Boyfriend Attacked When He Tries Ending Relationship (S3, E8) | I Survived... | Full Episode

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[music playing] I honestly felt as though Satan was in my house that night. And this wave of unbelievable pain washed over my body. My heart was pumping, and I was putting out a lot of blood. I didn't think I was going to make it at all. And I said, oh, dear God, this can't get any worse. He seemed like a nice guy. He was kind of cute. He had kind of a curly hair on the top of his head and wore these nice shaped glasses for his face, and he had these really cute dimples. During that time, he had made some advances toward me and asked me out. And I wasn't interested in dating him. I told him that, you know, I wouldn't be interested in being anything more than friends with him. So once his treatment was finished at the doctor's office, and he was all better and didn't have any more pain, he stopped coming in as a patient. And I thought to myself, well, that's a little unusual. I don't usually like people just dropping by like that. And I-- I asked, who is it? And he said, it's Alan. And I said, Alan? I said to myself, I don't know any Alan. It had been so long since, I didn't-- I certainly didn't expect him to stop by like that So I walked over to the door, and I looked through the peephole, and I recognized him. And I had never felt any reason to fear him. He always seemed like a nice guy. He was helpful, considerate, always willing to lend a hand. He said, oh, well, I was in the area, thought I'd stop by and say hi. I said, oh, well, that's a nice surprise. Oh, come in a mom-- come in, I'm unloading my groceries. He came in, and we talked for a few minutes. We were catching up, and he was telling me he'd been out of town for a couple years, and he'd just moved back not too long ago, because his mom had been ill. And I viewed the slideshow on his laptop of these beautiful pictures, and I complimented him on every one. When the slideshow started to repeat, all of a sudden, he stood up, and he said, oh, excuse me a moment. I have to get something. Now, of course, my attention is focused on the screen, because I'm still looking at these pictures, distracted looking at these pictures. And when he stood up and walked around to the bag, his computer bag behind me, right behind my sofa, he pulled out a gun. And the sound was deafening. All of a sudden, I heard [clicks] right behind my head. My wife was on vacation, and I decided to go up, because it was supposed to be a beautiful weekend. The temperatures were just right, and it was a great time to be building on my house and getting some projects done. I was hoping to surprise my wife with some good projects finished up. And so I elected, at the end of the day, to paint some windows on the outside of the house, which are only accessible through walking over a metal roof. When I went and got my painting gear, I went around and collected some ropes to make sure that I'd be safe on the roof, because I knew I was by myself and didn't think too much of it, because I'd gone on the roof by myself before. And I'd actually installed some bolts in the roof that I could tie ropes off to, some eye bolts, and I'd tie myself on the roof, so-- because I didn't want to fall off. And I thought, if I ever fell off the roof to the south side of the house where the hill is, nobody was going to be able to survive it. About a half hour into the project, I was attacked by some hornets. And I beat them off, and then decided, well, I'd had enough of working on the roof. And I took my safety gear and my paint, went downstairs, and started getting ready for a bath. I'd take my clothes off, and I realized that it was awfully quiet, and I was used to having my radio around. And it was-- I'd left it playing on the roof. So I threw a towel around me and just went up with a quick scurry up to the roof. And I was about to get the radio, and the hornets attacked me again. I took my towel, and I was waving my towel at the hornets trying to keep them from stinging me anymore. And at this point, I-- I kicked the bucket, and I had a bucket of water up there to clean up any paint spills. Well, when the water hit my feet, it dropped me to the roof that fast. And immediately, I started sliding off the roof. I had a fleeting thought of trying to save myself by reaching out, but my Navy training kicked in, and I said to myself, just go off the roof in a controlled fashion. If I go off uncontrolled, I'm liable to hurt myself worse. And I remember thinking just before I got to the edge of the roof, you're really going off the roof now. That was a terrible, terrible thought. She fit right in with the guys. She rode a motorcycle and worked out a lot, things like that. She was fearless and in shape, attractive, and she was a good skydiver. The initiation usually is getting pied in the face with whipped cream, things like that. It's all in fun. And we were by ourselves when all of our friends and the rest of the skydivers come from nowhere, and they hit her with the pies, and there was whipped cream everywhere, and everybody had it all over them. And the way she reacted to it was different than what we had ever seen or expected. She was fairly violent, and she actually wrestled with one of the men, who was a fireman, and pinned him to the ground. Right then, I started having my doubts about our relationship. During the day, she was calling me on my phone at work, which she never had done it before. As the day went on, I knew that she wasn't at her friend's house. I clearly knew she was at a bar, and there was bar music in the background, and she was outright