Dating as a North Korean Defector in America

now you're engaged again I'm engaged again we have to help you with these decisions we have to protect you you're a heavy Queen so we have to make sure that you're with the right guy do you like the coffee with some heavy Queen no I met him on Bumble on Bumble yeah so during the pandemic in Chicago I couldn't go anywhere yeah so my gay friend who's my stepbrother said like darling need to go get laid wait your gay friend is your stepbrother yeah how does that yeah I'm doing the math yeah so he wants to adopt me but I was too big so he could not without me so we became my stepsister stepbrother since then they keep saying I'm arriving and conservative like I'm liberal classical level like seriously 100 I get divorced exactly yeah yeah yeah yeah women's rights you yeah yeah okay this is good listen what is your what does your Bumble account look like yeah how come you're not on Raya lots of questions I was on Via okay you guys were so like creative tribes yeah and I'm very like classical I like more like conservative men right I like the man who asked me out formally like I don't I did not know going dinner was mean State oh what did you think it was did that wouldn't come true [Music] yeah and then they tried like may I he's like what the heck are you doing like I was so surprised because the people just went out and I was like can I just kiss you I was like no I said Oh I thought you knew this was a day like no I didn't this is actually really fun so you met on a dating app no no no just generally like you meet people at the conference some dinner sometimes like okay that's a good idea we probably dinner and they said can I kiss you at the end of days yes and I did not know dinner meant to date in America no no here's the question have you ever gone on a few dates with a guy and he didn't kiss you and then you started to get angry and you had to become the empowered woman that you are and you had to go get that no I luckily this was my first guy from the first person I met on Bumble oh really yeah so and then other times when I was on app they were like is this really on me Park she's married you got to be like lying you cannot do that like yeah I got divorced but you keep I think you know updated as fast as they could yeah I was like faking it right so they were like you cannot do that you cannot lie about your ideas leave people at all here okay so you go on a date with your with your new with your fiance where does he take you for the day we went to Chicago during a pandemic and then minus 27 Celsius not on a date you went there no because everything looked closed yeah and then guys we was like do you want to come to my place like hell no I'm not gonna read it was like everything is closed yeah so like then let's meet that also the tent in the snowy freezing Chicago so we met that and then he found warmer like restaurant with a tents up outside because of the pandemic everything closed yeah yeah yeah yeah so we met at the restaurant now is it difficult for a guy to complain about his life to you like you know I love complaining about my life to my wife ah today was difficult you know what I mean the the bill was late you know what I mean I stubbed my toe does the guy feel uncomfortable complaining to you after what you know you've been through so my current uh fiance is a complaint is I'm too soft on men so much you are too soft [Music] look at the actual data men are struggling we mean the modern economy modern is also designed for women than men actually it's better for girls graduating from school getting office job right yeah yeah and I'm worried as a matter of sun like it's a bit harder for him and I think it's the first time he met somebody who worrying about men's hardship in life oh wow so I think I'm very sympathetic why do you think men are struggling I think they're genetically I mean nothing's wrong with okay even I'll observe my son like he's a communication skills that's not as developed as a curse but speed is different the maturity is different he's like fine motor skills is different the ability to sit down and focus is like not as good as girls it takes a while for them to mature up yeah and they have different I mean I mean hormones men and women are different I don't know why this is such a big opinion in America right now but culturally why do you think that there's a struggle for young men it does seem like that's a part of a conversation right now that a lot of people are having and some people are reluctant to have so this is funny book I had a previous agent and they were asking me on me why don't you write a book about how hard it is to be a woman how all over the world is that one by men yeah and I'm like my father died from this dictatorship like the men are equally more affected by these hardships yeah not just women yeah it's not the mental problem but I think Korean somehow narrative in America is that men are evil they are toxic because of the politicians are men we have War we have poverty way of inequality yeah so it's hard when the world is literally against you yeah you know they keep telling you everything about you is toxic yeah I mean how can you be sane even I yeah I think I think a lot of times what happens is that you know we see toxicity exist within power structures and then we look for a blame which are the people that are in power and if the people in power look a certain way or they're of one gender we ascribe that blame to that gender to their looks yeah racism and I mean 100 we are doing that literally to men yes yeah and I think that we would probably do it to women if women were in power and if it was white I mean you guys cannot like in South Korea the agreement like the office like okay we don't have any good environment for us to cry and be emotional about things so if the guy said if I look at your eyes it's too confrontational if I look at your chest it's like I'm sexually harassing you did look at my chest just right okay I mean you're a man I can't even look at your test one time so guys it's like walking on the eyeshadow like they anything they do can be a problem so I think we are less forgiving to men yes by three white men yes so it's like my son he's not gonna ever be nobody gonna be compassionate to him because he's a half asian half-wise so screwed do you think that he'll get half compassion you think there'll be some compassion for him being Asian they say that Colombia is talking about like the real oppression how people are still Enslaved the slavery never ended yes of course black lives matter and every lives matter I hope you don't mind saying that but like I don't know yeah North Korean lives matter you know I mean she's talking about old lives but they say that you you don't know oppression because you're a white passing person to your kid they would tell me oh to you yeah they say I don't think you're white