Hello everyone welcome to this new conference Today we are going to talk about the five keys to being happy at work The truth is that I have put five keys, as I could also put one In fact, my cameraman who is present has come up with the solution, the key to being happy at work is not working And I have answered, this is the key! But I am going to leave you the unknown, and before continuing I would like to thank the nine, ten people that we have here for keeping me company Before starting I am going to give some preliminary considerations in relation to work, I also dedicate it to the cameraman and it is the next... For our unconscious, work equals family It is more in our institute when someone has a birthday, for example, they are congratulated And one of the answers that you always see there is Thank you for congratulating me, it's a great ...! Family Is this clear? Therefore, for our unconscious it should be clear that my family and my work, for my unconscious, is exactly the same Obviously, to understand this, we must start from the basis of the consciousness of unity and our unconscious does not differentiate Parent from Boss It does not differentiate brother or sister from my partner That every day there are more female bosses, starting with the institute that the boss or general director is a woman Therefore, if I have problems at work I have problems at home If I have problems at home, I will have problems at work Because consciously and unconsciously I'm always projecting, we are always projecting If I have problems, as has happened to me, with the authority Where I lived with a family where that is prohibited, do not do that, that is sin, God sees everything, etc., etc. I rebelled against authority, when I worked I was always rebellious and I was always against authority Until I became aware of it Therefore the family the main object of the family is to give food, do we agree with that? And the food can be emotional, physical, supporting our projects developing your capabilities, having your dignity, for social integration, etc., And work is exactly the same Work is important among the people who collaborate in a company, in a life project You can have that emotional food, that companionship, in that "don't worry, I'll talk", etc., It allows us to develop our capacities, obviously, it allows us to enter a social context It allows us an independence, in short, to get out of home What is a process of individualization, that you have to be independent One of the things to be independent is not to depend on the family Therefore, we enter another family context that would be work But work has something very important, that each one is responsible for what they are doing Responsible for the work you have to do And you have to learn to communicate, to collaborate in addition to the competition, etc., etc. But above all work has something very important and I want everyone to take note of that And it is that thanks to work To the people that I work with, I can know myself better Therefore, one of the most important things about work It is that it allows me to know myself because I am consciously or unconsciously always projecting myself More unconsciously than consciously And the objective of this conference is precisely to raise awareness of that Therefore, one of the objectives and a quality of work is that thanks to work I can develop Demonstrate my abilities and above all the different difficulties that I may encounter in my life And the different people with whom I have more appreciation or more affinity or not, everything has to do with me If you go to your jobs you will realize That there will be colleagues in whom you feel more identified, as they like you more likeable and others that are more unfriendly Well, those who are nice put them away, from those who have to learn are those who do not like you Because we are always in duality, I like that and I don't like this And basically to be happy at work we are going to take a journey through unity consciousness. Understanding that we are energy, that we are information, we vibrate And therefore everything that surrounds us, the experiences that happen to us in our life always has to do with me. Therefore, pay attention to the work-family correlation You might wonder, am I okay with my family? We are no longer going to talk about the family at work, remember that we are projecting How my family conflicts affect work When I say I don't like my job, what do I mean? What exactly do I dislike? We have the ability and the national sport to always being Projecting that the cause of my history is always my partner, my brother, my sister, my father, my mother, my boss, etc. And above all, what is today's conference about, in what consciousness am I living? Not my family relationships anymore, but my relationships at work. If consciousness of separation or consciousness of unity What is it, am I where I should be, is this the job I have to do? When the cameraman said Well, first I said the keys to the job, it is not that they have to be five, I summarize it in one And the cameraman has said And he said well Because he has shown me the main key, he has told me "well the key to being happy at work is not working!" And this is the key I am now going to enter what is called the shadow of work In our unconscious, work is equivalent to suffering It comes from the Latin "tripalium" It is a Roman torture device Consisting of a stick and a cross where people were tied up, tortured and burned alive Look where the word work comes from, it comes from tripalium Therefore, for our unconscious always work would come to do as a punishment "And you will earn your bread with the sweat of your brow" Some earn it with those in front but that's something else You will earn your bread with the sweat of your brow, those words Those words, well you can laugh if you want But that is in our unconscious and leaves a mark And people aspire to "how good if I didn't have to work!" I know a lot of people who don't have to work for a living And they have many health problems And of course, they have time, and since they have time for many things Unless they are people who dedicate their time to important social projects that I know Just as there are some in social projects, there are others who are not involved at all And they have problems at very important psychological and addiction levels Therefore the question I ask everyone is the following Do you work to live? Or do you live to work? That is the question And another very important thing Already within the scope of work Many people aspire to have a business Having a business has certain qualities If I have a business, it's like I don't work for others Well there are people who aspire that But having a business means "not leisure" Busyness, busy ness, too busy for leisure... Therefore, have a business Well actually doctors are very lucky we never get sick Being a doctor has an advantage, you never get sick Because even if you are sick You have to work And that of saying that having a business I can live without working It's something that everyone considers But its opposite, there are people who kill themselves working Therefore, the lecture that I am