lying to me about where she was. This was the last straw, because I knew at that point I didn't want to have a relationship with somebody that was-- that could be that violent that quickly over nothing, and then outright lie the next day. So I, at that point, had made a decision that I would go talk to her. She kept saying she was coming home, which she never did, until about right before midnight. She just didn't open the door, and she kind of flung it open. She was very angry. I mean way more than I've had experience with other people. I think I said a few words to her, and it's like, I'm not getting through to her at all. There's not even any sense in trying. I believe she was saying, you're not leaving me. You're never going to leave me. And I turned around, and she was standing up military style with a pistol. [music playing] And then in the next instant, he put this loaded, cocked gun right up to the back of my head. And then he grabbed my hair in his other hand, and he said, Christine, "I want you to listen to me very carefully. I want you to put your head face down. You're not going to feel anything. I'm not going to hurt you. Just do as I say." And I said to myself, I'm not going to feel anything? This man is going to shoot me in my head for what? For nothing? Because I didn't want to go out with him? And the next thing I pictured in my-- my mind was my blood splattering all over my white sofa, floor, the walls. I pictured blood splatter everywhere. I pictured my cat's paw prints in the blood. And I said to myself, I said, God, my life's not going to end like this. And at that moment, I got the courage within me. And I did not give in. I did not do what he told me to do. I did not put my head face down in the sofa, so he could just shoot me in the back of the head. That's what I thought his intention was. And I pulled away from his grip, and I turned, and I looked at him right in the eyes, and I never blinked. And I looked at him dead right in his eyes, and I said, Alan, I'm your friend. What are you doing? God bless you. And he said, Christine, and he trying to regain control of the situation, but at this moment, at this point, I figured I had nothing to lose. If this man was going to shoot me in the head, I had to do whatever it took to get myself out my door and get away from this man. And as I was walking toward him, he was backing up. He didn't know what to do next, I guess because I had tried to take over control of the situation. We got to my front door. I had to get the door open, which means I was going to have to turn my back when I was going to go for it and make the run. And I was so afraid to take my eyes off of his, because I just didn't trust him. And I thought, I have this moment, this split second. Make a decision. Go. Run for it. I turned the door knob, and I pushed the door open, and I ran as fast as I could. I remember just before I got to the end of the roof, saying, you're really going off the roof. And it was a bad feeling, because I knew I was alone, and I was going off for a pretty good fall. The fall was in excess of 20 feet, and I figured it was really going to hurt when I got down at the bottom. And when I hit, I hit awfully hard. I looked down and glanced at my right wrist, and it was swollen already, so I had this thought, all right, you have a broken wrist. And then I was able to pause there for a second longer, and then this wave of unbelievable pain washed over my body. When I was able to come to my senses again, I realized that I was all alone. My nearest neighbor was hundreds of feet away, well out of earshot, if they were even home, and my wife was on vacation in Hawaii. And I was somehow going to have to figure out how I was going to get back up to my cell phone, which I'd left inside the front door of my house. I decided, at this point, I better figure out what was wrong with me. And so I-- I was able to stand up. My knees were shaking like-- like leaves. And I remember leaning to my left, and as I leaned to my left, I could feel my pelvis grinding on my left side. And I went back straight again, and I leaned a tiny bit to my right, and my pelvis started grinding on the right side. So I realized my pelvis is broken in two places, and I'm probably not going to be able to walk. I did try to take a step forward with my right leg, and then my left, and my legs refused to move. Perhaps my body was smarter than the brain was, because at this point, I realized it was almost a hopeless situation. Here, I was naked, and I was going to have to drag my body over all these stones and sticks in my way, and it was-- I was already covered from head to foot with scratches and tears from falling down the hill. Now I was going to have to drag myself up the hill. I was looking up from the ground, up this hill, which-- which is about an angle like this. So I painfully started making my way forward an inch or so at a time, and that's all I could get. And time seemed to stretch on forever, and I did not make that much progress. But I kept pressing on with the thought, if I'm going to save myself, it's got to be me. And nobody else is going to be around to save me, and I don't want to die out here. She was pointing it at my chest, and she was about six feet away. There wasn't any way that I could get to the gun, because she had her finger on the trigger, and it was just-- I thought to myself, don't shoot me in the chest, you know, because that's probably an instant kill shot. At that point, I wasn't quite sure what her intentions were with it. I thought she might be trying to scare me, and those doubts were completely removed when I said, I need to go. She said, get on