Exploring LIFE AFTER DEATH w/ Hollywood Medium Tyler Henry

it's giving me chills right now but alen thick if you guys don't know is a very very well-known actor his son's the famous Robin Thick as you're reading him you essentially warned this man while he was here your face is changing as I say it yeah about his heart yeah and there's no history of that in my family no history of heart disease sure in the family sure lo and behold he passed of a exactly related issue to what you had warned him about during the reading when I got the news I remember we were driving down the road and I just broke down thinking about his wife who I knew I had to meet again we made a connection shortly after he passed and when I was there with her the only message that I came through that morning was I was seeing Sunnyside eggs I went to see Tanya and as we were walking I just said you know Alan just wants you to know sunnide eggs the sun's coming out I don't know what this means and she said that when she received the news that Alan had died she was alone and she said out loud oh my God Alan the sun in my life has gone out and by giving that one message that one symbol of Sunny Side eggs it was his way I think of saying you know what the Sun is going to come out again oh my gosh you're making me cry there's also a levity and that's one thing that I think people find surprising around the subject of mediumship they think of it as this thing that's dark and sad and spooky and involving ghosts but if anything my life and what I've learned as a result of these messages is given me a deeper appreciation for Life a deeper awareness of how to live fully and meaningfully and to really prevent future regret as a spiritual person I still grieve it's just changed how I honor them I've learned to not define those who we've lost by their death we owe it to them to remember them for who they were and introduce that into a world that will never get the chance to physically meet that person because they've passed gives them Al almost a second life through our actions and through how we kind of choose to carry them on hey it's Ed my lad I just want to thank you for being here and I would ask you to please subscribe to the show if you just click the Subscribe button here I would really appreciate it it helps the show grow so we can get even more successful guests on the program to help you at the same time if you're subscribed you're going to get access to the programs before anybody else in the world gets access to them so if you would click subscribe right here thanks so much welcome back everybody this young man sitting across from me I have wanted to talk to for years and he's just a gentle soul a kind Spirit but he does have some gifts that I've never seen in another person before and I'm really interested in unpacking his understanding of those gifts and just maybe some of the gifts we all have laying dormant within us that maybe he's just uncovered a little more deeply than we have and so he has a Netflix series out right now streaming called life after death with Tyler Henry which would make sense because sitting in front of me is Tyler Henry not even life after death just Tyler Henry which is probably good we're all kicking we're here we're present so glad to be on thank you for having me I'm thrilled you're here brother I'm so thrilled you're here okay let's get into this first thing I want to know is there a pressure on you like everywhere you go not only do people want you to read them but is there is he real sure do you have that thing like when you meet almost a thing like cuz I think in every human like if you're in any type of a public person you something you want to make sure people believe you're authentic and real but my gosh with you that's got to be everywhere you go people are kind of is it real is it not real absolutely you know it's kind of different being a public figure in the spiritual realm because it's not really like being an actor or a singer where when people recognize you they love your work they you know kind of connect on a more creative level but people see me in public I find that I kind of almost represent to some a connection with a loved one and that representation puts a lot of pressure you know people come and they're asking me what I'm getting around them and I'm at the supermarket and and I've learned you know how to kind of navigate those situations with sensitivity and handle it accordingly there have been times where I've spontaneously shared something with someone and while it's interesting um it takes a lot of energy and there's a time and a place for reading so I find I prefer people reach out to me versus walking up to people is there just a weight to it Tyler just being you absolutely there's also a levity and that's one thing that I think people find surprising around the subject of mediumship they think of it as this thing that's dark and sad and spooky and involving ghosts but if anything my life and what I've learned as a result of these messages is given me a deeper appreciation for Life a deeper awareness of how to live fully and meaningfully and to really prevent future regret that's been the greatest gift these awarenesses have given me to say it now while I have the chance do you have any insight about that regret like if people that you've dealt with either that are here or in the thereafter like some of the telltale signs of regret is it somebody who let fear rule their entire life and they left this place not fulfilling their potential is it the way they treated one another when they were here like what's the source do you think of regret for a lot of people well you know it's multifaceted it kind of depends on the context of you know personal regret of the person who passes or even the regret we feel when someone passes as far as how maybe we could have handled things better I always tell people when it comes to the loss of a love one that regret is kind of power for the course even if you know your loved one is going to pass even if there's time to prepare so often we just wish there had been more time to say more to do more so even under the best of circumstances I think regret is very often prevalent in people's grief and and I think it speaks to the importance of doing everything we can to try to mitigate that in the here and the now with those who are alive by the way I want to make sure everyone else knows this he has this book here and a Hereafter how wisdom from The Departed can transform your life now now and uh I got a chance to go through that yeah and maybe I'm strange I think about death a lot it actually causes me I think I think anyone that's followed my work knows I do and hly I find that it causes me to be more present now because I'm so grateful for being here I think knowing that's eminent yes that reminder causes me to live more fully now do you you must spend a lot of your time on that topic because it's something you're connecting to all the time or do you not even believe the concept of death necessarily well you know I I definitely believe in the concept of death and I believe that with the grief process it's normal and natural even if you have a spirituality to grieve that physical absence and I think it's important so as a spiritual person I still grieve I still cry when I've lost loved ones or pets um but I I think it's just changed how I honor them I have learned to not define those who we've lost by their death we owe it to them to remember them for who they were for what what they represented for their passions for their purpose for the value they gave to us and I think when we can take that and