Couples Married for 0-65 Years Answer: When Did You Know You Were In Love? | Brides

when did you first know that you were in love with each other so I knew that I was first in love it was like a year and a half into our relationship and we were visiting his family for the first time that was like the moment that I was like okay I definitely think I want to marry this guy it was I guess what like a month or two into our relationship she got a job offer in Florida I didn't even think like oh I guess we're not gonna be together I just thought like alright well I guess you have to do long-distance I traveled 8350 six miles to visit her in South Africa that's when I knew I said I'm getting on a plane and I'm going to see this for three days she was there for three days I didn't know at the same time very unfair I knew when I understood that I had to make a decision I was still like okay I got somebody here somebody there like I had to make a choice and I was like wow I don't want to lose her I love her and I don't want to lose her and that was what I knew we went on a date in Hollywood and then we were about to go home in the car and then he just blurted out that he loved me I was so embarrassed that I ran out of the club but you started crying for I did and I got there for like 5-10 minutes wondering if he was ever gonna come back and then he forced me not to tell him that I loved him back and then I had to tell I had to wait like two weeks I said it first quite early on I think that I knew because we were long-distance for a long time and like I just wanted to speak to him every day any small moment I had I was running to speak to her always everyone says oh you'll just when you see it you'll know and you go oh shut up but oh my like there it was it was that it was that clear knew it made immediately yeah it took us three days to say okay we need to this is we need to figure out a way that we're gonna be in the same place I knew I was in love with Antonio probably the week after I met him yeah but I never just never told him she would come by my by my mom place and we would like sit down and watch like my wife and kids and whole bunch of funny shows and like it was like we're just laughing at silly shows together and that's when I was like yeah I could see myself being with her for us Molly yeah we were together in Florida and we had kissed and that had happened and then we went back our separate ways to where we lived I lived in Colorado and she lived in New York and I was talking to my friend in Colorado and then she said if you never see her again like how are you gonna feel and then I was like obviously terrible and then she's like okay so imagine you could see her again but you could never kiss her again how are you gonna feel it she was like that's your defining fact and I was like yeah oddly enough our mutual friend Dan when I left you that day and called him at the airport oh my god I kissed he goes why'd you screw that is the best manner way I came to an event that she was singing at and I knew instantly I told somebody that I was you know that I came to the event with you know I'm gonna marry her and of course you know people think that's a joke but I mean that's actually how that man's the truth nothing look the first time I saw him I just thought like oh my god he's so fine all of that and then I did it it's like a magnet I only want to hang out with him so I kind of like you know had to drop everybody else off because I just wanted to be with him all the time he has so much in common and it just seems so natural I think the first time I knew I was in love with him is when I thought to myself when he's finished with doing what he's doing he's gonna be hungry and I need to cook something for him so and I was like whoa bro after graduating college I end up going back to Georgia to hang out with my mom and figure out what I want to do next in my life in I was there maybe two weeks and the entire time I just kept thinking about amber so I end up going back to North Carolina and on the drive up that way I was that's when it hit me is like man I'm I'm really I think I loved her when I was absolutely sure was when we actually weren't together we had a two years long-distance relationship when he moved I actually pushed him forward to to chase his dreams it would be much easier for me to have him stay and say don't go but I actually don't know you go and I believe in you and I had no doubt that would we would be together she has a better day the coolest laugh her laugh is very loud the very good good juicy laughs so I got caught by her laughs and then I stopped start to try to talk to her and she wouldn't ever she was kind of rude I mean it's in a cute way I drew a cute room so how I fell in love we dated for a couple times maybe three times and she kept breaking up with me and I said you know I'm gonna be with someone else and everything changed she became later weight but you're talking about when I fell in love you have to talk about how you fell when that's when I knew I was like that's it she's the one okay actually I may be from the beginning you I was in love from the first day cuz it was hard to get exactly well for me I had to be in Los Angeles for work and we spent the weekend in Malibu and I thought I can't get enough of this fella and we did everything there was to do in Los Angeles we went to a baseball game we did the beach we did Hollywood we did and we did everything it was a great weekend I think that's when I knew it's a little sooner for me but that's great it was pretty evident at the beginning that I liked this girl a lot and it hasn't relented it's pretty good Susan walked by and I go wow and I saw him with this big smile on his face so I thought hmm and when he said to me look I don't want to date anybody else I don't have time or energy for it and I only want to date you it was like oh this is terrific how many guys are like that you know this soon I think I kind of knew for a long time I think I did too actually but I remember when I was in the eighth grade I told my mom that I was gonna marry a man she I don't think she was expecting it we were driving and she kind of screeched to a stop but she was like what at first I was living in Arlington Virginia and would trek up to Columbia Maryland to visit Jill and one time I was really late because of traffic and everything and I was really worried about her response but she was so understanding and everything and I just started to think she's you were a really special person so maybe maybe after a few dates I think we were just both kind of ready to find someone to share our life with so we you know things moved along pretty quickly well you know we shared the same I guess values the same family connections etc and you know you know her mother was born in Italy and my parents were Italian so you know we thought well I guess there's some connection here I play a little football when I was in high school she would always cheerleader for the other team then I decided that I'd rather see a root for me then and the other chain I just knew that I wanted to see more of him and I was just drawing more and more and more to him and I don't want to cry about 4 months ago I think I first noticed him and felt something when I saw him walk into the announcing class and here is this mmm salt-and-pepper haired guy coming in with a cane and I thought oh my god what more was he in because I thought he was a veteran and I later found out that he was 19 and he had hurt his leg in touch football pretty soon I you know five or six weeks I would think in my case I knew I was in love with him when I first saw him and when he arrived at the Israel motion picture studios looking for a job but I was young I was 17 what did I know about love there were you in love with me I don't think so I can say that I was convinced throughout the time that she was in the army and I was in the states that we were going to be married the five years between the time we met and the time we got married was I matured was which was it was a good idea everybody likes you easy to like sweet we were married June of 1953 we met in May of 52 right so I guess I looked ahead and it seemed like we had a lot of interests in common we enjoyed being together and we were very much attracted to one another and it seemed almost inevitable not to say somewhere along that one-year stretch I mean I think we got along quite well from the beginning but you know this was 65 years ago pretty much and it's not very easy to remember all the details of exactly what you did or even what you felt but it was not unusual then you know to be married fairly young I was married a month after my 20th birthday and it seems terribly young and I think people are getting married at 28 30 35 and they they are sort of fully formed and I think we sort of grew up together in some respects [Music]

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Length: 10min 15sec (615 seconds)

Published: Wed Mar 06 2019