your knees, you mother effer. And I told her, no, I think I'll just get out of here, and I took a step forward. And she lowered the gun and shot me through the leg. I immediately dropped down and picked myself back up to my knees, and she raised her leg up and kicked me with her heel, dropped it down on my face, and I had some pretty severe damage to my face at that point. I looked up at her. She was smiling, no remorse whatsoever. She was getting a kick out of it. At that point, she put the barrel on my forehead. I was really OK with what was going to happen to me. I-- I didn't beg for my life. I thought to myself, you've been pretty good, and Grandpa, I'm going to see you in a minute. And I'd actually thought that my life was over then. When I looked up at her and she was smiling, I kind of smirked back at her. I knew what was going to happen. I didn't want her to think I was afraid. I told her, you're probably going to go to prison the rest of your life. She said, you don't know me. I don't give a F, and she pulled the trigger and blew the left side of my skull off. [music playing] And as soon as I took off, and I ran, and my eyes were no longer fixated on his, and my back was turned, that man open fired on me. I was running so fast that the first bullet hit me through the bottom of my foot, through the skin in between the toes, and the second bullet that he fired so quickly-- boom, boom-- the second bullet went right through my spine, obliterated my spine, shattering my spine, severing my spinal cord. And I'm laying there in my driveway, right on this side of my driveway in the gravel side. And I said to myself, my god, what just happened to me? What the-- what just happened? My god, I have just been shot. I'm not going to die, not like this, not now. And I was trying to move my body. I was trying to move to get out of the way. I was struggling with my hands, and I couldn't move. I was paralyzed. It was dead weight. I felt like I had been pinned to my driveway, and I was helpless. I couldn't get out of the way. I couldn't move. I couldn't run. I was at his mercy. The next thing I know, I saw this huge tire coming straight for me. And I said, oh, dear God, this can't get any worse. There was nothing I could do except come to grips with the fact I was going to be dragging myself up the hill. I couldn't raise any part of my body to get it off the ground, so whatever I encounter, whether it be rock or stick, it was going to be dragging across there, and I was going to continue to scratch my body up. Each time I moved, it was lots of pain, so pain was the order of the day. I just kept painfully moving forward. I could go about an inch at a time with tremendous effort. It was just exhausting to go an inch or so at a time, and here I was looking at 100 feet to go. And it was almost overwhelming at the time. And I just had to press forward with the thought of, well, once I get to the steps, maybe it'll be easier. I couldn't make any use of my right hand, so if it fell over, I had to pick up this broken hand and put it back to where I was going. So I was trying to crawl and-- and keep my hand arranged so that I wouldn't hurt it anymore, because every time it fell, it was-- I was adding to my pain again. And I thought, well, I've got it made now. All I have to do is crawl up the stairs. So I made my way on my back to the stairs and tried going up on my back, and the pain was so terrible, I just-- I about passed out. I guess I'd gone limp, and I wound up in a ball at the bottom of the steps. When I came to from sliding down the steps, I thought I heard my neighbor pass by a roadway. I could hear gravel squinching underneath what I believe were footsteps, and they're pretty far away. But when I'd fallen, I was really thirsty, and so when I tried to speak, I could barely croak any-- any cries for help out. And so I cried as best I could to call out for help, but my neighbor did not hear me and kept on going. As I heard my neighbor's footsteps fade away, I had this almost desperate feeling. I had a shot at getting saved early, and-- and I'd blown it, and-- because I couldn't yell out. And it was just an awful feeling. Not only did I miss getting saved and-- and getting help for myself. Now, I was looking at a night-- a cold, cold night in front of me, and here I am lying naked on the landing. And at this point, I'd been crawling for four, five hours, and I was just totally wasted. And she pulled the trigger and blew the left side of my skull off. And the shot was so forceful that it seemed simultaneously that when the bullet hit and the sound went off, the back of my head hit the concrete. She put the barrel in my temple and drove it down in there, and I just waited, and I thought, well, maybe she won't do it, because as far as she knows, I'm already dead. But she decided she was going to put another bullet in my head. And I thought, wow, I'm still alive. Things are really bad, but they're going to get real worse if I let her pull the trigger. And so I reached up and grabbed at her, and I grabbed her hands, and she couldn't pull the trigger. And she actually used her strength, fighting with me, she pulled me up to my feet and helped me get up. I wasn't concentrating so much on her as I was where the gun was pointed at. She was just struggling with me. I had a plan. I was backing up towards the door, and I thought, if I get outside, at least I have a chance of somebody finding me. There was about 12 feet between us and to the door, and it was a hard struggle, because she was drunk and strong, and I was getting weaker by the moment. We got to the door. She was inside the house. I was outside the house. The