introduce that into a world that will never get the chance to physically meet that person because they've passed them it gives them Al almost a second life through our actions and through how we kind of Truth to carry them on it's amazing how God works whatever you believe I think you know that I have a deep Faith but I so just yesterday I have a new TV show that I'm doing it's not out yet so I can't get in all the details of it but it's a show where help people and their families and anyway the family that I was with yesterday um it's three sons and a mother and uh their father took his own life about eight years ago and there's just been tremendous grief tremendous trauma and I almost wish I had met you the day before you know um to maybe bring them a little bit more Comfort but I was curious do you believe the way in which someone passes um impacts where they go or where they are or how they communicate from where they've gone sure compared to say a peaceful passing yeah I think it really all boils down to intention I think the basis of all spirituality is intent so when we talk about situations where people have passed under circumstances that were perhaps particularly tragic I've had those people come through clear's day perfectly fine and then equal had situations where someone you know goes through a long progression of cancer over eight months and they pass and everybody expects but they come through a little bit more aware um I guess of of some of the things they would have done differently so to answer that I would say it's less about what gets someone over there it's more about our mindset that we have before we get over there um and very often in cases with mental health I think it's so important to not villainize mental health and you know the brain is part of the body and so often people come who have taken their own lives and you know when that comes through um there's just such a Clarity of understanding that the brain is just part of the body that the brain can get sick just like any other organ um and that in essence we are I think so much more even than obviously our bodies but even our brains um they kind of view it as almost like a a radio and Consciousness is the channel and if the radio is broken you're not going to get a clear signal with the channel so it seems to kind of almost reflect that analogy with the brain that we're more even than than that I had someone on my show that uh he tried to take his own life he actually jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge yes I'm familiar with that one yes and oh wow I've asked he corrected me in the show and he said uh this term mental health may be a little dangerous he said it's really brain health brain health and if we begin to look at it more that way I actually shared that with this family yesterday W mental health is almost like uh you know someone's a tortured Soul or something like that but to some extent it can be chemical it can be a brain health issue absolutely yes I got to ask you this because I'm just curious about it are you afraid to die I still still look both ways when I cross the street and I still encourage people to stop at red lights um there's so much that I don't know and I love that about you the unknown I think scares everybody a little bit but what I can say is what I have seen the glimpses that I've been given have given me a deep Comfort to know that when I do go though I don't claim to know what happens in its entirety when we pass I know that I won't be alone and that gives me a peace it could bring me to tears that that knowingness that not only will I not be alone but none of us will ever truly be alone and I know in life how often people feel alone in their grief and I think nobody understands but when people come through they seem to acknowledge more of a a reunion and being with loved ones even when they maybe didn't even necessarily feel them so you're making me cry sorry yeah just thinking about my dad who had tough life and yeah didn't allow himself to feel the BL Bliss he was entitled to when he was here you know so many people lived their lives like that he just didn't give himself the gift of the Bliss he could have had when he was here most of the time some of the time but not not often enough and one of the things that comforted me when he passed is knowing that he gets the gift of that now yes and uh that means the world to me you get to me brother already way too early that's important I want to put this in the we're going to weave this in when I ask you this question cuz it's mindblowing to me but you've done a lot of readings you've read friends of mine yes and I've told you some of them are were Skeptics going in and then the other thing I should tell you too that would I think would make you feel good and make my audience feel good prior to having you on and I had John Edward on as well I actually asked some of my most fa faith-based friends some of them pastors wow some of them some of the most famous Pastors in the world and I won't remain they'll remain nameless but I said hey am I you think this is okay you know and I was surpris to a person and like I'd really be interested to hear more yeah wow and I'm open and maybe would help clearly Define some of the things I do or don't believe and and so I was a little bit surprised by that it wasn't oh it's blasphemy it's this or that and and I thought how wonderful that was the validation of your work of all the things I've seen you do and I want people to see this clip so we will weave it in in the audio in the video here but was a reading you did with Allen thick and it's giving me chills right now but Allan thick if you guys don't know is a very very well-known actor his son's famous Robin Thick and I'll let the clip play as were're doing this but as you're reading him I could see the discomfort on your face almost like I've got to share this with him and you essentially warned this man while he was here your face is changing as I say it yeah uh about his heart yeah and about his blood pressure when it comes and he sort of said there's no history of that in my family no history of heart disease sure in the family sure behold he passed of a exactly related issue to what you had warned him about during the reading yeah what was that experience like for you when it was coming through to you and what's it like for you now knowing it was confirmed at the time it was just insistent I had this loved one coming through for him who had clearly died with what I think was in essence the same problem that he later passed of and the L was coming through and encouraging him to go to this doctor to go get this checked and he laughed and he said oh thanks Dr Tyler and at the time I thought you know I I gave it my best shot I for two minutes straight was just going on about you need to get your heart checked you need heart jacked and get hearted yeah and so there's only so much I could do in just being the messenger but when I got the news I remember we were driving down the road and I just broke down thinking about his wife who I knew I had to meet again and it was so beautiful because we made a connection shortly after he passed and I went to Santa Barbara where his widow was and when I was there with her the only message that I came through that morning was I was seeing Sunnyside eggs eggs Sunnyside up when I'd woken up that morning I didn't know what that meant but I went to to see Tanya and as we were walking I just said you know Alan just wants you to know Sunnyside Sunnyside eggs the sun's coming out I know what this means and she said that when she received the news that Alan had died she