it out you know don't do it when you're gonna be at work or people are gonna have to be stepped up to it do it when you're just doing like a mask and some like housecleaning and see how does that changes on your body see how people react to the scent one thing I've noticed is my perfumes when I was younger that worked as refined and they were kind of like body sprays or lower-end fragrances those were the ones that tended to be the most offensive the strong kind of like you know alcohol smelling or just too much but once I started learning about fragrances and going into boutique shops not like your big Nordstrom and Macy's but going into some of like the smaller mom-and-pop shops the apothecary type shops and smelling those fragrances I noticed a huge difference from the perfumes that they sell like at Macy's versus the perfumes in these stores and they really worked better with my body the cents were very unique very captivating and it got me very interested in those types of fragrances now again it's an investment they're not cheap they're not cheap for a reason you're gonna notice a big difference when you use them but now stores like Nordstrom and some of the higher-end shops are now selling these perfumes that weren't available before so they're kind of catching on as well now as far as specific scent it's most feminine scent smell clean some have a little bit of Musk some floral of some Orientals you really have to play with the fragrances based on your own body chemistry you will notice that some people are more attracted to like the fresher cleaner scent and some people are more attracted to like the more woodsy fragrances most men are more attracted to fruity scents I would say if they're the ones picky I know the actually does smell really good on me and I like vanilla I know a lot of women don't but vanilla is also a very feminine fragrance if you guys want I can do a separate video just on fragrances and I can tell you like my favorite fragrances if you guys want let me know and I'll do one um also fragrance oil for those of you guys who don't like the alcohol or maybe you just don't want to like spray your clothes but you just want a very natural captivating scent fine oil fragrance oils are good because they're a little bit less intrusive as far as like being very potent and overpowering I like them the most when I just want it to be subtle maybe just walk around the house with a nice scent but not have to spray myself if you happen to work in a fragrance free office then just wear perfume on the weekends or wear it for yourself around the house honestly when it comes to fragrance it really does change my mood it can take me to a certain place in time it can take me to a certain moment and most of the time I'm wearing the fragrance for myself because I just want to smell good it's not really for other people I actually have perfume that I keep next to my bed and when I want to just kind of like feel relaxed and calm and serene I'll just spray a little bit in the air or I'll just spray a little bit on my wrist I'm if I'm laying or reading next to my fiance I'll spray a little bit like on myself on the pillows and it just kind of changes the energy in the room he absolutely loves fragrance on me that's actually the first compliment he ever gave me was you smells so good it does draw people in it does attract it can make people just feel ignited be next to you when you smell good if you want to know which one I was referring to it's this one it's called it lazy Sunday morning and this is like my bedside fragrance it smells like a linen it smells very very clean and very very very feminine this is like a femininity in a bottle now let's talk about your hair okay this is this is a big one this is a really big one you guys especially being a black woman as far as your actual hair goes your hair just needs to look neat I know that people will go back and forth about what hairstyles are considered to be feminine now generally speaking when we talk about femininity and its essence long hair would be considered to be feminine now your hair can be long and straight long and curly long and natural it doesn't matter men specifically men are most attracted to long hair and it doesn't really matter if it's a weave or a wig I do think that a lot of men don't mind weaves and wigs I think that they really just don't want to know that your hair is not real as long as they don't know as long as it's not like just painfully obvious that you're wearing a wig most men are okay with it now if it's not something that you're doing in terms of attracting a man and you just kind of want to know what can spice up your look and make it look a little bit more feminine try long hair it definitely helps if you're trying to like hide any insecurities on your face it also helps and just making your face look a little bit more slim a little bit more oval however if you don't like long hair you do not have to wear long hair but that does Emma nice you if you want to try it out just get a wig try a wig out for a week and walk around your house in it walk to the store with it flip it around a little bit you know play with it a little bit and just see how you feel see how people react now whether your hair is long or short or in a natural style or animal hock it doesn't matter what style it's and it needs to look clean I believe that natural hair colors look best honestly whatever is natural for you I think those colors are usually the most suiting colors like blonde do kind of feminized you up a little bit because it just makes it look a little bit more fancy and I think it depends on your skin tone you have to pick the right colors for your skin tone because it can actually hold you back if you pick colors that wash you out or colors that are just eccentric and kind of say something about you and if you ever want to just spice things up a little bit more wear hats hats and accessories really feminized every woman you can wear a big rounded hat and that makes your look very classy feminine you can do a cute straw hat if you're doing like a beach day these are very cutesy things that you can kind of just add to your wardrobe and it makes you look more dressed up it makes you look a little bit more cared for and it definitely makes you look more feminine another thing that can help especially if you have natural hair is wearing things like the flower headbands those make you look very feminine they're beautiful they attract some attention to your face and to your hair and I think it's a really nice accessory for women to have but you should have something you should have accessories in your stash for whenever you want to play up an outfit or play up your look you should have something so start with hats sunglasses belts they make a huge difference in your look the last two things I want to talk about our