going to give today I'm going to basically focus on my life And in my particular examples as almost always For a very simple reason first because I am at certain age A few days ago I just turned about 67 years old I already have white hair therefore it indicates wisdom I'm going to talk about things that have happened to me between forty and fifty years That's many years I already advance you something very important I have never done anything To get to where I am I didn't woke up one day and said "I'm going to be an influencer", 1st because I have no idea what it is to be an influencer Second because in my time there were no cell phones The internet did not exist Therefore, I could not think that I would be an influencer Is that clear? Very well I am going to explain what my secret is, but, I have explained my secret many times already, but you have to remember it From the start, I don't call what I do work First, because I know the negative connotations that the word work has I call it the realization of my life Work allows me to learn, to meet people, to interact To develop my abilities, to overcome my limits, to overcome my fears In short, the work for me is a blessing But I don't call it work anymore I call it the realization of my life which is what I am going to explain today When I encounter great obstacles in my life I always know that these obstacles are not to cut me off but rather an opportunity to develop my abilities And above all because they force me to give my best And I always do my best to do what I'm doing And I'm going to tell an anecdote That maybe they will be very funny or not I am going to talk you about From when I did the military service, some do not even know what this is In my time, you were doing military service, service to the country, you had to dedicate a part of your life to it, which was normally a year To do military service As something social, it was something assumed and that was it Of course, many people decided not to do it Well I did what is called the IMEC What are those who do military service when they are studying Therefore, they can choose or request extensions or when you do they ask you to go to the military academy Somehow you decide if you want to do it as a noncommissioned officer or as an officer As an officer I did not sign up because they forced you to do the year in a row and I could not be a year in a row without working I couldn't be Therefore, I decided to do the sergeant what is called non-commissioned officer I did two months of camping which was here in Archidona, then I went to Madrid to finish the academy Then I was in Manises, Valencia in the antiaircraft artillery I was there for six months Ok, let's focus on Valencia, Manises I was in the anti-aircraft artillery As sergeant At that time they gave us a salary When you were preparing a group of soldiers You came from the academy and then, you had a group of soldiers and you taught them as a teacher and more things The antiaircraft artillery piece was very delicate, very delicate I remember that at that time it was worth about two billion pesetas It worked by radar, it was the most modern thing there was And therefore I found myself before a device that I had never seen in my life And that he had to teach the soldiers how it worked There were the professional NCOs and I was IMECO That is, the others saw you as an IMECO Perfect I told myself That since I was there and I didn't know anything about what I was explaining Since i was there I had to learn that I had to learn how to fuse the artillery piece First because it was something very sensitive He had very fast movements, he moved at an incredible speed And if you were careless I would hit you and leave you fixed And I started to study I began to study that, not to like someone, but because of the responsibility I had Because I was in charge of the soldiers who wore that piece, I don't know if there were five or seven, it's the same And I studied it so much that one day I didn't understand how a thing worked And I went to ask the gunsmith Hey! Can I ask you something? Tell me Sergeant Corbera! The piece when it is like this, because I'm reading that this can happen, the other can happen, so if that happens, what do I have to do? The brigade looks at me He smile at me, and didn't laugh... Because I was a higher rank I told him, well don't worry brigade, I'll solve it I want you to understand that I was not going to dedicate myself to this I was going to do that for six months Then I was gone And the salary they gave me, together with two others, allowed me to have an apartment and eat every day That it seemed wonderful to me not to have to spend the money but what they were giving me was already fine Therefore I felt well paid and everything, at least you do not spend money and you can live with that Not that it was a lot of money, of course I'm talking about a lot of years ago As many as 34-35 years ago Then there were some maneuvers Some maneuvers at the national level So we went to Los Monegros in Zaragoza, there is a lot of countryside there And there maybe thousands of soldiers gathered And we all dedicate ourselves to that, that is, to shoot, a real fire exercise Real fire As I was an IMECO There was a row of batteries Maybe 30-40 And the las one was me And they put me in because the lieutenant had already realized that Sergeant Corbera Understand Not like the others and I was there, and with that I was doing well because as they were some maneuvers they gave you more money That this always suited me well So when everything was working, it was going very well, etc., etc. And suddenly takes place what I had asked the brigade What could happen if this particular happened I explain this to you Although many years of this have passed, I am counting it and I am excited I had no idea, now I am aware of why, why these things happened But I want it to be clear that every moment you do one thing in your life In that instant That they are doing one thing, pay attention to the awareness that they are doing it Well then The plane starts to leave and we get ready to shoot My captain I had in all those rows I don't know if five, six or eight batteries, but I was the last one, is that clear? I mean there were eight captains with six batteries or four batteries, I don't remember, I mean there were a lot there And they start shooting the first, we were the last And me How do i tell the captain How do I say that to the captain without the captain general finding out I don't know if you know that there is a central command that listens to everything, how do I tell him? I was nervous, I thought, how do I tell him? How do I tell him? Until it occurs to me I said: this is battery Sergeant Corbera! This is the captain speaking: what is it sergeant? I'm in position zero one So the captain said nothing He waited four seconds and said: attention all the pieces, enter one zero! Was a button The captain does not congratulate me But you don't have to tell me anything He didn't tell me anything But was not necessary for him to tell me anything Do you know what is noticeable in the environment? Look at what was noticed in the atmosphere that we were in the NCO bar, and you know that it is