was alone and she said she said out loud oh my God Allan the sun in my life has gone out jeez and by giving that one message that one symbol of Sunny Side eggs it was his way I think of saying you know what the Sun is going to come out again oh my gosh so it is the power of a single image power of a single message is that how it comes through to you it's some sort of an image that you're not sure what it means but you'll what do you see or feel I'm curious when this is by the way that's remarkable the entire part of it of you I could see everyone that's seeing or hearing the clip like you probably don't want to be delivering bad news you want to be delivering your loved one misses you and this is all sunny and Rosie and you've got this thing you have to impart yes but that's just remarkable what is happening when you're you're getting this we'll call it Advanced intuition for the sake of discussion right now is that a fair thing to say absolutely yeah inner tuition you know we all have it but I think when I do reading really it's multifaceted I say my six sense kind of uses the other five senses to communicate so very often I'll get a physical Sensation that corresponds with how someone passed other times I'll hear what sounds like a song stuck in my head but it'll be a name other times I'll feel as if I'm having memories but I know they're not mine um and then I realize okay this is someone else's memory and that's when I relay it that's usually where you get the really crazy specific stuff so it basically uses my mind and body as almost like a canvas to paint the picture but I wanted to kind of go back or to your earlier point about faith one of the most beautiful things about this work for me and what I hope to impart in these readings with others is to create a catalyst where people can see the value of faith in their life and not only that get to a place of faith into trust okay my work and growing up in a faith-based community showed me and told me to have faith in something I couldn't see in a God that I wanted to meet but looked around maybe not too soon see right exactly but the trust that these validations have given me the knowingness that love continues on that the bonds we create in this realm don't die has validated my faith through trust in such a way through firsthand experience that it's made me I think faithful on a whole other level that I can't even convey it's beyond Blind Faith and that for me is I think the greatest form let's unpack that what do you mean when you say trust what how has that been developed and what has caused you to have that trust I I I want to understand that yeah firsthand experience you know it's one thing to believe in an afterlife to believe in a certain afterlife in a certain um you know frame of reference as to how we view theology but it's another thing altogether to sit with someone and have you know the message of the sun's going to come out again for you someday and things like that that are so touching but to me I think if anything validate a higher power it validates that we're not alone it validates the Consciousness is a lot more complex than we realize and for me is kind of an anti-materialist framework which aligns perfectly with you know faith and and religion so anti-materialist meaning it's not about accumulations in your life well so materialism is kind of the antithesis of spirituality it's it's the idea that everything is physical there are people who are materialists uh who essentially believe that this is all there is when we die this is that's it um and boy your face changes even when you say that yeah yeah I mean and I get it cuz I I think you it's a very easy place to live in the idea of this is all there is and that's comforting for some people and that's it not me though and I get it but a lot of people do a lot of Skeptics cynics you know just would find an afterlife frightening and I get it I get it the unknown is scary and everyone responds differently so Dr Drew my friend who's been on the show yes you were booked I said give me the scoop give me the scoop right and uh he tells me I'll mess this up you can fix it for me but just I'll set the stage for it he said I had him read a very skeptical person he says he hooked you up to I think an EKG and some sort of brain monitor of some type and he said it was sort of unbelievable was going on in his brain yeah uh that you had I correct me if I'm wrong but you had some hyperactivity going on in the brain that was incredibly hyperactivity but you were almost also simultaneously right in a sleep State and the reason I asked you about what that feels like is I almost feel like that's a high performance state in general meaning if you take a great athlete and they're going to they're in the Batters box they've got to execute they're in a hyperactive state but the more calm and Flow State they can find themselves in they can perform if I want to go out on the stage where I speak in front of 30 40,000 people and I walk out I want to be in a hyperactive brain state where I'm functioning on every cylinder I possibly can but at the same time I've slowed things down and I'm as calm as I possibly can so it feels to me not that dissimilar from high performance and everything else do you sense that happening in you were you surprised by that reading and what does that actually feel like when you're doing it I love that you said Flow State because I'm a big fan of talism and some of the philosophy there and there's really something to be said about those activities that we do that make time feel like it doesn't exist whether it's dancing interviewing doing a reading painting a picture those activities that immerse us uh I think are really great indicator of our purpose and and where we can find greater meaning so um in my life I found that you know my readings are very much like an active Daydream I get into a state where I'm both very much awake but very much um kind of creating and opening up a place of a deep inner world where I'll see symbology get feelings and have to kind of um discern between what's you know in front of me and what's coming through did it scare you the first time Tyler how old were you when it happened did go oh my gosh what's happening you know I had my first premonition of my grandmother's death when I was 10 years old in April of 2006 But as time went on you know these moments of knowingness as I called them would happen increasingly and it was very frightening I had a lot less control before I would scribble over my readings and so they would come to me at random um I would have times of choking kidney pain my mom would rushed me to the emergency room one time um there were several moments where I was having a lot of medical problems that were very mysterious and they didn't really understand why and I've often attributed to you know kind of being a conduit and being that canvas that information gets painted on why do you think you sweat so much sometimes I think there's some deep metabolic process happening and I'm looking into more scientific research as far as being tested to try to kind of get an understanding of what's going on in the physical body but it's very clear it is a byproduct of something going on um you know people think could it be the lights you know in when you're sitting with the the person you get those hot fls but I encourage people to look at that and think like the client's not sweating why am I um and yeah it absolutely is and did it happen to you prior to the lights being on yeah absolutely okay so it's definitely not the lights definitively it's not the light do we all have a level of this in us and