weight and hygiene as far as hygiene goes the real important things are teeth and making sure that your teeth are clean that they are white people do look at your teeth when they talk to you naturally they don't do it on purpose but their eyes will gravitate to your teeth at some point and if you have things in your teeth if you have bad breath if you have stained teeth they're a distraction people may judge you and think that you're not clean so just pay attention to your teeth you know loss brush your teeth daily at least twice a day but it can be more depending on what you ate depending on whatever hygiene needs you have but care for your teeth visit your dentist if you have health insurance you should be taking advantage of that go get a cleaning kit get a whitening check for cavities check for bad breath I believe whether you are feminine Yulin male/female doesn't matter you really should have a good oral hygiene and good breath even if that means you have to carry breath mints in your purse it's fine I mean use it if you are insecure about your teeth I would recommend going for a consultation looking at braces it does not matter how old you are it does not matter how old you are you can get braces at any age you can change anything about yourself whenever you want to so if you really want to fix your teeth go in for a consultation find out how much it cost it might be affordable there might be programs there might be payment plans you have to be brave sometimes and face the things that are challenges for yourself and try and fix it just get the information they have Invisalign where you don't have to wear actual braces but you can just wear like the clear cap on your teeth they have ones that you only wear at night it's honestly so much out there now guys but there's just no excuse not to educate yourself on some of these things especially when it's a concern for you especially when it can take your look from here all the way up here your confidence these things matter you know in a job interview when people are looking at you believe it or not most people unless they're aware of these things most people are looking at a whole bunch of other stuff too they're interviewing other parts of you not just what you're saying unfortunately unfortunately they're looking at everything and lastly in terms of hygiene make sure that you're taking showers at least twice a day maybe more if you need to make sure you're washing all parts of your body make sure you go to the doctor and you get your checkups your annual checkups your pap smears make sure that you're staying on top of everything not just your makeup and your skin but what's going on on the inside the last thing I wanted to talk about is weight okay as a woman your weight is going to fluctuate it's gonna fluctuate so much during your life even if you're very thin now trust me things might change that's honestly just a beautiful part of being a woman we're constantly evolving so don't get too caught up with that piece unless you just struggle with weight if you do struggle with weight I would recommend really getting serious even if that means finally going to see a nutritionist or finally really changing your lifestyle in terms of the foods you're eating in terms of forcing yourself to exercise a little bit more people who are fit and healthy appearing are just naturally more attractive to people in every aspect of life now it's not in any way to say that you can't be feminine if you have a certain weight that's simply not sure you can be feminine no matter what your weight in you guys it's one of those things where sometimes you tell yourself you know one day I'm gonna do that or and I got myself together man I know I could do that but it's like when is that day gonna come when are you gonna actually prove it to yourself what are you actually gonna do it you know sometimes you have to just stop talking about it you just have to do it you have to prove it to yourself that you can do it and not just think that you know it would be so nice if I could finally get it together weight is the toughest one because that can come from so many other issues that could be spiritual mental emotional it could have to do with pills and things that you have to take so weight is not an easy one and it is a touchy subject so I don't in any way I want people to think that you have to look a certain way to attract things those are my personal feelings but you guys it wouldn't be helpful if I sat here and sugar-coated everything for you guys I have to be real we live in America we live in a very superficial country in terms of people being attracted to things that they see and in this country people do value the healthier looking bodies so it's important if that is something that is important to you or if you feel very stuck in a certain way and you just can't figure out what it is maybe try focusing on your health and your fitness see how that changes how you feel a ternary see how it affects things like stress your blood sugar your attitude okay see how it starts impacting the choices of clothing that you're choosing you feel better when you know that you're not restricting yourself and having to wear only certain clothes based on the way that your body look hopefully the information was helpful to you guys I know it may be a lot okay I know it may be a lot but everything matters if you start just trying it out little by little you're gonna see yourself changing and we're going to talk about that soon you know anyone that can benefit from anything that we talked about today make sure to share the video with them I'm looking forward to the next video in the series where we're gonna talk about behaving in a feminine way and how to kind of act and we're gonna talk about like boys how to speak to people what people find attractive so that's coming up next if you guys have any questions please let me know thank you guys so much for all of your feedback and all of your love you guys are just so supportive and wonderful and I appreciate you guys please leave any comments any tips that you want to share with us about any of the things that we talked about please let us know I mean it's always good to get information it's always helpful and if you guys have any questions for me let me know and I'll see you guys in the next video they can see all my peace love and life [Music]

Channel: Dr. Michelle Daf

Views: 173,004

Keywords: a feminine impression, how to be feminine, femininity, fragrance, hygiene, hairstyles, feminine weight, feminine hairstyles, natural feminine hairstyles, feminine hygiene, weight, feminine women, how to at more feminine, how to look more feminine, feminine fragrances, feminine perfume, elegant woman, how to be classy

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Length: 17min 12sec (1032 seconds)

Published: Wed Nov 06 2019