very different from other bars And I was with the colleagues talking and commenting Someone touch me from the back, I turn and see a lot of stars I was amazed The officers do not enter there at all And they came and introduced me, here I present Sergeant Corbera! And they only introduced me And I was like ... And everybody showed a lot of respect, but no one said anything to me Nobody The lieutenant colonel, who at that time was the lieutenant colonel, I called him Lieutenant, sorry, Lieutenant Colonel! because I was very nervous And he shook my hand Nice to meet you he said, and he turned and left And I was like... you can imagine, put yourself in that situation We lived in a very different time than now You know what time we lived in There those who wore stars were... the elite, the ones you look up And I was holding my breath everytime I was in front of an officer No you never knew what was going on there I don't know if I'm explaining myself Well The story continues What from then on every time a general came to the barracks To see how the battery worked for a demo, guess who they called? To Sergeant Corbera And of course, that they called me to make a demonstration to the general, that represented money And one day when I was about to leave I had very little left time And I hope I don't get too excited, I'm already getting excited Because that was engraved in my life We were all there, the sub-officers, the lieutenant, the captain was not there, he was going in and out, etc. Where a captain rules, a sailor has no sway And then we were there eating And we were on campaign, I remember that... And a lieutenant came, I knew that was not very normal, but he knew that I was going to leave in a week And he said to me: can I share the table with you? And I: of course my lieutenant, please sit down! Then he says... Do you see Sergeant Corbera? Do you see him? That man He has been here six months And I don't have to tell you what his attitude has been And what he has contributed I was freaking out This man Everything he does in life he will do well Whether sausages And i did Make sausages or run a business or create a business, he will do well Because this man He didn't say sir, he said "because Sergeant Corbera... has come here and has shown everyone that the most important thing in life is the attitude with which you do things where life puts you Are you understanding? Do you think that I wanted to do that to be nice and pretty? I was simply in a place that I understood was very responsible Are we clear? And that since I was there I was going to do my best I will explain an anecdote An anecdote that is from someone who is in the consultation And it's a lady who says I don't like the jobs I find Such phrase Investigating, I found out that this lady had been in the same job for fifteen years Therefore, she was in a great incongruity Well, the question I ask all of you is the following, is the problem in the person or at work? You can answer There is one thing that is also very important, she does not value the importance of work How do you allow her to live? because she didn't like work, but she spent fifteen years at work And I asked her, does this work allow you to live? She answers: yes! It allows you to have vacations, yes! So you have a job that many people would like to have It allows you to be independent, yes! Are we clear? What is projected at work? She doesn't ask "why don't I like the job?" What am I projecting at work so that I don't like it? What am I doing to not value what I have? Something that allows me to be independent Something that allows me to eat and even have a vacation This person lives completely in consciousness of separation And waiting Attention to this And waiting for... the work to change Waiting for work to change Or God come down and say no, my daughter, calm down, this is the job that is tailor-made for you! Are you following the theme of today's conference? The power is in us Is always in us Therefore, we are going to make some reflections About this complaint If i don't like jobs As I said before, what am I projecting onto it? If I don't value what I find in my life at work, how do I value myself? Am I clear about my wishes? Do I do what I really want to do or do I listen to the siren songs? We will talk later about what siren songs are in case you don't know. Those people who say to you, oh, that's what you're going to work on? Is that what you're going to do? They are usually people who love you a lot. Once upon a time A young woman who wanted to be a princess This young woman lived in a fishing village And the only thing he knew how to do was fish and reach the nets One day some pirates came and kidnapped her And they took her to their lands and there it turns out that they carved wood, so she carved wood And then those pirates also traded and sold the wood in other towns and then they were raided by other pirates They kidnapped her and took her to their camp and there it turns out that those pirates were engaged in weaving cloth And back then in China They were looking for who had to be the woman who had to marry the prince And then those who commanded more there They called their shamans, those who see the stars their astrologers and said Well let's see! Let's ask the stars What woman has to be the wife of our son and reign in the kingdom of China or Mongolia or whatever, it is the same That doesn't matter, that's the least of it And then the astrologers said The princess has to be a woman who knows how to make a tent herself That is, not a field tent but for army campaigns Well then that girl who had been kidnapped several times was with the ship, the ship was wrecked The waves carried her to a deserted beach And then the king's soldiers would pass precisely there That they were looking for the princess and they were asking all the young and beautiful girls of the reign There were those who knew how to do that and they couldn't find any until they found that lady and took her away We have found that lady! and the kings said: she is beautiful but does she know how to do all of this? So she knew how to cut firewood, knew how to weave fabrics, ultimately she had learned and became a princess Therefore, the metaphor or moral of this tale Is that the road to success is never in a straight line It is never in a straight line, for example me Alright another example A lady comes to my office and says I can't find a job in my profession And I ask him what is your profession? what is your profession? Says: journalist Therefore, she says, I can't find a job in my profession, what is your profession? journalist I ask her, do you work? Yes, and what do you work for? As a journalist I said Houston we have a problem! Look closely, a person has a conflict, "I do not work in my profession field" What profession do you have? journalist and what does he work for? as a journalist And what is the stress then? No, it is that I do not earn enough money as a journalist So you are not telling me that you do not work in your profession, in any case ask me something else Say, in my profession I do not earn money to live, which would be the query, do we agree? But that's how human beings work And I asked him, well, what do