passing I gotta be honest yeah that's why people keep adding shading and bronzes and to make music more tan actually [Laughter] I got wrapped by several black women and there as you can see I'm like below 80 pounds I'm much smaller than this course yeah now I was here very small they punched me they took my wallet out of me whoa in front of my son and I was trying to call the police on them obviously anybody do when they get corrupt yeah people on the Street Circle me and then screaming at me that I'm a racist because I'm gonna call a cop on these tips you did say they all look the same to you so maybe you just got the wrong person this lady punched me like I had a video of her I was looking out of one eye at that point [Laughter] [Music] [Laughter] even she wanted them too that's the thing that was the thing that is are we victim blaming we might be victim blaming yeah that's really what it is okay so those black women were trying to steal your Heavies they did I mean yeah they punched in and took my wallet away and like 15 grand on the blooming there and then the police got the video footage of them using my credit card so we caught it so I process I mean I was doing to go with the process okay obviously yeah like I felt bad for her but it was almost like you know you cannot commit a crime yes why would you feel bad for the person Bloomingdale's it's not food but then she was she actually had 15 charges already and then people were saying there was like actual like the Revenge crime is a huge thing in Chicago they just come back out of prison and shoot you I'm so known already they can't find my location so you had to move yeah immediately and then you remember why she was in prison we got here do you have a pet did you did you get like a dog or a cat when you came to America she divorced him okay she got the divorce she's not good she divorces the man okay marriage is yourself your very own white man that is a [ __ ] accomplishment you know it is in North Korea's about to buy like thousand pisses I did really yeah if you if you marry a white man you can't I mean there's no white men there but either word buyer or whatever wasn't he she got kids he got told churches like old teeth got rearranged oh my goodness yeah you don't want to marry that guy electrifying him they were torturing oh [ __ ] okay so back to you though so despite all of that you went after and you hooked a white a great white as they call them yeah yeah did you do oh it was Arab so I was like are you Arab he's like no I'm not that's right the Iranians they don't they they believe that they're from the caucus mountains yeah some available did you date any Koreans before you never dated never made it along really and just I just I'm just sorry but it just feels like I'm with my own uh say it say it no but yeah yeah yeah is it true what they say about North Korean men I heard they're really hung hmm really never I was I was cool you don't know what sex is you don't have a vocabulary oh you were talking about their penis sizes yeah yeah I heard it oh my God and there's no North Korean porn how do you watch about North Korean look like yeah but then you were in South Korea I never dated it once I don't know you didn't do anything like that no no now are there certain South Korean dudes that are coming at you and they're like I was in the university in South Korea and were they hitting on you non-stop what did they say what do they say well it's very sweet I'm always like in the library so they're like he makes like math you know questions I know the answer to this like the you know I don't know what your number might be wait a minute that's game right there studying criminal justice the law in criminal law yeah yeah yeah oh my God so they came up with some math questions yeah I know they were like no no I'm good not having at all never got attracted but then the Iranian he really he knew how to Persians have games yeah yeah yes yeah I think Americans like when they came just like uh I don't know like I think they keep saying like you know that I just if you don't hear about these stereotypes you don't know them so there's no any preconception in you it's very great things it can just start like everything is fresh everything's fresh you remember for the first time I did not know Iran was not Arab like right I thought they were all like Muslims you know and he's like no he's pork so oh interesting Christian dated a black guy you never got hit on by a black guy no well you got hit on by a black woman but that's a very different so so you never had a black guy approach you at all no just white guys and Asians and then one Iranians love it huh why is that similar history they do I think there's like a connectivity right there yeah oh maybe we've been through Holocaust like if we are going to Modern Day Hollow because they've been throughout your heart exactly you've dealt it you also have the pressure the family pressure study study yeah yeah yeah yeah but you never got what the Jewish guy though you never you don't date a Jewish I had the first boyfriend that was you who was a Russian Jew by the way you went back to the Soviets yeah it was like very conservative very conservative libertarian like not like a Christian concert like we're libertarian libertarian so he believed in the freedom free market individual liberty competition like it like yeah don't tax me yeah he was rich he wanted to be the government isn't that evil it just they want a lot of money I think that's more the philosophy right greedy yeah because if the government was the exact same but they wanted no money I think there's a lot of Libertarians it'd be like yeah this government's fine everything's working out yeah I love them but Mike Mike is uh I love Mike I love him too yeah but he believes in chaos exactly literally no border no military no government I'm like I don't want to be in that country neutered as he is easy to say that but then when it happens it's like oh [ __ ] yeah because he's first we're not letting that happen anymore we like the government protecting from that okay and your strong Iranian husband to be yeah in the very near future in your future yeah oh and becoming American yeah no yeah you are really becoming an American woman yeah they say average woman gets married around 34 35 in New York yeah how old are you 22 when I was 22 I got married but you're like Korean 22 so that's like 44 or something this is an age difference yeah the math doesn't matter remember you said like you're born and then you're different so I'm 29 in Korea in American age oh so you're 31 in Korea yeah what how old are you I'm 39. so you're 41. damn you're in your 40s I'm killing it right now dude right now okay this is this is very this is very I like this part of your life where you're enjoying yourself you're out there

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Published: Wed Feb 15 2023