if we do how do we begin to reveal more of it to ourselves yeah so I love the word intuition because it breaks down to Inner tuition or inner knowledge we don't really think about the origins of that word but it's a beautiful thing because it is an inner compass that I believe all possess to some degree or another our ability to trust it I think is where we can see variations in accuracy some people uh you know are are very staunch in what they believe and what they think and are what we call thick boundar people and that can be very difficult for those types of people to kind of integrate intuitive experiences you have people who are more thin boundar people people who more go with the flow and kind of uh let life live life by the see their pants and those people often have more intuitive experiences so part of it is allowing it there is some really interesting Research into thick and thin boundar people with an anthropology that I think relates to psychic abilities for sure okay I'm going to confess something yeah because I've wanted to talk about this with you and it's a little bit of a risk for me but I'm going to do it anyway do it I'm a Christian yeah um but I've had some senses of I'm I can't explain it I'm not sure what it is y but what I would bet be able to Define as uh maybe a past life I see or a regression or that I've been here previously MH I'll see something from a previous time in a movie and it'll make me more emotional than I can possibly describe that seems to have no point of reference to me in this experience here sure I feel guilty when I have them yeah because it doesn't necessarily coincide and I've shared this with friends of mine that are devout and whatever their faith is I've got great friends that have every faith and I said this is something that uh I meet somebody sometimes like in your case that I my my the word I would use is this is an old soul in a in a young person's body I feel like I'm a bit of an old soul but what does that really mean and so I've worked through this it's not caused me to doubt my faith in anyway it's caused me to wonder if that's part of my faith that's just not been explained sure um or that I misunderstand it or that it uh you know what I'm saying so I'm just curious we're all working through our faith is a relationship with this next place or in my case Jesus a higher power in your life whatever it is it's a relationship and I really feel like these things can EB and flow through life there's certain experien like God what are you doing to me right now why would you let this happen sure and that doubt and those questions can cause it to strengthen yeah do you have those doubts in your own viewpoints and do you believe possibly that there's been uh a previous existence for your spirit or soul in a different body I would say on the subject of Doubt uh doubt is a beautiful thing I I think when faith is true it can be under scrutiny and I think that's the greatest value I I think of true faith is being able to question it objectively and still believe it so do I agree it's actually made mine stronger in my case but I'm curious with no I I feel absolutely the same way um no it's it's it's huge it's look at you're really pondering that I love it the second part of your question though cuz I'm curious more about the fear of or the aspect of reincarnation because that's I find that to be very fascinating I think there's a certain idea around reincarnation that you know people live and then they die and then they're reborn and then they live and they die I think it's a little bit more complicated than that my belief is that we exist even before we're born so that's a separate Incarnation and then we're born this is our Incarnation our our physical one and even when we pass I think if you think of it as if you exist outside your body well that's a different Incarnation too so I don't just view incarnations as phical ones right actually scripture tells us that we were made in the image of likeness and the Lord knew us before we were here there you go right so and that's an Incarnation so my belief is in a collective Consciousness we're working through some we are I love it I I believe that we are all essentially mirrors of one another in essence I believe we all are like single drops of water and when we pass we realize we're a big ocean of Consciousness interconnected to what I believe to be a higher power if not that higher power um and so I I find that in these readings um you know I I don't put too much weight on reincarnation because I believe that though there may be past lives or past incarnations of existence Beyond just this one um it's really more about right now that matters most it is I I was with my dad when he took his last breath wow and um have you ever had that experience have you been with someone when they've passed not in the exact moment okay no so I was with my dad when it happened and um after it happened it was going to be this is detailed but there's about an hour and a half window where um it was just going to be until the Hurst arrived W we're in his home and uh I don't think my sisters and my mom are real comfortable being in the room with them so I kind of was blessed with that time to be in the room with them and I've wanted to ask you about this and I've asked several friends about it so I wanted to be in the room with them and about five minutes into that experience I realized I was not in the room with my dad anymore yes and so what was in that room was my Dad's Body what was in that room was my dad's accumulations we were in his house his car was in the driveway but that wasn't my dad um my dad's achievements were still surrounding him that really wasn't my dad my dad's problems probably were still existing but my dad wasn't his problems wow and so it dawned on to me in those moments that's not who my dad is my dad's gone this in this physical room sure and and so who was he yeah and it dawned on me my dad was a spirit and an energy and a life force and you can't take those things with you but you do leave something behind yes and what my dad left behind were the people in that next room yeah wow were my sisters and my mom and me and that Spirit to some sense is another Carnation another Reincarnation of it is in us and lives on exactly and it's I've had this deep sense that he was gone my dad does continue to live this in this way through his children through his contributions through the difference he made through the energy and difference he made in other people's lives my father does continue to live but my dad wasn't his body his accumulations his possessions his Awards his problems that's not who he was and I had this deep sense in that moment wow and what an eye openening experience to have so often people even in the hospice realm report very much getting a sense of as they see people transition the moment where you very much realize there's a life there and then it's just a vessel and it's incredible to have that realization but also speaks to the fact that I think we are all Spirits All Souls with an ego and our ego I Define it as our beliefs around ourselves and the world around us and so those beliefs often influence our achievements things we do what motivates Us in life but we realize we're so much more than our ego that we are a soul a soul that made a difference and like was an incredible man you do you um you write a lot about that ego in the book yes and um you have a very small one oh I think I you know what I I don't I don't think so I think I'm I'm I the thing is I think ego is something to not be destroyed I think ego is something to be enhanced with