you make of a living from? Are you ready to laugh? No, I have an inheritance that allows me to live without working When I say that the world is crazy We need a boil Take a good look Attention, when you ask for something Take care of what you ask for Sure, people say, I want to earn a living from my profession Well, but you already have a job No, I want to be paid, yes, but you are doing a certain job The job she does is work as a journalist in an NGO for social rights and socially excluded people She is the right journalist because she has the money In other words, she can do the work without depending on being paid, not saying, "If I work here they have to pay me this much!" Are you following me? And this is a conflict And that is the consciousness of separation Therefore, I explain all that to you so that you become aware I always say one thing, you can ask God what you want, the field of consciousness, the universal intelligence or whatever you want But be careful, universal intelligence is very screwed up "Lord bring me that", like the one who was drowning "Lord save me!" and a boat passes "Can I help you?" "No, no, I've asked the Lord to help me" An ocean liner passes, "no, no, I ask God for help" And in the end the guy drowns And he goes to heaven and says to Saint Peter, "I'm very angry!" Because I am a very believer and God does not listen to me How does he not listen to you, but what has happened, if God listens to everyone And always gives the solution to everyone Yes, yes, yes, he gives the solutions, but not the solutions that I want It is not that I was drowning in the sea and I asked him to save me, and says Saint Peter, but he did send you an ocean liner, an aircraft carrier, a boat And you said no, no, no Stick with this please Stick with this because you don't know how life is going to respond to you Nor in what way is it going to respond to them, therefore, the advice I give to everyone is If you feel that you have to contribute something to the world, a job or ask for something to be able to live Don't ask for something specific You do not know You don't know which is the way You don't even know how to get there That's the clearest We are on our way to the first key I will lead the way And then I will tell you what the first key is, I am not going to say the first key and develop it, but But I'm going to accompany you The first key is, it's not about doing what you like It's about making you like what you do Example, I have already put mine from the army Another thing, happiness is not in what you are doing, but with the awareness that you are doing it Once upon a time I think it was Dante Alighieri If it wasn't Dante it was one of these wise men And explain an anecdote, which has occurred to me right now Some bricklayers were building a church And ask to one of them: what are you doing? And he says, well I don't know I'm laying stones here because they told me Ask another and say what are you doing? Say, I'm making that wall And what are you doing? I'm making this arc And he goes to the last one and says, what are you doing? I'm building cathedrals That may seem silly, but he explains that, makes the reflection That, the awareness with what you do things It will make you feel adequate doing what you do Therefore, no matter what you do, make it important to you. Our daughter Isabel She studied pharmacy she had a good job A good jog she had she was a pharmacist and felt she had to do something else I have already said it several times because it is a very clear example of what I am explaining I will not explain it now because I will explain it later, and she had several vicissitudes In fact, I think she had an enlightenment To ask me, she said "I'm going to ask Dad who's crazy to see what he tells me" The first thing I said to her was, follow your heart, follow your desire and don't worry about anything else She had many vicissitudes, many problems, in the end, she is very controlling She never quite got what she wanted And I told her, stop trying to control Stop controlling Stop wanting things to be how you like them, how you would like them to be and for them to happen And waiting for a sign from God. etc., it doesn't work like that And above all stop making judgments Stop with the judgments And in the end she was listening to me and I say to her, the only thing you have to do is that Make you like what you are doing Do your best like there's no tomorrow Because there is only the present, the here and now And one day she calls me and says, look dad They just called me for a job that I sent a resume years ago And I tell her, ahhhh, and she smiles because she already knew what I was going to say You haven't looked for the job, the job has looked for you Are you following me? Therefore, the importance of entering the wheel of work I have a nephew who likes music a lot, here is his mother And I always tell him this, the importance of work is not finding the job that you like But to make you like the work that you are going to do And the most important thing, the most important thing, is to enter the consciousness of work or what is called the wheel of work. There are those who are not in the wheel of work And there are those who are in the wheel of work I don't know if he has paid much attention to any advice that I told him, which was Look, the important thing is not to expect to get paid for the work either. But it is important that you do a job I told him, you like to play music, play the piano, etc., then offer yourself in the bars to play for free Play music, if that's what you like to do, play Play on the street, play there, go And there is a phrase from the peaceful warrior Where Dan's mentor tells him The warrior never gives up what he loves But he finds love in what he does Are you frying eggs? Make them the best fried eggs ever Are you serving someone? Be the most affectionate, put love in what you are doing Because people are not aware That every act that we are doing As small as it may be and however insignificant it may seem to us You are putting the seed of something much greater As an example, my person We will continue with my example Therefore, reflections with what we have just seen Every goal has a beginning And the beginning begins where you are You don't have to go anywhere And another very important thing, although every goal has a beginning Ask yourself that this goal is going to change Allow yourself to keep in mind that you may think of New York and on the way you feel that you have to go to Los Angeles Because the road gives you an experience What is shaping that project, therefore, your goal is a process And stop controlling things Let you get surprise You have to live in uncertainty And choose peaks, stages that you know you can reach If you want to start a restaurant Don't start an entrance restaurant even if you have a lot of money Start serving tables Be a cook, know the business thoroughly At my job when I came to a printed circuit company I started from the bottom Since I was a technician, I was an assistant in the technical office Then I became a manager Then a new product came out And there I developed the skills to make that product in the best possible way. And I found solutions