everyone`s problem. - David Goggins Advice (ALL VIDEOS)

I I'm just a 26y old kid there's days where you wake up 14 I'm raising two young men and a young lady love and then being a sa how did you find her and when do you know it was when you told her the Foxhole I I'm just a 26y old kid I don't know what I'm doing in life I don't know where I'm going so my question to you is what advice do you have for someone like that and also someone who you got to slow that [ __ ] down man sorry you guys you got bring it I'm nervous sorry don't be nervous man [ __ ] these people you good [ __ ] don't be that's exactly how [ __ ] fail they walk in the room and they a making no money that way they a do a [ __ ] heard [ __ ] you said now say that [ __ ] stick your chest out say that [ __ ] slow okay hello Mr gogin how you doing ah thanks so much for being here and um my name is m nice to meet you it's an honor to meet you and um so I'm just starting out in life I don't know what I'm where I'm going what I'm doing but also one problem a major problem that I think I have is forming discipline staying disciplined in life you hear everything you just said yes how old are you uh 26 and you don't know where I'm going what I'm doing and I'm not disciplined so how the [ __ ] am I supposed to help you you got to sit all this [ __ ] I talk about man that's what I talk about there's a lot of [ __ ] that even came here and talk to you all the day I'm a [ __ ] smoke jumper to keep knowers coming you don't ever walk walk up anywhere in [ __ ] life at 26 or at 16 not having an idea what the [ __ ] you want to do with your life you're not going to find it through coming to these [ __ ] conventions you're not going to find it in a [ __ ] book you've got to sit down like I had to do around your age and think about what the [ __ ] do you want to be what do you want to do how does that look like cuz how the [ __ ] you can have discipline when you don't know where to put that [ __ ] [ __ ] right that make sense yes you ain't going to have no [ __ ] discipline like I don't know what I want to do so you just wake up and this arbitrary [ __ ] just wake the [ __ ] up and just start getting after it no you got to have [ __ ] in order plans goals Destinies Journeys and then all that [ __ ] falls in the F every question you ask me will fall right the [ __ ] place once you [ __ ] figure out first at 26 so why the [ __ ] are you here why are you here with all these [ __ ] people um I wanted to be around the right group of people this is my first I wanted to be around the right group of people um for the first time in my life this is my first event ever I've never been to anything like this in my life before that's awesome yes thank you go home shut your phone off shut the [ __ ] TVs off shut the world off and tune in to you straight up I'm not trying to be a dick man yes I'm telling you that's why I said when you hear me talk it's thick skin [ __ ] man you should hear the conversation I tell myself every [ __ ] day and it's this conversation right here that will change your [ __ ] life CU there's days where you wake up and you have this drive and then there's other days where you wake up and you don't know what you're going to do what do you do to make sure you wake up every morning and keep that drive this is one of the best things in the world I will give you right now I hate to give it to you cuz this one my [ __ ] secrets what I do I have a lot of bad days is like some massic potion right get I'm David gas [ __ ] let's go nope I'm a human being a lot of bad thoughts in my head tape record yourself when you wake up and um how old are you 14 okay so my girl is with me because she wants to be with the man okay she does and that's a hard when I got with her she used to dog the minut she was wh so I heard this sh she got my [ __ ] head all right I'm getting to your question when I wake up sometimes I feel like a little [ __ ] but what I do is I have a little tape recorder and I tape record exactly how I'm feeling on that [ __ ] and then I play it back that's a bad [ __ ] tape Court dude and I think about if I play this till my girl will she sleep with me tonight she ain't so I get the [ __ ] up the story is tape record yourself in those bad moments listen to yourself listen how weak and pathetic it sounds that will not make you a winner or succeed at anything you have to fight those urges to just say I'm good today if you tape record yourself and you play that for one of your friends will that get them off the couch or that make them want to [ __ ] sit on there longer so everything you say to yourself has to be something that energizes you to the core of your soul so whenever that weak voice comes you got to smack it real quick as fast as you can cuz that weak voice is taking the path of least resistance and none of us want to work that hard even me so just remember that man I'm raising two young men and a young lady and obviously I want what's best for them but you know we've got the the middle class the Suburban lifestyle and and it's easy a lot of times and so what are some activities we can do to to let them know or develop that that mental mindset of we can overcome whatever challenges there are and um I love it that's enough said right there I got the answer for you okay you live you live good is what you're trying to say got decent life and so do the kids yeah decent life take some of that [ __ ] away from and what I mean by that is you got a lot of chores in that house mhm a lot of grass cutting lot of weed pulling a lot of Hedges to be hedged a lot of dishes to be washed a lot of vacuuming a lot of making beds a lot of [ __ ] that requires a lot of self-discipline what happens in these homes nowadays is we're all friends it's not bad to tell them [ __ ] kids you going clean this whole [ __ ] house every [ __ ] day