self-awareness so we thought talk about having a big ego is we think of like people being narcissistic or self-absorbed right a little bit of a different version of ego here I think if anything egos are the Frameworks of how we respond to the world around us how we process information what we integrate as belief what we reject as not true um so all those things inform our our personalities and and how we navigate the world and they process that when they die when I say that and by the way I like that clarification yeah there's a there's a huge level of humility to you thank you and to me usually a great deal of humility and the way that I Define it is the lack of ego it's more spiritual it's more um an openness to learn and experience and receive as opposed to a dogmatic Viewpoint of what you just said of this is the world this is what I believe this is accurate you're I'm right you're wrong whatever I'm left you're right I'm blue you're red all that stuff that just defines the world today and I see that with you and it causes me to be comfortable do you think the reduction of that which I just described opens up the space for more intuition in somebody absolutely openness from a Consciousness perspective I think creates an environment that's conducive to creativity and I believe there's a direct relationship between creativity the subconscious and the psychic abilities and connections with loved ones so yeah you read a lot in the book about mindfulness yes so I want to unpack that a little bit it's uh it's not new to me no um but it's growing with me and I was I don't know I was surprised that that's what you wrote about I'm I'm I it helped connect dots for me to your work better thank you but in that sense talk a little bit you actually used the term Flow State in the book so what is what is your definition of mindfulness and how do you practice it for me my my definition of mindfulness is the ability to be present um or mindful of the present uh I think so often with the beeps and the buzzes of our phones our schedules you know we are constantly distracted and I think now more than ever with Tik Tok and media you know our attention spans are about 7 Seconds before we squirrel it's so true and so that has created a huge problem for people who do want to be more intuitive the process of becoming more intuitive requires one to be able to have extended attention to be able to bring awareness to oneself versus the stream of Consciousness around oneself so in essence um I kind of view uh I view myself as almost like a rock on a stream and my thoughts are the stream but I am The Rock that's beautiful so there you go you try to be the Observer of your thoughts and that is a huge dis like distance that you can create that I think allows for us to take a necessary beat to be mindful to not be defined by our emotions and to know how to respond and not necessarily just react does that mean that you are not your thoughts absolutely you are not your thoughts this is huge because I think most people two things they believe they are their thoughts and they also believe everything they think oh no yeah and and I have found to not believe everything I think because a lot of that is patterning it's imprinting that's been done in places when I was defenseless and I was younger totally and my thoughts will lie to me and so I'm really interested in your opinion about that because I don't believe I'm my thoughts and I actually don't believe a lot of the things that I think anymore at 52 years old whereas at 30 I believed he's thumbs uping me you guys yeah I believed almost everything I thought at 30 and I bought into every negative fear-based anger based thought I had I bought it immediately and it and that's when your thoughts begin to rule your life sure so what do what do you see about that yeah no it's it's definitely fascinating to see how when it comes to just the nature of habits of patterns how they very often can get us into structures and rigidity that sometimes can impede experiences outside of what we're expecting so um to speak to that openness it just just is so important I think generally to be willing to be creative to be open to to be present and uh we can only really notice those things when we are in a state to notice you speak on that noticing thing something you do that's interesting um I've followed your social media content more lately you just post a lot of beautiful stuff oh thanks I like Beauty I like Beauty you do but it looks to me like you're looking for it meaning like yeah I know maybe this seems simple to you because you do it but I don't think it is in this day and age where we're oh my gosh what did Biden or Trump do today or you know did I get enough likes on my social or this problem I've got to stop and notice the beautiful things around us the Beautiful People the beautiful things that have been the beautiful rocks yes you you you there's got to be a reason why you're posting this and showing it because you could just post a reading every single day of the week if you wanted to right so is that do you intentionally uh cause yourself to stop and notice the beautiful things in your life because maybe at one point you didn't or you got too busy or you trying to send that message to people you know it's hard not to stop and smell the roses when you have so many people come through who have passed who I think on some level see the value of our ability to stop and smell the roses even more than we could possibly realize here W they seem to value that more than we really even do so I don't want to say they Envy us but they almost seem to come through with a oh if they only knew how lucky they are to be able to see a sunset to watch a sunrise to smell a flower and that understanding I have the chills but has given me uh a value in the simple things absolutely H it's one of my favorite things anyone's ever said on the show and one of the cool things is it's amazing how like you talked about your dad you know the Small Things big and small material objects things accomplishments achievements the Little Things become the big things when people pass and I think that's a really beautiful sentiment the little moments give me an example you know I think of with my my own grandmother I remember uh at the time I I wish that I had been a bigger part of her life I was only 10 but I remember she had given me this piece of advice that I kind of blew off she said Tyler you not everybody deserves to know you everything about you the first time they meet you and that was my grandma's way trying to protect me as a very oversharing little boy and at the time I did not really put much weight into it but as I've grown older as I now have lived without her in my physical life those words ring in my mind sometimes words that didn't have much meaning back then a small thing became a big thing and it took years for me to see that and it took her passing for me to get there but that made her life even more meaningful through her death boy I have that I've gotten older I think about my grandparents too and they've been gone a long time and I'm like I wish I would have just sat and talked with Grammy more yeah ask about their childhood and I wish I would have you know asked about their early experiences their marriages when they were young and honory and you know it's so important me too I really do by the way this is so good for I'm just so grateful that we're just having this discussion of two friends that millions of people get to listen in on and maybe it just for today you know changes their perspective I want to ask you about grief you write about it in the book yeah I studied