Do WOMEN BUILD Men??

so if you're already a unicorn I don't need to shine you up I don't need to polish you you you over here dazzling and sparkling with your horn and [ __ ] you perfect then what he needs you for where but man at that point where is the butt what he needs you for what do you bring that's if if he got it all figured out what he needs you for we need a who who will build who um like men building women versus women building men I think it's one of the segments cuz I was having this conversation before where I was like you know in a given situation in our time where women have rights you know men especially African-American men had to fight for our people you know fight for women to help get rights and um you know in the situation where you know if our women were lowend they didn't have college degrees you know we would help out men had two three jobs we try to you know put food on the table help provide now we're in a time where women are more educated they make more money you have more opportunity you guys are at a higher level above your male counterparts for African-American race it's like in that situation do you see a responsibility for you to be like let me build my black brother up to get him up to part to where we need to be so we can have something Progressive you know I think that like in the inverse it'll be a responsibility for men to do that same for their for their black sisters to help get you up to par to now where we are in a situation for you guys to have the voice and power you do you know what I think is funny is for that I I wouldn't want to build I wouldn't want to have to help build my partner up I just like like honestly speaking but I actually wouldn't mind building a like my friends up like I wouldn't mind being having male friends who are not where they're supposed to be like like male friends not just just friends in general I I personally like as a as a woman I don't want to have to build my man I don't want to have to do that I want I I just I just don't see that as being realistic if I'm being honest I don't want I'm talking about talking about I definitely right I'm talking about in terms of like like you if you lack Mo like um what's the word uh no not uh motivation ambition sorry that was the word if you lack ambition motivation like I don't want to have to be like pulling you up by your boot strings like I'm having a hard time pulling myself up by my titties like I don't have time to be trying to pull you up and do everything for you like I don't want to do I don't want to do that they want a finish product huh he don't have to be 100% finished but I he needs to be in a better place than I am I'm sorry right like the that's the women mentality he has to be in a better place than I am if he's my partner but I'm saying all my black Brethren like all my friends if they need me to help them with their resume need me to help them with their job need me to help them with their women like need me to help with them with something I don't mind helping friends but I don't want to have to help so you offer more to other men than your man it's not that I offer more it's that you provide more that's what it come down to I want a man who wouldn't need my help that's what I'm saying but but what when I'm talking about what you offer you said that you're willing to offer to other men more value than what you would add to your own man how is she offering more value she said she would build her build your male best friend up but but the man that you you want to take on a whole life Journey with you you don't want to put that effort in no no no no but I'm not saying I would not build my man up I'm saying I would already want him in a better space than me so I wouldn't need to build him up but if not saying that you don't have to improve everybody has to evolve everybody has to improve she just does not want to build that man from the ground up he needs to have some footing that's what she's trying to say and I think we all need to have some let me she say her male friends too she's not romantically involved with these men nobody romantically involved with at the Baseline it's still a relationship though right whether it's intimate or friendly right platonic the better word regardless of what it is a relationship at the core so like you're still invested emotionally spiritually physically so it's on a different level than with a ROM it should be it should be even more with the romantic person it's two different statements I didn't say I wouldn't build my partner up I'm saying like y'all were saying how we are doing better than our male counterparts I'm saying from jum huh I didn't say that no I didn't say that you are better I'm saying black woming better they're doing better I didn't say that either that's not true I didn't say that either no I didn't say true I said from an educational standpoint from an educational standpoint they have more degrees they are more educated ened more statistic we go to we got to be here I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry yeah okay if more Ro more Ro that's it that's it more Ro not more degree not more income regard regardless of that alls I was saying is if if there is a man who is working like a $440,000 job like doesn't know what to do with his life doesn't know how to manage his finances like all that other stuff I'm not about to be seeking that man out as my partner I'm going to have I'm going to be partners with someone who already has that [ __ ] figured out but if I have a male friend who's like that I don't mind helping you get your life together because you can't get it together yourself cuz I'm going to help you but my man the one I went after would never be in that position now if he needs help with other [ __ ] like building our house building our family building our life the same man because it's only a there's only a certain this is the thing like and the more the more I get to see a button man yo what a button man there's only when we talk about percentages right 10% of black men make over 100,000 10% that's 2.5 million that's not adjusted for geographic location sexual orientation marital status relationship status that's not adjusted for obesity that's not adjusted for if they if they you know gay let lgbtq plus he said let me wave over that room say sexual Orient that's not adjusted for height that's not adjusted for the size of their dick that's not adjusted for whether they're a good person so when you start to adjust for all these other characteristics right clout status whatever you really get a unicorn and then y'all say oh well I'mma get this man and I'mma offer value to my male friends that I wouldn't offer to my own man I once again didn't say that she didn't you said that you would rather build up say cuz you're saying you're already a unicorn so I would rather that she doesn't have to assist you in that way right I don't everybody need assist I hear no no but she's under in the context that you would never fall prey to that you would never be in a situation unicorn I help super you will never die so right so if you're already a unicorn