because I'm teaching you responsibility if you don't teach them that responsibility it's it's not it's not like you're being hard on you're setting them up to have what you have if you don't teach them that no one else is and like I said have that conversation first I'm not punishing you you may be upset but I'm going to put your [ __ ] ass to work every day because that's the only way you start to build those mental calluses if they come from your house and go out to the world that's what the world's going to expect from them mhm by you being the best dad you can be you teach them that [ __ ] now so then it's not foreign to them when they get out there and it's like hey what is this that's the best way of doing it you got to have that system set up in your own home these that's how I believe old school man uh obviously you brought your your girl here with you today so I was inspired to ask you especially when you started with Ryan you guys first start talking about being lonely you especially being a Savage so what's your best advice on finding love and then being a Savage and keeping a partner in your life she does a lot of the same things I do so she is driven so it's not like I had to talk to her too [ __ ] long I talked to her for three years because there's drippen and then there's uh goggin so she's driven I'm goggin right but the thing about that man is I found a woman that is was looking to up her game she came to the right place and that's what people have to realize man like when you get with that person they have to be wanting to be as hungry as you are and up their game so it's like a feed off it's just it's just you're feeding off two people that just want to be the best and that's how it works for me and her that's awesome yeah so it's just it just works great and trust me this wasn't my first second or third Rodeo so it might take some time for sure but you find it awesome so how did you find her and when did you know it was like the line to that one more conversation to work through [ __ ] or [ __ ] her I like that it it became real easy because when I was myself with her on date one cuz cuz and also how many you've been through how many have I like how many did you have how many relationships like how many did you have to sift through to get to her well I've been married three [ __ ] times okay so I sift through three women because I was young dumb and the women I attracted was was in the same place I was at that time which was a dungeon and that's the thing no one understand like man how the [ __ ] am I keep on getting these [ __ ] because you're attracting the same person you are the second I [ __ ] became who I wanted to be and started believing that I can be better than what I was I got this [ __ ] so that's the thing about it man whatever you're putting out you're going to get the exact return so how you find that that woman is if you're in a good spot you're going to find a good woman I got a good woman here's the thing she got hit in the head with a hockey puck 15 months ago and had a t extreme TBI almost died so like it's really throws a curveball into things and so like I tried to really be steadfast but when there's fluctuating emotions and then there's a conversation about us being on the same page and then not like get is it like hey play the long game and Forge ahead like it's just kind of it's easy question man how much do you love her I love her a lot like and I'm invested at this point and I've already been through several [ __ ] hers you answer the question right there you got to go through all the [ __ ] headaches it's unlike the guy in front of you she was done when you love somebody like that and you've invested that much time in them you got to get through this time you just got to yep so you you got to this is one of those SIU pills suck it up with a can of heart when you talk about the Foxhole uh it resonates with me right because that's what you want I mean you want you watch my six I'll watch your six like whoever comes back to back we're going to kill everybody right so with that mentality obviously I study rich people biographies and stuff like that so I study characters to them what do you when you look for who you want in your Foxhole with you right like who do you want you want the baddest mother to have your back what are you looking for whether it be values personality mindset what are you looking for to pick your Fox old buddies easy answer for that let's say I tell you I want to be a doctor and I go to bed at night when I wake up you're sitting there with my college list cuz you're they called Harvard or whoever the [ __ ] and I'm already enrolled in school that's where I went my fox I want a [ __ ] that when times get hard and I'm out there suffering you look at me and say like this do you want a banana do you need something to drink you want to take a little break hey I got steady late hours you want some coffee I don't want hear no wheat [ __ ] help me and when I feel soft help me succeed don't feel sorry for me I want my fox so full of [ __ ] when I'm hungry you feed me when I'm tired you help me stay up when I say that I I can't do something you help me find a way you never give me a way out like most people nowadays I hear all kind of families they come home that doctor story is real I want to be a doctor but they [ __ ] sucked in anatomy or some [ __ ] the parents said oh you don't need that you can do something else now this person's in her 40s and she regrets that decision that's not a good Foxhole you want that person to say hey I get you a tutor I help you out those are the qualities looking for looking for those qualities that they keep you in the fight not take you out of it [Music] awesome [Music]

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Length: 12min 1sec (721 seconds)

Published: Wed Dec 27 2023