that I could not find And I became the most important expert of that product That product was so important This product was so delicate And the only person who knew how to handle it well was me And they had me in a corner in a room Me with someone who helped me It was separated from the entire company because it was very delicate, it had to be air-conditioned, in an environment, etc. Because any speck of dust could damage the printed circuit, which was a resistor That was used for gas tanks And they had to measure well, if I told you that it was half full It was that it was half full, not that it was half empty, that is, it was a marker There was what was waste or damaged material That they were around twenty or thirty percent, it was unsustainable, but there was no one else doing it And then I got it down to one percent, two percent Automatically the boss told me, you to director of quality control In general, the company had significant losses that were around ten percent And I left them at zero-five percent But I had a conflict with the company, I couldn't bear the... Authority and I was facing the... I understand it now, they needed income And sent a product that I had not approved I knew this was going to turn into more expenses, etc., etc. So I faced direction and told them, this can't be And then they did what is called bullying today So I was in the company as if I did not exist As if I did not exist, hoping that I would get bored and leave But they didn't know who they were messing with, I didn't care I was in the company, I had no where to go Someone comes believing to be the quality director walking around the company Until one day They called through the megaphones and said, Mr. Corbera, please report to Management office I introduced myself to Management and they were there at the round table Clients from Italy, France, the most important, Borleti, Jaigar, etc. Then the director said, don't worry We are going to solve that, Mr. Corbera is going to solve it Mr. Corbera, put the company in order They had all left In fact, everyone when they saw me called me Dirty Harry I don't know if you've seen the Clint Eastwood movie Because when they saw me come in, everyone was scared, because I also had a gift If there was a bad one in a lot of printed circuits, I was just handling it Automatically I would stop it and had to go through all the circuits, etc., etc. Therefore, as I was very "nice" or someone else came and said, with the church we have run into, the holy inquisition was me I was, Dirty Harry, the Holy Inquisition, etc., but absolutely nothing happened So I put the company back in order and left The boss told me, how are you going to leave if I was going to offer you ... And I say, no no, the problem is not that you offer me or not, or pay me more or pay me less Or that you do not realize that you are an idiot, that I have done better than you, that you need me I told him I'm leaving the company, not because I'm angry with the company because I already think that from here I have already learned what I had to learn and also I no longer believe in the project and since I do not believe in the project that you are doing I can't be here without believing in what I'm doing I'm going. So he asked me not to leave, to do him that favor choose the person you think can replace you; without any problem. I chose a person, I stayed three more months and when I said ready, I said; give me the sum I'm leaving and I went to make sausages with my wife It was written what I had to do.... Ok. Are you following what I am explaining to you? and all that was shaping many things in my life But there is one very important thing when you leave a place with gratitude because there you have learned many things in fact one of the advices that I gave people is that changing jobs is very important and even if it is the same, change environment or change work because otherwise the brain gets used to going somewhere to do something else the change is very important stay with that therefore happiness It is not the goal achieved but the journey that you have formed as a person So follow your dreams, don't stop dreaming but don't choose the path. Do you follow the idea?; you do not know the way Leave that to conscience as I explained to my son and my daughter, in short, my children and that your dreams don't be afraid them to be great do not be afraid, if you really feel that you can give something is that you have the unconscious ability to do it Yes very good. We have already reached the first key The first key is to understand that your life's work has an unforeseen starting position and don't be in a hurry. the path to the second key is everyone makes excuses Napoleon Hill in his Book "Think and Grow Rich", there is a section that says the terribles "if I" If I..., if I had enough push... if I had a good education... if i had a good chance. Chances never know when they are good or bad If my family understood me, if times were better, does that sound familiar to you? If I lived in a big city, if someone helped me If I hadn't failed, if I knew how If I dared to impose myself, if my boss appreciated me, If I could get rid of my debts, if I didn't have so many worries, if I didn't have to take care of my children Napoleon Hill names fifty-five, I've named a few, you guys follow. We are full of "If I" excuses. So finding excuses to explain my failures is a national pastime. One of the exercises that I invite you to do is write your excuses, therefore the antidote to those excuses that I have exposed The vaccine is to believe in yourself and you must always be willing to change and learn. Goethe used to say: "Magic is believing in yourself." If you can do that you can make anything happen. My person, as I have explained many times, was born practically stupid, My parents were quite worried because it was difficult for me, as I have said many times, to learn to read math was like uff ... and doing this lecture I am going to confess something that I think I have never said because in this conference I am going to bare my soul And that I will send them where I want to all of them, I do not care, well they worry to see what they do with that That is very dangerous. I remember that I was ten, eleven, less than twelve and I remember I was in a math class and my head hurt so much and I didn't understand anything, it seemed like I was reading Chinese, and it occurred to me to throw myself out the window. I was more afraid of jumping out the window ... but it crossed my mind. and I always remember that moment it's like it's right now I looked at the window and thought it would give me time to open it and jump. I explain that so that no one thinks that I was born learned that I was born with something special, I consider myself a normal person, Okay. But it is true that I was born with a Gift, I always trusted myself. but now you will say: ah, then of course, I do not succeed in life because I do not have the gift that Enric has man that's another people's excuse; If I had Enric's gift, I would also do the same. In short, all those thoughts make us special, especially silly or especially smart, but it's just the same, being special. Ultimately magic is