Avoid Energy Drain from Toxic Family Members with Eckhart Tolle

foreign just [Music] oh same old thing of course it's whatever these two or so it's the same old thing that's for sure whatever form the same old thing takes it's the same old thing they are trapped in it [Music] how do I deal with negative family members while maintaining inner peace that's related of course to the previous earlier and earlier the earlier questions about parents trying to teach them about consciousness allow them their state of consciousness accept their limitations foreign [Music] to you is simply they're manifesting their conditioning that's all so you don't need to take it personally anymore there's really not anybody there is just a a bundle of [Music] ideas and Concepts [Music] the egoic self and let's want something from you or tells you something it doesn't mean very much [Music] so these they're conditioned by their mind which is conditioned by their past really compassion is the answer to this so that you don't condemn them for not having gone beyond their conditioning for not being free of ego for being stuck in the same consciousness for the past 30 or 40 years you don't condemn them for that you just see it and you may even be able to empathically that's the word sense something in them occasionally perhaps only that is deeper than and more real than their conditioning what they manifest on the surface so you may even be able to love them [Music] despite the facts that the person that they are on the surface may not be lovable at all [Music] not equating the conditioning the ego with who that human being is in their essence [Music] laughs [Music] of course there may still be some conditioning in you from your childhood and they may they have a shared past with all those people and it is more challenging to be present with humans with whom you have or have a lot of sad past and humans that you have have not known actually known for that long the more past you share with the human the more intense presence is required and of course the most intense present is required with your parents because with whom we share your entire past [Music] that's why asram does says spending time with your parents is always the ultimate test unless you are one of those few whose whose parents are relatively conscious that's becoming um happens more often these days than in past Generations in the generation of my parents conscious parents were unheard of I can't never met any conscious parents and anybody I knew [Music] but in my generation I never had children but in my generation there are a few more because there were people who already participated in the the spiritual awakening that happened in the 60s and early 70s there was the human potential movement all kinds of things coming in and people were some people were beginning to wake up until some some had children and they were relatively if not completely awakened but perhaps relatively more conscious than other previous generations [Music] so you're then able to be non-reactive when you meet them and that's a huge safety in your Consciousness to become non-reactive with people with whom you share a lot of past and then you just you look around them and you are the witness you're the witnessing consciousness of whatever Behavior they manifest and you look in amazement you don't judge just same old thing of course it's whatever they do or say it's the same old thing that's for sure whatever form the same old thing takes it's the same old thing they are trapped in it [Music] I don't know that that's why it's easy to forgive them

Channel: Your Inner Child Matters

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Keywords: #InnerChildMatters, TraumaHealing, MentalHealthAwareness, MentalHealth, ChildhoodTrauma, your inner child matters, mentalhealthawareness, mentalhealthsupport, motivationalcontent, mental health, mentalhealth, #ToxicFamily, #Boundaries, #EmotionalWellbeing, Boundaries and relationships, Healing from family trauma, #LivingWithPurpose, Eckhart Tolle, Toxic Family Members, Energy Preservation, Inner Peace, Family Dynamics, Emotional Well-being, Personal Growth, Mindfulness, Relationship Healing

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Length: 7min 55sec (475 seconds)

Published: Mon May 22 2023