this family yesterday I say one of the things about grief is it's and this is not my saying so I don't take credit for it but that grief is an indicator that love is greater than death yes and but there are people that boy that grief is lasting a long time and it is maybe their distraction if we want to call it that isn't social media likes or Netflix or that but they're just consumed with this grief of they could be grieving someone's passing they could be grieving the end of a relationship with someone who's still alive they could be grieving a previous time in their life that they want to go back to somehow and they're constantly comparing this time in their life to a previous time in their life and that causes them to grieve to some extent and let's just be honest on the spinning Earth right now you may possibly be the alltime grief expert so what would you say to people that are just struggling with some form of that grief sure I think viewing grief as a work in progress is very important when I started this work I used to think of grief as something that had to be resolved something that could have closure and the older I've gotten The more I've not resonated with the phrase closure because I think grief is a lifelong relationship I liken grief to a comma more than a period it's ongoing and I love that you talked about grief and many facets you know there is the loss of a loved one but there's also loss of relationships losses of jobs losses of pets and and that alone is something almost weight that we have to carry and some people carry it differently I think there's something to be said about different people having different or varying degrees of pain tolerance and it's true physically but it's also true emotionally and there are some people who can navigate grief and be extremely resilient I've had clients who've lost children some more than one child and have gone on to seemingly you know live fulfilling lives and create uh you know meaning through that grief and then there are others who are just seemingly stuck and it's why I put such an emphasis on grief counseling uh brain health awareness um Community grief is a deeply isolating emotion and I think knowing that there are others who can relate can sometimes at the very least satiate that loneliness there's something I see in you that I really admire and it's not the stuff that I have noticed through your work it's actually being in your presence thank you you uh your emotions are right on the right here y you they're you're the edge is the wrong word but they're right on the surface ready to be revealed at any given time thank you and I love that I think that's a beautiful thing because that's the richness of Life the the giving ourselves the gift of the depth of an emotion a dimension of the emotion I see that in you or and you're you can cry on a dime you can laugh on a dime you can feel on a dime sure and I think maybe it's just something for you to think about even when you leave here yeah but it's very prevalent with you and as I become an older man I've allowed that to move to the Forefront for me I think I was taught as a young person and I don't think this is gender specific at all to almost suppress don't cry don't cry little boys and little girls especially little boys but little boys and little girls are told that all the time don't cry don't and uh the more allowed myself to feel those emotions the joyous cry and the sad cry I found that the other ones are magnified oh yes too you become more of a well-rounded individual when you allow yourself to feel is that something that you know about yourself is that have you always been this way or is that something you're allowing I feel like it's a gift to feel things yeah it definitely has been a work in progress you know I mean I'm definitely I'm 27 now and I was a silly teenager and a silly kid in his early 20s and made mistakes and just like everybody else but it certainly is has given me that awareness and and that perspective which I think has been valuable so I've been reading a lot about birth trauma so um that there's some work now that says when um the birth process is traumatic that potentially maybe that has an impact on the Infant and the child and their personality or fears or anxieties yeah um when they're young and maybe throughout their life there's some work that's been done about uh um when they're in their mother's womb the mother's emotions impacting the child right and if the mother was going through a stressful traumatic time that potentially those emotions are imprinted into the child I actually really believe that too there's a lot of emotional imprinting that we get once we're out of our mother's womb as a child but I think there can be some in the womb as well I'm wondering about the other side of it when someone passes in a more traumatic or dramatic way do you sense a difference in their Spirit or energy or Soul on the other side than when someone has passed say peacefully sure so it definitely I find has had a lot to do with intention I've had people come through who passed away in car expences or tragically out of nowhere at an early age and they come through hunky dory completely fine um they I mean acknowledge self-awareness that they went through a process y yada then I've other other times fed people who've passed of cancer and knew they were going to die for eight months their family was around them and they come through and sometimes they are the ones who actually have a little bit more of an awareness of they didn't say what they needed to say and maybe weren't very nice or very friendly so it's I think less of what gets us over there it's more about our intention as we are transitioning and also the life we lived before we passed and how do you mean that the life they lived before meaning if they lived a well-lived life and they people well that's the thing I think you know a well lived life cannot be harmed by death and it was a sentiment I expressed in in my first book but I think U there's just something to be said about you know some people live a full life in 20 years and others live to be 90 and did didn't really ever live at all so I as far as how that's reflected in readings it's worth so much more than how we pass wow it's more important how we lived absolutely okay okay you got me right there uh energy what does the energy feel like when someone wants to come through for you uh say you had read me today and uh I was expecting my dad to come cuz I've watched this with you let say I was expecting my dad to come through and you're like uh I'm feeling like it's an older female figure let's just assume that is this like a is it a knocking on your energy level like what are you feeling cuz the reason I ask it isn't so much that I want you know to be able to do a reading because I'm not going to be able to do that probably but I want to know how do I feel when my intuition is knocking compared to fear knocking sure absolutely so should I do this should I give this speech or start this business and I'm like is this my fear knocking or is this my intuition knocking to some extent so I'm wondering what it feels like it's age-old question of how do we discern between intuition and fear right and Trauma and intuition hypervigilance is often a big problem for people and they often conflate hypervigilance with intuition you know if we've been traumatized in the same way over and over again and we're inclined to kind of see that potential trauma in future situations and that can be a big problem so um I would say you know discernment is is really essential but the more we can develop our inner Worlds the