believing in yourself because if you don't believe in yourself you won't believe in anything, are we clear? There is no one else to believe in, if you believe in something from the outside you are giving your power to the outside therefore you are dispossessed, that's called idolatry and in idolatry there is a lot of paraphernalia Where if you do this they will go down I don't know what, and if you burn the salt in the moonlight, and go to know what other crazy things they promise you ... then the fairies of the positive energies will come down and the masters of the violet rays especially violets that are not green because if they are green we will not go anywhere I don't know if I'm explaining myself. It is called spiritual nonsense, the spiritual ego. that if I seem hard, David R Hawkins tells you the same but much more direct In his book Letting Go, It is the biggest distraction in the world, the biggest distraction that our ego has trapped in believing us that we are not good for anything and that something external to us It can save us, it can give us life or it can give us I don't know what, etc, etc, etc. when I am explaining that to you in the first moment and I have explained to you my secret which is give the best of myself in what I'm doing. If I'm a sweeper, to sweep wonderfully, if I'm a waiter, serve the table wonderfully, make food as if I had to eat God himself, That is the great secret of work, where life has put them, is where they have to be. There is no possible error, there is no error in the world, therefore there are no inferior jobs Do your job with dignity. When I left the company I met my wife I had just come out of a divorce and I gave it all to my wife I told her I am the one who has gone crazy and I am leaving, and she is here and The only thing I had mine was a jacket that she gave me and a gold watch from my father that my mother gave me and one day the thieves entered the house and they took the jacket and the gold watch and they didn't take anything else, therefore, if I had nothing I kept what I was wearing, at that time I was thirty-four years, thirty-three years old. I was thirty-three years old, therefore, I had absolutely nothing. Well, there was my wife. So, I started working in her company that made sausages. and for a while I was helping because I did not know how to make sausages I helped her with the accounts, I knew about that, but also I had a van and I was dedicated to delivering, I had gone from being an engineer as a quality director, and at that time I was earning more than two thousand euros It was a lot, I think the change was four hundred thousand pesetas, it was a lot, and I went on to earn... Well, but the greatest treasure I found was my wife I mean, then her parents had a house, where no one lived Well, nobody lives, because we had to go live there... and since then it is not my home because it is not Although it has appeared on television that where I live and as such, but it is my wife's house, it is not my house but she knows that I have given her everything and invested a lot of money because when I was there I felt that life had given me a wonderful place, many things had to be fixed, which we did and that's been thirty-four years ago, right, sweetheart? thirty-four years. And knowing that I could get divorced again, I don't know if I'm explaining myself. So it is the same to me I was there and I was so grateful and I gave absolutely everything and more for that. I became the father of his daughters, moreover a daughter of hers calls me dad and her daughter calls me grandfather. and for her to call me grandfather she has to allow me to educate her daughters Well, therefore, there is a genetic part, but the most important thing is the emotional part. and the implication because in the end the genetics are there although many times my wife told me "my daughter looks like your daughter"; because of course anything is learned. I started studying neuropathy for three years I studied linguistic programming, I studied hypnosis and one day I had a dream They told me that I had to study psychology, it was a dream. I'm not going to explain the dream. And I got up and began to study psychology I was at that time forty-four years old I am explaining that to them because I did not know very well what was happening but I felt that I had to study psychology. because in the end the things that happen to me these dreams those revelations call it whatever you want Oh, how lucky Enric is because the Angel comes to him and says "My son, you have to study;" everything is a consequence, that is, what you pick up on the way you have sown before. stay with that, how lucky you are, "excuse me?" You are creating your own luck, when you are doing something do you complain or thank you for what you have? Do you do your best? When do you make an omelette? When do you serve a table? When do you sweep at home? with what conscience are you doing it. Second key Start working on what life offers you. and never forget that change is very important and will allow you to open your mind and gradually shaping the qualities, the capacities for something that life has planned for you Path to the third key I am going to give some examples and I'm going to use the example of David the taxi driver, which is an example of overcoming, David the taxi driver is a Mexican gentleman taxi driver, that one day my wife and I came very tired, due to issues that had happened to us and we had to go to Puebla, and a taxi was waiting for us and it was David the taxi driver; and then he talked a lot and I thought "the trip that awaits us" and then the man begins saying "do you know that Mexico City... It is a first class city and I say no, why?. And he says because you can never put the second gear... and I said: we got off to a good start, this may not be so boring, so he says: You see that phone booth, I slept there when I was little, I left my house because we were, I don't know how many brothers he told me, there to eat you had to be... I was one of the little ones and I left and we were a lot of kids who sold balloons to cars and everyone was drugged but not me, and I slept in that booth, and I thought This is going to get interesting this trip, and he says "do you want me to tell you something?" that man did not know me at all "here, we are not three", uhh, we are screwed says no no, here to my right God is always sitting Let's go four, because people love images and that, they have no idea what they are doing. How are they going to worship an image if God is here, God always is here, I've been driving taxis for forty years and I've never had a scratch God just put me the best taxi driver, forty years of pedigree without having an accident In Mexico City if there is a miracle, the miracle of Guadalupe is this, it is none other than this. The point is that he was telling that and he told me, stay with that please. and he told me: (a man who barely knows how to write), and he told me: look at God, it's that God was speaking right there. Look, God, you know that I know how to do a few things at the moment, all I know how to do is sell balloons, but I God I promise you one thing, give me a job that is more worthy but if you