I don't need to shine you up I don't need to polish you you you over here dazzling and sparkling with your horn and [ __ ] you perfect then what he needs you for o o where but at that point where is the butt what he needs you for what are you bringing that's if if he got it all figured out what he needs you for we need a button man somebody call me a button he's going to do it Inu jeez my micophone a woman right yeah what type of woman do you want to be with I believe in okay that's what I believe in here we go since are we are we getting off top I mean go ahead get I'll bring it I'll bring it back yeah go ahead I mean I'm not going to straight away from it I believe in black family I believe that the reason that the black society is the way that it is is for a few reasons one culture our culture is [ __ ] up yeah it's bad right culture is bad two black families are they're not together 67% of boys are growing up in single parent households I don't believe that's the best optimal position to put somebody in and statistics would say like two parent households are the way yeah so we're talking about men don't want to approach women and they don't want to be in marriages and all this I see that as an issue because if they're not approaching women there's not families there's not a nuclear Society so I'm advocating for can we get men to perform better can we get women to stop being delusional and then we got more black fam I had to be Del listen respectfully women be I'm a little I'm a little dulu but I said it's fault on both sides every Everybody problem I'm saying it's fault on both sides y just went straight I also say we all got problems women and men on y side right y'all are getting men that don't perform that high men aren't making the type of money that you want them to make they can't provide in the way that you want them to provide they're not leaders Etc I get that not leaders what' you say never mind go ahead I get that but on the other side you got women that are delusional in terms of a it's a trigger word it's a trigger word call that's crazy it's a trigger word uh it just means that your your sense of reality is skewed that's all I me I mean maybe say you know it's a sweet word to use what what do y'all y'all don't think women are delusional maybe if you say dulu it'll hit no that's still the same thing for no I think I think women be you think that women I think people can be delusional okay so people women are people yes we are but I would not just put that on us okay I think you keep saying women but he was saying that you guys show that side way more than I guess your counterparts do we medita a little more logical I think things through sometimes men know where they stand if you're a man and you fat a man you ugly you know you ugly men don't hide that we wear it no no we wear it a Batman a Batman would be at the pool with the shirt off comfy that's what he is is that's what he is yeah we wear that girls oh love your curves body posit there's no body positivity for men oh no there's no campaign for men that are fat there's no fat models that are men it's just it doesn't happen dryi just got not a comedian is not a sex symbol he's a comedian he me I mean you know I'm not saying he ugly I'm just saying he not that's not he's there for society parades lizo Society doesn't parade druski there's no there's no campaign for agree with that because I feel like Society definitely paraded drewy and not just as comedian I think wom attracted to him I physically if he had that money he had money he money if he didn't have a money majority would the majority of women want dusi or Michael B Jordan come on what are we talking about right now come on all right let me let me wrap this up because so so just to wrap this topic up there is a double standard when it comes to building a woman versus building a man do would y'all say that y'all would prefer a man to build y'all up I prefer him not to build me up oh I'm all for the building why would you why would you prefer him not to build you I would like to I'm again all of us are still evolving we still have to get up a certain place in life whatever but I would like to also have my own footing as well and not feel built up by someone else and vice versa I like to have my own things what have you and come into that relationship with something as well and I don't know I just feel like that also in my opinion gives a mankind of control over your life and I don't want any body to have like control over me there you go um so therefore I would like to come with something all the time and my partner as well Build Me Up P me off diamond in the rough like get the to the toe hook I don't know if that comes from I don't know if that comes from being like I have a spoiled upbringing so I don't know if that comes from that um but I mean I want I'm I'm just a mess so like you know help me please and I came from a single mom upbringing so I've just learned Independence at a really young age and seen my mom do amazing things for me and my brother um so my mentality about having my own is very strong and coming into a relationship with my own because it's no guarantee that that relationship will work out but I will always have myself and I'll always have things to fall back on there you go without a man or a partner or what have you so the band is just the the sprinkles on top the I always feel like we should add value to each other's lives there you go that's the most important thing to me um but also yeah it I feel like a man should be a bonus in my life but he shouldn't just be everything crazy take a quick break no it's like I I Amalgamated everything I said like I a minute ago I said I wasn't going to build my partner up and then I was like okay Build Me Up build a be meat but dou I I believe I do I do I mean I believe I can survive on my own I'm saying I don't want to like I believe I would be fine without a man I don't I don't I don't need to have one L y'all lie to yourselves we need each other man I think so I think today's society you can survive without a partner I'm not saying you should be I one when you get to 506 you look back on you like yeah I was saying some wow [ __ ] you know like I listen humans weren't involved to be solo creatures but that doesn't mean that we can't survive as one we're just we're built to be with you know how much money you need to retire by yourself at age 65 you know you know do you know that number I know it's high I know I think it's Crossing to the millions it was like 900 something thousand 51 million I thought it was about to if you look at inflation by the time that we're 65 be 5.1 million most people don't have that it was a million not too long ago so you actually can't even afford to die alone money that's the thing you can't even afford it you can't afford to die alone and most women oh I'm making my money I'm in my career I make 60,000 you're not going to get 5.1 million to say 60 well the average the average amount that all right you going anyway

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Length: 14min 6sec (846 seconds)

Published: Wed May 01 2024