more we have an awareness of our fears our traumas um you know kind of the more maybe the shadow as they call it that's a very valuable thing because it gives us insight to when intuition actually does rise to the surface um very often and I have to be careful about generalities because intuition speaks differently to different people but I find for me uh you know I'll when I do a reading I'll get a Welling and it'll kind of just like feel like it's my core it comes up I scribble I do reading but for the average person one thing to look out for is things that come through repeatedly without much emotion so we kind of have this misidentification of intuition as being a gut feeling while it can manifest as a feeling very often particularly in men it'll come through as just kind of a repeated inclination like why am I thinking this I can't get this out of my head you know might not be scared might not be excited might not really have a feeling but it's a repeated kind of nudge and that for me is is I think sometimes a signifier but knowing your trauma is the most important thing and if you find that intuition is coming through around something related to trauma I'm more inclined to think it's trauma than intuition gotcha speaking of trauma you're 18 you have brain surgery yeah um and I don't think a lot of people probably know that about you right but this man had brain surgery and then during coid as I understand it you had another pretty close call where you had a lung collapse collapse yes right before the pandemic broke out I was dealing with a respiratory failure and a bunch of complications and it was it was really a eight-month recovery period as the world was in lockdown so what did that make you feel you see you're getting you're staring at this potential body not functioning anymore thing that happened to my dad just as happened in his 70s yeah what was curious what your experience was with that cathartic I was cathartic of all the words you would use reflective it I felt like I was almost kind of doing My Little Life review before i' even transitioned I found myself sitting there on the hospital bed thinking uh particularly with the brain surgery when I was 18 you know if I live if I survive this I can't I can't waste time doing things that I know aren't right for me if I can get out of this hospital bed I know that I'm going to live in a way where I realize time is of the essence because this brain cyst I have I still have it I it's in my my brain and it's something that wait currently currently it was not able to be removed fully so it came back and has grown and increased in size and I may deal with another brain surgery in my lifetime I may may deal with several but to have almost what feels like a ticking Time Bomb inside you I don't mean to laugh but it's in essence what it is just makes it immensely clear how we have to appreciate every day every day because while I know that I could die at any moment a lot of people don't right so you done any re I'm just curious random not in any of my notes just hit me big of the brain have you done any research or looked into the pineal gland at all oh yeah so there's a couple different areas that various scientists are looking at Dr Gary Nolan out of Stanford is looking into two parts of the brain um separate from the pineal Glen that he thinks could relate the kodent and the pamin which quite quite a word but uh that's I'll Google both of them yeah KET pamman and those two areas in his research have found to kind of indicate some abnormalities in in the brain on certain people and he don't want to speak on his behalf but believes that genetics could perhaps be a component to what about you said yes on the pineal gland I've just done some research about that that says there may be some intuitive property to that part of us well it does regulate aspects of sleep as far as I understand if we talk about the Sleep the study and the abnormalities with Dr Drew there's very clearly a connection my brain went into a sleep State pineal gland relates to regulation of sleep States so there's clearly a relationship you believe there are signs in life I do I believe in meaningful coincidences I don't believe everything's a sign I I don't believe every coincidence is a sign if you're looking too much for a sign or you getting a little odd you know what I mean like it impedes it absolutely if everything's a sign then nothing's a sign wow wow so and I and I tell people when it comes to signs you know we all want we all want a sign right but the way to tell that something is even if you don't understand what the sign's trying to tell you is the instance generally will be a meaningful coincidence but it has to be meaningful it'll evoke whatever's happening a feeling inside that's uncanny and you may not understand what that feeling is but you'll feel it well to the surface and you might find yourself thinking could that be a love one and you might rationalize it disregard it whatever but those are often times the indicators that there's something more mine are really small they I never had the need I just tell you I didn't my dad passed it wasn't he hey knock on the door from the other side I need to know I didn't have any of that I've not ever I haven't had I I'll just share this with my audience because they all know my lives really well and I just you you can hear it too but so I I haven't had any need for that I did have an experience like about four or five months ago and I it was I was awake and it was just very it was a quick flash it wasn't some long drawn out dream just want to know if you could help explain this to me if this makes any sense to you um this is what happened and it was I'm I'm not daily looking for a sign from my dad I I'm deep believer in my faith and I'm very comfortable with where I think my dad is and uh but anyway I it's the middle of the day Tyler and I had gotten out of my car I walked into my house I got into my office I was about to do some work and I looked at my computer screen and um I hadn't had anything to drink I don't take substances so it wasn't one of those things and uh with my eyes open though I saw this person just walking towards me very slowly wow and uh my dad had a particular walk you know you just know your dad's walk right yeah yeah and he got closer and pretty close and then I could make out who it was and it was my dad and all he did Tyler is he got his hand on one of his hips and he just waved he just just waved wow it was just a wave yes and then my dad was a gentle just a quiet Soul yeah and then he just kind of like my dad would wait when he'd come to a game of mine or something just you know and then uh he just turned around yeah and walked away into the distance again but it was almost just like like Hey kid I'm I'm I'm here I'm here it was a deep I mean I wept I've I've never said this out loud I don't even think I've told my family what I just told you because it it just seemed so nonsensical to me in the moment yet completely and totally real for me absolutely am I crazy no you know I tell people all the time there's a famous Theologian by the name of James uh oh shoot William James I think it his name okay I might got his name wrong but uh a famous Theologian that basically in the early 1900s defined four qualities of a mystical experience ineffability meaning mystical experiences are usually beyond words um no EIC meaning the mystical experience usually sends one on a a path of self-discovery understanding um passive meaning usually the mystical experience is immersive so we can't really focus on anything else other than the guy walking towards you but what's