consider that I have to sell balloons I will be the best balloon seller from all of Mexico, not from all of Mexico, from the whole world, God. I do not want to extend myself, he finds the taxi, life put it in front of me, but before the taxi He said; life put me to work in a company that had two thousand workers or more, and then I was very clear I was so grateful to God that where the boss put me, if he told me clean that I didn't clean it, no, you could eat there. If he told me clean the toilets, they could even eat in the toilet bowl He was enormously grateful, he had left the street. of sleeping in a phone booth and one day God he said God I have fallen in love, I want to get married but God I don't have money to have a house to live with my wife. You will tell me what I have to do, but I tell you one thing that I accept what you give me, "As always I thank you in advance", that man had not had any education I repeat, he could hardly read and write. So the company ran a contest no, they had some valuation tables where they rewarded the best employees, they did it every five years I don't remember, and the prize that time was an apartment, let's see if you can guess who they gave it to; David the taxi driver. My person, when I did laboratory practices after finishing my studies I was in the laboratory making a preparation so there was the one who was teaching me Well, he had a problem with what we were doing, the thing dragged on, everyone there left everyone left and I stayed. And he told me you don't have to stay here, I tell him Why do I have to leave? If I started with you, we finish today. After a few days the general manager comes down and comes to greet me He was German, thank you Mr. Corbera and me, "what have I done?" Then he comes and says, well, what you do, not even those who get paid do it Are you following me? When I had the store with my wife, we left the bacon, the sausages, I explained my experiences, gave classes to who wanted to listen to me, workshops and we barely charged anything for that. When I started sharing my lectures they are obviously free and they still are, because I know that life It only asks you to love what you do, because what you do will love you many times more. Paulo Coelho tells us, "never give up on a dream, just try to see the signs that lead you to it." and I tell you "love what you do and what you do will love you ten times or a hundred times more" Third key prepare, study, do your best in everything you do, you think you have a goal, let yourself be surprised. The path towards the fourth key. Thought inversion, let's stop looking for the cause of what happens to me in the outside Let's begin to realize that I am sowing the seeds of my success every moment that I do not know where life is going to take me and I have long ago set my limits in the sky, or God or whoever will put them, therefore, do not think only what work can bring you, think about what you can contribute to the job. People think that working is "that I work for my boss" but you haven't realized that work you have to bless it and give it the best of yourself because work allows you to develop skills and capabilities that you could not do without work. There are people who when they are unemployed say: no, I am not looking for work until the unemployment ends, "that I have earned the unemployment" excuse me? and then you will want it to be wonderful for you, we turn it all into a right. I mean, something that allows you to live while you are looking for work, "ah no, I will look for work when I run out of it" because of course living without working is how this country goes; I say mine the one I know. Are you familiar with that phrase from Matthew 22 15-21 give to Cesar what belongs to Cesar, because that is exactly what I mean. give to Cesar what belongs to Cesar and to God what is God's, then pay your taxes do not judge where those taxes go, that is not your concern; no, somebody is stealing so, well me too, no. You want to grow at work, because work allows you that, make him grow. Stay away from the siren songs, you will always find someone who questions you, mom I want to be a dancer and mom laughs Dad I want to be an actor and Dad tells you that you will never earn a living, I have decided to go around the world and the parents say you are crazy what do you expect to find, I know that one, he went around the world and now the parents are very proud, idiots. They are my friends so I know the story, the girl that the boy has found around the world the girl who hasn't studied one day told her mother look mom I don't want to study, I'm going to do the best I know for the world; and where they go in the world everyone expects them, because when they work They are the ones who are the best at working, they are the ones who give their best. And always grateful, always with a smile and always giving the best, We have firewood at home to cut and I was amazed with her, a girl like that, moving some logs of firewood and says That is going to tire the third log Anyway, he breathes and says why if we can finish in three days why are we going to finish it in four I have paid by the hour; Are you following me? I wouldn't have said anything if they had taken another day because they were going at a pace that ... No no no; If we can finish it in three days, why finish it in four, I am not surprised that they are doing well. Some from California said when you come back here, you can come, I'll give you a job, you just come and you can work. When they want to earn money they go to Norway to serve the ships and they always find work; She has learned, she speaks fantastic Norwegian, she does not speak French but Norwegian. They went to Thailand, and they got COVID and they dedicated themselves to playing with the children of the town, teaching them to educate them they were not there, they paid for a house there it was very cheap, and they dedicated themselves to educating, teaching them, they liked to climb the mountains, in short they had a great time. They are always giving the best of themselves where life has put them. The little prince, it is a reflection, "It is madness to hate all roses because you got scratched with one thorn". giving up to all your dreams because one of them has not come true. Fourth Key In what you do you will go as far as you are willing to commit, do not expect anything and you will have everything. The path towards the fifth key. There was a man who liked the movies very much, it is a story that I have told several times, But it is that it suits me like a glove, or I'll tell another very similar one, and he wanted to be a film director and he went to California and there they know that in the United States the unions rule everything is very important, so he went to ask for a job from whatever it was in one of the studios and they told him we can't give you a job because he had to be in the union se fue al sindicato y dijo vengo a sindicarme para trabajar, "no puedes estar sindicado si no tienes trabajo" like here when immigrants come, and the guy said nothing, since I can't go join at least I want to live and breathe the people who work there who speak who tell stories, and such, then went to work in a bar