door was open. I thought to myself, I have to let go of her to get away. And when I did, she was squeezing on the trigger, and the gun went off. [music playing] This SUV tire was coming straight for me, and I said-- I screamed out, please, please don't run over my face. I was so worried about him-- the tire was coming straight at me this way. I was worried about just crushing my rib cage and my collarbone and finishing me off. I just felt, like, so helpless laying there. Well, he ran over me all right. He came over me with a huge tire, over my right foot first that had been shot, right up in between both of my legs. It just felt like I was being squashed. The tire came up, and I was like, dude, lay there, and pray to God. Dear God, please help me. Please help me. And I put my arms out at the sides, and I couldn't look. And he came up over me with that tire, and he didn't run over my face, but I'll tell you, he came over me, and he came right up over onto my pelvis, my abdomen, and then he took his steering wheel, and he turned that tire on top of my body, on top of my pelvis and my hip, and he turned it, and then he came back across my abdomen and my hips and my pelvis. And then he ran over my right wrist. And I just laid there after he backed off of me, and I just said, oh, my god, I can't believe I've just been run over. It's not enough I shot. This guy had to run over me, too. He's really trying to kill me. Why? Why? And after he drove off, I was screaming bloody murder as loud as I could, help, help. I'm screaming so loud. And I couldn't hear anything. I couldn't hear anyone, nothing. Nobody was coming to my aid, nobody. And I'm laying there, and I put my arms up, and I'm waving my busted hand and my arms, and I'm waving, help, help. And this vehicle pulls up in front of my house, and I thought, oh, thank god, somebody is going to come help me. And this person was approaching me so calmly and quietly, and I thought to myself, this is very strange. This-- something's not right. And oh, my god, it was him. He came back. I realized when I-- if I stayed on the landing and waited for possible help, that the next day was going to be a sunny day with no clouds, and I was going to cook myself to death on the landing. So I couldn't stay on the landing, but I couldn't get up the steps, and it was an awful feeling. At one point, I just lifted my legs together and found that if I put my heels next to my buttocks, I could raise my pelvis up a little bit. So now I had a game plan. I can save myself, because now I can get up the steps. I'd already been pretty foolish and fallen off the roof, and I didn't want to add to my folly by trying to go upstairs in the dark. When I got to the stairs, I couldn't raise my head to put my head on the top of the stairs, because when I'd rolled down the hill, I'd hit a tree. And so the tree-- I'd hit the tree in here, and it had broken my collarbone and made my neck so stiff, I couldn't raise my head myself. So as I pushed myself against the steps, I had to take my left hand and raise my head on the steps and push like heck with my heels, and then try to work my way up the-- the stairs. And so I raised my pelvis up successfully and put it down, but my pelvis wound up being right on the top of the-- on the edge of the first step, and the pain was unbelievable. I could see the door. That was my gateway to salvation. If I could get inside my door, I could get to my cell phone and call for help. And I was able to look down and saw that, at this point, the sun was about four inches below my feet. I was losing the race. And the gun went off and hit me on the right foot, in the top of it, and the bullet bounced on the concrete and hit me in the right side of the head and really didn't faze me at all. I was outside, and I was leaving. Neither of my legs were working well, so I was crawling part of the way. I was on one knee. I was just struggling to get to the other house. And she was behind me beating me in the head with the butt of the gun, and she was screaming, die, you mother effer, die, you mother effer. Why don't you just die? I was trying to just get away from her, and that wasn't happening. She was right on me. When I got to the house, I was trying to get somebody's attention. And I fell against the big picture window, and the panes, when they broke, the curtains opened up, and I seen two people in there, and they were hugging each other. And I could tell they were terrified, and there was no help there. I don't blame them a bit. There's a lady behind me that still has bullets in the gun, and she's beating the back of my head that's already been traumatized enough. I had this part of my scalp was hanging down and smoking still from the gunshot. Of course, my heart was pumping, and I was putting out a lot of blood. I didn't think I was going to make it at all. Went to the second house and the third house, and I believe the fourth house, a light came on on-- on the porch. One of the neighbors opened up the door and was going to help me, and she pointed the gun at him and said, if you touch him, I'm putting the next one through your head. [music playing] And he picked me up by my ankles, and he dragged me on my back across my driveway over by my carport, over by some bushes to hide me from view from the street, evidently. I was very scared. I didn't know if he was going to finish me off, if he was going to shoot me in the head. But right after he dragged me, I said, Alan, why did you do this to me? Why? And he didn't say anything, nothing. He just picked up his two casings from the bullets that he had shot me with, and then he walked off. And I never heard his truck pull