most interesting is the fourth quality is transient meaning mystical experiences are very fast they don't usually last for a very long time and I think all of your uh what you've described kind of ticks every box right you did describe it but I can guarantee you can't convey the feeling it gave right it was transient sent you down a lifelong Path of Knowledge and was completely immersive so uh absolutely very very very very real to me yes very real I just wanted to share that with everybody I've never said that out loud WOW ever so you've had this run on this planet that's a little bit different than most people's yes right and it's um what a blessing same time there's a bit of a burden that probably comes with it as well being you which I asked you about earlier but based on all of this you've been able to download have you come up with any daily practices that give you comfort that increase your intuition that allow you to deal with the anxiety or stress that comes with you in other words Tyler Henry have some daily practices including mindfulness whatever it might be yeah that um makes his life richer and better sure those to answer your question I think it's good to understand as a medium and I believe all spiritual work in general is what I call very anti-structural it's kind of creative Airy fairy you know kind of very very much fluid and in line with like creativity and the subjective right um when I'm not in that state it's important that I do things to implement structure to kind of act as an antithesis to the anti-structure that I deal with at work so the way that I Implement structure is through ritual or routine now for me that's prayer but that's also waking up at a certain time of day typically brushing my teeth in a certain order I'm a little OCD I love it and I know it sounds kind of funny but by doing certain things even eating the same Foods I'm able to create a certain degree of structure reliability certainty that allows me to kind of when things are uncertain be able to exist in that space with the knowingness that I'm going to come home and have these routines and structures that allow for a s place to fall that allow me to reinvigorate and and feel a sense of stability wow so we all can do that right we all can have rituals routines they don't necessarily have to be spiritual but prayer is a beautiful ritual um that can kind of help us have deeper introspection so I'm so grateful you said that that's that's big in my space in the Self Health world but it's not necessarily something I thought that you were going to say I'm really really grateful to hear that absolutely no the the concept of thoughts and prayers gets a bad rap because people are likeing on thoughts and prayers but thoughts and prayers have a lot more value than I think people give credit for they have the most value to me especially prayers yes so all right last question for you first off I've enjoyed this thoroughly um one thing Tyler is not short of is demand for his services so what I'm what I'm about to he's about to tell you some of the things he's got going on I want you be able to do that but let me be really honest with you with you guys I know literally in my friend Circle probably 80 people who are just they would love to get a reading from you they would love to be in your presence you know this right and by the way you've read many of my friends I texted Nikki Glazer yesterday too right I'm like I'm like I'm like hey what's the scoop you kind of do that stuff but you've got some stuff coming up I want to make sure people know about so one is they should get your book number one they should be following you on social media but you've also got something you've got in at the Grove in Anaheim coming up and some other things we should let them know depending on when they listen to this they could be listening to this in 2025 still absolutely let's give them that yeah so I do tour the country I do group readings and it's really a fun time you get to see the process live and in person um I'm going to be in November going to both Minnesota and Anaheim and then early December I will be in Anaheim as well so for where do they go to figure that out they go to your website or they go to social the tylerhenry medium.com is the best way to kind of get tour dates I don't usually refer to myself in third person so don't worry it's kind of weird but the domain was taken of Tyler Henry medium all right but that's going to be the best way I also have a service called the collective where I meet with people virtually and we meet twice a month for group readings I do virtual group um giveaways and I'm able to connect with people all across the world from the comfort of their own bedroom and uh you know they tune in wear their pajamas and get readings you're totally Beautiful Soul a thank you so much last question yes unfair to ask you it because it's not no human being should be required to answer this question but I just want your perspective on it someone runs into you at a Starbucks and says you don't have to read me yeah but you've obviously downloaded this Divine wisdom that you've been gifted to be able to tap into in a way that not everybody has uh been fortunate enough to uncover that gift yet that they may have within them yes the meaning of life is to live fully to live fully to live fully the fullest expression of yourself as well right absolutely and that means doing the inner work and the outer work we did a lot of that today we really did I feel like we covered some beautiful territory I hope this encourages people to think deeper to maybe consider ideas that they hadn't before and to never stop trying to be more of yourself yeah you're an important person in this world and I pray for you because I know what it's like in my little small way to want to make a difference in people's Liv lives and the gift and blessing that comes with that I also know to some extent I can tell you that I understand the pressure and the burden that comes with that as well and wanting to live up to everybody's expectations and and I rely on those habits and rituals and routines particularly prayer to give myself the same peace that allows me to to give the gift and any of you listening to this today just reflect on some of the things that we've covered and there's something we covered today for each of you that applies to you you not everything we covered today applies to all of you but something we covered applies to you and that's why your work is just so beautiful and remarkable and thank you for giving us all just maybe a little bit of comfort into what this life means and what it'll mean when our bodies no longer are the vessel that we're utilizing for our Spirits here so thank you thank you it's been an amazing conversation I'm so thankful I can't wait to do it again yeah me too I really can't wait to do it I'm probably going to get in line and do one of these readings too we're going to probably have to do that love that I would love that everybody God bless you you know what I don't have to say this today share the episode but I think you probably already have it some point in the interview you press the share button and and I'm grateful that you all do that it's the fastest growing show on the planet because you guys share it and because I get these incredible people that for whatever reason are willing to sit a few feet across from me and share their insights routines tactics strategies and in today's case with Tyler their wisdom and their heart with you thank you everybody God bless you [Music] he

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Published: Tue Oct 24 2023