who was in front of some studies that many actors and many people from there came there to eat and such and the guy was delighted with life, "I'm not there but I serve, I attend to them, they ask me, they know me and such." are you following me? and he was like that for about two years, that is a story of a very famous film director. I can't remember the name, the name doesn't matter. And then, one day there were very few people and there an older man would come to me that he came many times and I knew him hi how are you, hey, there are few people why don't you sit here and have a coffee together ask the boss for permission, yes, yes; and he sat down, hey what are you doing here, I see you that you are always happy, that you talk to us, you serve us, you are delighted, always smile at us, hey everyone talks about you, look how charming he is, and he tells the story, my dream was to work in here but I have to be unionized But of course I went to the union and they told me that I have to work, well then, I have settled for being here and breathe the environment, meet people and well I have the illusion of working with them, and says you know who I am, I am the head of the union; God knows, but we have an ego that we think we know what is best for ourselves. Then there is another story that is that of Bruce Willis, he had a serious stuttering problem I don't know if they knew, he said that to give a complete sentence it took three minutes and therefore, he did not consider himself to be an actor. He left his university studies and went to New York and worked as a security guard in bars, restaurants because he wanted He liked that world and in the end you know the story where Bruce Willis is right now I'm going to give you some reflections of mine based on my experience, life will make it difficult for you so that you can demonstrate your certainty and your determination. Bless the difficulties are tests of faith. Everything you do in your life do it to improve the lives of others without expecting anything in return, this is my secret, and what I do today was never an end, it has simply been a consequence. Fifth key. Never waver, pursue your dream, the opportunity can arise at any time and if you tell me "I don't have any dreams, I don't know what to do, I don't know what I like," then give up. And I'm going to put a phrase from my book "The Dream Dreamer" about the state of surrender, not resignation. It's written in my book, it's my story and I say, I hope I don't get excited, sir... Today I am fully aware that I am lost, I do not know what my path is and even less how to travel it I do not think that everything is centered on a kind of struggle, that is why Lord, today I make the decision to give you my life Today I know that my life does not belong to me, so I decide that you are the one who leads it, that you direct it and that you be my guide. Final thoughts and reflections. "It's that I don't know what my dream is", I'm going to pick this up, we are, or, you are where you should be. in life there is no mistake, many people told me, hey Enric... "I would like to do what you do" and I tell them to start, "but where do I have to go, he said," you don't have to go anywhere. It starts, you think that I expected to be here where I am being an influencer I don't know very well what this is but hey there it is, what do you think? You think that sometime I have come to think that my lectures would reach more than a hundred million views, you believe that, you believe that the other day I saw, I do not know... I had a video that was on Google and had been viewed a million and a half times, you think that I wanted this, or that I worked to achieve this, it is a consequence If you do not know what to do or where to go, give your life to life, put the effort, all the love in what you're doing, remember David the taxi driver, don't make excuses. Life is a gift and you will never ever know who is in front of you. If you go with an open heart, your words are coherent, if your actions speak of what you think and do You will never need to have memory because you do not lie, they only need, that is, only those who lie and who cheat and who say I don't know what and stop saying and such need memory, that everything you do improves society. When I started they told me... We can record your lectures and post them on the internet and I said good, but who is going to listen to me? That was my answer, but I thought and I keep saying it now, I don't hope to convince anyone of anything But if people listen to me, I do it, and if they don't like it, then they shouldn't listen, and those who criticize me... ask yourself what bothers you about me, therefore, of course my message is very disruptive but hey, I always say the same if you like it well and if you don't like it, therefore success is not reaching your dream success is living your life giving the best of you at all times without expecting anything develop your unity consciousness, because you are part of a whole, and since you do not know where to go and it says a Course in Miracles, I will take you where you can be useful I will tell you what you have to say and with whom to be or should be and above all the attitude more than the skills is important, attitude more than skills, and now people say I'm going to have a positive attitude what is a positive attitude?. You are fooling yourself, Tell me what are the attitudes that I must have, you are already deceiving yourself, that is, there is no attitude, no key. love what you are doing, understand that you are always where you should be and who you should be with and always treat others as if it were yourself, if you lie you lie, if you cheat, you cheat yourself, if you steal you steal yourself, as simple as this. It is not for me to judge when I pay my taxes what they do with them, I pay my taxes. It is a reflection that I have put this afternoon and I dedicate it to you. If I, Enric, have arrived somewhere, it has not been because I had any outstanding ability, let it be clear. Perhaps, perhaps that I have never given up, the great trust he had with me, especially when I felt that I was useless, my life I have never excelled in anything I'm not good at anything but I've always trusted myself, now people will say Of course, if I had the confidence that Enric has in himself, perhaps I would triumph because people work like that but people do not quite understand that two drops of oxygen that have capacities we are made in the image and likeness of our conscience. We are consciousness, particles of consciousness in a sea of consciousness, therefore, in a drop of water the universe is enclosed, therefore, live your lives, give your best in every moment and to finish I'm going to pay tribute to someone who will I tell you at the end something that has been marked in my life so that you see that it is important Look Enric, I have had classmates in my student days who were very intelligent and they got very good grades, they were highly regarded by their teachers I have come much further than all of them because the most important thing is to put the best of yourself giving everything in life and the person who told me that was my father.
Thank you.