away. So I was scared to death. I said to myself, oh, my gosh, he thinks I'm still this coherent. I just spoke to him. He may come back and finish me off. So I kept quiet as a mouse. And then all of a sudden, I heard these engines, these cars coming up the street so fast. [whizzes] I could just hear them coming. And I said, oh, god, please, please let that be the police coming to save me. And I heard the doors open and doors shut, and I-- I just yelled out, I'm here. I'm here. I'm here. I was waving my busted arm. I'm here. [crying] I didn't think the stairs was going to be my issue when I started crawling hours and hours before, but the stairs were-- were like a monumental effort to try to go up. So I struggled up, leaving my skin behind for the next few steps, until I was about 2/3 of the way up the steps. And at that point, I was just so wiped out. And now I knew I had a race between me and the sun. I had a choice at this point. I could either slide down the steps and die on the landing when the sun hit me or just work myself up to the next set of steps. I just raised my pelvis up as high as it could possibly go and pushed myself across horizontally, and I finally made it up to my porch. And I thought, got it made now. And I was able to cover the porch in pretty good time, and the sun was behind me all the way. And I got to the door, and then realized I'd set myself up for failure, because when I remembered rushing outside to go upstairs and get my radio, and I'd pulled the door shut, and I heard a click. And I had this sinking feeling, I ought to go back and open the door, and I didn't do it. And I raised my left hand up, my only good hand. And I could just touch the bottom of the doorknob. So I was-- what I had to do is curl myself up inside my doorjamb. I knew it was just going to hurt like heck, so I just roll myself up on my broken pelvis and made-- shot my left arm up and caught the-- enough of the handle, and I was able to turn it, and the door popped open, and I had made it. He went back in the house, and I, at that point, was laying on his-- on the front porch in front of his door. I heard his wife talking to him, saying, get that young man in here. And he said, I'm trying, honey. And he opened up the door and kind of army crawled out to me and grabbed me by the shirt and pulled me inside of his house. I thought to myself, the cavalry's here. You know, some-- at least the-- the violence will stop. You know, the shooting will stop. When she heard the sirens, I guess she ran back into the house. Oh, she actually called the police and dialed 9-1-1 and said, there's a man in my house. I think I might have to shoot him. And this was long after the shooting was over. And they took her to jail, and I got in the ambulance. The injuries were so severe that I thought she was going to go to prison forever. I'm very thankful to the EMTs and the police and the neighbors. They came to court, and they told the truth. She told them that I was abusing her. Any one of the bullet wounds could have killed me. Any one of the kicks could have killed me. The butt of the gun could have killed me with as many times as she hit me in the back of the head, and they let her go. I think I survived, because if she had finished her job and killed me, then she could have said whatever she wanted to. I needed to let my mother know that I was still the son she had raised and that I wasn't an abuser. And being able to tell my story and living through it was very important to me. I never thought in my whole life that I'd ever have to dial 9-11, but I sure was there-- glad it was there when I needed it. And I was able to get through to a man who was a little incredulous. You just fell? I said, no, I fell last night. He says, you've been out there all night, and you need help? I said, I absolutely need help, and if you can get it for me, I'd sure appreciate it. There's almost no place on my body that was either not bruised or scratched. I stayed one week in the trauma hospital, and I transferred to Houston Orthopedic Medical Center for two weeks of rehabilitation. And I received homebound treatment, and then outpatient treatment, and I was actually back to work in nine weeks. I survived, because I had the will to go forward. I had the tremendous will to live. I wanted to keep going. I don't know what I needed to live for, but I wanted to keep going. And when I got desperate to survive, I thought about my wife, kids, and family. And that gave me the strength to go on. I honestly felt as though Satan was in my house that night. I really felt such an evil presence, like there was a battle between good and evil going on. And when the paramedics showed up, he told them that he had shot a woman in Fort Lauderdale, and he was trying to kill himself. The detective told me that his intentions were to rape, torture me, and then murder me. I'm grateful that I'm not a quadriplegic or that he didn't shoot me in the head, that I'm not dead. I'm very, very grateful to be alive. I believe I survived by the grace of God, the love for my mother, my family, my friends. I wanted to see them again. I did not want to go and part this Earth. And from that moment, I got up the courage, and I turned, and I confronted him. And I said, what are you doing? I'm your friend. God bless you. And I stared at him straight in the eyes. I fouled his plan up. I don't think he was able to carry out what he was planning on doing, because now I was confronting him face to face, eye to eye. And he was going to cause very serious bodily harm to me, and then kill me. So I fought for my life, and I didn't give up.
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