Couples Summit: God’s not punishing you || STEVE HARVEY

Jennifer talked about what's going on series what got my hair here is I'm sorry I get out I soon got married I started to try to have kid after hug testing down half FSH which is a um elevator hormone Oh clean house metrology issues which um is yes what morphology issues with the sperm so means are misshapen we've done to I you eyes and three halves and course mom's been successful it makes her wonder what I've done in my life to be punished this way um into point work as clean you know maybe we should get a divorce so he could found someone huh get out of a child for you oh of course is answer was he may heard me because he loved me Oh Clayton what's just been like for you ah it's definitely not a situation I want anybody doing it put in when she's down and depressed I mean she asked me to move on but that's not gonna happen I try to be the optimistic rock in a relationship so she can she came talk to me and cry when she needs you but we've calmed occlusions we're gonna try IVF one more time she didn't really want to because of the money factor I kind of explained to her I'd rather be bankrupt and have tried then be successful and failed to try everything possible we're currently gonna be going to a clinic in Colorado a similar clinic and doctor that you Juliana bill went to so um and we'd love some help but just how to make a relationship stronger through this whole process Juliana bill you you both have a lot to say on this we do we struggled with infertility for a long time several rounds of IUI and IVF and I'm listening to you tell your story and it certainly it makes it feel like it was yesterday that we were saying the same things the two of you were saying the first thing I want to start with is you did nothing in your life to be punished this way and I'm gonna try to make you a believer of that I have to tell you just a little bit of something that happened to us mmm we just weren't getting pregnant and I was in church one day and I remember looking up and I said God why aren't you giving me a child why are you punishing me what did I do wrong in my life and lo and behold about six months later about a year six months a year later we were doing our third round of IVF where you're headed and in all the testing we were doing we uncovered that I had breast cancer and I would never have found the breast cancer at 36 years old at such an early stage had I not been struggling with infertility so God didn't hate me God loved me and and I want to say and it doesn't matter whatever it is you believe in in life whatever it is I think that at some point especially when you're going through something like this it's so personal you have to surrender at some point you have to know that there is a bigger plan here there is a master master plan for you for you there was a master plan for bill and I we found the cancer I got it out of my body and we had a baby you have to Gary important question said how do i strengthen my marriage you already are because let me tell you this you guys are staying by each other's side you're gonna fight through this to the end and I will tell you you will come out of this in a marriage that is so much stronger than anyone around you because you've battled the demon together and the little things in life won't matter after you get through this you won't have the petty fights we don't have the petty fights anymore because we've been through the studio right right and those things don't matter your strengthening your marriage and I will tell you this you're at one of the best places in the world in Denver Colorado and you're in the right spot good I like that Margie your thoughts first off God is not a vindictive God and then secondly I want you to know this being a mother if this is what you really want to do you still can be a mother and sometimes God doesn't give us something the way we think we're supposed to get it but he's gonna give you exactly what you need when you need it exactly first of all you being married is a blessing see you married just the right man and that man married just the right woman because had you married someone else this would have been over you've even told him let's get a divorce and you go get somebody he said he ain't going nowhere do you know how many women looking for I think you're gonna be fine you guys are married to the perfect person perfect the perfect person you do great guys so fortunate the head is man right here and he ain't goin nowhere Hobbs welcome ah thanks for checking out my youtube channel don't forget to click here to subscribe to my channel that way you won't miss a single hot new video some really good stuff and then I want you to click here to see more clips from the show right now

Channel: Steve TV Show

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Keywords: Steve, Harvey, funny, humor, comedy, tv, steve harvey, steve harvey daytime, steve harvey show, Talk Show (TV Genre), advice, parenting, marriage, Clayton, Jennifer, crying, punished, why god, pregnant, baby, God, doctor, Colorado, cancer, breast, battle, together, Denver

Id: VAhP38Y-AXs

Length: 6min 9sec (369 seconds)

Published: Wed Jan 27 2016