COMMENTERS GONE WILD! I hate talking about this BUT rude commenters are OUT OF CONTROL! Why be rude?

hi guys it's sheri i hope that you are having a fantastic day y'all let's have a chat stay tuned so today's video will not be a tutorial it will actually be a video about something that i really need to address and guys i have tried shooting this video at least a dozen times and i have scrapped it because i don't want it to come across as preachy i really don't but there is something going on that really needs to stop there is some craziness going on in my comments that really need to stop there are so many rude comments being left and it's not a onesie twozy here and there it is every day and it is breaking my spirit it is making me dread uploading a video because i know there are going to be rude comments and the comments that i'm talking about are not your everyday run-of-the-mill comments there are comments running the gamut from i don't like the color of your nail polish we have to look at your hands i wish you changed that color oh your channel was so much better when you were only showing your hands i wish you'd go back to showing just your hands oh you say that phrase too much i wish you would stop saying that phrase i hate that phrase i just find it offensive or i wish you take that reptile sticker off of your mat it is distracting to me please clean that stain on your scoreboard it's distracting to me thanks and then i get the comments about decisions i've made about my channel recently i received a comment about the amount of time i choose to take off i guess it was too much and just recently i received a comment that implied that i am holding back on the more advanced level crafting so that i can provide that to the members of my monthly group who pay me that comment could not have been more insulting maybe the commenter didn't mean it that way however she had an option of editing it before she sent it and she chose to send it anyway so i'm sharing these examples because you need to see some of the things that go on in my comment and those of you who are doing this and engaging in this behavior you've probably walked through life that way and maybe no one has ever told you but it is rude it is bad behavior it is unacceptable behavior you don't treat people that way and some of you are going to say oh just ignore them because they're trolls no they're not the comments that i'm receiving are coming from subscribers some of them long-term subscribers some of them fairly new to my channel but some of them long-term subscribers so i am not being trolled people are just being rude what i want to get across is that this is my youtube home just as i have a personal home you wouldn't come into my personal home and be rude to me so why would you come into my youtube home and be rude to me it appears and i could be wrong but it appears to me that some of you feel as though because you're making the comment then it's not rude it's one that needs to be made and i need to make it no you don't what you're receiving five to six days a week is free content there should never be any complaints about free content either watch it or don't watch it subscribe or thumbs up or thumbs down it is just that simple there is no reason to ever leave a rude comment and there is no way that i am going to tolerate rude comments for those of you who have received comments from me and it doesn't matter to me how long you have been a subscriber in that moment your comment was rude and that is what i'm expressing to you in my comment back to you so here's what we need to do on this channel if you cannot leave a comment that is positive and uplifting to the craft to the crafting community and to my channel don't leave it but if you do choose to watch and you choose to leave me a rude comment anyway don't be surprised when you get a comment back from me that is not what you were expecting because i will say this anyone who knows me people i have loved all of my life people i have known all of my life the one thing that they know about me with 100 certainty is that i do not tolerate disrespect and if i'm not going to tolerate it from people i've known and loved all of my life why would i tolerate it from someone who chose to watch one of my videos so when you receive a response back from me and my response back to you is respectfully blunt you should not be surprised and one of the most important boundaries that you must maintain on my channel is respect and i pour my heart and soul into the free content that i share with you guys so we have to do better and we have to be better we have to respect the fact that my choices might not be your choices my likes might not be your likes my words that i choose to use might not be the words that you would choose to use but you should respect the fact that it's my right to choose the words that come out of my mouth it's my right to choose the papers that i want to use on my channel it's my right to decide the level of projects that i want to do on my channel at any particular time and this might be hard to hear guys but you're right and you're only right as it relates to my channel is whether or not you decide to watch me that's it so going forward please let's be respectful let's stop with the rude comments if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all so for those of you who are here with that positive spirit and you want to see the channel grow and you want to be a part of that growth and you want to help participate through your positive comments suggestions and ideas i welcome those comments so you guys as always please be safe be kind happy crafting and we'll chat later [Music]

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Length: 6min 10sec (370 seconds)

Published: Thu Feb 25 2021